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BoyFriends

By Jarrod D. King

Find your circle and your man.

Hosted by Jarrod D. King, Tony Purnell, Renee Vanessa, Sarun Chan, and Melvin Foreman.
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Is "Out Of Your League" Real? | Episode 38
Is "Out Of Your League" Real? | Episode 38
Many times you'll hear people say "He's out of my league", but is it real or is it all in their heads? Perhaps you've had this thought about someone you wanted to pursue but didn't. We talk about why we think this way and ways to overcome it. Submit your questions for the hosts: https://linktr.ee/jarroddking Guest Hosts: Kevin Lorenzetti | @kzetti Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/kzetti/ Juan Salas | @juanfelipe19911 Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/juanfelipe19911 Alex Demcenko | Alex Demcenko Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/alexdemcenko/ Hosts: Jarrod D. King | @JarrodDKing TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@jarroddking Renee Montalvan | @renee_vanessa Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/renee_vanessa/ Created & Produced by Jarrod D. King Music Credit: Like A Polaroid - Spazz Cardigan #dating #gaydating
58:12
October 05, 2022
Are Long-Distance Relationships Possible? | Episode 37
Are Long-Distance Relationships Possible? | Episode 37
"If only you were closer" is a common refrain in our increasingly online-dating-centric world. But what if you could make it work? What does it take to make a long-distance relationship successful? I pulled in some of my closest friends for a chat about just that and more! Submit your questions for the hosts: https://linktr.ee/jarroddking Guest Hosts: Kevin Lorenzetti | @kzetti Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/kzetti/ Juan Salas | @juanfelipe19911 Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/juanfelipe19911/ Alex Demcenko | Alex Demcenko Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/alexdemcenko/ Hosts: Jarrod D. King | @JarrodDKing TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@jarroddking Renee Montalvan | @renee_vanessa Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/renee_vanessa/ Created & Produced by Jarrod D. King Music Credit: Like A Polaroid - Spazz Cardigan
58:52
September 20, 2022
What Does Loyalty Mean? | Episode 36
What Does Loyalty Mean? | Episode 36
In the quest to find friends and relationships, loyalty is a huge part of the equation that isn't always spoken of. The hosts discuss what loyalty means to them and help you understand how to be loyal. They also discuss how to steer clear of people who misuse loyalty. Submit your questions for the hosts: https://linktr.ee/jarroddking Guest Co-Host: Mama Shay Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/shaybug_pa/ Twitter - https://twitter.com/Love__Eternal Hosts: Jarrod D. King | @JarrodDKing TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@jarroddking Renee Montalvan | @renee_vanessa Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/renee_vanessa/ Created & Produced by Jarrod D. King Music Credit: Like A Polaroid - Spazz Cardigan
47:18
September 07, 2022
How Do I Give More In My Relationship? | Episode 35
How Do I Give More In My Relationship? | Episode 35
Oftentimes, we get excited about new relationships because of the promise of what we can receive. But what about what we can give? How do we safely extend ourselves to someone else without getting taken advantage of? We answer these questions and have little debate over being "flewed out" in this episode. Submit your questions for the hosts: https://linktr.ee/jarroddking Guest Host: Mama Shay | @shaybug_pa Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/shaybug_pa/ Twitter - https://twitter.com/Love__Eternal Hosts: Jarrod D. King | @JarrodDKing TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@jarroddking Renee Montalvan | @renee_vanessa Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/renee_vanessa/ Created & Produced by Jarrod D. King Music Credit: Like A Polaroid - Spazz Cardigan
54:15
August 30, 2022
How To Attract The Type of People You Want In Your Life | Episode 34
How To Attract The Type of People You Want In Your Life | Episode 34
This week, we discuss what it takes to attract the people we want to be around, whether for friendship or romance.  Submit your questions for the hosts: https://linktr.ee/jarroddking Hosts: Jarrod D. King | @JarrodDKing TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@jarroddking Renee Montalvan | @renee_vanessa Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/renee_vanessa/ Created & Produced by Jarrod D. King Music Credit: Like A Polaroid - Spazz Cardigan
42:57
August 16, 2022
What to Do When You Lose Your Circle of Friends | Episode 33
What to Do When You Lose Your Circle of Friends | Episode 33
"How are you going to help us find 'our circle' when you can't even keep yours?" This was the comment that spurred on the topic for this episode. Kerel from the Minoritea Report podcast joins us as we (briefly) reflect on the on-screen drama between the hosts and discuss how to learn and move on from breakups between friends. Submit your questions for the hosts: https://linktr.ee/jarroddking Guest Hosts: Kerel | @iamkerel Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/iamkerel/ Podcast:    Apple - https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/minoritea-report/id1458662102    Spotify - https://open.spotify.com/show/6FCmGoy0Noc9Qk6fnvQaL3 Website: https://minoriteareport.libsyn.com/website Arvin Alivia | @arvinsible Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/arvinsible/ Hosts: Jarrod D. King | @JarrodDKing TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@jarroddking Renee Montalvan | @renee_vanessa Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/renee_vanessa/ Created & Produced by Jarrod D. King Music Credit: Like A Polaroid - Spazz Cardigan
49:09
August 09, 2022
Love is not Abuse - Timothy McLemore | Episode 32
Love is not Abuse - Timothy McLemore | Episode 32
This week, we come back for an interview with Timothy McLemore about his experience with domestic abuse and how it spurred him on to write a brand new book, 'Love is not Abuse', and create a non-profit organization, Essential Haus, that provides a safe place for individuals in the LGBTQ+ community who have been affected by domestic violence and homelessness. Learn who in our community is most affected by abusive relationships and what to do to get out of one. Submit your questions for the hosts: https://linktr.ee/jarroddking Guest: Timothy McLemore Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/essentialhauss https://www.facebook.com/essentiallytim   Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/essentialhauss/ https://www.instagram.com/essentiallytim/ https://www.instagram.com/gayswithstories/ Guest Host: Arvin Alivia | @arvinsible Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/arvinsible/ Hosts: Jarrod D. King | @JarrodDKing TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@jarroddking Renee Montalvan | @renee_vanessa Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/renee_vanessa/ Created & Produced by Jarrod D. King Music Credit: Like A Polaroid - Spazz Cardigan
41:44
August 01, 2022
Update: Changes + New Episode August 1st!
Update: Changes + New Episode August 1st!
A quick update on what's happening with the BoyFriends podcast. We've got a host shakeup and announce the date for the new episode. Thanks so much for sticking with us! Subscribe Now: https://www.youtube.com/jarrodking?sub_confirmation=1 Submit your questions for the hosts: https://linktr.ee/jarroddking Watch our previous episodes: https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLuKMYB6z1nX4FFsMC1G8yULRQ17QFWY7u Subscribe to the podcast: https://anchor.fm/boyfriends Hosts: Jarrod D. King | @JarrodDKing TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@jarroddking Renee Montalvan | @renee_vanessa Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/renee_vanessa/ Created & Produced by Jarrod D. King Music Credit: Like A Polaroid - Spazz Cardigan
00:40
July 06, 2022
Racism & Preferences in the Gay Community | Episode 31
Racism & Preferences in the Gay Community | Episode 31
A viewer asked us to touch on this topic and we obliged. What are the challenges when it comes to race in the gay community? How do we overcome them? We discuss our personal stories about how racism has affected us and how to navigate preferences as well. Submit your questions for the cast: https://linktr.ee/jarroddking Hosts: Jarrod D. King | @JarrodDKing TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@jarroddking Sarun Chan | @sarun.nuras Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sarun.nuras/ Melvin Foreman | @melvin_foreman Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/melvin_foreman/ Renee Montalvan | @renee_vanessa Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/renee_vanessa/ Tony Purnell | @tonypurnelllightworker Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/tonypurnelllightworker/ Music Credit: Like A Polaroid - Spazz Cardigan #gay #race 
56:24
June 20, 2022
How Do I Deal With A Controlling Boyfriend? | Episode 30
How Do I Deal With A Controlling Boyfriend? | Episode 30
In this episode, we help out a viewer struggling to communicate with his boyfriend. When they shut down, what more can you do? And is this a sign of narcissism? We give our best advice while explaining our own encounters with controlling people. Submit your question for the cast: https://linktr.ee/jarroddking Hosts: Jarrod D. King | @JarrodDKing TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@jarroddking Sarun Chan | @sarun.nuras Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sarun.nuras/ Melvin Foreman | @melvin_foreman Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/melvin_foreman/ Renee Montalvan | @renee_vanessa Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/renee_vanessa/ Tony Purnell | @tonypurnelllightworker Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/tonypurnelllightworker/ Music Credit: Like A Polaroid - Spazz Cardigan #controlfreak #relationshipadvice
47:18
June 14, 2022
Can You Recover From Betrayal? | Episode 29
Can You Recover From Betrayal? | Episode 29
Relationships, whether platonic or romantic, go through ups and downs, but what about the really tough moments of betrayal? How open are you to forgiving and moving on? And in what circumstances should you cut your losses and leave? Subscribe Now: https://www.youtube.com/jarrodking?sub_confirmation=1 Submit your topic idea: https://linktr.ee/jarroddking Watch our previous episodes: https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLuKMYB6z1nX4FFsMC1G8yULRQ17QFWY7u Subscribe to the podcast: https://anchor.fm/boyfriends Special Guest: Roy Belzer | @roybelzerfitness TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@roybelzerfitness Website - https://www.roybelzerfitness.com/ Hosts: Jarrod D. King | @JarrodDKing TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@jarroddking Sarun Chan | @sarun.nuras Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sarun.nuras/ Melvin Foreman | @melvin_foreman Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/melvin_foreman/ Renee Montalvan | @renee_vanessa Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/renee_vanessa/ Tony Purnell | @tonypurnelllightworker Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/tonypurnelllightworker/ Music Credit: Like A Polaroid - Spazz Cardigan
52:44
May 30, 2022
Can I Date and Be Overweight? | Episode 28
Can I Date and Be Overweight? | Episode 28
Many of us have struggled with our body image at one time or another. And it's no different in the gay community. There's a standard of beauty that seems near impossible for most of us and our inability to achieve it can be a real confidence killer. How do we get past the judgment of others (and ourselves) to be more confident when dating? Special guest, Roy Belzer, a rising body positivity TikTok influencer and certified trainer,  joins us to discuss. Special Guest: Roy Belzer | @roybelzerfitness TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@roybelzerfitness Website - https://www.roybelzerfitness.com/ Hosts: Jarrod D. King | @JarrodDKing TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@jarroddking Sarun Chan | @sarun.nuras Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sarun.nuras/ Melvin Foreman | @melvin_foreman Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/melvin_foreman/ Renee Montalvan | @renee_vanessa Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/renee_vanessa/ Tony Purnell | @tonypurnelllightworker Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/tonypurnelllightworker/ Music Credit: Like A Polaroid - Spazz Cardigan #DatingAdvice #BodyPositivity
52:04
May 24, 2022
How to Get Closer to Someone | Episode 27
How to Get Closer to Someone | Episode 27
You've made a new friend or started dating someone you really like and want to keep things growing in a positive direction. How do you do it? In this episode, the cast discusses how to grow deeper in your relationship and strengthen bonds so that it becomes much more than surface level. Submit your questions: https://linktr.ee/jarroddking Hosts: Jarrod D. King | @JarrodDKing TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@jarroddking Sarun Chan | @sarun.nuras Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sarun.nuras/ Melvin Foreman | @melvin_foreman Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/melvin_foreman/ Renee Montalvan | @renee_vanessa Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/renee_vanessa/ Tony Purnell | @tonypurnelllightworker Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/tonypurnelllightworker/ Music Credit: Like A Polaroid - Spazz Cardigan #datingtips #relationship
44:45
May 16, 2022
When To Text After Getting A Number | Episode 26
When To Text After Getting A Number | Episode 26
You may have heard of the 24-hour rule or you may immediately start texting after getting someone's number. But which is the right way to go? The whole crew is back to discuss the rules of this particular moment in the dating game! Submit your questions: https://linktr.ee/jarroddking Hosts: Jarrod D. King | @JarrodDKing TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@jarroddking Sarun Chan | @sarun.nuras Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sarun.nuras/ Melvin Foreman | @melvin_foreman Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/melvin_foreman/ Renee Montalvan | @renee_vanessa Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/renee_vanessa/ Tony Purnell | @tonypurnelllightworker Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/tonypurnelllightworker/ Music Credit: Like A Polaroid - Spazz Cardigan #datingadvice #datingtips
56:43
May 09, 2022
What's Your Love Language? | Episode 25
What's Your Love Language? | Episode 25
What's Your Love Language? | In this episode, we discuss our love languages and the importance of attending to your partner's love language. Take the love language quiz: https://www.5lovelanguages.com/quizzes/love-language Submit Your Topic: https://linktr.ee/jarroddking Special Guest: Le Thomas of Philly Black Pride - phillyblackpride.org Hosts: Jarrod D. King | @JarrodDKing TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@jarroddking Sarun Chan | @sarun.nuras Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sarun.nuras/ Melvin Foreman | @melvin_foreman Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/melvin_foreman/ Renee Montalvan | @renee_vanessa Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/renee_vanessa/ Tony Purnell | @tonypurnelllightworker Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/tonypurnelllightworker/ Music Credit: Like A Polaroid - Spazz Cardigan
51:10
May 06, 2022
What to Expect When Coming Out | Episode 24
What to Expect When Coming Out | Episode 24
Coming out is a scary process because you can never be sure what the response from your closest friends or family members will be. We discuss what to expect, our own coming out experiences, and how it all relates to the dating world. With special guest, Le Thomas, President of Philly Black Pride. For a list of events, visit https://phillyblackpride.org/ Submit Your Own Question for the Cast: https://linktr.ee/jarroddking Hosts: Jarrod D. King | @JarrodDKing TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@jarroddking Sarun Chan | @sarun.nuras Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sarun.nuras/ Melvin Foreman | @melvin_foreman Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/melvin_foreman/ Renee Montalvan | @renee_vanessa Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/renee_vanessa/ Tony Purnell | @tonypurnelllightworker Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/tonypurnelllightworker/ Music Credit: Like A Polaroid - Spazz Cardigan
53:20
April 25, 2022
Should I Date With Intention or Just Vibe? | Episode 23
Should I Date With Intention or Just Vibe? | Episode 23
Another way of putting this is "How do I balance dating to find a relationship and just vibing to see where things go?" When we're interested in someone, it's hard for many of us to slow ourselves down and let things grow organically. Are we being too pushy when dating with intention? Or are people who just want to vibe way too casual? Submit your question for discussion (scroll down and complete the form): https://linktr.ee/jarroddking Hosts: Jarrod D. King | @JarrodDKing TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@jarroddking Sarun Chan | @sarun.nuras Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sarun.nuras/ Melvin Foreman | @melvin_foreman Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/melvin_foreman/ Renee Montalvan | @renee_vanessa Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/renee_vanessa/ Tony Purnell | @tonypurnelllightworker Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/tonypurnelllightworker/ Music Credit: Like A Polaroid - Spazz Cardigan #DatingAdvice #RelationshipAdvice
45:47
April 11, 2022
Making Friends in a Community Group: Why Is It Hard? | Episode 22
Making Friends in a Community Group: Why Is It Hard? | Episode 22
Feel like you have no friends? When you ask for help, the common response is to join a community group. But, for various reasons, making friends in these groups is not as easy as it sounds. So how do you find success? We discuss this in the latest episode and set you up with ways to make your search for more friends successful. Subscribe Now: https://www.youtube.com/jarrodking?sub_confirmation=1 Submit your question for the cast (click link and scroll down): https://linktr.ee/jarroddking Donate to the Cambodian Association of Greater Philadelphia, who have been so great as to offer us a space to record this podcast: https://www.cagp.org/ Watch our previous episodes: https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLuKMYB6z1nX4FFsMC1G8yULRQ17QFWY7u Subscribe to the podcast: https://anchor.fm/boyfriends Hosts: Jarrod D. King | @JarrodDKing TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@jarroddking Sarun Chan | @sarun.nuras Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sarun.nuras/ Melvin Foreman | @melvin_foreman Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/melvin_foreman/ Renee Montalvan | @renee_vanessa Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/renee_vanessa/ Tony Purnell | @tonypurnelllightworker Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/tonypurnelllightworker/ Music Credit: Like A Polaroid - Spazz Cardigan #friendship #friendshiptips
27:29
April 06, 2022
Should I Move In Before Engagement? | Episode 21
Should I Move In Before Engagement? | Episode 21
Should I Move In Before Engagement? | Many times we wonder what the right steps are to take to get what we want in a relationship. The fear of moving in before getting engaged is there's no strong commitment or plan for marriage in the works and you could end up in limbo. This question comes from Instagram user, @quortney_love. We also have a special guest, Mama Shay! Submit your question: https://linktr.ee/jarroddking (scroll down and open up the form to submit) Hosts: Jarrod D. King | @JarrodDKing TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@jarroddking Sarun Chan | @sarun.nuras Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sarun.nuras/ Melvin Foreman | @melvin_foreman Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/melvin_foreman/ Renee Montalvan | @renee_vanessa Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/renee_vanessa/ Tony Purnell | @tonypurnelllightworker Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/tonypurnelllightworker/ Music Credit: Like A Polaroid - Spazz Cardigan #relationshipadvice #datingadvice
49:19
March 28, 2022
Table Talk with Tony | Episode 20
Table Talk with Tony | Episode 20
Get to know the cast more as Tony walks them through a series of questions that range from sweet to super spicy! *Note: My sincerest apologies for releasing this so late. There was a problem with the service I use to upload these and as a result, there is no video attached (for Spotify listeners). If you'd like to watch the episode, please go to https://youtu.be/XSk4s0R6EeY Submit Your Questions: https://linktr.ee/jarroddking (scroll down and open up the form to submit) Hosts: Jarrod D. King | @JarrodDKing TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@jarroddking Sarun Chan | @sarun.nuras Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sarun.nuras/ Melvin Foreman | @melvin_foreman Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/melvin_foreman/ Renee Montalvan | @renee_vanessa Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/renee_vanessa/ Tony Purnell | @tonypurnelllightworker Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/tonypurnelllightworker/ Music Credit: Like A Polaroid - Spazz Cardigan
53:34
March 16, 2022
What To Include in a Dating Profile | Episode 19
What To Include in a Dating Profile | Episode 19
What to Include in a Dating Profile | If you need dating profile tips, we've got you covered! The whole gang is back and rating each other's dating (and hookup app) profiles in an attempt to see what works, what doesn't, and leave you with some ideas about how to give your profile a refresh. Jarrod, Tony, and Melvin also have a tense discussion about the shade thrown between them. Hosts: Jarrod D. King | @JarrodDKing TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@jarroddking Sarun Chan | @sarun.nuras Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sarun.nuras/ Melvin Foreman | @melvin_foreman Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/melvin_foreman/ Renee Montalvan | @renee_vanessa Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/renee_vanessa/ Tony Purnell | @tonypurnelllightworker Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/tonypurnelllightworker/ Music Credit: Like A Polaroid - Spazz Cardigan #datingadvice #onlinedating
01:19:55
March 08, 2022
How To Make Small Talk - Episode 18
How To Make Small Talk - Episode 18
Love it or hate it, small talk is a necessary skill when meeting new people and creating connections. But how do we do it effectively? The hosts give their two cents and explain why it's needed even if some of them may hate it too. Hosts: Jarrod D. King | @JarrodDKing TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@jarroddking Sarun Chan | @sarun.nuras Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sarun.nuras/ Melvin Foreman | @melvin_foreman Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/melvin_foreman/ Renee Montalvan | @renee_vanessa Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/renee_vanessa/ Tony Purnell | @tonypurnelllightworker Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/tonypurnelllightworker/ Music Credit: Like A Polaroid - Spazz Cardigan #relationshipadvice #datingadvice
40:21
February 28, 2022
Why Do Men Only Want Me For Sex? | Episode 17
Why Do Men Only Want Me For Sex? | Episode 17
Have you ever felt like this? You may have no trouble finding hookups, but finding someone interested in more seems near impossible. Sometimes you do all the things right when dating, but after having sex, the guy leaves. How do we navigate this? How do we attract by being sexy, but respected as a potential partner? Hosts: Jarrod D. King | @JarrodDKing TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@jarroddking Sarun Chan | @sarun.nuras Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sarun.nuras/ Melvin Foreman | @melvin_foreman Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/melvin_foreman/ Renee Montalvan | @renee_vanessa Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/renee_vanessa/ Tony Purnell | @tonypurnelllightworker Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/tonypurnelllightworker/ Music Credit: Like A Polaroid - Spazz Cardigan
50:19
February 21, 2022
Am I Boyfriend Material Without a Car, House, or Job? | Episode 16
Am I Boyfriend Material Without a Car, House, or Job? | Episode 16
When looking for love, oftentimes our securities get in the way. We don't feel like we measure up to the ideal boyfriend because of what we lack. Is what we're telling ourselves entirely true? Or are we ready for love even when we're a work in progress?  Hosts: Jarrod D. King | @JarrodDKing TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@jarroddking Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/JarrodDKing/ Sarun Chan | @sarun.nuras Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sarun.nuras/ Melvin Foreman | @melvin_foreman Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/melvin_foreman/ Renee Montalvan | @renee_vanessa Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/renee_vanessa/ Tony Purnell | @tonypurnelllightworker Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/tonypurnelllightworker/ Music Credit: Like A Polaroid - Spazz Cardigan #datingadvice #relationshipadvice
44:45
February 14, 2022
Should My Friends Like My Boyfriend? | Episode 15
Should My Friends Like My Boyfriend? | Episode 15
You got your circle and your man, but can they coexist? In a perfect world, many would like it if their friends could be cool with their significant other, but it doesn't always pan out that way. We discuss whether it's a requirement and give advice on keeping the peace between the two camps. Hosts: Jarrod D. King | @JarrodDKing Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/JarrodDKing/ Sarun Chan | @sarun.nuras Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sarun.nuras/ Melvin Foreman | @melvin_foreman Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/melvin_foreman/ Renee Montalvan | @renee_vanessa Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/renee_vanessa/ Tony Purnell | @tonypurnelllightworker Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/tonypurnelllightworker/ Music Credit: Like A Polaroid - Spazz Cardigan #relationshipadvice #datingtips
56:53
February 07, 2022
Is He Busy Or Not Interested? | Episode 14
Is He Busy Or Not Interested? | Episode 14
You've heard the "Sorry I've just been so busy" excuse, but is it genuine? Why does it seem like they have time for everything else in the world except for building on the initial interest you both had in each other? The hosts discuss this, give you some answers, and it gets a little feisty! Visit our blog for a deeper look at what we discuss: http://www.jarroddking.com/blog Hosts: Jarrod D. King | @JarrodDKing Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/JarrodDKing/ Sarun Chan | @sarun.nuras Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sarun.nuras/ Melvin Foreman | @melvin_foreman Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/melvin_foreman/ Renee Montalvan | @renee_vanessa Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/renee_vanessa/ Tony Purnell | @tonypurnelllightworker Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/tonypurnelllightworker/ Music Credit: Like A Polaroid - Spazz Cardigan #relationshipadvice #datingtips
49:54
January 24, 2022
How Do I Get Out Of The Friend Zone? | Episode 13
How Do I Get Out Of The Friend Zone? | Episode 13
Ever wanted your relationship with a friend to be something more? It's a tough spot to be in because you never know just what their reaction will be once you share your feelings. We discuss how you got into the friend zone in the first place, if you should even broach the subject with your friend, and how to do it if you decide the answer is yes. Purchase your own Leaning Masculine or Leaning Feminine Tee today: https://www.etsy.com/shop/BoyFriendsShop?ref=shop_sugg Hosts: Jarrod D. King | @JarrodDKing Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/JarrodDKing/ Sarun Chan | @sarun.nuras Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sarun.nuras/ Melvin Foreman | @melvin_foreman Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/melvin_foreman/ Renee Montalvan | @renee_vanessa Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/renee_vanessa/ Tony Purnell | @tonypurnelllightworker Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/tonypurnelllightworker/ Music Credit: Like A Polaroid - Spazz Cardigan #relationshipadvice #datingtips
38:36
January 17, 2022
What Does It Mean To Be Happy With Yourself? | Episode 12
What Does It Mean To Be Happy With Yourself? | Episode 12
Oftentimes we're told that we have to be happy by ourselves and with ourselves before we can find love, but is that true? In our first (and hopefully only) virtual conversation, the co-hosts mull over this question and provide answers to aid you in your journey. Visit our blog for a deeper look at what we discuss: http://www.jarroddking.com/blog Hosts: Jarrod D. King | @JarrodDKing Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/JarrodDKing/ Sarun Chan | @sarun.nuras Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sarun.nuras/ Melvin Foreman | @melvin_foreman Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/melvin_foreman/ Renee Montalvan | @renee_vanessa Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/renee_vanessa/ Tony Purnell | @tonypurnelllightworker Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/tonypurnelllightworker/ Music Credit: Like A Polaroid - Spazz Cardigan #datingadvice #relationshipadvice
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January 10, 2022
Watch our IG Live - Holiday Break
Watch our IG Live - Holiday Break
We're currently on a holiday break, but we will be back with more episodes starting January 10th. In the meantime you can go to instagram.com/jarroddking to tune into the Instagram Live Q+A we did just last night. Stay tuned for more!
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December 28, 2021
Am I Too Feminine For A Guy? | Episode 11
Am I Too Feminine For A Guy? | Episode 11
When trying to attract a potential date or boyfriend, many times we question if who we are is enough. We explore femininity vs. masculinity, what attracts what, and help you come to an understanding about how to behave when trying to attract the man of your dreams. Hosts: Jarrod D. King | @JarrodDKing Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/JarrodDKing/ Sarun Chan | @sarun.nuras Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sarun.nuras/ Melvin Foreman | @melvin_foreman Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/melvin_foreman/ Renee Montalvan | @renee_vanessa Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/renee_vanessa/ Tony Purnell | @tonypurnelllightworker Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/tonypurnelllightworker/ Music Credit: Like A Polaroid - Spazz Cardigan #datingadvice #gaymen #relationshipadvice
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December 21, 2021
Should I Have A Casual Hookup While Dating? | Episode 10
Should I Have A Casual Hookup While Dating? | Episode 10
Picture it: you've found someone you like and the feeling is mutual, but you're not yet exclusive. Should you still have your fun? The answer may be different depending on your personality. We discuss this and get into a heated discussion about what the steps are when going from single to getting the boyfriend title. Visit our blog for a deeper look at what we discuss: http://www.jarroddking.com/blog Hosts: Jarrod D. King | @JarrodDKing Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/JarrodDKing/ Sarun Chan | @sarun.nuras Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sarun.nuras/ Melvin Foreman | @melvin_foreman Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/melvin_foreman/ Renee Montalvan | @renee_vanessa Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/renee_vanessa/ Tony Purnell | @tonypurnelllightworker Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/tonypurnelllightworker/ Music Credit: Like A Polaroid - Spazz Cardigan #relationshipadvice #datingadvice #gay
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December 13, 2021
Why Do I Keep Fighting With Friends? | Episode 9
Why Do I Keep Fighting With Friends? | Episode 9
It's always something! Ever feel like that with your friends? You'll be good for a little while, but those stretches of time come where it seems like you're fighting with everyone. We talk about that and give some advice to look both inward and outward depending on your situation. Visit our blog for a deeper look at what we discuss: http://www.jarroddking.com/blog Hosts: Jarrod D. King | @JarrodDKing Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/JarrodDKing/ Sarun Chan | @sarun.nuras Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sarun.nuras/ Melvin Foreman | @melvin_foreman Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/melvin_foreman/ Renee Montalvan | @renee_vanessa Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/renee_vanessa/ Tony Purnell | @tonypurnelllightworker Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/tonypurnelllightworker/ Music Credit: Like A Polaroid - Spazz Cardigan #friendship #friendshipadvice
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December 06, 2021
Should I Play Hard To Get? | Episode 8
Should I Play Hard To Get? | Episode 8
Many of us have been in dating situations where it seems like once we reciprocate the interest, it turns off the other person. That leads us to wonder if perhaps we should be more secretive with our feelings. So, should you play hard to get? Jarrod feels one way while Tony and Melvin feel the exact opposite. Whose side are you on? Visit our blog for a deeper look at what we discuss: http://www.jarroddking.com/blog Hosts: Jarrod D. King | @JarrodDKing Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/JarrodDKing/ Sarun Chan | @sarun.nuras Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sarun.nuras/ Melvin Foreman | @melvin_foreman Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/melvin_foreman/ Renee Montalvan | @renee_vanessa Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/renee_vanessa/ Tony Purnell | @tonypurnelllightworker Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/tonypurnelllightworker/ #relationshipadvice #datingadvice
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November 30, 2021
Am I Too Picky With My Dating Choices? | Episode 7
Am I Too Picky With My Dating Choices? | Episode 7
If you've ever expressed disinterest in someone romantically, you've probably had someone tell you that you were being too picky. In our moments of self-reflection, we wonder if this is true when dating. In this episode, we search for the line between knowing what you want and being overly specific. Visit our blog for a deeper look at what we discuss: http://www.jarroddking.com/blog Hosts: Jarrod D. King | @JarrodDKing Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/JarrodDKing/ Sarun Chan | @sarun.nuras Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sarun.nuras/ Melvin Foreman | @melvin_foreman Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/melvin_foreman/ Renee Montalvan | @renee_vanessa Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/renee_vanessa/ Tony Purnell | @tonypurnelllightworker Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/tonypurnelllightworker/ Music Credit: Like A Polaroid - Spazz Cardigan #datingadvice #relationshipadvice
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November 22, 2021
Why Do I Have To Prove Myself To New People? | Episode 6
Why Do I Have To Prove Myself To New People? | Episode 6
Ever try meeting somebody new and the conversation just feels stifled? It feels like pulling teeth trying to strike up a conversation...until you say something that proves your worth to them. It can be a frustrating thing and we discuss that in this episode as well as how to deal with it when it pops up. Subscribe On YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/jarrodking?sub_confirmation=1 Visit our blog for a deeper look at what we discuss: http://www.jarroddking.com/blog Hosts: Jarrod D. King | @JarrodDKing Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/JarrodDKing/ Sarun Chan | @sarun.nuras Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sarun.nuras/ Melvin Foreman | @melvin_foreman Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/melvin_foreman/ Renee Montalvan | @renee_vanessa Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/renee_vanessa/ Tony Purnell | @tonypurnelllightworker Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/tonypurnelllightworker/ Music Credit: Like A Polaroid - Spazz Cardigan
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November 16, 2021
Why Don't Guys Approach Me? | Episode 5
Why Don't Guys Approach Me? | Episode 5
Ever wonder why it seems like you have an invisible force field that just stops any attractive, eligible man from coming up to you and striking up a conversation? Sometimes it feels like we have to do all the work of introducing ourselves to them to get anywhere. But...that work may not be a bad thing. We discuss some possible reasons guys may not be approaching you and get down to some great solutions. Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/JarrodKing Visit our blog for a deeper look at what we discuss: http://www.jarroddking.com/blog Hosts: Jarrod D. King | @JarrodDKing Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/JarrodDKing/ Sarun Chan | @sarun.nuras Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sarun.nuras/ Melvin Foreman | @melvin_foreman Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/melvin_foreman/ Renee Montalvan | @renee_vanessa Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/renee_vanessa/ Tony Purnell | @tonypurnelllightworker Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/tonypurnelllightworker/ Music Credit: Like A Polaroid - Spazz Cardigan #datingadvice #relationships
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November 08, 2021
How Do I Create A Circle of Friends? | Episode 4
How Do I Create A Circle of Friends? | Episode 4
Creating a circle of friends first requires a shift in mindset. You may be closer to it than you think. Friend groups where large groups of people come together and their lives are intertwined have been glorified on TV, but are they realistic? And if not, what does a real circle look like? Get a better perspective on the friends in your life and learn how to create a network that has you as its center in this episode. Visit our blog for a deeper look at what we discuss: http://www.jarroddking.com/blog Watch us on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/JarrodKing Hosts: Jarrod D. King | @JarrodDKing Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/JarrodDKing/ Twitter - https://twitter.com/JarrodDKing Sarun Chan | @sarun.nuras Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sarun.nuras/ Melvin Foreman | @melvin_foreman Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/melvin_foreman/ Renee Montalvan | @renee_vanessa Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/renee_vanessa/ Tony Purnell | @tonypurnelllightworker Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/tonypurnelllightworker/ Music Credit: Like A Polaroid - Spazz Cardigan
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November 02, 2021
What Do I Do When I'm Sad About Being Single? | Episode 3
What Do I Do When I'm Sad About Being Single? | Episode 3
If you want to know how to stop feeling sad about being single, this conversation is for you. We give a lot of good pointers, plus debate whether friends with benefits would be a good option and if traditional marriage is the right way to go. We also discuss the frustrating feeling of seeing a recent ex quickly move into another, seemingly better relationship. Visit our blog for a deeper look at what we discuss: http://www.jarroddking.com/blog Watch us on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/JarrodKing Hosts: Jarrod D. King | @JarrodDKing Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/JarrodDKing/ Twitter - https://twitter.com/JarrodDKing Sarun Chan | @sarun.nuras Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sarun.nuras/ Melvin Foreman | @melvin_foreman Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/melvin_foreman/ Renee Montalvan | @renee_vanessa Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/renee_vanessa/ Tony Purnell | @tonypurnelllightworker Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/tonypurnelllightworker/ Music Credit: Like A Polaroid - Spazz Cardigan #single #relationships
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October 25, 2021
How Do I Let Him Down Easy When I'm Not Into Him? | Episode 2
How Do I Let Him Down Easy When I'm Not Into Him? | Episode 2
Rejection is hard. It's hard to take and some may say it's even harder to give. But, it's a necessary skill when meeting new people. Not everyone is going to be for you. But, it doesn't have to be this scary or awkward thing. It all comes down to being honest and recognizing your power in the situation. There are a lot of revelations in this episode and we of course keep the laughs coming! Visit our blog for more: http://www.jarroddking.com/blog Hosts: Jarrod D. King | @JarrodDKing Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/JarrodDKing/ Twitter - https://twitter.com/JarrodDKing Sarun Chan | @sarun.nuras Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sarun.nuras/ Melvin Foreman | @melvin_foreman Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/melvin_foreman/ Renee Montalvan | @renee_vanessa Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/renee_vanessa/ Tony Purnell | @tonypurnelllightworker Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/tonypurnelllightworker/
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October 18, 2021
Why Does Nobody Talk To Anyone Outside Of Their Clique? | Episode 1
Why Does Nobody Talk To Anyone Outside Of Their Clique? | Episode 1
Why Does Nobody Talk To Anyone Outside Of Their Clique? | In our premiere episode of BoyFriends, we introduce ourselves and discuss why it's so hard to penetrate these little friend groups when at a social gathering. After watching, you'll understand the mindset of the cliques and get some advice on how to navigate the situation of potentially getting blocked out. Visit our blog for more: http://www.jarroddking.com/blog Hosts: Jarrod D. King | @JarrodDKing Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/JarrodDKing/ Twitter - https://twitter.com/JarrodDKing Sarun Chan | @sarun.nuras Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sarun.nuras/ Melvin Foreman | @melvin_foreman Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/melvin_foreman/ Renee Montalvan | @renee_vanessa Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/renee_vanessa/ Tony Purnell | @tonypurnelllightworker Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/tonypurnelllightworker/
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October 11, 2021
What is BoyFriends?
What is BoyFriends?
Here's how we'll help you find your circle and your man. First episode coming soon!
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September 28, 2021