Boyz Do Cry | mental health conversations

EP 08: Masculinity, Fear & Forgiveness w/ Jason

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By Ram Reyes, Paulina Rodriguez
A weekly podcast talking everything mental health, hosted by two students Ram Reyes and Paulina Rodriguez-Ruiz. Each week we talk about how we are feeling -- how we are actually feeling -- and try to make sense of the things going on in our heads. We invite guests -- ranging from our personal friends or mental health professionals -- to share their stories and talk about their experiences.

DISCLAIMER: We are not mental health professionals. Just two open individuals talking from experience. Please seek professional help if you are in need.
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Foundations of Love: What is Love? Is it Real? Who knows! // SZN 2 EP1
CW: Sexual Abuse, Suicide SZN 2 is here and we're ready to unpack some more trauma and deal with it in a constructive way! SZN 2's theme is Foundations and we're trying to make a good solid foundation for our mental health and hope you will join us in this journey. Send us a voice message on Anchor or email us at boyzdocrypod@gmail.com Please consider supporting us here on Anchor: anchor.fm/boyzdocry/support You can also rate/review us 5 stars on Apple Podcasts. Anything helps! Boyz Do Cry Spotify playlist: bit.ly/boyzplaylist Follow us on the socials! Facebook: Boyz Do Cry Twitter/Insta: @boyzdocrypod Ram's Twitter/Insta: @overshare.png Paulina's Insta: @elnopalverde
52:29
October 11, 2018
EP 12 SZN 1 Finale: What did we learn this SZN?
We made it y'all! We didn't think we'd make it here. On this SZN 1 finale, we record IN THE WILD -- and by wild we mean a park. We reflect on what we learned this season -- from our guests, experiences and from each other. We also talk about our plans for SZN 2! From the bottom of our hearts, Paulina and Ram would like to thank you for listening to this podcast. Still amazes us that people listen!! Send us a voice message on Anchor or email us at boyzdocrypod@gmail.com Please consider supporting us here on Anchor, August and September Earnings will go to buy Adrianna's young gardeners supplies (From EP 11): anchor.fm/boyzdocry/support You can also rate/review us 5 stars on Apple Podcasts. Anything helps! Boyz Do Cry Spotify playlist: bit.ly/boyzplaylist Follow us on the socials! Facebook: Boyz Do Cry Twitter/Insta: @boyzdocrypod Ram's Twitter/Insta: @_ramuel Paulina's Insta: @elnopalverde
1:18:21
September 6, 2018
EP11: Xochipahtli, the Power of Flower Medicine w/ Adrianna
Gardening is often cited as a way to relieve stress. But Adrianna proves that it's more than just that. She talks about her experience volunteering in a juvenile correctional facilities and help growing a garden with young people that society seemed to have forgotten. It's a touching and inspiring account of how a simple garden can teach so much. Check out Scott Neumyer's podcast "Anxiety Diaries": http://anxietydiariespodcast.com/ Send us a voice message on Anchor or email us at boyzdocrypod@gmail.com Please consider supporting us here on Anchor, August and September Earnings will go to buy Adrianna's young gardeners supplies: anchor.fm/boyzdocry/support You can also rate/review us 5 stars on Apple Podcasts. Anything helps! Boyz Do Cry Spotify playlist: bit.ly/boyzplaylist Follow us on the socials! Facebook: Boyz Do Cry Twitter/Insta: @boyzdocrypod Ram's Twitter/Insta: @_ramuel Paulina's Insta: @elnopalverde
1:20:46
August 30, 2018
EP 10: Eating Disorders & the Process in Therapy w/ Anjanae
Our friend Anjannae talks about her experience living with an eating disorder, Bulimia, and the process of therapy -- from making the decision to doing homework that her therapist gives her. Anjanae's Book, "Bees and Weeds" (BUY IT!!!): https://amzn.to/2LiIJ0A Find affordable therapy in your area: youfindtherapy.com openpathcollective.org Eating in the Light of the Moon: https://amzn.to/2BAAH3O Lessons from the Mental Hospital: https://youtu.be/NHHPNMIK-fY Send us a voice message on Anchor or email us at boyzdocrypod@gmail.com Please consider supporting us here on Anchor: anchor.fm/boyzdocry/support You can also rate/review us 5 stars on Apple Podcasts. Anything helps! Boyz Do Cry Spotify playlist: bit.ly/boyzplaylist Follow us on the socials! Facebook: Boyz Do Cry Twitter/Insta: @boyzdocrypod Ram's Twitter/Insta: @_ramuel Paulina's Insta: @elnopalverde
1:12:54
August 23, 2018
EP 09: The Highs & Lows of Bipolar Disorder w/ Chris
We talk this week with Paulina's longtime friend, Chris, about his experience with bipolar disorder. We get into the events leading up to his breakdown that eventually got him to go get help and get diagnosed. Bipolar disorder is one of the more misunderstood mental illnesses, usually pictured as an unhinged, moody person. Hopefully this episode illuminates some misunderstanding as we get into the symptoms, most notably mania/hypomania and the difference between Bipolar I and Bipolar II. Also, Ram finds out he might be Bipolar II lol. Send us a voice message on Anchor or email us at boyzdocrypod@gmail.com Please consider supporting us here on Anchor: anchor.fm/boyzdocry/support You can also rate us 5 stars on Apple Podcasts. ANything helps! Boyz Do Cry Spotify playlist: bit.ly/boyzplaylist Follow us on the socials! Facebook: Boyz Do Cry Twitter/Insta: @boyzdocrypod Ram's Twitter/Insta: @_ramuel Paulina's Insta: @elnopalverde
54:31
August 16, 2018
EP 08: Masculinity, Fear & Forgiveness w/ Jason
Our good friend Jason joins us today to talk about masculinity, particularly how it affects Asian men. Moreover, we talk about what we truly fear in our lives and how forgiveness plays into the breakup process. So, if you're going through a breakup, this is a good episode to listen to! __________________ Jason's Insta: @j_duooooo Jason's Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/user/SteezyGasm Please subscribe so he can change his username. He begs you. Please send us suggestions of topics you would like for us to explore. Send us a voice message on Anchor or email us at boyzdocrypod@gmail.com Please consider supporting us here on Anchor! Every little bit helps to grow the pod. Also you can rate us 5 stars on Apple Podcasts. Boyz Do Cry Spotify playlist: http://bit.ly/boyzplaylist Follow us on the socials! Facebook: Boyz Do Cry Twitter/Insta: @boyzdocrypod Ram's Twitter/Insta: @_Ramuel Paulina's Insta: @elnopalverd
1:07:17
August 9, 2018
EP 02: Depression Memes w/ Lexi
TW: Suicide, Suicide Ideation, Sexual Abuse If you're a millennial, you've probably seen depression memes and on some level relate to it. We discuss the joys and pitfalls of identifying too much with the memes. We talk about our first mental breakdowns and the thought process of suicide ideation from the suicidal person's perspective. It's not as heavy as it sounds. Well, not to Ram or Lexi. On the original EP 02 being deleted: We had to delete episode 02 as per the other party anonymously mentioned on the original episode. We decided to delete it out of respects to their wishes. We don't know if we can ever fully talk about it without the other parties' blessing but we felt the need to address it. We want to be as honest and upfront with our audience and we thought this was the best way to go about it. Thank you for understanding. Hope you enjoy this new episode!
49:09
August 8, 2018
EP 07: Life Lessons w/ Jalen, artist of our theme song
Do you love our theme song? We sure do and the man behind the song is as amazing as the song. This week, Jalen joins us to talk about so many topics, I didn't really know what to call the episode. The best summary is "Life Lessons." Jalen shares his story of experiencing both poverty and wealth, anxiety, depression, love, the African-American experience, and so much more. __________________ Jalen's Insta: @f00d_four_th0ugh Please send us suggestions of topics you would like for us to explore. Send us a voice message on Anchor or email us at boyzdocrypod@gmail.com Follow us on the socials! Facebook: Boyz Do Cry Twitter/Insta: @boyzdocrypod Ram's Twitter/Insta: @_Ramuel Paulina's Insta: @elnopalverde
1:08:32
July 27, 2018
EP 06: Being a Gay Man in 2018 w/ Tommy and Eric
On this episode, we talk to our friends Tommy and Eric about their experiences as gay men in 2018. We talk about the problems plaguing the gay community right now such as the epidemic of loneliness, gay men having the high rates of depression/anxiety and their own personal stories of coming out and being in relationships-- all these intertwined issues contributes to their mental health. It's a very packed episode and hope it helps our LGBT listeners
1:13:04
July 19, 2018
EP 05: Borderline Personality Disorder w/ Marisol
TW: Suicide, Self-Harm This week, we talk to Marisol, an artist and friend who suffers from Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD). We discuss what exactly BPD is, how it affects her life and ways she's healed/coped through it all. We also dive into her experiences at a psychiatric holding facility and coping through depression memes. Ram also finds out he might also have BPD lol. DISCLAIMER: We are not mental health professionals. Just two open individuals talking from experience. Please seek professional help if you are in need. We are not a substitute for professional help and we encourage you to seek it out! Marisol's Instagram: @mari.the.soul Follow us on all the socials: Facebook: Boyz Do Cry Insta & Twitter: @BoyzDoCryPod Theme Song: Purpose by SO SELF EXPLANATORY on SoundCloud
55:47
July 12, 2018
EP 04: Depression & Art w/ Crystal
Sometimes depression can lead to the creation of art. But will our creativity disappear if we try and treat our depression? Is our art rooted from depression? These are some of the questions we explore with artist Crystal (@GooeyStranger on Instagram) and as well as her experience/work with "Youth in Mind," a nonprofit organization in California helping youth impacted by the mental health system, a system we discuss needs rehauling. More talking points: therapy stories, astrology and holistic healing DISCLAIMER: We are not mental health professionals. Just two open individuals talking from experience. Please seek professional help if you are in need. We are not a substitute for professional help and we encourage you to seek it out! Theme Song: Purpose by SO SELF EXPLANATORY on SoundCloud
59:50
July 7, 2018
EP 03: Young Motherhood w/ Ashleigh & Julease
This week, Ram talks to Ashleigh Panoo and Julease Graham, two mothers in their twenties that got pregnant during their late teens. They discuss the many struggles of being a young mother such as carving out time for themselves, managing anxiety and the responsibility--and joy--of raising a child. Julease's Video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=e_RsnT1BC8M Our theme song is "What's the Purpose - SO SELF EXPLANATORY" check him out on SoundCloud!
40:27
June 29, 2018
EP 01: Who are the Boyz?
CW: Suicide, Depression, Anxiety, Sexual Trauma, Childhood Abuse In our first episode of "Boyz Do Cry," Ram and Paulina introduce ourselves and talk about why we're starting this mental health podcast. We open up about our own traumas and experiences regarding mental health. Please tune in and send us any voice messages about topics you want us to talk about through the Anchor app! We are going to have guests from time to time and talk about their own experiences. Our theme song is "What's the Purpose - SO SELF EXPLANATORY" check him out on SoundCloud!
48:38
June 16, 2018
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