Skip to main content
Men's Mental Health Show

Men's Mental Health Show

By Bradley Spillane

An Australian production, The Men’s Mental Health Show is on Radio Blue Mountains 89.1 most Tuesdays between 11am and 1pm, or you can find podcasts and further information at www.mensmentalhealthshow.com. Join your host Bradley Spillane (0404077666) and guests who have an interest in mental health either personally or professionally. Each week we discuss an array of topics that help men to understand their thoughts and emotions, and to recognise that being vulnerable is not a sign of weakness, but rather a sign of courage, strength and bravery.
Available on
Apple Podcasts Logo
Google Podcasts Logo
Overcast Logo
Pocket Casts Logo
RadioPublic Logo
Spotify Logo
Currently playing episode

Ep 153 - Balancing work and fatherhood

Men's Mental Health ShowApr 24, 2024

00:00
01:21:43
Ep 153 - Balancing work and fatherhood

Ep 153 - Balancing work and fatherhood

MMHS 23/04/24 - In this episode of the Men's Mental Health Show I talk with Men's coach John Milham and ex-copper Tony Loxley about dealing with regrets and how to connect with our kids.

Apr 24, 202401:21:43
Ep 152 - Safe spaces

Ep 152 - Safe spaces

MMHS 17/04/24 - In this episode of the Men's Mental Health Show with men's coach John Milham and returning Walk It Off guest Chris Edwards, we discuss everything from connection and contribution to dealing with grief. Please reach out for help should you feel distressed.

Apr 17, 202401:18:52
Ep 151 - Heart health

Ep 151 - Heart health

MMHS 9/04/24 - In this episode of the Men's Mental Health Show with intensive care paramedic Christian Mortensen and war veteran Blue Phillips we discuss having health checkups just like we get our cars serviced.

Apr 09, 202452:36
Ep 150 - Exploring our identities

Ep 150 - Exploring our identities

MMHS 2/03/24 - In this episode of the Men's Mental Health Show with local paramedic Christian Mortensen and life coach John Milham, we discuss our work identities and being many things.

John Milham - 0422 672 049

Apr 03, 202401:21:48
Ep 149 - What we learn along the way

Ep 149 - What we learn along the way

MMHS 26/03/24 - In this episode of the Men's Mental Health Show with men's coach John Milham and men's workshop presenter Sam Snowdon, we discuss what we learn from our wellness journey.

John Milham - 0422 672 049

Mar 28, 202401:23:09
Ep 148 - Dads in distress

Ep 148 - Dads in distress

MMHS 12/03/24 - In this week's episode of the Men's Mental Health Show, I talk with good friend Wes Bending and men's health coach John Milham about navigating life after a marriage breakdown.

John Milham - 0422 672 049

Mar 22, 202401:25:42
Ep 147 - Who is your marmalade?

Ep 147 - Who is your marmalade?

MMHS 5/03/24 - In this episode of the Men's Mental Health Show I talk with Sharn from Springwood Walk it off and Chris who is launching Warragamba Walk it off. Please note suicide and self harm is discussed and you are encouraged to reach out for help if you are struggling yourself.

Mar 05, 202451:50
Ep 146 - Utilising the power of and surviving the damage of relationships

Ep 146 - Utilising the power of and surviving the damage of relationships

MMHS 27/02/24 - In this episode of the Men's Mental Health Show with men's coach John Milham, we discuss the ecology of relationships, the characteristics of relationships and tips for dealing with relationships.

Feb 28, 202401:16:57
Ep 145 - Mindfulness of movement

Ep 145 - Mindfulness of movement

MMHS 20/02/24 - In this episode of the Men's Mental Health Show with Alexander Technique practitioner Greg Holdaway we discuss the importance of connection and exercise in getting through his grief journey as well as his work in Alexander Technique.

Feb 21, 202452:08
Ep 144 - A deep dive into the esoteric

Ep 144 - A deep dive into the esoteric

MMHS 13/02/24 - In this episode of the Men's Mental Health Show Men's coach John Milham and author of 'O...the soul: Esoteric science of the soul' John Bayot discuss concepts of humility and surrender.

John Milham - 0422 672 049

Feb 15, 202401:19:42
Ep 143 - Walk it off

Ep 143 - Walk it off

MMHS 7/02/24 - In this episode of the Men's Mental Health Show I talk with Brian and Shan from Walk it off, which is a free walking group for men that meets at the Bunker cafe in Springwood on weds evenings at 5.30/6pm. It's an accessible opportunity for men to talk openly with other men about the difficulties in their lives and meet others with lived experience of life's challenges whilst improving fitness.

Feb 07, 202437:17
Ep 142 - Seeking help

Ep 142 - Seeking help

MMHS 23/01/23 - In this episode of the Men's Mental Health Show we discuss the process of growing up and improving yourself so that you can be of use to others.

Jan 23, 202401:15:21
Ep 141 - 3G Grief, gratitude and great minds

Ep 141 - 3G Grief, gratitude and great minds

MMHS 16/01/24 - In this episode of the Men's Mental Health Show with local paramedic Christian Mortensen and Men's coach John Milham, we discuss the power of gratitude in dealing with grief.

Jan 17, 202401:20:42
Ep 140 - Boudi's legacy

Ep 140 - Boudi's legacy

MMHS 9/01/23 - In this very special episode of the Men's Mental Health Show, we celebrate the life of the late Boudi Maassen who passed away peacefully in his sleep on Friday the 5th January. With paramedic Christian Mortensen by my side we are joined by singer/songwrite Matt Tonks, RUOK ambassador Garry Sims, RBM representative Robyn Catchlove, Men's Table chairman Geoff Stodart, and Boudi's good mate Blue Philips.

Jan 11, 202401:31:31
Ep 139 - The legacy of fathers

Ep 139 - The legacy of fathers

MMHS 5/12/23 - In this episode of the Men's Mental Health Show with paramedic Christian Mortensen and Men's coach John Milham we discuss the passing of fathers and the need for elders.

John Milham - 0422 672 049

Dec 06, 202301:15:06
Ep 138 - Warrior training

Ep 138 - Warrior training

MMHS 8/11/23 - In this episode of the Men's Mental Health Show with psychotherapist Boudi Maassen and men's coach John Milham, we discuss upgrading the man box, the 4Cs - courage, curiosity, care and commitment, safe space and the relational reality of the world.

John Milham - 0422 672 049

Boudi Maassen - 0424 416 969

Nov 08, 202301:16:17
Ep 137 - Rising back up

Ep 137 - Rising back up

MMHS 31/10/23 - In this episode of the Men's Mental Health Show with psychotherapist Boudi Maassen and I, we discuss dealing with setbacks, how it's ok to say we are not ok and ultimately get the help we need to rise back up.

Boudi Maassen - 0424416969

Oct 31, 202348:18
Ep 136 - IRL connection

Ep 136 - IRL connection

MMHS 24/10/23 - In this episode of the Men's Mental Health Show with psychotherapist Boudi Maassen and RUOK ambassador Garry Sims, we discuss the importance of in real life (IRL) connections with the world around us, our relationships and the environment.

Boudi Maassen - 0424 416 969

Oct 26, 202301:05:51
Ep 135 - The ripple effect

Ep 135 - The ripple effect

MMHS 17/10/23 - In this episode of the Men's Mental Health Show, psychotherapist Boudi Maassen and I talk with Zoe Taylor about the sad loss of a friend's father to suicide and her efforts to improve men's mental health. A black dog institute fundraising event will be held on 21/10/23 at Forest Hotel, French's Forest at 6pm, in memory of Warrick Hills.

Boudi Maassen - 0424 416 969

Oct 17, 202354:04
Ep 134 - F.A.C.T

Ep 134 - F.A.C.T

MMHS 10/10/23 - In this episode of the Men's Mental Health Show with coach John Milham and psychotherapist Boudi Maassen we discuss our father journeys and also John's formula for increasing our influence and decreasing our concerns.

Boudi Maassen - 0424 416 969

John Milham - 0422 672 049

Oct 10, 202301:25:47
Ep 133 - Gestalt view

Ep 133 - Gestalt view

MMHS 3/10/23 - In this episode of the Men's Mental Health Show I talk with paramedic Christian Mortensen and psychotherapist Boudi Maassen about paying attention to the signs our body's give us and using our peripheral vision to gain insight into a situation.

Boudi Maassen - 0424416969

Oct 03, 202301:16:01
Ep 132 - There with you

Ep 132 - There with you

MMHS 26/10/23 - In this episode of the Men's Mental Health Show we have local singer/songwriter Nic Danta back with us talking about situational depression.

Boudi Maassen - 0424 416 969

Sep 27, 202301:17:27
Ep 131 - Trauma, anger and self care

Ep 131 - Trauma, anger and self care

MMHS 19/09/23 - In this episode of the Men's Mental Health Show with psychotherapist Boudi Maassen and myself we talk about a range of mental health issues such as values, trauma, anger, self examination, therapy and self care.


Boudi Maassen - 0424 416 969

Sep 20, 202301:07:16
Ep 130 - Connection, communication and contribution

Ep 130 - Connection, communication and contribution

MMHS 5/09/23 - In this episode of the Men's Mental Health Show with psychotherapist Boudi Maassen and men's coach John Milham, we discuss World Suicide Day and strategies for that important issue. Please note suicde is discussed and you are encouraged to reach out for support should you need it.

Boudi Maassen - 0424 416 969

John Milham - 0422 672 049

Sep 07, 202301:22:45
Ep 129 - Unfolding your narrative

Ep 129 - Unfolding your narrative

MMHS 29/08/23 - In this episode of the Men's Mental Health Show, psychotherapist Boudi Maassen is back with regular guest and war veteran Blue Phillips. We talk about how men can support each other and themselves to make needed changes and improve mental health.

Boudi Maassen - 0424 416 969

Aug 29, 202301:07:13
Ep 128 - Defeating demons

Ep 128 - Defeating demons

MMHS 23/08/23 - In this episode of the Men's Mental Health Show, I talk with men's mental health coach John Milham about letting go of our unsuccessful views of our identity, validating more versions of masculinity and the challenges of parenting teenage boys. John Milham - 0422 672 049.

Aug 23, 202301:13:33
Ep 127 - Yarning with mob

Ep 127 - Yarning with mob

MMHS 15/08/23 - In this episode of the Men's Mental Health Show I yarn with Dharug woman Melissa Stubbings and Gumbaynggirr man Flinn Donovan about everything from staying well after drug and alcohol recovery, working on relationships, the voices of Aboriginal people, the frontier wars, cultural burning, justice circles, learning from mistakes and raising children. Melissa is the manager of the Merana cultural centre in the Hawkesbury and Flinn is a manager at the MYST Centre in the Blue Mountains.

Aug 16, 202301:40:15
Ep 126 - Values and our legacy

Ep 126 - Values and our legacy

MMHS 7/18/23 - In this episode of the Men's Mental Health Show with men's coach John Milham we discuss getting to know our values - shadow values and light values, developing our own values code to live by, values as priorities and values as our legacy.

Aug 14, 202301:28:05
Ep 125 - Humility

Ep 125 - Humility

MMHS 1/08/23 - In this episode of the Men's Mental Health Show with men's coach John Milham and war veteran Blue Phillips we discuss dropping the ego when we make small talk to create a safe space.

Aug 08, 202301:17:60
Ep 124 - From a state of threat to opportunity

Ep 124 - From a state of threat to opportunity

MMHS 18/07/23 - In this episode of the Men's Mental Health Show with men's coach John Milham and paramedic Christian Mortensen we talk about how to interrupt antisocial behaviour with rational thought and calm our reptilian fear responses.


Jul 19, 202301:39:56
Ep 123 - Listening wholeheartedly

Ep 123 - Listening wholeheartedly

MMHS 11/07/23 - In this episode of the Men's Mental Health Show I talk with cofounder of the Men's Table David Pointon and local Men's Table host Geoff Stodart about how the Men's Table formed and the beneficial ripple effect from it.

www.themenstable.org

Jul 11, 202356:37
Ep 122 - G.R.A.C.E

Ep 122 - G.R.A.C.E

MMHS 4/07/23 - In this episode of the Men's Mental Health Show I talk with men's coach John Milham about how to connect more effectively through gratitude, respect, attention, curiosity and empathy.

Jul 04, 202301:21:41
Ep 121 - Winter solstice with community

Ep 121 - Winter solstice with community

MMHS 13/06/23 - In this episode of the Men's Mental Health Show, we talk with Pam Carne from Blacktown Rotary about a special event for survivors of suicide on the longest night of the year, Wednesday 21st June 2023.

Boudi Maassen 0424 416 969.


Jun 17, 202301:10:43
Ep 120 - Stronger together

Ep 120 - Stronger together

MMHS 7/06/23 - In this episode of the Men's Mental Health Show with psychotherapist Boudi Maassen and paramedic Christian Mortensen, we discuss being a little less quick to judge, a little more understanding and how we are stronger together. Boudi Maassen - 0424 416 969

Jun 07, 202301:20:36
Ep 119 - One for the tradies

Ep 119 - One for the tradies

MMHS 30/05/23 - In this episode of the Men's Mental Health Show with psychotherapist Boudi Maassen and mental health coach to the tradies Aaron WD Huey, we discuss our human vulnerabilities and what it looks like to take care of ourselves and each other.

Boudi Maassen - 0424 416 969

Aaron WD Huey - 0212094525

May 30, 202301:18:26
Ep 118 - Soft skills

Ep 118 - Soft skills

MMHS 23/05/23 - In this episode of the Men's Mental Health Show with psychotherapist Boudi Maassen and paramedic Christian Mortensen, we discuss the importance of people skills and de-escalation skills of frontline workers and the qualities of role models.

Boudi Maassen - 0424 416 969

May 23, 202301:19:21
Ep 117 - Delightful life

Ep 117 - Delightful life

MMHS 16/05/23 - In this episode of the Men's Mental Health Show, I talk with fellow presenter Robyn Catchlove about her book 'Somewhere Down a Crazy River' and her delightful approach to life.

Bradley Spillane - 0424 416 969

May 16, 202301:18:29
Ep 116 - Power of cooperation

Ep 116 - Power of cooperation

MMHS 18/04/23 - In this episode of the Men's Mental Health Show with psychotherapist Boudi Maassen, paramedic Christian Mortensen and guest David Tolich, we discuss the tragic loss of a paramedic who was stabbed, the voice, and the power of storytelling.

Boudi Maassen - 0424 416 969

Apr 18, 202301:19:42
Ep 115 - Being Aboriginal in this country

Ep 115 - Being Aboriginal in this country

MMHS 11/04/23 - In this episode of the Men's Mental Health Show I talk with local Gundungurra elder David King about "the stuff we do to help us all make it."

Apr 12, 202301:23:57
Ep 114 - Second chances

Ep 114 - Second chances

MMHS 4/04/23 - In this episode of the Men's Mental Health Show psychotherapist Boudi Maassen and I talk with Brendan Morrey about his struggles with Bipolar disorder. There is mention of suicide. Please seek help should you require.

Boudi Maassen 0424 416 969.

Apr 05, 202301:20:20
Ep 113 - Curiosity and reflection

Ep 113 - Curiosity and reflection

MMHS 2/04/23 - In this episode of the Men's Mental Health Show with psychotherapist Boudi Maassen and army veteran Blue Phillips, we discuss everything from democracy, war and peace to metacognition, embodied cognition and reflective practice.

Boudi Maassen - 0424416969

Apr 01, 202301:12:38
Ep 112 - Trapped by the web

Ep 112 - Trapped by the web

MMHS 21/03/23 - In this episode of the Men's Mental Health Show with psychotherapist Boudi Maassen and I, we discuss the spell of the internet and the risks therein, as well as the importance of life experiences, a sense of belonging and connection.

Boudi Maassen - 0424 416 969

Mar 22, 202301:15:32
Ep 111 - Responsivity, not reactivity

Ep 111 - Responsivity, not reactivity

MMHS 14/03/23 - In this episode of the Men's Mental Health Show with psychotherapist Boudi Maassen and myself, we discuss strategies for addressing domestic violence besides police involvement, such as couples counselling, a safe men's space for crisis intervention, compulsory counselling and teaching conflict resolution in schools.  Boudi Maassen 0424 416 969.

Mar 17, 202301:11:34
Ep 110 - Vulnerability and street cred

Ep 110 - Vulnerability and street cred

MMHS 1/03/23 - In this episode of the Men's Mental Health Show psychotherapist Boudi Maassen and I discuss why we are reluctant to let down our defences and face the truth of things.  Later in the show exserviceman Blue Phillips and I discuss the necessity for psychologists to have street credibility with the group of clients they are working with as it's too easy to say the wrong thing.

Boudi Maassen - 0424 416 969

Mar 01, 202301:22:37
Ep 109 - Emotion regulation

Ep 109 - Emotion regulation

MMHS 22/02/23 - In this episode of the Men's Mental Health Show with paramedic Christian Mortensen and psychotherapist Boudi Maassen we discuss taking a multimodal approach to emotion regulation including physiological factors such as steadying glucose levels and exercise.  Boudi Maassen 0424 416 969

Feb 21, 202301:24:02
Ep 108 - Active ageing

Ep 108 - Active ageing

MMHS 14/02/23 - In this episode of the Men's Mental Health Show with ex-serviceman Blue Phillips and psychotherapist Boudi Maassen we discuss remaining active and engaged as we age and looking after one another, whether strangers in the community or loved ones at home.  Boudi Maassen 0424 416 969.



Feb 15, 202301:23:42
Ep 107 - Stranger things

Ep 107 - Stranger things

MMHS 7/02/23 - In this episode of the Men's Mental Health Show with psychotherapist Boudi Maassen and ex policeman Tony Loxley, we discuss various ways of achieving a profound shift in consciousness.  Boudi Maassen 0424416969.

Feb 07, 202301:14:43
Ep 106 - Sleep

Ep 106 - Sleep

MMHS 31/01/23 - In this episode of the Men's Mental Health Show with paramedic Christian Mortensen and psychotherapist Boudi Maassen, we discuss sleep: what leads to sleep deprivation, the effects of sleep deprivation, and some strategies for sleep hygiene.  Boudi Maassen 0424416969.

Feb 05, 202301:21:26
Ep 105 - Mad, bad or sad?

Ep 105 - Mad, bad or sad?

MMHS 13/12/22 - In today's episode with former policeman Tony Loxley, psychotherapist Boudi Maassen and I discuss the year that's been and how men can be more than mad, bad or sad.  Boudi Maassen - 0424 416 969

Dec 13, 202201:18:10
Ep 104 - Building social capital

Ep 104 - Building social capital

MMHS 6/12/22 - In this episode of the MMHS psychotherapist Boudi Maassen and myself talk with First Nations man Flinn Donovan from MYST - Mountains Youth Services Team - about the work he does preparing the next generation to deal with racism and domestic violence.

Boudi Maassen - 0424 416 969 

Dec 06, 202253:33