Break The Chain Podcast
By James Dear
Do you try to make changes in your life but constantly slip back into your old ways?
I know that I did and found myself constantly frustrated by my lack of willpower. What I never knew is that there was a reason why I could not control myself and that there are processes that you can follow to regain your freedom.
I interview some of the greatest, relatable, and compassionate minds; talking about breaking all varieties of bad habits and how to actually live a joyful and fulfilling life.
Listen now to free yourself from the shackles of the mind.
Break The Chain PodcastMay 03, 2024
#45 - Discussing Young & Addicted: Generation Ketamine with BBC Documentary Producer Rachel Stonehouse
In this episode, I speak with Rachel Stonehouse, an Investigative Reporter and documentary producer for BBC News and formerly for BBC NewsBeat. She recently produced and presented the documentary ‘Young and Addicted: Generation Ketamine” which took a graphic look at the impacts of recreational ketamine use. For anyone who doesn’t know, Ketamine is a medical drug that has been used since the 70’s. It is safe in small doses and is effective in assisting the treatment of some mental health conditions. Ketamine is also popular as an illicit drug in the UK, Europe, North America, and many countries in Asia and is growing in popularity in Australia and New Zealand. As stated in the documentary, Government figures have shown that Ketamine addiction has more than quadrupled since 2016 in England and Wales. What may not yet be common knowledge is that the drug has serious health consequences. Rachel gives of background about herself and how she ended up involved in the documentary. She tells us what inspired her to specifically make a documentary about ketamine addiction. She shares insights from her experience and how this has changed her views of the drug. She discusses insights from people she spoke to with lived experience as well as experts. She tells us the ways that she hopes the documentary will contribute to public understanding and awareness. Including specific policy or societal changes, she hopes the documentary will inspire regarding drug education, treatment accessibility, or harm reduction efforts. The links that we mentioned in this episode were: https://www.bbc.co.uk/actionline/ https://www.reddit.com/r/Ketamineaddiction/ Learn more about us at breakthechain.net
#44 - BBC Radio 5 - The Impact of the Recreation Use of Ketamine with Rachel Stonehouse & James Dear
In this interview, Rachel Stonehouse & James Dear were featured on BBC 5 Live with Stephen Nolan, following the release of the documentary 'Young & Addicted: Generation Ketamine. James was asked to share his experience as a ketamine addict as well as give some brief advice for anyone who may be addicted or considering using the drug for the first time.
The full documentary can be watched in the UK via the link below. A shorter version is due to be released to YouTube.
https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/m001yp76
#43 - Running Against All the Odds with Joe Ramsden
In this episode, I speak with Joe Ramsden, Two years ago, on the very day of this year's London Marathon, Joe found himself hospitalized for the first time amidst a series of visits, gripped by the debilitating symptoms of MS. Struggling to walk or see, and plagued by relentless bouts of vomiting upon attempting to open his eyes, Joe's condition left medical professionals perplexed. After a harrowing ordeal, he was finally diagnosed with a severe form of Multiple Sclerosis (MS). Joe suffered two relapses but Joe made his wellbeing and lifestyle balance a priority. He made a recovery and decided to run the London Marathon with a 360-degree camera strapped to him to raise money for two fantastic charities, The MS Society and Mind. All links to follow Joe, donate, and show him your support on social media can be found via the link below. linktr.ee/readysteady_joe
#42 - Forgiveness: The Cure for Anger with Stephanie Crean
In this episode, I speak to a truly inspiring woman, Stephanie Crean. We do not speak much about the devastating events that shaped her life due to their heinous nature and the effects that they have left on her family and community. When Stephanie was just 2 years old, 4 men were ordered to murder her father. The first time they arrived at their house her was holding Stephanie in his arms, she was just 2 years old at the time. They were ordered to return and kill her even if he was holding his 2-year-old daughter. When he returned to the door he was not holding Stephanie and was tragically murdered. By the estimations of many these acts were unforgivable, however, after seeing the suffering that the events of the past were bringing to family and community she realised, on a deep level, that she had to make a change. In the morning, in the early hours, she wrote a letter addressed to the 4 men who had killed her father (Chris Crean). In that letter, Stephanie expresses complete and compassionate forgiveness for these men – “so that you may have peace and I too. So that our families may have peace, and so that the community may have peace also. So that the nation may have peace, because that is what is right.” There was a recent movie made about the killing of her father titled “Resolve”. Her letter is deeply moving and has affected the lives of many people. I highly recommend reading it. You can read the letter on her blog, My Life's Journey, by clicking the link below: https://www.facebook.com/mylifejourneyblog/posts/1967749856837704
You can watch the full movie about her father's story on YouTube by clicking the link below:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PSnU43PYYjE&t=1349s
#41- Pathways to Sobriety (UK Edition) with Marek Hyde
Are you addicted to alcohol or substances and finally ready to do something about it but don't know where to start?
Then this episode is for you. I talk to Marek Hyde a recovering addict who has worked in the addiction field for 6 years. We are aware that the path to sobriety can be an overwhelming one. This is why we wanted to share with you some of the different options that you have in the United Kingdom whether you have access to money and other resources or not.
Some of the different options that we discuss are,
-The NHS route
-Checking in with a GP
-Local addiction services
-The importance of finding an advocate
-Alcoholic Anonymous/Narcotics Anonymous
-Seeing a counsellor
Some of the services mentioned were,
-Carpenters Arms
-Loughborough https://www.carpenters-arms.org/
-Betels https://www.betel.uk/
-Jericho house https://www.jerichosociety.org.uk/location/derby/
-Guide to free addiction helplines https://www.lifeworkscommunity.com/addiction-treatment/guide-to-uk-free-addiction-helplines
Useful contacts
https://www.mind.org.uk/information-support/types-of-mental-health-problems/recreational-drugs-alcohol-and-addiction/drug-and-alcohol-addiction-useful-contacts/
#40 - Being a Man with Muay Thai Champion and Mental Health Advocate Richie Hardcore
What does it mean to be a man? Where do we get ideas about what that means?
In this episode, I was joined by retired muay Thai champion and mental health advocate Richie hardcore to explore this idea amongst some other topics such as mental health and addiction. Richie is also an educator and public speaker who works in family and sexual violence prevention, and fitness. He also spent 6 years working in drug harm prevention.
Richie stated that he was a sensitive kid that liked reading books but fighting at school made him cool. Being masculine also made him feel strong and cool but he said that he was fortunate enough to be steered away from that path and didn't turn to gangs and violence like his friends. He credited a lot of this to his passion for martial arts and the sober culture of the straight-edge hardcore scene.
Richie shares his life story then we dive deep into ideas surrounding masculinity from both a sociological and spiritual perspective. Finally, Richie tells us about his battle with depression and suicidal ideation and how he pulled himself out of that dark place.
I really enjoyed this conversation. Richie does some fantastic work, please check him out.
https://www.richiehardcore.com/podcast https://www.facebook.com/richie.hardcore
https://www.instagram.com/richiehardcore/?fbclid=IwAR2RQyyoQsg7S96MDvqhmBmE0aDmgQzgOMctup7CY7xhK5t788RXyOMyZFc
#39 - 27 Years of Addiction & Suicidal Thoughts - Sober & Grateful with Tim Lodgen
In this episode, I talk to ex US marine and MMA fighter Tim Lodgen about his 27 year battle with alcoholism and other substances. Tim tells us that he doesn't remember his 20s and his drinking got really bad whilst during the Marine core. He suspects that it got worse due to trauma from the marines as well as his father leaving when he was 7. Tim tells us that he was drinking shots before work, being verbally abusive to his family, crashed a car and didn't remember, and was facing jail time due to his anger. Tim hit rock bottom when his wife told him that he couldn't be there anymore and shortly after his wife found him in the process of taking his own life.
Tim got sober when his good friend and Jackass star Brandon Novak called him when he was at his lowest point offering him the opportunity of a lifetime. Brandon got him a plane ticket and booked him into rehab. After going through the 12 step rehabilitation process Tim has now been sober for 10 months and radiates nothing but gratitude. He is on a mission to change the world for the better.
Tim said “Giving up is not an option, getting up is the only option”, “I didn’t realize I was in a cage and the one holding the key” This is an inspiring story of hope that proves that it is possible to get sober even after 27 years.
Please follow Tim's journey
@Lodgen_tim on Instagram or Tim Lodgen on Facebook
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#38 Why we Need to Talk About Porn with Jo Robertson
In this episode, we talk to sex therapist and porn researcher Jo Robertson.
We talk about navigating the new porn landscape and the effects that it is having on children, teenagers, and adults. We also talk about the dynamics between sex life and living a happy and fulfilling life.
Some of the topics that we cover are
-How the porn landscape has changed over the years
-Should sex be positioned as the goal of life?
-The effects of using porn
-The age of children/teenagers when they first come into contact with porn and what parents should do about it
-The subliminal messages that are found in porn
-Healthy ways of learning about sex
-Consent and sexual violence
-Porn in relation to mental health and addiction
-What age should we talk to children about porn
Jo is a sex therapist and betrayal trauma specialist. She has a post-graduate diploma in counselling and a masters of science in medicine specialising in sexual health and psychosexual therapy. She also works as the Research and Training Lead for The Light Project, which is a charity equipping youth, their families, and professionals to navigate the new porn landscape.
To find out more about the amazing work that Jo does please take a look at her website and the other work she is involved with.
https://www.jorobertson.org/
https://thelightproject.co.nz/
Instagram @sextherapistjo
www.clue.com
#37 Consequences of Ketamine Addiction with Josh Rhodes
In this episode, I talk to my friend Josh Rhodes about ketamine addiction, its consequences, harm reduction, and the journey to sobriety.
As many people will know ketamine has some heavy consequences when paired up with addiction and excessive usage. If you are interested in this then skip to the end where we also talk about harm reduction. We decided to wait until the end because they can be difficult to talk about.
Josh suffered from "K bladder" (bladder cystitis). The symptoms were severe and would cause him to pass urine and jelly-like substances in his urine. He had multiple operations to address this problem including a cancer scare. He has now managed to start a new life where he only occasionally uses when he goes home to where he suffered the worst with his addiction (around 3 times a year) and his bladder situation has improved considerably.
We also discuss other effects such as K-cramps, the nature of addiction, social, financial, family problems.
Ketamine’s effects when abused. (This is an absolute guess but based on what I have observed. 2+ grams per day consistently can cause these problems. Everyone is different and some manifest symptoms way sooner. Not likely to happen from mild usage and has been proven safe to use in medical and clinical circumstances.)
-bladder walls become thickened and lose elasticity. Potential cystitis, and ulceration.
-urinary tract (urine in the blood)
-extremely painful to pass urine
-back pain -blocked kidneys
-kidneys can become damaged due to increased pressure caused by shrunken bladder
-potential kidney failure -incontinence -bladder cystitis
-shrunken bladder (50ml)
-thickened bladder walls
-scarred bladder
If you stop using most cases show a dramatic improvement within 3 months.
Some of our harm reduction tips are:
-Cook the ket into powder and avoid using it in crystal form.
-Drink plenty of water even before bed. It may seem counterintuitive but it will help your bladder to be less irritated.
-Before bed or even during the day, sniff water before bed to clear out nostrils to prevent damage to your nose.
-Don’t swallow the chemical into the stomach.
-Eat well and try to take care of yourself the best you can.
Most of all make a proactive move towards getting into recovery - don’t stay in the dark.
#36 - Family Disputes (Parenting Through Adversity) with Frank Hicks
In this episode, Frank Hicks joins us to talk about handling family disputes after spending years in the courts over the custody of his children. He is the founder of Guardians of Our Children (GOOC) which is a charitable trust who works to protect children by helping their parents through the disputes process to reach a peaceful resolution.
Frank advises us on how to navigate our way through these incredibly difficult situations as well as giving us the best advice that we can take on board to regain custody of our children and do what is in the best interest of the children's future. He discusses the dangers of emotions over logic and shares his personal struggles in this area. One of the main areas he elaborates on is co-parenting, what it means and why it is in the best interest of the entire family if it is possible.
Frank hopes that the information he shares can save families an infinite amount of stress, time, and money.
To find out more about Guardians of our children visit: https://www.gooc.org.nz/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/GOOCNZ/
#35 - Saving the Planet with Kate Parker
In this episode, we talk about the real problems that the planet is facing and it is not what you would expect. Kate took to a life of activism after watching the Cowspiracy documentary which highlighted the devastating effects that agriculture and commercial fishing have on the environment. She decided to protect the oceans because various processes that take place are responsible for the majority of the oxygen we breathe: meaning no fish = no humans.
We delve deep into the psychology that leads to the destruction of a planet based upon the famous quote by Gus Speth, who is an American environmental lawyer, and advocate, he’s the former dean of the Yale School of Forestry and Environmental Studies, and the former Administrator of the United Nations Development Programme, he stated: “I used to think that top environmental problems were biodiversity loss, ecosystem collapse, and climate change. I thought that thirty years of good science could address these problems. I was wrong. The top environmental problems are selfishness, greed, and apathy, and to deal with these we need a cultural and spiritual transformation. And we scientists don’t know how to do that.”
We discuss some of the mind-blowing statistics from a variety of documentaries including Cowspiracy, Seaspiracy, and Sea of Shadows.
Here are some of the statistics:
-Whales fertilize plankton which is responsible for 85% of the world's oxygen.
-Sharks kill 12 people a year/humans kill 11K sharks per hour.
-Livestock and their byproducts contribute to 51% of greenhouse gases.
-All transportation exhaust emissions are only 13% of greenhouse house gases.
-Producing one hamburger uses the same amount of water as 2 months of showers.
-There isn’t enough land on the planet for people to eat meat in the same way that countries such as the UK and the USA do.
-Animal agriculture is the leading cause of species extinction, ocean dead zones, water pollution, and habitat destruction.
-At the current trajectory it is estimated that there will be no fish in the oceans by 2048.
-A person who follows a vegan diet produces the equivalent of 50% less carbon dioxide, uses 1/11th oil, 1/13th water, and 1/18th land compared to a meat-lover for their food.
-Each day, a person who eats a vegan diet saves 5000 litres of water, 20 kilos of grain, 9 metres of forested land, 20 lbs CO2 equivalent, and one animal’s life.
Check out what Kate does by visiting Daughters of the Deep linktr.ee/daughtersofthedeep
Sea Shepherd seashepherd.org/
#34 - Taking Back Your Life - PTSD with Richard Margesson
We take a comprehensive look at post-traumatic stress disorder starting with: what it is, its symptoms, and the functions that it plays. We talk about getting triggered and what you yourself and others can do to help when it happens. We finally discuss some of the treatment options that are available as well as Richard's personal healing journey.
Richard served as an officer in the British Army for 20 years, in a number of war zones, and as the queen's guard at Buckingham Palace. He suffered from post-traumatic stress disorder from his army career and decided to work in psychotherapy and hypnotherapy for many years. He is also the founder of the Walk of War charitable project that raises awareness for post-traumatic stress injury amongst front-line public servants.
You can find Richard on his website: freethetree.co.nz/about/
He also has a series of free audio products for deep relaxation, stress management, and wellness on bandcamp: richardmargesson.bandcamp.com/album/step-inside-natures-therapy-room
#33 - A Spiritual Perspective on Mental Health with Acharya das
We were very fortunate to have Acharya Das on the podcast again.
We talk about some of the fundamental problems that society is facing such as addiction, anxiety, depression, dissatisfaction, suicide, and mental illness as well as the underlying factors that are causing them.
Acharya Das is a teacher of the Vedic and Yoga philosophy, meditation, and Kirtan. He has been teaching meditation all over the world for over 45 years including in prison systems.
Some of the topics that we touch on are:
-The impacts of purposelessness, nihilism, arrogance, and self-centeredness
-The effects of the philosophy of individualism
-The effects of John Keynes, Edward Bernays, and the impact of consumer economics
-The importance of duty -The impact of social media
-Factors contributing towards ill mental health
-Addiction
-Anxiety
-Depression
-Suicide
-And the equation for happiness
#32 - Building Resilience in Recovery with Maddie Kitchen from Sobriety Film
Maddie Kitchen has been in recovery from alcohol addiction for 15 years. She joins us to discuss a wide range of topics including adverse childhood experiences and trauma, depression, anxiety, and agoraphobia; how she got sober and recovered from two relapses, and about her film-making company.
She is the founder of Sobriety Films CIC which is a not-for-profit organisation that makes documentaries, films and does workshops to raise awareness for recovery from addictions and mental ill-health. She has now been in recovery from addiction for an impressive 15 years so I am really looking forward to hearing a bit more about your journey.
Be sure to follow Maddie's incredible work:
https://sobrietyfilms.com/
https://www.facebook.com/sobriety.films.uk/
https://www.instagram.com/sobriety_films/
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#31 - The Truth Set Me Free from Alcohol & Drug Addiction with Alika Gambill
In this episode, Alika from Pro Recover Power tells us how he managed to get free from a 20-year addiction to alcohol, drugs, and lying.
He told us at one point he was going to church because he knew it would be good for him but he was still doing lines in church and he couldn't stop telling lies. He discovered that telling the truth gave him the same relief that alcohol did and was the foundation of his recovery.
Listen to Alika's incredible story to find out how he managed to reclaim his freedom.
Alika is a recovering addict who is now a substance abuse counsellor and the founder of Pro Recovery Power and intends to make a huge impact on the world and save as many people as possible from this affliction.
Find out more about what Alika does at PRP:
https://prorecoverypower.com/
https://www.instagram.com/pro_recovery_power/
#30 - SHOT BRO - Confessions of a Depressed Bullet with Rob Mokaraka
Rob kindly joins James to discuss his gripping near-death experience and recovery from depression and trauma.
In 2009 Rob had a mental and spiritual breakdown in Auckland and provoked the police to shoot him dead. He was shot at close range in the chest by a Glock 9mm bullet. After multiple surgeries and court cases, Rob started therapy and went on to create Shot Bro - Confessions of a Depressed Bullet, a story of his life that is; Funny, Dark, Real, and Educational.
Rob is now invited to communities and organisations, including NZ Military bases, Prisons, and Probation Centres around the country to share his story. A show that is both humorous and hard-hitting, Shot Bro exists to start conversations, so people know that they are not alone and that they are allowed help to heal. His story is funny but very real. Each show is followed by a wananga/forum, with kai and cups of tea to whakanoa/ground the community afterwards.
Rob says that he isn’t an expert, but his real-life journey makes people feel safe, knowing that he understands. “Crying is better than dying and we can’t change the past, but we can change the present. #OutOfTheDarkWithAroha”
We highly recommend checking out the incredible Shot Bro show:
https://www.facebook.com/SHOTBRONZ
Watch Rob's inspiring documentary here:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_3G6b0YCxXg&t=265s
#29 Body-Image, Eating Disorders & Self-Harm with Louise Ratcliffe
This is a valuable episode for anyone struggling to find self-worth.
Louise Ratcliffe is a friend and fellow classmate who is training to be a counselor. She has come on the show today to talk about eating disorders, body image, and self-harm. She herself has suffered from these issues as I'm sure the majority of us have to some degree.
We discuss a whole myriad of topics during this podcast but they mostly hinge around self-worth specifically relating to the body and the way we see ourselves.
Some of the other topics that we discussed are:
Bulimia
Diet culture
Body diversity
Body Neutrality
Obsession
Addiction
Self-love/self-hate
Self-care
The impact that external influences have on us
And the myths about freedom
During this podcast, she recommends watching the embrace movie:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nwpb_zOZFkk
This book:
https://thefuckitdiet.com/
And here are some more resources that she shared with me:
https://haescommunity.com/
https://www.healthline.com/health/body-neutrality#psychology
We hope that you enjoy this episode and it helps to free you from the shackles of the mind x
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#28 - Preventing Suicide with Michael Hempseed
This is hands down one of the most important episodes to date! Michael is the author of the book "Being a True Hero: Understanding & Preventing Suicide in Your Community". The website for the book is www.beingatruehero.com. The book is being used by the New Zealand Police, Fire and Emergency New Zealand, GPs, Counsellors as well as many parents and teachers.
Michael speaks to thousands of people every year. On average he delivers two to three seminars per week. On really busy weeks he can deliver up to nine seminars. He has spoken at TedX Darwin.
In this episode, we discuss how we can learn to recognise the early signs that someone might be feeling suicidal and what we as individuals and a community can do to support them. Some of the topics that we discuss are mental health conditions underlying suicidal tendencies, anger, forgiveness, dealing with failure, and much more.
I highly recommend reading Michaels's book: it is presented in a simple and easy-to-read way and is full of vital and valuable information!
Paperback book available here. https://www.amazon.com/dp/0473471906
Kindle edition available here. https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07P4539ZM
"Michael holds a wealth of knowledge in the space of mental health, suicide, and young people. He delivers that information in a way that leaves the receiver feeling empowered to use that information within both their work and personal lives. Michael's sensitivity to difficult topics such as suicide is apparent and perfectly presented." - Amy Walters, Manawatu District Council Youth Focus Group
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#27 - The Science of Alcoholism & Why You Can't Stop with Gill Tietz
Gill Tietz is the host and creator of the fabulous Sober Powered Podcast.
She is a recovering alcoholic and has a BS in chemistry and an MS in biology which gives an incredible platform for the foundation of this conversation. She got sober in 2019 because alcohol caused the complete destruction of her mental health. Now, she teaches what she has learned about why it’s so hard to stop drinking, why alcohol makes us so miserable, and how to embrace sobriety.
She spent 5 years dedicated to learning how to moderate her drinking. She researched moderation tirelessly and tried every strategy she could think of. No matter how bad things got for her, she always believed she could learn to moderate if she just had enough practice. Things continued to escalate until her drinking scared me enough to stop due to suicidal thoughts.
She wants to help you accept sobriety sooner than she did so you don’t have to spend any more time being stuck in the drink, hate yourself, drink cycle.
Check out Sober Powered below :)
Website: https://www.soberpowered.com/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/sober.powered
Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/779948102522537
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sober.powered/
@sober.powered_
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#26 Addiction in the Punk Scene with Alex from Wonk Unit
In this episode, I speak to Alex Wonk from the legendary Wonk Unit who are key players on the UK punk scene.
Alex battled Alcoholism and drug addiction from a young age. He realised that his relationship with booze was different from his friends and that he was an alcoholic by the age of 15. By the age of 18, he accepted that he desperately needed to stop. At age 27 he burst an artery between his heart and lung which lead to a realisation that helped him to change the trajectory of his life.
Alex tells us about the mechanics of addiction, why it's so hard to stop, and the dangers of relapse.
The most impressive start of this story is that he is still in the punk scene as the lead singer of the band and he shares how he manages to do this whilst maintaining his recovery.
Alex has kindly given us a world exclusive of two new tracks from their new album 'Uncle Daddy'
Check out and support Wonk Unit :)
https://wonkunit.com/
https://www.facebook.com/wonkunitband/
http://www.wonk-unit.bandcamp.com
http://cementyoucunt.blogspot.com/
http://wonkunit.tumblr.com/
MERCH MERCH MERCH http://wonkunit.com/shop/
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#25 - How I Overcame My Mental & Physical Health Problems with Samantha Doyle
Break The Chain Podcast #25
In this episode, I speak to real-life Wonder Woman Samantha Doyle, Samantha talks to us about she overcame an eating disorder, self-harm, and her physical health problems. She was told that she would never be able to conceive children but with some changes to her health and mind and the adoption of a spiritual practice, she was able to transform her life entirely.
Samantha really is a powerhouse, amongst a huge number of things, she is the founder and CEO of Live To serve Academy, her wellness coaching business, which aims to inspire and educate women to transform their health. With a decade in the industry and certifications in personal training, nutrition, and yoga, she continues to learn and educate others. A devoted yoga teacher, Samantha integrates kirtan and mantra meditation in her workshops to provide a holistic approach to yoga. Known for her ability to simplify the complex concepts of Ayurveda, she makes this ancient knowledge available for everyday health seekers.
Sami's website - https://www.livetoserve.com.au/about/
Join the Facebook group - https://www.facebook.com/groups/ltsafreshstart
Science of identity - https://sif.yoga/
A comprehensive introduction to spirituality - https://soundcloud.com/acharyadas/sets/kirtan-yoga-wisdom-retreat
Mantra meditation music - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCeIilHOHOoKfuRhCm1KWr2g
#24 - Life After Being Shot in the Neck with Eric Patrick Thomas
Beak The Chain Podcast #24
This podcast is one not to be missed.
I had the great honour of interviewing Eric Patrick Thomas. (a.k.a. Mr. inspire) is a Flint, MI, native and entrepreneur who is passionate about changing the way people view disabilities. This passion came after a fateful night in 1997, in which Eric suffered a spinal cord injury that paralyzed him from the neck down.
Throughout this journey, Eric uses his experience to empower resilience and inspire change for people with barriers. In addition to serving the community as a public speaker-both motivationally and at House and Senate hearings-Eric sits on several state boards as a voice for people with barriers, is an advocate for Self-Determination living, hip-hop artist, D-MAN ambassador and is the founder of inspire® brand clothing. Eric is also the proud owner of EZ Awareness By Design, a business specializing in graphic design for custom apparel, signs, and banners which offers an on-the-job experience to people of all abilities.
Social Media Links / Hashtags / Website
Personal:https://twitter.com/ericpthomas
https://www.facebook.com/ericpatrickthomas
https://www.instagram.com/ericpatrickthomas/
https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC2zRwUnVJ2jj5uiSAhSz_GQ/featured?view_as=public
inspire brand: #inspire #inspireFriday #alctw
https://linktr.ee/inspireshirt1
https://twitter.com/inspireshirt
https://www.instagram.com/inspireshirt1/
https://www.facebook.com/inspireshirtwww.inspireshirt.com
#23 - Healing Trauma, Overcoming Anger, Addiction, & Sexual Abuse with Trevor Tacey
Trevor discussed childhood trauma, how to overcoming uncontrollable anger, drug addiction, including blaming himself for the death of his brother and processing sexual and domestic abuse. Trevor talks about recovery and tells us about his journey to emotional freedom after suffering from serious anger problems.
Trevors story speaks for itself.
Trevor is from Newark, Lincolnshire in the UK. He is an EFT (emotional freedom technique) therapist, a matrix reimprinting practitioner, and the author of Chasing Dragons and Butterflies. Trevor suffered from a serious addiction to crack and heroin, which imprisoned him for 30 years. He has now been sober for 23 years.
Please check out Trevor's website below to learn more about his treatments
https://www.realchangesforlife.co.uk
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#22 The War Within with Undefeated Professional Fighter Nathan Decastro
This is an incredibly special episode because Nathan is the closest person in the world that I've ever had as an enemy. Years later we are able to sit and speak as friends. We discuss the dynamics of growing up, his boxing career and his struggles with his mental health.
Nathan is a retired undefeated professional boxer with 16 wins and 0 losses.
Nathan's eyes were not good enough to fight professionally. Throughout his boxing career, he had managed to pass his eye test by various methods such as getting someone else to go in as him or memorising the letters beforehand. This all came to an end just over a year ago when he failed an eye test and his professional career came to a screeching halt. For a year he let himself go and turned his back garden into a pub, lived on takeaways, and installed a hot tub in his 5th story apartment. He described the hedonistic year as "wild" but he fell into deep depression around Christmas when he described having suicidal thoughts and wanted to take his own life. Fortunately, he decided to turn his warrior mindset to his mental health and he managed to pull himself out of the hole. He and his best friend Dan (Piggy nuts) got back into exercise again and have both lost 10kg by going out and training at 5 am in the UK winter. Since he started training again he has been offered a professional fight as a bare-knuckle boxer.
Nathan's professional BKB debut is on @fitetv on March 27th in the London 02 Arena you can tune in PPV. There is anticipated to be over 1 million viewers.
You can follow Nathan's journey @nathan_decastro
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#21 - Addiction, the 12 Steps and Grief with Brooke Robichaud
In today's podcast, I talk with the co-founder of Seek Purpose Brooke Robichaud. Brooke is a recovering addict, author, student of the 12 steps and mother.
In this podcast, she discusses these topics as well as the recent overdose of her beloved brother and her grieving process.
Brooke is one of my favourite people that I have met in the world of recovery. Both her and her partner Suzanne Logan do an incredible and inspiring job. I couldn't recommend more that you check out the girls at Seek purpose and the amazing work that they do.
Check out the links below
https://www.facebook.com/groups/39392...
https://www.instagram.com/seekpurpose...
https://www.iheart.com/podcast/269-se...
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#20 - Dealing with Grief on Special Occasions with Eddie Jury
This is a special podcast that I did with my good friend Eddie Jury who is the owner of the clothing brand rude awakenings.
We discussed dealing with grief on special occasions, which we know is an incredibly difficult part of so many people's lives. Ed lost his Mum, Dad, Auntie and Nan all within a decade and it left a devastating effect on him that led him to use heroin. He has now been clean from heroin for 21 months and he kindly agreed to come on the podcast and speak to us about his addiction and how he deals with grieving especially around special occasions.
Check out Rude Awakenings
www.facebook.com/rudeawakenings23
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#19 - What are the benefits of yoga? With Carrie Burns
Carrie from Inspire Yoga Whangamata has kindly come on the show today to discuss Yoga with us.
She explains to us what yoga actually is and what the benefits of practicing it can be.
You can find Carrie Facebook @inspireyoganz
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#18 - Behind Closed Doors: Living with Bi-Polar, BPD & PTSD with Tina Dickinson
This is a really interesting episode, partly because Tina and I used to be in a relationship, and also because of how diverse the range of subjects are that we discuss.
This podcast has been two years in the making because it has taken that long for her to get the courage and functionality to do so.
Tina bravely discusses her childhood and touches upon physical and emotional domestic abuse, which led to P.T.S.D. She also talks about the medley of other mental health disorders that she has been diagnosed with throughout her life, including Bi-Polar 2, Borderline personality disorder, severe anxiety, and an eating disorder.
She touches upon all of these matters individually, the reality of trying to function in the world, what is happening behind closed doors and describes the public meltdowns and regretful behavior she exhibits in difficult times.
She also talks about being suicidal, what she felt like, and how she managed to get beyond that place.
This is a very special episode so I hope that you find some value.
Keep on trucking
x
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#17 - Guns, gangs, meth & homelessness to C.E.O. with Matthew K.
In this week's podcast, I speak to Mathew Kratiuk.
To say that Mathew has had a roller coaster of a life would be an understatement.
Despite having been raised in a loving middle-class family and gone to a good school, his struggles with ADHD, parents divorce, alcoholism in the family, and other unknown factors he began to suffer from serious anger problems. This led to a path of violence and he quickly found himself living on the streets in Sydney.
He went on the become a patch gang member of a motorcycle club where he accumulated a great deal of wealth, but also a serious meth habit, which proceeded to take everything from him. During this time his father died under suspicious circumstances.
Mathew found himself lying in a hospital bed asking himself. "Who Is Matty Kratiuk when all that's left is skin and bone?"
He had a gun pressed to his temple about to commit suicide when a series of profound events unfolded.
He said to himself "Now it's time to fight"
Today he has completely turned his life around and is the CEO of a successful advertising agency and lives to do good in the world.
Check out Mathews Company www.cliqued.com.au
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#16 - Change to Surrender: Escaping from Hell with Zowie-Sky
BTC Podcast #16
This weeks episode is with Zowie-Sky
Zowie is the founder of the change to surrender movement.
In this episode, she tells us her story. She was born to a heroin-addicted mother in a community that was immersed in poverty, crime, domestic violence, prostitution, addiction, and grief. As a child, she saw things that no child should see.
Her sister left when she was 4 leaving her to fend for herself and it doesn't stop there.
She talks about her own struggles with mental health, ADHD, PTSD andBi-polar.
She also gives us an insight into the world of adult entertainment and the 12 step recovery program.
Listen to the episode to find out more.
Find Zowie
@changetosurrender
https://changetosurrender.wixsite.com/changetosurrender
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#15 - Great Leaders Live Like Drug addicts with Michael Brody-Waite
Break The Chain Podcast 15
Great Leaders Live Like Drug addicts with Michael Brody-Waite
He went from being a homeless drug addict to the founder of a Fortune 500 company.
He started the first online self-scheduling service. He won the healthcare entrepreneur of the year award.
He won the most admired CEO award. He is the author of the incredible book 'Great leaders live like drug addicts'
And he has a mind-blowing and powerful TED talk with over 1.7 million views https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UUnRK...
In this episode, we go deep into the mysteries of addiction and we discuss the system that Michael has created by compressing the 12 step program into 3 simple and pragmatic rules that keep you safe on the road to recovery and prevent us from relapsing. I have personally been following Michael's rules and they have guided me through some difficult and uncomfortable situations. I hope you find as much value in this episode as I did!
Here are the links to find Michael and purchase his life-changing book.
@michaelbrodywaite
info@michaelbrodywaite.com
https://www.michaelbrodywaite.com/
https://greatleaderbook.com/
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#14 - Surviving Sexual Abuse with Katelyn Townsend
This is Break the Chain podcast episode 14
This week's podcast was a super heavy one but sheds some light on some topics that desperately need talking about.
Katelyn is
- The founder of Abraham's Fortune Wellness center
- A life coach practitioner
- Qualified in psychology & sociology
- A student of Theology who obtained her master’s with a concentration in Christian Theology
In this episode, we discuss her challenging childhood, which involved being the victim of sexual abuse multiple times, a victim of violence and physical abuse followed by her brother committing first-degree murder.
She went on to suffer from an extreme sex addiction, which in totality lead to her planning her suicide. She tells us about the profound experience that saved her from the darkness.
This was such a powerful and heartfelt episode and I hope that you can take something away from it.
Please find Katelyn @ YouTube - Katelyn Townsend - Life Coach Practitioner
https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCSPb...
Facebook - Katelyn Townsend – Life Coach Practitioner
Instagram - @katelyn_townsend_life_coach
Twitter: Katelyn Townsend - Life Coach Practitioner@Coach_Katelyn_
www.Katelyntownsend.weebly.com
She can also be found as a moderator on the - BTC addiction support and recovery - Facebook group
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#13 - Ketamine Addiction & The Road to Recovery with Harry McGill
This is a particularly special podcast because I got to talk to my best friend of over 12 years.
We talk about our journey, which documents our struggles with drug addiction, suicidal thoughts, and the loss of friends.
We then go on to discuss how we escaped and have been slowly turning our lives around through traveling and other techniques.
Find harry on Insta @harrymcgill141
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#12 - High Performance and Finding Fulfilment with Callum Keen
BTC#12 In this episode, I talk to Callum Keen from Plant Calisthenics.
He is a calisthenics coach, movement specialist, and bird enthusiast.
We talk about some of the incredible feats that he has completed including a Murph and a weighted marathon that he did for his 21st birthday. This was very different from what I did for my 21st!
It's fair to say that Callum is an absolute beast.
Not only is he a highly optimised human physically, but he is also very knowledgable in the mental and spiritual realms.
We had a great chat I hope that you enjoy it.
Find Callum on Instagram @callum_plantcali
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#11 Finding your self-worth with Alyssa Sulli
In this episode, I speak to Alyssa Sulli.
Alyssa is an absolute powerhouse! She has managed a fortune 500 company, been a fund-raising event coordinator, a fitness coach, business owner and she is a public speaker.
Today she talks to us about her journey, her battle with eating disorders including bulimia, how she learned to accept her body, how she found self-worth, what self-love looks like to her, where she finds self-love in difficult times and where to find joy and fulfillment.
Alyssa was an amazing guest and she radiates nothing but good vibes.
Enjoy :)
Find Alyssa @
www.alyssasulli.com
Facebook - @alyssa.sulli
Instagram - @Alyssa.sulli
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#10 The healing journey - with Laura Chamberlain
This episode is with Laura Chamberlain
Laura is a qualified journalist and trainee yoga therapist. She discussed her healing journey and the various modalities and practises that she uses including hatha yoga, yoga Nidra and kirtan mantra meditation.
She is also an advocate for fempowerment and likes to help women find their power.
Please enjoy this episode
You can find Laura on
www.breakthechain.net under content creators
or on Instagram @yappyyogi
#9 - James Dear on Word of the bird podcast with comedian Jaydon Bird
This week I went on comedian Jaydon Birds Word of the bird podcast.
We spoke mainly about addiction and mental health.
Jaydon does some hilarious comedy skits. Find him @wordofthebird
#8 - Why did I started a mental health movement? with James Dear (on Grey Mental health podcast)
In this episode, I was on the Grey Mental Health podcast with Greyson Sarginson,
I discuss my own life and the events that brought about the decision to start a mental health movement.
We discuss a huge range of topics from addiction to spirituality.
Enjoy
# 7 - Why Do We Suffer? with Spiritual Teacher Acharya Das
I was very fortunate to be able to talk to Acharya Das.
Acharya Das is a teacher of the Vedic and Yoga philosophy, meditation and Kirtan. He has been teaching meditation all over the world for over 45 years including in prison systems.
We go through a small amount of his background and then cover questions such as
Why do we suffer?
Why are we here?
What is yoga?
Why do we use drugs?
How do we end suffering?
For anyone wise enough to go deeper into this subject please follow Acharya Das on youtube and his other social media.
Here are some links that he has provided me to go with this interview
This is a link to a meditation playlist on SoundCloud - https://soundcloud.com/acharyadas/set...
For just breath-work and Gauranga mantra – https://soundcloud.com/acharyadas/bre...
For Japa – https://soundcloud.com/acharyadas/jap...
For a session that has breath-work, Gauranga, japa and a kirtan – https://soundcloud.com/acharyadas/mym...
For video instructional and practice different types of mantra meditations – https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sFgnQ...
For yoga-nidra to help people relax and sleep – https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=c2Hlf...
Youtube Channel – https://www.youtube.com/acharyadas108
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#6 - Life After Heroin with Marek Hyde
In this podcast, I talk to my childhood friend Marek Hyde about his battle with drug addiction.
We have been friends since we were 6 years old so we have both been able to observe each other's downfall and battles with addiction. It has been incredibly refreshing to meet up on the other side of some seriously dark and challenging times. We discuss our realisations and Mareks experience doing the 12 step drug rehabilitation program.
I hope you enjoy this episode. Please don't forget to like, share and subscribe.
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#4 - Addiction, recovery, exercise and diet with Serge from Power Serge Wellness
Find him on facebook and Instagram @powersergewellness
He talks about his battles with alcoholism and the steps he has taken to overcome his addiction.
We both discuss our histories and some of the insecurities that we have had to overcome along the way.
He gives me a good education on diet and the negative effects that it can have on us.
Enjoy :)
#3 - The Truth About Addiction with Koorosh Rassekh
It was such a privilege to interview Koorosh Rassekh, one of the leading experts in addiction.
He is the founder of Evo health and wellness and a student and colleague of Gabor Maté. One of the world's most forward-thinking experts in addiction.
We discussed the root causes of addiction and ways to deal with this problem.
We talk about one of Gabor Maté's quotes, "it's not why the addiction, but rather why the pain" He explains that addiction is a very rational behavior because all we are trying to do is get out of pain. we should therefore not condemn our actions but rather look for a solution to a problem. We discussed a wide range of topics and I have learned so much from this conversation. I have already listened to it 3 times before posting this.
I sincerely hope that you enjoy it!
https://evohealthandwellness.com/
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#2 - Overcoming Trauma with Kyle Walker
I interview Kyle Walker from positive connections about overcoming trauma.
He discusses his own journey including healing from the trauma and abandonment that he experienced through being abandoned by his mother and put up for adoption.
We discuss radical self-responsibility and how we deal with trauma. Please follow break the chain and positive connections on social media.
@positive_connections
We really enjoyed this episode and we hope you do too! Break the chain.
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