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By Brenda Hoffman

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Welcome to Brenda's BlogSep 13, 2021

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07:06

Caretaking Exhaustion or Discomfort?

This episode is also available as a blog post: https://lifetapestrycreations.wordpress.com/2024/04/15/caretaking-exhaustion-or-discomfort/

Caretaking Exhaustion or Discomfort? is the title of this week's channeled blog. You, the caretaker, are becoming discerning. You often feel torn between your former caretaking role and your current need for independence. You wouldn't be in their orbit if you didn't have a heart attachment. If you wish to help that being in love, create the resources that provide the care they need and the freedom you long for. You have new skills; use them.

Copyright 2009-2024. All rights reserved. Feel free to share this content with others, post it on your blog, etc. But please maintain the integrity of this channel by including the channel's name, Brenda Hoffman, and the source website link: LifeTapestryCreations.com.

Apr 15, 202407:14

Free Falling Into You

This episode is also available as a blog post: https://lifetapestrycreations.wordpress.com/2024/04/08/free-falling-into-you/

Free Falling Into You is the title of this week's channeled blog. This eclipse season is more dramatic than most because it's a significant push into your new world. You're deciding whether you wish to dance through various frequencies, dimensions, or time frames or if you want to be more earthbound. You're determining your canvas of activities. This is a free-fall at its finest - something you'll be an expert at by this time next week.

Apr 08, 202406:29

Parallel Before Perpendicular Interactions

This episode is also available as a blog post: https://lifetapestrycreations.wordpress.com/2024/04/01/parallel-before-perpendicular-interactions/

Parallel Before Perpendicular Interactions is the title of this week's channeled blog. The correct answer for you today may not be tomorrow. You need to evolve a bit before establishing the right actions for yourself. Instead of basing your interactions on concepts, you're beginning to select friends because of similar frequencies - a system you've never before used while of the earth. You're all on unique paths, some parallel to yours and others perpendicular. Those on parallel paths are becoming acceptable. Those on perpendicular paths are still too "out there" for you. Not forever, but for now.

Apr 01, 202405:21

Let Go of Your Safety Net

This episode is also available as a blog post: https://lifetapestrycreations.wordpress.com/2024/03/125/let-go-of-your-safety-net/

Let Go of Your Safety Net is the title of this week's channeled blog. You have mixed emotions - most of which aren't cheerful or fun-filled. Such is to be expected. You're shedding your former persona minute by minute and creating a new being. Your discomfort indicates you're trying to hold your transition hostage. Let go and free-fall into your new being.

Mar 25, 202404:50

Deep or Quick Cleaning?

This episode is also available as a blog post: https://lifetapestrycreations.wordpress.com/2024/03/18/deep-or-quick-cleaning/

Deep or Quick Cleaning? All you've dreamed of is coming true whether you're active or sedentary. You can't fail, nor can you pretend to. Many of you are clearing issues that aren't a Universal requirement but a personal need or wish. You can choose either the labor-intensive route of sorting before discarding or the quick discard and leave practice. This is a self-cleaning activity with time and actions decided by you. This clearing process is an individual choice with no wrong answers.

Mar 18, 202406:19

Your Universal Action Plan

This episode is also available as a blog post: https://lifetapestrycreations.wordpress.com/2024/03/11/your-universal-action-plan/

Your Universal Action Plan is the title of this week's channeled blog. You're discovering new skills and beliefs. Some are counterintuitive to your former 3D lives - and some are counterintuitive to your former Universal lives. So slow down. This is merely a time of exploration, as was true when you were a 3D earth newborn. Explore your newness with a fresh acceptance of who you're becoming instead of who you once were.

Copyright 2009-2024. All rights reserved. Feel free to share this content with others, post it on your blog, etc. But please maintain the integrity of this channel by including the channel's name: Brenda Hoffman, and the source website link: LifeTapestryCreations.com.

Mar 11, 202405:12

Corralling Loved Ones?

This episode is also available as a blog post: https://lifetapestrycreations.wordpress.com/2024/03/04/corralling-loved-ones/

Corralling Loved Ones? is the title of this week's channeled blog. Even though you have a need to help loved ones enjoy this new world, they're receiving life support by being in your presence. Your instructor role is over. If you were to help - or in reality, push - others, you'd push them onto your path - not theirs. This new world is the opposite of what you once expected. Independence, freedom, and joy are one path. As are dependence, sameness, and fear. Which will you choose for yourself and others?

Copyright 2009-2024. All rights reserved. Feel free to share this content with others, post it on your blog, etc. But please maintain the integrity of this channel by including the channel's name: Brenda Hoffman, and the source website link: LifeTapestryCreations.com.

Mar 04, 202404:31

Let Go, It's Over

This episode is also available as a blog post: https://lifetapestrycreations.wordpress.com/2024/02/26/let-go-it's-over/

Let Go, It's Over is the title of this week's channeled blog. It's time to activate and celebrate your new being. This is the life you hoped and prayed for. Your earth fears will now be more like stubbing your toe than breaking your leg. You won't fail but become buoyant, knowing deep within that it is over. Let go, it's over.

Feb 26, 202403:44

Entering Your New Comfort Zone

This episode is also available as a blog post: https://lifetapestrycreations.wordpress.com/2024/02/19/entering-your-new-comfort-zone/

Entering Your New Comfort Zone is the title of this week's channeled blog. In 3D, those who didn't think similarly to you, or more importantly, to the social rules, were either outcasts or forced into the right 3D basket. It's time to expand your Universal repertoire to include varying degrees of difference and opposite opinions and actions. You've shamed yourself into following the 'right' actions and thoughts of others. A shame you're finally allowing to flow into the Universes to be repurposed.

Copyright 2009-2024. All rights reserved. Feel free to share this content with others, post it on your blog, etc. But please maintain the integrity of this channel by including the channel's name: Brenda Hoffman, and the source website link: LifeTapestryCreations.com.

Feb 19, 202407:21

Maybe Isn't an Option

This episode is also available as a blog post: https://lifetapestrycreations.wordpress.com/2024/02/12/maybe-isn't-an-option/

Maybe Isn't an Option is the title of this week's channeled blog. You'll likely astound yourself almost daily in the next few days "When or where did I become interested in that?" You'll clarify who you wish to become, not in terms of shoulds or have-tos, but of self-interest. "Maybe" is no longer an option. Nor is "Give it some time." In the next few days, you'll flit from activity to activity. This rapid personal decision time will change your life.

Copyright 2009-2024. All rights reserved. Feel free to share this content with others, post it on your blog, etc. But please maintain the integrity of this channel by including the channel's name: Brenda Hoffman, and the source website link: LifeTapestryCreations.com.

Feb 12, 202405:45

Exploring Night and Day

This episode is also available as a blog post: https://lifetapestrycreations.wordpress.com/2024/02/05/exploring-night-and-day/

Exploring Night and Day is the title of this week's channeled blog. The next few days will contain a sense of lightness and rightness. Your days will be shorter or different because you'll be roaming the Universes, discovering new interests and locations. These new actions won't be any more concrete than your sleep time. The next few days are about flitting from area to area, followed in the not-too-distant future with a more in-depth exploration of what interests you most.

Feb 05, 202407:27

Your Need to Be Perfect

This episode is also available as a blog post: https://lifetapestrycreations.wordpress.com/2024/01/29/your-need-to-be-perfect/

Your Need to Be Perfect is the title of this week's channeled blog. Because of your 3D training, it seems impossible to undo mistakes. Your fear of failure and not being perfect haunts you day and night, forcing you to try harder to be better. None of which is necessary. The actions or words you find painful, mean, or whatever self-punishment you claim are learning experiences that have little to do with your past, present, or future.

Jan 29, 202406:57

Everything's in Place

This episode is also available as a blog post: https://lifetapestrycreations.wordpress.com/2024/01/22/everything's-in-place/

Everything's in Place is the title of this week's channeled blog. As of this week, you and the earth successfully transitioned into the Age of Aquarius. The global focus will rapidly shift from industry and finances to caring for others, the earth, and yourself. Be yourself - the world needs you.

Jan 22, 202405:53

Creating Your World Within a World

This episode is also available as a blog post: https://lifetapestrycreations.wordpress.com/2024/01/15/creating-your-world-within-a-world/

Creating Your World Within a World is the title of this week's channeled blog. It's not what "they're" doing to you. It's what you're doing to you. This new world only seems complicated because you're applying 3D solutions and fears to simple solutions. Sense throughout your body. Once you spot or sense a heavy area, ask what needs to be healed, changed, or removed. Then, do what you sense, feel, see, or hear.

Jan 15, 202406:09

Fearful or Bored?

This episode is also available as a blog post: https://lifetapestrycreations.wordpress.com/2024/01/08/fearful-or-bored/

Fearful or Bored? is the title of this week's channeled blog. Maybe your feelings include hyper-anxiety or a disinterest in life. Feelings that indicate you're undergoing the dramatic shifts we of the Universes have long discussed. This is so because you question if you deserve joy, if it's appropriate to be joyful in a world filled with sadness, or if you want to shift from pain to joy. You're experiencing 3D knowledge that doesn't apply to your new world and fear of discovering how joyful your new world is.

Jan 08, 202406:24

Start Living - You're a Creator Angel

This episode is also available as a blog post: https://lifetapestrycreations.wordpress.com/2024/01/01/start-living-you're-a-creator-angel/

Start Living - You're a Creator Angel is the title of this week's channeled blog. It's beyond time to shift your thoughts from lack to abundance. Throw away your crutches, toss out your fears, and start displaying what you've always been capable of. No more whining, wishing, or hoping. You're fully alive. Now, start living.

Jan 01, 202405:25

Let Go And Come Alive

This episode is also available as a blog post: https://lifetapestrycreations.wordpress.com/2023/12/25/let-go-and-come-alive/

Let Go And Come Alive is the title of this week's channeled blog. You're changing 24 hours a day. At the same time, you're attempting to continue your 3D world demands - it's too much. Nothing seems to jell no matter how often you cry to the Universes or your inner being. You no longer want to comply with the demands of others, yet you feel like an unpleasant person, even to yourself. Freefall into who you've become - and ignore who you think you should be.

Dec 25, 202306:41

How Important Are You to You?

This episode is also available as a blog post: https://lifetapestrycreations.wordpress.com/2023/12/18/how-important-are-you-to-you/

How Important Are You to You? is the title of this week's channeled blog. The shift you're encountering combines Earth skills with Universal skill input, creating a wobble effect in your decision processes. This is a new world in which the dual being you're becoming is a display of possibilities for those who dare access them. Allow your Earth and Universal being to work together in peace and acceptance as you create new you.

Dec 18, 202306:31

Your Path Isn't a Group Effort

This episode is also available as a blog post: https://lifetapestrycreations.wordpress.com/2023/12/11/your/path/isn't/a/group/effort/

Your Path Isn't a Group Effort is the title of this week's channeled blog. You're honing your unique interests and determining where you want to fly next. Your attention span is shorter and splintered by multiple interests. And the same is true for those you interact with. You helped create this new world. Now, you're creating your new being, as are millions.

Dec 11, 202305:43

Accepting Your Freedom to Fly

This episode is also available as a blog post: https://lifetapestrycreations.wordpress.com/2023/12/04/accepting-your-freedom-to-fly/

Accepting Your Freedom to Fly is the title of this week's channeled blog. Whatever happens from this day forward will be less confusing because you faced your interpersonal fears. Your next phase is negating pretensions within and without. So much will change in the next few months that holding yourself back to care for others will seem ludicrous. You want to fly, and those you caretake want you tethered to the ground.

Dec 04, 202304:52

A Confusing Time

This episode is also available as a blog post: https://lifetapestrycreations.wordpress.com/2023/11/27/a-confusing-time/

A Confusing Time is the title of this week's channeled blog. Even though you wish to be with others or others want to be with you, the verbal messages you exchange might seem contrary to that. As is everyone, you're acknowledging and learning to use your inner voice. It's as if everyone is exploring their terrible twos simultaneously. So this might be an uncomfortable few days that won't become part of your future.

Nov 27, 202306:42

What Do You Need To Sparkle?

This episode is also available as a blog post: https://lifetapestrycreations.wordpress.com/2023/11/20/what-do-you-need-to-sparkle/

What Do You Need To Sparkle? is the title of this week's channeled blog. So much has happened recently that all you can imagine is pain. You're discovering pieces you once accepted but no longer have to. What makes you happy, sad, or angry? Those are your new parameters. The same is true for anyone who decided to transition. Parts of your discoveries will be rewarding and others fearful until you find it safe to be you, as is true for those you continue to cherish

Nov 20, 202307:09

Flow Through Your Final Exam

This episode is also available as a blog post: https://lifetapestrycreations.wordpress.com/2023/11/13/flow-through-your-final-exam/

Flow Through Your Final Exam is the title of this week's channeled blog. The energies of the past few weeks are all forward movements. But the intensity of those movements doesn't allow time to recuperate, as has been true throughout your transition. This is new you's final exam. Rest and flow through your final exam instead of resorting to 3D patterns of fear.

Nov 13, 202304:39

Emotional Healing - Check

This episode is also available as a blog post: https://lifetapestrycreations.wordpress.com/2023/11/06/emotional-healing-check/

Emotional Healing - Check is the title of this week's channeled blog. Pieces of your 3D life surfaced last week with unpleasant reminders of who you used to be and why. Yet, you couldn't describe how deeply pained you were. Part or all of last week's pain was likely caretaking beyond what you felt comfortable doing. It was too much for too long. This will be a healing, taking care-of-yourself week. Finally, realizing you can't take care of others unless you place yourself first.

Nov 06, 202307:23

Diamond Embellishment

This episode is also available as a blog post: https://lifetapestrycreations.wordpress.com/2023/10/30/diamond-embellishment/

Diamond Embellishment is the title of this week's channeled blog. A piece of your 3D life will be highlighted this week for removal. If you hadn't decided to complete this life in love, you might never have accessed this hidden piece. Eliminating this fear isn't a punishment but an expansion of your immense creation capabilities.

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Oct 30, 202305:26

Bountiful Self-Reward

This episode is also available as a blog post: https://lifetapestrycreations.wordpress.com/2023/10/23/Bountiful Self-Reward/

Bountiful Self-Reward is the title of this week's channeled blog. Your ability to create is part of your elemental skill set. One of the most important tasks you can initiate as a new Universal being is to create a joyful life. There's no need to hide to protect relationships, for anyone who decides to transition beyond 3D has the same creation skill set. What's the most bountiful self-reward you can think of? Create it. You have the skills.

Copyright 2009-2023. All rights reserved. Feel free to share this content with others, post it on your blog, etc. But please maintain the integrity of this channel by including the channel's name, Brenda Hoffman, and the source website link, LifeTapestryCreations.com.

Oct 23, 202306:02

The Wizards of Oz

This episode is also available as a blog post: https://lifetapestrycreations.wordpress.com/2023/05/08/the-wizards-of-oz/

The Wizards of Oz is the title of this week's channeled blog. Those of 3D and you speak two distinct languages that no longer intersect. Those of 3D are losing their ability to dominate the thoughts and actions of the masses. They are kings and queens without a country and, most often, without the financial or otherwise means of support generated by their outer-directed followers. You've created a new world dominated by your inner voice of self-rule.