But also, get therapy
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But also, get therapyDec 25, 2023
But also, breast milk butter
Breast milk vs breast butter, the return of Kimchi the dog and lots of cheating hypotheticals!
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But also, thank you for your review
Our season finale! Halima's dog nibling, family therapy and a special friend challenge.
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But also, what's the 'crack'
Halima's office gremlin, Mel's trip to Portugal and more friendship anxiety!
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But also, jeggings were never in
Halima's dry microwaveable dinner, Lipstick Alley and our experiences going out out!
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But also, needs? I don't know her
Mel's anxious attachment resurfaces, we went to watch Mahalia and people pleasing to our detriment!
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But also, get racist
Accidentally calling your friend 'baby', friends with different political views and gentrifiers can go to hell.
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But also, do you even lift, bro?
Halima is back from Brazil, navigating the gym as a femme person and feeling unsafe as a trans person.
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But also, gripse thy neighbour
Our love child (Plant Club), how do you go about finding community and feeling lonely in a big city.
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But also, 'your inner child' joined the chat
Do you man want a patreon, doing up baby voices in front of your friends and what parts of your inner child are you still trying to heal?
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But also, June in September
Our first guest ever! We have @Junebellebabe with us this episode discussing running away from London, dating men as a non-binary trans femme person and what our types really are!
We want to apologise for the sound quality this episode, it's our first time recording with 3 people in the same tiny room!
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But also, a friend of a friend of a friend
We are back with SEASON 4!!! This week we're talking all things friends of friends!
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But also, we'd prefer if you didn't
Boundaries, boundaries, and more boundaries!
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But also, should I unblock you?
Mel's love for brick phones, M&S has boooookey white staff and and how to have love for exes and ex-friends.
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But also, hbd lol
Thanking people at zebra crossings, Father's Day was shit and how we want to be celebrated!
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But also, content with resent
Our weekend in Cornwall, Halima surfing and our feelings of resent in life!
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But also, old buddy old pal
Would we ever date, what can garlic NOT save and what we bring to friendships!
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But also, divorce is always on the table
Wearing the same outfit three days in the row, how being alone makes us feel and asking for space from your partner!
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But also, is your mum home?
Showing up at your friend's house unannounced, meeting your friend's parents and navigating relationships with your partner's parents.
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But also, come as you are
Dating someone who can't sing, feeling ugly and unlearning our fatphobia!
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But also, working 9 to Fine
Halima's work crush, our first jobs and imposter syndrome!
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But also, call me when it gets better
What we've been up to over the last 6 months, grief, loss and how expensive funerals are!
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But also, enjoy your Christmas bonus
Merry Christmas from us to you!
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But also, I did nothing wrong this year
Happy season finale! Today we talk about shit sunday roasts, reflecting on our year in 2022 and our hopes for the coming new year!
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But also, you're on smoke
LinkedIn wankers, dealing with anger and how to self-regulate!
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But also, wtf is bubble and squeak?
Halima never getting the ick, how we assimilated in this england and a disclaimer to white people!
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But also, two break-ups away from peace
Toilet etiquette, how to know when to break up and checking in on our friendship!
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But also, forgive yourself
Stalking your friends, things we still can't forgive ourselves for and tips on how to forgive yourself!
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But also, I'm sorry about last night
Which colour would Halima move to, our relationship to alcohol growing up and surface level friendships!
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But also, it's okay if they leave you
What we brought to therapy this week, cleaning your airpods and attachment styles part 2!
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But also, transfer me 12p
Our relationship to money individually, in a relationship and with friends!
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But also, do your parents lipse?
Mel gets recognised, parents showing affection and our first break up message!
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But also, 23kg of emotional baggage
Holidaying with friends, chicken kievs and Halima's evil ring!
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But also, anyone can get it
OUR SEASON FINALE!
Body image and gender dysphoria during sex, sexuality and masturbation!
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But also, they're evil eyeing you
Lipsing your dog, comparing yourself to your friends and judging your partner on their job.
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But also, gender is fake
What our first learned ideas of gender were, being misgendered and accepting you're transphobic!
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But also, when will you love me?
Our anxious attachment styles, white people at christmas and is liking someone only because they're buff a bad thing?
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But also, your parents should get therapy
Our relationship to our parents and their mental health, Halima's Geordie accent and another listener letter!
TRIGGER WARNING TIME STAMPS:
41:30 - Suicide
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But also, eat it, it's good for you
Our family dynamic around food, fat-phobia and being a French rat.
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But also, it's probably a fetish
Interracial dating, loving missionary and "I don't find my partner attractive".
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But also, it's not you, it's us
Friendship break-ups, keeping your ex's number and our first ever listener letter!
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But also, 'single-sex' schools suck
Why 'single-sex' schools suck, bribing lunch ladies and doing the most for 'male' attention.
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But also, who are we?
Why we started this podcast, how we met and the maddest thing we've done for exes.
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