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By Madison Strothers

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Feminine Energy

But, Don’t Quote MeMar 25, 2022

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Kendrick and Drake Beef

Kendrick and Drake Beef

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May 10, 202401:01:38
Dating Like Carrie Bradshaw

Dating Like Carrie Bradshaw

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May 03, 202459:24
Therapeutic Soul Music Ft Frankiee Veney & Jo Pastel

Therapeutic Soul Music Ft Frankiee Veney & Jo Pastel

Hey y'all! This week we have two special guests! We brought on Frankiee Veney ( @kiddfrankiee) and Jo Pastel (@jopastel) to talk about their journey through music and their new music series "The Drop". Like, comment, subscribe, AND listen to the podcast episode! FOR MORE EPISODES : https://linktr.ee/Butdontquoteme @But Don't Quote Me Podcast Instagram: @butdontquoteme Tik Tok: @butdontquotemepod Lindie’s Instagram/ Twitter/ Tiktok @_lindior Lindie's Youtube : @Lindiors Life Madison Instagram / Twitter/ Tiktok @madisonolphelia Madison Youtube @MadisonOlphelia

Apr 26, 202459:48
The Influencers are NOT Influencing

The Influencers are NOT Influencing

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Apr 19, 202457:42
The Truth About Love Bombing

The Truth About Love Bombing

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Apr 14, 202401:01:38
Beefin With My Cohost

Beefin With My Cohost

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Apr 05, 202401:20:38
Diddy DIRTY Money

Diddy DIRTY Money

There must be something in the water because this week has been crazy.


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Mar 29, 202401:17:16
Look What The Money Make A B**** Do

Look What The Money Make A B**** Do

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Mar 22, 202452:26
When Is It TOO Much

When Is It TOO Much

Some relationships can be too much. When is the right time to end the relationship? Find out in this episode.


Plus, we get into love is blind for the "You Didn't Hear This From Me " section of the episode.

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Mar 12, 202401:03:52
Is Music Trash Now?

Is Music Trash Now?

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Mar 01, 202401:03:18
 Girl, Advocate For Yourself!

Girl, Advocate For Yourself!

Happy Black History Month!


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Feb 23, 202447:56
Dating is Fun? ft Dully

Dating is Fun? ft Dully

We're back with a special guest and we're talking about keeping dating positive. Special thanks to Dully (@king.ceesay) for coming on!


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Feb 16, 202401:12:54
Grammys and Grudges

Grammys and Grudges

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Feb 09, 202446:52
Nicki Minaj Vs Megan Thee Stallion | Thee Girls Are BEEFING

Nicki Minaj Vs Megan Thee Stallion | Thee Girls Are BEEFING

Nicki Minaj Vs Megan Thee Stallion?????



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Feb 02, 202401:02:46
Can You Have Male Friends?

Can You Have Male Friends?

This week, we're talking about being the only single friend, influencer drama, and male friends being weird.


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Jan 26, 202401:04:28
The Price of Living Alone

The Price of Living Alone

We are starting 2024 with a bang! We're discussing the price of living alone and how we plan to do things differently.


Plus, we get into the girl going viral for lying about STDs!!!!'






Don't be afraid to start something and make sure you enjoy the journey.

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Jan 19, 202401:11:47
Start Where You Are

Start Where You Are

Don't be afraid to start something and make sure you enjoy the journey.

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Dec 22, 202346:59
My Best Friend Knew He Was Cheating

My Best Friend Knew He Was Cheating

This week we're discussing hairstylists being colorists and why you should probably start snitching.


Dec 15, 202356:14
Toxic Situationships

Toxic Situationships

This week we're getting into toxic situationships, unclear commitment, and wanting more for yourself.


Plus, we talk about Rubi Rose's #1 spender and why people don't like Ashanti.


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Dec 08, 202357:18
Diddy vs Cassie

Diddy vs Cassie

This week we jump into our life updates and what we're thankful for this year.


We also talk about the civil case brought onto Diddy this week and why this was bound to happen.

Dec 08, 202301:19:50
That Man Is Problematic

That Man Is Problematic

This week we're talking about Keke Palmer accusing her son's father of domestic abuse and Sarunas Jackson coming to his defense.


We also get into whether children should be forced into Tiktok stardom.


Nov 13, 202301:15:02
Love Is A Risk

Love Is A Risk

This week we're talking about the KFS Podcast ending too soon and Diddy not being allowed to wear a Joker costume.


Later in the episode, we speak about hurting other people based on past relationships and which gender does it more.



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Nov 03, 202301:26:41
He Took Me To The Cheesecake Factory

He Took Me To The Cheesecake Factory

This week Lindie and Madison read the viral list of unacceptable places for a first date. Plus, they reminisce on some of their worst first dates.


They also find out whether DJ Envy is the scammer of the year! Tune in now.

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Oct 27, 202358:12
What Is Wrong With The World

What Is Wrong With The World

This week we talk about the war between Israel and Palestine.


We also get into birthday beef on TikTok and our thoughts on marriage.

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Oct 20, 202301:21:13
Friends With Different Lifestyles

Friends With Different Lifestyles

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Oct 13, 202301:15:24
Why Would You Post That?

Why Would You Post That?

Should you judge someone by their social media? Or should you only judge them by what they do in person? Find out on our new episode RIGHT NOW!!

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Sep 29, 202339:57
We're Getting Divorced

We're Getting Divorced

This week we're discussing everyone getting divorced this year and what we think about idolizing someone's marriage.


Plus, we dive into super juicy questions about US! Stay tuned

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Sep 22, 202301:07:35
Besties and Business Don't Mix

Besties and Business Don't Mix

This week, we get into whether you should get into business with a friend and what happens when it goes wrong.


Plus we get into our emotional availability. Stay tuned

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Sep 15, 202301:10:01
Men Can't Handle Rejection

Men Can't Handle Rejection

If you've ever been repeatedly asked for your number after saying no, this episode is for you.


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Sep 08, 202355:41
Stop Seeking Male Validation

Stop Seeking Male Validation

Sometimes your friends need a little TOO much validation! Find out why in this week's episode.

Plus we get into Pinkydoll using a light filter and the shooting at UNC-Chapel Hill.

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Sep 01, 202359:50
Dating in 2023 is Embarassing

Dating in 2023 is Embarassing

This week we're discussing our dating lives, communication challenges, and our general thoughts about getting to know men.

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Aug 25, 202301:03:11
Strangers Are Your Friends?

Strangers Are Your Friends?

Who knew that the folding chair would be such a great weapon? Not us!

Make sure you tap into this week's episode to hear our thoughts on the Alabama brawl, Tory Lanez's jail sentence, and Parasocial Relationships.

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Aug 11, 202348:16
Sex on the first date

Sex on the first date

First dates can be crazy as hell. Listen to us give you all the tea on how we prepare and what we do on the dates.


We also discuss the government hiding aliens and the 16-year-old TikTok star twerking in the new Ice Spice video.


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Jul 28, 202301:07:11
The Journey to Reconciliation

The Journey to Reconciliation

This week we're talking about reconciliation and how long that process usually last for us after betrayal. We also discuss Carlee Russel's disappearance and the treatment of black women in investigations.

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Jul 21, 202301:06:46
Her Boyfriend is A Narcissist

Her Boyfriend is A Narcissist

Is Jonah Hill a bad boyfriend? His ex seems to think so, which is why we're discussing boundaries and why people want to change their partners.


TPlus, we get into A. I babies and why that's just weird.


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Jul 14, 202357:06
Please Tell Your Lovers and Friends

Please Tell Your Lovers and Friends

Chileeeee, we had to talk about Keke Palmer's baby daddy shaming the outfit she wore to the Usher concert. Should your partner have a say in what you wear? should it be addressed on social media?


We also get into boundaries with male friends and whether you should start off as friends before dating.


Jul 07, 202301:16:34
Originality is DEAD

Originality is DEAD

Are you constantly scrolling through social media and seeing the same shit. Are you wondering how long it'll last? Well so do we! Tap into the episode to see what we think!


Plus, we get into the BET awards and the Supreme Court case about Affirmative Action.


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Jun 30, 202301:01:44
The 100th Episode Of But Don't Quote Me

The 100th Episode Of But Don't Quote Me

This is our 100th Episode! Thank you so much for listening and supporting us on this journey.

On this episode, we get into our " You Aint Hear Dis From Me" where we talk about Sukihanna's assault, Summer Walker's Relationship and the missing Titanic Tour submarine.

After that we get into our podcast journey and what to look for in the future.

Jun 23, 202301:00:56
This Job Aint Worth It

This Job Aint Worth It

This week we started off our episode with the " You AInt Hear Dis From Me" where we dived into many topics such as the new Apple Features, the Kayla Nicole Divorce Criticism, and Cardi B Dissing Ice Spice.


We also get into our dating updates and the worst jobs we've ever had.....like we would never recommend them. We've seen the most interesting things at work from our teenage years to our adult lives and we're here to share.

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Jun 09, 202301:06:17
Gen Z Is Too Lazy

Gen Z Is Too Lazy

This week we discussed whether Gen-Z is "lazy". Many older people have said this on social media and we're here to discuss it. Do people have the same work ethic? Do we differ due to advancements in tech making things easier? Find out what we think.


Also, stay tuned for our " You Didn't Hear This From Me" where we talk about the passing of Miss JackyOh, Danileigh getting a DUI, and celebrities upgrading after relationships.


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Jun 02, 202301:00:21
Things I Learned By 25

Things I Learned By 25

This week we get into turning 25 and how to improve our present lives with hobbies, self-reflection, and love. We also get into the theatrics of Prom and why everyone is acting brand new!


00:00 Intro

7:50 You Didn't Hear This From Me

( Latto's New Song Trending On Tiktok, Prom Theatrics, Comparing 2016 Prom to 2023 Prom)

19:59 Turning 25, Intentional Dating and Hinge



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May 26, 202301:04:41
Healthy Hot Girls

Healthy Hot Girls

We're talking about getting fit and healthy for the summer. Meal Prepping, Hitting the Gym, and Journaling. Not only do we want to get physically healthy but mentally healthy as well. Tune in to join us on this journey.

We also discuss the Ja Morant Gun Suspension and Why People are mad at Gabrielle Union.


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May 19, 202357:40
Check In On You

Check In On You

This week we're celebrating Mental Health Awareness Month by having a mental checking in on our mental state so far this year. We also talk about Beyonce's tour and the Tarte controversy.

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May 12, 202301:28:01
Put Him On The Roster!

Put Him On The Roster!

How do you create a dating roster? Listen to this episode to hear us talk about the Met Gala, building a dating roster, and the trouble that comes with dating apps.


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May 05, 202301:22:53
Let's Talk About Sex

Let's Talk About Sex

In this episode, we discuss whether we think sex is too heavily engrained in our media and society. We also talk about putting your relationship history on social media


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Apr 28, 202301:24:07
Dealing With Jealous Friends

Dealing With Jealous Friends

This week we're discussing jealousy in friendships and how you should approach the situation. Do you stay or do you leave? We also get into our "You aint hear this from me" topics: Frank Ocean at Coachella and the random shootings that have been happening across the country.

Apr 21, 202301:19:40
I Think We Have Chemistry.

I Think We Have Chemistry.

What's the difference between chemistry and compatibility in dating? Come on this journey with us to find out. Plus we get into Chloe Bailey's album and the most broke man on Earth.

Apr 14, 202301:36:30
What Really Happened At Dreamville

What Really Happened At Dreamville

This week we're talking about seeing everyone at Dreamville, Angel Reese, Trump going to jail, and the "Masculinity" List on Tiktok.

Apr 07, 202301:24:48
Self Care Down There Ft Dr. Charlsie Celestine

Self Care Down There Ft Dr. Charlsie Celestine

This week we have another special guest! We brought on Dr. Celestine of the For Vaginas Only Podcast, to talk about her experiences as a gynecologist and general ways to keep your vagina healthy. We also got into the topics of the week. Blac Chyna, Birthday Beef, and Jonathan Majors.
Mar 31, 202301:26:30
My Girlfriendssssssss ft Ro

My Girlfriendssssssss ft Ro

Can’t go wrong with a good group of Girlfriends! This week we brought on a special guest to talk about our friendship turn-ons and how to build a community as an adult.
Mar 24, 202301:21:57