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Camp Confidence

By Ayn Bernos and Rizza Lana-Sebastian

Two Filipina entrepreneurs, two journeys, one fun podcast about self-love, success, and confidence. Hosted by Ayn Bernos and Rizza Lana-Sebastian. ✨
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65: How to get your life together when dealing with "adulting" things? Answering YOUR questions!

Camp ConfidenceMar 27, 2022

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99: Updated Habits

99: Updated Habits

Ayn and Rizza explore the journey of forming new habits, and delving into the challenges and triumphs of making lasting changes in our lives. Think of it like having a heart-to-heart chat with your besties, sharing stories and tips to help you level up your habits game. So, pull up a chair and join the conversation!

Apr 16, 202436:49
98: Planning for the Future

98: Planning for the Future

In this exciting new episode, Ayn and Rizza dive deep into their favorite topic: planning. Join us as we explore the intricacies of setting realistic goals, knowing when to let go of a goal, and powering through setbacks to achieve our dreams. Get ready to supercharge your future plans and unleash your full potential.

Apr 07, 202428:41
97: Productivity Apps and Systems

97: Productivity Apps and Systems


Life can become overwhelming to the point where anxiety, breakdowns, or even burnout can occur. However, what if we could harness the benefits of apps and systems that are already readily available and easily accessible to us? How much could our lives improve, and how much more could we achieve if we learn to utilize and trust these tools? In this episode, Ayn and Rizza shared their updated systems and apps that have significantly enhanced their lifestyles and careers.

Mar 31, 202438:21
96: What if Money is Not Moneying?

96: What if Money is Not Moneying?

In this episode, Ayn and Rizza talk about money as a tool for creating positive impact in their personal lives and the people around them. But what happens when reality strikes? How do we handle situations that require us to slow down, recalibrate, and approach matters more logically? What if money, as our Gen Z madams would say, isn’t moneying?

Mar 24, 202435:24
95: 2023 Life Updates & Updated Goals for 2024

95: 2023 Life Updates & Updated Goals for 2024

Camp Confidence is back for Season 9! In this episode, Ayn and Rizza will walk you through what happened with their respective careers in 2023, along with relationship updates, fitness progress and targets, and their updated goals for 2024.

Don't forget to answer this episode’s worksheet, downloadable via Instagram: @campconfidenceradio.

Mar 17, 202440:20
94: How To Set Boundaries In A Filipino Family

94: How To Set Boundaries In A Filipino Family

As Filipinos, we are raised to have close family ties. But what if closeness becomes intrusive? Listen as our internet ates Ayn and Rizza share their own experiences on setting boundaries with the people we love the most--our family.

May 28, 202324:39
93: How To Not Believe Everything You See Online

93: How To Not Believe Everything You See Online

Social media can either be a friend or a foe. As fake news and disinformation have become rampant, what are the ways to become more vigilant in believing what you see online? In this episode, Rizza and Ayn talk about how to not believe everything that we see online.

May 21, 202320:39
92: How To Survive College

92: How To Survive College

College is probably one of the best but most challenging chapters of our lives--from finishing course requirements, building relationships, and being prepared for life's bigger tests. How did Ayn and Rizza survive their college days? Listen as our internet ates look back at the formative years of their lives.

May 14, 202328:28
91: How to make your work work for you?

91: How to make your work work for you?

With the advent of quiet-quitting, rage applying, and romanticizing overworking, how does one keep up with her job and survive the corporate world? For this episode, Ayn and Rizza look back at their employee days and reminisce how they made their work work for them.

May 07, 202327:41
90: Sustaining Fitness Habits

90: Sustaining Fitness Habits

Ayn and Rizza started 2023 by being more detailed about their fitness goals and staying faithful to their fitness habits. In this episode, they share how they have been sustaining these habits such as the programs they take, the workouts they do, and the mindset they have to achieve their goals.

Apr 30, 202326:33
89: The Beautiful and Not-So Beautiful Side of Pageantry

89: The Beautiful and Not-So Beautiful Side of Pageantry

It's pageant season again as Miss Universe Philippines is set to happen soon. For this episode, let's relieve and discover some of Ayn's experiences when she joined Miss Universe Philippines in 2021 as Rizza asks her about the beautiful and not-so-beautiful side of pageantry.

Apr 23, 202336:20
88: How To Stop Settling For Less?

88: How To Stop Settling For Less?

At some point, we all wish to get what we deserve in all aspects of life. But due to some circumstances, there are times when we choose to settle for less. In this episode, your internet ates Rizza and Ayn give some tips and share their experiences how can we stop settling for less!

Apr 16, 202330:34
87: What Makes A Woman Influential?

87: What Makes A Woman Influential?

The words "goals," "life peg," and "influence" can easily be associated with anyone on social media today. For this episode, Rizza and Ayn tackle their thoughts on what makes a woman influential together with the editors of Cosmo.ph, Ira and Andie!

Apr 09, 202329:08
86: How Can You Say You’re Really Happy?

86: How Can You Say You’re Really Happy?

"How happy are you today?" is one question we always get asked. As expected, we have different answers. But how can one really say that she is truly, genuinely happy? Ayn and Rizza ponder on this question and weigh down on things that can truly make them happy.

Apr 05, 202332:14
85: Planning The Best Revenge Travel

85: Planning The Best Revenge Travel

They say that 2023 is the year of "revenge travel!" People are so excited to go back to travelling now that the pandemic is almost over and borders are already open. But how do you make sure that your "revenge travel" is worth it? Where should you go and what are the essentials you should bring? For this episode, your internet ates Rizza and Ayn give tips and share their own experiences as they help you out in planning the best revenge travel!

Mar 26, 202328:40
84: What are we currently watching now?

84: What are we currently watching now?

Rest is just as important as work and one form of relaxation is binge-watching your favorite shows! For this episode, Ayn and Rizza exchange stories about their current watch list, the shows they never get tired of watching over and over again, and how to binge responsibly.

Mar 19, 202329:46
83: What does it mean to be a “strong, independent woman?”

83: What does it mean to be a “strong, independent woman?”

Women are always admired for their strength and independence, being able to stand up and rise above challenges that come their way. But through the years, the definition of a "strong, independent woman" has evolved. In time for International Women's Month, Ayn and Rizza weigh in on what does it really mean to become a "strong, independent woman" and how does being one manifest in their lives.

Mar 12, 202339:01
82: How are we a "work-in-progress?"

82: How are we a "work-in-progress?"

Self-improvement is a never-ending journey, that's why each of us can be called a work-in-progress. After all, there is that mindset that we should strive for perfection. But do we really have to be perfect? Why should we embrace being a work-in-progress? In this episode, Rizza and Ayn talk about being a work-in-progress and how it allows them to continue growing and achieving their goals.

Mar 05, 202325:10
81: Systems We're Upgrading in 2023! (New Habits Part 2!)

81: Systems We're Upgrading in 2023! (New Habits Part 2!)

Let's talk about life systems we are updating this 2023 to make things as seamless and frictionless as possible. Picking up from our last episode, Rizza and Ayn discuss personal vs. work phones, yoga retreats, the 10k-step challenge, etc. If you have some tips for us, let us know in the comments or through Instagram @campconfidenceradio. Let’s talk!

Jan 25, 202336:17
80: Habits We’re Updating & Upgrading in 2023

80: Habits We’re Updating & Upgrading in 2023

Happy New Year, madams! Whether 2023 is a fresh start for you, or just another day, we’re here to discuss habits that we are updating for the upcoming months. From our spending habits to our sleeping routine, we’re eliminating what hasn’t worked for us and trying out some new techniques to make our lives easier. If you have some tips for us, let us know in the comments or through Instagram @campconfidenceradio. Let’s talk!

Jan 08, 202348:17
79: Want to get closer to your crush this Christmas? feat. closeup

79: Want to get closer to your crush this Christmas? feat. closeup

If Ayn and Rizza were single in 2022, what would they do? In today's episode of Camp Confidence Radio brought to us by closeup, we talked about our own meet cute stories -- how Rizza met her husband Josh and how Ayn met Ako Bahala Guy during the pandemic. Sit tight for some practical tips to get closer to your crush this Christmas in the freshest way possible.

Dec 18, 202242:55
78: Optimism in Action: How to stay positive and smile strong through adversity

78: Optimism in Action: How to stay positive and smile strong through adversity

We can’t avoid adversity, but when we smile strong with optimism, there is always a way forward. This is what Grab Driver Kuya Benjie Tandaya Estillore’s story tells us today. In this episode of Camp Confidence Radio in partnership with Colgate, we talk about what it means to be optimistic – what we can do to smile strong in the face of struggles. Let's talk about resilience and resourcefulness through stories of rejection, setbacks, and ultimately, success.  Watch the Colgate #SmileStrong Stories on Youtube here: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLrqHjdfkf_gXJXFtZqTC6u7KPCtvm7yAR

Nov 29, 202233:57
77: Surviving and thriving during tough times

77: Surviving and thriving during tough times

Tough times are supposed to make us tougher, but that doesn’t mean the process will ever be easy. In this episode of SUN Talks On Demand with Camp Confidence Radio, Rizza and Ayn talk about surviving business and personal challenges and finding ways to grow through them during the pandemic — and after. This is an episode of SUN Talks on Demand, brought to you by Sun Life Philippines. Vote Camp Confidence Radio as your favorite Sun Life podcaster and get a chance to win Php50,000 worth of Giftaway gift certificates from Sun Life.  

Cast your vote on this link: https://sunlife.co/vote_campconfidence

Nov 20, 202233:18
76: How to overcome and live with fears

76: How to overcome and live with fears

From the fear of being judged and losing money, to the fear of a fluctuating body image and starting over, in today’s Camp Confidence episode, Rizza and Ayn talk about their fears, what fears have taught them, and what they do now to overcome and live with them.

Nov 06, 202244:47
75: Navigating milestones: marriage, college, and everything in between

75: Navigating milestones: marriage, college, and everything in between

Rizza’s baby sister just got married and we’re feeling a little sentimental this episode, so let’s talk about major life milestones! From weddings and heartbreaks, to college and first jobs — here are some stories and lessons on how to smoothly transition from one stage of life to another.

Oct 25, 202244:03
74: How to turn your passion into a profitable business
Oct 16, 202251:53
73: When to walk away and how to move on

73: When to walk away and how to move on

Whether it's a relationship, a dream, or a business, walking away is no easy feat. But knowing when to walk away takes us one step closer to moving on and finding our best selves. In this episode, we talk about our favorite goodbyes and best lessons along the way.

Oct 02, 202245:37
72: How to start fresh in the middle of chaos?

72: How to start fresh in the middle of chaos?

Do you ever feel like you can't catch a break from your responsibilities? Your commitments? Your life? In this episode of Camp Confidence Radio, we talk about hitting a fresh start when it seems like it's the last thing you're supposed to do. Pause is progress, and other life lessons.

Sep 26, 202245:22
71: Making our lives easier and happier ft. our updated systems & workflows!

71: Making our lives easier and happier ft. our updated systems & workflows!

We are a perpetual work-in-progress here at Camp Confidence Radio, and in today’s episode we are sharing our latest systems, apps, mindsets, and workflows that are making our lives so much easier. Ayn and Rizza talk about unlearned habits and new self-care practices.

Sep 18, 202245:19
70: Dealing with inevitable change

70: Dealing with inevitable change

Change is constant and sometimes it can get overwhelming. How do you deal with change when your body is transforming? Your career is evolving? Your community is growing? And finally... what kind of mindset shift is required when life gets too fast? Let's talk about it, madams!

Sep 12, 202246:15
69: Life Lately with Madam Ayn and Madam Rizza!

69: Life Lately with Madam Ayn and Madam Rizza!

Hey Madams! We missed you so much! In this episode, let’s talk about what has happened since our last Camp Confidence recording. All the personal and business updates, some mini life lessons, and milestones. Are you ready to get back to it?! 🤎

Aug 24, 202251:41
68: CEO struggles and origin stories ft. Nina of Colourette

68: CEO struggles and origin stories ft. Nina of Colourette

Running a business and eventually being given an influential platform doesn't mean you can and you should take advantage of your customers. They are a lot smarter than we think and for good reason. Therefore, if we're vocal about the things we care about and fight for it will reflect with the whole business and potentially relate with your customers. Who knows, it might also turn into its own movement.

Apr 10, 202253:55
67: How putting SYSTEMS in place can help us navigate through the rough patch of personal development

67: How putting SYSTEMS in place can help us navigate through the rough patch of personal development

Once we acknowledge that our progress in personal development is never linear, we get a clearer picture of what aspects in our lives still need improvement while also being kind to ourselves whenever we fall short. Your resident systematic duo shares their tricks on how they track their goals, achievements, and past & current shortcomings to help you become the best version you can be!

Apr 03, 202255:51
SPECIAL EP: How to use your voice and SPEAK OUT ft. Avon

SPECIAL EP: How to use your voice and SPEAK OUT ft. Avon

Have you ever been in a situation where you can't seem to stand up for yourself? Have you ever felt silenced by condescension? Does "gaslighting" ring any bells? In this episode of Camp Confidence Radio, in partnership with Avon, we encourage our madamhood to #SpeakOut against verbal abuse and all forms of gender-based violence. Let's wrap up Women's Month with an episode where we get vulnerable, assertive, and use our voices.   Let us all fight gender-based violence with #SpeakOut Dialogues and raise funds and awareness to help abuse survivors. Participate in the Kumu Fundraising Livestreams this Mar 30 at 6PM or purchase fundraising items via Avonshop.ph where all funds go to NGO’s that support survivors of abuse.   With love, Rizza and Ayn!

Mar 30, 202240:02
65: How to get your life together when dealing with "adulting" things? Answering YOUR questions!

65: How to get your life together when dealing with "adulting" things? Answering YOUR questions!

Whenever we're overwhelmed with responsibilities that come with a lot of the decisions we make as adults, it can help to not only identify what causes the overwhelming feeling (so that we can figure out a workaround) but also to remind ourselves that we chose to carry such responsibilities in the first place. In this week's episode, Rizza and Ayn answer community questions about responsibilities, self-doubt, and how communicating with your parents can be one one of the most helpful things we can do when transitioning into adulthood.

Mar 27, 202238:47
64: How to try REALLY hard when odds are against you ft. Coach Lyqa

64: How to try REALLY hard when odds are against you ft. Coach Lyqa

When people don't believe your dreams or see your vision, what do you do? Do you give up? Do you power through? Today we chat with the OG EduCreator, Coach Lyqa Maravilla, about her journey towards her many career milestones. If you're wondering about your next career move or whether or not to continue on with a project that doesn't seem like it's going to pay off... listen with Rizza and Ayn, because they were blown away by Coach Lyqa's insights, too.

Mar 20, 202253:27
63: Personal finance but make it friendly ft. Sarah Carlos and Yani Moya

63: Personal finance but make it friendly ft. Sarah Carlos and Yani Moya

Money used to be so intimidating... and sometimes it still is! In this episode, we talk to the women behind Quarter Life Bliss, a podcast about friendly and judgement-free financial advice. Yani is a financial advisor. Sarah has an accounting degree. Together, they're your finance besties, finally taking the microphone to chat with your self-love besties, Ayn and Rizza.

Mar 13, 202250:22
62: Spilling the tea on what it's really like to launch a new brand

62: Spilling the tea on what it's really like to launch a new brand

Rizza is starting a new aesthetic clinic. Ayn just launched Kayu Beauty, a makeup brand, with her creator friends. What is it like to build a company from scratch? In this episode, we talk about the nitty gritty of entrepreneurship, business behind-the-scenes, and what social media doesn't show you.

Mar 06, 202250:10
61: How to know your worth and say NO? ft. our manager Yish Martin

61: How to know your worth and say NO? ft. our manager Yish Martin

As recovering people pleasers, Ayn and Rizza interview their talent manager Yish Martin to ask tips on knowing your self-worth and value, setting boundaries, and saying no... politely. Yish shares what it's like to go from employee to independent talent manager, and now talent agency founder. PS: This woman runs our careers so listen to her! Heehee.

Feb 27, 202246:56
60: How to deal with the fear of "not being there yet"? Answering YOUR questions!

60: How to deal with the fear of "not being there yet"? Answering YOUR questions!

How to deal with the fear of "not being there yet"? How to be confident in public even though you are making mistakes? How to love all the features you already have? This week, Rizza and Ayn are answering your questions about goals, businesses, and self-love. Just like old times.

Feb 20, 202250:23
59: How to navigate your 20s unapologetically? ft. Say Tioco

59: How to navigate your 20s unapologetically? ft. Say Tioco

The twenties are a tough, fun time. We're adults who barely know what we're doing, but we're expected to look like we have our life together. We love, we fall, we learn, and somehow we're surviving? How do we navigate this era unapologetically? This episode, we talk to Say Tioco, content creator, podcaster, and dear friend. Let's talk about the roaring twenties of our lives.

Feb 13, 202244:57
58: How to be okay with not being okay ft. Faith Corpuz

58: How to be okay with not being okay ft. Faith Corpuz

*Trigger Warning: This episode contains discussions about suicide.* How do you dig yourself out of a hole you can't seem to get out of? How do show up as a work-in-progress instead of a success story? In this episode of Camp Confidence Radio, we talk to content creator and entrepreneur Faith Corpuz about her struggles and wins against debt, self-doubt, and depression. Here's an inspiring story about the beautiful process of becoming.

Feb 06, 202242:45
57: How do I cultivate discipline to pursue my dreams? ft. Cleo Loque

57: How do I cultivate discipline to pursue my dreams? ft. Cleo Loque

How do you start pursuing your dreams when you already have so many responsibilities? In this episode, we get inspiration from Cleo Loque of Hiraya Pilipina, an 18-year old goal-getter who juggles school, a successful online biz, a content creation career, and her own podcast. It's Ate Rizza and Ate Ayn's turn to listen for advice. Woot!

Jan 30, 202236:36
56: How do I take charge of my identity? ft. Aaron Maniego

56: How do I take charge of my identity? ft. Aaron Maniego

How well do you know yourself? Are you willing to stand up for who you are? In this new season of Camp Confidence Radio, we are bringing in guests for fresh ideas, fun conversations, and a whole lot of learning. This week we have Aaron Maniego AKA the Pambansang Bortang Barbie of TikTok, who tells us what it means to be confident in your identity.

Jan 23, 202236:10
55: How 2021 changed our lives and all the lessons it taught us

55: How 2021 changed our lives and all the lessons it taught us

We started 2021 with a blank spreadsheet, a dream to grow Camp Confidence, and a few of you Madams. As the months rolled by, we filled our cells with ideas, questions, and a whole lot of lessons. Ayn joined Miss Universe Philippines. Rizza launched new brands. Our little podcast community grew. Let's talk about how this crazy year changed us for better and for worse. Happy New Year mga Madam!

Dec 26, 202154:40
54: How we make money as creators, solo adventures, and growth! Q&A Part 4!

54: How we make money as creators, solo adventures, and growth! Q&A Part 4!

How do you become a full-time content creator? Do I choose excellent grades or my mental health? Any tips for my first solo adventure? This week, Rizza and Ayn are answering your questions about business, school, travel, and more.

Dec 19, 202156:35
53: Singlehood, letting go of regrets, and money vs. fulfillment. Q&A Part 3!

53: Singlehood, letting go of regrets, and money vs. fulfillment. Q&A Part 3!

How do you deal with the pressure of *still* being single? How can I let go of my regrets? I think my boyfriend is staring at other women... Should I choose money or career fulfillment? Cash or passion? In this week's episode of Camp Confidence Radio, Rizza and Ayn answer more of your questions! Grab yourself a cup of tea and spend the next hour chatting with us.

Dec 12, 202101:09:15
52: Dealing with insecurities, hardest lessons, and change. Q&A Part 2!

52: Dealing with insecurities, hardest lessons, and change. Q&A Part 2!

In this week's Camp Confidence Radio episode, Rizza and Ayn answer more questions from our listeners. What do we do when someone says "nagbago ka na"? What's the hardest lesson we had to learn? Are dating apps the way go? How do we deal with insecurities? Get yourself a cup of tea and let's chat.

Dec 06, 202158:41
51: How do I even start ANYTHING? Q&A with our listeners!

51: How do I even start ANYTHING? Q&A with our listeners!

In this episode of Camp Confidence, Ayn and Rizza answer questions from YOU, our listeners! We talk about how to start anything, be it a business, a passion project, or a job hunting season. We also discuss burning out, our podcasting setup, and a whole bunch of your curiosities.

Nov 21, 202101:03:28
50: Life updates and lessons from the break

50: Life updates and lessons from the break

Camp Confidence is back with another season! In this episode, Rizza and Ayn catch up after a long hiatus. Let's chat about new business upgrades, personal milestones, new goals, and all the lessons we learned in the last few months.

Nov 14, 202149:37