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Can We Chill Podcast

Can We Chill Podcast

By Melissa & Vivian

#Canwechillpodcast hosted by Melissa & Vivian is something for the everyday person. We all see life from our unique perspectives. However these differences, unless understood can be frustrating. The girls get into the ins and outs of these differences, covering anything from society to cultures to relationships. Perspectives ✔️ Expectations ✔️ REALITY ✔️ Grab a drink and chill with us. Join in the chill session using the hashtag #canwechillpodcast Share your thoughts or your experiences with us, email, canwechillpodcast@mail.com Disclaimer - this is an honest and cheeky podcast!
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Episode 83 - Goodbye!
Episode 83 - Goodbye!
This week we discuss work ethic and laziness amongst our community. We talk about black people viewing each other in a more positive light. Finally, we speak about our podcast coming to an end, what we’ve learnt from the experience and what we’ve accomplished. Thank you to all of our listeners for your support. #Canwechillpodcast hosted by Melissa & Vivian is something for the everyday person. Since we all see life from our unique perspectives these differences need to be understood because if not, this can be frustrating. The girls get into the ins and outs of these differences, covering anything from society to cultures to relationships. Perspectives ✔️ Expectations ✔️ REALITY ✔️ Grab a drink and chill with us. Join the chill session using the hashtag #canwechillpod
01:06:42
May 15, 2022
Episode 82 - Let me see your phone!
Episode 82 - Let me see your phone!
This week we discuss snooping through your partners phone. We speak about how changes in technology have influenced relationships and communication. We also speak about whether you should let your other half go through your phone or your or is it private. #Canwechillpodcast hosted by Melissa & Vivian is something for the everyday person. Since we all see life from our unique perspectives these differences need to be understood because if not, this can be frustrating. The girls get into the ins and outs of these differences, covering anything from society to cultures to relationships. Perspectives ✔️ Expectations ✔️ REALITY ✔️ Grab a drink and chill with us. Join the chill session using the hashtag #canwechillpod
57:27
May 08, 2022
Episode 81 - Thriving for perfection
Episode 81 - Thriving for perfection
This week we discuss competition amongst women. We speak about women competing against each other and if the media is to blame for it. We also speak whether it’s hate or social media. We discuss if your subconscious influences your conscious mind. #Canwechillpodcast hosted by Melissa & Vivian is something for the everyday person. Since we all see life from our unique perspectives these differences need to be understood because if not, this can be frustrating. The girls get into the ins and outs of these differences, covering anything from society to cultures to relationships. Perspectives ✔️ Expectations ✔️ REALITY ✔️ Grab a drink and chill with us. Join the chill session using the hashtag #canwechillpod
01:07:16
May 01, 2022
Episode 80 - She was a control freak!
Episode 80 - She was a control freak!
This week we discuss our job history and some or our worst jobs. We speak about having a peace of mind when it comes to jobs and salary, how to navigate work and life and your self worth and value when it comes to employers. #Canwechillpodcast hosted by Melissa & Vivian is something for the everyday person. Since we all see life from our unique perspectives these differences need to be understood because if not, this can be frustrating. The girls get into the ins and outs of these differences, covering anything from society to cultures to relationships. Perspectives ✔️ Expectations ✔️ REALITY ✔️ Grab a drink and chill with us. Join the chill session using the hashtag #canwechillpod
01:07:46
April 24, 2022
Episode 79 - At best, you’re middle class!
Episode 79 - At best, you’re middle class!
This week we discuss external factors influencing peoples ideas of a successful relationship. We talk about unrealistic expectations, people being misled by fake narratives and what really matters in relationships. #Canwechillpodcast hosted by Melissa & Vivian is something for the everyday person. Since we all see life from our unique perspectives these differences need to be understood because if not, this can be frustrating. The girls get into the ins and outs of these differences, covering anything from society to cultures to relationships. Perspectives ✔️ Expectations ✔️ REALITY ✔️ Grab a drink and chill with us. Join the chill session using the hashtag #canwechillpod
01:00:59
April 17, 2022
Episode 78 - Let there be fireworks!
Episode 78 - Let there be fireworks!
This week we discuss boundaries and expectations. We talk about managing your expectations when dating someone and respecting people’s boundaries. We also speak about women avoiding situations and the way some men treat women. #Canwechillpodcast hosted by Melissa & Vivian is something for the everyday person. Since we all see life from our unique perspectives these differences need to be understood because if not, this can be frustrating. The girls get into the ins and outs of these differences, covering anything from society to cultures to relationships. Perspectives ✔️ Expectations ✔️ REALITY ✔️ Grab a drink and chill with us. Join the chill session using the hashtag #canwechillpod
59:29
April 10, 2022
Episode 77 - Blast from the past
Episode 77 - Blast from the past
This week we talk about regrets. We discuss situations about “the one that got away”. We talk about living in the past and old flames. We also talk about leaving people behind and confiding in different people. #Canwechillpodcast hosted by Melissa & Vivian is something for the everyday person. Since we all see life from our unique perspectives these differences need to be understood because if not, this can be frustrating. The girls get into the ins and outs of these differences, covering anything from society to cultures to relationships. Perspectives ✔️ Expectations ✔️ REALITY ✔️ Grab a drink and chill with us. Join the chill session using the hashtag #canwechillpod
51:47
April 03, 2022
Episode 76 - Living to work
Episode 76 - Living to work
This week we talk about the cost of living in the UK and the struggles people are facing at the moment. We speak about inflation, people making ends meet and the sacrifices people are making to live their life. #Canwechillpodcast hosted by Melissa & Vivian is something for the everyday person. Since we all see life from our unique perspectives these differences need to be understood because if not, this can be frustrating. The girls get into the ins and outs of these differences, covering anything from society to cultures to relationships. Perspectives ✔️ Expectations ✔️ REALITY ✔️ Grab a drink and chill with us. Join the chill session using the hashtag #canwechillpod
44:08
March 27, 2022
Episode 75 - We’re in a digital age!
Episode 75 - We’re in a digital age!
This week we talk all things digital. We speak about Apple’s marketing strategy. Is it marketing or is it manipulation? We also discuss people being hooked on Apple products and the comparison of other tech companies vs Apple. Book recommendation: Start With Why by Simon Sinek #Canwechillpodcast hosted by Melissa & Vivian is something for the everyday person. Since we all see life from our unique perspectives these differences need to be understood because if not, this can be frustrating. The girls get into the ins and outs of these differences, covering anything from society to cultures to relationships. Perspectives ✔️ Expectations ✔️ REALITY ✔️ Grab a drink and chill with us. Join the chill session using the hashtag #canwechillpod
55:57
March 20, 2022
Episode 74 - A Man’s best friend
Episode 74 - A Man’s best friend
This week we discuss “a man’s best friend”. We talk about how animals are treated in a western world. We speak about a fear of dogs and overcoming those fears. We also discuss how dogs can help you through a difficult time and help you with mental health issues. #Canwechillpodcast hosted by Melissa & Vivian is something for the everyday person. Since we all see life from our unique perspectives these differences need to be understood because if not, this can be frustrating. The girls get into the ins and outs of these differences, covering anything from society to cultures to relationships. Perspectives ✔️ Expectations ✔️ REALITY ✔️ Grab a drink and chill with us. Join the chill session using the hashtag #canwechillpod
48:27
March 13, 2022
Episode 73 - “She was a rude b*tch”
Episode 73 - “She was a rude b*tch”
This week we discuss culture clash. We discus how peoples culture translates differently to others and how people can view other cultures as rude and how some people use their backgrounds as excuses for rudeness. We also speak about a misappropriation of certain cultures. #Canwechillpodcast hosted by Melissa & Vivian is something for the everyday person. Since we all see life from our unique perspectives these differences need to be understood because if not, this can be frustrating. The girls get into the ins and outs of these differences, covering anything from society to cultures to relationships. Perspectives ✔️ Expectations ✔️ REALITY ✔️ Grab a drink and chill with us. Join the chill session using the hashtag #canwechillpod
53:41
March 06, 2022
Episode 72 - Leave some things alone!
Episode 72 - Leave some things alone!
This week we discuss television and the changes in shows that reflect todays society. We also speak about how racism is looked at in sports and why some things may never change. #Canwechillpodcast hosted by Melissa & Vivian is something for the everyday person. Since we all see life from our unique perspectives these differences need to be understood because if not, this can be frustrating. The girls get into the ins and outs of these differences, covering anything from society to cultures to relationships. Perspectives ✔️ Expectations ✔️ REALITY ✔️ Grab a drink and chill with us. Join the chill session using the hashtag #canwechillpod
01:14:21
February 27, 2022
Episode 71 - Wear the clothes don’t let the clothes wear you!
Episode 71 - Wear the clothes don’t let the clothes wear you!
This week we discuss dressing and fast fashion. We speak about of people should dress for their size or dress how they feel. We also discuss pressures that people feel to dress in a certain way. #Canwechillpodcast hosted by Melissa & Vivian is something for the everyday person. Since we all see life from our unique perspectives these differences need to be understood because if not, this can be frustrating. The girls get into the ins and outs of these differences, covering anything from society to cultures to relationships. Perspectives ✔️ Expectations ✔️ REALITY ✔️ Grab a drink and chill with us. Join the chill session using the hashtag #canwechillpod
54:53
February 20, 2022
Episode 70 - Celebrity Culture
Episode 70 - Celebrity Culture
This week we discuss celebrity lifestyle. We discuss celebrities keeping their business off of social media, the impact it has on people’s lives and relationships and whether the excessive use of social media has anything to do with age. #Canwechillpodcast hosted by Melissa & Vivian is something for the everyday person. Since we all see life from our unique perspectives these differences need to be understood because if not, this can be frustrating. The girls get into the ins and outs of these differences, covering anything from society to cultures to relationships. Perspectives ✔️ Expectations ✔️ REALITY ✔️ Grab a drink and chill with us. Join the chill session using the hashtag #canwechillpod
01:13:14
February 13, 2022
Episode 69 - Living on a budget
Episode 69 - Living on a budget
This week we discuss inflation in the UK. We discuss living and shopping on a budget. We also discuss veganism, eating healthy and unhealthy and driving and travelling in London. #Canwechillpodcast hosted by Melissa & Vivian is something for the everyday person. Since we all see life from our unique perspectives these differences need to be understood because if not, this can be frustrating. The girls get into the ins and outs of these differences, covering anything from society to cultures to relationships. Perspectives ✔️ Expectations ✔️ REALITY ✔️ Grab a drink and chill with us. Join the chill session using the hashtag #canwechillpod
01:14:32
February 06, 2022
Episode 68 - Moving on out
Episode 68 - Moving on out
This week we discuss moving out and living alone. We speak about sleeping patterns, not sleeping, using coping mechanisms and how peoples day to day life can affect their sleep. We also speak about pregnancy and fitness. #Canwechillpodcast hosted by Melissa & Vivian is something for the everyday person. Since we all see life from our unique perspectives these differences need to be understood because if not, this can be frustrating. The girls get into the ins and outs of these differences, covering anything from society to cultures to relationships. Perspectives ✔️ Expectations ✔️ REALITY ✔️ Grab a drink and chill with us. Join the chill session using the hashtag #canwechillpod
01:11:50
January 30, 2022
Episode 67 - Stop with the labels!
Episode 67 - Stop with the labels!
This week we speak about toxic masculinity, narcissism and misogyny. We discuss how people use these labels too loosely and what it means for people when in relationships/dating. We also speak about social media pushing certain agendas and people viewing men and women as the same. #Canwechillpodcast hosted by Melissa & Vivian is something for the everyday person. Since we all see life from our unique perspectives these differences need to be understood because if not, this can be frustrating. The girls get into the ins and outs of these differences, covering anything from society to cultures to relationships. Perspectives ✔️ Expectations ✔️ REALITY ✔️ Grab a drink and chill with us. Join the chill session using the hashtag #canwechillpod
01:03:04
January 23, 2022
Episode 66 - My car my rules!
Episode 66 - My car my rules!
This week we discuss driving, long journeys, drivers rules when driving and “passenger drivers”. We discuss how people are when they drink. We also speak about pregnancy responsibilities and unwanted pregnancy. #Canwechillpodcast hosted by Melissa & Vivian is something for the everyday person. Since we all see life from our unique perspectives these differences need to be understood because if not, this can be frustrating. The girls get into the ins and outs of these differences, covering anything from society to cultures to relationships. Perspectives ✔️ Expectations ✔️ REALITY ✔️ Grab a drink and chill with us. Join the chill session using the hashtag #canwechillpod
01:07:27
January 16, 2022
Episode 65 - Health is Wealth!
Episode 65 - Health is Wealth!
This week we discuss adapting to working from home. We speak about how the pandemic has impacted people’s work life balance. We also speak about how it can impact mental health. #Canwechillpodcast hosted by Melissa & Vivian is something for the everyday person. Since we all see life from our unique perspectives these differences need to be understood because if not, this can be frustrating. The girls get into the ins and outs of these differences, covering anything from society to cultures to relationships. Perspectives ✔️ Expectations ✔️ REALITY ✔️ Grab a drink and chill with us. Join the chill session using the hashtag #canwechillpod
01:00:32
January 09, 2022
Episode 64 - Some people have no decorum!
Episode 64 - Some people have no decorum!
This week we discuss arguing in public. We talk about “airing your dirty laundry” and keeping private discussions private. We also speak about guys liking crazy girls and seeing red flags in relationships. #Canwechillpodcast hosted by Melissa & Vivian is something for the everyday person. Since we all see life from our unique perspectives these differences need to be understood because if not, this can be frustrating. The girls get into the ins and outs of these differences, covering anything from society to cultures to relationships. Perspectives ✔️ Expectations ✔️ REALITY ✔️ Grab a drink and chill with us. Join the chill session using the hashtag #canwechillpod
01:07:03
January 02, 2022
Episode 63 - Let kids be kids!
Episode 63 - Let kids be kids!
This week we discuss pressures to go out on NYE and what makes a good New Years night. We speak about kids going “clubbing”, dating and parents managing/controlling their kids childhood. #Canwechillpodcast hosted by Melissa & Vivian is something for the everyday person. Since we all see life from our unique perspectives these differences need to be understood because if not, this can be frustrating. The girls get into the ins and outs of these differences, covering anything from society to cultures to relationships. Perspectives ✔️ Expectations ✔️ REALITY ✔️ Grab a drink and chill with us. Join the chill session using the hashtag #canwechillpod
59:34
December 26, 2021
Episode 62 - Gratitude is a must!
Episode 62 - Gratitude is a must!
This week on our Christmas episode we discuss the differences between Christmas in the UK and other countries. We speak about whether Christmas has changed over the years. We also discuss being being grateful during the festive period. #Canwechillpodcast hosted by Melissa & Vivian is something for the everyday person. Since we all see life from our unique perspectives these differences need to be understood because if not, this can be frustrating. The girls get into the ins and outs of these differences, covering anything from society to cultures to relationships. Perspectives ✔️ Expectations ✔️ REALITY ✔️ Grab a drink and chill with us. Join the chill session using the hashtag #canwechillpod
01:03:25
December 19, 2021
Episode 61 - Tailor how you speak to people to suit them!
Episode 61 - Tailor how you speak to people to suit them!
Episode 61 - Tailor how you speak to people to suit them! This week we discuss how people perceive bad situations and seeing a glass “half full” or “half empty”. We discuss how people should tailor their approach to a situation depending on the person in question. We also speak about negative people draining your energy. #Canwechillpodcast hosted by Melissa & Vivian is something for the everyday person. Since we all see life from our unique perspectives these differences need to be understood because if not, this can be frustrating. The girls get into the ins and outs of these differences, covering anything from society to cultures to relationships. Perspectives ✔️ Expectations ✔️ REALITY ✔️ Grab a drink and chill with us. Join the chill session using the hashtag #canwechillpod
01:04:23
December 12, 2021
Episode 60 - Dear Side Chicks
Episode 60 - Dear Side Chicks
This week we discuss “side chicks”. We talk about what is a side chick and how society defines it nowadays. We also speak about if someone will admit if they are a side chick and if it matters if they were around “first”. We also speak about if someone can love and respect you if they cheat. #Canwechillpodcast hosted by Melissa & Vivian is something for the everyday person. Since we all see life from our unique perspectives these differences need to be understood because if not, this can be frustrating. The girls get into the ins and outs of these differences, covering anything from society to cultures to relationships. Perspectives ✔️ Expectations ✔️ REALITY ✔️ Grab a drink and chill with us. Join the chill session using the hashtag #canwechillpod
01:02:42
December 05, 2021
Episode 59 - The 6 month commitment rule
Episode 59 - The 6 month commitment rule
This week we discuss men committing. We speak about how soon men commit and why it can seem long which can then cause women to apply pressure on men. We also discuss if marriage means anything nowadays and if you should provide information on a guy your friend is seeing. #Canwechillpodcast hosted by Melissa & Vivian is something for the everyday person. Since we all see life from our unique perspectives these differences need to be understood because if not, this can be frustrating. The girls get into the ins and outs of these differences, covering anything from society to cultures to relationships. Perspectives ✔️ Expectations ✔️ REALITY ✔️ Grab a drink and chill with us. Join the chill session using the hashtag #canwechillpod Share your thoughts or your experiences with us, email - canwechillpodcast@mail.com
01:05:41
November 28, 2021
Episode 58 - Some people only listen to respond!
Episode 58 - Some people only listen to respond!
This week we discuss behaviours of manipulation and deflection. We speak about how different people act at work and in their personal lives. We also discuss “switch tracking” in conversations and defensive mechanisms. #Canwechillpodcast hosted by Melissa & Vivian is something for the everyday person. Since we all see life from our unique perspectives these differences need to be understood because if not, this can be frustrating. The girls get into the ins and outs of these differences, covering anything from society to cultures to relationships. Perspectives ✔️ Expectations ✔️ REALITY ✔️ Grab a drink and chill with us. Join the chill session using the hashtag #canwechillpod Share your thoughts or your experiences with us, email - canwechillpodcast@mail.com
53:28
November 21, 2021
Episode 57 - It’s your own fault if you get catfished!
Episode 57 - It’s your own fault if you get catfished!
This week we discuss catfishing. We speak about whether you can allow yourself to be catfished and how some people do not understand the reality of situations they’re in. We also speak the lengths people will go to and if people who experience catfishing deserve sympathy. #Canwechillpodcast hosted by Melissa & Vivian is something for the everyday person. Since we all see life from our unique perspectives these differences need to be understood because if not, this can be frustrating. The girls get into the ins and outs of these differences, covering anything from society to cultures to relationships. Perspectives ✔️ Expectations ✔️ REALITY ✔️ Grab a drink and chill with us. Join the chill session using the hashtag #canwechillpod Share your thoughts or your experiences with us, email - canwechillpodcast@mail.com
01:13:50
November 14, 2021
Episode 56 - Do women have hypocritical standards?
Episode 56 - Do women have hypocritical standards?
This week we discuss the level of standards set by women and if men respond to them accordingly. We discuss if these standards are low, high and hypocritical. We also speak about the importance of intimacy in relationships, women "keeping" men with sex and holding sex hostage. #Canwechillpodcast hosted by Melissa & Vivian is something for the everyday person. Since we all see life from our unique perspectives these differences need to be understood because if not, this can be frustrating. The girls get into the ins and outs of these differences, covering anything from society to cultures to relationships. Perspectives ✔️ Expectations ✔️ REALITY ✔️ Grab a drink and chill with us. Join the chill session using the hashtag #canwechillpod Share your thoughts or your experiences with us, email - canwechillpodcast@mail.com
01:08:07
November 07, 2021
Episode 55 - You're raising children and you're acting like children
Episode 55 - You're raising children and you're acting like children
This week we discuss the importance of maintaining a good relationship when mothers and fathers are no longer together. We speak about the difficulties parents experience when co-parenting and the conflicting matters within the relationship. We discuss 'she trapped me' and 'he's a deadbeat father' and how parents should respect each other regardless of their views and opinions of one another. #Canwechillpodcast hosted by Melissa & Vivian is something for the everyday person. Since we all see life from our unique perspectives these differences need to be understood because if not, this can be frustrating. The girls get into the ins and outs of these differences, covering anything from society to cultures to relationships. Perspectives ✔️ Expectations ✔️ REALITY ✔️ Grab a drink and chill with us. Join the chill session using the hashtag #canwechillpod Share your thoughts or your experiences with us, email - canwechillpodcast@mail.com
01:08:46
October 31, 2021
Episode 54 - Should you love being single?
Episode 54 - Should you love being single?
This week with our guest we discuss if someone loving you determines your worth. We also discuss the difference between loneliness and being alone. We speak about how single people are viewed/judged in society and friends being jealous of their friends relationships status. Guest: Letwin - Instagram: @princessletwin #Canwechillpodcast hosted by Melissa & Vivian is something for the everyday person. Since we all see life from our unique perspectives these differences need to be understood because if not, this can be frustrating. The girls get into the ins and outs of these differences, covering anything from society to cultures to relationships. Perspectives ✔️ Expectations ✔️ REALITY ✔️ Grab a drink and chill with us. Join the chill session using the hashtag #canwechillpod Share your thoughts or your experiences with us, email - canwechillpodcast@mail.com
01:18:59
October 24, 2021
Episode 53 - I don’t respect my friends partner
Episode 53 - I don’t respect my friends partner
This week we discuss the importance of how you choose to discuss your partner to others and how what you say can impact their relationship and cause friction between them. We speak about dealing with issues with your partner and family and friends involvement in your relationship. We also touch on needs vs wants in potential partners and relationships. #Canwechillpodcast hosted by Melissa & Vivian is something for the everyday person. Since we all see life from our unique perspectives these differences need to be understood because if not, this can be frustrating. The girls get into the ins and outs of these differences, covering anything from society to cultures to relationships. Perspectives ✔️ Expectations ✔️ REALITY ✔️ Grab a drink and chill with us. Join the chill session using the hashtag #canwechillpod Share your thoughts or your experiences with us, email - canwechillpodcast@mail.com
01:11:06
October 17, 2021
Episode 52 - Don’t smile at my man!
Episode 52 - Don’t smile at my man!
This week we discuss women being overprotective and fearful in relationships. We speak about being insecure and dealing with those insecurities. We also discuss some external things which can influence behaviours in people’s relationships. #Canwechillpodcast hosted by Melissa & Vivian is something for the everyday person. Since we all see life from our unique perspectives these differences need to be understood because if not, this can be frustrating. The girls get into the ins and outs of these differences, covering anything from society to cultures to relationships. Perspectives ✔️ Expectations ✔️ REALITY ✔️ Grab a drink and chill with us. Join the chill session using the hashtag #canwechillpod Share your thoughts or your experiences with us, email - canwechillpodcast@mail.com
59:28
October 10, 2021
Episode 51 - Do fairytales affect our expectations and perception of reality?
Episode 51 - Do fairytales affect our expectations and perception of reality?
This week we speak about if there is a correlation between Disney/fairytale movies and whether they are to blame for women’s expectations when in relationships. We speak about wanting the ring, single women walking in the spirit of a wife, marriage and being the “real you”. We also discuss  young girls being raised differently to young boys. #Canwechillpodcast hosted by Melissa & Vivian is something for the everyday person. Since we all see life from our unique perspectives these differences need to be understood because if not, this can be frustrating. The girls get into the ins and outs of these differences, covering anything from society to cultures to relationships. Perspectives ✔️ Expectations ✔️ REALITY ✔️ Grab a drink and chill with us. Join the chill session using the hashtag #canwechillpod Share your thoughts or your experiences with us, email - canwechillpodcast@mail.com
59:41
October 03, 2021
Episode 50 - Qualities women want in men
Episode 50 - Qualities women want in men
This week we discuss qualities we look for in men when dating. We discuss the importance of these qualities and why they matter in a man. We also speak about partners being aware of each other’s feelings and mind reading. #Canwechillpodcast hosted by Melissa & Vivian is something for the everyday person. Since we all see life from our unique perspectives these differences need to be understood because if not, this can be frustrating. The girls get into the ins and outs of these differences, covering anything from society to cultures to relationships. Perspectives ✔️ Expectations ✔️ REALITY ✔️ Grab a drink and chill with us. Join the chill session using the hashtag #canwechillpod Share your thoughts or your experiences with us, email - canwechillpodcast@mail.com
01:21:34
September 26, 2021
Episode 49 - Why can’t you be on time?
Episode 49 - Why can’t you be on time?
This week we discuss punctuality. We discuss why people are late, whether they choose to be late and the excuses people make. We also speak about punctuality in social and professional settings. We discuss people being fashionably late on dates and “black people timing”. #Canwechillpodcast hosted by Melissa & Vivian is something for the everyday person. Since we all see life from our unique perspectives these differences need to be understood because if not, this can be frustrating. The girls get into the ins and outs of these differences, covering anything from society to cultures to relationships. Perspectives ✔️ Expectations ✔️ REALITY ✔️ Grab a drink and chill with us. Join the chill session using the hashtag #canwechillpod Share your thoughts or your experiences with us, email - canwechillpodcast@mail.com
01:02:49
September 19, 2021
Episode 48 - Nice guys vs Bad guys
Episode 48 - Nice guys vs Bad guys
This week we discuss nice guys and bad guys. We try to define the difference between a “good guy” and a “nice guy”. We also speak about bad boys, what makes a bad boy and why some girls like them. We touch on friends seeking advice from friends and how that can influence their relationships. We speak on the importance of therapy as part of everyday life. #Canwechillpodcast hosted by Melissa & Vivian is something for the everyday person. Since we all see life from our unique perspectives these differences need to be understood because if not, this can be frustrating. The girls get into the ins and outs of these differences, covering anything from society to cultures to relationships. Perspectives ✔️ Expectations ✔️ REALITY ✔️ Grab a drink and chill with us. Join the chill session using the hashtag #canwechillpod Share your thoughts or your experiences with us, email - canwechillpodcast@mail.com
01:02:11
September 12, 2021
Episode 47 - Why don’t you have anything on the menu?
Episode 47 - Why don’t you have anything on the menu?
This week we discuss issues surrounding black owned restaurants. We speak about London and how certain places have become gentrified. We also discuss covid and how people have changed since the beginning of the pandemic. #Canwechillpodcast hosted by Melissa & Vivian is something for the everyday person. Since we all see life from our unique perspectives these differences need to be understood because if not, this can be frustrating. The girls get into the ins and outs of these differences, covering anything from society to cultures to relationships. Perspectives ✔️ Expectations ✔️ REALITY ✔️ Grab a drink and chill with us. Join the chill session using the hashtag #canwechillpod Share your thoughts or your experiences with us, email - canwechillpodcast@mail.com
55:41
September 05, 2021
Episode 46 - Is social media to blame for people cheating?
Episode 46 - Is social media to blame for people cheating?
This week we are joined by our guest to talk about cheating and if social media has made it easier for people to cheat. We discuss people in relationships liking and commenting on people’s posts who they find attractive. We also speak about people in a relationship sharing passwords. #Canwechillpodcast hosted by Melissa & Vivian is something for the everyday person. Since we all see life from our unique perspectives these differences need to be understood because if not, this can be frustrating. The girls get into the ins and outs of these differences, covering anything from society to cultures to relationships. Perspectives ✔️ Expectations ✔️ REALITY ✔️ Grab a drink and chill with us. Join the chill session using the hashtag #canwechillpod Share your thoughts or your experiences with us, email - canwechillpodcast@mail.com
01:28:00
August 29, 2021
Episode 45 - I don’t have any feelings
Episode 45 - I don’t have any feelings
This week we discuss rationality and emotions. We speak about if the world would be a better place if people thought less with their feelings and emotions or more with logic. We discuss how people perceive feelings as being negative. We also speak about being having emotional intelligence. #Canwechillpodcast hosted by Melissa & Vivian is something for the everyday person. Since we all see life from our unique perspectives these differences need to be understood because if not, this can be frustrating. The girls get into the ins and outs of these differences, covering anything from society to cultures to relationships. Perspectives ✔️ Expectations ✔️ REALITY ✔️ Grab a drink and chill with us. Join the chill session using the hashtag #canwechillpod Share your thoughts or your experiences with us, email - canwechillpodcast@mail.com
01:17:45
August 22, 2021
Episode 44 - Is it ok for my friend to date my ex?
Episode 44 - Is it ok for my friend to date my ex?
This week we discuss with our guest friends dating exes. We speak about girls allowing their friends to moving forward with a guy “they saw first”. We talk about if we would date our friends exes and if we would want our friends to date our exes and whether acquaintances are held to the same standards as friends. We also discuss whether or not we would tell our friends if their ex boyfriends tried to date us and why. Guest: Letwin - Instagram: @princessletwin #Canwechillpodcast hosted by Melissa & Vivian is something for the everyday person. Since we all see life from our unique perspectives these differences need to be understood because if not, this can be frustrating. The girls get into the ins and outs of these differences, covering anything from society to cultures to relationships. Perspectives ✔️ Expectations ✔️ REALITY ✔️ Grab a drink and chill with us. Join the chill session using the hashtag #canwechillpod Share your thoughts or your experiences with us, email - canwechillpodcast@mail.com
01:04:40
August 15, 2021
Episode 43 - Generational curses and trauma
Episode 43 - Generational curses and trauma
This week with our guest we discuss spiritual and physical behaviours and how they can be passed on to future generations. We speak about taking accountability for yourself and acknowledging when the right time is to get help and seek support. We also speak about physical and emotional pain, emotional maturity and psychological damage. Guest: Trevor Carter - info@livingyourgoodlife.co.uk #Canwechillpodcast hosted by Melissa & Vivian is something for the everyday person. Since we all see life from our unique perspectives these differences need to be understood because if not, this can be frustrating. The girls get into the ins and outs of these differences, covering anything from society to cultures to relationships. Perspectives ✔️ Expectations ✔️ REALITY ✔️ Grab a drink and chill with us. Join the chill session using the hashtag #canwechillpod Share your thoughts or your experiences with us, email - canwechillpodcast@mail.com
01:08:13
August 08, 2021
Episode 42 - She’s my friend not yours!
Episode 42 - She’s my friend not yours!
This week we discuss girls friendships and how some girls don’t want their friends becoming friends with their friends. We speak about whether this is because some girls are territorial or if they are insecure about themselves or their friendships. We also touch on whether friendships and romantic relationships have the same elements. We also discuss why it is difficult for adults to make friendships compared to kids. #Canwechillpodcast hosted by Melissa & Vivian is something for the everyday person. Since we all see life from our unique perspectives these differences need to be understood because if not, this can be frustrating. The girls get into the ins and outs of these differences, covering anything from society to cultures to relationships. Perspectives ✔️ Expectations ✔️ REALITY ✔️ Grab a drink and chill with us. Join the chill session using the hashtag #canwechillpod Share your thoughts or your experiences with us, email - canwechillpodcast@mail.com
01:08:49
August 01, 2021
Episode 41 - Women, leave your balls at the office!
Episode 41 - Women, leave your balls at the office!
This week we are joined by our guest to discuss current dating/relationship dynamics, how the media have influenced thought and actions leading to that issue, and how it's making women shoot themselves in the foot.... what they can do to change that. Our guest explains Heyoka Empath and the methods she uses when helping people. We discuss people being vulnerable and authentic when dating and how opposites attract but not in the way people think. We also speak about women being submissive and feminine and masculine energy. Guest: Nichole Kolman Instagram: Nicholekolman_ YouTube: A Message In a Bottle Nichole Kolman #Canwechillpodcast hosted by Melissa & Vivian is something for the everyday person. Since we all see life from our unique perspectives these differences need to be understood because if not, this can be frustrating. The girls get into the ins and outs of these differences, covering anything from society to cultures to relationships. Perspectives ✔️ Expectations ✔️ REALITY ✔️ Grab a drink and chill with us. Join the chill session using the hashtag #canwechillpod Share your thoughts or your experiences with us, email - canwechillpodcast@mail.com
01:29:28
July 25, 2021
Episode 40 - Can someone really break your heart?
Episode 40 - Can someone really break your heart?
This week with our guest we discuss heartbreak and expectations. We touch on people doing ‘tunnel vision’ and ignoring important signs. We speak about the importance of looks and personality as well as if people should have expectations of their partner and whether partners can actually break your heart or they just failed to meet your expectations. Guest: Letwin - Instagram: @princessletwin #Canwechillpodcast hosted by Melissa & Vivian is something for the everyday person. Since we all see life from our unique perspectives these differences need to be understood because if not, this can be frustrating. The girls get into the ins and outs of these differences, covering anything from society to cultures to relationships. Perspectives ✔️ Expectations ✔️ REALITY ✔️ Grab a drink and chill with us. Join the chill session using the hashtag #canwechillpod Share your thoughts or your experiences with us, email - canwechillpodcast@mail.com
01:38:32
July 18, 2021
Episode 39 - Dating what the F*ck
Episode 39 - Dating what the F*ck
This week with our guest we discuss the ups and downs of dating. We speak on the good and bad aspects of dating apps and how they have impacted the dating scene. We discuss the importance of self awareness and asking questions when dating. We also touch on compatibility and people staying in relationship for the wrong reasons. Guest: Lori Hardacker Facebook - datingishorrible https://datingwhatthefuck.com #Canwechillpodcast hosted by Melissa & Vivian is something for the everyday person. Since we all see life from our unique perspectives these differences need to be understood because if not, this can be frustrating. The girls get into the ins and outs of these differences, covering anything from society to cultures to relationships. Perspectives ✔️ Expectations ✔️ REALITY ✔️ Grab a drink and chill with us. Join the chill session using the hashtag #canwechillpod Share your thoughts or your experiences with us, email - canwechillpodcast@mail.com
01:15:01
July 11, 2021
Episode 38 - Are people's standards unrealistic?
Episode 38 - Are people's standards unrealistic?
This week we discuss people’s standards and expectations when dating. We discuss whether values are more important than standards or if they are the same. We speak about people being realistic and unrealistic when dating. We also speak about the impossible expectations women and men put on each other. #Canwechillpodcast hosted by Melissa & Vivian is something for the everyday person. Since we all see life from our unique perspectives these differences need to be understood because if not, this can be frustrating. The girls get into the ins and outs of these differences, covering anything from society to cultures to relationships. Perspectives ✔️ Expectations ✔️ REALITY ✔️ Grab a drink and chill with us. Join the chill session using the hashtag #canwechillpod Share your thoughts or your experiences with us, email - canwechillpodcast@mail.com
01:11:52
July 04, 2021
Episode 37 - I'm snitching for a crime I didn't commit.
Episode 37 - I'm snitching for a crime I didn't commit.
This week we discuss the streets unwritten rule of no snitching. We touch on young people being groomed and exploited, the need for role models and young people being aware how the decisions they make can affect them in future. #Canwechillpodcast hosted by Melissa & Vivian is something for the everyday person. Since we all see life from our unique perspectives these differences need to be understood because if not, this can be frustrating. The girls get into the ins and outs of these differences, covering anything from society to cultures to relationships. Perspectives ✔️ Expectations ✔️ REALITY ✔️ Grab a drink and chill with us. Join the chill session using the hashtag #canwechillpod Share your thoughts or your experiences with us, email - canwechillpodcast@mail.com
52:33
June 27, 2021
Episode 36 - We all come in different shapes and sizes!
Episode 36 - We all come in different shapes and sizes!
This week we are joined by a guest to discuss his fitness journey. We discuss fitness as a whole, whilst also touching on motivation and determination to achieve a goal. We speak on body positivity and the impact social media can have on body confidence and body image. Guest: Mu - Instagram: @therunningmu #Canwechillpodcast hosted by Melissa & Vivian is something for the everyday person. Since we all see life from our unique perspectives these differences need to be understood because if not, this can be frustrating. The girls get into the ins and outs of these differences, covering anything from society to cultures to relationships. Perspectives ✔️ Expectations ✔️ REALITY ✔️ Grab a drink and chill with us. Join the chill session using the hashtag #canwechillpod Share your thoughts or your experiences with us, email - canwechillpodcast@mail.com
01:23:36
June 20, 2021
Episode 35 - Some days I rock motherhood, other days motherhood rocks me!
Episode 35 - Some days I rock motherhood, other days motherhood rocks me!
This week we are joined by two guests to speak on motherhood. We discuss motherly sacrifices, gender roles, single parents, and whether mothers taking the main role in parenting is to do with control. We touch on whether some men are looking for mothers in partners and whether mothers are to blame for a 'man child'? We also speak how black mothers are viewed and portrayed in society. Guest: All socials: @mamadramapod #Canwechillpodcast hosted by Melissa & Vivian is something for the everyday person. Since we all see life from our unique perspectives these differences need to be understood because if not, this can be frustrating. The girls get into the ins and outs of these differences, covering anything from society to cultures to relationships. Perspectives ✔️ Expectations ✔️ REALITY ✔️ Grab a drink and chill with us. Join the chill session using the hashtag #canwechillpod Share your thoughts or your experiences with us, email - canwechillpodcast@mail.com
01:30:13
June 13, 2021
Episode 34 - Disconnect between men & women
Episode 34 - Disconnect between men & women
This week we are joined by a dating coach who gives an insight into some of the things causing issues between men and women. We speak on gender roles, modern/traditional men and women, respect and monogamy. Guest: Instagram: @thewayofthealpha #Canwechillpodcast hosted by Melissa & Vivian is something for the everyday person. Since we all see life from our unique perspectives these differences need to be understood because if not, this can be frustrating. The girls get into the ins and outs of these differences, covering anything from society to cultures to relationships. Perspectives ✔️ Expectations ✔️ REALITY ✔️ Grab a drink and chill with us. Join the chill session using the hashtag #canwechillpod Share your thoughts or your experiences with us, email - canwechillpodcast@mail.com
01:14:01
June 06, 2021
Episode 33 - Let's celebrate each other's success!
Episode 33 - Let's celebrate each other's success!
This week we are joined by a guest to discuss the black community supporting each other and sticking together. We speak about the divides within the black community, their origin and what can be done to solve them. We also discuss the term “black” and if it's something black people need to stop using. Guest: Tonderayi - Instagram: @vic_sachies #Canwechillpodcast hosted by Melissa & Vivian is something for the everyday person. Since we all see life from our unique perspectives these differences need to be understood because if not, this can be frustrating. The girls get into the ins and outs of these differences, covering anything from society to cultures to relationships. Perspectives ✔️ Expectations ✔️ REALITY ✔️ Grab a drink and chill with us. Join the chill session using the hashtag #canwechillpod Share your thoughts or your experiences with us, email - canwechillpodcast@mail.com
01:44:01
May 30, 2021
Episode 32 - Benefits of being black
Episode 32 - Benefits of being black
This week we are joined by a guest to discuss the strengths of the black community and how far they have come. We discuss what we love about our community and the different cultures within it as well as black privilege. Guest: Caren - Instagram: @fresh_fadzie #Canwechillpodcast hosted by Melissa & Vivian is something for the everyday person. Since we all see life from our unique perspectives these differences need to be understood because if not, this can be frustrating. The girls get into the ins and outs of these differences, covering anything from society to cultures to relationships. Perspectives ✔️ Expectations ✔️ REALITY ✔️ Grab a drink and chill with us. Join the chill session using the hashtag #canwechillpod Share your thoughts or your experiences with us, email - canwechillpodcast@mail.com
01:17:44
May 23, 2021
Episode 31 - Dating outside of your race
Episode 31 - Dating outside of your race
This week we are joined by a guest to discuss interracial relationships and some reasons that cause people to step out. We discuss our personal views along with how it is perceived in society and within the media. We speak about how black women and men view each other when it comes to dating. We also speak on the challenges and disappointments of dating as black women and the need to be open minded when it comes to dating. Guest: Instagram - @boyy_wander #Canwechillpodcast hosted by Melissa & Vivian is something for the everyday person. Since we all see life from our unique perspectives these differences need to be understood because if not, this can be frustrating. The girls get into the ins and outs of these differences, covering anything from society to cultures to relationships. Perspectives ✔️ Expectations ✔️ REALITY ✔️ Grab a drink and chill with us. Join the chill session using the hashtag #canwechillpod Share your thoughts or your experiences with us, email - canwechillpodcast@mail.com
01:50:43
May 16, 2021
Episode 30 - Black hair grows! Our hair journey.
Episode 30 - Black hair grows! Our hair journey.
This week we are joined by three guests to discuss black women's hair journey. We discuss our personal journeys with our hair, the misunderstanding of hair styles and how certain beauty standards affect people’s hair decisions. We take a trip on black hair history and speak about some of the issues within the black community surrounding hair businesses. Guests: Jade, Jaz and Jess #Canwechillpodcast hosted by Melissa & Vivian is something for the everyday person. Since we all see life from our unique perspectives these differences need to be understood because if not, this can be frustrating. The girls get into the ins and outs of these differences, covering anything from society to cultures to relationships. Perspectives ✔️ Expectations ✔️ REALITY ✔️ Grab a drink and chill with us. Join the chill session using the hashtag #canwechillpod Share your thoughts or your experiences with us, email - canwechillpodcast@mail.com
01:36:59
May 09, 2021
Episode 29 - Black Fatherhood
Episode 29 - Black Fatherhood
This week we are joined by two guests to discuss their journey and experiences as fathers. We speak on how fathers are portrayed in society and the need to take responsibility as a father. We also discuss the importance of a father in a child’s life and how fathers show love. Guests: Don & K - @Listen2daddypodcast (IG) #Canwechillpodcast hosted by Melissa & Vivian is something for the everyday person. Since we all see life from our unique perspectives these differences need to be understood because if not, this can be frustrating. The girls get into the ins and outs of these differences, covering anything from society to cultures to relationships. Perspectives ✔️ Expectations ✔️ REALITY ✔️ Grab a drink and chill with us. Join the chill session using the hashtag #canwechillpod Share your thoughts or your experiences with us, email - canwechillpodcast@mail.com
01:24:18
May 02, 2021
Episode 28 - Why do people struggle in relationships?
Episode 28 - Why do people struggle in relationships?
In this weeks episode we are joined by a married couple to discuss the components of making a relationship work and how it works for them. We discuss the importance of communication, respect, understanding and acceptance of your partner, plus much more. We also speak on double standards in society and the differences/similarities between men and women. #Canwechillpodcast hosted by Melissa & Vivian is something for the everyday person. Since we all see life from our unique perspectives these differences need to be understood because if not, this can be frustrating. The girls get into the ins and outs of these differences, covering anything from society to cultures to relationships. Perspectives ✔️ Expectations ✔️ REALITY ✔️ Grab a drink and chill with us. Join the chill session using the hashtag #canwechillpod Share your thoughts or your experiences with us, email - canwechillpodcast@mail.com
01:58:01
April 25, 2021
Episode 27 - Is Science replacing Religion?
Episode 27 - Is Science replacing Religion?
In this weeks episode we take you to church and the lab with our two special guests. We talk about what makes people believe and how science and religion influence people. We discuss some of the roles of science and religion as well as why some people believe that science has become the new leading religion now being followed by many people. We also touch on why some religious groups get a lot of stick at times and what the future may look like for science and religion believers. Guests: Tonderayi - Instagram: @vic_sachies & Caren - Instagram: @freshiefadzie #Canwechillpodcast hosted by Melissa & Vivian is something for the everyday person. Since we all see life from our unique perspectives these differences need to be understood because if not, this can be frustrating. The girls get into the ins and outs of these differences, covering anything from society to cultures to relationships. Perspectives ✔️ Expectations ✔️ REALITY ✔️ Grab a drink and chill with us. Join the chill session using the hashtag #canwechillpod Share your thoughts or your experiences with us, email - canwechillpodcast@mail.com
01:58:39
April 18, 2021
Episode 26 - Settling, dating with intent and side pieces (Ep25 Part 2)
Episode 26 - Settling, dating with intent and side pieces (Ep25 Part 2)
For part 2 of episode 25 we discuss with our guests if guys are honest about their intentions when dating. We discuss people in relationships having people on the side and if people are ok being a sidechick/sideman. We also talk about if settling in relationships is a negative or not. Guests: Jeffrey - Instagram: @1frsh & Stephan - Instagram: @prince_tg #Canwechillpodcast hosted by Melissa & Vivian is something for the everyday person. Since we all see life from our unique perspectives these differences need to be understood because if not, this can be frustrating. The girls get into the ins and outs of these differences, covering anything from society to cultures to relationships. Perspectives ✔️ Expectations ✔️ REALITY ✔️ Grab a drink and chill with us. Join the chill session using the hashtag #canwechillpod Share your thoughts or your experiences with us, email - canwechillpodcast@mail.com
01:23:45
April 11, 2021
Episode 25 - Settling in relationships (Part 1)
Episode 25 - Settling in relationships (Part 1)
This week we are joined by two guests to discuss settling plus more. We discuss how we see settling and what circumstances could cause people to feel like they are settling. We talk about people having high standards and expectations in today’s society and if that may be the reason why many people settle. Guests: Jeffrey - Instagram: @1frsh & Stephan - Instagram: @prince_tg #Canwechillpodcast hosted by Melissa & Vivian is something for the everyday person. Since we all see life from our unique perspectives these differences need to be understood because if not, this can be frustrating. The girls get into the ins and outs of these differences, covering anything from society to cultures to relationships. Perspectives ✔️ Expectations ✔️ REALITY ✔️ Grab a drink and chill with us. Join the chill session using the hashtag #canwechillpod Share your thoughts or your experiences with us, email - canwechillpodcast@mail.com
01:40:17
April 04, 2021
Episode 24 - Taking responsibility and holding yourself accountable
Episode 24 - Taking responsibility and holding yourself accountable
This week the girls are joined by a guest to discuss the need of responsibility and accountability in life and and how that effects ones life and their relationships with others. They touch on the cycles people can be in as a result of a lack of accountability, the barriers to taking responsibility, and how people can overcome them. They further discuss the need for awareness, self-acceptance and communication in someone taking responsibility and holding themselves accountable. Guest: @alison2minds - Instagram | www.2-minds.co.uk Alison is a counsellor and life coach with a passion to help people and enable them to change their lives for the better. #Canwechillpodcast hosted by Melissa & Vivian is something for the everyday person. Since we all see life from our unique perspectives these differences need to be understood because if not, this can be frustrating. The girls get into the ins and outs of these differences, covering anything from society to cultures to relationships. Perspectives ✔️ Expectations ✔️ REALITY ✔️ Grab a drink and chill with us. Join the chill session using the hashtag #canwechillpod Share your thoughts or your experiences with us, email - canwechillpodcast@mail.com
01:28:08
March 28, 2021
Episode 23 - Can forgiveness become a weakness?
Episode 23 - Can forgiveness become a weakness?
This week the girls are joined by a guest to discuss if/when forgiveness can become a weakness and can no longer fully serve it's purpose. They talk about the limitations to forgiving someone as well as why people may continuously forgive someone and what the consequences could be. Guest: @Justcindyy - YouTube #Canwechillpodcast hosted by Melissa & Vivian is something for the everyday person. Since we all see life from our unique perspectives these differences need to be understood because if not, this can be frustrating. The girls get into the ins and outs of these differences, covering anything from society to cultures to relationships. Perspectives ✔️ Expectations ✔️ REALITY ✔️ Grab a drink and chill with us. Join the chill session using the hashtag #canwechillpod Share your thoughts or your experiences with us, email - canwechillpodcast@mail.com
01:25:47
March 21, 2021
Episode 22 - Is an apology needed for closure?
Episode 22 - Is an apology needed for closure?
This week the girls are joined by two guests to discuss whether an apology is needed to heal and for closure. They weigh up whether it is an apology or an explanation that is more necessary. They also discuss whether people should self-heal rather than allowing external things/people to make them feel better. #Canwechillpodcast hosted by Melissa & Vivian is something for the everyday person. Since we all see life from our unique perspectives these differences need to be understood because if not, this can be frustrating. The girls get into the ins and outs of these differences, covering anything from society to cultures to relationships. Perspectives ✔️ Expectations ✔️ REALITY ✔️ Grab a drink and chill with us. Join the chill session using the hashtag #canwechillpod Share your thoughts or your experiences with us, email - canwechillpodcast@mail.com
01:21:44
March 14, 2021
Episode 21 - Dealbreakers in relationships
Episode 21 - Dealbreakers in relationships
This week the girls discuss some of the dealbreakers that can make relationships and potential relationships go left. They speak about what they would and would not deal with when considering a partner.  #Canwechillpodcast hosted by Melissa & Vivian is something for the everyday person. Since we all see life from our unique perspectives these differences need to be understood because if not, this can be frustrating. The girls get into the ins and outs of these differences, covering anything from society to cultures to relationships. Perspectives ✔️  Expectations ✔️ REALITY ✔️  Grab a drink and chill with us. Join the chill session using the hashtag #canwechillpod Share your thoughts or your experiences with us, email - canwechillpodcast@mail.com
01:28:48
March 07, 2021
Episode 20 - Is love blind?
Episode 20 - Is love blind?
This week the girls are joined by a guest to discuss whether love is actually blind or people choose to be blind in loves sake. They speak about some of the factors that can contribute to people's lack of awareness and blindness in relationships and why. #Canwechillpodcast hosted by Melissa & Vivian is something for the everyday person. Since we all see life from our unique perspectives these differences need to be understood because if not, this can be frustrating. The girls get into the ins and outs of these differences, covering anything from society to cultures to relationships. Perspectives ✔️ Expectations ✔️ REALITY ✔️ Grab a drink and chill with us. Join the chill session using the hashtag #canwechillpod Share your thoughts or your experiences with us, email - canwechillpodcast@mail.com
01:11:14
February 28, 2021
Episode 19 - Is there such a thing as a soulmate?
Episode 19 - Is there such a thing as a soulmate?
This week the girls are joined by two guests to discuss if they believe soulmates exist and what a soulmate is. They touch on how you identify/know when you've found your soulmate and how you differentiate a deep connection and a soulmate. They answer the question on whether they would take a test, a scientific test to find a soulmate? They also speak about the issues with sex before marriage and love and lust. #Canwechillpodcast hosted by Melissa & Vivian is something for the everyday person. Since we all see life from our unique perspectives these differences need to be understood because if not, this can be frustrating. The girls get into the ins and outs of these differences, covering anything from society to cultures to relationships. Perspectives ✔️ Expectations ✔️ REALITY ✔️ Grab a drink and chill with us. Join the chill session using the hashtag #canwechillpod Share your thoughts or your experiences with us, email - canwechillpodcast@mail.com
01:50:00
February 21, 2021
Episode 18 - How can we love each other better?
Episode 18 - How can we love each other better?
This week the girls are joined by a guest to discuss how we as people can give, receive and show love better as well as some of the barriers and things that hold people back in loving each other better. They touch on conditional and unconditional love and how this can affect relationships. They also speak about people healing and taking accountability in their past relationships before moving on. #Canwechillpodcast hosted by Melissa & Vivian is something for the everyday person. Since we all see life from our unique perspectives these differences need to be understood because if not, this can be frustrating. The girls get into the ins and outs of these differences, covering anything from society to cultures to relationships. Perspectives ✔️ Expectations ✔️ REALITY ✔️ Grab a drink and chill with us. Join the chill session using the hashtag #canwechillpod Share your thoughts or your experiences with us, email - canwechillpodcast@mail.com
01:38:14
February 14, 2021
Episode 17 - Is love enough in a relationship?
Episode 17 - Is love enough in a relationship?
This week the girls are joined by two guests to discuss some of the factors they believe should be included with love and why. They touch on why some relationships are not successful despite the people involved loving each other and whether love can conquer distance. They also discuss whether people should compromise or sacrifice in relationships. #Canwechillpodcast hosted by Melissa & Vivian is something for the everyday person. Since we all see life from our unique perspectives these differences need to be understood because if not, this can be frustrating. The girls get into the ins and outs of these differences, covering anything from society to cultures to relationships. Perspectives ✔️ Expectations ✔️ REALITY ✔️ Grab a drink and chill with us. Join the chill session using the hashtag #canwechillpod Share your thoughts or your experiences with us, email - canwechillpodcast@mail.com
01:56:55
February 07, 2021
Episode 16 - Being nice rather than being honest
Episode 16 - Being nice rather than being honest
This week the girls are joined by a guest to discuss the differences between people being nice and honest, the situations people chose niceness over honesty and the outcomes it can have. They also speak about whether being nice over being honest has some dishonesty in it. #Canwechillpodcast hosted by Melissa & Vivian is something for the everyday person. Since we all see life from our unique perspectives these differences need to be understood because if not, this can be frustrating. The girls get into the ins and outs of these differences, covering anything from society to cultures to relationships. Perspectives ✔️ Expectations ✔️ REALITY ✔️ Grab a drink and chill with us. Join the chill session using the hashtag #canwechillpod Share your thoughts or your experiences with us, email - canwechillpodcast@mail.com
01:32:35
January 31, 2021
Episode 15 - What is a woman and what makes a woman?
Episode 15 - What is a woman and what makes a woman?
The girls are joined by a guest to explore the definition of a woman, when a girl becomes a woman and what they think some of the roles and responsibilities of women are. They also discuss how stereotypes, cultural and societal views/expectations affect women in different areas of their lives. This episode is linked to Episode 5 - Boys are selfish, Men are selfless, where they discuss what a man is and what makes a man. #Canwechillpodcast hosted by Melissa & Vivian is something for the everyday person. Since we all see life from our unique perspectives these differences need to be understood because if not, this can be frustrating. The girls get into the ins and outs of these differences, covering anything from society to cultures to relationships. Perspectives ✔️ Expectations ✔️ REALITY ✔️ Grab a drink and chill with us. Join the chill session using the hashtag #canwechillpod Share your thoughts or your experiences with us, email - canwechillpodcast@mail.com
01:55:37
January 24, 2021
Episode 14 - Can Men and Women be friends?
Episode 14 - Can Men and Women be friends?
This week the girls discuss whether they think men and women can be friends and why. They look into some of the boundaries and criteria’s of these platonic friendships as well as why some friendships may change when one party gets into a relationship. #Canwechillpodcast hosted by Melissa & Vivian is something for the everyday person. Since we all see life from our unique perspectives these differences need to be understood because if not, this can be frustrating. The girls get into the ins and outs of these differences, covering anything from society to cultures to relationships. Perspectives ✔️ Expectations ✔️ REALITY ✔️ Grab a drink and chill with us. Join the chill session using the hashtag #canwechillpod Share your thoughts or your experiences with us, email - canwechillpodcast@mail.com
01:08:18
January 17, 2021
Episode 13 - Seeking Validation
Episode 13 - Seeking Validation
This week the girls discuss why people seek validation and whether it's connected to the increased usage of social media. They discuss the things people may do or things they may use when seeking validation as well as the differences between healthy and unhealthy validation. They also discuss men and women seeking validation in friendships/relationships. #Canwechillpodcast hosted by Melissa & Vivian is something for the everyday person. Since we all see life from our unique perspectives these differences need to be understood because if not, this can be frustrating. The girls get into the ins and outs of these differences, covering anything from society to cultures to relationships. Perspectives ✔️ Expectations ✔️ REALITY ✔️ Grab a drink and chill with us. Join the chill session using the hashtag #canwechillpod Share your thoughts or your experiences with us, email - canwechillpodcast@mail.com
01:24:51
January 10, 2021
Episode 12 - Valuing your self-respect
Episode 12 - Valuing your self-respect
This week the girls discuss what self-respect is, why it is important and why people sacrifice their self-respect. In particular, they talk about why people sacrifice their self-respect in relationships and some of the circumstances that cause it. Canwechillpodcast hosted by Melissa & Vivian is something for the everyday person. Since we all see life from our unique perspectives these differences need to be understood because if not, this can be frustrating. The girls get into the ins and outs of these differences, covering anything from society to cultures to relationships. Perspectives ✔️ Expectations ✔️ REALITY ✔️ Grab a drink and chill with us. Join the chill session using the hashtag #canwechillpod Share your thoughts or your experiences with us, email - canwechillpodcast@mail.com
01:33:56
January 03, 2021
Episode 11 - Betrayal v Embarrassment
Episode 11 - Betrayal v Embarrassment
This week the girls are joined by a special guest to discuss betrayal and embarrassment. They touch on the differences between betrayal and embarrassment, whether they come hand in hand and how both can feel personally, in relationships/friendships as well as if betrayal can be done accidentally/unintentionally. They also discuss how those who have been betrayed can deal with/process it and move forward from it. #Canwechillpodcast hosted by Melissa & Vivian is something for the everyday person. Since we all see life from our unique perspectives these differences need to be understood because if not, this can be frustrating. The girls get into the ins and outs of these differences, covering anything from society to cultures to relationships. Perspectives ✔️ Expectations ✔️ REALITY ✔️ Grab a drink and chill with us. Join the chill session using the hashtag #canwechillpod Share your thoughts or your experiences with us, email - canwechillpodcast@mail.com
01:48:00
December 27, 2020
Episode 10 - Girl Code
Episode 10 - Girl Code
This week the girls are joined by a special guest to discuss girl code. They look into what girl code is, how they define it, what it can mean in relationships and whether it is negative or positive in nature. They discuss women’s intentions behind “coming to you as a woman” and whether girl code is a way for women to look out for each other, get what they want from others or do what they want. #Canwechillpodcast hosted by Melissa & Vivian is something for the everyday person. Since we all see life from our unique perspectives these differences need to be understood because if not, this can be frustrating. The girls get into the ins and outs of these differences, covering anything from society to cultures to relationships. Perspectives ✔️ Expectations ✔️ REALITY ✔️ Grab a drink and chill with us. Join the chill session using the hashtag #canwechillpod Share your thoughts or your experiences with us, email - canwechillpodcast@mail.com
01:45:05
December 20, 2020
Episode 9 - When is the right time to cut someone off?
Episode 9 - When is the right time to cut someone off?
This week the girls discuss when it may be the right time to cut people off, whether it be friends, partners or employers. They look into what causes people to make those decisions, why it may be hard to make those difficult decisions and why people hold on to certain relationships. They also speak about the consequences and the aftermath of cutting people off. #Canwechillpodcast hosted by Melissa & Vivian is something for the everyday person. Since we all see life from our unique perspectives these differences need to be understood because if not, this can be frustrating. The girls get into the ins and outs of these differences, covering anything from society to cultures to relationships. Perspectives ✔️ Expectations ✔️ REALITY ✔️ Grab a drink and chill with us. Join the chill session using the hashtag #canwechillpod Share your thoughts or your experiences with us, email - canwechillpodcast@mail.com
01:18:55
December 13, 2020
Episode 8 - Can people change?
Episode 8 - Can people change?
This week the girls are joined by a special guest to discuss if they think people can change and why. They look into whether they think some people are “bad” or they just do “bad” things. They also discuss whether they think men and women change themselves in relationships. Is it changing or compromising? #Canwechillpodcast hosted by Melissa & Vivian is something for the everyday person. Since we all see life from our unique perspectives these differences need to be understood because if not, this can be frustrating. The girls get into the ins and outs of these differences, covering anything from society to cultures to relationships. Perspectives ✔️ Expectations ✔️ REALITY ✔️ Grab a drink and chill with us. Join the chill session using the hashtag #canwechillpod Share your thoughts or your experiences with us, email - canwechillpodcast@mail.com
01:36:05
December 06, 2020
Episode 7 - DM Etiquette
Episode 7 - DM Etiquette
This week the girls discuss the best way to enter a persons DMs, how they would want to be approached and how they would NOT want to be approached. They also speak about entering a persons DMs when in a relationship and being held accountable. #Canwechillpodcast hosted by Melissa & Vivian is something for the everyday person. Since we all see life from our unique perspectives these differences need to be understood because if not, this can be frustrating. The girls get into the ins and outs of these differences, covering anything from society to cultures to relationships. Perspectives ✔️ Expectations ✔️ REALITY ✔️ Grab a drink and chill with us. Join the chill session using the hashtag #canwechillpod Share your thoughts or your experiences with us, email - canwechillpodcast@mail.com
01:14:32
November 29, 2020
Episode 6 - Generational goals and differences
Episode 6 - Generational goals and differences
This week the girls discuss some of the differences in today’s society and those of their parents generations. They discuss some of the main differences they have noticed between generations and what could be the causes. #Canwechillpodcast hosted by Melissa & Vivian is something for the everyday person. Since we all see life from our unique perspectives these differences need to be understood because if not, this can be frustrating. The girls get into the ins and outs of these differences, covering anything from society to cultures to relationships. Perspectives ✔️ Expectations ✔️ REALITY ✔️ Grab a drink and chill with us. Join the chill session using the hashtag #canwechillpod Share your thoughts or your experiences with us, email - canwechillpodcast@mail.com
01:20:32
November 22, 2020
Episode 5 - Boys are selfish, Men are selfless
Episode 5 - Boys are selfish, Men are selfless
The girls are joined by 2 guests to explore the definition of a man, when a boy becomes a man, and what they think the roles and responsibilities of a man are. Since the girls will be discussing gender differences often during different episodes, they thought clarification was needed to understand how people perceive a man to be. This episode is linked to Episode 15 - What is a woman and what makes a woman?  #Canwechillpodcast hosted by Melissa & Vivian is something for the everyday person. Since we all see life from our unique perspectives these differences need to be understood because if not, this can be frustrating. The girls get into the ins and outs of these differences, covering anything from society to cultures to relationships.  Perspectives ✔️   Expectations ✔️  REALITY ✔️   Grab a drink and chill with us. Join the chill session using the hashtag #canwechillpod Share your thoughts or your experiences with us, email - canwechillpodcast@mail.com
01:44:25
November 15, 2020
Episode 4 - Life lessons and realisations
Episode 4 - Life lessons and realisations
In this weeks episode the girls discuss some of the things they have realised as they have got older. They discuss how their perspectives have changed over time, what they would do differently in certain situations and the importance of taking responsibility for certain aspects of your life. #Canwechillpodcast hosted by Melissa & Vivian is something for the everyday person. Since we all see life from our unique perspectives these differences need to be understood because if not, this can be frustrating. The girls get into the ins and outs of these differences, covering anything from society to cultures to relationships. Perspectives ✔️ Expectations ✔️ REALITY ✔️ Grab a drink and chill with us. Join the chill session using the hashtag #canwechillpod Share your thoughts or your experiences with us, email - canwechillpodcast@mail.com
01:12:27
November 08, 2020
Episode 3 - Looks v Game v Personality
Episode 3 - Looks v Game v Personality
In this week's episode the girls are joined by 2 guests. They discuss the extent to which personality and looks matter? Or is it attraction that matters more? Where do you draw the line? And whether it's only a man's job to make the first move? #Canwechillpodcast hosted by Melissa & Vivian is something for the everyday person. Since we all see life from our unique perspectives these differences need to be understood because if not, this can be frustrating. The girls get into the ins and outs of these differences, covering anything from society to cultures to relationships. Perspectives ✔️ Expectations ✔️ REALITY ✔️ Grab a drink and chill with us. Join the chill session using the hashtag #canwechillpod Share your thoughts or your experiences with us, email - canwechillpodcast@mail.com
52:60
November 01, 2020
Episode 2 - Don’t hire me to tick your black box!
Episode 2 - Don’t hire me to tick your black box!
In this weeks episode the girls are joined by a guest to discuss how they feel about being a minority in a work place, positive discrimination when part of BAME tick-box exercises and unconscious bias. They also discuss how they feel about the lack of black people in higher positions since the most powerful roles in the country aren't filled by black individuals. #Canwechillpodcast hosted by Melissa & Vivian is something for the everyday person. Since we all see life from our unique perspectives these differences need to be understood because if not this can be frustrating. The girls get into the ins and outs of these differences, covering anything from society to cultures to relationships. Perspectives ✔️ Expectations ✔️ REALITY ✔️ Grab a drink and chill with us. Join the chill session using the hashtag #canwechillpod Share your thoughts or your experiences with us, email - canwechillpodcast@mail.com
01:20:51
October 25, 2020
Episode 1 - Is there anything wrong with wanting a guy with money or women wanting to be looked after?
Episode 1 - Is there anything wrong with wanting a guy with money or women wanting to be looked after?
In our first episode the main talking point was on hypergamy, what it is because it’s REAL and how it impacts men and women for eg. in terms of women wanting men who can look after them and how hypergamy benefits men. We also touched on the difference between hypergamy and golddigging as well as current topics on Diversity Ofcom complaints and the Savage X Fenty fashion show. Discussion on hypergamy starts from 30:00. #Canwechillpodcast hosted by Melissa & Vivian is something for the everyday person as we all see life from our unique perspectives. However these differences, unless understood can be frustrating. We get into the ins and outs of these differences, covering anything from society to cultures to relationships. Perspectives ✔️ Expectations ✔️ REALITY ✔️ Grab a drink and chill with us. Join the chill session using the hashtag #canwechillpod Share your thoughts or your experiences with us, email - canwechillpodcast@mail.com
02:00:22
October 18, 2020