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Can We Chill Podcast

Can We Chill Podcast

By Melissa & Vivian

#Canwechillpodcast hosted by Melissa & Vivian is something for the everyday person. We all see life from our unique perspectives. However these differences, unless understood can be frustrating. The girls get into the ins and outs of these differences, covering anything from society to cultures to relationships. Perspectives ✔️ Expectations ✔️ REALITY ✔️ Grab a drink and chill with us. Join in the chill session using the hashtag #canwechillpodcast Share your thoughts or your experiences with us, email, canwechillpodcast@mail.com Disclaimer - this is an honest and cheeky podcast!
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Episode 8 - Can people change?

Can We Chill PodcastDec 06, 2020

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Episode 83 - Goodbye!

Episode 83 - Goodbye!

This week we discuss work ethic and laziness amongst our community. We talk about black people viewing each other in a more positive light. Finally, we speak about our podcast coming to an end, what we’ve learnt from the experience and what we’ve accomplished.

Thank you to all of our listeners for your support.

#Canwechillpodcast hosted by Melissa & Vivian is something for the everyday person. Since we all see life from our unique perspectives these differences need to be understood because if not, this can be frustrating. The girls get into the ins and outs of these differences, covering anything from society to cultures to relationships.

Perspectives ✔️

Expectations ✔️

REALITY ✔️

Grab a drink and chill with us. Join the chill session using the hashtag #canwechillpod

May 15, 202201:06:42
Episode 82 - Let me see your phone!

Episode 82 - Let me see your phone!

This week we discuss snooping through your partners phone. We speak about how changes in technology have influenced relationships and communication. We also speak about whether you should let your other half go through your phone or your or is it private.

#Canwechillpodcast hosted by Melissa & Vivian is something for the everyday person. Since we all see life from our unique perspectives these differences need to be understood because if not, this can be frustrating. The girls get into the ins and outs of these differences, covering anything from society to cultures to relationships.

Perspectives ✔️

Expectations ✔️

REALITY ✔️

Grab a drink and chill with us. Join the chill session using the hashtag #canwechillpod

May 08, 202257:27
Episode 81 - Thriving for perfection

Episode 81 - Thriving for perfection

This week we discuss competition amongst women. We speak about women competing against each other and if the media is to blame for it. We also speak whether it’s hate or social media. We discuss if your subconscious influences your conscious mind.

#Canwechillpodcast hosted by Melissa & Vivian is something for the everyday person. Since we all see life from our unique perspectives these differences need to be understood because if not, this can be frustrating. The girls get into the ins and outs of these differences, covering anything from society to cultures to relationships.

Perspectives ✔️

Expectations ✔️

REALITY ✔️

Grab a drink and chill with us. Join the chill session using the hashtag #canwechillpod

May 01, 202201:07:16
Episode 80 - She was a control freak!

Episode 80 - She was a control freak!

This week we discuss our job history and some or our worst jobs. We speak about having a peace of mind when it comes to jobs and salary, how to navigate work and life and your self worth and value when it comes to employers.

#Canwechillpodcast hosted by Melissa & Vivian is something for the everyday person. Since we all see life from our unique perspectives these differences need to be understood because if not, this can be frustrating. The girls get into the ins and outs of these differences, covering anything from society to cultures to relationships.

Perspectives ✔️

Expectations ✔️

REALITY ✔️

Grab a drink and chill with us. Join the chill session using the hashtag #canwechillpod

Apr 24, 202201:07:46
Episode 79 - At best, you’re middle class!

Episode 79 - At best, you’re middle class!

This week we discuss external factors influencing peoples ideas of a successful relationship. We talk about unrealistic expectations, people being misled by fake narratives and what really matters in relationships.

#Canwechillpodcast hosted by Melissa & Vivian is something for the everyday person. Since we all see life from our unique perspectives these differences need to be understood because if not, this can be frustrating. The girls get into the ins and outs of these differences, covering anything from society to cultures to relationships.

Perspectives ✔️

Expectations ✔️

REALITY ✔️

Grab a drink and chill with us. Join the chill session using the hashtag #canwechillpod

Apr 17, 202201:00:59
Episode 78 - Let there be fireworks!

Episode 78 - Let there be fireworks!

This week we discuss boundaries and expectations. We talk about managing your expectations when dating someone and respecting people’s boundaries. We also speak about women avoiding situations and the way some men treat women.

#Canwechillpodcast hosted by Melissa & Vivian is something for the everyday person. Since we all see life from our unique perspectives these differences need to be understood because if not, this can be frustrating. The girls get into the ins and outs of these differences, covering anything from society to cultures to relationships.

Perspectives ✔️

Expectations ✔️

REALITY ✔️

Grab a drink and chill with us. Join the chill session using the hashtag #canwechillpod

Apr 10, 202259:29
Episode 77 - Blast from the past

Episode 77 - Blast from the past

This week we talk about regrets. We discuss situations about “the one that got away”. We talk about living in the past and old flames. We also talk about leaving people behind and confiding in different people.

#Canwechillpodcast hosted by Melissa & Vivian is something for the everyday person. Since we all see life from our unique perspectives these differences need to be understood because if not, this can be frustrating. The girls get into the ins and outs of these differences, covering anything from society to cultures to relationships.

Perspectives ✔️

Expectations ✔️

REALITY ✔️

Grab a drink and chill with us. Join the chill session using the hashtag #canwechillpod

Apr 03, 202251:47
Episode 76 - Living to work

Episode 76 - Living to work

This week we talk about the cost of living in the UK and the struggles people are facing at the moment. We speak about inflation, people making ends meet and the sacrifices people are making to live their life.

#Canwechillpodcast hosted by Melissa & Vivian is something for the everyday person. Since we all see life from our unique perspectives these differences need to be understood because if not, this can be frustrating. The girls get into the ins and outs of these differences, covering anything from society to cultures to relationships.

Perspectives ✔️

Expectations ✔️

REALITY ✔️

Grab a drink and chill with us. Join the chill session using the hashtag #canwechillpod

Mar 27, 202244:08
Episode 75 - We’re in a digital age!

Episode 75 - We’re in a digital age!

This week we talk all things digital. We speak about Apple’s marketing strategy. Is it marketing or is it manipulation? We also discuss people being hooked on Apple products and the comparison of other tech companies vs Apple.

Book recommendation: Start With Why by Simon Sinek

#Canwechillpodcast hosted by Melissa & Vivian is something for the everyday person. Since we all see life from our unique perspectives these differences need to be understood because if not, this can be frustrating. The girls get into the ins and outs of these differences, covering anything from society to cultures to relationships.

Perspectives ✔️

Expectations ✔️

REALITY ✔️

Grab a drink and chill with us. Join the chill session using the hashtag #canwechillpod

Mar 20, 202255:57
Episode 74 - A Man’s best friend

Episode 74 - A Man’s best friend

This week we discuss “a man’s best friend”. We talk about how animals are treated in a western world. We speak about a fear of dogs and overcoming those fears. We also discuss how dogs can help you through a difficult time and help you with mental health issues.

#Canwechillpodcast hosted by Melissa & Vivian is something for the everyday person. Since we all see life from our unique perspectives these differences need to be understood because if not, this can be frustrating. The girls get into the ins and outs of these differences, covering anything from society to cultures to relationships.

Perspectives ✔️

Expectations ✔️

REALITY ✔️

Grab a drink and chill with us. Join the chill session using the hashtag #canwechillpod

Mar 13, 202248:27
Episode 73 - “She was a rude b*tch”

Episode 73 - “She was a rude b*tch”

This week we discuss culture clash. We discus how peoples culture translates differently to others and how people can view other cultures as rude and how some people use their backgrounds as excuses for rudeness. We also speak about a misappropriation of certain cultures.

#Canwechillpodcast hosted by Melissa & Vivian is something for the everyday person. Since we all see life from our unique perspectives these differences need to be understood because if not, this can be frustrating. The girls get into the ins and outs of these differences, covering anything from society to cultures to relationships.

Perspectives ✔️

Expectations ✔️

REALITY ✔️

Grab a drink and chill with us. Join the chill session using the hashtag #canwechillpod

Mar 06, 202253:41
Episode 72 - Leave some things alone!

Episode 72 - Leave some things alone!

This week we discuss television and the changes in shows that reflect todays society. We also speak about how racism is looked at in sports and why some things may never change.

#Canwechillpodcast hosted by Melissa & Vivian is something for the everyday person. Since we all see life from our unique perspectives these differences need to be understood because if not, this can be frustrating. The girls get into the ins and outs of these differences, covering anything from society to cultures to relationships.

Perspectives ✔️

Expectations ✔️

REALITY ✔️

Grab a drink and chill with us. Join the chill session using the hashtag #canwechillpod

Feb 27, 202201:14:21
Episode 71 - Wear the clothes don’t let the clothes wear you!

Episode 71 - Wear the clothes don’t let the clothes wear you!

This week we discuss dressing and fast fashion. We speak about of people should dress for their size or dress how they feel. We also discuss pressures that people feel to dress in a certain way.

#Canwechillpodcast hosted by Melissa & Vivian is something for the everyday person. Since we all see life from our unique perspectives these differences need to be understood because if not, this can be frustrating. The girls get into the ins and outs of these differences, covering anything from society to cultures to relationships.

Perspectives ✔️

Expectations ✔️

REALITY ✔️

Grab a drink and chill with us. Join the chill session using the hashtag #canwechillpod

Feb 20, 202254:53
Episode 70 - Celebrity Culture

Episode 70 - Celebrity Culture

This week we discuss celebrity lifestyle. We discuss celebrities keeping their business off of social media, the impact it has on people’s lives and relationships and whether the excessive use of social media has anything to do with age.

#Canwechillpodcast hosted by Melissa & Vivian is something for the everyday person. Since we all see life from our unique perspectives these differences need to be understood because if not, this can be frustrating. The girls get into the ins and outs of these differences, covering anything from society to cultures to relationships.

Perspectives ✔️

Expectations ✔️

REALITY ✔️

Grab a drink and chill with us. Join the chill session using the hashtag #canwechillpod

Feb 13, 202201:13:14
Episode 69 - Living on a budget

Episode 69 - Living on a budget

This week we discuss inflation in the UK. We discuss living and shopping on a budget. We also discuss veganism, eating healthy and unhealthy and driving and travelling in London.

#Canwechillpodcast hosted by Melissa & Vivian is something for the everyday person. Since we all see life from our unique perspectives these differences need to be understood because if not, this can be frustrating. The girls get into the ins and outs of these differences, covering anything from society to cultures to relationships.

Perspectives ✔️

Expectations ✔️

REALITY ✔️

Grab a drink and chill with us. Join the chill session using the hashtag #canwechillpod

Feb 06, 202201:14:32
Episode 68 - Moving on out

Episode 68 - Moving on out

This week we discuss moving out and living alone. We speak about sleeping patterns, not sleeping, using coping mechanisms and how peoples day to day life can affect their sleep. We also speak about pregnancy and fitness.

#Canwechillpodcast hosted by Melissa & Vivian is something for the everyday person. Since we all see life from our unique perspectives these differences need to be understood because if not, this can be frustrating. The girls get into the ins and outs of these differences, covering anything from society to cultures to relationships.

Perspectives ✔️

Expectations ✔️

REALITY ✔️

Grab a drink and chill with us. Join the chill session using the hashtag #canwechillpod

Jan 30, 202201:11:50
Episode 67 - Stop with the labels!

Episode 67 - Stop with the labels!

This week we speak about toxic masculinity, narcissism and misogyny. We discuss how people use these labels too loosely and what it means for people when in relationships/dating. We also speak about social media pushing certain agendas and people viewing men and women as the same.

#Canwechillpodcast hosted by Melissa & Vivian is something for the everyday person. Since we all see life from our unique perspectives these differences need to be understood because if not, this can be frustrating. The girls get into the ins and outs of these differences, covering anything from society to cultures to relationships.

Perspectives ✔️

Expectations ✔️

REALITY ✔️

Grab a drink and chill with us. Join the chill session using the hashtag #canwechillpod

Jan 23, 202201:03:04
Episode 66 - My car my rules!

Episode 66 - My car my rules!

This week we discuss driving, long journeys, drivers rules when driving and “passenger drivers”. We discuss how people are when they drink. We also speak about pregnancy responsibilities and unwanted pregnancy.

#Canwechillpodcast hosted by Melissa & Vivian is something for the everyday person. Since we all see life from our unique perspectives these differences need to be understood because if not, this can be frustrating. The girls get into the ins and outs of these differences, covering anything from society to cultures to relationships.

Perspectives ✔️

Expectations ✔️

REALITY ✔️

Grab a drink and chill with us. Join the chill session using the hashtag #canwechillpod

Jan 16, 202201:07:27
Episode 65 - Health is Wealth!

Episode 65 - Health is Wealth!

This week we discuss adapting to working from home. We speak about how the pandemic has impacted people’s work life balance. We also speak about how it can impact mental health.

#Canwechillpodcast hosted by Melissa & Vivian is something for the everyday person. Since we all see life from our unique perspectives these differences need to be understood because if not, this can be frustrating. The girls get into the ins and outs of these differences, covering anything from society to cultures to relationships.

Perspectives ✔️

Expectations ✔️

REALITY ✔️

Grab a drink and chill with us. Join the chill session using the hashtag #canwechillpod

Jan 09, 202201:00:32
Episode 64 - Some people have no decorum!

Episode 64 - Some people have no decorum!

This week we discuss arguing in public. We talk about “airing your dirty laundry” and keeping private discussions private. We also speak about guys liking crazy girls and seeing red flags in relationships.

#Canwechillpodcast hosted by Melissa & Vivian is something for the everyday person. Since we all see life from our unique perspectives these differences need to be understood because if not, this can be frustrating. The girls get into the ins and outs of these differences, covering anything from society to cultures to relationships.

Perspectives ✔️

Expectations ✔️

REALITY ✔️

Grab a drink and chill with us. Join the chill session using the hashtag #canwechillpod

Jan 02, 202201:07:03
Episode 63 - Let kids be kids!

Episode 63 - Let kids be kids!

This week we discuss pressures to go out on NYE and what makes a good New Years night. We speak about kids going “clubbing”, dating and parents managing/controlling their kids childhood.

#Canwechillpodcast hosted by Melissa & Vivian is something for the everyday person. Since we all see life from our unique perspectives these differences need to be understood because if not, this can be frustrating. The girls get into the ins and outs of these differences, covering anything from society to cultures to relationships.

Perspectives ✔️

Expectations ✔️

REALITY ✔️

Grab a drink and chill with us. Join the chill session using the hashtag #canwechillpod

Dec 26, 202159:34
Episode 62 - Gratitude is a must!

Episode 62 - Gratitude is a must!

This week on our Christmas episode we discuss the differences between Christmas in the UK and other countries. We speak about whether Christmas has changed over the years. We also discuss being being grateful during the festive period.

#Canwechillpodcast hosted by Melissa & Vivian is something for the everyday person. Since we all see life from our unique perspectives these differences need to be understood because if not, this can be frustrating. The girls get into the ins and outs of these differences, covering anything from society to cultures to relationships.

Perspectives ✔️

Expectations ✔️

REALITY ✔️

Grab a drink and chill with us. Join the chill session using the hashtag #canwechillpod

Dec 19, 202101:03:25
Episode 61 - Tailor how you speak to people to suit them!

Episode 61 - Tailor how you speak to people to suit them!

Episode 61 - Tailor how you speak to people to suit them!

This week we discuss how people perceive bad situations and seeing a glass “half full” or “half empty”. We discuss how people should tailor their approach to a situation depending on the person in question. We also speak about negative people draining your energy.

#Canwechillpodcast hosted by Melissa & Vivian is something for the everyday person. Since we all see life from our unique perspectives these differences need to be understood because if not, this can be frustrating. The girls get into the ins and outs of these differences, covering anything from society to cultures to relationships.

Perspectives ✔️

Expectations ✔️

REALITY ✔️

Grab a drink and chill with us. Join the chill session using the hashtag #canwechillpod

Dec 12, 202101:04:23
Episode 60 - Dear Side Chicks

Episode 60 - Dear Side Chicks

This week we discuss “side chicks”. We talk about what is a side chick and how society defines it nowadays. We also speak about if someone will admit if they are a side chick and if it matters if they were around “first”. We also speak about if someone can love and respect you if they cheat.

#Canwechillpodcast hosted by Melissa & Vivian is something for the everyday person. Since we all see life from our unique perspectives these differences need to be understood because if not, this can be frustrating. The girls get into the ins and outs of these differences, covering anything from society to cultures to relationships.

Perspectives ✔️

Expectations ✔️

REALITY ✔️

Grab a drink and chill with us. Join the chill session using the hashtag #canwechillpod

Dec 05, 202101:02:42
Episode 59 - The 6 month commitment rule

Episode 59 - The 6 month commitment rule

This week we discuss men committing. We speak about how soon men commit and why it can seem long which can then cause women to apply pressure on men. We also discuss if marriage means anything nowadays and if you should provide information on a guy your friend is seeing.

#Canwechillpodcast hosted by Melissa & Vivian is something for the everyday person. Since we all see life from our unique perspectives these differences need to be understood because if not, this can be frustrating. The girls get into the ins and outs of these differences, covering anything from society to cultures to relationships.

Perspectives ✔️

Expectations ✔️

REALITY ✔️

Grab a drink and chill with us. Join the chill session using the hashtag #canwechillpod

Share your thoughts or your experiences with us, email - canwechillpodcast@mail.com

Nov 28, 202101:05:41
Episode 58 - Some people only listen to respond!

Episode 58 - Some people only listen to respond!

This week we discuss behaviours of manipulation and deflection. We speak about how different people act at work and in their personal lives. We also discuss “switch tracking” in conversations and defensive mechanisms.

#Canwechillpodcast hosted by Melissa & Vivian is something for the everyday person. Since we all see life from our unique perspectives these differences need to be understood because if not, this can be frustrating. The girls get into the ins and outs of these differences, covering anything from society to cultures to relationships.

Perspectives ✔️

Expectations ✔️

REALITY ✔️

Grab a drink and chill with us. Join the chill session using the hashtag #canwechillpod

Share your thoughts or your experiences with us, email - canwechillpodcast@mail.com

Nov 21, 202153:28
Episode 57 - It’s your own fault if you get catfished!

Episode 57 - It’s your own fault if you get catfished!

This week we discuss catfishing. We speak about whether you can allow yourself to be catfished and how some people do not understand the reality of situations they’re in. We also speak the lengths people will go to and if people who experience catfishing deserve sympathy.

#Canwechillpodcast hosted by Melissa & Vivian is something for the everyday person. Since we all see life from our unique perspectives these differences need to be understood because if not, this can be frustrating. The girls get into the ins and outs of these differences, covering anything from society to cultures to relationships.

Perspectives ✔️

Expectations ✔️

REALITY ✔️

Grab a drink and chill with us. Join the chill session using the hashtag #canwechillpod

Share your thoughts or your experiences with us, email - canwechillpodcast@mail.com

Nov 14, 202101:13:50
Episode 56 - Do women have hypocritical standards?

Episode 56 - Do women have hypocritical standards?

This week we discuss the level of standards set by women and if men respond to them accordingly. We discuss if these standards are low, high and hypocritical. We also speak about the importance of intimacy in relationships, women "keeping" men with sex and holding sex hostage.

#Canwechillpodcast hosted by Melissa & Vivian is something for the everyday person. Since we all see life from our unique perspectives these differences need to be understood because if not, this can be frustrating. The girls get into the ins and outs of these differences, covering anything from society to cultures to relationships.

Perspectives ✔️

Expectations ✔️

REALITY ✔️

Grab a drink and chill with us. Join the chill session using the hashtag #canwechillpod

Share your thoughts or your experiences with us, email - canwechillpodcast@mail.com

Nov 07, 202101:08:07
Episode 55 - You're raising children and you're acting like children

Episode 55 - You're raising children and you're acting like children

This week we discuss the importance of maintaining a good relationship when mothers and fathers are no longer together. We speak about the difficulties parents experience when co-parenting and the conflicting matters within the relationship. We discuss 'she trapped me' and 'he's a deadbeat father' and how parents should respect each other regardless of their views and opinions of one another.

#Canwechillpodcast hosted by Melissa & Vivian is something for the everyday person. Since we all see life from our unique perspectives these differences need to be understood because if not, this can be frustrating. The girls get into the ins and outs of these differences, covering anything from society to cultures to relationships.

Perspectives ✔️

Expectations ✔️

REALITY ✔️

Grab a drink and chill with us. Join the chill session using the hashtag #canwechillpod

Share your thoughts or your experiences with us, email - canwechillpodcast@mail.com

Oct 31, 202101:08:46
Episode 54 - Should you love being single?

Episode 54 - Should you love being single?

This week with our guest we discuss if someone loving you determines your worth. We also discuss the difference between loneliness and being alone. We speak about how single people are viewed/judged in society and friends being jealous of their friends relationships status.

Guest: Letwin - Instagram: @princessletwin

#Canwechillpodcast hosted by Melissa & Vivian is something for the everyday person. Since we all see life from our unique perspectives these differences need to be understood because if not, this can be frustrating. The girls get into the ins and outs of these differences, covering anything from society to cultures to relationships.

Perspectives ✔️

Expectations ✔️

REALITY ✔️

Grab a drink and chill with us. Join the chill session using the hashtag #canwechillpod

Share your thoughts or your experiences with us, email - canwechillpodcast@mail.com

Oct 24, 202101:18:59
Episode 53 - I don’t respect my friends partner

Episode 53 - I don’t respect my friends partner

This week we discuss the importance of how you choose to discuss your partner to others and how what you say can impact their relationship and cause friction between them. We speak about dealing with issues with your partner and family and friends involvement in your relationship. We also touch on needs vs wants in potential partners and relationships.

#Canwechillpodcast hosted by Melissa & Vivian is something for the everyday person. Since we all see life from our unique perspectives these differences need to be understood because if not, this can be frustrating. The girls get into the ins and outs of these differences, covering anything from society to cultures to relationships.

Perspectives ✔️

Expectations ✔️

REALITY ✔️

Grab a drink and chill with us. Join the chill session using the hashtag #canwechillpod

Share your thoughts or your experiences with us, email - canwechillpodcast@mail.com

Oct 17, 202101:11:06
Episode 52 - Don’t smile at my man!

Episode 52 - Don’t smile at my man!

This week we discuss women being overprotective and fearful in relationships. We speak about being insecure and dealing with those insecurities. We also discuss some external things which can influence behaviours in people’s relationships.

#Canwechillpodcast hosted by Melissa & Vivian is something for the everyday person. Since we all see life from our unique perspectives these differences need to be understood because if not, this can be frustrating. The girls get into the ins and outs of these differences, covering anything from society to cultures to relationships.

Perspectives ✔️

Expectations ✔️

REALITY ✔️

Grab a drink and chill with us. Join the chill session using the hashtag #canwechillpod

Share your thoughts or your experiences with us, email - canwechillpodcast@mail.com

Oct 10, 202159:28
Episode 51 - Do fairytales affect our expectations and perception of reality?

Episode 51 - Do fairytales affect our expectations and perception of reality?

This week we speak about if there is a correlation between Disney/fairytale movies and whether they are to blame for women’s expectations when in relationships. We speak about wanting the ring, single women walking in the spirit of a wife, marriage and being the “real you”. We also discuss  young girls being raised differently to young boys.

#Canwechillpodcast hosted by Melissa & Vivian is something for the everyday person. Since we all see life from our unique perspectives these differences need to be understood because if not, this can be frustrating. The girls get into the ins and outs of these differences, covering anything from society to cultures to relationships.

Perspectives ✔️

Expectations ✔️

REALITY ✔️

Grab a drink and chill with us. Join the chill session using the hashtag #canwechillpod

Share your thoughts or your experiences with us, email - canwechillpodcast@mail.com

Oct 03, 202159:41
Episode 50 - Qualities women want in men

Episode 50 - Qualities women want in men

This week we discuss qualities we look for in men when dating. We discuss the importance of these qualities and why they matter in a man. We also speak about partners being aware of each other’s feelings and mind reading.

#Canwechillpodcast hosted by Melissa & Vivian is something for the everyday person. Since we all see life from our unique perspectives these differences need to be understood because if not, this can be frustrating. The girls get into the ins and outs of these differences, covering anything from society to cultures to relationships.

Perspectives ✔️

Expectations ✔️

REALITY ✔️

Grab a drink and chill with us. Join the chill session using the hashtag #canwechillpod

Share your thoughts or your experiences with us, email - canwechillpodcast@mail.com

Sep 26, 202101:21:34
Episode 49 - Why can’t you be on time?

Episode 49 - Why can’t you be on time?

This week we discuss punctuality. We discuss why people are late, whether they choose to be late and the excuses people make. We also speak about punctuality in social and professional settings. We discuss people being fashionably late on dates and “black people timing”.

#Canwechillpodcast hosted by Melissa & Vivian is something for the everyday person. Since we all see life from our unique perspectives these differences need to be understood because if not, this can be frustrating. The girls get into the ins and outs of these differences, covering anything from society to cultures to relationships.

Perspectives ✔️

Expectations ✔️

REALITY ✔️

Grab a drink and chill with us. Join the chill session using the hashtag #canwechillpod

Share your thoughts or your experiences with us, email - canwechillpodcast@mail.com

Sep 19, 202101:02:49
Episode 48 - Nice guys vs Bad guys

Episode 48 - Nice guys vs Bad guys

This week we discuss nice guys and bad guys. We try to define the difference between a “good guy” and a “nice guy”. We also speak about bad boys, what makes a bad boy and why some girls like them. We touch on friends seeking advice from friends and how that can influence their relationships. We speak on the importance of therapy as part of everyday life.

#Canwechillpodcast hosted by Melissa & Vivian is something for the everyday person. Since we all see life from our unique perspectives these differences need to be understood because if not, this can be frustrating. The girls get into the ins and outs of these differences, covering anything from society to cultures to relationships.

Perspectives ✔️

Expectations ✔️

REALITY ✔️

Grab a drink and chill with us. Join the chill session using the hashtag #canwechillpod

Share your thoughts or your experiences with us, email - canwechillpodcast@mail.com

Sep 12, 202101:02:11
Episode 47 - Why don’t you have anything on the menu?

Episode 47 - Why don’t you have anything on the menu?

This week we discuss issues surrounding black owned restaurants. We speak about London and how certain places have become gentrified. We also discuss covid and how people have changed since the beginning of the pandemic.

#Canwechillpodcast hosted by Melissa & Vivian is something for the everyday person. Since we all see life from our unique perspectives these differences need to be understood because if not, this can be frustrating. The girls get into the ins and outs of these differences, covering anything from society to cultures to relationships.

Perspectives ✔️

Expectations ✔️

REALITY ✔️

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Sep 05, 202155:41
Episode 46 - Is social media to blame for people cheating?

Episode 46 - Is social media to blame for people cheating?

This week we are joined by our guest to talk about cheating and if social media has made it easier for people to cheat. We discuss people in relationships liking and commenting on people’s posts who they find attractive. We also speak about people in a relationship sharing passwords.

#Canwechillpodcast hosted by Melissa & Vivian is something for the everyday person. Since we all see life from our unique perspectives these differences need to be understood because if not, this can be frustrating. The girls get into the ins and outs of these differences, covering anything from society to cultures to relationships.

Perspectives ✔️

Expectations ✔️

REALITY ✔️

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Aug 29, 202101:28:00
Episode 45 - I don’t have any feelings

Episode 45 - I don’t have any feelings

This week we discuss rationality and emotions. We speak about if the world would be a better place if people thought less with their feelings and emotions or more with logic. We discuss how people perceive feelings as being negative. We also speak about being having emotional intelligence. #Canwechillpodcast hosted by Melissa & Vivian is something for the everyday person. Since we all see life from our unique perspectives these differences need to be understood because if not, this can be frustrating. The girls get into the ins and outs of these differences, covering anything from society to cultures to relationships. Perspectives ✔️ Expectations ✔️ REALITY ✔️ Grab a drink and chill with us. Join the chill session using the hashtag #canwechillpod Share your thoughts or your experiences with us, email - canwechillpodcast@mail.com
Aug 22, 202101:17:45
Episode 44 - Is it ok for my friend to date my ex?

Episode 44 - Is it ok for my friend to date my ex?

This week we discuss with our guest friends dating exes. We speak about girls allowing their friends to moving forward with a guy “they saw first”. We talk about if we would date our friends exes and if we would want our friends to date our exes and whether acquaintances are held to the same standards as friends. We also discuss whether or not we would tell our friends if their ex boyfriends tried to date us and why.

Guest: Letwin - Instagram: @princessletwin

#Canwechillpodcast hosted by Melissa & Vivian is something for the everyday person. Since we all see life from our unique perspectives these differences need to be understood because if not, this can be frustrating. The girls get into the ins and outs of these differences, covering anything from society to cultures to relationships.

Perspectives ✔️

Expectations ✔️

REALITY ✔️

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Aug 15, 202101:04:40
Episode 43 - Generational curses and trauma

Episode 43 - Generational curses and trauma

This week with our guest we discuss spiritual and physical behaviours and how they can be passed on to future generations. We speak about taking accountability for yourself and acknowledging when the right time is to get help and seek support. We also speak about physical and emotional pain, emotional maturity and psychological damage.

Guest: Trevor Carter - info@livingyourgoodlife.co.uk

#Canwechillpodcast hosted by Melissa & Vivian is something for the everyday person. Since we all see life from our unique perspectives these differences need to be understood because if not, this can be frustrating. The girls get into the ins and outs of these differences, covering anything from society to cultures to relationships.

Perspectives ✔️

Expectations ✔️

REALITY ✔️

Grab a drink and chill with us. Join the chill session using the hashtag #canwechillpod

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Aug 08, 202101:08:13
Episode 42 - She’s my friend not yours!

Episode 42 - She’s my friend not yours!

This week we discuss girls friendships and how some girls don’t want their friends becoming friends with their friends. We speak about whether this is because some girls are territorial or if they are insecure about themselves or their friendships. We also touch on whether friendships and romantic relationships have the same elements. We also discuss why it is difficult for adults to make friendships compared to kids.

#Canwechillpodcast hosted by Melissa & Vivian is something for the everyday person. Since we all see life from our unique perspectives these differences need to be understood because if not, this can be frustrating. The girls get into the ins and outs of these differences, covering anything from society to cultures to relationships.

Perspectives ✔️

Expectations ✔️

REALITY ✔️

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Aug 01, 202101:08:49
Episode 41 - Women, leave your balls at the office!

Episode 41 - Women, leave your balls at the office!

This week we are joined by our guest to discuss current dating/relationship dynamics, how the media have influenced thought and actions leading to that issue, and how it's making women shoot themselves in the foot.... what they can do to change that. Our guest explains Heyoka Empath and the methods she uses when helping people. We discuss people being vulnerable and authentic when dating and how opposites attract but not in the way people think. We also speak about women being submissive and feminine and masculine energy.

Guest: Nichole Kolman

Instagram: Nicholekolman_

YouTube: A Message In a Bottle Nichole Kolman

#Canwechillpodcast hosted by Melissa & Vivian is something for the everyday person. Since we all see life from our unique perspectives these differences need to be understood because if not, this can be frustrating. The girls get into the ins and outs of these differences, covering anything from society to cultures to relationships.

Perspectives ✔️

Expectations ✔️

REALITY ✔️

Grab a drink and chill with us. Join the chill session using the hashtag #canwechillpod

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Jul 25, 202101:29:28
Episode 40 - Can someone really break your heart?

Episode 40 - Can someone really break your heart?

This week with our guest we discuss heartbreak and expectations. We touch on people doing ‘tunnel vision’ and ignoring important signs. We speak about the importance of looks and personality as well as if people should have expectations of their partner and whether partners can actually break your heart or they just failed to meet your expectations.

Guest: Letwin - Instagram: @princessletwin

#Canwechillpodcast hosted by Melissa & Vivian is something for the everyday person. Since we all see life from our unique perspectives these differences need to be understood because if not, this can be frustrating. The girls get into the ins and outs of these differences, covering anything from society to cultures to relationships.

Perspectives ✔️

Expectations ✔️

REALITY ✔️

Grab a drink and chill with us. Join the chill session using the hashtag #canwechillpod

Share your thoughts or your experiences with us, email - canwechillpodcast@mail.com

Jul 18, 202101:38:32
Episode 39 - Dating what the F*ck

Episode 39 - Dating what the F*ck

This week with our guest we discuss the ups and downs of dating. We speak on the good and bad aspects of dating apps and how they have impacted the dating scene. We discuss the importance of self awareness and asking questions when dating. We also touch on compatibility and people staying in relationship for the wrong reasons.

Guest: Lori Hardacker

Facebook - datingishorrible

https://datingwhatthefuck.com

#Canwechillpodcast hosted by Melissa & Vivian is something for the everyday person. Since we all see life from our unique perspectives these differences need to be understood because if not, this can be frustrating. The girls get into the ins and outs of these differences, covering anything from society to cultures to relationships.

Perspectives ✔️

Expectations ✔️

REALITY ✔️

Grab a drink and chill with us. Join the chill session using the hashtag #canwechillpod

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Jul 11, 202101:15:01
Episode 38 - Are people's standards unrealistic?

Episode 38 - Are people's standards unrealistic?

This week we discuss people’s standards and expectations when dating. We discuss whether values are more important than standards or if they are the same. We speak about people being realistic and unrealistic when dating. We also speak about the impossible expectations women and men put on each other.

#Canwechillpodcast hosted by Melissa & Vivian is something for the everyday person. Since we all see life from our unique perspectives these differences need to be understood because if not, this can be frustrating. The girls get into the ins and outs of these differences, covering anything from society to cultures to relationships.

Perspectives ✔️

Expectations ✔️

REALITY ✔️

Grab a drink and chill with us. Join the chill session using the hashtag #canwechillpod

Share your thoughts or your experiences with us, email - canwechillpodcast@mail.com

Jul 04, 202101:11:52
Episode 37 - I'm snitching for a crime I didn't commit.

Episode 37 - I'm snitching for a crime I didn't commit.

This week we discuss the streets unwritten rule of no snitching. We touch on young people being groomed and exploited, the need for role models and young people being aware how the decisions they make can affect them in future.

#Canwechillpodcast hosted by Melissa & Vivian is something for the everyday person. Since we all see life from our unique perspectives these differences need to be understood because if not, this can be frustrating. The girls get into the ins and outs of these differences, covering anything from society to cultures to relationships.

Perspectives ✔️

Expectations ✔️

REALITY ✔️

Grab a drink and chill with us. Join the chill session using the hashtag #canwechillpod

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Jun 27, 202152:33
Episode 36 - We all come in different shapes and sizes!

Episode 36 - We all come in different shapes and sizes!

This week we are joined by a guest to discuss his fitness journey. We discuss fitness as a whole, whilst also touching on motivation and determination to achieve a goal. We speak on body positivity and the impact social media can have on body confidence and body image.

Guest: Mu - Instagram: @therunningmu

#Canwechillpodcast hosted by Melissa & Vivian is something for the everyday person. Since we all see life from our unique perspectives these differences need to be understood because if not, this can be frustrating. The girls get into the ins and outs of these differences, covering anything from society to cultures to relationships.

Perspectives ✔️

Expectations ✔️

REALITY ✔️

Grab a drink and chill with us. Join the chill session using the hashtag #canwechillpod

Share your thoughts or your experiences with us, email - canwechillpodcast@mail.com

Jun 20, 202101:23:36
Episode 35 - Some days I rock motherhood, other days motherhood rocks me!

Episode 35 - Some days I rock motherhood, other days motherhood rocks me!

This week we are joined by two guests to speak on motherhood. We discuss motherly sacrifices, gender roles, single parents, and whether mothers taking the main role in parenting is to do with control. We touch on whether some men are looking for mothers in partners and whether mothers are to blame for a 'man child'? We also speak how black mothers are viewed and portrayed in society.

Guest: All socials: @mamadramapod

#Canwechillpodcast hosted by Melissa & Vivian is something for the everyday person. Since we all see life from our unique perspectives these differences need to be understood because if not, this can be frustrating. The girls get into the ins and outs of these differences, covering anything from society to cultures to relationships.

Perspectives ✔️

Expectations ✔️

REALITY ✔️

Grab a drink and chill with us. Join the chill session using the hashtag #canwechillpod

Share your thoughts or your experiences with us, email - canwechillpodcast@mail.com

Jun 13, 202101:30:13
Episode 34 - Disconnect between men & women

Episode 34 - Disconnect between men & women

This week we are joined by a dating coach who gives an insight into some of the things causing issues between men and women. We speak on gender roles, modern/traditional men and women, respect and monogamy.

Guest: Instagram: @thewayofthealpha

#Canwechillpodcast hosted by Melissa & Vivian is something for the everyday person. Since we all see life from our unique perspectives these differences need to be understood because if not, this can be frustrating. The girls get into the ins and outs of these differences, covering anything from society to cultures to relationships.

Perspectives ✔️

Expectations ✔️

REALITY ✔️

Grab a drink and chill with us. Join the chill session using the hashtag #canwechillpod

Share your thoughts or your experiences with us, email - canwechillpodcast@mail.com

Jun 06, 202101:14:01