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By My Sexual Biography

Conversations with experts from around the world that dissect how reflection on our sexual stories affects our personal wellness, sexual experiences and our relationships with ourselves and others.
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Abortions are Healthcare // Rachel Holt on Carnal Theory

Carnal TheoryJan 11, 2021

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Healthcare and the Right to Sexual Freedom // Elizabeth Anne Wood and Rachel Music on Carnal Theory

Healthcare and the Right to Sexual Freedom // Elizabeth Anne Wood and Rachel Music on Carnal Theory

In this episode of Carnal Theory, we chat with the author of Bound: A Daughter, a Domme, and an End-of-Life Story Elizabeth Anne Wood, and the narrator for the recently released audiobook version of it Rachel Music about the story behind the book.

Explore with us the intersections between sex, death, healthcare, and illness in this 50-minute dive into the ways our sexuality links to all other aspects of our lives—including how our right to sexual freedom can be challenged by the healthcare system. 

To order a signed copy of Bound, click here.

We hope you'll enjoy learning with us, and if you learned something or enjoyed this episode, please rate and review wherever you listen, and don't forget to follow us on Instagram @carnaltheory and @mysexbio.
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Elizabeth Anne Wood is Chair of the Department of Sociology, Anthropology, and Social Work and a SUNY Chancellors Award-winning Professor of Sociology at Nassau Community College in Garden City, NY. She is also Senior Strategist for Woodhull Freedom Foundation, the nation’s only human rights organization working full time to protect sexual freedom as a fundamental human right. She earned her Ph.D. at Brandeis University in 1999 for a study of gender, power, and social interaction in strip clubs, and has written critically about sexuality and society ever since.

Rachel Music (NYU '13, MFA LIU '21) is the founder of Schadenfrau Studio, a sex-positive content hub rooted in playful defiance. She is also a writer, performer, and producer and has narrated more than a dozen of audiobooks from her home studio in Los Angeles.

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Aug 23, 202137:03
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Aug 09, 202139:47
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Sexual Aftercare // Dr. Lexx Brown-James on Carnal Theory

Sexual Aftercare // Dr. Lexx Brown-James on Carnal Theory

Why does everyone need to have aftercare after every sexual event? What is aftercare? How can bring it into your sexual play? and muuuuuch more is discussed in this chat with Dr. Lexx Brown-James!

Dr. Lexx Brown-James. Lexx is a sex therapist and educator, focusing on race, sexuality and relationships. She is the author of multiple books, holds multiple master’s degrees and has her doctorate of education in Human Sexuality from Widener University, so she seriously knows her stuff.

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Jun 21, 202132:34
Sex Is More Than Penetration // Danielle Bezalel on Carnal Theory

Sex Is More Than Penetration // Danielle Bezalel on Carnal Theory

A long-awaited interview, this week we talked with Danielle Bezalel, host of Sex Ed with DB!

Why is expanding our definition of sex important for our pleasure? Where does faith have a place in our sexuality? How can we build healthy relationships? Why is owning our sexual story important?

We dive into a lot here and hope you'll finish the episode with some questions to reflect upon that will help you build the best relationship with your sexuality and others that's possible.

Links to resources discussed in the interview:
https://www.guttmacher.org/state-policy/explore/sex-and-hiv-education
https://www.joinonelove.org/

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May 24, 202140:28
Embracing Healthy Masculinity // Jet Setting Jasmine and King Noire on Carnal Theory

Embracing Healthy Masculinity // Jet Setting Jasmine and King Noire on Carnal Theory

This month, we had the absolute pleasure of speaking with educators, advocates and adult film creators: King Noire and Jet Setting Jasmine (two guests in one interview!).

This episode is jam-packed with hard-hitting topics around the lack of healthy masculinity in our society, parenting, porn, Black representation and muuuuch more.

If you learned something or enjoyed this episode, please rate and review wherever you listen and don't forget to follow us on Instagram @carnaltheory and @mysexbio.
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Apr 12, 202135:43
Group Sex 101 // marla renee stewart on Carnal Theory

Group Sex 101 // marla renee stewart on Carnal Theory

Ever wondered if group sex is right for you? This episode is the perfect entryway for those who have always been curious about the practical side of multi-partnered sex. In it, Amanda speaks to sex educator marla renee stewart about the hows and whys of threesomes, orgies and beyond, while breaking down the stigmas often associated with this side of sex and sexuality.

If you learned something or enjoyed this episode, please rate and review wherever you listen, and don't forget to follow us on Instagram @carnaltheory and @mysexbio.

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Mar 23, 202132:32
Connecting Mindfulness to Sensuality // Courtney Avery on Carnal Theory

Connecting Mindfulness to Sensuality // Courtney Avery on Carnal Theory

Listen in on our conversation with Intimate Health Yoga founder, Courtney Avery, where we discuss how mindfulness and can enhance our sexual experience through the senses.

Courtney also walks us through a couple of introductory techniques and exercises meant to improve your ability to slow down, be present and receive pleasure–both in the bedroom and out.

If you learned something or enjoyed this episode, please rate and review wherever you listen, and don't forget to follow us on Instagram @carnaltheory and @mysexbio.
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Feb 15, 202141:34
Abortions are Healthcare // Rachel Holt on Carnal Theory

Abortions are Healthcare // Rachel Holt on Carnal Theory

It wasn't until Rachel Holt was faced with a vaginismus diagnosis that she realized all she had been taught about her own body was framed by fear. In an effort to be the change she knew was needed, she formed @about.your.body - a platform focused on teaching vagina-owners about their body in an empowering way, through art.

In this episode, Amanda and Abba got the chance to break down the many ways people with vaginas have been put down and made afraid of their body by the patriarchy and why abortions are most definitely healthcare. 

If you learned something or enjoyed this episode, please rate and review wherever you listen, and don't forget to follow us on Instagram @carnaltheory and @mysexbio.
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Jan 11, 202157:12
Our Wombs Speak Volumes // Bria Gadsden on Carnal Theory

Our Wombs Speak Volumes // Bria Gadsden on Carnal Theory

Do you realize how powerful your womb space is? In this week's Carnal Theory episode, we explore the many ways in which wellness rituals can help us tap into that power and amplify our wombs' voice.

If you learned something or enjoyed this episode, please rate and review wherever you listen, and don't forget to follow us on Instagram @carnaltheory and @mysexbio.
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Dec 21, 202047:32
Healing Through Pleasure // Rafaella Fiallo on Carnal Theory

Healing Through Pleasure // Rafaella Fiallo on Carnal Theory

In this episode, Amanda and Abba chat with Rafaella of @healingxchg. We discuss the many ways in which healing work is pleasure work, how we can develop rituals to support that healing, and how it is all a part of sexual wellness.

If you learned something or enjoyed this episode, please rate and review wherever you listen, and don't forget to follow us on Instagram @carnaltheory and @mysexbio.
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Dec 08, 202048:56
Honoring Your Menstrual Cycle Through Ritual // ShaVaughn Elle on Carnal Theory

Honoring Your Menstrual Cycle Through Ritual // ShaVaughn Elle on Carnal Theory

Are you struggling to connect with your cycle and appreciate it through the pain and uncomfortability? Perhaps you would benefit from a nourishing ritual or two.

In this episode, Amanda and Abba chat with ShaVaughn Elle, of @sayitwithsex – a pleasure advocate and sensualist. Together, they discuss how rituals and taking time to learn and honor our menstrual cycle can support an overall improved relationship with one's cycle and deeper learnings that can be unlocked in doing so.

If you learned something or enjoyed this episode, please rate and review wherever you listen and don't forget to follow us on Instagram @carnaltheory and @mysexbio.

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Nov 23, 202047:56
Getting Empowered Around STIs // Emily Depasse on Carnal Theory

Getting Empowered Around STIs // Emily Depasse on Carnal Theory

We all know someone who has or has had an STI. So why are we not talking about STIs?! We continue to dig deeper into this topic with our second October guest: Emily Depasse, a sex educator and founder of sex ELDucation.

If you learned something or enjoyed this episode, please rate and review wherever you listen, and don't forget to follow us on Instagram @carnaltheory and @mysexbio.
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Oct 27, 202037:49
Breaking Down the STI Stigma // Jenelle Marie Pierce on Carnal Theory

Breaking Down the STI Stigma // Jenelle Marie Pierce on Carnal Theory

How is it that, in a society where 80% of people will have an STI in their lifetime, we are still perpetuating the negative stigmas and misinformation surrounding them? 

Together, with STI expert, and founder of The STI Project, Jenelle Marie Pierce, we begin breaking down these stigmas and gain a more accurate understanding of what STIs are, what's preventing us from stopping them and how prevalent they actually are.

If you learned something or enjoyed this episode, please rate and review wherever you listen and don't forget to follow us on Instagram @carnaltheory and @mysexbio.
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Oct 05, 202041:39
The Intersection of Racism and Sex // Dr. Catalina Lawsin on Carnal Theory

The Intersection of Racism and Sex // Dr. Catalina Lawsin on Carnal Theory

Get ready for some wisdom this episode from Dr. Catalina Lawsin. She teaches co-hosts Abba and Amanda all about how racism can affect one's ability to command their sexual biography as well as how we can identify it in modern dating culture.

If you enjoyed this episode, please rate and review wherever you listen and don't forget to follow us on Instagram @carnaltheory and @mysexbio.

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Sep 28, 202001:01:18
Commanding Your Sexual Biography via Enthusiastic Consent // Caritia on Carnal Theory

Commanding Your Sexual Biography via Enthusiastic Consent // Caritia on Carnal Theory

This episode was all about saying and feeling "OH, YES PLEASE!" It was our absolute pleasure to spend an hour with Berlin-based, BDSM practitioner Caritia. Together, we tackled empowering topics from enthusiastic consent, to the unlearning that takes place in children, to the politics of kink. Strap in for a wild ride of powerful truths!

If you enjoyed this episode, please rate and review wherever you listen and don't forget to follow us on Instagram @carnaltheory and @mysexbio.

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Sep 14, 202049:13
The Power of Consent-Focused Erotica // Peekaboo Collins on Carnal Theory

The Power of Consent-Focused Erotica // Peekaboo Collins on Carnal Theory

Warning! You may get turned on listening to this episode. Today we talk with Peekaboo Collins, a writer who produces consent-focused and sex-positive erotic stories and poetry. We discuss the many transactional relationships taking place between erotica consumers, writers, content and characters as well as the importance of depicting healthy conversations around sex.

If you enjoyed this episode, please rate and review wherever you listen and don't forget to follow us on Instagram @carnaltheory and @mysexbio.

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Aug 26, 202040:49
Sex as an Energy Transaction // Jean-Pierre Frost on Carnal Theory

Sex as an Energy Transaction // Jean-Pierre Frost on Carnal Theory

Man, oh man, this week our guest was spitting some wisdom! Tune in to learn all about the many transactions that take place during sex - both with others and with ourselves, as we sit down with sex educator Jean-Pierre Frost.

If you enjoyed this episode, please rate and review wherever you listen and don't forget to follow us on Instagram @carnaltheory and @mysexbio.
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Aug 25, 202057:07
Creating Space to Communicate Needs // Dorine van der Wijk on Carnal Theory

Creating Space to Communicate Needs // Dorine van der Wijk on Carnal Theory

This week, we chat with Dorine van der Wijk, founder of the Wish and Gift Economy, to discuss what it means for sex to be a transaction, how that mindset opens new opportunities, as well as what is really means to be "wealthy."

If you enjoyed this episode, please rate and review wherever you listen and don't forget to follow us on Instagram @carnaltheory and @mysexbio.

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Aug 10, 202044:18
The Exchange of Trust & Love // Kitty Pride on Carnal Theory

The Exchange of Trust & Love // Kitty Pride on Carnal Theory

Welcome back to Carnal Theory! In this week's episode, we had the opportunity to chat with sex coach Kitty Pride all about the importance of giving and receiving love and trust in your sexual (and asexual) relationships.

If you enjoyed this episode, please rate and review wherever you listen and don't forget to follow us on Instagram @carnaltheory and @mysexbio.

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Jul 27, 202040:42
Living Your Truth // Shakun Sethi on Carnal Theory

Living Your Truth // Shakun Sethi on Carnal Theory

In this episode of Carnal Theory, hosts Abba and Amanda talk with Shakun Sethi, founder of Tickle.Life. Together, they discuss the importance of speaking and living your truth, both in your private and public life.

If you enjoyed this episode, please rate and review wherever you listen and don't forget to follow us on Instagram @carnaltheory and @mysexbio.
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Jul 08, 202027:14
Is Sexual Preference Sexist? // Amon Elise on Carnal Theory

Is Sexual Preference Sexist? // Amon Elise on Carnal Theory

Join co-hosts Abba and Amanda as they chat with My Sex Bio Studio facilitator Amon Elise. Together they explore how masculine and feminine energy intersect with gender expression, the spectrum and fluidity of sexual preference and so much more.

If you enjoyed this episode, please rate and review wherever you listen and don't forget to follow us on Instagram @carnaltheory or @mysexbio.
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Jun 27, 202039:17
Developing Your Summer Solstice Ritual // Elena Tochev on Carnal Theory

Developing Your Summer Solstice Ritual // Elena Tochev on Carnal Theory

This week we're offering a BONUS episode with one of the My Sex Bio Studio instructors, Elena Tochev. She discusses her journey to breast cancer recovery and how it lead to a total realignment in her mindful practices and connection with Nature. Plus, she guides us through a ritual for the Summer Solstice and offers advice for developing our own intention and movement rituals.

If you enjoyed this episode, please rate and review wherever you listen and don't forget to follow us on Instagram @carnaltheory or @mysexbio.

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Jun 20, 202055:31
Deconstructing Gender Norms in Indonesia // Citra Benazir on Carnal Theory

Deconstructing Gender Norms in Indonesia // Citra Benazir on Carnal Theory

This week, co-hosts Abba and Amanda had the opportunity to speak with activist and writer, Citra Benazir about June's theme: Connecting with our Masculine and Feminine Energies and the role that gender stereotypes play in Indonesian relationships.

If you enjoyed this episode, please rate and review wherever you listen and don't forget to follow us on Instagram @carnaltheory or @mysexbio.
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Jun 10, 202035:54
Finding Self-Love Through Breath // HP Willis on Carnal Theory

Finding Self-Love Through Breath // HP Willis on Carnal Theory

We are thrilled to bring you our third episode of Carnal Theory, with HP Willis, an Atlanta-based vocalist, dancer and actor as well as the founder of Comfy Confidence*. 

Her artistry and activism are deeply influenced and motivated by human rights, intersectional feminism, fat activism, body liberation, and body trust. 

Be sure to stay tuned until the end, where HP guides us all through a deep breathing and relaxation exercise that is sure to send tingles down your spine! 

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May 19, 202047:14
Achieving Orgasm Through Breath // Denell Barbara Nawrocki on Carnal Theory

Achieving Orgasm Through Breath // Denell Barbara Nawrocki on Carnal Theory

Welcome back to Carnal Theory! In our second episode, Amanda and Abba chat with Denell Barbara Nawrocki, founder of Cervical Wellness, an online education platform aimed at guiding women through the process of self-healing their cervix and empowering them to reconnect with their sacred female anatomy. 

If you enjoyed this episode, please rate and review wherever you listen and don't forget to follow us on Instagram @carnaltheory or @mysexbio.

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May 11, 202042:15
Flirting to Boost Your Confidence // Nicole Buratti on Carnal Theory

Flirting to Boost Your Confidence // Nicole Buratti on Carnal Theory

In Episode One of Carnal Theory, hosts Amanda and Abba sit down with Nicole Buratti to talk about the myriad of ways that flirting supports your self-esteem. 


Nicole is a sex and relationship coach with over THIRTY certifications under her belt and is the founder of Sex Talk with Nicole. 


If you enjoy this episode, please rate and review wherever you listen and follow us on Instagram @carnaltheory and @mysexbio.

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May 07, 202029:40