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🎙️ In this inspiring episode of Chats from the Blog Cabin, host Melissa Vera sits down with David—a Broadway talent turned children’s book author—to explore the powerful intersection of music, storytelling, and education.

🎶 From center stage to the pages of picture books, David shares his unique journey and passion for making music accessible and inclusive for all children. The conversation dives deep into:

✨ The importance of representation in music
🎼 How music education transforms lives
📚 The role of arts and storytelling in shaping young minds
👧🏽 Why we need more women in music
🎭 The economic impact of the arts
💡 Tips for helping children discover their creative voice

Whether you're a parent, educator, or creative at heart, this episode will leave you inspired to nurture the next generation of storytellers and songwriters. Don’t miss David’s vision for future projects and his heartfelt message about sharing your passions with kids.

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In this thought-provoking episode of Chats from the Blog Cabin, host Melissa Vera welcomes David, a former criminal defense attorney turned author, to discuss his gripping novel A Hate Crime in Brooklyn. David shares his unique journey from practicing law to writing fiction, and how his legal background shaped the powerful themes in his debut book.

The conversation explores the cultural inspirations behind his characters, the challenges of transitioning into writing, and the deep research that went into crafting a story rooted in justice, prejudice, forgiveness, and empathy. David also reads select passages from A Hate Crime in Brooklyn, offering listeners a firsthand glimpse into his narrative voice and storytelling approach.

This episode is a must-watch for fans of crime fiction, social justice, and stories that dig beneath the surface of human behavior. David also hints at what’s next in his writing journey and how he hopes his work will spark meaningful dialogue.

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In this heartfelt episode of Chats from the Blog Cabin, host Melissa Vera talks with Alexandria about her powerful journey of healing after her husband’s suicide. Alexandria opens up about navigating profound grief, parenting through pain, and ultimately discovering a renewed purpose—helping others find joy even in the darkest seasons. Together, they discuss the importance of empathy, community, and creating space for honest conversations about emotions, mental health, and the issues facing our divided world.

This moving conversation is a reminder that hope can bloom even after heartbreak.

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In this powerful episode of Chats from the Blog Cabin, host Melissa Vera sits down with attorney, author, and judge Dan Stidham to discuss the infamous West Memphis Three case and his decades-long pursuit of justice. Dan opens up about the emotional toll of wrongful convictions, the critical role DNA evidence played, and the impact public pressure and social media have had on the case. He also shares excerpts from his book A Harvest of Innocence, offering rare behind-the-scenes insight into one of America's most haunting legal battles. Don't miss this deeply moving and thought-provoking conversation.

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In this episode of Chats from the Blog Cabin, host Melissa Vera speaks with psychologist and author Dr. Neal King, whose memoir Trauma is a Thief shares his powerful story of surviving childhood trauma, family abuse, and addiction while growing up in a military household.

Dr. King opens up about:
✅ Navigating trauma and PTSD in childhood
✅ How supportive relationships and education became pathways to healing
✅ Writing his memoir as a form of trauma recovery and storytelling
✅ The role of identity, sexuality, and self-acceptance in his personal growth
✅ His stance as a conscientious objector during the Vietnam War
✅ Finding love, hope, and healing through connection

This conversation is for anyone seeking inspiration after trauma, understanding the power of resilience, or exploring how we find hope, healing, and meaning after adversity.

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In this episode of Chats from the Blog Cabin, host Melissa Vera sits down with author and former scientist Mike Cobb to discuss his powerful historical fiction novel You Will Know Me by My Deeds. Inspired by the real-life Atlanta child murders, Mike shares how his background in science and love of research fuels his compelling storytelling.

Learn how Mike develops authentic characters, balances historical accuracy with emotional truth, and crafts stories that honor real-life events. Plus, hear about his upcoming projects and why he believes the bond between writer and reader is one of the most sacred connections in storytelling.

🎧 Whether you're a history buff, true crime enthusiast, or aspiring author, this episode is packed with insight and inspiration!

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In this episode of the Chats from the Blog Cabin podcast, host Melissa Vera welcomes author Chris Null to discuss his journey as a writer, the transition from technical writing to fiction, and the inspiration behind his new novel, The Cul-de-sac. Chris shares insights into his family dynamics, the evolution of his writing career, and the unique characters that populate his latest work. The conversation also touches on his experiences in film criticism and the creation of his wine review site, Drink Hacker, as well as a humorous cocktail creation inspired by the iPhone. In this conversation, Chris discusses his writing process, character development, and the evolution of his book, 'The Cul-de-Sac.' He shares insights on the challenges of managing multiple perspectives, the impact of the book's ending, and her transition from screenwriting to novel writing. He also offers valuable advice for aspiring writers, emphasizing the importance of practice and reading. The discussion highlights the complexities of storytelling and the emotional connections that can be forged through well-developed characters.

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Andrew, a father of 10, shares his journey of balancing work and family life and the importance of seeking help and support as a father. He discusses the societal pressure on men to be strong and not show vulnerability, and how he decided to pivot and start helping other dads. Andrew emphasizes the importance of being present for his children and the positive impact it has had on their relationships. He also talks about the challenges of parenting in the age of social media and the need to limit exposure and create screen-free evenings. Andrew shares his insights on budgeting, supporting local farmers, and finding time for his marriage amidst a large family.

Takeaways

• Being a good father and provider doesn't mean sacrificing your own well-being and neglecting your family. It's important to find a balance.
• Men often struggle to ask for help and show vulnerability due to societal expectations. However, seeking support and guidance can lead to personal growth and stronger relationships.
• Limiting exposure to social media and creating screen-free evenings can improve family dynamics and mental well-being.
• Supporting local farmers and eating wholesome foods can have a positive impact on health and well-being.
• Finding time for your marriage is crucial, and being intentional about spending quality time together is key.

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• "In order to be a good dad and a good husband and provider was to work both ends of the clock."
• "The teacher is lot of times the one that gets the best lesson."
• "We limit their exposure. It's a critical... This one actually kind of gets me because I get sucked into that same vortex."

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In this episode of Chats from the Blog Cabin, the host engages in a deep conversation with Alex, a CEO in the pharmaceutical industry, about the gut microbiome and its significance in health. Alex shares his unique journey from growing up on a farm to becoming an entrepreneur focused on natural health solutions. He discusses the importance of human milk oligosaccharides in restoring gut health and the challenges faced in the pharmaceutical industry regarding natural compounds. The conversation also touches on the need for funding and support for innovative research in the field of chronic diseases. In this conversation, the speaker discusses the importance of gut health and the role of functional medicine in restoring the gut ecosystem. They highlight the detrimental effects of antibiotics on gut bacteria, the significance of dietary fiber, and the need for self-care in health management. The speaker shares personal experiences related to parenting and nutrition, emphasizing the differences in food standards between Europe and the US. They also address the challenges of weight loss medications and provide practical steps for improving gut health, including the importance of sleep and hydration. The conversation concludes with a focus on finding personal motivation for health changes.

Takeaways

• The gut microbiome is an ecosystem within our body.
• Nature provides solutions for health challenges.
• Personal health journeys can inspire professional paths.
• Human milk oligosaccharides are crucial for gut health.
• Research is essential for developing natural health solutions.
• The pharmaceutical industry often overlooks natural compounds.
• Funding is critical for innovative health research.
• Chronic diseases require a new perspective on treatment.
• Safety is a major concern in drug development.
• Understanding the microbiome can transform healthcare. A functional medicine approach aims to restore the gut ecosystem.
• Bifidobacterium play a crucial role in gut health.
• Antibiotics can disrupt the balance of gut bacteria.
• Dietary fiber is essential for gut health; most adults fall short.
• Making dietary changes can be done immediately at home.
• Self-care and empowerment are key in health management.
• Personal experiences can shape our understanding of nutrition.
• European food standards are often stricter than those in the US.
• Weight loss medications may have undesirable side effects.
• Hydration and sleep are critical for overall health.

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In this episode of 'Chats from the Blog Cabin', host Melissa interviews Matthew, an inspiring individual with autism who has pursued his dream of becoming a teacher and author. Matthew shares his journey, discussing the challenges he faced, the importance of perseverance, and how he aims to motivate others on the autism spectrum. He reflects on his experiences in the classroom, the impact of his teaching, and the rewarding feeling of encouraging students. Matthew also reads an excerpt from his book 'Unstoppable', detailing his final lesson as a student teacher and the significance of his journey in writing the book. In this conversation, the speaker shares their journey as a worldwide influencer advocating for autism awareness and inclusion. They discuss the challenges faced in education, the importance of faith and resilience, and the rewarding experience of teaching and mentoring others with autism. The conversation emphasizes the need for understanding, acceptance, and the power of community support in overcoming obstacles.

Key Takeaways

• Matthew's journey to becoming a teacher began at a young age.
• Autism is a spectrum, and Matthew identifies as level one.
• Perseverance is key in overcoming challenges and achieving dreams.
• Matthew's faith played a significant role in his motivation.
• Teaching has allowed Matthew to connect with students and inspire them.
• He faced many roadblocks but continued to seek opportunities to teach.
• COVID-19 provided new avenues for teaching through online platforms.
• Matthew's videos have helped others with autism feel encouraged.
• He emphasizes the importance of purpose and passion in life.
• Writing his book was a way to share his story and motivate others. I always wanted to teach about autism awareness and acceptance.
• Autism is not a disability; it's a different way of functioning.
• Inclusion means being in the same classroom with peers.
• I've seen a lot of inclusion in recent years.
• I feel blessed to be in a school district that accepts me.
• My faith helps me hold on to my purpose.
• I will succeed; it may take a while.
• Start conversations to learn about each other.
• Mentoring others with autism gives me purpose.
• California has a lot of acceptance for people with differences.

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In this episode of Chats from the Blog Cabin, Melissa speaks with Scott, a manifestation and mindset coach, about his journey from engineering to personal development. They explore the concepts of manifestation, the law of attraction, and the importance of mindset in achieving personal goals. Scott shares his experiences with personal development, martial arts, and the transformative power of gratitude and self-care.

The conversation emphasizes practical steps for shifting from a negative to a positive mindset and the significance of visualizing goals to manifest desired outcomes. In this conversation, Melissa Vera discusses the importance of mindset in the process of manifestation and personal growth. She outlines a five-step process for effective manifestation, emphasizing the need for patience and the role of visualization. The discussion also delves into the healing of childhood trauma and how it affects adult life, highlighting the significance of recognizing and addressing recurring themes in one's life. Finally, the conversation touches on the importance of changing generational patterns and fostering a supportive environment for personal development.

takeaways

• Manifestation is the ability to attract things into our life.
• Thoughts are powerful energies that can change our life path.
• Personal development can lead to significant life changes.
• Martial arts instills discipline and a growth mindset.
• Progress over perfection is key to personal growth.
• Gratitude can shift your mindset and emotional state.
• Self-care is essential for mental well-being.
• Visualizing goals helps in manifesting them into reality.
• It's important to label and witness your emotions.
• Changing your beliefs can lead to achieving your goals. Change your mindset to change your path.
• Manifestation requires a clear intention and emotional alignment.
• Patience is crucial in the manifestation process.
• Recognize and address childhood trauma for healing.
• Your perspective shapes your experiences and reactions.
• Utilize multiple tools for manifestation, including vision boards and affirmations.
• Healing childhood trauma can lead to greater happiness and wholeness.
• Interdependence with the universe enhances manifestation.
• Small, consistent steps can lead to significant life changes.
• Positive reinforcement can change generational patterns.

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In this episode of Chats from the Blog Cabin, Melissa engages with Sherianna, a writer and adjunct psychology professor, to explore the intersection of spirituality and personal growth. Shari shares her journey from a career in psychology to embracing her spiritual gifts, discussing the importance of vulnerability, intuition, and connecting with spirit guides. The conversation also delves into practical approaches like spirit walks to enhance spiritual awareness and the challenges many face in reconnecting with their spiritual selves amidst daily life. In this conversation, the speakers explore the impact of structured environments like Catholic schools on personal development, the concept of the higher self, and the importance of emotional processing. They discuss finding peace amidst chaos, the role of crystals in energy protection, and the significance of understanding and processing emotions for spiritual growth.

Takeaways

• Shari Anna transitioned from psychology to spirituality after experiencing postpartum depression.
• She emphasizes the importance of vulnerability in spiritual growth.
• Intuition plays a crucial role in understanding emotions and energy.
• Spirit guides can be accessed through meditation and intention.
• Practicing spirit walks can enhance one's connection to nature and spirituality.
• Fear often prevents people from exploring their spiritual side.
• Self-awareness is key to effective spiritual practice.
• Emotions should be honored and processed for healing.
• Supportive family influences can nurture spiritual development.
• Confidence is essential in navigating spiritual experiences. The structure of Catholic schools can create feelings of insecurity.
• Finding a sense of belonging is crucial when transitioning to new environments.
• The higher self represents a state of being connected to universal intelligence.
• To find peace, one must look inward rather than project outward.
• Emotions are contagious, and projecting negativity can affect others.
• Crystals can amplify or protect energy, depending on their type.
• It's important to clear crystals regularly to maintain their effectiveness.
• Setting boundaries is essential in maintaining emotional health.
• True emotions foster connection, while reactions create division.
• Daily practice of connecting with spirit can enhance personal growth.

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In this episode of Chats from the Blog Cabin, the conversation centers around the critical issue of literacy, particularly focusing on children's reading proficiency. The host and guest discuss the alarming statistics regarding reading levels among fourth graders, the evolution of teaching methods from phonics to whole language, and the importance of parental involvement in children's literacy development. The guest shares her journey in creating a literacy program aimed at helping parents teach their children to read effectively, emphasizing the need for interactive learning and the challenges posed by modern technology and educational practices. This conversation delves into the pressing literacy crisis in the United States, emphasizing the detrimental effects of standardized testing on children's reading abilities. The speakers discuss the importance of early reading skills, the adaptability of reading programs for diverse learners, and the critical role parents play in fostering literacy at home. They highlight the need for awareness regarding learning disabilities and the emotional impact of reading struggles on children. The discussion concludes with a call to action for parents to engage in reading with their children, reinforcing the idea that early intervention can lead to significant improvements in literacy.

Takeaways

• 69% of fourth graders are reading below proficiency.
• Teaching kids to read can be easy with the right approach.
• Parental involvement is crucial in children's literacy.
• The program is designed to be interactive and engaging.
• Children learn at different paces; flexibility is key.
• Reading proficiency is declining in the U.S.
• The shift from phonics to whole language has impacted literacy.
• Modern distractions like screens hinder reading development.
• The pandemic has exacerbated literacy challenges.
• Teachers face significant challenges in addressing literacy gaps. Standardized tests hinder effective teaching and learning.
• Early reading skills are crucial for long-term success.
• Parents can effectively teach reading in short, engaging sessions.
• The shift to phonics instruction is vital for improving literacy.
• Children's emotional well-being is linked to their reading abilities.
• Identifying learning disabilities early can change a child's trajectory.
• Reading should be fun and integrated into daily life.
• Parental involvement is key to a child's reading development.
• Programs should be adaptable for various learning needs.
• The literacy crisis affects all demographics and requires urgent attention.

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In this episode of Chats from the Blog Cabin, host Melissa welcomes Jackie, a passionate traveler and creator of The Historic Traveler blog. Jackie shares her journey from being a sports writer to discovering her love for travel and photography. The conversation explores the unique blend of travel and literature, highlighting how reading historic novels enhances the travel experience. Jackie discusses her approach to curating travel blogs, focusing on unique experiences and the stories behind historic locations. The episode also delves into the creation of a community around travel, the evolution of The Historic Traveler, and the importance of combining books with travel to enrich the journey. Listeners are encouraged to explore the blog, join the membership community, and embrace the joy of discovering history through travel.

Key takeaways

• Jackie's journey from sports writing to travel blogging.
• The concept of following 'God's breadcrumbs' in life.
• The Historic Traveler blog merges travel with literature.
• Unique travel experiences enhance the journey.
• Curating travel blogs involves storytelling and photography.
• The importance of historic novels in understanding places.
• Building a community around shared travel interests.
• The evolution of The Historic Traveler into a membership site.
• Combining travel with historical context enriches experiences.
• Encouragement to explore and engage with travel resources.

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Barbara Sommer Fagan shares her incredible story of escaping Nazi Germany as a refugee with her parents and starting a new life in the United States. She discovered her father's journal years later, which detailed their terrifying journey. Barbara reflects on her parents' courage, determination, and optimism in the face of adversity. She also discusses her own experiences, including her career in advertising, the loss of a child, and her mother's battle with cancer. Through it all, Barbara emphasizes the importance of family and the need to understand and appreciate our own history. Barbara Fagan shares her journey of overcoming obstacles and achieving success in her book 'My American Dream'. From breaking the glass ceiling in the business world to becoming a caregiver for her husband, Fagan's story is one of resilience and determination. She emphasizes the importance of freedom, family, education, and never giving up. Fagan's parents, who immigrated to the United States, instilled in her the values of hard work and perseverance. The book serves as a testament to the power of dreams and the strength of the human spirit.

Key Takeaways

• Barbara's parents escaped Nazi Germany as refugees and embarked on a terrifying journey to the United States.
• Barbara reflects on her parents' courage, determination, and optimism in the face of adversity.
• She emphasizes the importance of family and the need to understand and appreciate our own history.
• Barbara shares her own experiences, including her career in advertising, the loss of a child, and her mother's battle with cancer. The importance of protecting and cherishing the freedom we have in America
• The value of strong family bonds and support in overcoming challenges
• The role of education in opening doors to opportunity
• The power of dreaming big, working hard, and never quitting
• The resilience and strength of the human spirit in the face of adversity

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In this episode of the Chats from the Blog Cabin podcast, Melissa Vera engages in a deep conversation with another Melissa about the importance of collaboration over competition among women in the workplace. They discuss the need for women to embrace their authentic selves, the challenges they face in traditional work environments, and the significance of creating safe spaces for open dialogue. The conversation also highlights the mindset shifts necessary for women to thrive in their careers, the success stories emerging from the Nova Global community, and the non-traditional approaches being taken to foster a supportive network. The episode concludes with reflections on personal growth and the importance of celebrating achievements. In this conversation, Melissa Vera discusses the importance of celebrating achievements, the journey of self-discovery in business, and the significance of building a strong foundation for success. She emphasizes collaboration over competition and highlights the personal growth that comes with entrepreneurship. Melissa invites listeners to join a supportive community that empowers women to trust their inner voice and pursue their passions.

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In this engaging conversation, Melissa chats with Stephanie, the author of 'Sipping Sense', about her deep-rooted passion for wine and how it evolved from a hobby into a career. They discuss the importance of community, heritage, and the art of entertaining, as well as the journey of writing and publishing a cookbook that pairs recipes with wines. Stephanie shares her insights on debunking wine myths and the emotional experience of holding her published book for the first time.

Key Takeaways

• Stephanie started a wine club to learn and create community.
• Her journey in wine began with a restaurant experience.
• The wine club gained fame after being featured in Newsweek.
• Sipping Sense is a tribute to her heritage and legacy.
• The book aims to debunk common wine pairing myths.
• Recipes in the book are inspired by family traditions.
• Wine can enhance the experience of entertaining guests.
• The process of writing the book took about two years.
• Stephanie's daughter helped with taste testing and feedback.
• Wine has the power to bring people together.

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summaryIn this episode of Chats from the Blog Cabin, host Melissa engages with Caroline, author of 'Your Roots Cast a Shadow.' They discuss Caroline's diverse background, her work with Afghan girls, and the inspiration behind her book, which explores family history and the importance of preserving stories. The conversation delves into the challenges of researching family history, the impact of cultural and religious divides, and the resilience of women in Caroline's family. Caroline shares surprising discoveries from her research and reads excerpts from her book, reflecting on cultural adaptation and identity. In this conversation, the speakers delve into the themes of Jewish heritage, cultural identity, and the importance of preserving family stories. They discuss the challenges of navigating cultural differences, the awakening of activism through personal history, and the emotional journey of writing a memoir. The conversation emphasizes the significance of understanding one's roots and the impact of immigrant narratives on society.

Key Takeaways

• Caroline's diverse experiences shape her storytelling.
• The importance of women's voices in history.
• Researching family history can reveal surprising truths.
• Cultural divides can impact family relationships.
• Historical context enriches personal narratives.
• Resilience is a recurring theme in family stories.
• Education for Afghan girls is crucial for their empowerment.
• Erasing history prevents learning from past mistakes.
• Personal stories are interconnected with global events.
• Cultural adaptation is a journey filled with challenges. A uniformed soldier cradling a large gun stands out front.
• Churches are easily accessible, unlike synagogues.
• I was meeting people who I'm pretty sure I was the first Jewish person that they ever met.
• A certain level of activism really woke up in me.
• I want to follow in that.
• I refuse to let that go.
• I had a lot of rejections for this book.
• I was completely by myself when I received my book.
• We need to invest in our elders.
• Everybody is an immigrant.

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In this episode of Chats from the Blog Cabin, host Melissa speaks with Sarah, a woman with a rich and diverse life story. Sarah shares her experiences growing up in England, living in Ghana, and moving to America, highlighting the challenges and triumphs of being in an interracial marriage during a time when it was not widely accepted. The conversation delves into her journey of writing a memoir, navigating a male-dominated workplace, and her efforts to give back to the community in Ghana by supporting young entrepreneurs. Through her story, Sarah emphasizes the importance of love, resilience, and understanding across cultures. In this conversation, the speaker shares her journey of giving back to the community in Ghana through a loan program, emphasizing the importance of empowering individuals rather than providing handouts. She reflects on her experiences navigating different cultures, the challenges of raising a multicultural family, and the motivation behind writing her book. The discussion also touches on the dynamics of women in male-dominated fields and the significance of building bridges in mixed-race relationships.

Key Takeaways

• Sarah's life spans three continents, reflecting her diverse experiences.
• Interracial marriage was a significant challenge in the past.
• Writing her memoir was a way to capture vivid childhood memories.
• Navigating a male-dominated workplace required resilience and strategy.
• Family support played a crucial role in her journey.
• She created a successful business after leaving a toxic work environment.
• Sarah's experiences highlight the importance of empathy and understanding.
• Her efforts to support entrepreneurs in Ghana demonstrate her commitment to giving back.
• The journey of writing a book can be both challenging and rewarding.
• Cultural differences shape our identities and experiences. I've always had a sort of bit of a social conscience.
• It's very important for business people to realize that they have to make money.
• I firmly believe that whatever money I might have to help needy people, this is a much more effective way.
• It's a great richness in my life.
• I love that because a lot of people don't know what it's like to live in another country.
• I was able to just see my own blindness.
• I think mixed couples need to recognize that we remain something of a mystery to many Americans.
• You have to be ready to adjust a lot in a relationship.
• I think it's very difficult still in some professions for women.
• Bridge building remains a work in progress.

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summaryStephanie shares her journey of starting her business, Fly Wines, during the COVID-19 pandemic. She discusses the challenges she faced in pivoting from the tech industry to the wine industry and the support she received from her team. Stephanie emphasizes the importance of supporting minority-owned and small businesses in the wine industry. She also talks about the criteria she uses to select wineries to work with, including sustainability and diversity. Stephanie explains the wine tasting experience and the importance of understanding your own palate. She invites listeners to explore different wines and expand their wine knowledge.

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In this episode of Chats from the Blog Cabin, Melissa Vera and her guest discuss the nuances of ADHD, particularly in adults. The conversation delves into personal experiences with ADHD, the importance of understanding and coping with the condition, and the introduction of the ADHD Success Planner, a tool designed to help individuals manage their time and tasks effectively. The discussion emphasizes the significance of self-care through planning and prioritizing, and how these practices can empower individuals with ADHD to thrive in their personal and professional lives.

Key Takeaways

• ADHD can affect anyone, and understanding it is crucial.
• Adult diagnoses of ADHD can be empowering and positive.
• Planning and prioritizing are forms of self-care.
• The ADHD Success Planner is customizable for individual needs.
• Using a calendar is essential for effective time management.
• Weekly planning sessions can help maintain focus and organization.
• It's important to be kind to ourselves when managing tasks.
• ADHD is not a deficiency; it's a different way of thinking.
• Creating a personalized system can enhance productivity.
• Everyone can benefit from structured planning, not just those with ADHD.

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In this episode of Chats from the Blog Cabin, Melissa Vera welcomes back Deborah, a children's author, to discuss her new book, 'Daisy's Near Catastrophe,' and her previous work, 'Bethlehem Barn.' They explore Deborah's background in education, the importance of research in writing, and the themes of friendship and empowerment in her stories. Deborah shares her journey as a writer, her commitment to giving back through book sales, and her aspirations for future projects, including pursuing an MFA in writing for children.

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In this episode of 'Chats from the Blog Cabin', Melissa Vera engages in a heartfelt conversation with Dr. Carla Manley about the complexities of love, self-love, and the importance of understanding our relationships. They explore the themes of attachment theory, the impact of societal expectations on love, and the necessity of setting boundaries in relationships. Dr. Manley shares insights from her book 'The Joy of Imperfect Love', emphasizing that love is a journey filled with imperfections and that self-love is essential for nurturing healthy relationships. The discussion also touches on the influence of media portrayals of love and the importance of self-reflection in personal growth.

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In this episode of Chats from the Blog Cabin, host Melissa speaks with author Kim Pollock McGrath about her journey from being a first-grade teacher to becoming a children's book author. Kim shares her experiences with storytelling, the inspiration behind her book 'The Carefree Tumbleweed', and the importance of kindness and friendship in children's lives. They discuss the creative process of writing and illustrating children's books, the significance of reading to children, and the joy of sharing stories that teach valuable life lessons. Kim emphasizes the importance of resilience and staying true to oneself, encouraging listeners to never give up on their dreams.

takeaways

• Kim Pollock McGrath was a first-grade teacher for 29 years.
• She found inspiration for her writing after personal losses.
• The Carefree Tumbleweed teaches children about friendship and kindness.
• Kim emphasizes the importance of being kind to everyone.
• She believes that most people are nice, despite occasional unkindness.
• Her books are designed to be interactive and engaging for children.
• Kim's writing process involves a lot of feedback from kids and teachers.
• She aims to create books that can be used in classrooms.
• Reading to children is crucial for their development and imagination.
• Kim encourages others to pursue their dreams and share their stories.
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In this episode of Chats from the Blog Cabin, Melissa Vera interviews Shannon Walker, the founder of Northwest Battle Buddies, an organization that provides service dogs to veterans with PTSD. Shannon shares her personal connection to the military and her passion for animals, which led her to start training service dogs. She explains how Northwest Battle Buddies came about and the rigorous training process the dogs go through. Shannon also discusses the importance of proper etiquette when encountering a service dog and how people can support the organization.

takeaways

• Northwest Battle Buddies provides service dogs to veterans with PTSD
• The organization trains dogs from shelters and purpose breeds them
• The dogs undergo extensive training to ensure they have the right temperament and skills
• Proper etiquette is important when encountering a service dog
• People can support Northwest Battle Buddies through donations and fundraising

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In this episode of Chats from the Blog Cabin, Melissa Vera interviews author Gail Priest about her latest book, Soul Dancing. They discuss the inspiration behind the book, the process of writing it, and the themes of forgiveness and second chances. Gail shares how her own experiences and relationships influenced the characters and plot. The conversation also touches on the importance of supporting authors by leaving reviews and sharing their books. Overall, Soul Dancing is a love story with a paranormal twist that explores the complexities of relationships and the power of forgiveness.

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Ray, the author of Prom-Posal, shares his personal journey of moving to Las Vegas after witnessing the 9/11 attacks in New York. He also discusses his battle with multiple sclerosis and how it led him to retire early from Wall Street. Ray explains how he found solace in writing and how he discovered his voice as a young adult romance author. He emphasizes the importance of faith and the support of loved ones in overcoming challenges. Ray also mentions his plans for a dystopian novel and expresses gratitude for the positive response to his book.

takeaways

• The 9/11 attacks and a diagnosis of multiple sclerosis led Ray to retire early from Wall Street and move to Las Vegas.
• Writing became a source of solace for Ray, and he discovered his voice as a young adult romance author.
• Faith and the support of loved ones played a crucial role in Ray's journey.
• Ray plans to write a dystopian novel and is grateful for the positive response to his book, Prom-Posal.

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In this episode of Chats from the Blog Cabin, Melissa Vera interviews Alexandra about her book, The Suicide Club, and the topic of suicide prevention. Alexandra shares her personal experience of losing her husband to suicide and the challenges of raising their son as a single parent. She discusses the importance of open conversations about suicide and mental health, the need for support and connection, and the unpredictability of the grief process. Alexandra emphasizes the importance of finding healthy coping skills and trusting oneself in the healing journey. She also highlights the need for more awareness and understanding around suicide and its impact on survivors.

takeaways

• Open conversations about suicide and mental health are crucial for raising awareness and providing support.
• Grief after losing a loved one to suicide is unpredictable and can be isolating, but finding healthy coping skills and trusting oneself can help in the healing process.
• Support and connection with others who have experienced similar loss can provide comfort and understanding.
• It is important to set boundaries and prioritize self-care while navigating the challenges of parenting and healing after a suicide loss.
• More awareness and understanding are needed to combat the stigma surrounding suicide and to provide resources and support for survivors.

Sound Bites

• "I've had to, in my own healing process, really try and understand what is happening with suicide, what is going on with brain wellness."
• "The strongest thing someone can do is reach out for help. But that's also in our minds, we think that's the weakest thing that someone can do is reach out for help."
• "People want to be helpful, but there's also a fix it mentality. There's this idea of like, how do I fix your pain? Right? No one wants to feel pain. It makes us all feel uncomfortable. And I'm like, I don't need to be fixed. My son doesn't need to be fixed. We just went through something horrendous and we're just, you know, putting our life back together."

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Today we are talking about the big M word, menopause. And most importantly, weight loss plan for menopause.""The mood swings, the depression, the hot flashes, the crankiness, and overeating are common symptoms of menopause.""The green teas, just don't think of green tea as the plain old peppermints, be memorable.""Setting goals, how important that is to set goals.""Do some flexibility and go for a little walk."In this episode of Chats from the Blog Cabin, Melissa discusses menopause and weight loss plans for menopause with her guest, Sonya. They talk about their personal experiences with menopause and the challenges they faced. Sonya shares her journey of writing a book on weight loss for menopause and the different types of diets she suggests. They also discuss mindful and intuitive eating and the importance of hydration. In this conversation, we discuss the benefits of drinking tea during menopause and the importance of setting realistic goals for weight loss. She also emphasizes the need to keep the mind active and reject the diet mindset. Melissa and Sonya share her personal journey through menopause and provide practical tips for managing symptoms. Sonya mentions her book, which offers a comprehensive guide to navigating menopause and includes recipes and meal plans. She encourages readers to find what works best for them and make small, sustainable lifestyle changes.

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