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Look to See Me with Chris Pepple

Look to See Me with Chris Pepple

By Chris Pepple

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We Deserve Better

Look to See Me with Chris PeppleJul 27, 2023

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We Deserve Better

We Deserve Better

In this Look to See Me podcast episode, Chris Pepple discusses the times when compromise is helpful and when it’s harmful. Sometimes we build community by compromising on issues, but at other times a compromise would be harmful to us. We can learn to say that we deserve safety and respect in our schools, our homes, and our work environment. We deserve respect and equal rights in our community. If we aren’t receiving that, we don’t need to compromise to make others comfortable. We can say that we deserve better.
Jul 27, 202325:05
Kudzu, Religion, and Transgender Rights

Kudzu, Religion, and Transgender Rights

In this Look to See Me podcast episode, Chris Pepple talks about the relationship between kudzu, religion, and transgender rights. As families battle state legislatures to fight for the rights of transgender youth, we need to stand with them and make sure equality is guaranteed and love wins. #transgenderrights #LGBTQequality #lovewins #mamabearsrock
Jul 18, 202320:41
Listening to the Stories of Others

Listening to the Stories of Others

In this Look to See Me podcast episode, Chris Pepple talks about the joys of celebrating Pride this year and reminisces about the people she met. As we meet people at Pride or at any other place along our journeys, do we take time to listen to the stories of others?
Jul 02, 202325:12
Writing Our Story: Being an Ally

Writing Our Story: Being an Ally

In this Look to See Me podcast episode, Chris Pepple discusses what it means to be an ally for the LGBTQ+ community. #Pride #ally
Jun 13, 202327:18
Writing Our Story: How We Sleep at Night

Writing Our Story: How We Sleep at Night

Happy Pride Month! This Look to See Me podcast episode includes a review of Sara Cunningham’s memoir titled How We Sleep at Night. Sara Cunningham is the founder of the nonprofit organization Free Mom Hugs. Her memoir shares her journey as a mother when her son came out to her. #pride #family #lovewins
Jun 01, 202322:22
Writing Our Stories: Who Are We?

Writing Our Stories: Who Are We?

In this Look to See Me podcast episode, Chris Pepple reads a poem from her newly released poetry book and discusses her personal healing journey. She also discusses the beauty in claiming our own identities and not letting others define us. #healing #personalgrowth #LGBTQ+ #poetry
May 09, 202324:19
Freedom: Givers and Takers

Freedom: Givers and Takers

This Look to See Me podcast episode discusses the idea of being a visionary who can picture what freedom for all looks like rather than a person who works to take away the freedom of others. #equality #equalrightsforall
Mar 23, 202326:26
Protecting Transgender Children

Protecting Transgender Children

This Look to See Me podcast episode examines ways we can protect transgender children from the misinformation surrounding who they are and from the many laws being passed in the United States revoking the rights of transgender children and their families.
Mar 13, 202325:37
Dreamer of Dreams

Dreamer of Dreams

A reading of my poem "Dreamer of Dreams" read during a worship service of remembrance on Words Aids Day in honor of my family member who died of AIDS in 1993. You are remembered forever. 

Feb 23, 202302:17
"I Am" Poetry Reading

"I Am" Poetry Reading

Bonus poetry reading of a 2021 poem used in a public reading through an online community program. 

Feb 23, 202301:24
Mama Bears and Allies and Revival

Mama Bears and Allies and Revival

In this Look to See Me podcast episode, Chris Pepple talks about the importance of communities coming together to stand with the LGBTQ+ community and speak out against the laws being passed in our states that take away rights. As churches split and discriminatory laws are passed and prejudices persist, new life is being breathed into these affirming communities that bring hope and love back to us all. People are coming together with a renewed spirit to stand for what is right. Thank you to everyone who speaks out and joins the conversation to bring change and stop the injustices.
Feb 22, 202321:09
What Grief Looks Like

What Grief Looks Like

In this Look to See Me podcast episode, Chris Pepple talks about the many faces of grief. After receiving the news of the death of her brother, she reflects on the way grief affected her in the following days. Grief can be known, yet grief can also be indescribable.
Feb 15, 202320:39
Creating Happy Spaces

Creating Happy Spaces

We often hear people talking about their “happy places.” They enjoy time at the beach or beside a mountain stream. They have a favorite cabin in the woods or a condo in the city they can visit and see the city lights. When we are weary or stressed and can’t get away, how can we create happy spaces in our homes? This Look to See Me podcast episode explores ways to create spaces in our homes that allow us to step away from our stress and worries and recenter. We can design spaces in our homes that let us recharge for a moment and reconnect with ourselves, hopefully finding a moment of peace.
Feb 08, 202316:59
Personal and Systemic Change

Personal and Systemic Change

Are we willing to be a part of the changes needed in our communities to be hope and love, equality and justice to all people? This Look to See Me podcast episode looks at ways we can change on a personal level that will then help us advocate for a end to abuse and hunger and lack of access to life-sustaining resources and many other challenges that face our communities. We can work to end systemic injustices.Let’s look at how we can be a beacon of hope in a hurting world. #systemicinjustice #change #advocacy
Jan 29, 202325:42
A Love Letter to Memphis

A Love Letter to Memphis

This Look to See Me podcast episode is a love letter to my city. I recorded this on an afternoon walk and left in the sounds of my city instead of editing them out. We are a city facing a tragic loss of one of our citizens and the arrest of five officers charged with his death. We must do better. I talk about all of the good I see in this city and reflect on the changes we still need to make. #Memphis #901
Jan 27, 202312:43
Seeing the Whole

Seeing the Whole

Do we take time to see the many different aspects of the people in our communities? Do we look past the labels and see the gifts and strengths people have to share? Do our labels force people into boxes we create so that we are comfortable? I challenge you to look past the labels and see the whole person. #respect #affirming #diversity
Jan 22, 202322:47
Remembering and Truth

Remembering and Truth

In. this Look to See Me episode, Chris Pepple remembers the life of her cousin who died of AIDS thirty years ago (1993) on the day of this recording. She reads part of his funeral service and reminisces about his life and the loving community in Key West who took care of him as he was dying. Who do we look to see?Whose stories do we truthfully tell as we share the courage and beauty and love in their lives? 


#AIDS

#LGBTQ+

#Family

#Love 

Jan 15, 202329:12
I Saw the Light

I Saw the Light

This Look to See Me podcast episode looks at light as a symbol in many faith traditions. Chris Pepple talks about Epiphany Sunday for Christians and relates that to our our journeys in life. We can find the answers that we need from the light outside of us and from our inner light. We may be uncertain as we move forward, but uncertainty doesn't have to be equated with fear. 

#light

#spirituality

#faith

#personalgrowth

#Epiphany

Jan 08, 202318:08
New Beginnings and Grace

New Beginnings and Grace

In this Look to See Me podcast episode, Chris Pepple explores the concept of extending grace to ourselves and others as we move into a time of new beginnings. #newbeginnings #newyear #grace
Jan 01, 202317:13
My Thoughts on Gifts and Thankfulness

My Thoughts on Gifts and Thankfulness

This Look to See Me podcast episode delves into the thoughts about what makes a gift special. I share my thoughts on what has been meaningful in my life during a challenging year.
Dec 26, 202219:36
Warmth

Warmth

In this Look to See Me podcast episode, Chris Pepple shares thoughts and memories about what it means to feel warm. She reflects on physical warmth when she sat around fires with her grandmother or her children. She also discusses what giving and receiving emotional warmth can mean, whether that’s sharing a hug, a safe space, or a moment of community around a shared table. #warmth #community #stories
Dec 17, 202216:49
Birth and Birthdays

Birth and Birthdays

I celebrated my birthday last week. It was a wonderful week filled with special people in my life. In this episode, I talk about the history of birthday celebrations and about all of the ways that we change and experience new "birth" moments in our lives. We are constantly growing and learning as we journey through life. Let's think about the ways we grow physically, spiritually, and emotionally as we move through different phases of life. 

#personalgrowth

#birthday

#history


This episode is also available as a blog post: http://looktoseeme.blog/2022/12/11/birth-and-birthdays/

Dec 11, 202214:57
Joy on the Journey

Joy on the Journey

What brings you joy? Do you find joy along your journey? In this Look to See Me podcast episode, Chris Pepple discusses ways she has found joy along her journey and seeks joy in her daily life. 

#joy

#personal growth

Dec 05, 202223:37
The Chairs: A Reflection on Courage and Community

The Chairs: A Reflection on Courage and Community

In this Look to See Me podcast episode, Chris Pepple reads an original short story title "The Chairs." She then reflects upon our journeys toward healing, hope, and love. Whether we are healing from domestic abuse or facing racism and inequality in our communities, we need a balance of moments of courage to fight the hard battles and moments of self-care that allow us to heal and rest. We can be both chair builders who create places for people to find safe spaces in our communities and be the person who needs to rest to heal and catch your breath. As we find the courage to bring equality and healing to all members of the LGBTQ+ community, to end racism, to stop domestic abuse, and to face hurts in our families and in our communities, let's think about the chairs we rest in and the chairs we offer to others. 

#Ally

#LGBTQ+

#Hope

#Healing

#SelfCare

Nov 27, 202219:21
Let’s Talk About Our Identities

Let’s Talk About Our Identities

This podcast episode opens the door for discussions about our gender identities and the states who are trying to make laws against transgender equality for youth and adults. Be a lifelong learner…be a listener…talk to professionals…talk to anyone who is transgender and willing to be open…read books by parents and by people who are nonbinary or transgender…care enough to be informed.

Let’s be known by our love rather than defined by our misunderstandings…

 This episode is also available as a blog post: http://looktoseeme.blog/2022/11/19/lets-talk-about-our-identities/

#TransgenderAwarenessWeek

#LGBTQ+

#Nonbinary

#Transgender

Nov 19, 202214:34
Best of the Week I

Best of the Week I

This episode lets listeners know some of the things that made me smile this week. I talk about being intentional about looking for joys along our journey when life is challenging. I also share three things that brought joy to me this week. We can be intentional about looking for joys and about being a joy in the life of someone else. 

#joy

#whatmademesmile

#funfindsinstores

Nov 15, 202211:45
Shifting the Bowl

Shifting the Bowl

Chris Pepple reads an original short story from her first published book, Look to See Me. "Shifting the Bowl" is a story of mothers and daughters and family memories...a glimpse of grief and the things we cherish as we heal.

Nov 08, 202218:40
Purple Purses and Financial Abuse

Purple Purses and Financial Abuse

Tennis star Serena Williams has teamed with the Allstate Foundation Purple Purse project to help us all understand the devastating effects of financial abuse and give us an opportunity to share conversations about how we can bring this to an end. I also share my story of surviving financial abuse.

Original Release Date: November 2018

Nov 08, 202218:06
Why It Matters to Me

Why It Matters to Me

My thoughts on why the Supreme Court nominee matters to me...our nation's choice will have an impact on my family.

First release date:24 September 2020

Nov 08, 202222:25
When We Fail

When We Fail

This podcast invites us to look closer at the lives of people around us and to take time to hear their stories. This week I reflect on what happens when we fail to look to see the truth about other people. I challenge all of us to create a common table where we can share our stories honestly and boldly in order to help bring about peace and hope in our hurting nation...a nation grieving over tragedies in our communities.

First released: October 2018

Nov 08, 202223:03
When Moms Get it Right

When Moms Get it Right

Today I’m talking about two groups of Moms who have given me the courage to speak out and to love and to find hope for all people. My silence though the years allowed all of discrimination against the LGBTQ+ community to continue. There is no pride for me in all that I failed to say—didn’t do. For the people I never fought for and spoke up with. I’m so glad the LGBTQ community has never given up the fight even when so many of us stayed silent. I’m silent no more. I’m a proud Mama Bear giving Free Mom Hugs. See you at the next Pride Parade…Happy Pride Month…Happy World Pride. You are loved…be courageous…be strong…be you….

First release date:30 June 2019

Nov 08, 202211:06
Tables or Sides

Tables or Sides

I used to naively believe that there never had to be “sides.” There never had to be choosing who to stand with because I thought we could learn to stand together. I believed in tables…I believed in conversations. I believed in being willing to hear another person’s voice, to understand another person’s life experiences. But then life taught me that some people are unwilling to come to the table and listen. Come to the table…join the conversations…there’s laughter and joy on the other side of the tears we will shed when we realize all the unnecessary losses that have occurred when we excluded people from the table.

Nov 08, 202209:31
All That is Good

All That is Good

Today I’m going to talk about all that is good. I have thought long and hard about what I consider to be the good in the world…what I will choose to love and be a voice for as much as I am able. I think we all need to use this time to define what we will stand for and what we define as all that is good in this world. Hang on to all that is good. Now is the time to embrace the good, share the love, offer hope, enable healing, and find joy and love and hope for yourself in the process.

Nov 08, 202211:37
A Tear Shed for Me

A Tear Shed for Me

Today I offer a reading of a Service of Healing originally written for a worship setting in Atlanta, Georgia. This reading reminds us to hang on to hope, to love, and to all that is good as we struggle in these uncertain times.

Nov 08, 202216:02
Even an Accountant Saves Lives

Even an Accountant Saves Lives

I’m Chris Pepple and today I’m once again going to talk about an individual instead of a nonprofit group. This week, however, I’m not going to talk about a public figure. I’m going to talk about a private individual…a person who could be defined as an average person in America with a career and a family. Today's episode is about a mentor and a financial coach. This is dedicated to all of the quiet heroes among us who often work without recognition. (Bonus poetry reading)

Nov 08, 202209:57
Power of Poetry

Power of Poetry

I’m Chris Pepple and today I’m going to talk about poetry. April is National Poetry Month, in case you didn’t know. National Poetry Month was inaugurated by the Academy of American Poets in 1996. So, in honor of this month, I’m reading here several of my poems from my book titled Looking, Seeing published in 2018.

Nov 08, 202213:22
Today Together

Today Together

In this podcast, I talk about people making one right choice at a time today. There’s a quote from Frozen 2 that says, “When one can see no future, all one can do is the next right thing.” I’m discussing what each of us can do in the moment we are in to not only help others but to also bring joy to ourselves as we do it. There are some wonderful things that individuals and communities are doing to think outside of their own worries and work to help others. (First released in 2020)

Nov 08, 202210:04
Election Day Thoughts

Election Day Thoughts

You will be known by your vote...by your love...by your justice...by your wisdom in understanding that we are all lifelong learners...that none of us have all of the answers...that we are better together.

Vote like I matter. I will vote like you matter as well. We can sort out the economy and the national debt after we make sure we are all safe...no one wants a weak economy. But no one should vote as if only money matters. People matter. 

Nov 08, 202209:03