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The Be A Man Podcast

The Be A Man Podcast

By CJ Wilkins

A deep journey into the strengths, weaknesses, victories, insecurities and overall matriculation of the modern Man.

Here we construct a honest, open and sometimes funny dialogue that is designed to improve and create healthier and more aware Masculinity.

Cover art photo provided by Tobias van Schneider on Unsplash



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One-Sided Relationships 101: C.J, Is She Using Me?

The Be A Man Podcast May 18, 2020

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The Interview Heard Around The World. But How Does It Improve You?

The Interview Heard Around The World. But How Does It Improve You?

CJ talks about the importance of enjoying content but work on yourself as well. Here Are My Platforms E-Mail: Cjwilkins89@gmail.com Podcast: https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/the-be-a-man-podcast/id1422487024?mt=2&uo=4 Instagram: @mrcjwilkins Cash App: $ChrisWilkins1989
Jan 09, 202418:18
At The End Of The Day: It's You Vs You

At The End Of The Day: It's You Vs You

CJ talks about the importance of knowing that we control both our failures and our successes in life and how to navigate both oceans. Here Are My Platforms E-Mail: Cjwilkins89@gmail.com Podcast: https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/the-be-a-man-podcast/id1422487024?mt=2&uo=4 Instagram: @mrcjwilkins Cash App: $ChrisWilkins1989
Dec 25, 202312:05
The MGTOW/ Red Pill Overdose: It's Entertainment, Don't Take Stuff It That Serious

The MGTOW/ Red Pill Overdose: It's Entertainment, Don't Take Stuff It That Serious

CJ talks about the importance of being able to compartmentalize and take all online content for what it is but don't allow it to ruin your real life.
Nov 22, 202317:41
You're Much Closer Than You Think ๐Ÿ‘‘โ™ฅ๏ธ๐Ÿ™Œ๐Ÿฟ

You're Much Closer Than You Think ๐Ÿ‘‘โ™ฅ๏ธ๐Ÿ™Œ๐Ÿฟ

CJ talks about the importance of realizing you're not as far off as you think from your goals.
Nov 16, 202315:01
The Old You Must Die & Fast

The Old You Must Die & Fast

CJ talks about the importance of eliminating the whole self in order for the new self to have room to grow and come into fruition.

Nov 15, 202315:29
The Curious Case Of Thy Boastful Jezebel

The Curious Case Of Thy Boastful Jezebel

A quick breakdown of the cocky skank in 2023
Nov 15, 202316:02
The Support Will Come From Strangers Over Friends /Family & That's Okay

The Support Will Come From Strangers Over Friends /Family & That's Okay

All new season 7 banger๐Ÿ™๐Ÿพโ™ฅ๏ธ๐Ÿ‘‘
Sep 12, 202306:16
Why Do Most Men SUCK At Selecting Women? Chapters 1 & 2 ๐Ÿ‘‘๐Ÿ™๐Ÿพโ™ฅ๏ธ

Why Do Most Men SUCK At Selecting Women? Chapters 1 & 2 ๐Ÿ‘‘๐Ÿ™๐Ÿพโ™ฅ๏ธ

CJ goes into a deep rant about the importance of Men knowing how to select a suitable mate in today's time. Here Are My Platforms E-Mail: Cjwilkins89@gmail.com Podcast: https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/the-be-a-man-podcast/id1422487024?mt=2&uo=4 Instagram: @mrcjwilkins Cash App: $ChrisWilkins1989
Sep 08, 202334:03
How Prayer Actually Works Vs How You Believe It Does: What Men & Women Can Learn๐Ÿ™Œ๐Ÿพ๐Ÿ‘‘โ™ฅ๏ธ

How Prayer Actually Works Vs How You Believe It Does: What Men & Women Can Learn๐Ÿ™Œ๐Ÿพ๐Ÿ‘‘โ™ฅ๏ธ

CJ goes into a tangent and breakdown about the importance of knowing how to actively pray as opposed to talking at God or the Creator.
Aug 16, 202315:04
The Inevitably Of Thy Blue-Pilled Male

The Inevitably Of Thy Blue-Pilled Male

CJ goes into a tangent about the fact that Beta Males will forever exist. Deal with it!
Aug 04, 202310:44
The Proverbial Roadblocks Of Life & How To Remove Them

The Proverbial Roadblocks Of Life & How To Remove Them

CJ goes into a deep spill about the importance of removing and identifying roadblocks in one's life.
Aug 01, 202311:30
Delayed Gratification 101

Delayed Gratification 101

CJ goes into a tangent about how delayed gratification can improve your life.
Aug 01, 202312:05
Keke And The Legion of Succubus-Apologists

Keke And The Legion of Succubus-Apologists

CJ goes into a Ted Talk on self accountability and poor actions as it pertains to the Modern human connection and the legion of zombies who enable it.
Jul 09, 202313:00
Dear Brotha: Learn How To Take Criticism

Dear Brotha: Learn How To Take Criticism

Christopher goes into a speil about the importance of men learning how to take constructive criticism in order to improve in life in business.
Jun 06, 202309:35
Is JA Morant Serious?

Is JA Morant Serious?

CJ goes deep into the JA scenario in the season 7 opener
May 16, 202316:03
Dear Men, QUIT Being The Nice Guy ๐Ÿง๐Ÿคฆ๐Ÿฟโ€โ™‚๏ธ

Dear Men, QUIT Being The Nice Guy ๐Ÿง๐Ÿคฆ๐Ÿฟโ€โ™‚๏ธ

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May 16, 202319:50
Dear Men, Never Trade Your Freedom & Or Life For ๐Ÿฑ ๐Ÿ’ฆ

Dear Men, Never Trade Your Freedom & Or Life For ๐Ÿฑ ๐Ÿ’ฆ

CJ talks about the importance of men never exchanging their freedom and or life for a vagina.
May 16, 202324:48
Top 3 Reasons It's Hard For Modern Men To Date Women๐Ÿค”๐Ÿง๐Ÿ˜ฉ

Top 3 Reasons It's Hard For Modern Men To Date Women๐Ÿค”๐Ÿง๐Ÿ˜ฉ

CJ goes into a deep dive about why it's hard for Modern Men to find a woman to take Serious in today's dating market.
May 16, 202315:39
The Vital Importance Of Generating Your Own Validation In Life.๐Ÿ™๐Ÿพ๐Ÿ’ฏ๐Ÿ‘‘

The Vital Importance Of Generating Your Own Validation In Life.๐Ÿ™๐Ÿพ๐Ÿ’ฏ๐Ÿ‘‘

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May 16, 202309:47
Passport Gang: The Darkside of Traveling For Validation ๐Ÿงโœˆ๏ธ

Passport Gang: The Darkside of Traveling For Validation ๐Ÿงโœˆ๏ธ

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May 16, 202328:20
The Art of Routine๐Ÿ‘‘๐Ÿ™๐Ÿพโค๏ธ

The Art of Routine๐Ÿ‘‘๐Ÿ™๐Ÿพโค๏ธ

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May 16, 202310:43
The Importance Of Men Understanding P.O.P: "Position of Power"โ™Ÿ๏ธ๐Ÿ‘‘๐Ÿ’ช๐Ÿพ

The Importance Of Men Understanding P.O.P: "Position of Power"โ™Ÿ๏ธ๐Ÿ‘‘๐Ÿ’ช๐Ÿพ

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May 16, 202319:32
What Black Men Could Learn From The Death Of PnB Rock๐Ÿ™๐Ÿพ๐Ÿ‘‘๐Ÿคฆ๐Ÿฟโ€โ™‚๏ธ

What Black Men Could Learn From The Death Of PnB Rock๐Ÿ™๐Ÿพ๐Ÿ‘‘๐Ÿคฆ๐Ÿฟโ€โ™‚๏ธ

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May 16, 202316:42
He Who Has His Faculties In Order, Thrives!๐Ÿ™๐Ÿพ๐Ÿ‘‘โค๏ธ๐Ÿ˜Œ

He Who Has His Faculties In Order, Thrives!๐Ÿ™๐Ÿพ๐Ÿ‘‘โค๏ธ๐Ÿ˜Œ

CJ goes into a deep field about the importance of man having enough equities in life in order.
May 16, 202330:03
Tyree Nichols Was Murdered By A Simp: What Men Can Learn From This

Tyree Nichols Was Murdered By A Simp: What Men Can Learn From This

CJ breaks down the horrific Murder of Memphian, T. Nichols in Jan 2023.
May 16, 202324:04
Anthony Anderson vs Divorce Court: What Young Men Could Learn ๐Ÿ’

Anthony Anderson vs Divorce Court: What Young Men Could Learn ๐Ÿ’

Breakdown of the Anthony Anderson's divorce.
May 15, 202322:46
Fellas, Lets Become Successful At Being Ourselves First!

Fellas, Lets Become Successful At Being Ourselves First!

CJ goes into a great spill about the importance of men becoming successful at being authentic and genuine with themselves and who they are first and everything great will come from that. enjoy
May 15, 202310:33
Black Trauma: We Must Cease Running And Begin Addressing

Black Trauma: We Must Cease Running And Begin Addressing

CJ talks about the importnace of the Black Community attending Therapy and breaking the generational curse of re-creating Trauma.
May 15, 202329:59
Manifesting Without WORK Is Delusional!๐Ÿ—ฃ๏ธ๐Ÿ™Œ๐Ÿพ

Manifesting Without WORK Is Delusional!๐Ÿ—ฃ๏ธ๐Ÿ™Œ๐Ÿพ

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May 15, 202313:58
Assets, Resources & Network: The 3 Keys To Freedom ๐Ÿ’ฏ๐Ÿ™Œ๐Ÿพโค๏ธ๐Ÿ‘‘

Assets, Resources & Network: The 3 Keys To Freedom ๐Ÿ’ฏ๐Ÿ™Œ๐Ÿพโค๏ธ๐Ÿ‘‘

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Jul 26, 202220:47
Men, You're The CEO of Your Life: Part 2. (The Chopping Block Theory )๐Ÿ’ฏ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿพ๐Ÿ‘‘๐Ÿ”ฅ

Men, You're The CEO of Your Life: Part 2. (The Chopping Block Theory )๐Ÿ’ฏ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿพ๐Ÿ‘‘๐Ÿ”ฅ

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Jul 24, 202228:30
The Importance of Your Origin Story: How It Molds You๐Ÿ’ฏ๐Ÿ‘‘๐Ÿ™Œ๐Ÿพโค๏ธ

The Importance of Your Origin Story: How It Molds You๐Ÿ’ฏ๐Ÿ‘‘๐Ÿ™Œ๐Ÿพโค๏ธ

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Jul 07, 202214:10
It's Imperative That You Carry Yourself As The Man You Want To Become, NOW .๐Ÿ™Œ๐Ÿพ๐Ÿ‘‘โค๏ธ๐Ÿ™‚

It's Imperative That You Carry Yourself As The Man You Want To Become, NOW .๐Ÿ™Œ๐Ÿพ๐Ÿ‘‘โค๏ธ๐Ÿ™‚

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Jun 23, 202209:10
Dear Men, What Are Your Standards?๐Ÿง๐Ÿค”

Dear Men, What Are Your Standards?๐Ÿง๐Ÿค”

CJ goes into a deep tangent about the importance of men having a principles base and standard for their life that all capacities. enjoy them
Jun 21, 202210:07
The Vital Importance Of Reaching New Heights

The Vital Importance Of Reaching New Heights

CJ create a new episode that talks about the importance of people reaching New heights and new levels in life toward all stagnation and the repetitive visiting of negative moments from the past. Always create new moments.
Jun 13, 202212:14
The Importance of Added Value To A Man's Life! ๐Ÿ™Œ๐Ÿพ๐Ÿ‘‘๐Ÿ’ช๐Ÿพ #TBAMP

The Importance of Added Value To A Man's Life! ๐Ÿ™Œ๐Ÿพ๐Ÿ‘‘๐Ÿ’ช๐Ÿพ #TBAMP

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Jun 10, 202214:27
3 Things A Man Must NEVER Allow To Control His Life ๐Ÿ‘‘๐Ÿ’ฏ๐Ÿ™Œ๐Ÿพโค๏ธ

3 Things A Man Must NEVER Allow To Control His Life ๐Ÿ‘‘๐Ÿ’ฏ๐Ÿ™Œ๐Ÿพโค๏ธ

1. Lust
2. Insecurities
3. Money
Jun 10, 202213:11
I Have A Vasectomy But She's Prego! #DiaryOfABeta ๐Ÿคฐ๐Ÿฝ๐Ÿคก

I Have A Vasectomy But She's Prego! #DiaryOfABeta ๐Ÿคฐ๐Ÿฝ๐Ÿคก

CJ highlights of video that went viral that shows her husband confronting his wife for being pregnant years after his vasectomy.
Jun 08, 202207:32
R.I.P Trouble: The Jealous Simp & The Succubus Whom Empower Them ๐Ÿ™Œ๐Ÿพ๐Ÿ’ฏ๐Ÿ‘‘โค๏ธ

R.I.P Trouble: The Jealous Simp & The Succubus Whom Empower Them ๐Ÿ™Œ๐Ÿพ๐Ÿ’ฏ๐Ÿ‘‘โค๏ธ

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Jun 07, 202229:56
Who Am I? What Do I Enjoy? & When Do I Need To Retire? ๐Ÿ™Œ๐Ÿพ๐Ÿ‘‘๐Ÿ’ฏ #TBAMP #Season6

Who Am I? What Do I Enjoy? & When Do I Need To Retire? ๐Ÿ™Œ๐Ÿพ๐Ÿ‘‘๐Ÿ’ฏ #TBAMP #Season6

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Jun 02, 202207:50
Dear Men: Protect Your Gifts In Life. ๐Ÿ‘‘๐Ÿ’ฏ๐Ÿ™Œ๐Ÿพ

Dear Men: Protect Your Gifts In Life. ๐Ÿ‘‘๐Ÿ’ฏ๐Ÿ™Œ๐Ÿพ

CJ goes into a spill informing men of the importance of protect their gifts and talents.
Jun 02, 202214:16
Always Learn From Your Mistakes๐Ÿง ๐Ÿค”

Always Learn From Your Mistakes๐Ÿง ๐Ÿค”

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May 24, 202204:17
Why YOU Must Create Your Happiness๐Ÿซต๐Ÿพ๐Ÿ˜Š

Why YOU Must Create Your Happiness๐Ÿซต๐Ÿพ๐Ÿ˜Š

CJ talks about the importance of Men being able to create and generate their own happiness for our sustained and fruitful life. Here Are My Platforms E-Mail: Cjwilkins89@gmail.com Podcast: https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/the-be-a-man-podcast/id1422487024?mt=2&uo=4 Instagram: &mrcjwilkins Cash App: $ChrisWilkins1989 Twitter: @CWILK1989
May 23, 202210:34
Reasons Why You MUST Eliminate External-Validation In 2022.๐Ÿ—ฃ๏ธ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿพ๐Ÿ‘‘๐Ÿ—๏ธ

Reasons Why You MUST Eliminate External-Validation In 2022.๐Ÿ—ฃ๏ธ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿพ๐Ÿ‘‘๐Ÿ—๏ธ

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May 19, 202212:58
The Vital Importance of Joy In Your Life๐Ÿ—ฃ๏ธ๐Ÿ‘‘โค๏ธ

The Vital Importance of Joy In Your Life๐Ÿ—ฃ๏ธ๐Ÿ‘‘โค๏ธ

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May 18, 202208:29
Dear Men: The Woman You Choose Will Effect Your Mental Health ๐Ÿ—ฃ๏ธ๐Ÿ‘‘โค๏ธ

Dear Men: The Woman You Choose Will Effect Your Mental Health ๐Ÿ—ฃ๏ธ๐Ÿ‘‘โค๏ธ

CJ talks about the importance of choosing the correct woman in dating so that your mental health will not be deteriorated.
May 14, 202215:01
R.I.P Kevin Samuels: Spirit Of The Undesiribable Wom@n.

R.I.P Kevin Samuels: Spirit Of The Undesiribable Wom@n.

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May 14, 202222:08
Pushing "R" Rico: What Young Men Could Learn From Dumb Rappers.๐Ÿคฆ๐Ÿพโ€โ™‚๏ธ๐Ÿ˜ฎโ€๐Ÿ’จ

Pushing "R" Rico: What Young Men Could Learn From Dumb Rappers.๐Ÿคฆ๐Ÿพโ€โ™‚๏ธ๐Ÿ˜ฎโ€๐Ÿ’จ

CJ goes into a rant about the importance of making high IQ decisions before and after you make it in life.
May 13, 202209:55
Dear Men, Please Quit Fighting Over H@es

Dear Men, Please Quit Fighting Over H@es

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May 11, 202210:55
What Are You Creating Today That Will Live Beyond You: LEGACY

What Are You Creating Today That Will Live Beyond You: LEGACY

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May 11, 202208:02