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20 Something

By Cleo & Vi

All things life!!! Our take on societal norms, independence, maturity, dating, and pop culture, with a little sprinkle young adult misfortune for some extra spazaz😭 Get to know us & our views on life as we know it as we spear through our 20s 🤪. Hosted by Cleo and Violet Follow our social media @cleoviolet20 for Instagram 📷 and 20 Something Podcast for our YouTube page. If you enjoy the show share with it your friends and family 🙏🏽 Email us at cleoviolet20@gmail.com for requests, suggestions, or any type of comments. We would LOVE to hear your feedback!❣️
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S5E4: What is means to be a Woman: Submission

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S5E4: What is means to be a Woman: Submission

S5E4: What is means to be a Woman: Submission

If you are active on social media you may have run across videos and posts aimed at “teaching” women how to be more feminine as well as the benefits of submission in our day to day lives. Today we discuss some of the harmful rhetoric circulating the internet and the hypocrisy of it all.
Jul 25, 202201:58:21
S5E3: Who Went Too Far? Will Smith or Chris Rock

S5E3: Who Went Too Far? Will Smith or Chris Rock

In today’s episode we break down this year’s Oscar fiasco and give our thoughts and opinions on the situation. We also touch on the hypocrisy in the public’s outrage on the topic.
Mar 29, 202201:10:24
S5E2: Ukraine (Europe) v. Race Relations

S5E2: Ukraine (Europe) v. Race Relations

In this episode we discuss the blatant discrimination and racism that black & brown people are being met with whilst trying to flee WW3.
Mar 22, 202201:42:08
S5E1: What’s Wrong With Men?

S5E1: What’s Wrong With Men?

Welcome back to season 5 of 20 something!! This we were talking about some of our personal experiences with men. Cause honeyyyy they have lost they minds!
Feb 03, 202202:04:09
S4E8:Nudists want the right to be nude 24/7!?

S4E8:Nudists want the right to be nude 24/7!?

Hey guys! One again thank you for tuning in! In this episode we react to the jubilee video “ do all nudists think the same”.
Aug 12, 202101:41:47
S4E7: Our thoughts on incest and white folks not showering…..😮‍💨

S4E7: Our thoughts on incest and white folks not showering…..😮‍💨

In this episode we talk about our thoughts on incest and give our opinion on Mila Kunis and Ashton Kutchers thought on not showering everyday.
Jul 28, 202101:22:34
S4E6: Women proposing to men?!?!😬

S4E6: Women proposing to men?!?!😬

In this episode we delve into our thoughts on women proposing to men and also a little light hearted advice segment courtesy of Six Brown Chicks!
Jul 22, 202101:04:27
S4Ep5: Pretty Privilege v. Self Confidence

S4Ep5: Pretty Privilege v. Self Confidence

We were inspired to record this week’s podcast after watching a YouTube video about one woman’s experience and perspective of pretty privilege. Join us as we discuss our views and opinions regarding the points presented in the video.
Jul 01, 202102:17:40
S4Ep4: The “Boys” and the “Simps”

S4Ep4: The “Boys” and the “Simps”

If you are tired of society shifting accountability for men’s shitty behavior through distractions tactics such as name calling and poor attempts at gaslighting, be sure to tune in to today’s episode cause we are too.
Jun 24, 202101:38:28
S4Ep3: Should There Be an Age Requirement for Cosmetic Surgery

S4Ep3: Should There Be an Age Requirement for Cosmetic Surgery

These days it seems like body modifications are the new norm. Whether it be naturally or surgically, we all do it. In today’s episode, we discuss how we feel about cosmetics surgeries and the influence it has on the youth.
Jun 16, 202101:18:16
S4Ep2: Is Racism the Cause of Obesity in the Black Community 🤔

S4Ep2: Is Racism the Cause of Obesity in the Black Community 🤔

In today’s episode we touch on a couple different topics, ranging from friendships, interracial dating, and health issues in the black community. Tune in to see what we have to say about the connection systematic racism has on obesity in the black community in the U.S.A.
Jun 09, 202101:25:26
S4Ep1: Anxiety, Depression, and College

S4Ep1: Anxiety, Depression, and College

Hey you guys!!! We missed you all so much but we’re super excited to be back. We wanted to start this new season off with a topic that is really important to us. Having a healthy state of mind should always be the number one priority in anyone’s life. We hope this episode will bring attention to the often overlooked struggles/battles college students have with anxiety and depression. ‼️‼️ Trigger warning: suicide and suicidal ideations are discussed in today’s episode ‼️‼️
Jun 03, 202102:42:15
S3Ep13: A Daughter or A Maid?...... ~ the Ethnic Household

S3Ep13: A Daughter or A Maid?...... ~ the Ethnic Household

Today we have a super special episode to end out our season....a listener’s request!!!!!!! We got our first topic suggestion from a loyal supporter and we loved the topic idea. We hope you enjoy us reliving some of the experiences we’ve had in our childhood as daughters in immigrant families 🥴
Nov 19, 202002:05:12
S3Ep12: Is Polyamory Just a Cop-Out

S3Ep12: Is Polyamory Just a Cop-Out

Today we discuss polyamory a and our views on open relationships, throuples, polygamy, and polyandry.
Nov 12, 202001:32:60
S3Ep11: The Battle of the Birkin 🛍🥴

S3Ep11: The Battle of the Birkin 🛍🥴

Today we discuss the obsession of certain luxury brands in HipHop and the black community. Spoiler alert: we think this is whole “debate” is a fucking mess
Oct 28, 202001:04:50
S3Ep10: Nigerian Protests and Voter Suppression in the USA #EndSARS #ENDSWAT

S3Ep10: Nigerian Protests and Voter Suppression in the USA #EndSARS #ENDSWAT

We wanted to use this opportunity to spread awareness on the social climate of Nigeria and the political climate of the USA. Nigeria is on the road to a revolution and we are here for it! P.S. we had to cut out the second half of the episode because the audio was overlapping really badly this episode so we will start recording in person again on the 28th!! We just wanted to put out the first half since it was important to us 💜💜 love you guys
Oct 15, 202045:21
S3Ep9: Random Chats #TipsyTittyTalk 🍷

S3Ep9: Random Chats #TipsyTittyTalk 🍷

Tune in for our tipsy version of a Q&A! Tune in to find out what juicy thoughts we share with you all in this laughter filled episode 😁
Oct 08, 202001:41:06
S3Ep8: Manifestation Mania✨

S3Ep8: Manifestation Mania✨

Today we discuss the concept and effectiveness of “manifesting”. Is there a method to the madness or is it just the placebo effect? Also can manifesting go too far? Tune in to find out.
Oct 01, 202051:24
S3E7.5: When do you know it’s time cut people out your life? Pt.2

S3E7.5: When do you know it’s time cut people out your life? Pt.2

Don’t worry you guys, we have the other half of the episode here! If you haven’t listened to part one of this conversation go and do so before tuning into this one.
Sep 23, 202001:30:37
S3E7: When do you know it’s time cut people out your life? Pt.1

S3E7: When do you know it’s time cut people out your life? Pt.1

Hint hint....*listen to your gut!! In today’s episode we use personal experiences to identify where we draw the line in a friendship. Tune in to hear about some epic fall outs and how we know when a friendship is at its wits end.
Sep 23, 202001:11:08
S3Ep6: You Just Pee’d in my PUSSY?!?!!.........

S3Ep6: You Just Pee’d in my PUSSY?!?!!.........

Men giving women relationship advice!....honestly sounds like a recipe for disaster huh 😅 Today we’ve discussed common relationship tips and found entertainment in the worst sexual experiences twitter had to offer.
Sep 17, 202001:53:02
S3Ep5: Unfortunate Events Vol. 3: The Homicidal Roommate 😨

S3Ep5: Unfortunate Events Vol. 3: The Homicidal Roommate 😨

Tune in as we recount our personal plight against deranged, dirty, and disgusting living partners in this epic battle of wills. College roomies can either make or break your experience 🙃 so if u have the choice, please choose wisely!
Sep 10, 202001:54:58
S3Ep4: You Want Head from your Barber?!- Happy Endings 😌

S3Ep4: You Want Head from your Barber?!- Happy Endings 😌

Tune in to hear what we think about Happy endings in the service industry. And we briefly discuss how we feel about sugar daddies and dating older men 🤭
Sep 03, 202001:38:25
S3Ep3: What To Watch~ Sex Education (Netflix Series)

S3Ep3: What To Watch~ Sex Education (Netflix Series)

We are honored to introduce a new segment to the show!! Today we share one of our favorite shows on Netflix with you! Sex Education 😆😆 Tune in as we rave about all the amazing aspects of the show that we rate a 10/10! And if you are thinking about watching it BEWARE for the spoilers ahead 🙊
Aug 26, 202001:53:49
S3Ep2: the Internet has Lost it’s FUCKING Mind

S3Ep2: the Internet has Lost it’s FUCKING Mind

From the tiktokers being blatantly racist to the culture vulturing, we had our hands full today! Tune in to see what we think about the latest internet “controversies” and how they translate to the real world.
Aug 19, 202001:42:24
S3Ep1: Stop Expecting Celebs to Raise YOUR Kids

S3Ep1: Stop Expecting Celebs to Raise YOUR Kids

We are so excited to be back!!! Today we hit on a ray of topics, ranging from Black Lives Matter to the memefication of black woman’s suffering and finally to the policing of our art.
Aug 12, 202001:55:08
S2E13: Finale- Can You Really Be Pro-Black and Still Date Interracially 🤨

S2E13: Finale- Can You Really Be Pro-Black and Still Date Interracially 🤨

For the season finale we decided to answer the reoccurring question of what it really means to be pro black and all it entails. We move on to talk about the Ari Lennox and Snoop Dogg insta shade and the #snowbunny TikTok trend. We love you all 🥰 Thank you guys so much for the support! We’ll be back for S3 in a few weeks💙💜
Apr 08, 202001:37:40
S2Ep12: “Is It Wrong to Make-out with My Sibling?” Ask Cleo&Violet #Advice2

S2Ep12: “Is It Wrong to Make-out with My Sibling?” Ask Cleo&Violet #Advice2

During this isolation period you can either swim or float within that rocky relationship that you’re in. So today we’ve brought to what NOT do in your relationship and some heartfelt advice on how to get yourself outta a sticky situation if you so happen to find yourself in one 😉 Question Credits: @Sixbrownchicks and the internet
Apr 02, 202002:14:11
S2Ep11: The Corona Frenzy #QuaratineLifestyle

S2Ep11: The Corona Frenzy #QuaratineLifestyle

In today’s episode we start off by discussing the over AND under-reaction to this pandemic. We also hit the social media challenges and celebrity reactions to the outbreak and give you our honest unfiltered opinions on the whole ordeal. **Disclaimer: we are practicing “social distancing” so we are recording in two separate spaces, so if the audio is janky we do apologize 😬💜
Mar 26, 202002:08:37
S2Ep10: Unfortunate Events Vol. 2: A Stalker’s Guide to Dating

S2Ep10: Unfortunate Events Vol. 2: A Stalker’s Guide to Dating

In today’s episode we discuss the dangers of false rhetoric when it comes to flirting in mainstream media and blogs and we both share some very unfortunate encounters we’ve had when men just can’t seem to get the hint. 🥴LISTEN TIL THE END (that last story was a trip)🙃
Mar 18, 202002:07:14
S2Ep9: Drag Queens Read to Toddlers in the Library

S2Ep9: Drag Queens Read to Toddlers in the Library

The title speaks for itself. Tune in to find out why this is even controversial in the first place.
Mar 12, 202041:16
S2Ep8: Dating Q&A //Molested in da Club?!?!

S2Ep8: Dating Q&A //Molested in da Club?!?!

In this episode we learn more about our own separate ideals when it comes to dating. We have questions and we share an eventful night out with the girls😭
Mar 05, 202001:25:16
S2Ep7: Bedroom Banter- Sexual Oreintation ft Veronica

S2Ep7: Bedroom Banter- Sexual Oreintation ft Veronica

*Drumroll plssss* Today we have our very first guest you guyssss!!!!! Introducing our good sis Veronica. We share our sexual orientation, worst sexual experiences, talk about sexual preference, and discuss bisexuality. Let us know how you feel about Veronica and the views expressed in this episode.
Feb 26, 202001:52:57
S2E6: Social Experiment or Undercover INCEL Agenda

S2E6: Social Experiment or Undercover INCEL Agenda

Tune in to hear how misogyny has polluted the dating scene and made it ok for men to purposefully try to diminish a women’s worth by labeling her as a “bird” or a “bitch”. Help us decide if this is just an innocent experiment or the makings of INCELs.
Feb 19, 202001:29:15
S2E5: ISPUK/ADOS...a Hate Group or a Lineage???- Xenophobia in the U.S

S2E5: ISPUK/ADOS...a Hate Group or a Lineage???- Xenophobia in the U.S

Join us today as we uncover the ugly parts of our community; hate groups. And stick around to hear us discuss the nuances of xenophobia in regards to Africans and Black Americans in the U.S.
Feb 13, 202002:23:26
S2Ep4: #TipsyTittyTalk🍷~ Feminists Hate Themselves? ft Advice

S2Ep4: #TipsyTittyTalk🍷~ Feminists Hate Themselves? ft Advice

Disclaimer: we are TIPSY AF so excuse us if we are just chatting shit 🥴🥴This Wednesday we wanted to invite all of you to unwind, drink, and laugh with us as we discuss feminism, self improvement, sexual boundaries, give advice and much more!!!!
Feb 05, 202057:02
S2Ep3: Is it Okay to Compare Women to Animals? - Colorism v. Featurism

S2Ep3: Is it Okay to Compare Women to Animals? - Colorism v. Featurism

If you thought you were the only one who was tired of all the colorist bullshit in our world think again cause we’re just as annoyed as you. This episode we tackle the harmful rhetoric that we all have been fed since we were children and discuss the negative impact it can have on young minds.
Jan 29, 202001:55:48
S2Ep2: Bedroom Banter- Naughty for the Night💋

S2Ep2: Bedroom Banter- Naughty for the Night💋

Disclaimer!! Highly SEXUAL CONTENT‼️ In today’s episode we invite you all into our bedroom to learn a bit about our thoughts on sex, sexual desires and more! 🤫 We apologize for the low sound on this episode we are still trying to get used to the mics😬💜
Jan 22, 202002:02:06
S2Ep1: Relationships Can Be Hell

S2Ep1: Relationships Can Be Hell

Today we introduce the new season with a personal story from Cleo. Join us as she discusses the highs and lows of her most serious relationship to date and the lessons she learned along the way. We hope you enjoy😉
Jan 15, 202001:21:25
Ep:1 The Pilot #HotGirlSummer

Ep:1 The Pilot #HotGirlSummer

Tune in to learn a bit about us and how our podcast came to be! Come along with us as we transition from a hot girl summer to a hot girl semester.
Jan 10, 202055:35
Ep:13 The Finale: Psuedo-Positivity and Our Goals for Next Season

Ep:13 The Finale: Psuedo-Positivity and Our Goals for Next Season

Tune into our last episode of the season! We wish you guys a good rest of your year and look out for us in January! 💕
Dec 04, 201901:12:09
Ep:12 Dating Do’s and Don’ts ft. First Date Horror Stories

Ep:12 Dating Do’s and Don’ts ft. First Date Horror Stories

Tune in to hear about our ideal first dates, as well as some of our first date horror stories. DISCLAIMER: the audio is a bit lower than normal so we apologize for the inconvenience 🥴🥴
Nov 27, 201901:49:32
Ep:11 Baddie with an Extra Baby Finger?!?!! #Advice ft SixBrownChicks

Ep:11 Baddie with an Extra Baby Finger?!?!! #Advice ft SixBrownChicks

Need a counselor? Don’t worry we’ve got you!!! Tune in to our brutality honest therapy session 😭 because some of you need a serious reality check. Special thanks to SixBrownChicks on twitter for the questions used in this episode.
Nov 21, 201901:25:39
Ep:10 Asians Takeover the Black Beauty Industry?

Ep:10 Asians Takeover the Black Beauty Industry?

Today’s episode is brought to you by Twitter!! Tune in this week to hear us discuss the rivalry between Asian beauty owners and Black beauty owners. Also stay tuned till the end to hear us react to funny dating issue ft. Six Brown Chicks.
Nov 13, 201901:28:54
Ep:9 White Entitlement

Ep:9 White Entitlement

Tune in to hear us discuss our qualms with White People’s Entitlement. We dive into not only our own personal experiences but others’ as well. We bring in history, articles, and multiple scenarios to back up our claims and observations. We hope you enjoy and take some notes on how to react in the face of adversity 😂😂.
Nov 06, 201901:46:22
Ep:8 The Disregard of Black Women

Ep:8 The Disregard of Black Women

Join us as we address multiple obstacles we face as black women today. Firstly we discuss the case, or lack there of, of a South Carolina DJ, Jason Pope aka DJ Kidd. An HIV carrier accused of raping and trafficking 700+ black women/girls. We also touch on the toxic ride or die culture in the black community and the disrespect we face from our counter parts in the quest of love.
Oct 30, 201901:54:35
Ep:7 Sex for Grades

Ep:7 Sex for Grades

Today we are discussing the epidemic of sexual harassment in school systems in West Africa and the U. S. We also touch on our own experiences with our teachers in middle and high school. Episode inspiration from BBC Africa documentary; “Sex for Grades”.
Oct 23, 201901:18:46
Ep:6 Hollywood is Replacing “Real” Black Actors 🤔

Ep:6 Hollywood is Replacing “Real” Black Actors 🤔

A deeper dive into xenophobia and Hollywood. How we feel about the “trend” of British celebrities coming to the U.S and playing American characters.
Oct 16, 201901:41:07
Ep:5 Can I give her a hug? PLEASE!!!!

Ep:5 Can I give her a hug? PLEASE!!!!

So this episode we are going to dive into the Botham Jean case and the creepiness of this whole case. Update: we are aware of the even more recent findings and allegations, HOWEVER both of our thoughts behind this case haven’t changed one bit.
Oct 09, 201901:27:45
Ep:4 Unfortunate Events Vol. 1: Make-Out with YOU?!?!!!

Ep:4 Unfortunate Events Vol. 1: Make-Out with YOU?!?!!!

Ted Talk on overgrown babies in men costumes ft tinder fails pt1.
Oct 02, 201901:25:02