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A podcast for leaders and coaches sharing practical strategies and tools to build your team's culture and help you grow as a leader. Co-hosted by J.P. Nerbun and Nate Sanderson of TOC Culture Consulting, and Betsy Butterick. Get the podcast notes and learn more about us at tocculture.com
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135 From Worst to First-- Building a Purpose Driven Program with Boomer Roberts Part 1

Coaching CultureApr 20, 2020

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347: Earning and Teaching Respect in Today’s Athlete

347: Earning and Teaching Respect in Today’s Athlete

Exploring the changing dynamics of respect in sports, the hosts delve into the topic of respecting elders in the context of the coach-athlete relationship. Drawing from personal experiences and conversations with athletes, they reflect on how respect is evolving in the sports world. From athletes preferring to be spoken to rather than yelled at, to questioning traditional norms of respect, the episode raises thought-provoking questions about generational shifts in attitudes towards authority and respect.


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May 05, 202441:02
346: Best Practices for Elevated Team Communication | Coach Holly Turbill UMass Field Hockey Part 2

346: Best Practices for Elevated Team Communication | Coach Holly Turbill UMass Field Hockey Part 2

In this episode, Holly Turbill from UMass Field Hockey joins Nate and Betsy to discuss effective team communication. They explore coaching strategies to help direct communicators succeed with their teammates, using film for feedback, shifting language to make feedback positive, framing questions for better conversations, and providing examples for players to consider. Tune in to the Coaching Culture Podcast for valuable insights on leadership and building a stronger team culture.


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Apr 28, 202431:15
345: Coaches as Educators and a Questions-based Approach to Sport | Coach Holly Turbill UMass Field Hockey

345: Coaches as Educators and a Questions-based Approach to Sport | Coach Holly Turbill UMass Field Hockey

In this episode of the Coaching Culture Podcast, Nate Sanderson and Betsy Butterick sit down with Holly Turbill, assistant field hockey coach at the University of Massachusetts. Holly shares her extensive coaching journey and insights on effective coaching strategies, particularly focusing on the importance of communication within teams.

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Apr 21, 202430:04
344: How to Coach with Humility and Conviction

344: How to Coach with Humility and Conviction

Apr 14, 202446:57
343: The Keys to High-Performance Leadership | Brian Levenson Part 2

343: The Keys to High-Performance Leadership | Brian Levenson Part 2

Discover what it truly means to embody high performance in sports culture and leadership on this episode. Explore the habits and mindset of high-performance athletes and how they go above and beyond to excel. Learn how dedication, discipline, and a focus on continuous improvement are key factors in achieving peak performance. Whether you're a coach, athlete, or leader, this episode offers insights into what it takes to cultivate a winning mentality and drive success in your team or organization.


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Apr 07, 202432:18
342: Coaching High Performance Leaders | Brian Levenson Part 1

342: Coaching High Performance Leaders | Brian Levenson Part 1

Leadership Coach Brian Levenson joins us for this episode to discuss the importance of coaching in improving team culture and personal growth. He emphasizes the value of coaching based on personal experience. Levenson's expertise in executive coaching and mental performance has positively impacted CEOs, professional athletes, and teams in the NBA and NHL. Tune in on Sunday for valuable strategies and tips on building a great team culture through effective leadership coaching.


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Mar 31, 202431:10
341: Embracing What You Can Control: A Coach's Guide to Letting Go

341: Embracing What You Can Control: A Coach's Guide to Letting Go

Discover how focusing on controlling the controllables can transform your coaching approach in this episode. We talk about the experiences of getting caught up in uncontrollable factors like referee calls, player decisions, and program limitations. By emphasizing the importance of managing what is within your power, listeners gain valuable insights for building a positive team culture. Tune in for practical tips on shifting your mindset and maximizing your coaching impact.

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Mar 25, 202435:33
340: Evolving as a Coach to Best Serve Your Athletes| LSU Assistant Coach Bob Starkey Part 2

340: Evolving as a Coach to Best Serve Your Athletes| LSU Assistant Coach Bob Starkey Part 2

Mar 17, 202444:38
339: 45 Years of Assistant Coach Experience & Learnings | LSU Assistant Coach Bob Starkey Part 1

339: 45 Years of Assistant Coach Experience & Learnings | LSU Assistant Coach Bob Starkey Part 1

Mar 10, 202430:11
338: Redefining Accountability: Building a Culture of Support

338: Redefining Accountability: Building a Culture of Support

In his episode JP, Nate and Betsy delve into real-life examples of teammates supporting and challenging each other to uphold team standards. From intervening before a big game to addressing blame after a loss, the importance of holding each other accountable is emphasized. Join the discussion on the challenges and benefits of player accountability in fostering a strong team dynamic.
Mar 03, 202435:18
337: Embodied Mindfulness in Action: Dr. Amanda Blake on Leveraging Your Somatic Intelligence (Part 2)

337: Embodied Mindfulness in Action: Dr. Amanda Blake on Leveraging Your Somatic Intelligence (Part 2)

JP and Betsy, delve into the topic of mindfulness and somatic intelligence with guest, Dr. Amanda Blake. They discuss the benefits of incorporating mindfulness into everyday activities and stressful situations, particularly in leadership roles. Amanda shares valuable insights on how to bring embodied mindfulness to daily experiences and teams to help navigate obstacles and drive positive change.

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Feb 25, 202432:02
336: Your Body is Your Brain: Dr. Amanda Blake On How Somatic Intelligence Can Help You Unlock New Levels of Leadership

336: Your Body is Your Brain: Dr. Amanda Blake On How Somatic Intelligence Can Help You Unlock New Levels of Leadership

In this episode of the Coaching Culture Podcast, we are joined by Dr. Amanda Blake, the author of the impactful book "Your Body is Your Brain." Dr. Blake teaches about somatic intelligence and the art of embodiment. In part one of the conversation, we explore what somatic intelligence is and how it can benefit us. Stay tuned for part two, where we dive into leveraging somatic intelligence and embodiment as leaders and with our teams. Hosted by JP Nurbin, Nate Sanderson, and Betsy Butterick.
Feb 18, 202441:41
335: “All the Feels”- Emotional Regulation in Sport

335: “All the Feels”- Emotional Regulation in Sport

In this episode of the Coaching Culture Podcast, we dive into the topic of managing emotions in athletes. We discuss the responsibility of coaches in helping athletes navigate their emotions and provide practical strategies for supporting athletes in constructing more helpful emotions. From understanding triggers to practicing emotional regulation, this episode offers valuable insights for coaches looking to create a positive and supportive team culture.


Feb 11, 202446:40
334: Developing a Fluid Sense of Self and Rethinking Our Coaching Personality & Style | Bestselling Author Brad Stulberg Part 2

334: Developing a Fluid Sense of Self and Rethinking Our Coaching Personality & Style | Bestselling Author Brad Stulberg Part 2

In this episode, JP and Nate continue their conversation with Brad Stulberg, author of best seller "The Master of Change." They explore the importance of developing a fluid sense of self and challenge the traditional notions of personality and style in leadership. We share our perspectives on how this discussion has shifted their own views and invite listeners to rethink their own understanding of identity.
Feb 04, 202432:43
BONUS EPISODE: The Sports Parent Problem... And Solution!

BONUS EPISODE: The Sports Parent Problem... And Solution!

The Sports Parent Solution Audiobook is now available on Audible! This bonus episode is the forward of the book, written and read by Nate Sanderson and the Introduction (JP Nerbun)

Building partnerships with sports parents not only significantly reduces parent-related problems but also brings several other benefits. When we partner with parents:

  • More parents will support the team culture and the experience you are trying to create.

  • They will be more likely to support your efforts to coach and challenge their child, especially those athletes who you struggle with buy in

  • A little investment in these relationships will save you time and energy, allowing you to get back to enjoying coaching.

If this sounds like something you want or need, be sure to pick up "The Sports Parent Solution" today. It's available on Amazon, Apple Books, and now Audible!

Jan 31, 202424:06
333: Knowing, Living, and Developing a Team Culture through Your Core Values | Bestselling Author Brad Stulberg Part 1

333: Knowing, Living, and Developing a Team Culture through Your Core Values | Bestselling Author Brad Stulberg Part 1

Bestselling author Brad Stulberg joins us to discuss the importance of core values in navigating change. Brad shares insights on how leaders can stay true to themselves while adapting to the inevitable changes in today's sporting environment. With his expertise in excellence, resilience, and performance, Brad offers valuable advice on maintaining a sense of fulfillment and genuine success. He helps listeners to discover how core values can guide you through the ever-changing landscape of sports and leadership.


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Jan 28, 202436:29
332: Unlocking Authenticity: A Deep Dive into its Essence and Practical Strategies for Amplifying Your Genuine Self

332: Unlocking Authenticity: A Deep Dive into its Essence and Practical Strategies for Amplifying Your Genuine Self

In this episode, we explore the importance of authenticity in leadership. Drawing from a talk by Brad Stevens, former basketball coach turned general manager, we learn that being true to yourself is crucial for success. Stevens emphasizes the need to embrace who you are as a leader and not try to be someone else. He shares a valuable piece of advice he received early in his career: Just be yourself and give your all to help your team thrive.


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Jan 21, 202444:23
331: Changing the Game Through How We Coach | UCLA Women's Soccer Coach Marguerite Aozasa Part 2

331: Changing the Game Through How We Coach | UCLA Women's Soccer Coach Marguerite Aozasa Part 2

We continue our conversation with Margueritte Aozasa and discuss how she responded to her team's upset in the NCAA tournament and how she supports her players emotionally. Marguerite also shares her perspective on effective coaching and addresses misperceptions around coaching. Tune in to gain insights into leadership, team culture, and personal growth.

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Jan 14, 202434:25
330: Shaping Culture Through Flexibility and Transparency UCLA Women's Soccer Coach Marguerite Aozasa Part 1

330: Shaping Culture Through Flexibility and Transparency UCLA Women's Soccer Coach Marguerite Aozasa Part 1

Marguerite made history by becoming the first rookie head coach and first woman of color to win the NCAA Division I Women's Soccer National Championship. Marguerite shares her insights on building a strong team culture, embracing joy and silliness, holding players accountable without yelling or screaming, and managing playing time. She provides valuable lessons on leadership and creating a winning environment.

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Jan 07, 202431:49
329 Mindtraps Series #5- Ego

329 Mindtraps Series #5- Ego

In this episode of the Coaching Culture Podcast, JP Nurbin and Nate Sanderson discuss the fifth and final leadership mind trap: ego. They explore how the ego can hinder personal and professional growth, as well as the ways in which it can manifest, such as defensiveness and a need to protect one's image. The hosts also provide solutions for escaping the ego mind trap. This timely episode is a great way to end the year and start the new one with a renewed focus on personal development and leadership. Tune in to gain valuable insights and strategies for overcoming ego-related challenges.

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Dec 31, 202340:54
328: Coaching Coaches Through Today’s Sporting Landscape Betsy Butterick- Part 2

328: Coaching Coaches Through Today’s Sporting Landscape Betsy Butterick- Part 2

In this episode of the Coaching Culture Podcast, JP Nerbun and Nate Sanderson continue their conversation with Betsy Butterick, a leadership coach and communication specialist. They discuss the increasing demands and expectations placed on coaches and the need for more support in the coaching profession. Betsy shares her personal journey of transitioning from coaching sports to coaching in other areas of life. Stay tuned for more insights and wisdom from Betsy as she joins the podcast as a co-host in 2024.



Dec 24, 202331:23
327: Coaching as a Journey of Self-Discovery- Betsy Butterick | Part 1

327: Coaching as a Journey of Self-Discovery- Betsy Butterick | Part 1

Exciting news! Betsy Butterick, will be joining Nate and JP on the Coaching Culture Podcast as a co-host. JP introduces Betsy and highlights her expertise as a leadership coach and communicator. The podcast also discusses the importance of giving women a voice in the podcast and books. Betsy shares her background as a former athlete with aspirations. She talks about her journey from being a successful high school player to playing and coaching and coaching coaches.



Dec 17, 202331:21
326: Mindtraps Series #4- Control

326: Mindtraps Series #4- Control

Dec 10, 202335:32
325: Culture Systems, Walls and Onboarding with Erica Marrari of GapingVoid - Part 2

325: Culture Systems, Walls and Onboarding with Erica Marrari of GapingVoid - Part 2

JP Nerbun and Nate Sanderson continue their conversation with Erica Marrari, the COO of GapingVoid, a culture design organization and consulting group. They discuss how organizations can use semiotics to influence and visualize beliefs & values. The episode also explores the challenges of meeting resistance and rewarding the norms that mirror change. Get a glimpse into the value that GapingVoid provides its applicants and why that is important to them as a company. 
Dec 03, 202333:60
324: Accelerating Culture Change and The Importance of Culture Language - Erica Marrari Part 1

324: Accelerating Culture Change and The Importance of Culture Language - Erica Marrari Part 1

JP Nerbun and Nate Sanderson interview Erica Marrari, the COO of GapingVoid, a culture design organization and consulting group. They discuss the importance of culture in driving team results and how to accelerate culture change. The episode also explores the power of storytelling and how to create and use culture language to shape the desired culture. Get the Podcast Notes and Subscribe to our weekly newsletter! https://www.tocculture.com/newsletter

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Nov 29, 202340:51
323: Mindtraps Series #3- Agreement

323: Mindtraps Series #3- Agreement

Nov 19, 202334:39
322: Losing & Tilt |Annie Duke Part 2

322: Losing & Tilt |Annie Duke Part 2

In this episode, JP and Nate continue their conversation with Annie Duke, a New York Times bestselling author and former World Series of Poker champion. They discuss the challenges that coaches face when it comes to winning and losing, including the fear of failure and the tendency to let losses derail their strategy and leadership. They explore ways to stay focused on the process and not let the fear of failure hinder personal growth and enjoyment of the coaching journey. Tune in for valuable insights on how to navigate the ups and downs of coaching.

Nov 12, 202336:31
Resulting & Thinking in Bets | Annie Duke World Series of Poker Winner Part 1

Resulting & Thinking in Bets | Annie Duke World Series of Poker Winner Part 1

Nov 05, 202340:29
Episode 320: Mindtraps Series #2 - Rightness

Episode 320: Mindtraps Series #2 - Rightness

JP and Nate discuss the second of five Mindtraps from Jennifer Garvey Berger’s book "Unlocking Leadership Mindtraps".

 

In this episode, JP and Nate highlight 

  • The significance of humility in the learning process. 

  • Letting go of the need for control and certainty will allow us to focus on making the best possible decisions with the information at hand. 

  • The mindset that allows us to be open to the possibility of being wrong and encourages a willingness to learn from our mistakes. 

  • How to gain a deeper understanding of ourselves, challenge our assumptions, and improve our decision-making abilities.

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Oct 29, 202335:58
319 Making Mental Training Accessible to Today’s Athletes | Lisa Mitzel Championship Gymnast & Mental Health Coach (Part 2)

319 Making Mental Training Accessible to Today’s Athletes | Lisa Mitzel Championship Gymnast & Mental Health Coach (Part 2)

Two decades ago, mental performance coaching played a significant role in training athletes. Today, the spotlight has shifted towards mental health. In this episode, special guest Lisa Mitzel shares in Part 2 of our conversation, stories and strategies focused on mental well-being. Lisa is a distinguished mental training and mental health coach, an author of two books, and the founder and president of Zen Tiger Mind, a company specializing in equipment and merchandise for mental training and athlete wellness. She is also the innovative mind behind the mental power station, an international speaker, and clinician.

√ A championship mindset

√ Baby steps back to confidence

√ Mental Health First Aid

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Oct 22, 202341:32
318 Making Mental Training Accessible to Today’s Athletes | Lisa Mitzel Championship Gymnast & Mental Health Coach (Part 1)

318 Making Mental Training Accessible to Today’s Athletes | Lisa Mitzel Championship Gymnast & Mental Health Coach (Part 1)

The mental aspect of sports is often the most significant obstacle preventing athletes from reaching their full potential. Yet, many coaches lack confidence in guiding their athletes to overcome these mental challenges. In this episode, JP and Nate are joined by a special guest, Lisa Mitzel. She is a renowned mental training and mental health coach, author of two books, and the founder and president of Zen Tiger Mind, a company specializing in equipment and merchandise for mental training and athlete wellness. Lisa is the creator of the mental power station, an international speaker, and clinician. Prior to her coaching career, she excelled as an elite gymnast, NCAA National champion, six-time All-American, and a member of four NCAA national championship teams at the University of Utah. She is also a hall of fame inductee.

√ Coaching is a job of service and servant leadership

√ Young people want to be confident and in control

√ Improve through awareness, learning, and application

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Oct 15, 202341:38
317 Mindtraps Series #1 - Simple Stories

317 Mindtraps Series #1 - Simple Stories

Navigating leadership in today's world is more challenging than ever, marked by its unpredictability and rapid changes. Despite this, many still rely on traditional tactics, even when they prove ineffective. In her book "Unlocking Leadership Mindtraps," leadership consultant, researcher, and coach Jennifer Garvey Berger identifies common shortcuts, or mindtraps, that people fall into. Often, without realizing we're caught in one of these traps, we tend to believe the solution lies in trying harder. In this episode, JP and Nate embark on the first of a series of discussions, spread across the coming months, where they explore each of Berger's five leadership mindtraps in depth.

√ Simple solutions don’t exist in a complex world

√ The story we are telling ourselves is critical

√ Simple communication leads to big problems

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Oct 08, 202334:54
316 Supporting Today's Athlete as a Parent and Coach | Cris Pinciroli and Alissa Pascual (Part 2)

316 Supporting Today's Athlete as a Parent and Coach | Cris Pinciroli and Alissa Pascual (Part 2)

In the second segment of our two-part conversation, we are joined again by two world-class water polo players, Cris Pinciroli and her daughter Alissa. JP and Nate discuss with Cris and Alissa how coaches and parents can work together to support high performance athletes with rest, support, and mental health. This discussion encompasses those athletes that are highly inspired and also the ones living in a burnt out world.

√ The biggest challenge for sports parents

√ Perspective from the balcony and dance floor

√ The biggest contributor of happiness

Cris’s book: Sport: A Stage for Life

Cris on Instagram: crispinciroli

Stanford’s Women's Water Polo: Alissa Pascual

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Oct 01, 202329:16
315 Inspiring Today's Athlete as a Parent and Coach | Cris Pinciroli and Alissa Pascual (Part 1)

315 Inspiring Today's Athlete as a Parent and Coach | Cris Pinciroli and Alissa Pascual (Part 1)

The demands on athletes have never been higher. In the first segment of our two-part conversation, we are joined by two world-class water polo players, Cris Pinciroli and her daughter Alissa. Cris, the founder of WeTeam, a consulting company focused on high performance and positive psychology, served as the captain of the Brazilian women's water polo team for 15 years and, at one point, was ranked among the top 7 players in the world. Alissa currently plays water polo at Stanford University. In this episode, JP and Nate engage with Cris and Alissa to explore how parents and coaches can inspire athletes.

√ Balance and burnout are a real struggle

√ Games are for the players, not parents

√ Everyone needs their own island of sanity

Cris’s book: Sport: A Stage for Life

Cris on Instagram: crispinciroli

Stanford’s Women's Water Polo: Alissa Pascual

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Sep 24, 202335:29
314 How to Respond to Players Transferring or Quitting the Team

314 How to Respond to Players Transferring or Quitting the Team

A prevalent challenge in the modern-day sports environment is the departure of players due to transfers or personal reasons, which can lead individuals away from their teams. This phenomenon occurs across various levels, including youth, high school, collegiate, and even professional ranks. In this episode, JP and Nate engage in a conversation addressing this reality of players leaving and provide insights on how to respond appropriately while effectively guiding a team.

√ Players quitting a team can become a contagion

√ Coaches should strive to respond with grace

√ Make players feel loved, valued, and appreciated

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Sep 17, 202335:59
313 Embracing Compassionate Candor | Kim Scott, NY Times Best Selling Author (Part 2)

313 Embracing Compassionate Candor | Kim Scott, NY Times Best Selling Author (Part 2)

Leadership in today’s world is complex, particularly when considering the delicate balance between compassion and candor. In Part 2 of their conversation, JP and Nate further explore this dynamic with guest Kim Scott. This episode is rich with insights on enhancing communication and feedback. The discussion revolves around Kim's book, Radical Candor.

√ In emotionally charged exchanges, get curious, not furious

√ Bias, prejudice, and bullying can masquerade as feedback

√ For leaders, it may not be your fault, but it is your problem

Guest Twitter: @kimballscott

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Sep 10, 202336:27
312 Embracing Compassionate Candor | Kim Scott, NY Times Best Selling Author (Part 1)

312 Embracing Compassionate Candor | Kim Scott, NY Times Best Selling Author (Part 1)

Leadership in today’s world is complex. It involves many polarities, such as autonomy and control, support and accountability, love and truth. Effective leadership goes beyond either/or thinking. It necessitates the integration of these opposing concepts. In this episode, JP and Nate are delighted to host Kim Scott, a New York Times best-selling author and renowned expert in leadership. Kim is celebrated for her pioneering efforts in advancing effective communication and leadership practices. This two-part conversation centers around Kim's book, Radical Candor.

√ Truths about Steve Jobs’ intentionality at Apple

√ The cultural differences of Apple and Google

√ Leaders must challenge directly AND care personally

Guest Twitter: @kimballscott

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Sep 03, 202328:14
311 The Art of Sports Parenting

311 The Art of Sports Parenting

Over the past two episodes, our distinguished guest from the Harvard Graduate School of Education, Richard Weissbourd, unveiled some poignant realities about the role of a sports parent. In this conversation, JP and Nate aim to address a crucial question: How can we skillfully navigate these challenges to steer clear of the detrimental sports parenting behaviors discussed in Episode 309? Tune in as they recount personal stories and openly discuss their own trials and tribulations.

√ Well-intentioned adults also make mistakes

√ Guidelines for parents in the driveway and backyard

√ Children need chances to develop responsibility

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Aug 27, 202336:03
310 Developing Character in Sports | Richard Weissbourd Harvard University, Part 2

310 Developing Character in Sports | Richard Weissbourd Harvard University, Part 2

JP and Nate continue the 2-part conversation with Richard Weissbourd from the Harvard Graduate School of Education. He is an expert in Children’s Moral and Emotional Development. His work focuses on moral development, the nature of hope, vulnerability and resilience in childhood, parenting and effective schools and services for children. He is the author of the previously mentioned book on the podcast, The Parents We Mean To Be.

√ Coaches and competition are the drivers of character change

√ Sports are symbolic of the fractured state of our country

√ Inner tension alerts people of obstacles and opportunities

Guest Bio (from HGSE): Richard Weissbourd

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Aug 20, 202324:27
309 Advice for Sports Parents | Richard Weissbourd Harvard University, Part 1

309 Advice for Sports Parents | Richard Weissbourd Harvard University, Part 1

In this episode, JP and Nate bring onboard a special guest from the Harvard Graduate School of Education, Richard Weissbourd. He is an expert in Children’s Moral and Emotional Development. His work focuses on moral development, the nature of hope, vulnerability and resilience in childhood, parenting and effective schools and services for children. He is the author of the previously mentioned book on the podcast, The Parents We Mean To Be.

√ Raise moral children, not happy children

√ The difference in praise and affirmation

√ How to avoid the performance identity trap

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Aug 13, 202338:38
308 The Secret Superpower of Transformational Leaders

308 The Secret Superpower of Transformational Leaders

The superpower of being a transformational leader lies in being transparent about our own growth journey and exemplifying it for others. Demonstrating transparency provides credibility, especially when we seek to make improvements based on feedback from our stakeholders, such as our athletes. This approach not only enhances our connection with others but also deepens our overall impact. In this episode, JP and Nate discuss effective and appropriate methods for coaches to engage in this transparent and transformational approach.

√ The tendency for coaches is to remain guarded

√ Feedback must be accepted and appreciated

√ The power is in the vulnerability of the conversation

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Aug 06, 202335:04
307 Developing Championship Teammates | John O'Sullivan, Changing the Game Project

307 Developing Championship Teammates | John O'Sullivan, Changing the Game Project

In this episode, John O'Sullivan joins JP and Nate in an insightful discussion, highlighting the significance of John's newest book, The Champion Teammate: Timeless Lessons to Connect, Compete and Lead in Sports and Life, with Jerry Lynch. Included in the book are ideas on how coaches can guide their athletes to become better performers. Throughout the conversation, the importance of creating a team-centric culture is emphasized. Coaches must be deliberate in promoting values that prioritize collaboration, cooperation, and collective achievement, rather than an individualistic mindset. By doing so, coaches can contribute significantly to the holistic development of their athletes and ultimately build successful and unified teams.

√ Popular culture teaches me instead of we

√ Teams must connect, compete, and lead

√ Be a thermostat instead of a thermometer

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Jul 30, 202336:12
306 How to Become a More Effective Coach Quickly | Keith Mayer Liverpool FC & David Mayer Red Wolves

306 How to Become a More Effective Coach Quickly | Keith Mayer Liverpool FC & David Mayer Red Wolves

As coaches, we may not be directly responsible for our athletes' experiences, but we have the power to positively influence them through our actions. In this episode, JP hosts a discussion with Keith Mayer and his son David. Keith, who has been coaching soccer since 1981, currently holds the position of academy coach at Liverpool FC and David is a part of the Red Wolves club in Utah. Both Keith and David are authors of the book Gold Dust: How to Become A More Effective Coach, Quickly: How to Become a Better Communicator and have also created a podcast by the same name. Together, they bring their wealth of knowledge and experiences to the conversation, shedding light on their coaching journey and the valuable insights they have gained along the way.

√ Simplicity is the trademark of genius

√ Coaches should be conductors, not soloists

√ Create a comfortable, consistent environment

Guest Twitter: @GoldDustPodcast hosted by @KeithMayer5 & @djmayer3

Book: Gold Dust: How to Become A More Effective Coach, Quickly: How to Become a Better Communicator

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Jul 23, 202344:47
305 Do You Want to Be Right or Do You Want to be Successful? Shifting Your Mindsets as a Leader

305 Do You Want to Be Right or Do You Want to be Successful? Shifting Your Mindsets as a Leader

Great leaders aren’t just intelligent, highly skilled communicators, motivators, and story-tellers. They are able to step back and consider different perspectives. In this episode, JP initiates the discussion by sharing personal stories from his childhood, reflecting on moments where he was inclined to argue and impose his will on others. However, he emphasizes the substantial growth he has experienced, particularly in terms of his mindset. Throughout the conversation, JP and Nate share the importance of flexibility for success, especially within teams and organizations.

√ ‘Should’ is an ideal of understanding and execution

√ Last year’s strategy isn’t next season’s solution

√ Labeling people as a problem invites problems

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Jul 16, 202334:06
304 Mental Performance & Wellness Protocols | Dr. Alex Auerbach, Toronto Raptors

304 Mental Performance & Wellness Protocols | Dr. Alex Auerbach, Toronto Raptors

JP and Nate are joined once again by their special guest, Dr. Alex Auerbach from the Toronto Raptors. Dr. Auerbach holds the position of Senior Director of Wellness and Development, overseeing the Offcourt Development of Leadership and Character within the organization. In this episode, the conversation transitions from exploring the three mindsets of mental performance to discussing specific protocols and practical steps that coaches and leaders can implement to support their teams and programs. The focus shifts towards actionable strategies aimed at fostering growth and development within their respective environments.

√ A healthy parent-athlete relationship

√ Do you want to be right or do right?

√ Good coaching is well-being AND performance

Guest Twitter: @AlexAuerbachPhD

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Jul 09, 202333:13
303 The Three Mindsets of Mental Performance | Dr. Alex Auerbach, Toronto Raptors

303 The Three Mindsets of Mental Performance | Dr. Alex Auerbach, Toronto Raptors

Shortly before the onset of the COVID-19 pandemic, the Toronto Raptors made a significant move by hiring Dr. Alex Auerbach as their Senior Director of Wellness and Development. Recognizing the immense value of his perspective and insights, they entrusted him with the responsibility of Offcourt Development of Leadership and Character. Additionally, he was granted a seat on their Executive Leadership Team. In the first part of this two-part conversation with JP and Nate, Dr. Auerbach delves into the three mindsets of mental performance.

√ A growth mindset with a pinch of fixed mindset

√ Stress is enhancing when people understand what it is

√ Play hard/recover hard; more is not always better

Guest Twitter: @AlexAuerbachPhD

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Jul 02, 202337:28
302 How to Respond to Feedback Without Losing Your Confidence and Convictions

302 How to Respond to Feedback Without Losing Your Confidence and Convictions

For many coaches who choose to welcome feedback, the strategy can become overwhelming, especially when it coincides with the conclusion of a season. JP and Nate have previously emphasized the significance of actively seeking feedback. As part of the mentorship program with TOC, one of the initial stages involves completing a comprehensive 360-degree feedback form across various aspects of life. In this episode, JP and Nate explore the delicate balance of staying true to our convictions while also embracing feedback as a means to enhance our coaching abilities.

√ Signature stories to share

√ Players want to be heard

√ Listen and clarify criticism

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Jun 25, 202339:02
301 Embracing an Outward Mindset: Empowering Change with Chip Huth, Former KCPD Officer and Leadership Consultant, Part 2

301 Embracing an Outward Mindset: Empowering Change with Chip Huth, Former KCPD Officer and Leadership Consultant, Part 2

In our previous episode, JP and Nate engaged in a thought-provoking discussion with Chip Huth, a former officer in the Kansas City Police Department and a Leadership Consultant at the Arbinger Institute. The conversation revolved around self-deception and the concept of the outward mindset, which was previously explored in episodes 180 and 181. In Part 2 of the conversation, Chip delves deeper into the transformative power of recognizing the humanity in others. He highlights how this shift in perspective influenced his team's problem-solving approach and ultimately resulted in an impressive turnaround within the Kansas City Police Department.

√ If you aren’t sacrificing something, you aren’t leading

√ Eyes free of our biases, fears, prejudices, and loyalties

√ Problems are the price of progress so lean into them

Guest Twitter: @Chip_Huth

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Jun 18, 202336:16
300 Exploring Self-Deception with Chip Huth, Former KCPD Officer and Leadership Consultant, Part 1

300 Exploring Self-Deception with Chip Huth, Former KCPD Officer and Leadership Consultant, Part 1

JP's latest book, The Culture System, explores the concept of The Outward Mindset in its first chapter. This perspective is crucial for leaders to consistently operate from, enabling them to be authentic and gain acceptance. The podcast episodes 180 and 181 previously discussed this way of thinking. In this week’s episode, Chip Huth joins as a guest to share insights about his upbringing, his law enforcement experiences, and the transformative paradigm shift he underwent throughout his professional journey.

√ Compliance can be resistant despite obedience 

√ Lessons from Leadership and Self-Deception

√ Robotic behavior will ruin relationships

Guest Twitter: @Chip_Huth

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Jun 11, 202336:08
299 Unleashing the Leader Within: Game-Changing Leadership Development for Athletes

299 Unleashing the Leader Within: Game-Changing Leadership Development for Athletes

As the academic year comes to a close and sports seasons draw to an end, coaches start planning for the upcoming season. Inevitably, they ponder the question, "What will leadership look like for our team next year?" Is leadership merely about holding players accountable, or does it encompass more? How can we enhance player ownership? JP and Nate explore strategies to tackle the leadership gaps that arise with each graduating class and propose systems to support this endeavor.

√ Why leadership development isn’t developing leaders

√ Empowerment by allowing players to co-create

√ Joe Maddon’s philosophy on identifying leaders

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Jun 04, 202337:22