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The Coaching Life Podcast

The Coaching Life Podcast

By Chris Stewart and Pat Martin

Real honest conversations about topics related to youth sports: coaching, parenting, and player development. The hosts have lived in both worlds of parent and coach. Those two worlds have even intersected, as they have coached their own children. The main purpose of this podcast is to be useful. Useful to those who coach. Useful to those who parent. Useful to those who are still playing. Sometimes we have guests, and sometimes we just talk about things – often things that are difficult – but we always have fun! And, we always seek to grow and learn. We hope you'll join our conversation!
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166: Genuine Joy For the Successes of Others

The Coaching Life Podcast Apr 03, 2024

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166: Genuine Joy For the Successes of Others

166: Genuine Joy For the Successes of Others

We are over a week into the High School baseball season and we reflect on our experiences and lessons learned so far this season.

Apr 03, 202401:11:26
165: The Greatest Pleasure In Life (ft. Lukas Moore)

165: The Greatest Pleasure In Life (ft. Lukas Moore)

Our old friend Lukas Moore joins us from his new homefront in Wrigleyville, Chicago. This is a very rich conversation about coaching, motivating people, and the value of being part of a team working together to accomplish a goal.

Feb 28, 202401:17:17
164: Yes, Do Play Multiple Sports!

164: Yes, Do Play Multiple Sports!

Today we revisit a question that comes up a lot. It's a topic that is always relevant because of the tension that is always felt by players, parents, and coaches. Should you play multiple sports or should you specialize? Should we always answer it the same way for every athlete? Is age a factor in the answer?

Pat and Chris definitely have strong opinions on the matter, but they also will provide data and real examples for why they hold the opinions they do, both as coaches and as fathers.

Feb 14, 202401:07:37
163: Change is Not a Four-Letter Word

163: Change is Not a Four-Letter Word

Today's episode discusses the difference between PRINCIPLES and METHODS, and challenges coaches to consider ways in which they might need to change when it comes to their coaching. Do you have "20 years experience," or do you have "1 year's experience of the same thing 20 times in a row?"

Feb 07, 202445:47
162: Creating a Memorable Experience for All

162: Creating a Memorable Experience for All

Nothing can stop The Coaching Life Podcast from being recorded! Pat is in the middle of the Gulf of Mexico on a Carnival cruise. Still, there are lessons learned from the experience to bring home and apply to our athletic programs.

Feb 01, 202434:35
161: Coaching Life Culture – The Post Interview

161: Coaching Life Culture – The Post Interview

Today the podcasters become the interviewees! Cami Seymore, a freshman Journalism student at Ohio University, interviews us for her column in The Post newspaper's Culture and Human Interest section. One of the biggest takeaways from the episode is our WHY – why do we continue recording The Coaching Life Podcast.

Jan 26, 202459:03
160: Coaches Learning from Coaches (OHSBCA Clinic Preview)

160: Coaches Learning from Coaches (OHSBCA Clinic Preview)

This week is one of our favorite times of the year. For high school baseball coaches in Ohio, it's the annual Ohio High School Baseball Coaches Association clinic. 

We take some time to reflect on the value of coaches learning from one another and developing relationships with one another, and talk about some of the upcoming OHSBCA clinic session topics. 

Jan 18, 202401:02:11
159: New Year, New Season!

159: New Year, New Season!

The Coaching Life Podcast has gone through several changes and updates over our 9 seasons of recording, but the core of what we are about remains. We desire to be a useful resource for coaches, parents, and athletes. To have conversations about the values, challenges, and lessons we are provided by the world of youth, high school, college, and professional sports.

Season 9 begins in the newly renovated podcast studio in Schoonover Center at Scripps College of Communication on the campus of Ohio University. Whether you watch and listen or just listen, we hope you are blessed by another season of TCL.

Thanks for being part of our conversation!

Chris and Pat

Jan 12, 202401:05:57
158: Flush It and Control Your Response

158: Flush It and Control Your Response

It was surprising to see the behavior and response of the NFL's most elite and successful quarterbacks this past weekend. But, that event provides a big lesson for all of us.

Dec 15, 202349:21
157: How Sports Change Your Life

157: How Sports Change Your Life

This conversation topic was suggested to us by one of our young listeners of The Coaching Life Podcast. Thanks, Gavin for helping us with the conversation about sports and life.

Dec 07, 202328:36
156: Top 10 Attributes of a Great Coach

156: Top 10 Attributes of a Great Coach

Great coaches have some common qualities and attributes. Today we break out a Top 10 list of those things.

Dec 01, 202343:08
155: Who's Going to Fill the Gap? (A Tribute to Dave Boyd)

155: Who's Going to Fill the Gap? (A Tribute to Dave Boyd)

As we approach the season of gratitude and Thanksgiving, we take a moment to honor a man who selflessly gave more than 20 years of his life to make sure families, children, and even adults had a place to fulfill their dreams of playing baseball.

Upon hearing of a local Recreational League Director's passing, Dave Boyd of Middleport, Ohio, The Coaching Life Podcast has decided to honor Dave in our Thanksgiving episode. He is someone who embodied the very heart and soul of what this podcast is about.

God bless you, Dave.

Nov 17, 202347:29
154: Development = "The Process of Winning"

154: Development = "The Process of Winning"

As a coach, which focus do you have? A development-first focus, or a winning-first focus? How can the two approaches work together? Or is it always "development VS. winning?"

This conversation is a bit lengthy, but it is a pretty hot topic that you will undoubtedly agree with some and disagree with some. We'd love to hear your thoughts!

Nov 01, 202301:19:10
153: Winning a Mental Game with Guest Morgan Rodgers, Ohio University Golf

153: Winning a Mental Game with Guest Morgan Rodgers, Ohio University Golf

We chat with Morgan Rodgers, freshman on the Ohio University Bobcats Women's Golf Team.

This fall, Morgan has made an immediate impact preparing for her first regular season of golf this spring. Her success begins with understanding the mental game, and incorporating strategies to stay focused on what is most important – what is within her control.

This is a useful conversation and Morgan gives some really great golf tips to help improve Chris and Pat's golf game to score below 100!

Oct 26, 202301:00:04
152: Is Pressure a Figment of Your Imagination?

152: Is Pressure a Figment of Your Imagination?

Some experts say that pressure doesn't really exist. Rather, it is something that our minds create. If so, then why does it feel so real? And what does it mean when someone says they "perform best under pressure?"

Oct 18, 202351:30
151: Coaching Means Doing Stuff You Might Not Realize You Had To Do

151: Coaching Means Doing Stuff You Might Not Realize You Had To Do

We have another listener topic request. This conversation came from a coach who asked us about the extra time we spend maintaining our facility and playing field. Enjoy!

Oct 12, 202351:30
150: Parent/Coach Collaboration Because We Have a Common Goal – the Player's Success

150: Parent/Coach Collaboration Because We Have a Common Goal – the Player's Success

150 EPISODES!!!! Thanks for being part of our ongoing conversation! Whether you have listened since 2019 and all 150 episodes or you just found us, we APPRECIATE YOU. Thank you to everyone who sends comments, encouragement, and ideas for our show.

In honor of our listening audience for 150 episodes, this one is a recent conversation brought to us directly by a listener. It's an issue that is all too common in all amateur sports, regardless of age level.

As always, we hope to be useful and to help in some small way to make your athletic experience a little more meaningful.

Oct 03, 202351:42
149: Guest Parker Navarro, OHIO University QB – Lead From Whatever Role You're In

149: Guest Parker Navarro, OHIO University QB – Lead From Whatever Role You're In

Today we have a conversation with OHIO University grad student quarterback Parker Navarro.

Parker talks about the lessons he has learned through facing the adversity of a series of injuries, transferring, and finding himself in a backup role on a championship team. He provides invaluable advice and insight into how he has found strength and joy despite these setbacks and frustrations.

Sep 27, 202301:13:55
148: Guest Jon Hanlon and the Officials Shortage in High School Sports

148: Guest Jon Hanlon and the Officials Shortage in High School Sports

It's happening in every state; schools are having difficulty scheduling games for Varsity sports because it seems there are not enough officials to go around. What happened to them? How can we get them back?

Sep 21, 202301:31:16
147: Response to Poor Performance

147: Response to Poor Performance

Bad performances are a regular part of sports. If you play, coach, or have children who play, there will be bad days on the field and court. How we respond to these bad moments, bad games, and even sometimes bad seasons, can make or break future success. It's crucial that we understand the mindset strategies that we can adopt to be the best we can at responding to bad days.

Sep 13, 202357:33
146: Boys To Men

146: Boys To Men

We would like to present a challenge to all young people – AVOID ADOLESCENSE. Of course, we'll explain what we mean.

Sep 06, 202353:05
145: What You Say Matters

145: What You Say Matters

The relationship of mutual respect and trust between coach and player is directly related to performance and success. Our relationship with our players is driven by our communication. The culture of our program is built on our communication and the behaviors that follow. As coaches, we need to be mindful of this, take ownership of this reality, and strategize how we will improve.

Aug 31, 202345:56
144: Youth Sports vs Church

144: Youth Sports vs Church

Here's a topic we have never before discussed on The Coaching Life Podcast, but it's an extremely relevant conversation for just about every youth sports team. On most teams, there will be at least one family, and perhaps many, who struggle whenever there conflict between the ball schedule and their church attendance.

As always, Chris and Pat take on the conversation head-on, discussing many of the variables associated with this and the people it impacts. We hope to provide insight and understanding to help us all navigate this issue with grace.

Aug 17, 202337:09
143: Don't Go Broke! (and more Do's and Don'ts)

143: Don't Go Broke! (and more Do's and Don'ts)

We continue our conversation for sports parents on some "do's and don'ts" that we recommend to help you and your kids have the best experience possible.

Aug 11, 202352:34
142: There IS a Way When It Seems There Is No Way

142: There IS a Way When It Seems There Is No Way

Chris and Pat discuss the recent news of the closing of Alderson Broaddus University. What can we learn from this event?

Aug 04, 202344:10
141: Do's and Don'ts For Sports Parents (Part 1)

141: Do's and Don'ts For Sports Parents (Part 1)

We're beginning a new series of podcast episodes in which we talk about some things we SHOULD do with ourselves, with our children, with coaches, and with the other parents... as well as some things we should NOT do with each of those persons. If you are the parent of an athlete, you know how tempting it can be to lose our perspective when it comes to our child's participation in sports. Chris and Pat have decided to tackle some of those things in the next two or three episodes, and frame them as "Do's and Don'ts" for sports parents.

Part of the goal of this podcast is to say the quiet parts out loud. We all have things that we think about but don't talk about, and there are conversations we would like to have (or NOT like to have but need to have) but there isn't an occasion for which to have them. That's what The Coaching Life Podcast intends to be: a useful conversation.

(11:20) is where that conversation begins, in case you would like to skip the introductory words and go directly to the topic of ol conversation! Please let us know how we can be useful to you. Thanks for listening!
Jul 25, 202301:02:10
140: Stories From The Diamond

140: Stories From The Diamond

Chris and Pat are back together for a new episode, playing catch-up from taking some time off to coach their baseball teams this spring. They have lots of stories from the diamond to share.

Jun 13, 202301:14:58
139: Cringeworthy Things Heard From the Stands

139: Cringeworthy Things Heard From the Stands

Let's take a moment and really think about some of the things we say at games. 

Mar 15, 202301:10:38
138: The Welcome Back Show – Season 8 Begins!

138: The Welcome Back Show – Season 8 Begins!

Chris and Pat are back in the studio together and have a lot of catching up to do. Lots of good conversations to come! 

Mar 07, 202335:15
137: An Update From Chris and Pat

137: An Update From Chris and Pat

Chris provides a brief update on where we have been during the past couple of months.
Feb 16, 202307:26
136: Kurtis Rourke, Ohio University QB - His Own Legacy

136: Kurtis Rourke, Ohio University QB - His Own Legacy

Our guest in this episode is Ohio University quarterback, Kurtis Rourke. At the end of a monumental season for the Bobcats –– winning the MAC East Championship, being the Mid-American Conference Offensive Player of the Year and Vern Smith Leadership Award Winner as the MAC's Most Valuable Player –– Kurtis suffered a season-ending knee injury, and was unable to play the last regular season game, the MAC Championship game, or the upcoming Barstool Sports Bowl Game. Kurtis talks with us about all of the emotions this kind of roller coaster put him through and has a wealth of advice for young athletes and their families. 

Dec 15, 202254:31
135: "Believe-In" Over "Buy-In"

135: "Believe-In" Over "Buy-In"

We hear a lot about needing to get "buy-in" from players and teams, but let's go a little bit deeper and talk about "believe-in." What is it? How can you get it? 

Nov 30, 202201:05:59
134: Justin Roush - Think You Deserve It? Prove It!

134: Justin Roush - Think You Deserve It? Prove It!

Justin walked on at Ohio University and played 5 years (from 2000-2004). He was a prolific high school running back whose name is listed in many OHSAA (Ohio High School Athletic Association) record books. At OU, Justin played 12 games his sophomore season and earned his way into the starting position his junior year but suffered a serious knee injury in his first game and was limited to only 6 games his senior season, averaging over 5 yards a carry.

He is now a preacher, a substitute school teacher, and assistant varsity boys soccer Coach. He has coached youth soccer and basketball for the last few years for teams that his sons, daughter and nephews play on. Justin brings a ton of wisdom in this episode. Grab a notebook and enjoy! 

Nov 16, 202201:06:42
133: Coach Sam Smathers – Discovering Joe Burrow

133: Coach Sam Smathers – Discovering Joe Burrow

Before he was the Bengals quarterback, a Heisman winner, National Champion, and 2-time Ohio High School Gatorade Player of the Year... Joe Burrow was a youth player learning about the game and how he might contribute to it. He has thanked many people along the way, and one of the most common expressions of gratitude you will hear from Joe is his appreciation for his "pee-wee" football coach, Sam Smathers. 


From start to finish in this episode, Sam is pure gold... sharing stories not only about Joe Burrow, but about all of the kids who have been blessed to cross his path, and about his coaching philosophies and practices that helped to pave a pathway of many years of success for Athens High School football. 


* Sam has co-authored a book that is in the final editing stages at the time of this recording, and we will be sure to provide an update and link once it becomes published.  

Nov 02, 202201:00:47
132: Do You Know What You Don't Know?

132: Do You Know What You Don't Know?

How much do you think about all of the common things you say and words you use when you are coaching? 

Oct 19, 202201:01:26
131: Let's Talk About Playing Time

131: Let's Talk About Playing Time

It's always a hard conversation, but a necessary one. In this episode, we try to speak to all parties involved: coaches, players, and parents. 

Oct 12, 202254:31
130: Playing Through Injury

130: Playing Through Injury

There has been a lot of discussion around the sports world about athletes playing through injuries, and some that could potentially have serious consequences. How do we know when we should "play through it" or when it's time to "sit this one out?" 

Oct 05, 202201:05:18
129: How Youth And Varsity Programs Are Connected

129: How Youth And Varsity Programs Are Connected

What value do youth programs have for high school Varsity programs? Likewise, what value do Varsity programs have for youth programs?
Sep 28, 202201:00:11
128: Heart – A Tribute To Bernard Hussell

128: Heart – A Tribute To Bernard Hussell

Can you coach HEART? That's what we try to figure out in this conversation. 

Sep 14, 202258:51
127: What do you WANT?

127: What do you WANT?

What would you have to sacrifice to have what you REALLY WANT? 

What WILL you sacrifice to have what you really want? 

Do those two lists match up? 

Sep 07, 202257:01
126: Summer Calendars Gone Wild

126: Summer Calendars Gone Wild

As coaches of multiple-sport athletes, we need to be intentional about cooperating, coordinating, and corroborating with the other coaches in our school athletic programs in order to truly provide the best experience for our student-athletes without burning them out. 

Aug 31, 202257:14
125: Hug It Out... Or Not

125: Hug It Out... Or Not

A Little League Baseball pitcher had one get away from him and the pitch struck the batter in the head. A scary moment. The pitcher was visibly upset. The batter was not hurt. He ran to first base. No big deal. Play ball. But then.......



In this episode, Chris and Pat make reference to a book that was discussed in a previous episode. The author is Jonathan Haidt and the title of the book is "The Coddling of the American Mind: How Good Intentions and Bad Ideas Are Setting Up a Generation for Failure"
Aug 24, 202259:09
124: Season 7 - We Want To Be Useful

124: Season 7 - We Want To Be Useful

We are back for a new season of Coaching Life conversations. As long as we can be useful to someone and serve a purpose with this podcast, we will keep recording episodes. Thanks to all of our listeners. Let us know who you are! Email Chris at cstewart1993@gmail.com and Pat at patrick_martin@yahoo.com. 


Voice-over introduction provided by www.yourvodude.com 

Aug 17, 202201:00:19
123: Mid-Season Check-In

123: Mid-Season Check-In

We're in the heart of the high school baseball season and haven't had as much opportunity to connect for conversation, but in anticipation of a couple of big games for both of our teams, we decided to get together and talk about it this week. 

May 05, 202201:02:15
122: Pivot and Stay Positive

122: Pivot and Stay Positive

It's been raining... and raining... and snowing... and raining... and sleeting... and raining. 


But we're choosing to prepare for the sunshine. 

Apr 13, 202216:39
121: Game Week!

121: Game Week!

We talk about a variety of topics on today's episode. This is the week that Pat and Chris's high school baseball teams meet up with each other on the diamond, and this episode was recorded the day before GAME DAY. 

Mar 30, 202252:17
120: How We Can All Help Save Youth Sports

120: How We Can All Help Save Youth Sports

It is a nationwide problem, and our student athletes are going to pay the consequences of it. It's no longer something that is "coming soon," it is here. It's a problem that has solutions, and we can all chip in and help. 

Mar 16, 202255:21
119: Core Values and Principles that Define Your Team

119: Core Values and Principles that Define Your Team

Should you define your team's core values? If so, how should you go about it and how should they be viewed in the grand scheme of things? 

Mar 02, 202240:27
118: Setting Expectations and Standards

118: Setting Expectations and Standards

Chris and Pat reflect after the first day of high school practice, and talk about the importance of expectations for everyone. 

Feb 23, 202254:55
117: Twenty Square Feet of Relentless Effort

117: Twenty Square Feet of Relentless Effort

Each one of us has a particular realm of ownership and influence in the culture and strategy of our team or organization. What will we do with it? 

Feb 16, 202219:39