So You Say You're Married

I might be biased, but this one is definitely my favorite interview to date Not only is it a pleasure to have a personal friend on the show, but her raw take on marriage will blow your mind! Her open-minded perspective challenges our traditional views on relationships, family, marriage, and divorce. She has experienced the absolute bliss of dating all the way to the brink of divorce and made it back again. One of my favorite things she says in this interview is, "Fight for your right to divorce." You'll have to watch it to see what she means - but it's POWERFUL. This is a real momma, a real wife, a real business owner sharing her life with you in hopes that it will help at least one person live a better life.   

Bethany and Paul (her hubby) are delightful human beings that enrich anyone's life they come in contact with and I'm so proud to know them. They own a cabin rental business in the depths of gorgeous Reliance, Tennessee. If you're looking for a romantic trip to take with your partner, you need to book now. I can personally vouch that the Hiwassee River and hiking in the Cherokee National Forest are natural wonders anyone shouldn't miss. Stay with Bethany and Paul, and you will have a trip worth remembering.   

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Kodi  

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Andrew and Ashley are the epitome of a Southern couple romance with a successful entrepreneur twist. These two met online a few years ago, fell deeply in love, and decided life was too short not to live the dream. So, they quit their corporate jobs and started a business around what 90% of the world loves: COFFEE. Located in Knoxville, TN, they pedal all over the city bringing the joy of warm flavored brews wherever they go.  

 Their love for coffee and each other is why I asked them to be guests on my show. Couples come together over coffee - it's the perfect first date, the beverage that gets you through those late nights, the smell that wakes you up in the morning. It offers endless camaraderie that opens the avenue for love - and that's exactly what Andrew and Ashley have found.   

Plus! It's the perfect stocking stuffer or Christmas gift for any coffee lover. PedalJava has a brew for everyone! This delightfully entertaining episode will have you laughing and sighing with endearment as we travel through time in Ashely and Andy's relationship - from their dating days to their EXTRAVAGANT proposal story or their romantic honeymoon, you'll want to pour yourself a cup of java as they regale you with all the stories.   

Be sure to order your coffee now just in time for Christmas: http://www.pedaljava.com/beans 

Contact PedalJava:
Website: http://www.pedaljava.com/beans
Insta and TikTok:@pedaljava & @mrspedaljava  
YouTube: @pedaljava   
Links: Wedding: https://vimeo.com/151426629
Costa Rica: https://vimeo.com/159003026
Pumpkin head: https://vm.tiktok.com/ZMJ9YtMTK/ 

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Kodi   

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A pandemic is a scary thing. There are diseases to worry about; new rules and regulations; politics.... But what I think everyone seems to be the most afraid of is spending so much extra time with their partner. How ironic. The person you want to be with the most is the one that's driving your crazy the most. So, to help save marriages and lower the pandemic divorce rate, I did a video full of tips that can help you find peace and love in your relationship during the most suffocating times of your life.   

Here's a brief survival guide on what to do (and what not to do) so that your marriage will survive this pandemic and you'll both come out thriving.  

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Welcome to video 1 in my small series of videos that showcase small businesses that offer a huge bang for your buck! I wanted to kill two birds with one stone here. First, I want to help those of you that have a difficult partner to buy for - sometimes gifts just aren't easy. Secondly, these episodes were/are produced during the Christmas season so you get great deals from some amazing people. And thirdly, I want to help support everyone through these weird pandemic times and this is my way of contributing. So, without further ado, let's learn more about shaving with quality products from the mast himself!   

I'm so excited to introduce you to shaving extraordinaire J. Michael Cobb aka Dr. Mike. I met Dr. Mike at a local nerd convention here in Chattanooga about 3 years ago. I've been a geek my whole life and frequent this convention every year. He and his lovely wife were dressed in steampunk regalia and rockin' it! They're charming charismatic personalities just resonated - you can't help but immediately love them. At the time, my husband had JUST started using an old safety razor when shaving instead of the bix box multi-blades so I decided to grab a gift for him at Dr. Mike's booth. And I'm so glad I did! We've been avid patrons of his ever since. His products are of amazing quality; the service he offers his clients is unheard of in today's times - he really goes above and beyond; he's absolutely delightful to boot.   

Fast forward to today. I want to share Dr. Mike with you because it's hard to go wrong with the gift of shaving - especially when the products smell and feel amazing. AND! He and his wife run this business together. Their relationship dynamic is one to be very proud of. I believe it's important to showcase that side of his business, too, which leads us to this cheery, fun, anecdotal episode about shaving escapades, delicious old-fashioneds, and fabulous products. Check it out! I know you'll fall in love with this couple just like I have!   

CONTACT DR. MIKE:
→Order: https://www.drmikesemporium.com/
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→i: @drmikesemporium
→t: @drmikesemporium  

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Kodi   

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Dating doesn't end once you're married. In fact, that's just the beginning. There's a lifetime of courting your spouse ahead of you. As individuals change with time, your couple dynamic will change as well. That means that you have to frequently check-in to make sure you and your spouse are still on the same page. But don't just take my word for it.  

In this episode, I speak with dating guru and celebrity matchmaker Hunt Ethridge on why it's important to bring your A-game after you've tied the knot. The dating dance doesn't end - it just changes. Hunt and I explain why reactions are important, how communication is your best friend, and so much more!   

This episode is packed with expert advice that you don't want to miss. Be sure to stay to the end when Hunt gives a personal favorite date night idea away that will keep your husband on his toes.   

Until next time,   

Kodi

P.S. - All the links and videos mentioned in the interview are in the notes below.  

We're all guilty of tunnel vision. We tend to get lost in the weeds and forget the big picture when we're too close to a situation. That's especially common when we have to identify and ADMIT faults within ourselves. Picking out others' faults without recognizing our own is one of the TOP reasons why lots of relationships fail. Even if we're willing to work on personal development doesn't mean we always know what to look for or where the problems really lie.   

So how do we fix this? What do we need to do to discover where we need help the most?  

 That's what this episode of 'So You Say You're Married' is all about. I explain what self-awareness means, why it's valuable, and how being self-aware can save your marriage. It's not an easy road, but nothing worth doing ever is.   

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Kodi   

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Your mind is the most powerful asset in your arsenal. It can make you or break you. That's why it's so important to train yourself to think clearly so you're able to progress forward toward your goals. This applies to every aspect of your life - especially your marriage. Without the right #mindset, you are scattered and flounder through life without much direction. It's exhausting and stressful.  

That said, mindset work is not easy. It takes a lot of time, practice, and resilience. It's easy to give up and revert to old habits. That's why it's so important to have a person in your corner that serves are your accountability support. That extra support is invaluable. Ask your spouse, best friend, or your coach to be your accountability partner to help you reach your goals.   

That's what Genevieve and I discuss in this interview - mindset, accountability, and how those things affect your marriage. This interview is full of insight that will help you progress toward your goals in ways that concrete new healthy habits. If you're interested in talking to Genevieve, you can reach out to her via DM below:  

Instagram and Facebook: @girlinspurs  

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Kodi  

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Part 2 is here!   

In the second half of my conversation with Amber Card from Inspiring Thyme, we dive further into the world of marriage around the current pandemic. Couples handle stressful situations differently and that's okay, as long as you're communicating EFFECTIVELY through your adversity. Amber and I touch on this topic and more in the second half of our interview.  

For more clever lifestyle tips, grilling techniques and recipes, and gorgeous DIY home decor ideas check out Amber and Chris on the Inspiring Thyme blog and their Grounded podcast!   

→ Inspiring Thyme Blog: http://inspiringthyme.com/?s=Kodi
→ Grounded Podcast : https://www.stitcher.com/podcast/inspiring-thyme-the-podcast-grounded/e/76014679  

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Kodi  

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It's interview time!  

Recently I was privileged to be a guest on a delightfully entertaining lifestyle podcast called Grounded by Inspiring Thyme. Amber and Christopher Card are a perfect example of #relationshipgoals and it was such an enjoyable experience speaking with Amber!   

In this episode, we cover what marriage coaching actually is, how it's different from traditional forms of marriage counseling or therapy, how to get started with me as your coach, and so much more. Amber is very honest and real about her marriage with Christopher as a military wife and gives excellent advice on how to overcome struggles that most military couples face.   

This is a fun, cheeky episode packed full of helpful information and entertainment. AND! It's only Part 1! That's right - there's more to come.   

For more clever lifestyle tips, grilling techniques and recipes, and gorgeous DIY home decor ideas check out Amber and Chris on the Inspiring Thyme blog and their Grounded podcast!   

→ Inspiring Thyme Blog: http://inspiringthyme.com/?s=Kodi
→ Grounded Podcast : https://www.stitcher.com/podcast/inspiring-thyme-the-podcast-grounded/e/76014679  

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Kodi  

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Routines are great. They optimize our time based on our interests and demands in life. Sometimes, though, they can become mundane and even cause problems - especially in a marriage. It's important not to get so programmed to our daily routines that we start losing sight of what's important.   

In this episode of 'So You Say You're Married', I go over how to realize you're in a routine, how it affects your marriage, and what to do about. It's powerful stuff that, if used correctly, will revive a relationship and make you feel like you're dating again.   

Until next time,  

Kodi   

SEX.   

Have you ever wondered why, when you finally find that one person you want to spend the rest of your life with, everyone jokes about how the sex stops? I feel sad to anyone that relates to that joke. That's not how things should be - sex doesn't stop after you get married. It should only get better!   

Sex is important for BOTH men AND women which means it's also important FOR. YOUR. MARRIAGE.   

But why?   

I can see so many women rolling their eyes right now. This isn't an advocacy video to help get your husband laid. This is a video to share how to strengthen your marriage in the most intimate sense.  

In episode 5, I explain how to turn your sex life around. I'll give you ideas about ways to spice things up, foreplay, and how to have those awkward conversations about sex with your partner. It's not an episode you'll want to skip - trust me.   

So without further ado, let's talk about SEX.   

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Kodi   

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Marriage is a big decision. It's only natural that you want to make sure you're marrying the right man. But how do you do that? How can you be sure you've found your forever partner? Those are great questions to ask. As a matter of fact, every person in a committed relationship should revisit these questions throughout the dating stages. 

But what are the answers?  I've put together 5 things you need to consider before you walk down that aisle and say, "I do." However, they only work if you're open and honest with your future husband, your friends and family, and most importantly - yourself.   

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Kodi   

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Timing is one of the most important pieces of the communication puzzle. Without mastering your timing, your marriage could start spiraling out of control while the conversations you have with your husband are catastrophic.  

You can avoid that marriage disaster pretty easily, though. It comes down to just a couple of details that will make all the difference. In this episode, I discuss how to have a quality conversation with your spouse that gives value to your relationship while removing potential conflicts by using an easy 3-step method. 

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Fighting. It's a struggle every couple goes through. Some couples disagree more than others. Some couples find resolution easier than others. Then again, there are some couples that fight or disagree constantly and they have no idea how to stop. It feels like your marriage is spiraling out of control - but usually, there's a simple solution and I provide that for you in this podcast.   

I go over 4 key tips that help you stop fights with your spouse before they start. It's easy to get caught up in a conflict. Half the time we end up fighting and have no idea how things escalated so quickly. This video will help you break that routine and start building new ones so that the fights are less, and the enjoyable conversations are more.   

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Kodi   

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