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Queer Healing Conversations

Queer Healing Conversations

By Yeamah

Coaching conversations helping LGBTQIA+ people who grew up as Christians make peace with their spirituality and sexuality.

Earlier episodes were recorded live on Instagram @confidentlyqueer
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From Christian Supremacy to Spiritual Pluralism

Queer Healing ConversationsDec 13, 2023

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From Christian Supremacy to Spiritual Pluralism

From Christian Supremacy to Spiritual Pluralism

In this episode, I share my journey from a fundamentalist Christian to intuitively practicing syncretism and spiritual pluralism.
Dec 13, 202335:20
How Do You Hold On To Christianity, Knowing the History?

How Do You Hold On To Christianity, Knowing the History?

Maybe you don’t? In this episode we discuss how Jesus Christ is the answer to the violent colonialist history of Christianity.
Nov 23, 202334:12
A Very Special Conversation! Family, Faith & Sexuality

A Very Special Conversation! Family, Faith & Sexuality

In celebration of our 100th episode, I invited my cousin Fran to share her journey with faith and sexuality, and her witness of my journey as well!
Oct 11, 202332:40
Beyond Religion: Practical Steps to Truly Follow Jesus

Beyond Religion: Practical Steps to Truly Follow Jesus

Today on Queer Christian Conversations, we're setting aside religious dogma and diving deep into the heart of what it truly means to follow Jesus. With the playful proclamation, "I got 99 problems and religion ain't one," we embark on a journey of genuine spiritual connection. Reflecting on personal experiences, we explore the evolution of a relationship that began with God the Father and the Holy Spirit, leading to a profound connection with Jesus through the revelations of sonship & dominion. But what's at the core of our desire to follow Jesus? Is it fear-driven, aiming to sidestep potential pitfalls, or is it a genuine pursuit of love and understanding? While many might start their spiritual journey with the former, we're here to guide you toward the latter. Dive into three transformative steps that will not just make you a follower of Christ, but an imitator—melding your essence with His. From immersive scripture studies to intimate journaling practices and reflective mirror exercises, learn how to truly experience Jesus and unveil the deep mysteries of spiritual union. And remember, what we're delving into today is merely the tip of the iceberg. If you're eager to explore these depths further, reach out and discover the full experience of Confidently Queer. Join us in this enlightening episode and start your transformative journey today!
Oct 09, 202322:21
Is God Mad at You? Unpacking the Mysteries of God's Wrath

Is God Mad at You? Unpacking the Mysteries of God's Wrath

In this thought-provoking episode of Queer Christian Conversations, we grapple with a daunting question: Is the wrath of God a genuine expression of the Divine, or have centuries of interpretation clouded our understanding? Sharing a vivid dream encounter with Jesus & Peter, we dig deep into scriptures and theological discussions to unravel the true character of God. From the assurances of Isaiah 54:9 to the historic narratives of Sodom and Gomorrah, we aim to decode God's sense of justice and the implications of divine sovereignty. Does God truly wear the hats of both savior and punisher? And when we falter, how does God guide us back? This exploration might open doors to fresh perspectives, perhaps even leading to more questions than answers. So, approach with an open heart and a curious mind as we embark on this spiritual odyssey.
Oct 08, 202329:53
Is Monogamy God-Ordained? A Deep Dive into Scripture and Self

Is Monogamy God-Ordained? A Deep Dive into Scripture and Self

In this compelling episode of Queer Christian Conversations, we examine the Biblical perspectives on monogamy and marriage. Why did Jesus reference the Creation story in discussions about divorce? What can we learn from figures like David about marital norms of their time? We dive into the concept of oneness, taking it beyond traditional gendered interpretations, reflecting on its deeper symbolism of the union between Christ and the Church. Gleaning insights from both Jesus and Paul on the virtues of staying single, we challenge conventional beliefs and invite listeners to craft their own relationship and sexual ethics. Because, as scripture reveals, there's no marrying in heaven. Embark on this enlightening journey with us and navigate the intersections of faith and queerness with clarity and confidence.
Oct 07, 202326:49
Restoring Faith in Jesus

Restoring Faith in Jesus

Many of us find our faith tested, and this episode is no different. We delve deep into the conundrum: Is there substantial evidence of Jesus' existence? As we question the foundation of our faith, the answer might not always be clear. Through a personal journey of discovery, we explore the limited historical proof from Roman texts and find solace in lesser-known Gospels. Yet, as we untangle the teachings of Jesus' role in the modern Gospel, the path back to faith remains uniquely individual. Whether you're seeking answers or simply curious about the intricacies of faith, join us on this enlightening journey. And don't forget to explore deeper conversations with our "Confident Queer" online program.
Oct 06, 202325:16
How to Heal the Root of the Fear of Family Opinions & Judgments

How to Heal the Root of the Fear of Family Opinions & Judgments

In this episode, I share the three things we need to do in order to live secured & empowered in our identities as Queer Christians.
Sep 14, 202326:32
A Reading of “Paul’s Letter to the Queer Church: An AI Creative Rendering.”

A Reading of “Paul’s Letter to the Queer Church: An AI Creative Rendering.”

We can’t escape AI infiltrating all sectors of our life. And we are at the point where it is now infiltrating our religious & spiritual spaces. Is it beneficial or harmful? This letter is the result of an AI prompt to write a letter to the current day Queer church. Let’s have this conversation on Instagram!
Sep 08, 202302:53
The Truth About The Healing Process

The Truth About The Healing Process

In this episode, I share the monumental shift that took me from the hamster wheel of healing to living whole & complete in joy. This is a meditative episode for you to take time and consider and journal through your own experiences. If you are ready to shift into living openly and authentically while having a deep connection with God go to ConfidentlyQueer.com today and enroll in the online experience designed just for you!
Sep 01, 202321:37
How To Trust Yourself to Hear God!

How To Trust Yourself to Hear God!

In this episode, I give you four steps on how to trust yourself that you CAN hear God. If you would like more personal help building a relationship with God DM me on Instagram, @confidentlyqueer, let’s build a routine to help you consistently connect with and hear from God.
Aug 25, 202324:29
Exploring Building a Relationship with God Outside of Traditional Structures with Mike Styer

Exploring Building a Relationship with God Outside of Traditional Structures with Mike Styer

In this thought-provoking episode, join us as we delve into the deeply personal journey of LGBTQ Christians who are in the process of deconstructing their faith. Hosted by Coach Yeamah, we are joined by a special guest, Mike Styer, a remarkable individual who has walked the path of deconstruction and rediscovery.

Mike Styer opens up about his own struggles, doubts, and revelations as he questioned the structures and beliefs he once held dear. Together, we explore how LGBTQ individuals can reconcile their identity and spiritual journey, finding new ways to connect with God outside the familiar frameworks. Mike's story serves as an inspiration for those seeking to embrace their authentic selves while fostering a meaningful relationship with their faith.

Whether you're currently on a similar journey or simply seeking a deeper understanding, this episode offers insights, empathy, and practical advice.

Ready to take the next step? Check out our coaching program designed to support individuals like you in rebuilding and reconstructing your relationship with God. Connect with Coach and embark on a transformative journey towards a more authentic and spiritually fulfilling life. Visit www.confidentlyqueer.com to learn more and get started today.

Remember, faith is a personal journey, and you don't have to walk it alone. Tune in to this episode and take the first step towards a more meaningful connection with your spirituality.

Stay Connected:

  • Follow us on TikTok and Instagram @confidentlyqueer
  • Visit our website: www.confidentlyqueer.com
  • Explore our coaching program: www.confidentlyqueer.com

Find Mike Styer:

  • Visit his website: https://mikestyerphotography.com/
  • Follow on Instagram @mistermikestyer

Aug 18, 202354:43
Special Edition: Clobber Passage Romans 1:26-27 Unclobbered
Aug 16, 202337:07
Am I Still a Christian?

Am I Still a Christian?

In this episode, We discuss the topic of struggling with the label of Christian.
Aug 11, 202333:46
Embrace & Unravel: Queer Christian Perspectives on Jesus and Paul
Aug 04, 202340:53
Queer & Blessed: Embracing Your Faith Beyond the Clobber Passages PART 2
Jul 28, 202354:57
Queer & Blessed: Embracing Faith Beyond the Clobber Passages

Queer & Blessed: Embracing Faith Beyond the Clobber Passages

In this episode we discuss going beyond the clobber passages to seeing the book as a whole in its historical and political contexts.
Jul 21, 202346:12
Freedom & Discernment

Freedom & Discernment

In this episode, we discuss the different levels of freedom that we can experience and how we can use our discernment to know the appropriate environments for us to express all of who we are without losing our true selves.
Jul 04, 202334:03
How to Live Confidently Queer!
Jun 01, 202326:02
Responding to Jackie Hill Perry Respectfully
May 11, 202328:06
Overcoming Self Doubt & Insecurity as a Queer Christian

Overcoming Self Doubt & Insecurity as a Queer Christian

In this episode, we explore the challenges of overcoming self-doubt and insecurity as a Queer Christian. I offer strategies for building self-compassion and finding supportive spaces and share personal stories of success, In this episode, we explore the challenges of overcoming self-doubt and insecurity as a Queer Christian. We offer strategies for building self-compassion and finding supportive spaces, share personal stories of success, and discuss the role of allyship in creating a more affirming community for Queer Christians. Join us for an empowering conversation on finding self-love and acceptance. Join us for an empowering conversation on finding self-love and acceptance.
Apr 21, 202327:55
Finding your Spiritual Path as a Queer Christian

Finding your Spiritual Path as a Queer Christian

Are you a Queer Christian struggling to find your spiritual path? In this episode, we explore the Intersectionality of being queer and Christian, the common struggles that queer Christians face, and offer tips and guidance for exploring your spirituality. We also discussed the importance of finding supportive and affirming spaces, and share resources and groups for Queer Christians. Join us as we navigate this complex an often challenging journey, and offer words of encouragement and support for career Christian seem to find their own unique spiritual path.
Apr 07, 202328:33
How to Respond to Family Thinking You’re Falling for False Doctrine

How to Respond to Family Thinking You’re Falling for False Doctrine

In this episode, I share tips and guidance on how to respond to family members who think you’re falling for false doctrine or are off the narrow path. I share one of my own stories on how I dealt with this in my life and examples from the Bible to help you navigate those hard conversations.
Mar 31, 202322:23
My Deconstruction Journey: From Religion to God

My Deconstruction Journey: From Religion to God

In this episode I discuss, my Deconstruction Journey from the Seventh Day Adventist church to a seeker of God. And I provide 3 tips on how to avoid the fear and overwhelm of this journey.
Mar 17, 202329:23
Mindset Makeover: How Shifting Your Thoughts Can Transform Your Life

Mindset Makeover: How Shifting Your Thoughts Can Transform Your Life

In this episode, I share my own inspiring story on how I transformed my life by changing my thoughts to focus on what I want and you can too! And practical tips to help you do the same.
Mar 10, 202323:29
Facing the Fear of Hearing God Say It’s Wrong
Feb 24, 202324:51
Ex-Gay Testimonies & The Homosexual Demon
Feb 15, 202326:23
Healing Mother Wounds as a Queer Christian.
Feb 01, 202327:48
My Vulnerable Queer Christian Journey and a Big Announcement!

My Vulnerable Queer Christian Journey and a Big Announcement!

In this episode, I share a very vulnerable insight into my journey to reconciling my faith and sexuality. I also announce a new service for the Queer Christian community.
Jan 04, 202347:06
My Coming Out Story!

My Coming Out Story!

Yes, beloved in this episode I put you all up in my business. I hope it is inspiring for you!

Dec 09, 202233:13
3 Ways to Be Confident in Your Sexuality, Even if You're Scared What Others Think

3 Ways to Be Confident in Your Sexuality, Even if You're Scared What Others Think

It's in the title!! Lets go!!

Dec 09, 202226:33
My Response to the Club Q Massacre

My Response to the Club Q Massacre

As someone who lived in Colorado Springs for almost 10 years, and visited Club Q, this one hit very close to home. This is my honest, raw and vulnerable and imperfect response to what happened. 

Dec 09, 202232:47
The Truth About the Adam & Eve Myth

The Truth About the Adam & Eve Myth

In this episode, we discuss the allegory/myth of Adam and Eve, and how damaging the literal interpretation has been to humanity. But we don't leave it there, we discuss what we can learn not only from the original Kemetic story but the esoteric meaning of Adam and Eve. We reclaim the story in its right interpretation so you can see yourself as who you truly are--made in the image of God!

Dec 09, 202231:22
The Sacred Cow of the Bible DeMystified

The Sacred Cow of the Bible DeMystified

In this episode, we discuss the sacred cow of the Bible. We discuss the findings of the newly released 1946 documentary by Rocky Roggio and Kathy Baldock, and how it led me to deeper study of the origins of the stories in the Bible. And of course, I give you tips on how to ask constructive questions of the Bible from an academic standpoint. 

Dec 09, 202234:56
Practical Steps to Finally Eliminate Doubt as a LGBTQ+ Christian

Practical Steps to Finally Eliminate Doubt as a LGBTQ+ Christian

In this episode, we discuss how you can use Romans 12:1-2 to transform your mind and eliminate doubt and fear that God is not affirming of you as a Queer Believer. If you would like personalized support to help you heal fear, doubt and shame so you can have a real relationship and connection with God, book a complimentary call with me today at yeamah.com/booknow

Sep 21, 202228:25
3 Ways to Know God Without the Church
Aug 04, 202232:24
Spiritual Warfare, Demonic Influences and the Gay Christian
Jul 20, 202236:19
Is Affirming Theology a False Doctrine? Part 2
Jul 13, 202221:38
Managing Shame with Dr. Steph
Jul 11, 202238:25
Is Affirming Theology a False Teaching?
Jul 11, 202239:35
10 Best Responses to Homophobic Family

10 Best Responses to Homophobic Family

In this episode, we go over the free guide I created to help you respond to homophobic or non-affirming loved ones.

You can get yours here: https://coachyeamahl.lpages.co/10-best-responses-guide/


May 05, 202238:22
4 Ways to Get to 100% Confidence God is Affirming of You

4 Ways to Get to 100% Confidence God is Affirming of You

In this episode, I give you the 4 things stopping you from living authentically as a Queer Believer. 

Apr 27, 202238:00
The Resurrection, Open Relationships and Dealing with Homophobic Family Members

The Resurrection, Open Relationships and Dealing with Homophobic Family Members

Hey! This episode was a Q&A session. Make sure you're following on IG to get your questions answered next time. 

Apr 25, 202201:02:57
Is the Bible Triggering You?

Is the Bible Triggering You?

In this episode, we discuss how to begin to view the Bible in a way that is healthy for your relationship with God. 

Apr 06, 202243:25
How to Heal From Family and Friend Betrayal When Coming Out

How to Heal From Family and Friend Betrayal When Coming Out

In this episode, I share a personal story of a betrayal and the lessons I learned that can help you overcome betrayal and rejection in your own life as Queer Believer. 

Mar 30, 202235:05
Healing Internalized Homophobia in You

Healing Internalized Homophobia in You

In this episode, we go through 9 questions you can ask yourself to determine if you are struggling with internalized homophobia.

Mar 16, 202243:15
Florida's Don't Say Gay Bill Reaction

Florida's Don't Say Gay Bill Reaction

In this episode, we discuss the very real negative impact and implications of the Parental Rights in Education bill passed on March 8, 2022.

Mar 10, 202243:06
Practical Tips on Deconstructing as a Queer Christian
Feb 07, 202245:43
Are LGBTQIA+ People Going to Hell?

Are LGBTQIA+ People Going to Hell?

In this episode, we discuss the only two questions you need to answer in order to confidently respond to non-affirming believers. 


If you are still personally struggling with whether or not being LGBTQIA+ is a sin, sign up for the free workshop to help you live with 100% certainty that is it is not a sin and never doubt again!

Feb 07, 202240:39
Is Being LGBTQ+ a Trauma Response to Being Sexually Abused?

Is Being LGBTQ+ a Trauma Response to Being Sexually Abused?

In this episode, we answer this question and I give tips on how to respond to family who might bring this up in conversations, especially during the holidays. 

Dec 17, 202135:23