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The Sub Cockles of Reddit

The Sub Cockles of Reddit

By Raz & Buck

Advise and analysis of posts from the front page of the internet, Reddit. Subreddits covered include AITA, AskReddit, RelationshipAdvise, and more!
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Episode 42

The Sub Cockles of RedditJul 01, 2023

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Episode 42

Episode 42

This week we don't have a list of stories for the description because my computer updated overnight and I lost the browser (lol). We do have some stores about the inter-nerd that is Saydar though, so enjoy ;)

Jul 01, 202353:17
Episode 41

Episode 41

Stories from the the sub cockles of Reddit. This week Buck & Saydar cover stories such as;


Should I (23m) let my dad move in with me

Co worker confidence issue

Feeling left out of friend group

I (23F) had a conversation with my BF (23M) about our future together and it did not go well.

AITA for taking my dads gift back from him on Father’s Day?

WIBTA if I told my dad he needed to replace the ac unit on the home I rent from him.

AITA for not asking my mom to help me move?

Jun 21, 202359:41
Episode 40

Episode 40

Stories from the the sub cockles of Reddit. This week Buck & Saydar cover stories such as;


AITA for telling my friend her lack of morals are disturbing after not reporting a body on the side of the road

AITA for not letting my son see his bio dad?

AITA for refusing to remove the hunting mounts when my SIL is staying at the cabin

Me (26M) and my best friend (25M) are in a huge fight and he refuses to talk it out with me

My (23m) gf (21f) told me she would have sex with a celebrity if she allowed me to, feel very weird about it.

Gf [27/F] leaving me [33/M] over innocent message on tiktok

Jun 03, 202301:04:10
Episode 39

Episode 39

Stories from the the sub cockles of Reddit.  This week Buck & Saydar cover stories such as;

AITA for not accompanying my g/f onto Private Property?

WIBTA if I asked my husband to stop his hobby?

AITA for giving my Dad a similar tattoo design to my cousins.

My (20f) bf (24m) says he doesn’t have time to learn how to communicate because it’s not his main priority right now.

Wife (28F) may have cheated on me (31M)

My girlfriend (22F) broke up with me (21M) because of my confusing sexuality


May 24, 202357:16
Episode 38

Episode 38

Stories from the the sub cockles of Reddit.  This week Buck & Saydar cover stories such as;

AITA for telling my family that if they don't like my house they don't have to come here? AITA? For refusing to give my daughter her room back? WIBTA if I started hiding snacks from my husband? AITA for being embarrassed of my girlfriend's cosplay? My (30M) mother (60M) just crossed a red line of my wife's (30F) and doesn't see the problem My (26F) fiancé (27m) constantly jokes about when I was overweight.

May 10, 202355:56
Episode 37

Episode 37

Stories from the the sub cockles of Reddit.  This week Buck & Saydar cover stories such as;

How the bloody hell do you flirt with men? WIBTA if I told my aunt and her family to adopt out their dog? WIBTA for asking him not to hang out with his friends that much. AITA for not attending my sisters wedding because of her dress code. I and dating someone who always shows up early and it's getting annoying. How should I go about fixing the problem? My Girlfriend complains a lot and is negative. It's giving me anxiety and I find it draining. Is my boyfriend (31m) trying to brainwash me (28f)?

May 03, 202351:44
Episode 36

Episode 36

Stories from the the sub cockles of Reddit.  This week Buck & Saydar cover stories such as;

You get the be Legolas and we can’t ever swap? Ok, it’s dwarvin’ time!

My (29F) mom is adamant that my boyfriend(30M) asks for my hand in marriage. He’s not going to and I don’t think he has to.

Traumatizing first date (f24) (m36)

AITA for asking my coworker not to have her kid in the room during our meetings?

AITA for telling my brother he's wrong to hold a grudge over our parents kicking him out eight years ago?

AITA for not letting for niece “borrow” my service dog

Apr 26, 202350:44
Episode 35

Episode 35

Stories from the the sub cockles of Reddit.  This week Buck & Saydar cover stories such as;

Everyone in this world is one small life altering event away from needing a mobility aid, and the world needs to realize that.

AITA for moving to another state away from my partner with our toddler?

AITA for refusing to help my best friend pay rent?

AITA for wanting my uncle to get out of our house

AITA for expecting my husband to stop gaming and help put away the groceries?

AITA for being angry that my husband is bringing his brother into our home?

AITA for asking my mom and brother to pay me back?

Apr 19, 202358:37
Episode 34

Episode 34

Stories from the the sub cockles of Reddit.  This week Buck & Saydar cover stories such as;

Is there a possibility that my boss isn’t a creep and means nothing wrong?

My boyfriend trawled reddit and found my profile then looked through comments

AITA for ignoring my boyfriend for making birthday gifts I got from my friends about himself?

AITA For following through with my word and reporting my disabled brother to adult services as abandoned after my parents tried to leave him with me?

AITA For Having a Little Fun On My Boat Tour?

Apr 12, 202351:14
Episode 33

Episode 33

Stories from the the sub cockles of Reddit.  This week Buck & Saydar cover stories such as;

AITA for refusing to go along with changed plans?

No refunds once you've stepped out of the store? Fine, I won't step out of the store.

My GF asked if I'd be interested in swinging. Played it off as a joke after I said "I wouldn't". I'm considering breaking up as I don't trust her.

I 27F am considering breaking up with my 29M bf after having different opinions on a sensitive and controversial topic.

Apr 05, 202341:36
Episode 32

Episode 32

Sorry it's late, but the latest episode is up with more stories from the the sub cockles of Reddit, with Buck and Saydar.

Mar 31, 202301:00:51
Episode 31

Episode 31

Stories from the the sub cockles of Reddit.  This week Buck is joined by Saydar as they cover stories such as;

My bf (27m) wanted to go out tonight, but I (24f) couldn't (I'm studying for an exam), he got upset, went out to some bar by himself and now sent me a selfie with a random girl.
AITA for telling old woman to not throw up in the food court?
WIBTA if I don’t tell my ex about our kids important events?
AITA for yelling at my mom after she said a remark about my stepdaughter?
WIBTA for taking my 4-year-old niece to Medieval Times after my brother said he wanted to take her?
Don't mess with the IT guy... for real.

Mar 15, 202358:40
Episode 30

Episode 30

Stories from the the sub cockles of Reddit.  This week Buck is joined by Saydar as they cover stories such as;

My ex-gf broke up with me but now wants to come back
I just broke up with my gf over conspiracy theories. Did I dodge a bullet?
AITA for acting crazy and spouting conspiracy theories to get my sister to stop including me in her videos.
AITA for not eating dinner my girlfriend cooked?
Never touch your truck again? You got it neighbor

Mar 08, 202353:23
Episode 29.1

Episode 29.1

Stories from the the sub cockles of Reddit.  This week Buck is joined by Saydar as they cover stories such as;

AITA for not stopping my husband from calling my best friend a bitch?
AITA for saying my friend was jealous of my boyfriend/his stepbrother?
I am not sure if I should be concerned about my girlfriend being high at work.
An ex coworker messaged me my wife was cheating on me.
Dude pays me in counterfeit currency, immediately gets arrested.
All Army service records “lost”

Mar 01, 202352:39
Episode 28

Episode 28

Stories from the the sub cockles of Reddit.  This week Buck is joined by Saydar as they cover stories such as;

My (30F) boyfriend(23M) doesn’t want to have sex after I was disabled
Manager tries to crackdown on dress code, I respond by wearing yoga pants to work.
Entitled Parker parked in my driveway so I blocked them in and got drunk all weekend.
Boss says "If you're 1 minute late I'm docking 15 minutes from your time" gets mad when I don't work the 15 minutes I was docked for free.
Nurse stiffs DoorDash driver, gets arrested
Called my bf 26m to tell how my f22 dad passed away only for him to tell me he’s sleeping and will call me back later. (6hrs later)
AITA for making our children wear our cultural attire in our home?
AITA for asking my girlfriend to continue doing my laundry if she wants me to buy groceries.

Feb 15, 202301:15:55
Episode 27

Episode 27

Stories from the the sub cockles of Reddit.  This week Buck is joined by Saydar as they cover stories such as;

AITA for getting my sister a cheap gift
AITA if I cancel on my friend?
AITA for refusing to come with my family on vacation if my bf isn't invited?
AITA for not caring about my best friend leaving my life?
AITA for firing the baby sitter because she brought her dog to my house
AITA for not attending my ex friend's birthday party?
AITA if I no longer wanna be a bridesmaid


Feb 08, 202301:15:18
Episode 26

Episode 26

Stories from the the sub cockles of Reddit.  This week Buck is joined by Saydar in a "Grass and Grapes" episode as they cover stories such as;

I (30m) have been financially assisting my brother (26m) for a number of years. How can I reduce the financial assistance while retaining our relationship?
My(22m) girlfriend(22f) is mad at me because I changed my sister’s(24f) diaper.
AITA for deceiving my wife into joining me for my drive to work?
AITA for deciding I should not respect my neighbour with how he behaves
AITA For not allowing my daughters boyfriends on our Disney trip?
WIBTA telling a visiting friend I don’t want his dogs in my home?
AITA for not taking in my parents adopted son?

Feb 01, 202301:20:36
Episode 25

Episode 25

Stories from the the sub cockles of Reddit.  This week Buck is joined by Saydar as they cover stories such as;

What famous person is ugly hot?
AITA for not accepting my ex-friend attempt and reconnection?
Can They(f40)(m40) Do This ???
AITA for exposing my friend’s online identity to everyone by accident?
AITA For being indifferent about my fiancée's cousin's unexpected death and remarked that we no longer have to worry about inviting them to our wedding?

Jan 25, 202357:39
Episode 24

Episode 24

This week Buck is joined once again my Saydar as they leap into the rabbit hole that is r/disabilities.

Jan 18, 202301:04:47
Episode 23

Episode 23

It's a oops episode!  But better a day late than never.  This week Buck is joined by Saydar as they dive down the rabbit hole of relationship advise.

Jan 12, 202343:07
Episode 22

Episode 22

Stories from the the sub cockles of Reddit.  This week Buck is joined by Saydar as they cover stories such as;

[33F] [62M] How do I handle my partner’s emotionally abusive/manipulative tendencies?
(21F) (25M) my girlfriend hit me for the third time in front of friends, need advice
Partner (27F) of 5 months just tested positive for Chlamydia, I've (26M) tested negative, is it possible she didn't cheat on me?
I found out my sister has been beating my dog. My parents knew and did nothing.
[22F] [24M] I told my boyfriend that I needed to help my family with rent and I needed him to pay half of our rent.

Jan 04, 202344:33
Episode 21

Episode 21

Stories from the the sub cockles of Reddit.  This week Buck is joined by Saydar as they cover stories such as; 

AITA for telling my neighbor to stop using my driveway?
AITA for not accommodating my autistic niece?
My (22F) grandparents (62 F)(63M) gave my son (1M) food he's allergic to and tried to cover it up
AITA for not making my children be quiet while my wife had a headache?
AITA for telling my 7yo niece that Santa isn’t real?
Coping with Christmas with massive needy family

Dec 28, 202248:10
Episode 20

Episode 20

Stories from the the sub cockles of Reddit.  This week Buck is joined by Saydar as they cover stories from the subreddit, Am I The Asshole.

Dec 21, 202252:12
Episode 19

Episode 19

Stories from the the sub cockles of Reddit.  This week we talk about;

AITA for wanting my husband to travel with both our children
WIBTA if I told my niece that her father isn't biologically hers?
AITA for going to a wedding without my boyfriend?
AITA for not attending my husband's celebration dinner due to the restaurant not having anything I could eat?
AITA for telling my pregnant wife the cat is still her problem.
AITA for calling my wife ridiculous for not attending Christmas over some stockings?

Dec 14, 202228:23
Episode 18

Episode 18

Stories from the the sub cockles of Reddit.  This week we talk about;

AITA for calling every morning?
Apartment manager "doesn't take cash" for $0.02 bill. Malicious compliance ensues.
My GF (36F) calls me (42M( controlling when I disagree with her.
My family went to my exhusbands wedding to the woman he cheated on me with.
Men, how do you feel about other women when you’re in a relationship?

Dec 07, 202242:19
Episode 17

Episode 17

Stories from the the sub cockles of Reddit.  This week we talk about;

AITA for calling my wife unreasonable for backing out of spending Christmas with my family after my mother rejected her cookie sample?
AITA for refusing to any work around the house and not making my family thanksgiving dinner?
AITA for crashing my wife’s birthday party and taking her home.
AITA for mocking my wife and not defending her?

Nov 30, 202229:28
Episode 16

Episode 16

This week Buck takes us down the rabbit hole of r/Disabilities and we have frank discussion about the trials and tribulations people have coping with new found disabilities.  

Nov 23, 202250:10
Episode 15

Episode 15

Stories from the the sub cockles of Reddit.  This week we talk about:

What is it with takeovers and colour blind management?
Cost of $40 per month is too expensive for the accounts team
Deaf Coworker Isn't the Problem, You Are
Boss told me I couldn't take a smoke break if I wasn't smoking

Nov 16, 202245:17
Episode 14

Episode 14

Not description.  Just listen.  Seriously, just be glad its up this time.

Nov 12, 202240:17
Episode 13

Episode 13

Stories from the the sub cockles of Reddit.  This week we talk about a overly protective mother, delusional Craigslist posts, cheating spouses, and a girl who used sugar water to extract revenge! 

Oct 26, 202247:33
Episode 12

Episode 12

Stories from the the sub cockles of Reddit.  This week realize that is it national boss' day in the month of October and have numerous stories of bad bosses.

Oct 19, 202242:40
Episode 11

Episode 11

Stories from the the sub cockles of Reddit.  This week we take a somewhat serious tone and talk about disabilities and the disabled with stories from a number of different sub-reddits.

Oct 12, 202248:45
Episode 10

Episode 10

Stories from the the sub cockles of Reddit.  This week we talk about;

AITA for firing an employee returning from maternity leave?
My £8.50 revenge on my cheating, thieving ex
Mock the Disabled? Justice is served many years later
Response to an influencer
He has superhuman reading speed
and more...

Oct 05, 202256:05
Episode 9

Episode 9

Stories from the the sub cockles of Reddit.  This week we talk about;

AITA for telling FIL's wife to STFU?
Karen Duo Cutting in Line
AITA for locking my maid in the bathroom?
and more...

Sep 28, 202232:22
Episode 8

Episode 8

Stories from the the sub cockles of Reddit.  This week we talk about;

EM Demands Over Half of Pension, Gets Carer's Pension for Disabled Offspring
AITA for being mad at my partner after I found out their friend talks about me inappropriately?
AITA for making two middle aged women cry?
Entitled parents ignores me when I say not to pet strange horses

Sep 21, 202237:24
Episode 7

Episode 7

Stories from the the sub cockles of Reddit.  This week we talk about;

My cousin is constantly being inappropriate to me and my family blames it on his autism.
My boyfriend won’t support me being a sex worker anymore now that we have a child.
I don’t like my boyfriend’s parents, but I want to marry him.
HELP! My sister is tactical nuking her life away

Sep 14, 202238:13
Episode 6

Episode 6

Stories from the the sub cockles of Reddit.  This week we talk about;

Manager insists I do my job properly. Happy to comply, Sir.
Malicious compliance: immigration law edition
My wife is denying we're married and wants to be called my 'girlfriend'... I'm confused
My fiancé want his father to check my hymen tomorrow night before I get married.

Sep 07, 202251:53
Episode 5

Episode 5

Stories from the the sub cockles of Reddit.  This week we talk about;

AITA for calling the MOH a bitch at my brother and SILs wedding?
AITA for leaving my friend alone to act as a third wheel
AITA For Not Telling My Muslim Bf He Ate Pork?
AITA for not inviting my kid's whole class to his birthday party?

Aug 31, 202236:38
Episode 4

Episode 4

Stories from the the sub cockles of Reddit.  This week we talk about;

AITA for not wanting to move in with my parents again
AITA for trying to get back at my Grandparents?
AITA for asking a couple for their table at a cafe.
AITA for making my daughter's friend 'do chores' at our house?
AITA for wanting my best friends disabled brother at my wedding?

Aug 24, 202239:30
Episode 3

Episode 3

Stories from the the sub cockles of Reddit.  This week we talk about;

I'm "not a man" because I don't cover all the bills, plus her debt.
TIFU by using bacon grease for my wife's birthday cake.
TIFU by buying my wife a bra
TIFU driving my mom to the grocery store
TIFU while making pizza

Aug 17, 202244:31
Episode 2

Episode 2

Stories from the the sub cockles of Reddit.  This week we talk about;

My manager made a terrible sexual joke about me and my husband.
Husband having a *bad* day at work - gift of Kittens?
This is Not On-call or Overtime Work? Okay!
Site manager neglected to take care of my property, so I cost the property management company over 500K
Old fart gets his revenge

Aug 10, 202252:21
Episode 1

Episode 1

Stories from the the sub cockles of Reddit.  This week we talk about; 

My boyfriend's 'crazy ex-girlfriends' have reached out to me and given me a 'warning' that now has me second guessing my relationship.
My husband and I are in disagreement, in desperate need for different opinions
My Father vs. the Home Owners' Association
Rude Customer vs Union Worker

Jul 30, 202237:37