Cocktales with a Blonde and Brunette

In a time when all we need most is community - why are we so divided? Can we come back from it? Hell yes, with good communication, open minds and a lot of love. 

We are back and more fired up than ever to bring you interesting topics that are hard to talk about, but first let's find out where we disappeared to!! 

We have talked about consent in almost every episode but we have never done a full episode on it before!! So have a listen as we use what's going on in the world as a perfect example of why we need to have the consent over our bodies and that it needs to be enthusiastic consent when we make our decisions! We should all be saying yes, yes, yes to our decisions! 

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In this episode we talk squirting! What is it? How do we do it? What does it feel like? The history, some stories and tips on how to make it happen! 

Do   you have anything to add? Any questions on what we talk about?   If   so,  share  them  with us in our FB group  https://www.facebook.com/groups/cocktaleswithablondeandbrunettepodcast or  on IG@cocktaleswithbb.  AND NOW ON TWITTER @cocktaleswithbb.

If you have stories to share with us email us at cocktaleswithbb@gmail.com

In this episode we asked listeners to tell us what intimacy is to them and how they feel it. We talk about a few ways to try and create more intimacy and how do your own inner work to make it so that you feel safe to be intimate. What is intimacy to you? We would love to hear about it! Send us a DM or find us on our social media platforms below. 

Do  you have anything to add? Any questions on what we talk about?   If  so,  share  them  with us in our FB group https://www.facebook.com/groups/cocktaleswithablondeandbrunettepodcast or on IG@cocktaleswithbb.  AND NOW ON TWITTER @cocktaleswithbb.

If you have stories to share with us email us at cocktaleswithbb@gmail.com

On this episode we dive into period sex and the way people think and feel about it. What the benefits are of period sex and why some people are a hell no. Where the idea of it being dirty came from and why it's lasted so long! Thank you religion! What are your thoughts around period sex are you a hell yes or hell no? 

Do  you have anything to add? Any questions on what we talk about?  If  so,  share  them  with us in our FB group   https://www.facebook.com/groups/cocktaleswithablondeandbrunettepodcast   on our Patreon https://www.patreon.com/cocktaleswithablondeandbrunette   or on IG@cocktaleswithbb.  AND NOW ON TWITTER @cocktaleswithbb.

If you have stories to share with us email us at cocktaleswithbb@gmail.com

In this weeks episode we talk about normalizing men's body image issues and how we can support the men in our lives to feel good about all of themselves, even their insecurities. How men tend to internalize what they are insecure about and how being there to support them is key to helping them feel better about themselves. 

Do you have anything to add? Any questions on what we talk about?  If  so, share  them  with us in our FB group  https://www.facebook.com/groups/cocktaleswithablondeandbrunettepodcast  on our Patreon https://www.patreon.com/cocktaleswithablondeandbrunette  or on IG@cocktaleswithbb.  AND NOW ON TWITTER @cocktaleswithbb.

If you have stories to share with us email us at cocktaleswithbb@gmail.com

Yup, we did it. We dove into the world of BDSM and waht the AF it is and how to get into the world of BDSM. We talk about the roles and activities as well as how to find a community to explore in. 

Do you have anything to add? Any questions on what we talk about?  If so, share  them  with us in our FB group https://www.facebook.com/groups/cocktaleswithablondeandbrunettepodcast on our Patreon https://www.patreon.com/cocktaleswithablondeandbrunette or on IG    @cocktaleswithbb.  AND NOW ON TWITTER @cocktaleswithbb. 

We look forward to hearing your BDSM stories! 

In this episode we are talking about sex as parents. How to make it a priority and how to navigate it during the pandemic when it seems almost impossible!! We also talk about the importance of telling our kids about sex and sexuality and how it will help them later on in life!! 

Do you have any great tips on how to please your man? If so, share  them  with us in our FB group   https://www.facebook.com/groups or find us on IG and twitter @cocktaleswithbb! 

In   this episode we talk about about all things anal. Anal play. Anal Sex. How to try anal anything! One of our favourite episodes to date! 

Do you have any great tips on how to please your man? If so, share  them with us in our FB group   https://www.facebook.com/groups/cocktaleswithablondeandbrunettepodcast     on our Patreon   https://www.patreon.com/cocktaleswithablondeandbrunette   or on IG   @cocktaleswithbb. We look forward to hearing how you like to please  your man sexually!

In  this episode we talk about 7 different ways you can please your man in the bedroom department. Not just tips and tricks but in ways that will leave him feeling like a Sex God and leaving you feeling all the good feels too ;)

Do you have any great tips on how to please your man? If so, share them with us in our FB group  https://www.facebook.com/groups/cocktaleswithablondeandbrunettepodcast    on our Patreon  https://www.patreon.com/cocktaleswithablondeandbrunette   or on IG  @cocktaleswithbb. We look forward to hearing how you like to please your man sexually! 

In this episode we explore swinging, open relationships and polyamory. What they mean, how to go about opening up the conversations about adding this to your relationship. What the stigmas are around it and why people love it so much. 

To connect with us visit us in our FB group   https://www.facebook.com/groups/cocktaleswithablondeandbrunettepodcast   on our Patreon https://www.patreon.com/cocktaleswithablondeandbrunette   or on IG @cocktaleswithbb. We look forward to hearing your take on open relationships. 

In this episode we talk about the top 10 fetishes! What are they, what do they entail and where to look for people who are similar. We talk about sex clubs, anal play, foot fetishes and more. You won't want to miss this episode! 

Come  visit us in our FB group   https://www.facebook.com/groups/cocktaleswithablondeandbrunettepodcast   on our Patreon https://www.patreon.com/cocktaleswithablondeandbrunette   or on IG @cocktaleswithbb. We look forward to hearing your take or side   of the story!

In this episode we discuss body hair and all the different options. Do you like it? Love it? Hate it? What is your preference for your partners? Take a look at our facebook and patreon for our questionnaire about body hair too! We want to know what you think! 

Come visit us in our FB group  https://www.facebook.com/groups/cocktaleswithablondeandbrunettepodcast  on our Patreon https://www.patreon.com/cocktaleswithablondeandbrunette  or on IG @cocktaleswithbb. We look forward to hearing your take or side  of the story! 

In this episode, Kate goes solo and walks you through how she plans out her year with joy and pleasure. Kate talks about how setting New Years Resolutions and goals doesn't really work and why. She gives you new ways and ideas on how to create a year full of joy, pleasure and adventure while also getting really clear on what you want to accomplish in a year. She also talks about how to set goals specifically for your relationship and how that will change everything for the better! If you're not sure where to start have a look in our groups for some starters or reach out and book a session with Kate! 

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For our patreons, you'll find a discussion post about this episode    there. We want to know what you have to say, the good and the bad!!  All  feedback is welcome!

Part #2 of Numerology for 2021! In  this episode Steph teaches us all about what is in store for us in the second half of  2021! Following up on what was happening in January to June, she now gives us tips on how to complete the year. July to December has some good things in store for us. Steph also graciously  started a contest to win a free numerology and colour session with her to  find out what your 2021 is going to bring in our last episode, so don't forget to listen and enter to win! Check out our patreon for more information and extra info! 

Don't  forget to follow us and share us with your friends and family!    You can  find us on IG @cocktaleswithbb and on FB at Cocktales with a    Blonde and  Brunette and on patreon     https://www.patreon.com/cocktaleswithablondeandbrunette.

For our patreons, you'll find a discussion post about this episode   there. We want to know what you have to say, the good and the bad!! All  feedback is welcome!

In this episode Steph teaches us all about what is in store for us in 2021! She gives us tips for each month and tells us how to stay positive if things don't seem to be going your way! You won't want to miss all of the goodness she has to share! This episode covers from January to June and part #2 will cover July to December. Steph also graciously starts a contest to win a free numerology and colour session with her to find out what your 2021 is going to bring! Listen to the end for all the details! Don't forget to listen to our last episode on Holiday Stress for our other contest! 

Don't  forget to follow us and share us with your friends and family!   You can  find us on IG @cocktaleswithbb and on FB at Cocktales with a   Blonde and  Brunette and on patreon    https://www.patreon.com/cocktaleswithablondeandbrunette.

For our patreons, you'll find a discussion post about this episode  there. We want to know what you have to say, the good and the bad!! All feedback is welcome!

In this episode we talk about the extra holiday stresses that Covid is bringing with it and how maybe, you can use it to your advantage to find a new way that feels more peaceful and in line with how you want to spend your holidays! We get so excited about it that we started a spontaneous contest! Listen to the episode to find out all the details! You won't want to miss it because the winner gets a customized ideal holiday gift! To participate go on over to our patreon page or our IG or facebook group! 

Don't  forget to follow us and share us with your friends and family!  You can  find us on IG @cocktaleswithbb and on FB at Cocktales with a  Blonde and  Brunette and on patreon   https://www.patreon.com/cocktaleswithablondeandbrunette.

For our patreons, you'll find a discussion post about this episode  there. We want to know what you have to say, the good and the bad!! All  feedback is welcome!

In this episode we talk about gaslighting and how to know if you're being gaslit. It's likely that you can find at least one person in your life who gaslights you. Learn about why people do it, signs you're in the middle of it and when you should get help. We look at what's going on in the world right now and how it is a good example of gaslighting! 

Don't  forget to follow us and share us with your friends and family! You can  find us on IG @cocktaleswithbb and on FB at Cocktales with a Blonde and  Brunette and on patreon  https://www.patreon.com/cocktaleswithablondeandbrunette.

For our patreons, you'll find a discussion post about this episode there. We want to know what you have to say, the good and the bad!! All feedback is welcome! 

In this episode Steph goes solo and tells us about what she is most passionate about, numerology! She tells us how numerology explains 2020 and the colours that go with it! So if you've been wondering what the heck has been going on this year, have a listen and be prepared to have some simple tools to help you end 2020 on a happier sunnier note.

If you want to know what our personal number is for this year, ask Steph in our facebook group or on our patreon page to give you some info!! Don't forget to follow us and share us with your friends and family! You can find us on IG @cocktaleswithbb and on FB at Cocktales with a Blonde and Brunette and on patreon https://www.patreon.com/cocktaleswithablondeandbrunette. 

Today Kate goes solo and gives our listeners 3 in depth tips and tricks to create easier communication in their relationships. Kate talks about how to create safe spaces for conversations, where not to have tough discussions (hint hint the bedroom) and how to learn to turn your relationship into a more positive space. Kate also talks about how owning your own story creates a space to talk about things from that doesn't involve defensiveness or having your backs up.  Let us know what your communication tips are, how do you navigate tough conversations in your relationship? Don't forget to share with any of your friends and family that you think would benefit from hearing this information xo

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In this episode we talk about how doing a scrotum or breast massage can reconnect you with your body and help you feel more in your power. Scrotum massage is very powerful if you are suffering from erectile dysfunction, addiction to fantasies or porn, are unable to make decisions or are feeling "unmanly".  Breast massage is extremely powerful for women to reconnect to their body and own their breasts. Don't believe us? Give it a try and let us know what you think. 

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In this episode we discuss if it's actually possible to just be friends with benefits. What the downfalls might be. What the benefits might be, especially with covid and how you can potentially make it work! We give our personal opinions on if we could and relate with stories of others and talk about the importance of communication if you are going to have friends with benefits! Check out our survey as well and let us know what you think https://www.patreon.com/cocktaleswithablondeandbrunette - Make sure you follow us on our podcasting platforms and leave us reviews! You can also find us on IG @cocktaleswithbb and on facebook https://www.facebook.com/groups/cocktaleswithablondeandbrunettepodcast. W

We want to hear what you have to tell us! If you have questions please reach out and we can answer them in the best way we know how!

In this episode we dive into what Erotica is, where to find it, the different kinds , why people use it and ways to use it to bring you closer to your partner. We even make plans to write our own erotic story for our patreon members for New Years plus a few extra surprises! For more information on our podcast join us on IG @cocktaleswithbb on FB: https://www.facebook.com/groups/cocktaleswithablondeandbrunettepodcast and on our patreon platform https://www.patreon.com/cocktaleswithablondeandbrunette.

In this episode we talk about the male pspot, what it is, where to find it, why it's hard for men to ask you to touch it and the health benefits of having your pspot  massaged. Remember anything that has to do with entrance through the bum needs lots of LUBE! For more episodes, behind the scenes and monthly Q&A's with us join our patreon and become part of our personal community https://www.patreon.com/cocktaleswithablondeandbrunette. You can also find us on IG:cocktaleswithbb and on FB in our private group https://www.facebook.com/groups/cocktaleswithablondeandbrunettepodcast. Don't forget to leave us a review and follow us!! 

Threesomes and how to navigate them in a relationship, where to find a "3rd", how to stay safe and why people think it's so fun! 

For more about Cocktales with a Blonde and Brunette visit us at www.instagram.com/cocktaleswithbb on Facebook at https://www.facebook.com/groups/cocktaleswithablondeandbrunettepodcast and email us at cocktaleswithbb@gmail.com. 

In this episode Steph gets a little personal and teaches us about plastic surgery, fillers and what's behind making the choice to have them done.  We look at the shame of telling people and the judgement around plastic surgery. To ask more questions visit www.instagram.com/cocktailswithbb or in our private Facebook group https://www.facebook.com/groups/cocktaleswithablondeandbrunettepodcast. Coming soon our Patreon with interviews with people from the world of fillers and plastic surgery! You won't want to miss them! 

In episode 7 we get into what it is that women really want when it comes to sex.  We talk about how the clit isn't a button. Pushing, poking and ramming are all a hard no and how you can bring consent into the bedroom and make it sexy.  Communication is always the golden key. Empower your woman to speak up and ask for what she wants. For more tips and tricks check out Sheri Winston's book -Women's Anatomy of Arousal: Secret Maps to Buried Pleasure and Layla Martin on Youtube and through her website. 

In this episode we dive into the erotic blueprints; energetic, kinky, sensual, sexual and shapeshifter. We challenge you to switch up your blueprints and try out some of the others for fun. To find out your erotic blueprint go to https://missjaiya.com/. Learning your blueprint will help you and your partner better understand each others sex language and will help you create a more fulfilling sex life. 

This episode was originally recorded as our 3rd episode during the covid  pandemic, in June of 2020. 

We switch it up a bit for our first full episode! Instead of focusing on having the sex, we focus on NOT having the sex and how it can help you create a deeper intimacy in your relationship and your life. We break it down to zero penetration and orgasms but give you other fun ideas you can use to still spice things up. This is meant for heterosexual and same sex relationships as well as single people! Watch your life transform in 30 days. Want to really go for it and give it a try? Message us to interview you about your experience with no sex September. 

In this episode we talk about how to open up the conversation about masturbation with your friends, family and partners.  How to open up communication when you feel nervous or ashamed. We give you ways you can start talking about it more easily and about how you can bring mutual self pleasure into the bedroom.  We talk about toys, fantasies and how to start the journey to self pleasuring yourself. It's an episode you won't want to miss. 

This episode was originally recorded as our first episode, during the Covid Pandemic in May of 2020. 

We get into the details of what goal oriented sex is and why chasing the orgasm takes away all the fun. We come up with fun ideas on how to recreate intimacy through pleasure and fun. A way to empower couples, singles and those in the dating scene to switch things up a bit and chase pleasure instead of the big O. 

This episode was recorded originally in May of 2020, during Covid times, as our 2nd episode. 

In this episode we talk about the five love languages and how they contribute to happiness and communication in your relationships. We talk love, love with feeling and how the little things are the important pieces to a relationship. Using Gary Chapmans Five Love Languages; quality time, physical touch, words of affirmation, acts of service and receiving gifts we break down the things that make us happy and the things that don't. We look at how knowing your own love languages and those of your close relationships can help you avoid conflict and better understand how to create a deeper intimacy with those around you. 

This episode was originally recorded as our 4th episode during the Covid Pandemic, June 2020.

Welcome to our intro episode!! We talk about how Cocktales with a Blonde and Brunette came to be, why we think it's so important to open up communication and own who you are and how having a community to talk with about all of the uncomfortable parts of life is a necessity!