Bringing Hope Home

Discover how biblical kindness can transform your marriage and family relationships! 🏠✨

In this episode of Bringing Hope Home, Pastors Bryce and Colette Schaffer explore the profound difference between being "nice" and showing true biblical kindness - the fourth fruit of the Spirit. Learn how this supernatural attribute can revolutionize your home life and relationships.

What You'll Learn:

• The biblical difference between niceness and true kindness (hesed)
• How kindness connects to God's love and transforms relationships
• Real-life story of supernatural breakthrough through choosing kindness over retaliation
• Why kindness requires truth, respect, and Holy Spirit wisdom
• Practical ways to practice biblical kindness in marriage and parenting
• How to have healthy confrontation while remaining kind

Perfect for: Christian couples, parents seeking biblical guidance, those struggling in marriage, anyone wanting to cultivate peace in their home

Are you struggling with patience in your marriage or parenting? Feeling frustrated when change doesn't happen fast enough? In this powerful episode, pastors Bryce and Colette Schaffer dive deep into the fruit of the Spirit - PATIENCE - and how it can transform your home life.

What You'll Discover:

• Why God's patience with you should inspire patience with others
• How to break free from the dangerous comparison trap that steals your joy
• The difference between empathy and sympathy in relationships
• Practical ways to give yourself and others grace during seasons of waiting
• How to stay focused on God instead of circumstances you can't control
• Simple strategies to turn frustration into gratitude

Key Scripture: 2 Peter 3:9 - "The Lord isn't really being slow about his promises... he's being patient for your sake."

Whether you're a newlywed learning to navigate differences or a seasoned couple facing new challenges, this episode offers biblical wisdom and practical tools to cultivate patience in your relationships.

In this episode of Bringing Hope Home, Bryce and Colette Schaffer continue their exploration of patience as part of their fruit of the Spirit series. They tackle the common friction points that test our patience in marriage—from different communication styles to varying value systems.

Drawing from their nearly 30 years of marriage and pastoral experience, the Schaefers offer practical advice for navigating impatience with your spouse. Learn about the 1-3-5 rule for setting priorities together, how to respect different personality types, and biblical principles for serving one another in love.

Whether you're struggling with a spouse who processes information differently or feeling frustrated by unmet expectations, this episode provides hope-filled solutions to help you cultivate patience in your relationship.

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In this episode of Bringing Hope Home, Pastors Bryce and Colette Schaffer continue their series on the fruit of the Spirit by exploring patience in parenting. Drawing from their experience as parents and educators, they offer practical wisdom for navigating the challenges that test our patience with our children.

The Schaffers discuss how understanding your child's developmental stage is crucial for maintaining realistic expectations and patience. They address common triggers like morning routines, shopping trips, and technology use, offering strategies to prepare ahead and set clear boundaries.

You'll discover the importance of teaching delayed gratification in today's instant-gratification culture and learn how to model the patience you want to see in your children. With honesty about their own parenting journey, Bryce and Colette provide encouragement for parents at every stage.

Key topics include:

• Managing your response to challenging behaviors
• Setting appropriate boundaries and consequences
• Teaching children to wait and focus
• Preparing children for situations that test patience
• Being consistent with expectations

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Join Bryce and Colette Schaffer as they dive into the fruit of patience in this month's episode. Learn how to overcome "hurry sickness" in our fast-paced world and discover practical ways to cultivate patience in your marriage, parenting, and daily life.

Show Notes:

• 0:00 - Introduction to our series on the Fruit of the Spirit
• 1:30 - Why patience is especially important during busy "May-cember" season
• 3:15 - James 4 - "Let patience have its perfect work" and what this means for our daily lives
• 5:20 - How our modern "instant gratification" culture works against patience
• 7:45 - Understanding God's timing vs. our timing
• 9:30 - The concept of "hurry sickness" and how it affects our relationships
• 11:00 - Practical ways to cultivate patience: creating margin in your schedule
• 13:15 - The importance of Sabbath principles in developing patience
• 15:00 - Serving while waiting - finding purpose in periods of waiting
• 16:45 - Focusing on God's faithfulness in the past to build trust for the future
• 18:30 - Identifying your personal "patience challenge" and surrendering it to God

Whether you're waiting for a breakthrough or simply need help slowing down, this episode offers biblical wisdom to help you find peace in the process.

Join hosts Bryce and Colette Schaffer in this enlightening episode of Bringing Hope Home as they tackle one of marriage's biggest stress points: finances. Discover biblical principles and practical strategies to bring God's peace into your financial life. Learn how tithing, budgeting, setting realistic goals, and involving the whole family can transform your relationship with money and reduce stress in your home.

Episode Highlights:

• Why finances are one of the top sources of stress in marriages
• The spiritual foundation of tithing and giving God access to your finances
• Practical steps to create a budget that aligns with your values
• How to set realistic financial goals as a family
• The importance of emergency savings and debt reduction
• Teaching children healthy financial habits
• Celebrating financial victories along your journey

Don't miss next week's episode as we begin a new series on patience!

In this episode of Bringing Hope Home, Bryce and Colette Schaffer continue their series on the Fruit of the Spirit, focusing on peace. They share biblical wisdom and practical strategies for handling conflict in your family relationships without letting disagreements escalate.

Learn the "3-2-1 Rule" for putting conflicts into perspective, discover how to maintain your peace during heated moments, and understand the importance of timing when addressing sensitive issues.

The Schaffers provide valuable insights from James 1:19 on being "swift to hear, slow to speak, and slow to wrath."

Whether you're struggling with spouse communication, dealing with teenage conflicts, or simply want to create a more peaceful home environment, this episode offers spiritual guidance and actionable advice to help you navigate difficult conversations with grace.

Don't miss these powerful tips for bringing God's peace into your everyday family conflicts!

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In this special Easter week episode of Bringing Hope Home, Bryce and Colette Schaffer explore the fruit of the Spirit of peace and its connection to salvation. Discover how Jesus offers a different kind of peace than the world gives—one that surpasses understanding and remains constant even in life's chaos. The Schaffers share powerful insights on how true peace comes through forgiveness, right standing with God, and being anchored in faith.

• The difference between worldly peace and the peace Jesus offers (John 14:27)
• How peace becomes an anchor for your soul during life's storms (Hebrews 6:19)
• Being led by peace in both major and everyday decisions (Colossians 3:15)
• The connection between Easter, salvation, and experiencing lasting inner peace
• Practical ways to maintain your peace through fellowship, teamwork with God, and sharing your faith

Join Bryce and Colette as they guide you through finding and maintaining God's peace in your home, marriage, and family relationships. Perfect listening for Easter week as you prepare your heart for Resurrection Sunday!

In this timely April episode, Bryce and Colette Schaffer continue their series on the Fruit of the Spirit, focusing on PEACE. They distinguish between worldly peace (merely the absence of conflict) and Christ's true inner peace that transcends circumstances. The hosts share five practical strategies to cultivate peace in your home, plus a bonus tip that ties everything together.

What You'll Learn:

• The difference between worldly peace and Christ's supernatural peace
• Why "be anxious for nothing" (Philippians 4:6) is more than just a nice sentiment
• How to apply peace in your marriage, parenting, and daily routines
• Practical ways to create a peaceful home environment even in chaotic seasons

Key Points:

• Organize Your Spaces: Create physical order to reduce anxiety
• Establish Routines: Maintain structure, especially during transitional seasons
• Watch What You Eat: Nutrition impacts mental well-being and anxiety levels
• Make Time for Rest: Schedule downtime and quality time together
• Make Room for Jesus: The ultimate source of true peace

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In this transformative episode of Bringing Hope Home, hosts Bryce and Colette Schaffer sit down with Jeff Spadafora, author of "The Joy Model," to explore the path to authentic joy that balances both spiritual being and purposeful doing.

Jeff shares his personal journey from corporate management consultant to ministry leader, and how he discovered that many Christians are "doing" things for God without experiencing the deep joy that should accompany faith. He breaks down his powerful "Joy Model" framework, which helps believers move from frustrated or weary states to living with purpose and spiritual fulfillment.

• Jeff explains the four quadrants of his Joy Model and how to escape the traps of being a "frustrated believer," "weary worker," or "heartless hypocrite"
• The M.A.S.T.E.R. plan for cultivating lasting joy in your life:
• Why "hurt people hurt people" and how inner healing must precede outward service
• The three types of listening and how they impact your relationships

If you're feeling that "smoldering discontent" in your faith journey or seeking more joy in your daily life, this episode offers practical wisdom to help you find your sweet spot—where your life becomes "an outflow of activity that's fun for me, good for others, and glorifying to God."

Get your copy of "The Joy Model" by Jeff Spadafora and begin your journey toward lasting joy today!

In this episode of Bringing Hope Home, Bryce and Colette Schaffer dive into the powerful fruit of the Spirit: JOY. Discover how true joy isn't dependent on your circumstances but comes from within through God's spirit. The Schaffers share personal family stories and biblical wisdom from Nehemiah 8:10, James 1:2-3, and Philippians about finding and cultivating joy even during life's trials.

Learn practical tips to overcome joy-stealers like anxiety, comparison, and negativity. Whether you're facing challenges or simply want to experience more joy in your daily life, this episode offers encouraging insights to help you tap into the strength that comes from the joy of the Lord. Join us as we continue our series on the fruit of the Spirit and discover how to bring hope home to your life today.

Don't miss our previous episodes on LOVE in our February podcasts. Subscribe for more encouragement and biblical wisdom to strengthen your faith journey!

Join hosts Bryce and Colette Schaffer as they explore the fruit of the Spirit of Joy through the lens of parenting.

Discover practical strategies for cultivating a joyful home environment despite the challenges of modern parenting.

Learn how to teach children emotional regulation, foster optimism, and create fun family moments that will last a lifetime.

The Schaffers share personal stories about making chores into games, planning for less stress, and finding humor in everyday situations.

This episode provides valuable insights for parents seeking to bring more joy into their family life while raising resilient, positive children.

In this uplifting episode of Bringing Hope Home, hosts Bryce and Colette Schaffer tackle the essential but often overlooked topic of cultivating joy in marriage. Too many couples fall into the trap of mundane routines, stress, and negativity that steal the happiness from their relationship.

The Schaffers share practical wisdom on:

• Breaking out of negative patterns with spontaneity and fun
• Understanding the difference between temporary happiness and lasting joy
• Practical ways to flirt with and appreciate your spouse again
• How to create a joyful home environment despite busy schedules
• Biblical perspectives on maintaining joy in challenging seasons

Don't let stress, comparison, or the daily grind steal the joy from your marriage! Learn how to make your home a sanctuary where joy resides and relationships thrive.

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Bringing Hope Home Podcast: Cultivating Joy in Everyday Life

Join hosts Bryce and Colette Schaffer as they explore the spiritual fruit of joy in this insightful episode of Bringing Hope Home. Following their previous month's focus on love, the Schaffers dive into understanding joy not merely as an emotion, but as a fruit of the Spirit deposited within believers that can be accessed regardless of outward circumstances.

• Discover the difference between fleeting happiness and lasting spiritual joy
• Learn how to "stop and find the joy" in everyday moments
• Understand joy as an inward condition that gives strength during both good and difficult times
• Practical tips for cultivating joy through gratitude, serving others, and purposeful celebration
• How to maintain joy during personal struggles, pain, and life's chaotic seasons
• Biblical examples of joy from Paul and Silas praising God while imprisoned

The Schaffers share personal experiences about finding joy in family life, including the importance of being present rather than wishing time away, and finding blessings in the midst of parenting challenges. They encourage listeners to look at life with an eternal perspective, especially during painful seasons, and to create intentional moments for connection and celebration.

Whether you're facing difficult circumstances or simply want to enrich your daily life, this episode offers practical wisdom for bringing the joy of the Spirit into your home and heart.

Challenge: Purpose to add joy to your ordinary day and watch it become extraordinary!

Join Bryce and Colette Schaffer as they dive deep into Gary Chapman's transformative Five Love Languages and how they can revolutionize your marriage. Learn how to build your "love bank" through words of affirmation, quality time, receiving gifts, acts of service, and physical touch. Discover practical tips for strengthening your relationship, improving communication, and creating a stable, loving home environment that positively impacts the whole family.

In this episode, you'll learn:

• How to identify and speak your spouse's primary love language
• Practical ways to deposit into your relationship's "love bank"
• The importance of forgiveness and positive affirmation
• Tips for quality time in a digital age
• Simple acts of service that show deep love
• The power of non-sexual physical touch in marriage

Join Bryce and Colette Schaffer on this transformative episode of Bringing Hope Home, where they unpack the profound meaning of biblical love in today's divided world. Drawing from their personal experiences and spiritual insights, they explore how relationship guidance rooted in faith can bridge the deepest divides within families and communities.

In this powerful discussion, discover how true love transcends political differences, generational gaps, and societal pressures. Learn practical strategies for maintaining family connections even when viewpoints clash, and understand why overcoming division starts with seeing others through God's eyes. The Schaefers share a compelling personal story about experiencing divine love that forever changed their perspective on relationships and judgment.

Drawing from 1 Corinthians 13, they reveal how biblical love principles can transform your approach to difficult conversations and challenging relationships. Whether you're navigating family tensions, seeking to deepen your understanding of God's love, or looking for guidance in loving others despite differences, this episode offers hope and practical wisdom for your journey.

Timestamps: 0:00 - Episode Introduction 7:22 - Defining Biblical Love vs. Emotional Love 15:40 - Loving Through Family Differences 23:15 - Overcoming Societal Division 30:45 - Closing Thoughts and Prayer

Special focus: Understanding agape love, maintaining family bonds across differences, and practical applications of 1 Corinthians 13 in modern relationships.

Join Kim Stilt as she shares her powerful journey of unconditional love, faith, and understanding after her son came out as gay. Learn how to support LGBTQ+ children while maintaining a strong, Christ-centered family relationship.

Key Topics:

• Overcoming shame and fear
• Maintaining family connection
• Faith and LGBTQ+ support
• Parental love and acceptance

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Join hosts Bryce and Colette Schaffer as they interview Kim Stilp, founder of Pride and Promises, who shares her powerful journey of maintaining both faith and family when her son came out as gay.

Kim discusses how she bridged the gap between Christian beliefs and supporting her LGBTQ+ child, offering hope and practical guidance for other families facing similar challenges.

Learn how to navigate difficult conversations, maintain strong family bonds, and hold onto your faith while loving unconditionally. This episode explores the delicate balance between grace and truth, addressing the struggles Christian parents face and providing resources for those seeking support through Pride and Promises ministry.

Discover how to address and overcome sin in your Christian marriage with hosts Bryce and Colette Schaffer.

This powerful episode explores biblical righteousness, dealing with hidden sins, healing from infidelity, and finding God's grace in difficult times.

Learn practical strategies for confession, restoration, and building a stronger marriage through faith. Whether you're struggling with addiction, unfaithfulness, or other challenges, this episode provides hope-filled solutions through Biblical wisdom and understanding.

Perfect for Christian couples seeking to strengthen their relationship and align their marriage with God's Word. Features discussion on accountability, healing processes, and the journey from salvation to sanctification in marriage.

Join Bryce and Colette Schaffer of Schaffer Ministries for a powerful conversation about Christian parenting and raising godly children. Drawing from their experience as parents and grandparents, the Schaffers share practical parenting wisdom on incorporating biblical values into daily family life. Learn essential strategies for spiritual training, living by example, and helping your children develop their own relationship with God. This family ministry episode offers insights on handling challenging situations through a biblical lens, nurturing your children's unique gifts, and creating a foundation for righteous living in your Christian family.

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Join Bryce and Colette Schaffer as they explore how to build a righteous marriage centered on God's principles.

In this episode, discover the difference between personal righteousness and God's standards, and learn practical ways to incorporate grace and alignment in your relationship.

The Schaffers share personal examples and actionable tips for couples seeking to strengthen their marriage through biblical principles. Learn how to move beyond common marriage struggles by seeking God first and extending grace to your spouse.

Key topics include:

• Understanding true righteousness in marriage
• Practicing grace in daily interactions
• Aligning your relationship with God's Word
• Communicating effectively as a couple
• Building a solid foundation through faith

Join Bryce and Colette Schaffer as they share powerful insights on setting God-directed goals for the new year. This essential episode on Christian living combines spiritual growth with practical goal-setting strategies across multiple life areas - from personal development and ministry to career advancement and marriage enrichment. 🎉Learn why aligning your goals with biblical wisdom transforms traditional New Year resolutions into purpose-driven achievements. 

🎉Discover practical steps for creating achievable goals, establishing accountability partnerships, and maintaining momentum throughout the year. 

🎉 Learn how to integrate God's guidance into your planning process while balancing personal ambitions with spiritual calling. 

🎉 Plus, get access to their exclusive goal-setting worksheet that helps you map out your vision with intention.  Whether you're seeking to deepen your faith, advance your career, or strengthen your relationships, this episode provides the framework for pursuing your dreams with both purpose and grace. Perfect for anyone ready to make 2025 their most intentional year yet! #GoalSetting2025#ChristianLiving #BringingHopeHome #BibleGoals #ChristianPodcast #christiangrowth

Join Bryce and Colette Schaffer as they offer compassionate guidance for managing holiday stress, grief, and emotional challenges. This heartfelt episode explores practical strategies for finding joy, maintaining hope, and staying spiritually anchored during the holiday season. Whether you're dealing with loss, financial pressure, or seasonal anxiety, discover how to redefine expectations, focus on Christ, and transform your holiday experience.

Key Topics:

• Overcoming holiday blues
• Coping with grief and loss
• Spiritual resilience
• Family traditions
• Mental health during the holidays

Join Bryce and Colette as they share heartfelt strategies for creating peaceful, memorable family gatherings during the holiday season. Learn how to manage expectations, communicate effectively, and embrace flexibility while celebrating the true spirit of family.

Key Timestamps:

0:00 - Introduction

2:30 - Managing Family Expectations

6:45 - Biblical Perspective on Family Unity

10:15 - Practical Tips for Holiday Gatherings

15:30 - Sharing Families & Creating New Traditions

20:00 - Closing Thoughts

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🏡 Bringing Hope Home: Introducing the Marriage Builder Hub! 💑

Bryce and Colette Schaffer unveil an exciting new community designed to strengthen marriages, support couples, and build lasting relationships.

In this episode, discover a transformative membership experience that offers:

- Monthly Intensive Workshops

- Weekly Q&A Sessions

- Access to their comprehensive Marriage Builders Course

- Private Facebook Community Support

Highlights:

- Just $29/month (less than a dinner out!)

- Flexible participation - join solo or with your spouse

- Anonymous question options available

- Designed for couples at any stage of marriage

Whether you're newlyweds or have been married for decades, this community is for YOU. Learn, grow, and invest in your most important relationship with guidance from Bryce and Colette!

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In this heartwarming episode, Bryce and Colette Schaffer explore the transformative power of gratitude beyond the Thanksgiving season. They discuss how cultivating a thankful heart can open doors of opportunity, strengthen faith, and improve relationships. Drawing from biblical perspectives, the couple shares insights on practicing thankfulness daily, finding joy in challenging circumstances, and recognizing the blessings in life. They also explore synonyms for thankfulness like acknowledgment, recognition, and honor, encouraging listeners to express appreciation more often.

Key topics include:

• The spiritual significance of gratitude
• Maintaining a positive focus during trials
• Practical ways to show thankfulness
• The impact of appreciation in marriage and personal growth

In this episode, we discuss how to renew your mind with the transformative power of God's word, especially during busy seasons that can distract from your marriage. Drawing from Colossians 3:12-15, we explore the importance of putting on the "bond of love" and viewing your spouse through the filter of Christ's love. By anchoring your marriage in biblical principles and an eternal perspective, you can stay centered on what truly matters - your relationship with God and each other.

In this episode, we dive into the complex and often turbulent experience of midlife, the period between the ages of 40-60. We'll explore the profound hormonal changes that can upend one's sense of self, leading to dissatisfaction with life and a strong desire for change.

Marriage is a central focus as we discuss how these internal shifts can strain even the strongest of partnerships. We'll offer strategies for weathering the storms of midlife, from keeping communication open to accepting some limitations of age, and finding a new sense of purpose. 

Through candid discussions and actionable advice, this episode aims to provide a roadmap for navigating the midlife transition with grace.

Discover deeper levels of connection in this episode of the Bringing Hope Home Podcast! We explore how small, everyday interactions can significantly deepen your emotional bond, reduce misunderstandings, and cultivate a thriving relationship. Don't let your marriage stagnate; tune in for practical strategies and proactive steps towards a more vibrant, more connected married life. Whether you're newlyweds or in your golden years, this episode delivers advice that could change the course of your relationship. Join us and embark on a journey towards incredible connection!

Are you constantly feeling overwhelmed by the stress of managing finances in your marriage? This is a common issue that can put a strain on any relationship. In this video, we'll share proven strategies to help you and your partner cope with financial stress and strengthen your marriage.

Raise your hand if you've been known to start a project but never finish it. 🙋🏻‍♀️

We have all done that at one time or another. However, if not finishing what you start is a common occurrence in your life, this episode is for you! 

Have you ever thought about the culture of your home? How does feel? What traditions have you made? When your children are grown and look back at their home life, what words would they use to describe it?

That can be a sobering thought. However, it's never too late to create a culture of love, joy, and peace. So, let's get started!

We just got back from ministering in Albania and Greece and are excited to share all about our time there and what we did.

This was our 3rd time in Albania and first time in Greece. God showed up mightily in the meetings.

Today we're talking about emotional intimacy. We'll discuss how to connect on a deeper level and be vulnerable with each other. Don't miss our simple tips for a more connected marriage.

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Oftentimes, our marriages get put on the back burner. Jobs, kids, and other things come in and take over. However, we need to safeguard our marriages to make sure that they stay strong.

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Whether we like it or not, our world is full of distractions. Therefore, we need to learn how to avoid those distractions - especially when it comes to our marriages.

We talk about:

• Screen time and production time
• How to limit screen time
• Plan times to connect
• Guard against saying yes to too many things
• Create boundaries
• Set goals
• Using distractions as coping mechanisms

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We continue our conversation about empty nesting with our friends and guests, Rob and Sarah Betts who are fellow empty-nesters.

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Empty nesting can be a hard process to go through. Your family dynamics are changed forever. However, this isn't the end – it's just the beginning of a wonderful season for you and your spouse. We discuss the tips we found to help our transition to empty nesting for us and our kids.

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Do you believe the best of your spouse or do you look for what is wrong? In this episode we continue the discussion of longevity by focusing on believing the best in your spouse. 

We are to be the biggest cheerleaders in each other’s life. Some takeaways from this discussion are:

• Try to do one thing for your spouse each day that is not expected.

• When something goes wrong, don’t blame your spouse

• Be inquisitive about your spouse (their feelings, thoughts, etc)

• Celebrate your spouse - celebrate their highs and help them with their lows.

• Value your spouse - especially their opinion or viewpoint.

• Remind yourself and your spouse of why you are grateful for them.

• Brag on your spouse to others.

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We are discussing another important topic when it comes to longevity in marriage - compromise. There is truly an art to compromise and the sooner we learn how to do it in a healthy way, our marriage will benefit. The keys to compromise we discuss are:

• Have clarity on what you truly desire
• Listen/Share your perspective
• Find common ground
• Be flexible
• Follow Through
• Seek support if needed.

This is week 2 of our conversation on marriage longevity. Consistency is the key to success in any area of life, but especially marriage. A successful marriage doesn't just happen automatically, it takes giving consistent attention. We discuss:

• How to respond to one another
• Follow through with your commitments
• Always be honest with each other

It was an honor to sit down with friends Rick and Peg Arnold and discuss longevity in marriage. Rick and Peg have been married for 47 years and have a lot of wisdom on what makes a marriage flourish. Don't miss this insightful episode.

We discuss:

• Expectations
• Perspective
• Compromise
• Want the best for your spouse
• Communication skills

Raise your hand if you've ever had conflict in your marriage. 🙋🏻‍♀️

Yep, every hand should be raised because conflict is a part of life. However, there are ways to handle conflict when it arises so that feelings aren't hurt, no damage is done, and you can move forward in a more positive way.

We are giving a sneak peek into our Marriage Builders Course with this episode. You'll learn:

• Perspective is everything
• Knowing your spouse
• Building a foundation of love and respect
• Setting boundaries
• De-escalation techniques

We've all been there – words were spoken, and feelings were hurt. Hurting someone with our words should never be our aim. So, how do we navigate our conversations and arguments so that we don't make things worse? That's what we're talking about in today's episode.

We will cover:

• Escalation
• Invalidation
• Withdrawal
• Trauma Response
• Interpretation
• Forgiveness
• Are you a critic or cheerleader?

Discover the secrets to a happy and successful marriage with this eye-opening podcast episode on communication. Learn how the often overlooked aspects of frequency can make or break a relationship.

We'll dive into the importance of staying connected with your partner and how it can improve every aspect of your marriage.

Have you ever wondered how to truly hear God's voice? How do you know when it's Him talking to you?

We answer these questions and more in this episode.

We'll discuss:

• Reading the Bible
• Praying - and listening
• How to journal
• Don't be afraid of silence

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Do you ever fear that you're not doing enough for your children? This week is a bonus episode with our guest, Karen Jensen Salisbury who is the author of, 'Parenting With a Purpose'. We discuss what it means to parent with a purpose and how to raise children who make the right decisions.

This week we welcome our guest and friend, Karen Jensen Salisbury. Karen was living the life of her dreams as a Pastor's wife and mom of two young boys when her husband unexpectedly passed away in his sleep. Through the ups and downs of life, Karen discusses how she navigated life as a widow and then followed God's timing for a second marriage. You don't want to miss this insightful episode.

Karen's Website:

https://www.karenjensen.org

Today is our anniversary so we're having a little fun! Join us as we remember some of the most ridiculous and unforgettable fails of our married life. Oh boy! You don't want to miss this one!