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Conversations that Bloom

Conversations that Bloom

By Beliya Bukuru

Welcome to Conversations that Bloom, a space for women thriving at the intersection of faith and grit.

Join Beliya as she interviews phenomenal people in faith, wellness, culture, art, music, and the creative space who are living a life that reflects God's will. They have placed Jesus at the center of their passions and have learned the importance of living a life that brings glory to God. Each conversation flows like a story, with important key lessons that will edify, uplift, and strengthen you.

If you are ready to be inspired, motivated, and encouraged then this show is for you.
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Overcoming Imposter Syndrome In Your Business or Profession with Pasha

Conversations that BloomApr 15, 2024

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Overcoming Imposter Syndrome In Your Business or Profession with Pasha

Overcoming Imposter Syndrome In Your Business or Profession with Pasha

Imposter syndrome, that nagging voice of doubt and inadequacy, can often whisper lies into our hearts, challenging our worth and purpose. In the bustling world of entrepreneurship and careers, it's all too easy to feel like we're not measuring up, like we're somehow unworthy of the successes we've achieved. But as children of God, we are called to rise above these falsehoods, to claim our identity as beloved and chosen by the Creator of the universe.

Joining me on today’s episode is Pasha. As a female entrepreneur in the culinary space, Pasha has confronted and conquered the looming specter of imposter syndrome, carving out a unique path that challenges traditional norms and celebrates innovation. Despite her deep-rooted love for cooking, doubt often crept in as she navigated the predominantly male-dominated culinary industry. It was a constant battle against the voice that whispered, "You don't belong here." As she continues to redefine culinary boundaries, she is driven by a singular mission: to empower aspiring entrepreneurs, particularly women, to embrace their potential and pursue their dreams with unwavering confidence. For it is not the doubts that define us, but rather the courage to silence them and forge ahead, one goal at a time.


Together, we'll uncover the tools and principles that empower us to silence the voice of imposter syndrome and step boldly into the calling God has placed on our lives.

Here's what to expect in today’s episode:

  1. What effects does imposter syndrome have on your business growth and professional development?

  2. How does imposter syndrome impact your confidence?

  3. What role does your faith play in helping you navigate imposter syndrome?

Apr 15, 202430:57
Trusting God With What's In Your Hands With Louise M

Trusting God With What's In Your Hands With Louise M

In a world filled with uncertainties and pressures, it's easy to rely solely on our strength and understanding. Yet, as Christians, we are called to a higher standard of faith and trust in the Almighty who holds our past, present, and future in His hands.

To help me delve into this topic today is Louise Mupeta. Louise is a spirited, introverted foodie with a big heart that is naturally bent towards encouragement. Her mission is to inspire others to live for God's glory, offering practical guidance in her roles as a blogger, author, teacher, faith-driven entrepreneur in education and interior design, and the founder of the Famous Warrior Community.

With a reputation for being a chatty conversationalist, lovingly christened "loves to chat" by her husband, she uses her conversational leadership style to train, mentor, and encourage those within her circle of influence. At home, she's Ceaser's adoring "Babe" and a devoted mom to Caleb and Chiara, orchestrating a joy-filled household in Lusaka, Zambia.

Today's episode is a beacon of hope and inspiration for those navigating the complexities of life's demands. Whether it's our careers, relationships, talents, or resources, we all possess something that we're called to steward faithfully in service to God's kingdom.


Here's what to expect in today’s episode:

  • Overcoming our doubts when God is calling us into the unknown.

  • How we can activate our faith in uncertain times.

  • Trusting that God uses everything in our lives for His glory.

Bible verse

‭‭Proverbs‬ ‭3‬:‭5 ‬“Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and do not lean on your own understanding.”

Grab your beverage of choice, get comfy, and enjoy the conversation!


Join the community:

  1. Be a part of the Bloomers Community: @bloomerscommunity on all platforms
  2. Follow The Host: @beliyabukuru on all platforms
  3. Visit our website: https://bloomerscommunity.com
  4. Follow Louise on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hisfamouswarrior?igsh=MXU2ZXVwam12OXgzeA== 


#KeepOnBlooming



Mar 24, 202425:58
Living And Working In Purpose with Sampa Kaidee

Living And Working In Purpose with Sampa Kaidee

Have you ever wondered how to balance your faith and pursue your purpose? Today's episode dives into a topic that resonates with us all - living and working purposefully. I'm joined by the remarkable Sampa Kaidee, a model and founder of Modelling In Purpose. Born in Zambia, she moved to Cape Town to pursue her modeling dream, where she has been based for three years.

Sampa's journey in the fashion industry has been a mix of rewards and lessons, helping her discover her identity in the eyes of God amid societal beauty standards. Her quest for purpose within modeling led to the creation of Modelling In Purpose.

This platform aims to build a community of purpose-driven women making a positive impact in the fashion industry. This episode is for you whether you're at a crossroads in your career, searching for meaning, or simply curious about the power of purpose. 

Romans 12:2 Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God’s will is–his good, pleasing, and perfect will.


Here's what to expect in today’s episode:

  1. How have you navigated staying true to your purpose?

  2. How faith can be a source of inspiration for promoting positive body image and redefining beauty standards within the industry?

  3. What challenges and successes have you faced while maintaining a strong Christian identity in a secular environment?


Grab your beverage of choice, get comfy, and enjoy the conversation!


Join the community:

Be a part of the Bloomers Community: @bloomerscommunity on all platforms

Follow The Host: @beliyabukuru on all platforms

Subscribe to our newsletter here: http://eepurl.com/hao28f 

Follow Sampa on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sampakaidee?igsh=MTE2Z2d5NHRwOTZucw==

Follow Modeling in Purpose on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/modellinginpurpose?igsh=MXc2N3oxNmZuM3dnbw==


#KeepOnBlooming





Feb 20, 202423:06
Overcoming Distractions.
Feb 05, 202410:39
Lessons On Sisterhood With Kabwe.

Lessons On Sisterhood With Kabwe.

Are you part of a group or community of women who help and support each other? What impact have they had on your life? In today's episode, we talk about the lessons we've learned in sisterhood. I have the pleasure of discussing this topic with Kabwe Yambayamba.


Kabwe is a lover of Jesus, project lead in the Bloomers Community, and Co-founder of Genius Zambia. Our story is one written by God Himself and I am so grateful we get to share our lessons with you all today

Here's what to expect from today's episode:

  1. How to rebuke our sisters with love.

  2. How to heal from broken friendships.

  3. How to allow ourselves to be rebuked by the Holy Spirit in our friendships.

  4. How to assess ourselves in order to be more loving with ourselves and others.

  5. Things to focus on to grow and nurture healthy friendships/sisterhood.

  6. God wants us to be connected and have healthy friendships. Here are some verses we can reflect on:

Romans 12:10: “Be devoted to one another in love. Honor one another above      yourselves.”

Proverbs 17:17: “A friend loves at all times, and a brother is born for adversity.”

Ecclesiastes 4:9-10: “Two are better than one, because they have a good return for their labor: If either of them falls down, one can help the other up. But pity anyone who falls and has no one to help them up.”

Grab your beverage of choice, get comfy, and enjoy the conversation!

Join the community:

Be a part of the Bloomers Community: @bloomerscommunity on all platforms

Follow The Host: @beliyabukuru on all platforms

Subscribe to our newsletter here: http://eepurl.com/hao28f 

#KeepOnBlooming



Feb 04, 202427:09
Trusting God With Your Relationships With Wonani

Trusting God With Your Relationships With Wonani

Jan 21, 202429:48
We Have Hope In Jesus.
Oct 29, 202312:01
Life Update: Jesus Is Still On The Throne!
Oct 15, 202308:54
Catching Fire with Jane Mazimba
Feb 21, 202321:28
Running To Your Heavenly Father with Kgomotso King

Running To Your Heavenly Father with Kgomotso King

Hey family! I hope the new month is off to a great start. This year I will be having conversations with different women that are doing phenomenal things in the Kingdom of God. Today’s episode is extra special for me because I had the honor of sitting with my lovely, powerful, and anointed Pastor Kgomotso. She’s not only my pastor but also a spiritual mentor to so many daughters. 

I am so thrilled to be having this conversation this year and I believe it will change your life. Ps K alongside Ps Sean are the lead pastors of Kingdomcity Zambia, they are incredible parents to 3 kinglets: Josiah, Jordan, and Judah. She alongside her beautiful family has had such a phenomenal impact on me and many that call Kingdomcity Zambia home. Her influence is tangible, personal, and Holy Spirit-led.

Today's conversation will leave you stirred, centered, and ready to conquer the year ahead.

Here’s what you can expect from our conversation today:

  1. How did Kgomosto become Pastor K?
  2. What does it mean to be a Daughter?
  3. The power and gift of a grace-driven life.
  4. How to run to God and not the world.
  5. What’s one thing you wish you knew early in your walk with Christ?
  6. Practical steps in allowing God to lead your life.

Grab your beverage of choice, get comfy, and enjoy the conversation!

Follow Pastor K on Instagram: https://instagram.com/kgomotsoking5?igshid=YWJhMjlhZTc=

Join the community:

Follow Bloomers: @wearebloomers on all platforms

Follow The Host: @beliyandhlovu on all platforms

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Yellow Ray Digital Agency: www.yellowraydigital.com

Feb 06, 202342:32
A God-Designed Love Story with Esther Chungu Nyathando
Oct 31, 202243:17
This How I Fight My Battles
Aug 22, 202215:41
Showing Yourself Grace When You Feel Like You Are Failing.

Showing Yourself Grace When You Feel Like You Are Failing.

Hello once again!
Let’s get started with a quick life update, and reflect. Our episode today is all about grace and failure. Our hope is that you ask yourself this questions “What is my relationship with failure and how do I show myself grace if any?”
Giving ourselves grace is easier said than done. We beat ourselves up for mistakes and things that are out of our control. It may be a cliche catchphrase, but it's one we should start taking to heart -- the times when you need grace most are the times when you're least likely to give it to yourself.
What you should expect

Know how to strive for realness, not perfection
Importance of permitting yourself to not do or be everything
Why your me-time should be a priority not an option
Keeping our eyes on Jesus, always

Questions to answer

How do you self-regulate?
How do you spend your me-time?
What things do you cut off to be sane?
Who in your life constantly reminds you to show yourself grace when you forget?
Do you spend time journaling your emotions and feelings?
Aug 08, 202214:08
Season 2 Intro! Let's Go On A Journey.
Aug 08, 202204:21
14. Finale: Gratitude Is A Must!
Jan 14, 202219:14
13. How To Build An Authentic Personal Brand with Sekayi Tigere
Oct 18, 202119:24
12. The More You Do, The More Jesus You Need with Luwi Luwaya
Oct 11, 202125:47
11. My Current Relationship With Money

11. My Current Relationship With Money

Money is a touchy topic, for a lot of women, for a lot of reasons. If I am being honest with myself, money has always been a distant relative that I am only getting acquainted with and finally understanding why they matter in my life. And so, Money and I are currently working on building a healthy, transparent, and fun relationship. Instead of me avoiding the subject of money, I am facing it with everything I’ve got to make sure I pass on a healthy mindset to others and my kids (Yes I want kids but that's a whole conversation for another day). This is going to be a fun episode because get to answer some of the questions you shared with me on Instagram. 

Here’s what you can expect;

How I used to view money conversations/money in general

What I do to maintain a healthy money mindset

The hardest lesson I have learned about money this year

How I have managed my money mindset as an entrepreneur

 

Join the community:

Follow Bloomers: @wearebloomers on all platforms

Follow The Host: @beliyandhlovu on all platforms

Subscribe to our newsletter here: http://eepurl.com/hao28f

Yellow Ray Digital Agency: www.yellowraydigital.com


Oct 04, 202110:48
10. Living In The Waiting Season with Shekinah Sibongile Mwale

10. Living In The Waiting Season with Shekinah Sibongile Mwale

Waiting on God is never fun, but it’s filled with so much potential for us to test ourselves and see how grown and mature we really are. Waiting is part of the journey, and while we wait on God, He is working for us -- My talented friend Shekinah shares her wisdom and perspective on living in the waiting season.


Follow Shekinah

Facebook page: https://web.facebook.com/TheKingcess 

Instagram page: https://www.instagram.com/the_kingcess/ 

Listen to her latest song Season Changes:https://audiomack.com/mskinahm/song/season-changer 

 

Join the community:

Follow Bloomers: @wearebloomers on all platforms

Follow The Host: @beliyandhlovu on all platforms

Subscribe to our newsletter here: http://eepurl.com/hao28f

Yellow Ray Digital Agency: www.yellowraydigital.com

#KeepOnBlooming


Sep 20, 202118:34
9. Embracing Change When Life Calls For It with Luwi Kapepa
Sep 13, 202117:43
8. The Future: How Young African Women Are Redefining Innovation with Melissa Mbugua
Sep 06, 202134:29
7. The 33% Rule: How Your Network Impacts Your Growth

7. The 33% Rule: How Your Network Impacts Your Growth

7. The 33% Rule: How Your Network Impacts Your Growth
The 33% rule states that 33% of your time should be spent with mentors (people that challenge you), 33% with your peers (those on the same level as you), and 33% with people that you can mentor and guide.

The idea was created by Tai Lopez, a TED speaker and creator of some famously annoying YouTube videos in which he shows off his incredible wealth. I don’t normally take advice from Lamborghini drivers, but in this case, I think Lopez may be on to something. I'm a firm believer in your network is your net worth, and this rule has been at work in my life without me even realizing it. It has helped me bear so many fruits and I thought, why not share this with you?


Here’s what you can expect:

  • How the 33% rule has helped me in my everyday interactions
  • Why do you need to start assessing your circle of friends and network
  • How to build healthier relationships with people you respect and honor
  • Should you invest in mentorship?
  • Five things you can try to implement the 33% rule.
    • Ask yourself the hard questions about the people you surround yourself with
    • Write down your values and pray over them - ask God to bring the right people your way
    • Create space for God to bless you. Whatever that looks like for you eg: spend more time in prayer, ask people you trust for advice
    • Write down a few things you want to achieve and think of the people you will need to help you get there. This will help you assess the type of character you want around you
    • Pray. Pray!


Join the community:

Follow Bloomers: @wearebloomers on all platforms

Follow The Host: @beliyandhlovu on all platforms

Sign up for the Professional Bragging Waiting List: https://www.bloomerscommunity.com/whktpt2fvm

Yellow Ray Digital Agency: www.yellowraydigital.com

#KeepOnBlooming

Aug 30, 202118:48
6. Resting Is Adulting Too with Sampa Nakamba
Aug 23, 202125:21
5. Do You Ever Feel Inadequate?

5. Do You Ever Feel Inadequate?

We are not born feeling inadequate. Life experiences and emotions create that sense within us in a variety of creative ways. Inadequacy—not being good enough—is experienced by everyone at one point or another.  This feeling of inadequacy can ultimately lead to “Imposter syndrome” which is a huge part of what keeps us stuck in a cycle of self-doubt.

So how do we take intentional steps at discovering the root of our imposter syndrome + start enjoying the freedom that comes with understanding that we are worthy of great things?


Here’s what you can expect:

  • The history of imposter syndrome
  • Major manifestations of imposter syndrome
  • Developing your confidence in God and His word 
  • How to build a healthy mindset


Bible verses:

2 Corinthians 3:5 ESV

Not that we are sufficient in ourselves to claim anything as coming from us, but our sufficiency is from God

Philippians 1:6 ESV

And I am sure of this, that he who began a good work in you will bring it to completion at the day of Jesus Christ.


Join the community:

Follow Bloomers: @wearebloomers on all platforms

Follow The Host: @beliyandhlovu on all platforms

Subscribe to our newsletter here: http://eepurl.com/hao28f

Yellow Ray Digital Agency: www.yellowraydigital.com

#KeepOnBlooming

Aug 16, 202117:59
4. The Christian Mask with Rudi Coleman
Aug 09, 202132:29
3. Love: It Sets The Tone For Everything You Do with Vuyo Morgan
Aug 02, 202134:36
2. Porn: Let’s Talk About It with Edna
Jul 26, 202125:46
1. Faith: How The Bloomers Journey Began
Jul 19, 202115:17
Introduction: Everything You Need To Know!
Jul 15, 202105:45
Conversations that Bloom: Trailer

Conversations that Bloom: Trailer

Welcome to Conversations that Bloom, a space for women thriving at the intersection of faith & grit.

Join Beliya every Sunday morning as she interviews women that are entrepreneurs, mothers, therapists, & career-driven women that are thriving and faithing it.

If you are ready to be inspired, motivated, and encouraged then this show is for you!

Jun 27, 202100:32