Convos with Kaila
By Kaila
Convos with Kaila Aug 19, 2023
Woman of God with Katherine Pugrad Costanza
What does it mean to be a woman of God? Our culture tells us we have to girl boss but what does Biblical womanhood look like? Join me today as I had a conversation with my friend Katherine and as we talk about womanhood, singleness and being who God has created you to be.
What does it mean to be a man of God with David Coleman
Guys, have you ever wondered what it means to be a man of God? Or to the gals, have you ever known what to look for in a Godly man? Well, we talk all about that on todays episode as my friend David joins me to share from a male perspective. Make sure to like, follow along and share with your friends :)
Memorizing Scripture with Melodically Memorizing
On today’s episode Abby from Melodically Memorizing and I talk about memorizing scripture. Sometimes memorizing scripture can feel overwhelming and we often don’t know where to start or how to do it. Abby breaks down some helpful ways to memorize scripture as well as the mission behind her scripture memory Instagram page
Lets talk about Sex with Kingdom Sexuality
Sex can sometimes be an awkward or uncomfortable thing to talk about. In this episode, Alana from Kingdom Sexuality breaks down how to not view sex as something evil or dirty and how to break the holds of purity culture. She shared that the key to intimacy is being intimate with him and that sex is a reflection of Christ's love and his relationship with the church- not a duty or a burden. Make sure to like, subscribe and follow :)
How to Wait Well with Georgia Clark
Have you ever gotten discouraged by waiting to the point where you get impatient and then take control into your own hands? Today, my friend Georgia and I talk about how to wait and how to do it well. Not how to do it perfectly but things that have helped us in our walks with Lord. Some helpful questions Georgia threw out that will hopefully help you in the waiting is: who are you waiting on? Who are you waiting with? And who are you waiting for?
Why Behind the Wait with: Georgia Clark
Lets be honest, for most of us waiting is hard. We want the answers now, we want results, it's hard to be patient and we want to know the why. Join me and my friend Georgia as we talk about why waiting is hard.
Living for His Glory on Set with Raphael Ruggero
Raphael joined me today as he shares about his acting and filmmaking journey. He shares about his experience on the Lifework movie set with the Kendrick brothers as well as tips for those who are desiring to go into this field of acting. He also encourages those who are young and trying to figure out their life with this: "You’re not to rush if you feel like others are more ahead of you. Recognize your imperfections and yet don’t let them rule you.” Tune in today for some laughter, encouragement, stories and advice.
Conos Devo- Psalm 119:9-16
Today's devo is based in Psalm 119:9-16. It's all about how to have a pure heart and how to be obsessed with Christ.
Invitation to Prayer with Dalton Olive
Dalton Olive (pastoral counselor) joins me today on the podcast as we talk about prayer and how to help you get of the funk of not wanting to pray. He gives helpful tips for the one who struggles with hurt towards God and how to vulnerable with God.
Devoted to Prayer
Have you ever struggled with prayer? Have you ever wondered why prayer is important or how to do it? On todays episode I unpack all of those questions plus many others as well as some helpful suggestions for prayer. Make sure to subscribe on apple podcasts, follow on spotify and share with your friends :)
The Joy of Making Music with Willow City
Two brothers from Texas who started a band and now sing songs that are fun and get you hyped up??? Sounds like a fun podcast to me! Today I had Beecher and Ezra from Willow City on the podcast. They talk about their writing and creative process, what helps them get out of the creative ruts and they share about their new song that is releasing soon!
Website: https://www.willowcitymusic.com
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/willowcityofficial/?hl=en
Convos Devo- Psalm 119:1-8
This is the start of the series for season 4: Convos Devos. In this episode I walk through the first section in Psalm 119. It's loaded with action steps we can take while seeing what it means to walk in the blessing of Christ and seeing the glow of His scriptures
Make sure to subscribe on apple podcasts, follow on Spotify and share with your friends :)
Pressing on after a breakup with Georgia Brown
On this podcast episode I had the honor of welcoming Georgia Brown to talk about breakups, how to heal and press into Jesus after a breakup and what it looks like to breakup with settling. Georgia shares Biblical truth on this episode that comes from the healing the Lord has done in her own heart and vulnerable moments from her story. Make sure to tune in if you are needing help with getting through a breakup or just want to know what things you can keep an eye out for when a special person may walk into your life.
Healing after a Breakup pt. 2
This weeks episode I give some more ways to help with healing after a breakup. There will be pain but it’s part of the process. In this episode I give encouragement for the one who is several months post breakup, how not to compare your healing journey to the people in your life and how breakups allow continual communication with the Lord.
Breakup pt. 1
Today's episode is all about breakups... a word that people usually cringe at when they hear. Not a fun topic but a topic that needs to be talked about since so many people have gone through it. On this episode I share about my breakup, what God taught me from it and I share some helpful tools to help you if you're in the same season.
Take Courage
Welcome to season 4!!! This weeks episode is a little update on my life, what God taught me during the Summer as well as what the phrase "take courage" means.
Victory against Porn with Victory Collective
Today on the podcast Amanda and Katie join me from Victory Collective as we talk about the subject of porn, how to fight against it, how to share your struggle with someone and how to move forward from being addicted.
Waiting on the Lord with Jenna Pengelly
Today, Jenna and I talk about what it looks like to wait on the Lord, how to take active steps while living in faith. To focus on serving others as well as deepening our relationship in that time. Jenna shares how we are to come before the Lord and say "your will be done" because his ways are higher than our ways.
Joy during Trials with Joel Chaney
Today on the podcast my friend Joel and I talk about finding joy in the midst of despair and how to put your hope in Christ during those challenging times.
Forgiveness with Rachel, Hannah and Maria
have you ever had a hard time forgiving someone? Or thought "why should I forgive them? They really hurt." Today's episode is all about that. Some of my closest friends at Bible school talk about forgiveness, what it looks like to forgive someone and what you do when you know you should forgive someone but you don't feel like it.
Taking Action
As believers in Christ we get to walk in freedom from our past life. The enemy still tires to have a hold on us by tempting us with things that we've struggled with in the past. He is still making war between light and darkness to get us to fall but how will you stand strong in the battle, say no to these things and continue walking out in this free place? This weeks episode is all about that. I talk about the freedom we have in Christ as well as the actions steps that believers get to walk out in to take action and receive victory in Jesus Name.
Keeping Your Eyes on Jesus
Have you had a difficult time trusting the Lord? Have you had a hard time following in obedience? Trusting God and walking in obedience is so hard at times. We feel like we know what's best or it's our way or the highway. This episode is about trusting God even when it's hard. It's all about keeping your eyes on Him as you rest in Him. My prayer for this weeks episode is for you to see that God’s plans don’t have to match our plans for them to be good. He is faithful and He is good.
What I've learned at Bible School
First semester is done at Bible school so I wanted to take some time to share what the Lord has taught me in regards to dying to myself, having Him be the center of my life, living for God alone, and finding hope in His name.
How to deal with loneliness (Pt 2) with Judah and Tabby
Last week on pt 1 Judah, Tabby and I talked about the difference between being alone and feeling lonely. Today for pt 2 we dive into things you can do to help your loneliness and how to turn to the Lord with these heavy burdens.
Loneliness (Pt 1) with Judah and Tabby
Let's be honest, loneliness is sooooo hard. You can sometimes feel like the only one who feels this way. In this episode, my close friends, Judah and Tabby join me to talk about loneliness and what the difference is between being alone and feeling lonely and how to handle this feeling.
Perfect Love Casts out Fear
Have you ever heard of the verse "perfect love casts out all fear?" This was the verse that I would speak over myself daily when I struggled with fear but I never realized there was more to this verse as well as more in the chapter of 1 John 4 that works with this verse. Join me today as I share what the Lord showed me s well as helpful tidbits from commentaries and how to walk out in this perfect love with courage.
Convos Devo #9 Self-Control
The very concept of “self-control” implies a battle between a divided self. It implies that our “self” produces desires we should not satisfy but instead “control.” We should deny ourselves and take up our cross daily and that's what this devo is all about. Learning how to die to ourselves, take up our cross and live with self control.
Living a Set Apart Lifestyle with David and Dana Coleman
As Christians we hear that we are to live differently than the world but do we actually understand what that means? What does living a set apart life actually look like? How does it effect every decision, thought and action? Or is this just a term we throw around to look like a "good Christian?" Listen to this episode to hopefully help you with these questions. This conversation I had with my two friends on this subject really convicted me and I pray it does the same for you as well.
Convos Devo #8- Gentleness
It's hard focusing on being gentle especially when someone is getting on your nerves, someones cuts you off in traffic or other fun situations that test your patience. Today we dive into what gentleness looks like, some helpful tips for how to be gentle and how it's essential to have gentleness to be more like Christ.
Friendship with Katherine Pugrad-Costanza
Today my friend Katherine and I talk about friendships. Katherine shares the joy and hardship she's experienced with friendship, how to have a Christlike friendship and other beautiful lessons she has learned over the years about friendship.
Finding your worth in Christ
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Broken heart and what I learned
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Convos Devo #7- Faithfulness/What I learned at Camp
For season 3 we are starting with what I learned at camp this summer and the devos today is on faithfulness. To know what faithfulness is and how to walk out in it we must look at God and His faithfulness first. God’s faithfulness has to be more precious to you than life and then as image bearers and those who take on His character can walk out in Christ’s faithfulness.
Convos Devo #6- Goodness
Before this episode I had no idea what goodness meant. I hope this episode can open your eyes to the goodness of God. The goodness of God is not something He does but it is who He is. The goodness of Christ is to be exemplified in our lives daily. We have to daily choose to show kindness and goodness to be more like our Father.
Healthy Living with Gabrielle Wescoe
My convo with Gabby today is all about healthy living, how to take care of our bodies as a temple unto the Lord and how to stay away from pride or the lies of the enemy when seeking to live healthier lives. Gabby shares about her cancer journey and how she now helps women live non-toxic lifestyles and understand how to heal their bodies in a God honoring way.
Composing and Producing with Jared Lane
In this episode Jared talks about how his music journey began, how he got into composing and producing, how he keeps going with creating even when he feels burnt out and how he grows in the music field all for the Lord's glory. Though he talks about music in this episode he also shares some great wisdom that God has taught him and tips for those who are also in the entrepreneur and creating world.
Convos Devo #5- Kindness
In the Bible, Jesus encourages us to show kindness to others humbly, quietly, even anonymously, with no expectation of anything in return. But how do we do that? In todays episode I dive in deeper to the meaning of kindness and how we, as believers, can grow in kindness and live it out by looking to Him as our example.
Choosing Faith Over Fear with Abby Nichols
Fear gets us nowhere. It is the place that the enemy would like us to remain in because let’s face it — fear is a bondage. On today's episode I have my friend Abby on the podcast as we talk about facing this trap and how to fight against it. Abby shares her testimony with fighting fear and gives helpful suggestions to help you fight against fear as well.
Convos Devo #4- Patience
Today's episode is all about patience, which, quite honestly, is still a big I am growing in. In this episode I dive deep into how you can grow in patience and how patience is a character quality that is also tied to faith. Every day our patience is tested so that is why we must be mindful of the process of sanctification and how God is at work in our difficulties to make us more like Jesus.
Content Creator and Real Estate with Zach Miller
This week Zach and I talk about his YouTube late night show, podcast, real estate work and how to continue pursuing those passions that God calls you to. Zach brings joy and laughter everywhere he goes so if you need some laughter, inspiration for your calling or just need a new perspective in life then this episode is for you.
Convos Devo #3- Peace
Did you know the word ‘peace’ appears nearly 429 times in the Bible? If it is talked about that much in the Bible it must be a very important thing to God's heart. For this devotional I talk about the word peace, how you can find peace in your daily life and how peace is knowing that our God is in control in the midst of those hard things. When our minds are stayed on Him we will have peace.
Ending Human Trafficking with Ashley
Human trafficking is a very heavy topic. Many people may choose to skip over but how will it end if we don't learn about it and then act on it? That’s what Ashley and I did here today on this podcast!
Ashley is the vice president of The Red Cord; an anti sex trafficking organization. Ashley shares information about this industry, how we as believers can help fight against this on the spiritual side and the physical side and many more facts and action steps. I hope this episode opens your eyes to what is happening and how to stop this.
https://sharedhope.org https://ourrescue.org
Free from Porn and How to Fight These Temptations (Pt 2)
On today's episode I share my testimony with porn, how the Lord set me free from it and helpful tips and tricks He's given me through the years to fight this new drug and fight the temptation when thoughts come to mind. I also share my answers to people's insatgram questions regarding this as well as how to make this a less awkward conversation. There is no shame to those in Christ Jesus!
The Truth About Porn (Par 1)
In this episode I break down facts about pornography, I break down the lies that the enemy has made regarding porn, sex and making you feel shame. I don't believe this is talked about enough so I tried to share things in here without bringing a feeling of condemnation. This episode is a real and raw one but it's a battle most of the world struggles with and a battle that we can help fight. We need information first as our tools before we start the fight.
Fight the New Drug: https://fightthenewdrug.org/?utm_source=google&utm_medium=cpc&utm_campaign=website&gclid=EAIaIQobChMIoYP9m5Gs8AIVRR-tBh1P-QPqEAAYASAAEgIZRvD_BwE
Perry's video that I referenced in the podcast: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=u0kHlMCYEWc
Live and Lead with Jordan Whitmer
On this episode I interviewed the founder of the How To Life Movement and podcast host for the Gen Z podcast. Jordan and I talk about living for Jesus and being His light in our generation while also connecting with other believers through organizations such as the one Jordan started. We talked about the How to Life Movement, Gen Z, how to live and lead for Jesus in this generation and how to have an anchor in the Eternal.
Convos Devo #2- Living to Love
Love. A word used so many times throughout the day that has powerful meaning behind it but that is seen with so much misconception. In this episode I break down some definitions of love, how we can love because Jesus first loved us and how we can wear love even if we don't feel like it in the moment. Love is powerful. Let's never forget that.
Faith in a Faithless Place with Nikki Chen
In this generation when most people think Christians are hypocritical and judgmental about everything, we should choose to walk in a different way. On this episode, my friend Nikki and I talk about her journey of being a Christian in public school, how she loves on those around her, how our job is to build relationships instead of force things down peoples throats and how we can change this generation as we seek to love and have humility.
Convos Devo #1- Trustworthy
Do you trust Jesus? If you were able to sit back and ask yourself this, what would your answer be? In this episode I share my struggle with trusting God, what I do to get out of that place and how I have been learning to lean on Him instead. His past faithfulness desires your present trust.
What do I do now?
What do you do when you feel like it's time to move on? What do you do when you feel like you need to stay? In this episode I talk about my last season to the season I'm in now and how the Lord directed me. I talk about the tension that comes when trying to see if the door is open or closed and I also talk about how to press into the Lord as you are seeking for His guidance. Last episode for season 1 lets goooooo!
Beauty Pageants and Mental Health with Gabriela Hercha
On this weeks episode I had International United Miss Colorado teen on the podcast. Gabriela talks about how she got started with pageants, being a light in the pageant world, comparison, how to walk in what God has created you to be and we talked about mental health and how to handle that.