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Courageous Conversations

Courageous Conversations

By Cici & Karen Starz

Courageous Conversations is about connection. Whether it's through differences of opinion or the conversations we have with ourselves, Karen Starz, CNVC trainer, and Cici discuss the importance of communication and connecting with people honestly and authentically.

Our hope is that when you listen you're inspired to have courageous conversations and that you're willing to go into these conversations with curiosity and an open heart.

Curious to learn more and build the confidence to have courageous conversations?
Visit www.karenstarz.com
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Ep 55: Bad Bunny & Authenticity

Courageous ConversationsOct 10, 2023

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Ep 55: Bad Bunny & Authenticity

Ep 55: Bad Bunny & Authenticity

For those of you trained in NVC, please note that we use natural language and street giraffe when we are in conversation together. So, listen on with an open mind, a furry heart, and curious ears, or not.

In this week's episode of Courageous Conversations, Cici and Karen talk about our need for authenticity and how one reggaeton artist, Bad Bunny, meets our need for authenticity and why.

If after listening, you find yourself longing for some connection, feeling stimulated, or wanting to hear more, you can connect with us via the message button at the top and Karen has opportunities for you to explore NVC at your own pace on her site,⁠ www.karenstarz.com.⁠

Feeling inspired to create a retreat or event with Karen & guest trainers to nurture connection in your community?  Connect with Cici here: ⁠www.chocolatevolcanollc.com/contact⁠

If you find yourself feeling inspired to contribute to the sustainability and growth of this show, we now have 2 options available for listeners to contribute. You can select the support button within Anchor and we also have a Patreon where you can support the growth of the show and get some additional support in your courageous conversations. Check it out here: ⁠https://www.patreon.com/karenstarz⁠

We're grateful to our Patreon Podcast Producers for all their support! Thanks to Helen, Tina, K, Vanessa, and Ali, for contributing to the growth of the podcast and the work.

Oct 10, 202322:29
Ep 54: It's a Barbie World

Ep 54: It's a Barbie World

For those of you trained in NVC, please note that we use natural language and street giraffe when we are in conversation together. So, listen on with an open mind, a furry heart, and curious ears, or not.


In this week's episode of Courageous Conversations, Cici and Karen talk about everyone's favorite movie these days, Barbie! Take a listen and let us know what you connect with or don't connect with, we'd love to hear it.


If after listening, you find yourself longing for some connection, feeling stimulated, or wanting to hear more, you can connect with us via the message button at the top and Karen has opportunities for you to explore NVC at your own pace on her site,⁠ www.karenstarz.com.⁠


Feeling inspired to create a retreat or event with Karen & guest trainers to nurture connection in your community?  Connect with Cici here: ⁠www.chocolatevolcanollc.com/contact⁠


If you find yourself feeling inspired to contribute to the sustainability and growth of this show, we now have 2 options available for listeners to contribute. You can select the support button within Anchor and we also have a Patreon where you can support the growth of the show and get some additional support in your courageous conversations. Check it out here: ⁠https://www.patreon.com/karenstarz⁠


We're grateful to our Patreon Podcast Producers for all their support! Thanks to Helen, Tina, K, Vanessa, and Ali, for contributing to the growth of the podcast and the work.

Sep 06, 202332:47
Ep 53: Where Your Power Lies

Ep 53: Where Your Power Lies

For those of you trained in NVC, please note that we use natural language and street giraffe when we are in conversation together. So, listen on with an open mind, a furry heart, and curious ears, or not.

In this week's episode of Courageous Conversations, Cici and Karen talk about the space where our power lies. You'll hear quotes and stories discussing how to access our power even when at times it may seem like we don't have any at all.

If after listening, you find yourself longing for some connection, feeling stimulated, or wanting to hear more, you can connect with us via the message button at the top and Karen has opportunities for you to explore NVC at your own pace on her site,⁠ www.karenstarz.com.⁠

Feeling inspired to create a retreat or event with Karen & guest trainers to nurture connection in your community?  Connect with Cici here: ⁠www.chocolatevolcanollc.com/contact⁠

If you find yourself feeling inspired to contribute to the sustainability and growth of this show, we now have 2 options available for listeners to contribute. You can select the support button within Anchor and we also have a Patreon where you can support the growth of the show and get some additional support in your courageous conversations. Check it out here: ⁠https://www.patreon.com/karenstarz⁠

We're grateful to our Patreon Podcast Producers for all their support! Thanks to Helen, Tina, K, Vanessa, and Ali, for contributing to the growth of the podcast and the work.

Aug 13, 202323:27
Ep 52: Checking It Out

Ep 52: Checking It Out

For those of you trained in NVC, please note that we use natural language and street giraffe when we are in conversation together. So, listen on with an open mind, a furry heart, and curious ears, or not.

In this week's episode of Courageous Conversations, Cici and Karen discuss what it means to us to check it out. How do we go about checking out a scenario instead of acting off the story we've made up in our minds based on our thoughts?

If after listening, you find yourself longing for some connection, feeling stimulated, or wanting to hear more, you can connect with us via the message button at the top and Karen has opportunities for you to explore NVC at your own pace on her site,⁠ www.karenstarz.com.⁠

Feeling inspired to create a retreat or event with Karen & guest trainers to nurture connection in your community?  Connect with Cici here: ⁠www.chocolatevolcanollc.com/contact⁠

If you find yourself feeling inspired to contribute to the sustainability and growth of this show, we now have 2 options available for listeners to contribute. You can select the support button within Anchor and we also have a Patreon where you can support the growth of the show and get some additional support in your courageous conversations. Check it out here: ⁠https://www.patreon.com/karenstarz⁠

We're grateful to our Patreon Podcast Producers for all their support! Thanks to Helen, Tina, K, Vanessa, and Ali, for contributing to the growth of the podcast and the work.


Aug 13, 202316:56
Ep 51: We Still Have Choices

Ep 51: We Still Have Choices

For those of you trained in NVC, please note that we use natural language and street giraffe when we are in conversation together. So, listen on with an open mind, a furry heart, and curious ears, or not.

In this week's episode of Courageous Conversations, Cici and Karen re-enter the world of choices. They'll discuss scenarios where it may seem like you don't have choices and the awareness around knowing that you are always at choice.

If after listening, you find yourself longing for some connection, feeling stimulated, or wanting to hear more, you can connect with us via the message button at the top and Karen has opportunities for you to explore NVC at your own pace on her site,⁠ www.karenstarz.com.⁠

Feeling inspired to create a retreat or event with Karen & guest trainers to nurture connection in your community?  Connect with Cici here: ⁠www.chocolatevolcanollc.com/contact⁠

If you find yourself feeling inspired to contribute to the sustainability and growth of this show, we now have 2 options available for listeners to contribute. You can select the support button within Anchor and we also have a Patreon where you can support the growth of the show and get some additional support in your courageous conversations. Check it out here: ⁠https://www.patreon.com/karenstarz⁠

We're grateful to our Patreon Podcast Producers for all their support! Thanks to Helen, Tina, K, Vanessa, and Ali, for contributing to the growth of the podcast and the work.


Aug 13, 202326:57
Ep 50: What Does It Mean To Be In NVC Consciousness

Ep 50: What Does It Mean To Be In NVC Consciousness

For those of you trained in NVC, please note that we use natural language and street giraffe when we are in conversation together. So, listen on with an open mind, a furry heart, and curious ears, or not.

In this week's episode of Courageous Conversations, Cici and Karen talk about what it means to be in NVC consciousness after hearing the question, "when do I use NVC?"

If after listening, you find yourself longing for some connection, feeling stimulated, or wanting to hear more, you can connect with us via the message button at the top and Karen has opportunities for you to explore NVC at your own pace on her site,⁠ www.karenstarz.com.⁠

Feeling inspired to create a retreat or event with Karen & guest trainers to nurture connection in your community?  Connect with Cici here: ⁠www.chocolatevolcanollc.com/contact⁠

If you find yourself feeling inspired to contribute to the sustainability and growth of this show, we now have 2 options available for listeners to contribute. You can select the support button within Anchor and we also have a Patreon where you can support the growth of the show and get some additional support in your courageous conversations. Check it out here: ⁠https://www.patreon.com/karenstarz⁠

We're grateful to our Patreon Podcast Producers for all their support! Thanks to Helen, Tina, K, Vanessa, and Ali, for contributing to the growth of the podcast and the work.

Jun 09, 202329:35
Ep 49: These Things We Call Habits

Ep 49: These Things We Call Habits

For those of you trained in NVC, please note that we use natural language and street giraffe when we are in conversation together. So, listen on with an open mind, a furry heart, and curious ears, or not.

In this week's episode of Courageous Conversations, Cici and Karen talk about these things we call habits, increasing awareness around our habits, and ways we engage with our habits.

If after listening, you find yourself longing for some connection, feeling stimulated, or wanting to hear more, you can connect with us via the message button at the top and Karen has opportunities for you to explore NVC at your own pace on her site, www.karenstarz.com.

Feeling inspired to create a retreat or event with Karen & guest trainers to nurture connection in your community?  Connect with Cici here: www.chocolatevolcanollc.com/contact

If you find yourself feeling inspired to contribute to the sustainability and growth of this show, we now have 2 options available for listeners to contribute. You can select the support button within Anchor and we also have a Patreon where you can support the growth of the show and get some additional support in your courageous conversations. Check it out here: https://www.patreon.com/karenstarz

We're grateful to our Patreon Podcast Producers for all their support! Thanks to Helen, Tina, K, Vanessa, and Ali, for contributing to the growth of the podcast and the work.

Jun 09, 202325:20
Ep 48: Celebrations

Ep 48: Celebrations

For those of you trained in NVC, please note that we use natural language and street giraffe when we are in conversation together. So, listen on with an open mind, a furry heart, and curious ears, or not.

In this week's episode of Courageous Conversations, Cici and Karen talk about celebrations, how celebrations support our being, and more opportunities to embrace NVC consciousness.

If after listening, you find yourself longing for some connection, feeling stimulated, or wanting to hear more, you can connect with us via the message button at the top and Karen has opportunities for you to explore NVC at your own pace on her site, www.karenstarz.com.

Feeling inspired to create a retreat or event with Karen & guest trainers to nurture connection in your community?  Connect with Cici here: www.chocolatevolcanollc.com/contact

If you find yourself feeling inspired to contribute to the sustainability and growth of this show, we now have 2 options available for listeners to contribute. You can select the support button within Anchor and we also have a Patreon where you can support the growth of the show and get some additional support in your courageous conversations. Check it out here: https://www.patreon.com/karenstarz

We're grateful to our Patreon Podcast Producers for all their support! Thanks to Helen, Tina, K, Vanessa, and Ali, for contributing to the growth of the podcast and the work

Apr 04, 202323:34
Ep 47: Defining Needs

Ep 47: Defining Needs

For those of you trained in NVC, please note that we use natural language and street giraffe when we are in conversation together. So, listen on with an open mind, a furry heart, and curious ears, or not.

In this week's episode of Courageous Conversations, Cici and Karen discuss defining needs. When we express needs, what is the essence of that need and how can we visualize it for ourselves?

If after listening, you find yourself longing for some connection, feeling stimulated, or wanting to hear more, you can connect with us via the message button at the top and Karen has opportunities for you to explore NVC at your own pace on her site, www.karenstarz.com.

Feeling inspired to create a retreat or event with Karen & guest trainers to nurture connection in your community?  Connect with Cici here: www.chocolatevolcanollc.com/contact

If you find yourself feeling inspired to contribute to the sustainability and growth of this show, we now have 2 options available for listeners to contribute. You can select the support button within Anchor and we also have a Patreon where you can support the growth of the show and get some additional support in your courageous conversations. Check it out here: https://www.patreon.com/karenstarz

We're grateful to our Patreon Podcast Producers for all their support! Thanks to Helen, Tina, K, Vanessa, and Ali, for contributing to the growth of the podcast and the work

Mar 17, 202338:00
Ep 46: Resistance

Ep 46: Resistance

For those of you trained in NVC, please note that we use natural language and street giraffe when we are in conversation together. So, listen on with an open mind, a furry heart, and curious ears, or not.

In this week's episode of Courageous Conversations, Cici and Karen discuss resistance and how resistance can show up in our worlds. How do we communicate our needs through resistance? How can we hold space for ourselves and others in these moments? 

If after listening, you find yourself longing for some connection, feeling stimulated, or wanting to hear more, you can connect with us via the message button at the top and Karen has opportunities for you to explore NVC at your own pace on her site, www.karenstarz.com.

Feeling inspired to create a retreat or event with Karen & guest trainers to nurture connection in your community?  Connect with Cici here: www.chocolatevolcanollc.com/contact

If you find yourself feeling inspired to contribute to the sustainability and growth of this show, we now have 2 options available for listeners to contribute. You can select the support button within Anchor and we also have a Patreon where you can support the growth of the show and get some additional support in your courageous conversations. Check it out here: https://www.patreon.com/karenstarz

We're grateful to our Patreon Podcast Producers for all their support! Thanks to Helen, Tina, K, Vanessa, and Ali, for contributing to the growth of the podcast and the work

Mar 07, 202339:16
Ep 45: Liar Liar, Why Do We Choose to Lie?

Ep 45: Liar Liar, Why Do We Choose to Lie?

For those of you trained in NVC, please note that we use natural language and street giraffe when we are in conversation together. So, listen on with an open mind, a furry heart, and curious ears, or not.

In this week's episode of Courageous Conversations, Cici and Karen talk about the act of lying. Why do people choose to lie? How can we overcome our thoughts when we hear someone say something we tell ourselves is a lie? We share stories about when we thought we hear lies, and how responding to what we think is a lie with empathy and compassion can encourage people to choose honesty the next time around.

If after listening, you find yourself longing for some connection, feeling stimulated, or wanting to hear more, you can connect with us via the message button at the top and Karen has opportunities for you to explore NVC at your own pace on her site, www.karenstarz.com.

Feeling inspired to create a retreat or event with Karen & guest trainers to nurture connection in your community?  Connect with Cici here: www.chocolatevolcanollc.com/contact

If you find yourself feeling inspired to contribute to the sustainability and growth of this show, we now have 2 options available for listeners to contribute. You can select the support button within Anchor and we also have a Patreon where you can support the growth of the show and get some additional support in your courageous conversations. Check it out here: https://www.patreon.com/karenstarz

We're grateful to our Patreon Podcast Producers for all their support! Thanks to Helen, Tina, K, Vanessa, and Ali, for contributing to the growth of the podcast and the work

Jan 27, 202327:60
Ep 43: Money Vibes

Ep 43: Money Vibes

For those of you trained in NVC, please note that we use natural language and street giraffe when we are in conversation together. So, listen on with an open mind, a furry heart, and curious ears, or not.

In this week's episode of Courageous Conversations, Cici and Karen talk about the energy of money. You'll hear stories where we were introduced to new ways of interacting with money, our previous and current belief systems around money, and how we can reflect on our relationship with money.

If after listening, you find yourself longing for some connection, feeling stimulated, or wanting to hear more, you can connect with us via the message button at the top and Karen has opportunities for you to explore NVC at your own pace on her site, www.karenstarz.com.

Feeling inspired to create a retreat or event with Karen & guest trainers to nurture connection in your community?  Connect with Cici here: www.chocolatevolcanollc.com/contact

If you find yourself feeling inspired to contribute to the sustainability and growth of this show, we now have 2 options available for listeners to contribute. You can select the support button within Anchor and we also have a Patreon where you can support the growth of the show and get some additional support in your courageous conversations. Check it out here: https://www.patreon.com/karenstarz

We're grateful to our Patreon Podcast Producers for all their support! Thanks to Helen, Tina, K, Vanessa, and Ali, for contributing to the growth of the podcast and the work

Dec 23, 202236:15
Ep 42: Loneliness

Ep 42: Loneliness

For those of you trained in NVC, please note that we use natural language and street giraffe when we are in conversation together. So, listen on with an open mind, a furry heart, and curious ears, or not.

In this week's episode of Courageous Conversations, Cici and Karen talk about loneliness. Inspired by an interview Karen heard with the United States Surgeon General, Vivek Murthy, we share experiences of loneliness and how we can self-connect or connect with others to put our minds and hearts at ease when we feel lonely. 

If after listening, you find yourself longing for some connection, feeling stimulated, or wanting to hear more, you can connect with us via the message button at the top and Karen has opportunities for you to explore NVC at your own pace on her site, www.karenstarz.com.

Feeling inspired to create a retreat or event with Karen & guest trainers to nurture connection in your community?  Connect with Cici here: www.chocolatevolcanollc.com/contact

If you find yourself feeling inspired to contribute to the sustainability and growth of this show, we now have 2 options available for listeners to contribute. You can select the support button within Anchor and we also have a Patreon where you can support the growth of the show and get some additional support in your courageous conversations. Check it out here: https://www.patreon.com/karenstarz

We're grateful to our Patreon Podcast Producers for all their support! Thanks to Helen, Tina, K, Vanessa, and Ali, for contributing to the growth of the podcast and the work

Dec 09, 202222:31
Ep 41: Re-Sent-Ment

Ep 41: Re-Sent-Ment

For those of you trained in NVC, please note that we use natural language and street giraffe when we are in conversation together. So, listen on with an open mind, a furry heart, and curious ears, or not.

In this week's episode of Courageous Conversations, Cici and Karen talk about resentments, or as we like to call it, re-sent energy, and how we can use cues from this re-sent energy to stay connected to ourselves and others.

If after listening, you find yourself longing for some connection, feeling stimulated, or wanting to hear more, you can connect with us via the message button at the top and Karen has opportunities for you to explore NVC at your own pace on her site, www.karenstarz.com.

Feeling inspired to create a retreat or event with Karen & guest trainers to nurture connection in your community?  Connect with Cici here: www.chocolatevolcanollc.com/contact

If you find yourself feeling inspired to contribute to the sustainability and growth of this show, we now have 2 options available for listeners to contribute. You can select the support button within Anchor and we also have a Patreon where you can support the growth of the show and get some additional support in your courageous conversations. Check it out here: https://www.patreon.com/karenstarz

We're grateful to our Patreon Podcast Producers for all their support! Thanks to Helen, Tina, K, Vanessa, and Ali, for contributing to the growth of the podcast and the work

Nov 25, 202212:10
Ep 40: Road Rage vs. Responsibility & Choice on the Road

Ep 40: Road Rage vs. Responsibility & Choice on the Road

For those of you trained in NVC, please note that we use natural language and street giraffe when we are in conversation together. So, listen on with an open mind, a furry heart, and curious ears, or not.

In this week's episode of Courageous Conversations, Cici and Karen share stories where they've experienced road rage, responsibility & choice on the road and discuss strategies that work for them to meet their need for safety on the road. 

If after listening, you find yourself longing for some connection, feeling stimulated, or wanting to hear more, you can connect with us via the message button at the top and Karen has opportunities for you to explore NVC at your own pace on her site, www.karenstarz.com.

Feeling inspired to create a retreat or event with Karen & guest trainers to nurture connection in your community?  Connect with Cici here: www.chocolatevolcanollc.com/contact

If you find yourself feeling inspired to contribute to the sustainability and growth of this show, we now have 2 options available for listeners to contribute. You can select the support button within Anchor and we also have a Patreon where you can support the growth of the show and get some additional support in your courageous conversations. Check it out here: https://www.patreon.com/karenstarz

We're grateful to our Patreon Podcast Producers for all their support! Thanks to Helen, Tina, K, Vanessa, and Ali, for contributing to the growth of the podcast and the work

Nov 11, 202218:00
Ep 39: Trick or Treat: Two Sides to Willingness

Ep 39: Trick or Treat: Two Sides to Willingness

For those of you trained in NVC, please note that we use natural language and street giraffe when we are in conversation together. So, listen on with an open mind, a furry heart, and curious ears, or not.

In this week's episode of Courageous Conversations, we get a little spooky on ya ;)  Karen & Cici talk about the two sides of willingness and share stories of moments where we needed to hold space for our own choices and where our willingness or unwillingness levels were at.

If after listening, you find yourself longing for some connection, feeling stimulated, or wanting to hear more, you can connect with us via the message button at the top and Karen has opportunities for you to explore NVC at your own pace on her site, www.karenstarz.com.

Feeling inspired to create a retreat or event with Karen & guest trainers to nurture connection in your community?  Connect with Cici here: www.chocolatevolcanollc.com/contact

If you find yourself feeling inspired to contribute to the sustainability and growth of this show, we now have 2 options available for listeners to contribute. You can select the support button within Anchor and we also have a Patreon where you can support the growth of the show and get some additional support in your courageous conversations. Check it out here: https://www.patreon.com/karenstarz

We're grateful to our Patreon Podcast Producers for all their support! Thanks to Helen, Tina, K, Vanessa, and Ali, for contributing to the growth of the podcast and the work

Oct 26, 202230:30
Ep 38: Watch Out For Those Triangles

Ep 38: Watch Out For Those Triangles

For those of you trained in NVC, please note that we use natural language and street giraffe when we are in conversation together. So, listen on with an open mind, a furry heart, and curious ears, or not.

In this week's episode of Courageous Conversations, we Karen and Cici share what it can be like to realize you're in a triangle and how we can navigate those triangles with awareness and compassion. 

If after listening, you find yourself longing for some connection, feeling stimulated, or wanting to hear more, you can connect with us via the message button at the top and Karen has opportunities for you to explore NVC at your own pace on her site, www.karenstarz.com.

Feeling inspired to create a retreat or event with Karen & guest trainers to nurture connection in your community?  Connect with Cici here: www.chocolatevolcanollc.com/contact

If you find yourself feeling inspired to contribute to the sustainability and growth of this show, we now have 2 options available for listeners to contribute. You can select the support button within Anchor and we also have a Patreon where you can support the growth of the show and get some additional support in your courageous conversations. Check it out here: https://www.patreon.com/karenstarz

We're grateful to our Patreon Podcast Producers for all their support! Thanks to Helen, Tina, K, Vanessa, and Ali, for contributing to the growth of the podcast and the work

Oct 14, 202225:52
Ep 37: Hearing Criticism When It's Not There

Ep 37: Hearing Criticism When It's Not There

For those of you trained in NVC, please note that we use natural language and street giraffe when we are in conversation together. So, listen on with an open mind, a furry heart, and curious ears, or not.

In this week's episode of Courageous Conversations, we discuss what it can be like to hear criticism when it's not there. You'll hear stories of when Cici and Karen heard criticism and the choices we made in those moments. 

If after listening, you find yourself longing for some connection, feeling stimulated, or wanting to hear more, you can connect with us via the message button at the top and Karen has opportunities for you to explore NVC at your own pace on her site, www.karenstarz.com.

Feeling inspired to create a retreat or event with Karen & guest trainers to nurture connection in your community?  Connect with Cici here: www.chocolatevolcanollc.com/contact

If you find yourself feeling inspired to contribute to the sustainability and growth of this show, we now have 2 options available for listeners to contribute. You can select the support button within Anchor and we also have a Patreon where you can support the growth of the show and get some additional support in your courageous conversations. Check it out here: https://www.patreon.com/karenstarz

We're grateful to our Patreon Podcast Producers for all their support! Thanks to Helen, Tina, K, Vanessa, and Ali, for contributing to the growth of the podcast and the work

Sep 30, 202229:52
Ep 36: Intimacy & Warmth Part 2

Ep 36: Intimacy & Warmth Part 2

For those of you trained in NVC, please note that we use natural language and street giraffe when we are in conversation together. So, listen on with an open mind, a furry heart, and curious ears, or not.

In this week's episode of Courageous Conversations, we welcome Manasi Saxena of Encompassion & Living Bridges. She is co-facilitating a Weekend of Warmth & Intimacy: Exploring our Capacities for Love with Karen on September 24th and 25th.   We're excited to share with you her stories when it comes to intimacy and warmth. 

If after listening, you find yourself longing for some connection, feeling stimulated, or wanting to hear more, you can connect with us via the message button at the top and Karen has opportunities for you to explore NVC at your own pace on her site, www.karenstarz.com.

Interested in connecting with Manasi? Connect with her here: https://livingbridges.co.in

Feeling inspired to create a retreat or event with Karen & guest trainers to nurture connection in your community?  Connect with Cici here: www.chocolatevolcanollc.com/contact

If you find yourself feeling inspired to contribute to the sustainability and growth of this show, we now have 2 options available for listeners to contribute. You can select the support button within Anchor and we also have a Patreon where you can support the growth of the show and get some additional support in your courageous conversations. Check it out here: https://www.patreon.com/karenstarz

We're grateful to our Patreon Podcast Producers for all their support! Thanks to Helen, Tina, K, Vanessa, Ali, and Sam, for contributing to the growth of the podcast and the work

Sep 07, 202227:05
Ep 35: Intimacy and Warmth

Ep 35: Intimacy and Warmth

For those of you trained in NVC, please note that we use natural language and street giraffe when we are in conversation together. So, listen on with an open mind, a furry heart, and curious ears, or not.

In this week's episode of Courageous Conversations, we share how we experience intimacy and warmth. We also step outside the physical and talk about other ways we can share intimacy and warmth.

If after listening, you find yourself longing for some connection, feeling stimulated, or wanting to hear more, you can connect with us via the message button at the top and Karen has opportunities for you to explore NVC at your own pace on her site, www.karenstarz.com.

If you find yourself feeling inspired to contribute to the sustainability and growth of this show, we now have 2 options available for listeners to contribute. You can select the support button within Anchor and we also have a Patreon where you can support the growth of the show and get some additional support in your courageous conversations. Check it out here: https://www.patreon.com/karenstarz

If you're longing to create a retreat or event to bring people from your school, work, or life community together for connection through compassionate communication, you can reach out to Cici here to talk about your options: www.chocolatevolcanollc.com/contact

We're grateful to our Patreon Podcast Producers for all their support! Thanks to Helen, Tina, K, Vanessa, Ali, and Sam, for contributing to the growth of the podcast and the work

Sep 02, 202223:39
Ep 34: Body Language

Ep 34: Body Language

For those of you trained in NVC, please note that we use natural language and street giraffe when we are in conversation together. So, listen on with an open mind, a furry heart, and curious ears, or not.

In this week's episode of Courageous Conversations, we share our experiences with body language and embodying NVC. Have you ever had a moment where you said nothing and your facial expressions or body movements shared a different narrative? We share our stories about how body language plays a role in our day-to-day conversations and how we practice embodying NVC.

If after listening, you find yourself longing for some connection, feeling stimulated, or wanting to hear more, you can connect with us via the message button at the top and Karen has opportunities for you to explore NVC at your own pace on her site, www.karenstarz.com.

If you find yourself feeling inspired to contribute to the sustainability and growth of this show, we now have 2 options available for listeners to contribute. You can select the support button within Anchor and we also have a Patreon where you can support the growth of the show and get some additional support in your courageous conversations. Check it out here: https://www.patreon.com/karenstarz

If you're longing to create a retreat or event to bring people from your school, work, life community together for connection through compassionate communication, you can reach out to Cici here to talk about your options: www.chocolatevolcanollc.com/contact

We're grateful to our Patreon Podcast Producers for all their support! Thanks to Helen, Tina, K, Vanessa, Ali, and Sam, for contributing to the growth of the podcast and the work.

Aug 19, 202232:01
Ep 33: Expressing Anger

Ep 33: Expressing Anger

For those of you trained in NVC, please note that we use natural language and street giraffe when we are in conversation together. So, listen on with an open mind, a furry heart, and curious ears, or not.

In this week's episode of Courageous Conversations, we talk about expressing anger. We share Marshall’s perspective on expressing anger through his book passages, our thoughts on expressing anger, and how expressing anger can bring awareness to needs and a deeper understanding of what stimulates our anger.

If after listening, you find yourself longing for some connection, feeling stimulated, or wanting to hear more, you can connect with us via the message button at the top and Karen has opportunities for you to explore NVC at your own pace on her site, www.karenstarz.com.

If you find yourself feeling inspired to contribute to the sustainability and growth of this show, we now have 2 options available for listeners to contribute. You can select the support button within Anchor and we also have a Patreon where you can support the growth of the show and get some additional support in your courageous conversations. Check it out here: https://www.patreon.com/karenstarz

If you're longing to create a retreat or event to bring people from your school, work, life community together for connection through compassionate communication, you can reach out to Cici here to talk about your options: www.chocolatevolcanollc.com/contact

We're grateful to our Patreon Podcast Producers for all their support! Thanks to Helen, Tina, K, Vanessa, Ali, and Sam, for contributing to the growth of the podcast and the work.

Aug 05, 202229:17
Ep 32: Remember Your Shine

Ep 32: Remember Your Shine

For those of you trained in NVC, please note that we use natural language and street giraffe when we are in conversation together. So, listen on with an open mind, a furry heart, and curious ears, or not.

In this week's episode of Courageous Conversations, we were inspired by a newsletter Karen received from CNVC certified trainer David R. McCain. In his newsletter, we resonated with his perspective regarding the school system.  We share stories about our experiences in the school system and how we would like to see the school system evolve in order to inspire students to remember their shine.  

If after listening, you find yourself longing for some connection, feeling stimulated, or wanting to hear more, you can connect with us via the message button at the top and Karen has opportunities for you to explore NVC at your own pace on her site, www.karenstarz.com.

If you find yourself feeling inspired to contribute to the sustainability and growth of this show, we now have 2 options available for listeners to contribute. You can select the support button within Anchor and we also have a Patreon where you can support the growth of the show and get some additional support in your courageous conversations. Check it out here: https://www.patreon.com/karenstarz

If you're longing to create a retreat or event to bring people from your school, work, life community together for connection through compassionate communication, you can reach out to Cici here to talk about your options: www.chocolatevolcanollc.com/contact

We're grateful to our Patreon Podcast Producers for all their support! Thanks to Helen, Tina, K, Vanessa, Ali, and Sam, for contributing to the growth of the podcast and the work.

Jul 15, 202234:05
Ep 31: Processing Your Own Stuff

Ep 31: Processing Your Own Stuff

For those of you trained in NVC, please note that we use natural language and street giraffe when we are in conversation together. So, listen on with an open mind, a furry heart, and curious ears, or not.

In this week's episode of Courageous Conversations, we talk about enemy images (you can read more about this in Karen's newest blog) and share stories and strategies about how we process our thoughts, evaluations, judgments, and feelings to become aware of our needs. You will hear us talk about some of the "hot" topics in the United States. It may be stimulating to hear for some and we want you to take care of yourself whether that's reaching out to someone for empathy, taking space for yourself, or just skipping this episode for now. Make a choice that best meets your needs. 

If after listening, you find yourself longing for some connection, feeling stimulated, or wanting to hear more, you can connect with us via the message button at the top and Karen has opportunities for you to explore NVC at your own pace on her site, www.karenstarz.com.

If you find yourself feeling inspired to contribute to the sustainability and growth of this show, we now have 2 options available for listeners to contribute. You can select the support button within Anchor and we also have a Patreon where you can support the growth of the show and get some additional support in your courageous conversations. Check it out here: https://www.patreon.com/karenstarz

We're grateful to our Patreon Podcast Producers for all their support! Thanks to Helen, Tina, K, Vanessa, Ali, and Sam, for contributing to the growth of the podcast and the work.

Jul 02, 202226:56
Ep 30: More Practice, More Connection

Ep 30: More Practice, More Connection

For those of you trained in NVC, please note that we use natural language and street giraffe when we are in conversation together. So, listen on with an open mind, a furry heart, and curious ears, or not.

In this week's episode of Courageous Conversations, we meet our need for fun and play with some practice games.  You have heard Karen say how practice is the key to integrating Nonviolent Communication at the level of becoming a new consciousness. Marshall Rosenberg also talks about the stages we go through while learning this new language- a language of the heart and how it takes practice.  While listening, if you feel inspired to play along, we would enjoy hearing your feedback.

If after listening, you find yourself longing for some connection or wanting to hear more, you can connect with us via the message button at the top and Karen has opportunities for you to explore NVC at your own pace on her site, www.karenstarz.com.

If you find yourself feeling inspired to contribute to the sustainability and growth of this show, we now have 2 options available for listeners to contribute. You can select the support button within Anchor and we also have a Patreon where you can support the growth of the show and get some additional support in your courageous conversations. Check it out here: https://www.patreon.com/karenstarz

We're grateful to our Patreon Podcast Producers for all their support! Thanks to Helen, Tina, K, Vanessa, Ali, and Sam, for contributing to the growth of the podcast and the work.


Jun 10, 202236:09
Ep 29: Needs Are Never in Conflict
May 26, 202234:42
Ep 28: Unconscious Blabber
Apr 30, 202223:40
Ep 27: The Magical Mystery Ride of Thought

Ep 27: The Magical Mystery Ride of Thought

For those of you trained in NVC, please note that we use natural language and street giraffe when we are in conversation together. So, listen on with an open mind, a furry heart, and curious ears, or not.

In this week's episode of Courageous Conversations, Karen and Cici share their experiences when it comes to thoughts.  Sometimes we choose to listen to our thoughts instead of our hearts and we need a little help to get past the thought to experience the "true" reality of what is taking place inside us and out in the world.  Cici shares how she chooses to switch up her thoughts when she notices they're not in alignment with her being and Karen shares stories of how switching up her thoughts brought her courage to face a potential fear while out adventuring waterfalls.   

If after listening, you find yourself longing for some connection or wanting to hear more, you can connect with us via the message button at the top and Karen has opportunities for you to explore NVC at your own pace on her site, www.karenstarz.com.

If you find yourself feeling inspired to contribute to the sustainability and growth of this show, we now have 2 options available for listeners to contribute. You can select the support button within Anchor and we also have a Patreon where you can support the growth of the show and get some additional support in your courageous conversations. Check it out here: https://www.patreon.com/karenstarz

We're grateful to our Patreon Podcast Producers for all their support! Thanks to Helen, Tina, K, Vanessa, Ali, and Sam, for contributing to the growth of the podcast and the work.

Apr 14, 202226:56
Ep 26: Choose To and Have To

Ep 26: Choose To and Have To

For those of you trained in NVC, please note that we use natural language and street giraffe when we are in conversation together. So, listen on with an open mind, a furry heart, and curious ears, or not.

In this week's episode of Courageous Conversations, Karen and Cici talk about the Oscar moment between Chris Rock, Will Smith, and Jada Pinkett Smith in relation to choices.  We also share stories of experiences where we have heard people say or heard ourselves say things like "I have to do this thing" in place of the awareness that we are making choices daily. You'll hear us talk about the dynamic between choose to and have to that we come across in our daily lives.  

If after listening, you find yourself longing for some connection or wanting to hear more, you can connect with us via the message button at the top and Karen has opportunities for you to explore NVC at your own pace on her site, www.karenstarz.com.

If you find yourself feeling inspired to contribute to the sustainability and growth of this show, we now have 2 options available for listeners to contribute. You can select the support button within Anchor and we also have a Patreon where you can support the growth of the show and get some additional support in your courageous conversations. Check it out here: https://www.patreon.com/karenstarz

We're grateful to our Patreon Podcast Producers for all their support! Thanks to Helen, K, Vanessa, Ali, and Sam, for contributing to the growth of the podcast and the work.

Apr 02, 202235:35
Ep 25: Self Responsibility

Ep 25: Self Responsibility

For those of you trained in NVC, please note that we use natural language and street giraffe when we are in conversation together. So, listen on with an open mind, a furry heart, and curious ears, or not.

In this week's episode of Courageous Conversations, Karen and Cici share stories of when their need for self-responsibility was met or unmet. We also share stories from Marshall Rosenberg's book, Nonviolent Communication: a Language of Life, that stood out to us while recording this episode.  If after listening, you find yourself longing for some connection or wanting to hear more, you can connect with us via the message button at the top and Karen has opportunities for you to explore NVC at your own pace on her site, www.karenstarz.com.

If you find yourself feeling inspired to contribute to the sustainability and growth of this show, we now have 2 options available for listeners to contribute. You can select the support button within Anchor and we also have a Patreon where you can support the growth of the show and get some additional support in your courageous conversations. Check it out here: https://www.patreon.com/karenstarz

We're grateful to our Patreon Podcast Producers for all their support! Thanks to Helen, K, Vanessa, Ali, and Sam, for contributing to the growth of the podcast and the work.

Mar 21, 202236:59
Ep 24: The Tyranny of Inclusion

Ep 24: The Tyranny of Inclusion

Mar 05, 202225:51
Ep 23: Levels of Capacity

Ep 23: Levels of Capacity

For those of you trained in NVC, please note that we use natural language and street giraffe when we are in conversation together. So, listen on with an open mind, a furry heart, and curious ears, or not.

During this week's episode of Courageous Conversations, we talk about listening, levels of capacity, and power in our world. You'll hear stories about what brought this conversation to light for us, moments of awareness, and more. 

If after listening to this episode, you find yourself curious about NVC or longing for some connection, you can connect with us via the message button at the top and Karen has opportunities for you to explore NVC at your own pace on her site, www.karenstarz.com.

If you find yourself feeling inspired to contribute to the sustainability and growth of this show, we now have 2 options available for listeners to contribute. You can select the support button within Anchor and we also have a Patreon where you can support the growth of the show and get some additional support in your courageous conversations. Check it out here: https://www.patreon.com/karenstarz

We're grateful to our Patreon Podcast Producers for all their support! Thanks to Helen, K, Vanessa, Ali, Fernando and Sam, for contributing to the growth of the podcast and the work.

Feb 19, 202220:56
Ep 22: Integration

Ep 22: Integration

For those of you trained in NVC, please note that we use natural language and street giraffe when we are in conversation together. So, listen on with an open mind, a furry heart, and curious ears, or not.

During this week's episode of Courageous Conversations, we talk about our integration.  What is integration to us? How can integration support growth?  Karen also wrote a blog to support this week's podcast and it is available on her website.  

If after listening to this episode, you find yourself curious about NVC or longing for some connection, you can connect with us via the message button at the top and Karen has opportunities for you to explore NVC at your own pace on her site, www.karenstarz.com.

If you find yourself feeling inspired to contribute to the sustainability and growth of this show, we now have 2 options available for listeners to contribute. You can select the support button within Anchor and we also have a Patreon where you can support the growth of the show and get some additional support in your courageous conversations. Check it out here: https://www.patreon.com/karenstarz

We're grateful to our Patreon Podcast Producers for all their support! Thanks to Helen, K, Vanessa, and Sam, for contributing to the growth of the podcast and the work.

Feb 07, 202222:07
Ep 21: Storytime

Ep 21: Storytime

For those of you trained in NVC, please note that we use natural language and street giraffe when we are in conversation together. So, listen on with an open mind, a furry heart, and curious ears, or not.

During this week's episode of Courageous Conversations, we talk about our experiences when we enter what Cici calls a storytime. Storytimes are influenced by our thoughts and are an important part of the self-check-in process with their ability to connect us to our feelings and needs. 

If after listening to this episode, you find yourself curious about NVC or longing for some connection, you can connect with us via the message button at the top and Karen has opportunities for you to explore NVC at your own pace on her site, www.karenstarz.com.

If you find yourself feeling inspired to contribute to the sustainability and growth of this show, we now have a 2 options available for listeners to contribute. You can select the support button within Anchor and we also have a Patreon where you can support the growth of the show and get some additional support in your courageous conversations. Check it out here: https://www.patreon.com/karenstarz

We're grateful to our Patreon Podcast Producers for all their support! Thanks to Helen, K, Vanessa, Laura, Sam, and Fernando for contributing to the growth of the podcast and the work.

Dec 09, 202125:51
Ep 20: Open Ears & Furry Hearts
Oct 31, 202124:07
EP 19: NVC & Social Media

EP 19: NVC & Social Media

In this week's episode of Courageous Conversations, Karen and Cici discuss social media and what is accountability in the language of nonviolence.

For those of you trained in NVC, please note that we use natural language and street giraffe when we are in conversation together. So, listen on with an open mind, a furry heart, and curious ears, or not.

If after listening to this episode, you find yourself curious about NVC or longing for some connection, you can connect with us via the message button at the top and Karen has opportunities for you to explore NVC at your own pace on her site, www.karenstarz.com.

If you find yourself feeling inspired to contribute to the sustainability and growth of this show, we now have a Patreon! Through Patreon, you can support the growth of the show and get some additional support in your courageous conversations. Check it out here: https://www.patreon.com/karenstarz

We're grateful to our Patreon Podcast Producers for all their support! Thanks to Helen, K, Vanessa, Laura, Sam, and Fernando for contributing to the growth of the podcast and the work.

Oct 15, 202123:48
EP 18: NVC in the Classroom
Sep 11, 202121:46
Ep 17: Interdependence and NVC
Aug 28, 202128:32
Ep 16: Detachment from Outcome

Ep 16: Detachment from Outcome

On this week's episode of Courageous Conversations, we are joined by Jamil Popatia. Jamil is a Certified Trainer and Facilitator in Nonviolent Communication based in Vancouver, British Columbia.  He is the founder of Dignified Dialogue where he works with clients and participants to engage in courageous conversations with themselves and others in pursuit of meaning, connection and compassion. 

Jamil and Cici discuss Jamil's offering, Detachment from Outcome: The Meeting Place of Spirituality and NVC, for the Houston NVC Season of Celebration fundraiser and also explore the connection to impact and intention. 

For those of you trained in NVC, please note that we use natural language and street giraffe when we are in conversation together. So, listen on with an open mind, a furry heart, and curious ears, or not.

If after listening to this episode, you find yourself curious about NVC or longing for some connection, you can connect with us via the message button at the top and Karen has opportunities for you to explore NVC at your own pace on her site, www.karenstarz.com.

If you find yourself feeling inspired to contribute to the sustainability and growth of this show, we now have a Patreon! Through Patreon, you can support the growth of the show and get some additional support in your courageous conversations. Check it out here: https://www.patreon.com/karenstarz

We're grateful to our Patreon Podcast Producers for all their support! Thanks to Helen, K, Brent, Vanessa, Laura, Sam and Fernando for contributing to the growth of the podcast and the work.

Aug 07, 202116:34
Ep 15: Faith in the Process

Ep 15: Faith in the Process

In this week's episode of Courageous Conversations, we talk about faith. Having faith in the process even when we don't know what is going to come next. You'll also hear us talk about presence and how embodiment plays a role in connection with those around us.

For those of you trained in NVC, please note that we use natural language and street giraffe when we are in conversation together. So, listen on with an open mind, a furry heart, and curious ears, or not.

If after listening to this episode, you find yourself curious about NVC or longing for some connection, you can connect with us via the message button at the top and Karen has opportunities for you to explore NVC at your own pace on her site, www.karenstarz.com.

If you find yourself feeling inspired to contribute to the sustainability and growth of this show, we now have a Patreon! Through Patreon, you can support the growth of the show and get some additional support in your courageous conversations. Check it out here: https://www.patreon.com/karenstarz

We're grateful to our Patreon Podcast Producers for all their support! Thanks to Helen, Susan, Brent, Vanessa, Laura, and Fernando for contributing to the growth of the podcast and the work.

Jul 09, 202127:54
Ep 14: I Need Some Space

Ep 14: I Need Some Space

In this week's episode of Courageous Conversations, we explore space as a need in its physical form, in the form of time, and also in spaciousness. You'll hear personal examples from Cici and Karen about times when we needed space and how we did or didn't make the request for that much-needed space.

For those of you trained in NVC, please note that we use natural language and street giraffe when we are in conversation together. So, listen on with an open mind, a furry heart, and curious ears, or not.

If after listening to this episode, you find yourself curious about NVC or longing for some connection, you can connect with us via the message button at the top and Karen has opportunities for you to explore NVC at your own pace on her site, www.karenstarz.com.

If you find yourself feeling inspired to contribute to the sustainability and growth of this show, we now have a Patreon! Through Patreon, you can support the growth of the show and get some additional support in your courageous conversations. Check it out here: https://www.patreon.com/karenstarz

We're grateful to our Patreon Podcast Producers for all their support! Thanks to Helen, Susan, Brent, Vanessa, Deborah, Laura, and Fernando for contributing to the growth of the podcast and the work. 

Jun 26, 202129:41
Ep 13: Getting Progressively Less Stupid

Ep 13: Getting Progressively Less Stupid

New week, new podcast! We're back with another episode of Courageous Conversations this week. Karen brings up a quote Marshall Rosenberg once said that was, NVCers aren't perfect, they are just getting progressively less stupid. You'll hear us share our experiences where we have noticed we have gotten progressively less stupid and get an inside look at our process as we go about our day-to-day in this human experience. 

For those of you trained in NVC, please note that we use natural language and street giraffe when we are in conversation together. So, listen on with an open mind, a furry heart, and curious ears, or not.

If after listening to this episode, you find yourself curious about NVC or longing for some connection, you can connect with us via the message button at the top and Karen has opportunities for you to explore NVC at your own pace on her site, www.karenstarz.com.

Want to contribute to the sustainability and growth of this show? We now have a Patreon! Through Patreon, you can support the growth of the show and get some additional support in your courageous conversations. Check it out here: https://www.patreon.com/karenstarz

We're grateful to our Patreon Podcast Producers for all their support! Thanks to Helen, Susan, Brent, Vanessa, Deborah, and Fernando for contributing to the growth of the podcast and the work. 

Jun 10, 202128:09
Ep 12: Apologies, I'm Sorry and Beneficial Regret within NVC

Ep 12: Apologies, I'm Sorry and Beneficial Regret within NVC

In this week's episode of Courageous Conversations, we were excited to have a listener question from one of our Patreon members. The question was do you say, "I'm sorry," in Nonviolent Communication?  We explore apologies, I'm sorry and beneficial regret within NVC, and share stories about what connection looks like for us as we transition back to in-person get-togethers. 

For those of you trained in NVC, please note that we use natural language and street giraffe when we are in conversation together. So, listen on with an open mind, a furry heart, and curious ears, or not.

If after listening to this episode, you find yourself curious about NVC or longing for some connection, you can connect with us via the message button at the top and Karen has opportunities for you to explore NVC at your own pace on her site, www.karenstarz.com.

Want to contribute to the sustainability and growth of this show? We now have a Patreon! Through Patreon, you can support the growth of the show and get some additional support in your courageous conversations. Check it out here: https://www.patreon.com/karenstarz

Meet our Patreon Podcast Producers below. Join our Patreon to receive your Producer credit :)

Brent, Helen, Vanessa, Deborah, and Fernando, we're grateful for your support of the podcast!

May 29, 202131:20
Ep 11: The 3 Stages of How We Relate to Each Other

Ep 11: The 3 Stages of How We Relate to Each Other

In this week's episode of Courageous Conversations, we talk about the three different stages of how we relate to each other as Marshall Rosenberg identified them in his book Nonviolent Communication: A Language of Life. We talk about some of our experiences and celebrations as we progress from emotional slavery to the obnoxious stage to emotional liberation.

For those of you trained in NVC, please note that we use natural language and street giraffe when we are in conversation together. So, listen on with an open mind, a furry heart, and curious ears, or not.

If after listening to this episode, you find yourself curious about NVC or longing for some connection, you can connect with us via the message button at the top and Karen has opportunities for you to explore NVC at your own pace on her site, www.karenstarz.com.

Want to contribute to the sustainability and growth of this show? We now have a Patreon! Through Patreon, you can support the growth of the show and get some additional support in your courageous conversations. Check it out here: https://www.patreon.com/karenstarz

We're grateful to our Patreon Podcast Producers Helen & Brent for their support!  

May 14, 202116:19
Ep 10: The 4 D's of Disconnection

Ep 10: The 4 D's of Disconnection

In this week's episode of Courageous Conversations, we talk about the 4 D's of disconnection and dig deeper into deserve-type thinking. You'll hear a real-life example from a conversation C had with a friend and we also touch on the care and awareness that is needed when bringing up the needs of justice and accountability. We have touched briefly on the justice systems in place in the US towards the end of the podcast. If this is a topic that stimulates you, we ask that you take time to care for yourself while listening, whatever that may look like for you. 

For those of you trained in NVC, please note that we use natural language and street giraffe when we are in conversation together. So, listen on with an open mind, a furry heart, and curious ears, or not.

If after listening to this episode, you find yourself curious about NVC or longing for some connection, you can connect with us via the message button at the top and Karen has opportunities for you to explore NVC at your own pace on her site, www.karenstarz.com.

Want to contribute to the sustainability and growth of this show? We now have a Patreon! Through Patreon, you can support the growth of the show and get some additional support in your courageous conversations. Check it out here: https://www.patreon.com/karenstarz

Apr 29, 202133:25
Ep 9: Power vs Force

Ep 9: Power vs Force

In this week's episode of Courageous Conversations, Karen and C talk about self-care, sticking to the agreements we make with ourselves and the differentiation between power and force. This week's episode ends with a role-play we're hoping is supportive to be a part of when keeping your courageous conversations in mind. 

For those of you trained in NVC, please note that we use natural language and street giraffe when we are in conversation together. So, listen on with an open mind, a furry heart, and curious ears, or not.

If after listening to this episode, you find yourself curious about NVC or longing for some connection, you can connect with us via the message button at the top and Karen has opportunities for you to explore NVC at your own pace on her site, www.karenstarz.com.

Want to contribute to the sustainability and growth of this show? We'll have a Patreon coming soon where you can support the growth of the show and get some additional support in your courageous conversations. 

Apr 09, 202129:13
Ep 8: Criticism and Humble Pie

Ep 8: Criticism and Humble Pie

In this week's episode of Courageous Conversations, Karen and C explore what can happen when we hear criticism and how some days we may need to eat a slice of humble pie in those scenarios.

For those of you trained in NVC, please note that we use natural language and street giraffe when we are in conversation together. So, listen on with an open mind, a furry heart, and curious ears, or not.

If after listening to this episode, you find yourself curious about NVC or longing for some connection, you can connect with us via the message button at the top and Karen has opportunities for you to explore NVC at your own pace on her site, www.karenstarz.com.

Mar 27, 202129:57
Ep 7: NVC & Getting Stuff Done

Ep 7: NVC & Getting Stuff Done

In this week's episode of Courageous Conversations, Cici was curious about "getting it done" and how that works in the world of NVC. How can we stay in connection while moving into strategy? Karen and C explore what that could look like and what has worked for them in their past experiences. 

For those of you trained in NVC, please note that we use natural language and street giraffe when we are in conversation together. So, listen on with an open mind, a furry heart, and curious ears, or not.

If after listening to this episode, you find yourself curious about NVC or longing for some connection, you can connect with us via the message button at the top and Karen has opportunities for you to explore NVC at your own pace on her site, www.karenstarz.com.

Mar 13, 202130:33
Ep 6: Slowing Down

Ep 6: Slowing Down

In this week's episode of Courageous Conversations, we chose to slow down and talk about NVC and the importance of aiming for connection. You'll hear some excerpts from Marshall Rosenberg's book, stories from us both about moments where we noticed the importance of slowing down and remembering that we aim for connection. 

For those of you trained in NVC, please note that we use natural language and street giraffe when we are in conversation together. So, listen on with an open mind, a furry heart, and curious ears, or not.

If after listening to this episode, you find yourself curious about NVC or longing for some connection, you can connect with us via the message button at the top and Karen has opportunities for you to explore NVC at your own pace on her site, www.karenstarz.com.

Feb 27, 202126:56
Ep 5: Evaluations & NVC

Ep 5: Evaluations & NVC

In this week's episode of Courageous Conversations, Karen shares a story about how one evaluation changed the course of her life. (Kidding, but it did change the course of the day.) Throughout the episode, we discuss the NVC Mandala and how evaluations have the ability to influence the choices we choose to make day to day. 

For those of you trained in NVC, please note that we use natural language and street giraffe when we are in conversation together. So, listen on with an open mind, a furry heart, and curious ears, or not.

If after listening to this episode, you find yourself curious about NVC or longing for some connection, you can connect with us via the message button at the top and Karen has opportunities for you to explore NVC at your own pace on her site, www.karenstarz.com.

Feb 12, 202130:52