Dad Space Podcast - for Dads by Dads

Episode 100 - Hold the Door for Others, Our Journey Differs, Be Patient and Hold a Space for Others

I was approached by someone and they said to me "The first time I met you I was afraid of you" What an interesting way to start a conversation.

Why is it that we can treat others one way and our own family members differently.

Dave shares his story and his journey on a path he never anticipated that he would have ever walked

Celebrating 100 episodes of Dad Space

Thanks for listening

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Episode 99 - A Message for Dads - Legacy and what will matter 100 years from now, what will matter

I have a family portrait on my bookshelf of past relatives. I do not know their names, I don't know their story - and although they are strangers to me in this moment, without them, I would not be here. 100 years ago their life was a struggle, the same struggles that we face today, with different context, different struggles and different hopes.

It makes me stop and wonder what will future generations will think of my photo on their bookshelf 100 years from now. Will they know my story, my name, my struggles?

When we live in a busy world - a world that tells us what we need to be successful and what status is. But will any of this help in the future? 100 years from now?

As Dads we need to refocus our attention on things that live on beyond our days. That shiny car in the driveway, your pride and joy will one day be scrapped, that house you cherish will change hands and strangers will live there, strangers that know nothing of you and all of your hard work to own that home.

Let's focus on what our story will be 100 years from now.

Episode 98 - Queon Wilcox - Make No Assumptions as to What Your Next Looks Like

Episode 97 - Deepak Saini - Health Span vs Life Span, Be A Healthier Dad

My Previous Life My Injuries

Hello, my name is Deepak Saini. I am 46 years young and my wife and I have two beautiful girls. For as long as I can remember I had always struggled with my weight. I am under six feet tall and at one point in my life I was 270 pounds and morbidly obese. I was always in pain and constantly getting sick. My big wakeup call was six years ago when I injured my back and went into depression.

Recovery

I eventually decided to take matters into my own hands. I educated myself and made small changes to my lifestyle and saw some small changes. In learning how to heal myself and get back to the activities I love doing, I learned about eating a low inflammatory diet. I was able to lose the last 40 pounds of fat in months without really trying. I never get sick and am healthier, and more fulfilled than ever before.

Transition

I have less joint pain and more energy than I ever have. I have lost over 100 pounds total and am a constant 160 pounds. Now that I have found the secrets that works for me, I am never going to look back. My goal is to be a healthy and functional centenarian.

Success

I am 100% confident that eating a low inflammatory diet that is customized to the individual will work for everyone. At a high level, the principles I follow and that works for me, are eating a higher fat, lower carb diet. I particularly watch my sugar, dairy and grains intake. No one has to eat exactly like me, but a customized low inflammatory diet will work wonders for everyone. I have forged my own method by taking the best wisdom from many of the leading experts in the field like Ben Greenfield, Dave Asprey, Mark Hyman, Peter Attia, Andrew Huberman and many more…

Check out the bonus content at the end of the episode! We swap moose stories, yes, moose stories!

Episode 96 - Rod Jeter - YBAngry - Why Be Angry, The NO FUSS NO DRAMA Relationship Game

You can settle most any disagreement with the one you love in just minutes – NO FUSS NO DRAMA. Rod and his wife were kicked out of marriage counselling on the fifth of what was supposed to be twelve weeks. Feeling there must be a better way, Rod Jeter created "YBAngry" (pronounced "Why Be Angry"), the relationship game where all you have to do to win is play.

He designed YBAngry to help couples stay together, one issue at a time. Rod's unique game approach helps couples overcome seemingly insurmountable disagreements that have lasted decades, in just minutes- NO FUSS NO DRAMA.

Episode 95 - Mike Van Pelt - True Man Life Coaching, There is Power in Asking for Help

Hi, I'm Mike Van Pelt Men's Mentor & Life CoachI help men unpack the goodness that’s already in their heart and discover the True Man inside of them. 

We live in extraordinary times! Men are now more afraid than ever to be masculine, free, and alive.  Many men live isolated, lonely, and unconnected lives.  We hide behind the veil of status symbols hoping the truth will never come out. Ultimately, our social lives, and intimate relationships with family and God suffer.  Does that sound familiar?

When we live without purpose and clarity we live in a world of confusion and doubt.  Does that sound like you?

This Special Report will help you:

• Discover, the benefits of living your life of purpose!
• Enhance your passion for life.
• Find your purpose through writing and journaling your thoughts.
• Get clear, by defining your “why” and true motivation, so you can experience more success, satisfaction, and goal achievement in your life.
• Awaken your heart, deepen your relationships, and align with a new heart full of purpose and clarity.

You’re not alone! I’ve helped men like you take their lives back and gain understanding of their identity, purpose, and truth.

Submit your name in the form to the right and you'll receive this Special Report ... PLUS some more surprises to help you quickly get started in your purpose driven life. 

Episode 94 - Tammy J Cohen - Author of Text Messages to my Sons - Be a Better Human

Tammy Cohen, has been partnering with top-tier corporate executives and entrepreneurs to develop

their personal and professional brands for more than 20 years.

Today, she understands her role as a connector and sees opportunities for women to thrive and grow exponentially, which is why she founded the Women Beyond the Table; a business network with a soul.

Tammy added podcaster by launching the Beyond the Table Podcast, leveraging her ability to connect with audiences by sharing her guest’s stories and wisdom.

In her consulting work, Tammy connects her clients to their mission, vision and core values statements and utilizes her networks to develop brands. Tammy is a frequent podcast guest and speaker on topics ranging from branding to leadership

When she is not helping brands stand out or women to thrive, Tammy lives in Manhattan with her husband and 3 sons and owns Eighteen Restaurant on the Upper Eastside. Text Messages to My Sons is Tammy’s first book where she connects

Have you ever struggled to communicate with your children? If you know kids, in-person conversations are just not happening. It can seem like we have so many more options available to us than any other time in history, yet we also feel more disconnected than ever. Just because technology has provided us more immediate access to our loved ones than ever before does not mean we are using the luxury wisely. And there is no better feeling than to let those we love know just how much we think of them and value their presence in our life. There is no greater power than being able to find a direct and simple way to communicate knowledge, inspiration, gratitude, and love; using technology may be the key.
Over the past few years, I wanted to not only evolve but also change the way I interact with my sons. I wanted to be someone they wanted to hear from, that they would look forward to my messages. So, to find a more meaningful relationship with my sons, I reached out to them in a language they understand – texting! It is my true hope for anyone reading this book to become inspired with new ways to connect with your loved ones, whether it is children, siblings, extended family, or spouses. The evidence is undeniable. Ever since I started this journey, my relationship with my sons is enriched and those friends who I have shared this passion project with reacted with encouragement and the desire to do this with their loved ones. For those who started doing this, the results have been wonderful.
Remember, the power lies within each of us. We just need to share it one message at a time.

Episode 93 - David Khalili - Mental Health for Men, Four Predictors of Divorce and the Bond of Intimacy

Hear David's heart wrenching story of almost loosing his infant son and how first responders brought his child back

Episode 92 - Joseph Neary - Father of 9, Podcast Host and Expert Diaper Changer

Joseph is a Dad of 9 - 3 biological, 4 adopted and 2 foster kids - I am exhausted just typing that out - imagine how many diapers that is over the years?!

Learn hos they do it - how they demonstrate love for each other, the routine needed for 11 people under one roof.

Joesph is also the host of The Emotional Man Weekly Podcast

Built a successful business but have a struggling family? You're in the right place!

Here at the Emotional Man Weekly Podcast, we're exploring the challenges of work/life balance and integration, mental and emotional health, family and individual values, purpose, goals, planning, and processes, all aimed at helping us build more successful families.

Joseph (Zef) Neary

Joseph Neary, CEO and Principal Coach of Neary Coaching, hosts 'The Emotional Man Weekly Podcast,' diving into the world of business leaders and professionals, exploring the delicate balance of entrepreneurship and family life. As a devoted husband and father of nine, Joseph understands the unique challenges they face. With vast leadership experience from the US Air Force and as a Chief Operating Officer, his coaching expertise empowers guests and listeners to navigate their emotional journey while leading businesses and nurturing families. Join Joseph on an insightful exploration of work-life harmony!

Episode 91 - William Hemphill - A Discussion About Adoption, Identity, and Where Parents Can Get Stuck

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Episode 90 - Mike Van Pelt - Make Your Podcast Story Worthy, Contagious Curiosity, True Man Life Coaching

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Episode 89 - Milton Sithole - Growing Up Without A Dad and Now A Father - There is Greatness in You

Abandoned by his Father, Milton strives to be the Dad for his son that he never had himself while growing up.

Lessons he continues to teach and demonstrate to his kids

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Episode 88 - Matthew Mangiapane - Marriage and Relationship Therapy and Daddy Hugs

About MatthewMy Philosophy

At MJM Wellness, I believe that everyone has the potential to lead a fulfilling and meaningful life. My counseling services are designed to help my clients unlock their potential and achieve their goals.

I offer a wide range of counseling services, including individual counseling, couples counseling, family therapy, & more. My services are tailored to meet the unique needs of each of my clients.

Founded by Matthew Mangiapane, a licensed Marriage & Family Therapist in New York with over 14 years of experience in the field, you can be confident in the therapy you receive at MJM Wellness.

I specialize in a variety of areas, including depression, anxiety, trauma, and relationship issues. I am dedicated to providing personalized care to each of my clients, and am committed to ongoing training and education to stay up-to-date on the latest research and techniques.

Episode 87 - Four Rules For Dads and Parents - How To Make Your Home Healthier Today

4 Rules for Dads

• Hate no one - no matter how much they have wronged you
• Live humbly - no matter how wealthy you become
• Think Positively - no matter how hard life is
• Forgive all - especially yourself - never stop seeing the best in everyone including yourself!

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Episode 86 - Steve Kopshaw - The Bond Between Dad and Daughter and The FREEDOM Framework

Leadership in your business & in life

The ultimate goal of Freedom

FREEDOM Framework adapted for you as a Dad

My journey into entrepreneurship was fueled by a relentless drive to do and be better. In my early days, while working for various businesses, I often found myself at odds with the practices of the owners. I believed that the businesses weren’t always reinvesting as they should and, as a result, clients were not receiving the caliber of service they truly deserved.

Often times myself or other team members were asked to do things that simply did not align with my values or logic, and to no surprise, the outcome that I assumed would happen was often that outcome that did happen. These feelings were the catalyst, pushing me to step into the entrepreneurial world, confident that I could bring about a transformative change.

Experience has been my greatest educator. Through trials, errors, successes, and everything in between, I've unearthed the secrets of business leadership and the profound impact of accountability through systematic operations. More than any specific niche, it's this universal tenet of business growth that I'm passionate about. The F.R.E.E.D.O.M. Framework encapsulates this passion. It's not just a tool or a strategy; it's a distilled version of every lesson I've learned, every strategy I've developed, and every insight I've gained. Designed to empower businesses to execute at their highest potential, it's my contribution to entrepreneurs and leaders everywhere who aim to redefine their boundaries.


My leadership style has matured over the years. Today, it’s a blend of empathy, passion, and determination, coupled with a no-nonsense approach when required. But this wasn't always the case. I've evolved from being curt and emotionally distant to embracing a style that's both compassionate and fiercely driven.


As I look to the future, my vision is clear. I'm committed to guiding business owners and leaders, helping them harness the power of focus and unlock their unmatched potential. Because, at the end of the day, true success is not just about growth, but about clarity, commitment, and the pursuit of a purpose-driven vision.

Episode 85 - Kevin McNee - Golf Tips, Men's Coaching, Masterminds and Joining a Men's Group

Episode 85 - Kevin McNee - Golf Tips, Men's Coaching, Masterminds and Joining a Men's Group Kevin McNee is a dedicated Transformational Coach & Mentor specializing in helping men become the best versions of themselves. With a focus on navigating life transitions, overcoming self-doubt, shedding limited beliefs, and breaking free from self-limiting behaviors, Kevin provides a safe and open space for men to be vulnerable and authentic.

Through personalized coaching, he empowers men to confront and conquer obstacles, unlocking their full potential for greater fulfillment and success in all aspects of life. Kevin's compassionate and empathetic approach has earned him a reputation as a trusted mentor, guiding men towards positive and lasting transformations that lead to deeper connections and purposeful lives Kevin was the GM of an Oil & Gas company and he quit his job from that company last year.

He's got a very rich background, he was a professional golf player, he ran a half marathon, a half Iron Man and now he's on a mission to help Men find the Warrior within. He was a high achiever but he was giving himself away in the process and not honouring himself, making sure everyone else was comfortable at his own discomfort. He was doing that as he didn't want to upset anyone and cause any conflict. He would do anything to keep the peace and bury his own thoughts. This was applicable to every aspect of his life but where it hurt him the most was in his personal life, in his relationship with his ex wife. This went on for a while until he couldn't take it anymore. He asked himself a very powerful question: "How is this my life? Living small, a small life, in a small town, a job he doesn't like?"

That's when he made a drastic change and he started on a new path to get control of his life: first stop smoking and drinking, losing weight and getting back in shape and that reflected on other parts of his life. He then had a life changing meeting with an energy healer which blew his mind and that started his journey on his spiritual awakening path. He started seeing signs everywhere around him to the point of becoming a total believer and a totally new person, fully aware of his gift. Now, he's on a mission to help men get their lives in control and has built a wonderful community where men can have REAL meaningful conversations about issues that affect men.

Usually, society frowns upon men having any emotions, feelings and needing any help as they tell us to "do the right thing" or worst, "be a man!" whatever that may mean. In his community, men can freely talk about whatever issue they may have that they cannot express anywhere else but can do so among other men in his group. Which is truly refreshing!

Kevin's YouTube

Episode 84 - Joel Salomon - Money Lessons for Your Kids, Navigating Fatherhood as a Divorced Dad

Joel Salomon is a prosperity coach who helps people overcome obstacles standing in the way of their financial freedom. In 2018, he published Mindful Money Management: Memoirs of a Hedge Fund Manager, which immediately became a Best Seller. In 2019, Joel published The 9 Money Rules Millionaires Use: Only The Unconventional Ones to effusive praise. Joel is an award-winning speaker and frequent podcast guest.

He has led 9 workshops teaching the concepts of how to overcome limiting beliefs. He has spoken at numerous Rotary and Lions’ Clubs in the New York Metropolitan area and at Mercy College’s MBA program, as well as at Mike Dooley’s Infinite Possibilities Training Conference in New Orleans in March 2018. He appeared on TV with CEO Money and has also been a guest on more than 20 podcasts including Every Day is a New Day Show, the Award-Winning Nice Guys Podcast, The Financial Survival Network, and Think, Believe, Manifest.

Joel has also been quoted in the Wall Street Journal, Newsday, U.S. News and World Report, and interviewed in Forbes and on Bloomberg Radio. In 2012, he achieved a decades-long dream with the launch of his own hedge fund, SaLaurMor Capital (named after his two daughters, Lauren and Morgan).Salomon’s financial experience includes managing a $700 million long/short equity and credit portfolio for Citi. Salomon generated positive returns every full year during his time at Citi, including 2008, when the market suffered 40 percent losses and financial stocks—the only ones he was managing—collapsed 57%.Salomon has been a Chartered Financial Analyst since 1995. In 1992, he was named a Fellow of the Society of Actuaries.

He is also an Advanced Communicator Gold Toastmaster and a Certified Infinite Possibilities Trainer & Trailblazer. When not helping others achieve their financial dreams, Salomon enjoys table tennis, bowling, and skiing. He is also an avid traveler and has visited over forty countries and five continents.

Episode 83 - Michael Jacobus - Reset Summer Camp - Digital Detox For Your Kids

Michael Jacobus is a life-long, career Camp Director and youth-development specialist. An internationally recognized author, child-development professional and outdoor education guru, Michael founded Reset Summer Camp after witnessing, (within his own family) the dangers and challenges of screen addicted youth.

Michael has assembled a team of unmatched professionals to help him coordinate this effort in the hopes of breaking the cycle of tech addiction and overuse and give our children real-world Life Skills and tools to build a solid, successful future for themselves.

As a parent of a one-time gaming addicted kid;

I'M ONE OF YOU!!

Reset Summer Camp offers a fully immersive, clinical program hosted on a university campus, providing a fun-filled summer camp atmosphere. Participants are able to detox from their screen addiction and learn how to self-regulate, as they participate in individual and group therapy. 

The Life Skills program cultivates responsibility and builds self-confidence, so campers will be prepared to handle their real-world obligations. 

Our staff includes experienced youth-development professionals, clinical interns, registered nurses, and private-practice mental health clinicians who work daily with those suffering from problematic use of technology, including gaming addiction and other unhealthy screen-time habits. 

Episode 82 - David Frazier - Step Parenting is about Helping Not Replacing, Being Present

Episode 81 - Dan Roth - Twins, Autism, PTSD and a Welding Mask

Dan shares his Dad journey - life with twins, autism and a welding mask - changing diapers can be a real challenge. Dan shares his insights and encouragement for any Dad with twins!

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Episode 80 - Carla Crivaro - Sex, Love and Relationships - Breaking the Silence in Your Relationship

Sex, Love & Relationship Coach - Carla Crivaro

I started out as a sexually repressed, stay at home mother and wife with chronic anxiety, low self-worth and deep-rooted insecurities in all relationships from working to familial to romantic.

I went on to experience a 'sexual awakening' which took me on a path of self-discovery. I consensually dabbled in play parties and dating while still married to my then husband and we have since transitioned into a co-parenting partnership.

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I have learnt to ask for what I want in relationships, state my boundaries and maintain them and I continue to learn and grow. I'm now in a monogamous 'living together apart' relationship with my partner in what is considered a 'Power Couple' relationship.

Episode 79 - Dorian Johnson - Parenting After The Loss of A Child - Let Go Of The Outcome

Exactly one year later, Dorian hikes up the same trail as a memorial to his son and recalls the three-day search process with raw emotion. Bailand’s final text, “This is a beast of a hike, but talk about a view!” takes on a deeper meaning as Dorian relates his hike to the journey of life.

This is not only a story of a man facing insurmountable loss and grief, but of his restorative process through the healing power of virtue and the spiritual connection he feels to his deceased son. “Remember in the New Testament, Jesus was touched by a woman with an issue of blood? He said He felt ‘virtue’ come out of Him with her touch.

As I considered this story, I was stumped thinking about which virtue the woman needed to heal her physical ailment. Which virtue came out of Him?”Belinda still looked confused. “I honestly have no idea.”“Does it matter?” I asked. “She was healed completely and whatever she needed for healing was offered by Christ.”

Dorian has created The Chemistry of Virtues (modeled after the periodic table) to illustrate how virtues impact each other and can be used to successfully heal. No matter how deep the wound, virtuous actions provide hope for healing.

Book: The View From Above: One Fathers Memoir of Grief Guided to Grace

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Episode 78 - Earnest James - Two Questions for Girl Dads and The Core Four Things Dad's Need to Provide

Episode 77 - Brian P Swift - Advice for Dads from Two Dads With Adult Kids - There are snakes in the trees

Known as "The Quadfather." Originally from Chicago, Brian holds degrees from Moraine Valley Community College, Saint Xavier University, and DePaul University College of Law. With over 20 years of experience in corporate training, sales, and marketing, Brian has played a critical role in the marketing and leadership of three thriving start-up companies.
​As a motivational speaker and author of seven books, Brian inspires and motivates people to achieve their goals and live life to the fullest. He also founded the 501(c)(3) nonprofit organization, Swift Outdoor Accessible Recreation (SOAR), which strives to enrich the lives of individuals with disabilities by providing them with access to outdoor recreational activities. Brian's passion for making the outdoors accessible to all has made a significant impact on the lives of many.

EPISODE 76 - When Your Parent Passes Away and You Realize How Fleeting Life Really Is

Losing a parent, family member or friend feels like someone special has been taken from you - and that is the key thing here - they have been taken, removed, stripped from your future - all you have is what you can remember and the things that they have left behind. Family members and friends go through your personal belongings, what is left over gets donated or parted out to others. There is loss, because something has been taken.

Now let's flip this around - what if our perspective was one of gratitude in place of loss... What if we were to ask "How was I so lucky to have this person on my life - why was I chosen to be included in their story - why was I blessed to have had known them and to have been known by them.

What a different perspective and outlook - a new lens that we can view those close to us that remain in our life.

You don't know that it is the last time until it is - and then, it is too late to do anything about it.

I lost my Mom suddenly and we just buried her days ago next to my Dad. You learn many things during grief - I hope the thoughts in this episode help you on your journey - be kind, love much, forgive often.

EPISODE 75 - Brad Nelson - Debt Free Dad - Financial Freedom is More Than Just Money

A great conversation with our guest Brad as we talk about his amazing podcast and his journey as a Dad - many struggles, many stories and a great resource for you as a Dad and for you as a model to your family around debt!

Brad has dedicated his life to serving and helping people with their personal finances. He provides an eye-opening outlook on debt and money that challenge today's popular thinking through speaking, The Debt Free Dad Podcast, social media, and his online membership site, Roots of Personal Finance, which has helped people save and pay off tens-of-millions of dollars.

Like many, Brad struggled with living paycheck-to-paycheck, debt, and the constant hamster wheel of never-ending payments for much of his adult life. After losing his home to foreclosure and his first marriage ending in 2012, Brad decided enough was enough and went on a journey to become debt-free. After 4-5 years of hard work, he paid off all his debt and has been debt-free for over ten years outside of his mortgage.

Many people struggle with money and debt. Brad teaches a simple process to help people develop a healthier financial mindset. Learn how to save money and eliminate debt, allowing them to take control of their finances so they can do more of what they love. Brad uses his personal story to relate to others. He provides practical steps and advice for a new financial plan that shows people how to win and live a stress-free and debt-free life.

Brad is a single and dedicated father to his two kids, Noah, and Avery.

Brad has encountered many obstacles on his journey. In 2018, his wife Sarah gave birth to their daughter Avery. Avery was born with a brain injury and was later diagnosed with Hypoxic Ischemic Encephalopathy and Cerebral Palsy. Being debt-free allowed him and his wife to put all of their efforts into getting the care that Avery needed. Thankfully, today, Avery is thriving and living a normal life, and Brad contributes her progress to the time they've spent on Avery's therapy and care since birth.

In March 2023, Brad tragically lost his wife, Sarah, to a battle with mental illness and suicide. Again, Brad and his financial life were tested, but because of the work they put in on their finances leading up to this tragic event, he has remained debt-free while allowing him and his kids to grieve and begin to build a new life.

Brad's a normal guy with everyday life challenges, and he is using his experiences and story to encourage and motivate others to improve their financial health for themselves and their family.

When Brad isn't helping people with their finances, he loves to continue his education through reading and conferences. His family is the most important. They spend a significant amount of time camping and being outdoors. Brad puts a lot of value in experiences and making memories.

EPISODE 74 - Brian Teague - Becoming A Dad, Parenting Young Children, Finding Your Seat At The Table

Brian is a husband and father with a passion for family, and growing the kingdom by sharing my life and experiences and investing in others.

From growing up to walking on at Oregon to marriage and raising kids, I want to share the things that life has taught me in order to help others.

Brian Teague is a husband, father, and former educator who fell in love with Houston when he moved here with his wife 7 years ago. As a graduate of the University of Oregon and a football alumnus, he left school and tried his hand at a few different industries, but nothing seemed to be a good fit. That’s when he decided to use his experience on the field and start coaching. Coaching soon turned into applying for Teach for America to become a teacher. Brian and Chandra decided that if he got into TFA they would go wherever they were sent because it was only for 2 years. years later, our 2 children were born in Texas, and with roots growing deeper each year they fell in love with the culture, diversity, and love that Houston offered. After spending 7 years in the classroom teaching Brian started to feel called to something different.

Having a passion for family and wanting to serve a city and community that has given him and his family a home for good he decided it was time to give that love back. We Love HTX Inc. was founded in January of 2023 and is now his full-time labor of love. With plans to launch services and start to help families all over the city this Fall, we can’t wait to see what this will grow into and are committed to serving families from any background and with any situation in order to help them find the resources necessary to make it through whatever life throws their way. Houston has given us a community that we love so much and we want to help other families find their place in their community in order to help it grow and thrive.

EPISODE 73 - Marty Suidgeest - An Ally For Recently Divorced Men - Radical Self Responsibility

Passionately guiding men through post-divorce transformation.

EPISODE 72 - Aly Bird - How To Be A Better Ally in Grief, Showing Up For Others

When I was thirty the person that I loved and trusted the most in this world died without any warning or time to prepare. I wasn’t left with just heartbreak and longing, I was leftover in a world that no longer made sense to me anymore and sensations in my body that were foreign, involuntary and happening without my consent.

Before my beloved died I’d never experienced a loss that changed my life so dramatically. From my spiritual beliefs to my worldview right down to not knowing what possessive pronouns to use, I was left bewildered. Was it still our bed if I would be the only one sleeping in it now?

In the world I was familiar with, people died when they were old, if you were a good person then good things happened to you. I longed for my future because I thought we, me and my beloved – the person that I chose to spend my life with – were in control of it. But my beloved’s death changed all of that.

EPISODE 71 - Kyle Jetsel - The Driven Autism Dad - Non-Verbal Communication and De-escalation

Meet Kyle Jetsel, also known as the "Driven Autism Dad," a compassionate coach dedicated to supporting parents of children with autism in overcoming challenges and finding harmony within their homes.

Over 15 years ago, Kyle's life took a transformative turn when his son was diagnosed with autism. In those early days, resources and awareness for parents were scarce, leaving Kyle and his family feeling like they were navigating uncharted waters. Determined to make a difference, Kyle took it upon himself to find solutions and create a roadmap for other families facing similar challenges.

As traditional experts, books, and therapies fell short in addressing their specific at-home autism challenges, Kyle's determination grew stronger. He became "driven" to lower stress within his family and uncover strategies to not just survive, but to "thrive" as they raised their children.

Today, Kyle shares his invaluable framework and customizable recipe with other families, empowering them to become top 1% happy families. Through his coaching, he guides autism parents in unlocking their unique potential, adapting strategies to their family's specific needs and situation. Together, they navigate the autism journey with resilience and create a nurturing environment where every family member can flourish.

Join us as we delve into inspiring conversations with Kyle Jetsel, where he shares his personal experiences, insights, and practical tools for transforming challenges into opportunities. Discover how to create a harmonious and thriving environment for your family, embracing the joys of raising children with autism.

EPISODE 70 - J D McCabe - Author and Dad - Restoring Relationships With Your Children

Can you rebuild your relationship with your kids after a horrifying breakup?

Unprogramming lies and damaging accusations fed to your children as truth by a vendictive family member

Knowing the truth and not being able to say a word to your kids as your reputation is trashed

Restoring relationships

Mascot Books announces the release of The Third Gift: My Dance with the Devil (And Her Mother) by J.D. McCabe 

You hear horror stories about someone you love turning on you and vowing to ruin your life, but you never think it would happen to you. This is the story of how one man’s wife of twenty plus years—and the mother of his children—changed their lives irrevocably.  

Based on his real diaries, J. D. “Danny” recounts the unimaginable story of how his marriage with his wife, Erin, fell apart. It started with Erin blaming him for everything. Most importantly, the lack of trust in their marriage. She enlisted her mother in her efforts, and together they forged the words of family, trust and honesty into a metaphorical hammer and beat him into the ground. Their accusations of infidelity and drug addiction accumulated, twisting reality and eventually resulting in Danny’s involuntary hospitalization. Despite the abuse he faced at the hands of someone he once loved, Danny revisits the horrifying story with an astounding sense of bravery, strength, and hope. Danny hopes that readers come away valuing the importance of real friendship, family, and faith. Above all, he hopes to encourage people going through similar situations to believe in themselves, and be their own advocates. 

J.D. “Danny” McCabe grew up in Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania, as the middle child of a very large family. From an early age, he was independent and a practical realist. This first-time author began writing his diary as a historical journal of events that evolved quickly and came without context.

Danny was encouraged to share this personal and unbelievable voyage in rediscovering himself by the many people who witnessed and heard about his journey first hand. He is blessed with two beautiful adult children. J.D. resides in the Charleston, SC area.

To set up an interview, reading, signing, or for information The Third Gift: My Dance with the Devil: And Her Mother please contact J.D.  at  thethirdgiftbook@gmail.com

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Facebook @thirdgift

Instagram @thethirdgift,

Twitter @thirdgiftbook

EPISODE 69 - Celebrating My Anniversary, Thirty Years of Marriage and six questions to ask your partner

Questions to ask your spouse on your wedding anniversary

The relationship my husband and I have built is far from perfect, but it’s ours. This acknowledgment from us, two couples therapists, has never been more important. We’ve put the work in and will continue to put the work in. And along the way, we’ve leaned into a few key questions that help us reflect and adjust. 

1. How have we changed this year?
2. What obstacles have we gone through individually, and how has our relationship weathered them?
3. What hardships have happened in our relationship? Did we resolve them? Or are there things we still need to work through?
4. What turns me on about you after all these years together? 
5. What do we want to accomplish individually this next year? And as a couple?
6. What three things do I appreciate about you?

These questions are meant to guide you and your partner to define and evaluate your purpose together. There are multiple benefits to asking these questions, and your anniversary is a great time to do so. This is your opportunity to tune in and listen to each other, hopefully distraction-free. You might be pleasantly surprised at the little ways you excite your partner! You’ll also be keenly aware of the strengths your relationship has exhibited and the resiliency you tapped into over the past year. Lastly, these questions are meant to foster gratitude – you can do hard things together, and love isn’t the only thing that your relationship is made of.

EPISODE 68 - My Van is a Total Loss - 8 tips on overcoming even the most crippling setbacks

So our recently paid off van, parked on the side of the road was destroyed by a getaway stolen backhoe - how is your day going?

Have you ever had a bunch of terrible things happen, seemingly all at once? That is how things are going for me right now, and to be honest, I am getting super frustrated, a little down and it doesn't feel good at the moment - I am pretty sure that I am not the only one, so I found this article and it helped, a bit - so I thought I would share it with you and maybe find some solace in commiserating with you as I work through some pretty awful "luck" as of late!

8 tips on overcoming even the most crippling setbacks

Everyone experiences challenges. It’s how you react to those challenges that determines whether you’ll be successful.

If you do something, do it with passion and purpose. The best way to prepare for whatever the future holds is to do everything to the best of your ability. Enjoy the journey. There will always be setbacks You may have to go against the grain for years. The experiences we value most in life are often the most challenging. They push you out of your comfort zone and help you grow.

EPISODE 67 - Kyle Goodknight - Four Things That Can Destroy Your Marriage and How to Save It

Kyle stops by to share his Dad Story and to offer up his suggestions that could save your relationship!

Kyle is a trained voiceover talent, versed in commercial, corporate, educational, medical, telephony, narrations, and character voices.

Kyle is also a trained first responder that faithfully serves his community

EPISODE 66 - Eric Guttmann - Be a Healthy Dad, You Can't Surge Trust, and Fat Loss Over 40

Eric Guttmann takes his military training and focuses now on helping Dad's live a healthier life!

Episode 65 - Dr. John DeGarmo - Foster Parenting, Adoption and Family without the labels

International Speaker and Foster Care/ Parenting Expert
Global Key Note Speaker and Presenter
Motivational Speaker
Inspirational Speaker
Consultant to foster care and child welfare agencies across the globe 
Trauma Informed Speaker and Trainer
Best selling author of 10 books
​Expert Witness for legal firms 

the best selling book  The Little Book of Foster Care Wisdom: 365 Days of Inspiration and Encouragement for Foster Care Families.   
Recipient of the Good Morning America Ultimate Hero Award, the Heroes of the Homeless Award, and several other honors.

Dr. John DeGarmo is a popular and in demand Positive Behavior Intervention and Supports (PBIS) tranformational and motivational speaker and trainer.   Dr. John travels the nation and globe working with schools, businesses, child welfare programs, foster care systems, and foster and adoptive parent groups, delivering powerful, humor filled, and inspiring messages and training seminars, empowering audiences across the world.
Dr. John brings tremendous energy to his delivery.  He is a powerfully dynamic speaker, engaging the audience from beginning to end. John's presentations are thoroughly researched beforehand, and full of insight and information.  Dr. John does not stop after the presentations, though, as he is a relationship builder, and spends quality time with audiences afterward, answering questions, listening to others, and giving additional insight.

Episode 64 - Dave Guesting on Get Real Parental Coaching with Sandra Trew - I am not a Babysitter, I am a Dad

Dave guesting on the Get Real Parental Coaching with Sandra Trew!

Parenting is hard work. From balancing home life, to potty training, sibling rivalry, housework, shouting, talking back, you name it, we are covering it. This show is for DADS who don't want to feel overwhelmed daily but looking for help, advice and tips in various areas of child development. My expertise comes from over 30 years of experience in the Childcare Industry, including being a mother of 2!! . This podcast will be keeping it real ALL THE WAY!!!!!

Dave talks about his challenges and his emotions when he first became a dad. There was not much support system out there at that time so he had to learn very quickly to navigate his way around as a dad.  One of his challenges was members of the public using him as a default babysitter for his own kids!

E63 - Jared Brenchley - Giving the Gift of Financial Legacy to Your Family, Being a Good Example to Your Kids

Hear how Jared is not only focused on his immediate family and their financial future, but Jared is building out for future generations with financial legacy - a very impressive plan!

E62 - Doug Beitz - Adult Children, Being a Grandfather and Men's Intuition

Mens Intuition Coach

Hi, I'm Doug Beitz, over the past 6 years I've been on a journey of developing my Inner Knowing (Intuition). Many times I've watched men misjudge situations, only to hear them say, "I knew I shouldn't have done that". Why didn't they listen to their gut feel, that inner knowing, their inner voice, call it what you want?

“Most men lead lives of quiet desperation”. When I first read that over 35 years ago, it resonated to my core. Conditioning of society has convinced most men to not buck the system, fit in and go with the flow. Well I've had enough of that bullshit, and I'm here to help those men who've had enough of it too!

I have discovered the answers for the direction we planned our lives to go are within us. I won't pretend to know all the ways to tap into these answers, but I am far enough along this intuitional journey, that I can offer serious guidance to men who are looking for help. Would you like to learn how to tap into your Intuition?

I ask thought-provoking questions to reveal the answers your inner self wants to say, so you can find your voice and have those conversations you're yearning for. You'll move forward in life, smashing goals way sooner than you ever thought possible!

This is powerful stuff! Are you ready to have the hard conversations that will open the world you're longing for?

E61 - Becoming A Grandpa For The First Time - Five Things to Consider in This Next Chapter

So, some news from my side of the microphone - I am recording this episode a few days from becoming a first time Grandpa - I am in my early 50's, so this feels early to me to cross this line into becoming a Grandfather, I am struggling with feelings of inadequacy, some fear, excitement, nervousness and feeling a little lost in the whole thing to be honest - so I recorded this ahead of the big day so that I can listen back and hear my thoughts pre and post - and I want to reach out to others just like me to gain your wisdom and support in this next chapter of life!

New Role, New Responsibilities

So, if you’re about to become a first-time grandparent, congratulations! It’s sure to be a rewarding and life-changing experience. 

You’ll likely have a lot of unkowns, and that’s totally normal. Learning as you go is part of the fun. Here’s what you can expect:

• #1 An emotional rollercoaster — there’s no denying that becoming a grandparent is a huge life event and you’ll feel a range of emotions, from excitement and happiness to anxiety 
• #2 A change in lifestyle — depending on how involved you’ll be, you can expect your weekly routine to change as you take on grandparenting duties
• #3 A deeper understanding of parenting — seeing your child become a parent can be both rewarding and emotional, giving you a new perspective on parenting

And to prepare for becoming a first-time grandparent:

• #1 Set expectations — talk to your child about how involved you’ll be and what role you’ll play in your grandchild’s life
• #2 Offer advice if asked — don’t give out unsolicited advice, but be open and honest if your child comes to you with questions or concerns
• #3 Stick to their rules — respect the parenting style of your child and follow their rules when you’re around the grandkids
• #4 Offer help (when needed) — offer to babysit or help out around the house, but don’t overstay your welcome or cross boundaries
• #5 Enjoy this special time — be present and savor every moment because it flies by

Get ready to embark on an amazing adventure as you accept your new role and responsibilities as a new grandparent. Although it can be exhausting at times, there’s nothing quite like seeing the world through the eyes of a child.

The most important thing, though, is just being there for your family and showing them how much you love them. That’s what being a grandparent – and parent – is all about.

E60 - James Francis - The Dark Days of Attempting Suicide to the Brighter Days of Being Here For Your Family

About James Francis

James Francis is an entrepreneur and professional speaker. He has been a successful executive starting and running several businesses in the well-being and insurance markets. Through the course of his three decade career, he has worked closely with private equity and venture capital investors, he has run sales teams for large publicly traded companies, he has been a c-suite executive for six start ups in the healthcare and well-being space, and he has even owned and operated a vintage Good Humor ice cream truck. James also works as a varsity high school Lacrosse coach every spring, pursuing his passion for the game he loves and coaching. He has been diagnosed with severe anxiety and clinical depression and has learned, through different modalities, how to manage his mental illness and thrive and live in peace. James brings his learnings into the boardroom and has taught many executives how to meditate and the importance of "slowing down" to achieve their goals.

He grew up on Long Island and he and his family have lived on the shoreline of Connecticut for over 28 years.

Book: There's Coffee in the Fridge: One Man's Journey Through Anxiety and Depression Does our past define us? Or does it merely serve to inform our future?
At its heart, this book is a story of overcoming anxiety and depression, as well as suicidal tendencies and attempts. With a remarkably candid approach, peppered with dry humor and keen observation, author James Francis takes us on a journey that is all at once deep, dark, twisting, and ultimately so very redemptive.
One part gripping memoir, and one part how-to guide, you will come away with tools such as:

• A better understanding of anxiety and depression Ideas for a roadmap to personal mental health
• Exploration of personal and romantic relationship dynamics in regard to mental health
• Notable authors to read on the journey to healing
• Music suggestions to stir your soul and learn from
• A reality check on the uniqueness of each person’s journey

This is a book of triumph, a victory over mental health struggles earned through the hardest of trials. You can use your past to create a healthier future too - it starts here, it starts now.

E59 - Mark Gordon - What if there was a Dad Test, Empty Nest Musings and Advice for a New Dad

ABOUT MARK GORDON​

I am a Relationship Catalyst who Empowers people to develop healthy relationships through inspirational speaking, transformational courses, and coaching!
I have seen hundreds of lives transformed with the principals taught.

I have been involved in community leadership, coaching, teaching, and keynote speaking for more than 30 years. My passion for people is evident to anyone who experience my speaking, writing, courses or coaching. I have a strong desire to empower people, families and organizations to become relationally, emotionally and spiritually healthy.

My greatest success has been my amazing family. I have been married to my wife Sandi for over 40 years, I have three growth children, who are married, and two grandchildren.

E58 - Nate A Turner J.D. - The Harvard University Blueprint for Raising Your Kids

E57 - Stay on Course The Life and Legacy of Ennio Riga, Chef to the Stars by Julie Riga

When Ennio Riga passed away in February of 2016, he left behind an incredible legacy. To his many admirers who enjoyed his delicious culinary creations, he was a world-renowned chef. To Julie Riga, he was a loving father who taught her the importance of leadership, perseverance, and determination. About the Author Julie Riga, Ennio’s daughter, continues his legacy as a leadership coach, trainer, speaker, and author. In compiling the stories for the book, Julie carries on Ennio’s tradition by helping others reflect, and then decisively act on, their own calls to greatness. https://www.stayoncourse.io/ ___

E56 - Mark Craven - Dads, Kiss Your Sons, Facing Your Fears of Becoming A Dad and Finding Love for Your Son

Mark Craven is the author of several books and writes a self-development blog for his website, www.SuccessUpAhead.com. Mark also hosts the podcast, The Craven Effect. He has worked as a Math Instructor, Student Success Coach, and Senior Academic Advisor at the college level. He holds a bachelor’s degree in Biology and a master’s degree in Higher Education Management. Mark lives in Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania with his family Terrified to Become a Dad? So Was I.

Fear is often our first response when we discover we are going to be fathers. We talk to just about everyone we know or search for quick answers to give us some sense of confidence to see our way through the unknown ahead. But what if you didn't have a dad? What if you didn't have role models to follow? What if the whole idea of being a dad is so completely foreign to you that quantum mechanics seems easier to master? That's my story along with becoming everything to my son that I never had growing up.

As a teacher and coach in higher education, Mark Craven has researched numerous behavioral studies as well as the biology of neurological systems pointing to insights for new and expectant dads to adhere in Dad's, Kiss Your Sons, bringing a whole new level of significance to being a dad.

The current generation of dads has made fatherhood a part of their self-identity. They are seeking resources and feeling that there aren't enough content-related resources available to them.

Dad's, Kiss Your Sons is the book every dad needs.

Episode 55 - A Podcast Feed Drop - Mark Gordon - Strength-based Parenting Model - Helping Kids Flourish

We are doing a Feed Drop on this episode! Mark has given us an episode of his show for me to share here on Dad Space and in turn, Mark will be playing an episode of Dad Space on his podcast!

EMPOWERING ALL YOUR RELATIONSHIPS

Relationships are in crisis, that’s why I love to empower people in developing healthy relationships. I do this through transformational Courses and creating content that gives you the tools needed to succeed. People’s lives have been transformed by using the principles taught in my courses, book and keynotes.

Relationship Matters Course

5 Pillars for a Healthy Foundation in ALL Your Relationships 

Based on my groundbreaking book Relationship Matters, this course is a powerful journey to relational healing.

Relationships can bring the greatest joy in your life, however they can also bring the most pain. Many people don’t put a lot of thought into what it takes to build a healthy relationship. I know for me, for many years I took relationships for granted in my life. To build a healthy relationship you need a healthy relational culture in your home, extended family or any organisations you may be involved with. To do that you need to make intentional investments into the foundation of your relationships. There are three primary relationships that require investment, with God, with yourself and with others. When one of those relationships is out of line, it affects the others. The best investment you can make is to work on the 5 pillars of your relational foundation; Trust, Communication, Authenticity, Honesty and Honour. This video series takes you on a journey to build those pillars into the fabric of how you relate to yourself and others. The process in the worksheets and the daily work uniquely sets you up for success!    

In this video series you will learn: 

• How to build trust equity 
• How to have healthy communication 
• How to live authentically
• How honesty is a superpower 
• How to reclaim the lost art of honour 

Happy Father's Day 2023 - Some Thoughts Around Father's Day and Thanks for Listening Over the Past Year

On this special day dedicated to celebrating your role as fathers, I want to offer you words of encouragement and appreciation. Being a dad is an incredible journey filled with challenges, triumphs, and an abundance of love. Your presence and dedication have a profound impact on the lives of your children, shaping them into the remarkable individuals they are becoming.

As a dad, you are a source of strength, guidance, and unwavering support. Your children look up to you, seeking your wisdom and seeking comfort in your presence. Your love and involvement leave lasting impressions on their hearts and minds, instilling in them the values and qualities that will guide them through life.

Remember that your presence matters more than you may realize. Your time spent playing, teaching, and simply being with your children creates bonds that are unbreakable. The laughter you share, the stories you tell, and the lessons you impart are invaluable gifts that they will carry with them for a lifetime.

It's important to recognize that being a dad isn't about being perfect; it's about being there. Embrace the imperfections and allow yourself to learn and grow alongside your children. Your love, patience, and willingness to be present in their lives are what truly matter.

Celebrate the small victories and milestones. Each step, whether big or small, is a testament to the incredible impact you have as a father. Cherish the moments of joy, for they are the building blocks of lasting memories.

Remember to take care of yourself too. Being a dad can be demanding, and it's essential to prioritize your well-being. By nurturing your own happiness and fulfillment, you become an even better role model for your children.

So, dear dads, on this Father's Day, I want you to know that you are seen, appreciated, and loved. Your dedication, sacrifice, and unwavering love are gifts that transcend time. Keep being the amazing dad that you are, and know that your influence will shape the future in extraordinary ways.

Happy Father's Day!

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E54 - Gary Martinez Jr - Parenting and Autism, How an Abandoned Park Became A Rescue Mission

Today we have with us Gary Martinez Jr - He is a  Fitness Trainer, an Author and someone who has experienced very closely how it is like to be with a child living with Autism.

He has learned how to help Exhausted Autism Parents Build Unlimited Energy To Enjoy Life To Its Fullest With Their Kids, by working on his relationship with his daughter for over 16 years. So what he shares today is not something theoretical, but something that he has actually applied in his life over and over again and achieved results. Instagram gary_martinez_jr Tik Tok garymartinezjr2017 YouTube Gary Martinez Jr

E53 - Fabio Bonanno - How To Be A Healthy Dad, Practical Health Tips to Keep You at Your Best

Who is Fabio? I like to go "all in" on anything I want to do

A quick bit of history and insight into who I am and why I'm here talking to you.I've been where you are. High stress, constantly working. Providing for a family.I always knew I could be more. I knew I had unlimited potential. I had a strict dad which formed the first part of my identity. Work hard, be good, do the right thing. 
This lead to a feeling of low self esteem and constantly working harder to prove I was good enough. Seeking validation from bigger muscles, bigger achievements, a better job. But it was never good enough.All that lead me to a dark place. It forced me to look within. Now after working on myself for over 11 years, spending tens of thousands of pounds on education, coaching and mentorship, as well as helping men get out of their own hell, I have found my purpose. 

I'm happy, I can run far, lift heavy, touch my toes and most importantly, I have the energy to play with my little boy. I have a great little family, my business isn't stress free but I've made it work for me and it serves me while being able to be the best father I can be. I now help men become the best version of themselves they can be by getting them healthy, increasing their energy and becoming leaders of their own life. 

You deserve better. Life is hard. You're busy providing for a family, working your ass off, always busy, always stressed. 
You come home and have nothing left but are expected to work even more. You snap at the wife and kids. 
I know, I've been there and hated myself for it. 
As I evolved I became better at managing it all. Finding the time to put myself first so I can show up as a better man, father and husband. And you can do the same. Don't let poor health get in the way of who you need to be. 
Book a call today, take action on improving your health, looking & feeling better & finally living the life you deserve.