DADDY AF

Daddy explores the concept of love.  How we are pre-programmed to interpret our neurological responses to love through examples we've learned from for decades before we have our first experiences of love...  And how that can flavor our experiences of love.  The complex relationship between our sense of selves and what the world around us tells us love should be.  In the world of non-normative relationships where our relationship structures already challenge the most resolved human...we also have to battle against our internal programming.  Join Daddy on a trip down the bunny hole of non-normative love in a normative world.

You can email Daddy at Daddy_AF@comcast.net to share your voice, your journey, with questions, ideas or comments

What do you do when you find yourself in a long-term relationship and/or marriage when you discover (or re-discover) your kink identity?  You talk about it with your partner, Daddy hopes!  But what happens when your partner wants nothing to do with the kink lifestyle and cannot identify with that orientation?  What's more, if they are not interested in kink than what makes them inclined to be interested in a non-normative, non-monogamous or polyamorous arrangement that affords you a chance to explore and have your needs met?  At least without you having to end your relationship to find it?  Join Daddy and babygirl as they tackle this sticky topic posed by a Daddy AF listener, Baby bear. 

Questions, comments or suggestions?  Want to share your journey and contribute to our community?  Email Daddy at Daddy_AF@comcast.net

Can your new partner's caregiver inclinations be enough to support a full blown DDlg / CGl power exchange relationship?  Join Daddy on a conversation of discovery, observations and advice.  We will deconstruct how to recognize the potential and opportunities for exploring dynamic when a partner is new the sacred space of DDlg that you have come to know so well.

This episode is inspired by a message from a listener in Australia.  Thanks to her questions and conversation this topic is being presented for the benefit of everyone in our little community.  Want to make our community stronger and help it grow into the mainstream?  Then be heard!  Email Daddy_AF@comcast.net and the next episode might just be from the pages of your journey.

Daddy is joined by his cherished babygirl to talk about their journey and experiences of the world of kink through the popular online community of Fetlife.  Discussing what Fetlife is, means of communication, the ins and outs of profiles as well as nuances of messaging.  In Part 2 they dive deeper into how to use Fetlife to access community and find your people!  We haven't seen it all by any means but we've seen enough to share a healthy perspective on best practice ideas.  

As an added bonus at the beginning of this episode, babygirl also shares her point of view on reasons why littles and submissives might not be so good at 'knowing whats best for themselves and also doing it'.  Some insights and revelations from PART 2: BEING A DADDY.

We realize there is a lot about Fetlife and community worth discussing.  In fact, what we planned for one episode quickly became two!  So if you want our perspective on any facets of navigating your way into (or through) the kink community please write DADDY_AF@comcast.net.

Daddy steps out of his wheelhouse and takes on a listener message about bottom dysphoria.  Taking a journey through masculine sexuality and it's role across gender identities.  Bringing all the colors of the rainbow together at the pot of gold perspective that being a Daddy transcends social norms, gender roles, body types and identities.  Being a Daddy is far more than what we were taught and are shown masculine and feminine are "supposed to be" in this slowly evolving, but still binary, world.  Being a Daddy is an identity far deeper and more distinct.  Join Daddy as he unpacks gender identity, roles and the highlights the dangers of leaning too far into normative, binary comparisons at the expense of what matters most....your DDlg dynamic.

Question, comments, suggestions for future episodes?  Email Daddy_AF@comcast.net

Daddy explores aspect of Aftercare in a BDSM and Ds context.  What is it?  What does it look like?  Are you doing it right?  Aftercare is a term often coined in the BDSM community, particularly around the areas of play.  But how does it actually plug in to a dynamic and how can you make it work magic for you?  Join Daddy as he explores the many facets of aftercare, and what it has been in his experience.

If you have any questions, comments or suggestions please write Daddy at Daddy_AF@comcast.net.

Continue exploring as Daddy shares even more of the critical components to creating and maintaining a thriving DDlg dynamic.  Just what does it take to make your DDlg sing?  Daddy covers what he feels are some of the best practices when it comes to making the most of what you have with your little girl.   

Thank you for all the recent feedback and emails!  If you have any questions, comments, want to talk to Daddy, suggest a topic or even join Daddy on an episode of Daddy AF...email Daddy at Daddy_AF@comcast.net.

Wondering how you get from being curious about DDlg to actually identifying as a Daddy?  Daddy had a strong identification with being a Daddy very early in his relationship but had yet to truly experience what being a Daddy meant to him.  Join Daddy on a journey of discovery through what it was that took him from just curious and starting out...knowing that he had a strong desire to be a Daddy...to living every single day as a Daddy to a wonderful and amazing little girl.

Send your questions, comments or ideas to Daddy_AF@comcast.net.  

Let’s take a journey through BDSM dynamic. From kink activities like rope, impact, and pain to power exchange between Masters, slaves, Dominants, submissives, Daddys, littles and everything in between…with a focus on kink and power exchange, and an introspective eye, let’s dare ask the question “Why? Why do we do it?” What puts the BD in your SM?

Send your questions, comments and suggestions to Daddy_AF@comcast.net.   Is there a topic you want to hear me talk about?  Do you have questions about the scene?  Is there something you're trying to work through or are stuck on that Daddy can help move forward by sharing his experience?  Reach out and ask Daddy and he will share his thoughts.