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The Daddy Leave Diaries

The Daddy Leave Diaries

By The Daddy Leave Diaries

Mark Gatto is taking six months’ parental leave to look after his new baby. In this podcast, we accompany him on his journey, as he applies for time off work, attends the baby’s birth, supports his wife through her maternity leave, juggles his work and domestic life, and spends time as a stay-home dad. Mark shares his story with Jeremy Davies from the Fatherhood Institute - a UK charity think tank which advocates for fairer, more father-inclusive parenting leave, and better support for dads from maternity and other family services.
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Episode 10. Closing thoughts

The Daddy Leave DiariesMay 16, 2023

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Episode 10. Closing thoughts

Episode 10. Closing thoughts

Some reflections on the rarity of Mark’s experience- and how it’s benefited him not just as a dad, but as an employee.
May 16, 202323:31
Episode 9: Back to work

Episode 9: Back to work

Mark reflects on his first few months back at work - which have been dogged by illness in the family, leaving him thankful for his understanding colleagues
May 15, 202322:25
Episode 8. Learnings

Episode 8. Learnings

As Mark heads towards the end of his parental leave, he shares some key learnings from the precious time he’s been spending with his daughter
Apr 26, 202321:48
Episode 7. Response and responsibility

Episode 7. Response and responsibility

It’s December, and as Mark starts to prepare for his return to work in the New Year, he reflects on how his everyday acts of caregiving have strengthened his bond with his daughter
Jan 31, 202322:48
Episode 6: The loneliness of the long-distance father

Episode 6: The loneliness of the long-distance father

It’s October, and Mark maps out the joys and challenges of a life structured around feeding and playing with his baby daughter…and the all-important afternoon nap
Dec 19, 202230:37
Episode 5: Semi-detached

Episode 5: Semi-detached

It’s August, and Mark gets ready to take over as ‘lead parent’ - as much as one can as the dad of a breastfed baby. He switches off from work mode, and takes his first trip to baby club
Oct 31, 202231:07
Episode 4. Second fiddle

Episode 4. Second fiddle

It’s Father’s Day and with his new baby already teething at just four months old, we hear how Mark’s coping being back at work… and dealing with ‘second fiddle syndrome’…
Aug 05, 202231:40
Episode 3. Early days

Episode 3. Early days

The baby arrives, and we hear from Mark about a challenging few weeks supporting his wife’s breastfeeding journey
Jul 09, 202222:14
Episode 2. Deciding

Episode 2. Deciding

In this episode, recorded a few days before his new baby's due date, Mark talks about how he and Holly decided who should take the leave and when, and the role that looking after his first son, during the spring 2020 Covid-19 lockdown in England, had in this. He also shares with his hopes and fears about the coming year.
May 19, 202225:36
Episode 1. Meeting Mark

Episode 1. Meeting Mark

In this first episode, Mark talks about himself and his family, and his plan to take six months' leave - a month when the baby arrives, and the rest in the second half of the year, starting in August 2022. And Jeremy gives us an overview of how rare it is for dads in the UK to take such a long period of leave.

Feb 17, 202221:22
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Feb 16, 202203:26