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Finding D.I.C.H.

Finding D.I.C.H.

By Daisy Chakoo

Finding D.I.C.H. (aka Finding a Dreamy, Intelligent, Compassionate, Human) is a show celebrating being single and the different journeys people are on (or have been on) to get whatever they want. Hosted by Daisy Chakoo. Instagram: @DaisyChakoo
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8. A Curious Conversation Between Curious People About Curiously Dating in Quarantine (feat. Florence Barkway)

Finding D.I.C.H.May 21, 2020

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8. A Curious Conversation Between Curious People About Curiously Dating in Quarantine (feat. Florence Barkway)

8. A Curious Conversation Between Curious People About Curiously Dating in Quarantine (feat. Florence Barkway)

Friends of The Outside World (and beyond), this week's episode, is a delicious conversation with the amazing Florence Barkway (@FlorenceBark), 1/2 of Come Curious and the F**Ks Given Podcast, the internet's favourite place for all things sex, body and mental health honesty. We discussed having quarantine bae's, the importance of building lasting connections during these "trying times", quarantine libido, the highs and lows of ghosting and SO MUCH MORE (you also get to witness me dragging myself and experiencing a few "aha" moments with the assistance of Florence's kind and true words). 

If you enjoyed the conversation, why don't you, ya know, let us know on the social media's.

Also, don't forget to share your D.I.C.H. Dilemmas with us at findingdich@gmail.com or on Instagram @FindingDICH and @DaisyChakoo.

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May 21, 202051:16
D.I.C.H. UNCUT: Love Lost, Lockdown Philosophies & Lonely Lady

D.I.C.H. UNCUT: Love Lost, Lockdown Philosophies & Lonely Lady

Friends of the Bumble App (and beyond), welcome to another episode of "Finding D.I.C.H. UNCUT"; the sister episode to "Finding D.I.C.H" where more time is spent spilling tea on dating, sex and relationships, followed by our "D.I.C.H. Therapy" segment at the end. 
In this weeks episode, I explain the "new cycle" of dating I am entering, my friend and I's "Habbo Hotel" philosophy approach to virtual dating and then answer one of you guys' D.I.C.H. Dilemmas, in D.I.C.H. Therapy. 

Don't forget to share your D.I.C.H. Dilemmas with us at findingdich@gmail.com or on Instagram @FindingDICH and @DaisyChakoo.

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May 14, 202017:20
7. The Art of Self-Awareness (feat. Bobo Matjila)

7. The Art of Self-Awareness (feat. Bobo Matjila)

Friends of Coney Island (and beyond), this week's episode, once again, comes from "across the pond". We are joined by the internet's "Favourite African Auntie", Bobo Matjila (@Bobo.Matjila), 1/2 of the @BoboAndFlex podcast, a previous panellist on everyone's favourite YouTube Channel "The GrapeVine" and the internet's resident favourite philosopher.  We discussed what self-awareness is, why it's important not just when dating, but in general, standards vs, expectations and we also *touched* on the sacredness of bum play. 

If you enjoyed the conversation, why don't you, ya know, let us know on the social media's.

Also, don't forget to share your D.I.C.H. Dilemmas with us at findingdich@gmail.com or on Instagram @FindingDICH and @DaisyChakoo.

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May 07, 202047:11
D.I.C.H. UNCUT: Brand New Bae, Bickering & Bum Play

D.I.C.H. UNCUT: Brand New Bae, Bickering & Bum Play

Friends of The Hinge HQ (and beyond), welcome to another episode of "Finding D.I.C.H. UNCUT"; the sister episode to "Finding D.I.C.H" where more time is spent spilling tea on dating, sex and relationships, followed by our "D.I.C.H. Therapy" segment at the end. 
In this weeks episode, I spill all the hot PG Tips Tea on my first ever virtual first date (and how much of a flop it was) and introduce you to my brand new problematic bae and then answer one of you guys' D.I.C.H. Dilemmas, in D.I.C.H. Therapy. 

Don't forget to share your D.I.C.H. Dilemmas with us at findingdich@gmail.com or on Instagram @FindingDICH and @DaisyChakoo.

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Original Music by Daisy Chakoo

Apr 30, 202018:06
6. Quarantine Dating: a discussion (feat. Griffin Wynne)

6. Quarantine Dating: a discussion (feat. Griffin Wynne)

Friends of Trader Joe's (and beyond), this week's episode comes from "across the pond"... well, the wonderful guest does. We are joined by Griffin Wynne (@GriffinWynne); a sex and relationships writer for Bustle Magazine and self-confessed "genderless cowgirl", where we discussed all things quarantine dating from whether now is a good time to date, what we have learnt about ourselves and what we plan on doing, in regards to Finding D.I.C.H.,  once this whole thing is over. 

If you enjoyed the conversation, why don't you, ya know, let us know on the social media's. 

Also, don't forget to share your D.I.C.H. Dilemmas with us at findingdich@gmail.com or on Instagram @FindingDICH and @DaisyChakoo.

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Apr 23, 202038:50
D.I.C.H. UNCUT: Quarantine Dating, Quatre Bae's & Quiet Partners

D.I.C.H. UNCUT: Quarantine Dating, Quatre Bae's & Quiet Partners

Friends of Quarantineville (and beyond), welcome to another episode of "Finding D.I.C.H. UNCUT"; the sister episode to "Finding D.I.C.H" where more time is spent spilling tea on dating, sex and relationships, followed by our "D.I.C.H. Therapy" segment at the end. 
In this weeks episode, I unveil my goals for dating during these "unprecedented times", fill you guys in on 4 of my quarantine bae's and then answer one of you guys' D.I.C.H. Dilemmas, in D.I.C.H. Therapy. 

Don't forget to share your D.I.C.H. Dilemmas with us at findingdich@gmail.com or on Instagram @FindingDICH and @DaisyChakoo.

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Apr 15, 202013:52
5. Confident and Killing It (feat. Tiwalola Ogunlesi)

5. Confident and Killing It (feat. Tiwalola Ogunlesi)

Friends of My Bedroom (and beyond), this week's episode is a truly magical conversation with "The Oprah of Our Generation" (in my opinion), Tiwalola Ogunlesi; self-love activist, confidence coach and an inspirational speaker and founder of "Confident and Killing it", (@ConfidentAndKillingIt/@Tiwalola), where we spoke about the value in working on yourself, the importance of setting clear intentions and geeked out over our favourite podcasts and YouTubers for personal growth. 

Don't forget to share your #DICHChallenge experiences with us at findingdich@gmail.com or on Instagram @FindingDICH and @DaisyChakoo.

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Original Music and Sounds by Daisy Chakoo

Apr 09, 202046:55
D.I.C.H. UNCUT: Street Bae, Smoking Shenanigans & Secret Therapists

D.I.C.H. UNCUT: Street Bae, Smoking Shenanigans & Secret Therapists

Friends of The Dunes 709 (and beyond), welcome to another episode of "Finding D.I.C.H. UNCUT"; the sister episode to "Finding D.I.C.H" where more time is spent spilling tea on dating, sex and relationships, followed by our "D.I.C.H. Therapy" segment at the end. 
In this weeks episode, I fill you guys in on my Hackney Wick shenanigans, new and accidentally forgotten bae's and my excitement to really get my dating on.  I am then joined by a secret and incognito someone, A.K.A. "Arty", in D.I.C.H. Therapy. 
Don't forget to share your #DICHChallenge experiences AS WELL AS your D.I.C.H. Dilemmas to findingdich@gmail.com or on Instagram @FindingDICH and @DaisyChakoo.  

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Original Music by Daisy Chakoo 
Co-Producer: Bridey Addison-Child  (Insta: @Bridey_AC)

Mar 11, 202021:12
4. Baby Gurl Chat (feat. Ayesha Charles)

4. Baby Gurl Chat (feat. Ayesha Charles)

Friends of Central Perk (and beyond), this week's episode is a fun and juicy chat with one of my fave baby gurls/Transmission Roundhouse family, Ayesha Charles (@AyeshaCharles/@GyalsOnRoad) where we gossip about best and worst dates, major keys to a relationship and of course, whether the size of da boat really matters (eyes emoji). Your host, Daisy Chakoo, also reveals the new #DICHChallenge, to be completed by the next episode.

Don't forget to share your #DICHChallenge experiences with us at findingdich@gmail.com or on Instagram @FindingDICH and @DaisyChakoo.

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Original Music and Sounds by Daisy Chakoo

Co-Produced by Bridey Addison-Child  (Insta: @Bridey_AC)

Mar 05, 202040:03
D.I.C.H. UNCUT: New Year, No D.I.C.H. & No Going Dutch
Feb 05, 202016:09
3. Finding D.I.C.H. 2019: a reflection (feat. Bridey Addison-Child)

3. Finding D.I.C.H. 2019: a reflection (feat. Bridey Addison-Child)

Friends of Mount Crumpit (and beyond), this week's episode is a reflection on the year of our Lord 2019, in regards to Finding D.I.C.H. Bridey (@Bridey_AC) and I also take a moment to set D.I.C.H. intentions for the year ahead. Your host, Daisy Chakoo, also discusses her not-so #DICHChallenge experience and reveals the new #DICHChallenge, to be completed by the next episode. 

Don't forget to share your #DICHChallenge experiences with us at findingdich@gmail.com or on Instagram @FindingDICH and @DaisyChakoo. 

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Original Music by Daisy Chakoo

Co-Produced by Bridey Addison-Child  (Insta: @Bridey_AC)

Dec 18, 201928:20
D.I.C.H. UNCUT: Crying, Apple Crumble & Interracial Struggles
Dec 04, 201922:46
2. Gen Z vs. Millennials on Dating/Finding D.I.C.H. (feat. Malakaï Sargeant)

2. Gen Z vs. Millennials on Dating/Finding D.I.C.H. (feat. Malakaï Sargeant)

Friends of Summer Walker’s Meet & Greets (and beyond), this week's episode explores the differences in Finding D.I.C.H. and dating between Gen Z and Millennials, with none other than Mr Steve Lacy himself a.k.a. Malakaï Sargeant (@MalakaiSargeant). Your host, Daisy Chakoo, also shares her second ever #DICHChallenge experience and reveals the new #DICHChallenge, to be completed by the next episode. Don't forget to share your #DICHChallenge experiences with us at findingdich@gmail.com or on Instagram @FindingDICH and @DaisyChakoo. THANK YOU FOR LISTENING FRIENDS! Slide into our Instagram DM's: @FindingDICH @DaisyChakoo @Transmission_RH Original Music by Daisy Chakoo
Dec 02, 201901:03:56
D.I.C.H. UNCUT: Bikes, Body Odour & Virgin Struggles
Dec 02, 201925:38
1. Hot Girl Summer: a reflection (feat. Khadejia)
Dec 02, 201901:13:29