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"Dare to be one" podcast

"Dare to be one" podcast

By Olajide ifeoluwa Oluwafisayo
An initiative about marriage. Created to reach out to the molested ones, those experiencing violence in their marriages, the broken hearted and others.

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Marriage lessons series 1, Ep 3
Our guests who have been married for 15 years do have alot of things to say. Don't miss the words of wisdom they shared, proceed and click on the play button.
January 20, 2021
Marriage series 1, EP 2
Can two walk together except they agree? Listen to what our today's couple guest have to say about the lessons they've learnt in marriage
January 14, 2021
Marriage lessons series 1, Episode 1
Experience is the best teacher they say, but not all the time because you can as well learn from those who have the experience already. This episode is a fit for the married, single, complicated, searching, or any other relationship status you belong to ☺. Do send in your reviews and questions
January 6, 2021
What's the probability?
What's the probability that things will work out for you in marriage if you practice all we've been saying since? Find out what will give you 100% assurance in this episode, it's my last gift to you for year 2020.
December 30, 2020
"Before this"
There's need to prepare for every journey you want to embark on. Some people go into marriage adequately prepared, some go unprepared, some are prepared but not adequately(half-baked). Listen to this interesting episode. Merry Christmas in advance
December 23, 2020
Time is a currency everyone spends, and it doesn't wait for anyone because the clock is always tickling. Do something worthwhile for your life, and leave out the pain, revenge, guilt and resentment of years gone by.
December 16, 2020
The best of things.
Gold in it's raw form does not have a shining appearance, but still has some dinstinctive properties. A good man/woman who will become a good husband/wife may not have the physical qualities that's shining, but look beyond the physical qualities and set your priorities right. Instead answer questions like: how well you know him/her, who do they listen to( that's if they've anyone at all) , are they responsible? and consider if you both are compatible? Do this and you'll be on your way of being the best thing that can ever happen to someone and getting the best hubby/wifey out there. Thanks for listening.
December 9, 2020
The knot is tied: what next?
It's not all about the wedding day. What happens after that day, when all guests have left, when you're left alone with your husband/wife. Ride with me on this episode.
December 2, 2020
Speak out!
Which team do you belong to? Those that voice out or those who zip their mouths and keep the hurt inside of them. Find out more about this in this episode.
November 25, 2020
Question and answer s5 "Betrayed: Never again"
You know that feeling of I'm going to take out my vengeance on my next lover, because of the betrayal you just experienced. Have you ever being betrayed by your lover? Did you also have this feeling? Here's a true life story by my guest(anonymous), and an emotional one at that, get your handkerchiefs, because it might move you to tears...he attempted to commit suicide on several occasions. It's not easy! The best I can do for you is to encourage you to listen.
November 18, 2020
Q&A S4 "All it takes is to look inward"
Sharing a true life story of how looking inward played a role in his relationship. Looking inward sound easy, right? Let's find out in this episode as we listen to Mr Olasehinde Boluwatife.
November 11, 2020
Hold on!
What's the rush all about? You shouldn't be pressurized to love or be loved by someone. Give yourself a break atimes, hold on, rest, and think about everything.
November 4, 2020
Utilize it!
Intense scrutinizing, filtration, and sieving should precede any advice you yield to, or attitudes you mimick. Utilize the good ones and dump the bad ones. Go ahead and listen to this episode, you'll find it helpful.
October 28, 2020
And so!
They say, "and so what, after all you won't be the first or the last person to do it, do it jor, there's nothing wrong in it, nothing is new under the sun" really? Do you believe them? Do you know they can't even yield to any of the advices they're giving you, but they'll rather have someone misbehave and pretend all is well, than tell you the truth...jealousy, greed, envy? Maybe. Ride with me on this 22nd episode.
October 14, 2020
Had I known
Regrets! You've any? How did you cope with it. Send in your response to
October 7, 2020
Let there be light
Light is the only thing that can send the darkness in your marriage/relationship packing, call out darkness today and call in light. Thanks for listening ☺
September 30, 2020
Gratitude-International Podcast Day!
This is our way of saying thank you to all our listeners. We haven't given up yet because you keep listening to us. On this occasion of International podcast day, here is a combined recording from podcasters in Nigeria(Pod magic creators) saying we appreciate you.
September 30, 2020
Avoid it!
Some say if you can not beat them, then join them, but I'll say, if you can not beat them, then avoid them.
September 23, 2020
Back out!
Nothing is worth giving up your joy and peace of mind for, be it a person or thing. Relationships where you're getting the red lights(danger) from, and you're still willing to continue, but remember danger looks ahead. Friendships that don't benefit but rather cost you something dear, won't you back out from such? I co-hosted this episode with Miss Akomolafe Joy, kindly listen to it. Do not forget to send me your feedbacks and questions on
September 16, 2020
How you feel? What you think? What you think should happen? This episode centers on how our thoughts can either affect our relationships positively or negatively.
September 9, 2020
Relationships are important aspect of our lives and a toxic relationship can cost you dearly in time, energy and resources.  Stay true to yourself, be sincere enough to listen to your heart, and be strong enough to make a decision if there's a need for you to forego that relationship.  We had a guest speaker who spoke on her experience, do listen to this episode.  
August 26, 2020
At last
At last I got the job! At last I got married...your "at last" moment will come, but what kind of attitude will you put up after? An "I don't care" attitude, or a positive one? Do you jealously guard what has now been put in your care, or you wait until it slips out of your hand? 
August 19, 2020
Be steadfast!
(Here is a conversation that ensued between the newlyweds Mr D and Mrs D) Mr D: what's all this honey? Why are you dressed as if you're mourning?  Mrs D: Daddy, this is a housewife dressing oh, we're now married, I don't need to dress fine like a spinster again. Mr D: who's your daddy? tell me all these are just pranks.  Mrs D: sir, I'm seriously serious  Keep up with the things your spouse likes about you even after getting married.  Be steadfast in those things! 
August 12, 2020
"just listen"
What if listening is part of what you need to do to calm that storm ravaging against your marriage/relationship?
August 5, 2020
Q&A s3 with Rashawn Copeland "He'll meet you where you're"
As a lady there's a him(God) you've to meet before you meet your earthly him(husband), this will guarantee you 100% marital success. As a man too, meet your God before you meet your wife.
July 29, 2020
Make haste!
Delay is dangerous, do not take any chances to lose that treasure that's in your possession, others are earnestly praying to have it.  What you've, hold tightly to it. 
July 22, 2020
"And behold"
The light of the body is the eye, if thine eye be single, thy whole body shall be full of light. Seeing is entirely different from hearing.  What do you behold for your life, marriage/relationship? What do you behold in your spouse? If you behold inadequacies and faults, that's all you'll keep seeing.  If you behold strength and overlook the weaknesses, then you're in for a better life. 
July 15, 2020
Q&A season 2 "waiting time"
Good day dear listener, He said to me, you've hypoplastic uterus! Oh my God!  What on earth is that?  I said no, that's not me, I'm going to have my own children.  Fast forward to a year and some months, the same uterus they called feeble accommodated *2 babies at the same time for 9 months*. She's now a mother of 2 beautiful twin girls.  Listen to our guest speaker as she share her experience as a waiting mother.  It's a powerful episode, kindly share with friends and families.  Thank you! 
July 8, 2020
Because He lives
There are lots of positive proclamations in this episode. Remember, power of life and death is in the tongue.  Ride with me as we speak positive words into our marriages.
July 1, 2020
In marriage, there will be many things you'll argue on, but never allow these disagreements drive a gap between you two.  Don't be too rigid. In everything you do, make effort to stay agree-ing.  Check out this episode for the full teaching Feedbacks, comments and questions are welcomed.
June 24, 2020
As it was
Today's episode is titled "as it was". There's a way God had planned marriage to be, any effort to deviate from that will not give you a positive result.  Take a look at your marriage, has it deviated from God's original plan?  Make amends today.  Listen to what I've to say about it here
June 17, 2020
There are 2 categories of people: •those whose ability(strength) overweighs their disability(weakness). •those whose disability overweighs their ability. One important thing you should note is that these things have a way they affect our marriages/relationships.  Recognize your disabilities today and make efforts to work on them.  Learn more in this episode. 
June 10, 2020
A second chance
Not everyone get a second chance at life and what it has to offer, it is therefore a great privilege that you get one. Whether it's a second chance to right your wrongs, choose wisely, change for the better, and so on.  It's important that you make preparations for the second chance you'll be getting, so that you do not mess things up the second time.
June 3, 2020
In his presence
Anyone can be a channel of peace, joy, love and comfort to you, but you've only one source, which is God. Do not ever replace your source with your channels. Whose presence guarantees the flow of your channel?  Find out more in my latest episode 
May 27, 2020
By his stripes
Emotional illness come as a result of unforgiveness, pains from the past, betrayal, unsatisfaction, and so on.  How then do you get healing/treatment? The good news is I know someone with healing stripes, find out more in my latest episode.
May 20, 2020
Question & answer 1B
By the time you start getting intentional about things in your marriage/relationship, imagine, What struggles would cease? What arguments would end? What anger would cool? What peace would reign? There is great bliss to be won and terrible regret to avoid if you do it God's way.  Are you ready to take full responsibility for your future under the sight and care of God?
May 8, 2020
Question and answer session 1A
What do you do when you discover that what you settled for isn't what it seemed like?  It's not God's plan that you enter the "regret zone" before you amend your ways, neither does he want you to go through hurts before you realise your mistakes. 
May 6, 2020
Whatever you can picture has the tendency to feature in your future.  All you've to do is imagine it, see it, and very soon it will come to reality. 
April 29, 2020
"The past is gone"
Your past can either make you bitter or better, but the choice is yours to make. Find out how to become better in this episode. 
April 22, 2020
"Overcoming self"
Many things are associated with the "self factor" , some are positive while others are negative. To get the best out of yourself, you'll have to deal with and overcome the "self factor" in you.
April 15, 2020