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Daro’s Daring Thoughts

Daro’s Daring Thoughts

By Cordaro Johnson

“There’s no real way to be invisible...or passionate about EVERYTHING!” -Dawkins

My name is Cordaro and my goal is to make a positive impact in other people’s lives. I run a podcast called Daro’s Daring Thoughts, which is a weekly show about current events, news, political topics, trends etc; and how my mind navigates through the authenticity - while eliminating the bones. I want people to have a positive experience with this podcast, but also learn a perspective they never knew existed. My Rants will have you Raving!

Email darodaresu@gmail.com
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Daro’s Daring ThoughtsApr 30, 2024

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SH Martha's Vineyard Recap EP 1-6

SH Martha's Vineyard Recap EP 1-6

Come listen as I recap the first 6 episodes of season two's Summer House Martha's Vineyard on Bravo. If you are also watching this show, you may want to tap in for this recap.

Apr 30, 202426:37
Twitter After Dark

Twitter After Dark

Season 6 is coming in with a bang! Daro is giving yall the tea on a new business venture he's tapped into. This conversation ain't for the kids so make sure your headphones are on. Welcome to the new season of Daro's Daring Thoughts! Follow Daro on IG @daro_santiago
Apr 29, 202437:49
Melanin Edition: Therapy Works

Melanin Edition: Therapy Works

Does therapy actually work? Cordaro finally found a therapist he likes, and here is what he learned...

Connect with Cordaro on Instagram @cordaro_santiago

Email Cordaro at darodaresu@gmail.com

Oct 30, 202324:04
Melanin Edition: Release The Wiggle

Melanin Edition: Release The Wiggle

Daro shares his ENTIRE experience with the Renaissance tour, the good, the bad, the fatphobic, and the drama of it all.


Connect with Cordaro on Instagram @cordaro_santiago

Email Cordaro using darodaresu@gmail.com

Oct 23, 202323:06
Melanin Edition: How Far Would You Go For Love?

Melanin Edition: How Far Would You Go For Love?

In light of my recent therapy sessions I’ve realized that I’ve spent a lot of my time seeking love from others without loving myself. I will be sharing my therapy update with you guys but before I do that please check out this episode I dropped last year, originally titled "Desperate For Love."

Connect with Cordaro on Instagram @cordaro_santiago

Email Cordaro using darodaresu@gmail.com

Oct 09, 202312:23
Melanin Edition: My Light Comes From Jesus
Oct 02, 202320:52
Melanin Edition: The Dating Pool Has Piss In It with Nude Radio

Melanin Edition: The Dating Pool Has Piss In It with Nude Radio

Dating isn't easy, but it's worse than ever. People make crazy assumptions, they see each other at face value, and most of the time all they want is sex. What if you actually want to get to know someone? Cordaro and Kenny Heflin (Nude Radio) talk about what they want from dating, and what they're getting. Then, hear where they're looking to meet new people these days...

Connect with Cordaro on Instagram @Cordaro_Santiago

Connect with Kenny on Instagram @kennyheflin

Email Cordaro using darodaresu@gmail.com

Sep 25, 202301:09:35
Melanin Edition: This Is 50 with Didi

Melanin Edition: This Is 50 with Didi

50 seems like a milestone we don't ever want to reach. Dare Bears, the bestie Didi is here to tell you just how wrong you are - and why 50+ is EVERYTHING.


Connect with Cordaro on Instagram using @cordaro_santiago

Email Cordaro using darodaresu@gmail.com

Sep 18, 202340:14
Melanin Edition: Scary A Word

Melanin Edition: Scary A Word

...Apologize? Is it worth it? Dare Bears, let's be honest for a few minutes.


Connect with Cordaro on Instagram @cordaro_santiago

Email Cordaro using darodaresu@gmail.com

Sep 06, 202321:16
Melanin Edition: I Don't Know You

Melanin Edition: I Don't Know You

Years don't equate to healthy relationships. We hold on to people for too damn long. It's time to look at some of these people and say "I Don't Know You."

Sep 04, 202358:50
Melanin Edition: Celebrating 50 Years of Hip Hop with Justin

Melanin Edition: Celebrating 50 Years of Hip Hop with Justin

Cordaro and Justin discuss the history and culture of 50 years of hip hop...what's your take?


Follow Cordaro on Instagram @cordaro_santiago

Email Cordaro using darodaresu@gmail.com

Aug 21, 202357:00
Melanin Edition: Move Out Da Way

Melanin Edition: Move Out Da Way

When meta friends want to move funny, they can move out da way. Did you catch that? Be direct - or stay out of Cordaro's circle.

Connect with Cordaro on Instagram @cordaro_santiago

Email Cordaro using darodaresu@gmail.com

Aug 14, 202322:14
Melanin Edition: Leave Us Alone - O'Shea Sibley

Melanin Edition: Leave Us Alone - O'Shea Sibley

Following this tragedy, Cordaro transparently shares about safety, the BS of allyship, what it will actually take as BLACK and QUEER community members to find safety in our communities, and more.

Missed the headline? https://www.nytimes.com/2023/07/31/nyregion/stabbing-gas-station-brooklyn.html


Connect with Cordaro on Instagram @cordaro_santiago

Email Cordaro using darodaresu@gmail.com

Aug 07, 202315:04
Melanin Edition: Meta Relationships with Crystal

Melanin Edition: Meta Relationships with Crystal

Are Meta relationships real? Cordaro and Crystal chat about how they became friends, the Clubhouse scene, and more.

Connect with Cordaro on Instagram @cordaro_santiago

Email Cordaro using darodaresu@gmail.com

Jul 24, 202301:02:56
Melanin Edition: Renaissance Impact with Mojo

Melanin Edition: Renaissance Impact with Mojo

What was the impact of Renaissance on Ballroom culture? Daro and Mojo talk colorism, homophobia, fatphobia, and more on this episode.

Find Mojo on all platforms @mojodisco

Find Cordaro on Instagram @cordaro_santiago

Email Cordaro using darodaresu@gmail.com

Jul 17, 202354:20
Melanin Edition: Can I Date a F*ck Buddy?

Melanin Edition: Can I Date a F*ck Buddy?

Dare Bears, you know Cordaro loves his F*ck Buddies...but what happens when he catches feelings? Do you have to choose between a n*t and a broken heart? Find out his answers in this episode!

Connect with Cordaro on Instagram @cordaro_santiago

Email Cordaro with podcast suggestions using darodaresu@gmail.com

Don't forget to subscribe, rate, and review this show!

Jul 10, 202321:52
Melanin Edition: Living With Chronic Pain

Melanin Edition: Living With Chronic Pain

This sh*t ain't for the week, Dare Bears. Living with chronic pain impacts my life every f*cking day. Listen if you want to learn or relate.


Connect with Cordaro on Instagram @cordaro_santiago

Email Cordaro at darodaresu@gmail.com

Jul 03, 202322:48
Hot Topics with Makeup Artist KP

Hot Topics with Makeup Artist KP

Catfishing stories, Beyonce cringe, colorism in the entertainment industry, do fat girls deserve ugly men, and more with KP.

Follow KP on Instagram @_makeupbykpatterson

Follow Cordaro on Instagram @cordaro_santiago

Email Cordaro with topic suggestions and feedback using darodaresu@gmail.com

Jun 26, 202301:10:26
Melanin Edition: You Mad Cuz It Ain't You

Melanin Edition: You Mad Cuz It Ain't You

Byron Perkins being read 5 seconds after coming out, biracial dating, Durann Bernarr's take, and more. Be honest, you mad, or you mad cuz it aint' you?


Follow Cordaro on Instagram @cordaro_santiago

Email show suggestions and feedback to darodaresu@gmail.com

Jun 19, 202359:13
Season Five Opening Episode

Season Five Opening Episode

We're back Dare Bears! Here's what you can look forward to, rain or shine, each week.

Connect with Cordaro on Instagram @cordaro_santiago

Email Cordaro at darodaresu@gmail.com

Jun 16, 202305:03
Melanin Edition: Music & Fashion with Notorious Shad
Mar 22, 202301:23:52
Melanin Edition: Switching Up My Network

Melanin Edition: Switching Up My Network

Cordero has dedicated his who life to supporting cis gender women in what they do. The older he gets, the more he realizes that has hurt him more than it has helped him. He is nearly 37, and he doesn’t have a core group of professional, black gay men he can network with. So how does he switch up his circle?

Follow Cordaro on Instagram @cordaro_santiago

Email Cordaro using darodaresu@gmail.com

Mar 16, 202326:52
Melanin Edition: Poly Poly Poly with Kiana

Melanin Edition: Poly Poly Poly with Kiana

Cordaro pops his pansexual cherry on today's episode - his first pansexual guest Kiana joins him to talk about her poly lifestyle, love, sex, and more. Listen for all the tea.

Connect with Cordaro on Instagram @cordaro_santiago

Connect with Kiana and browse her jewelry on Instagram @kianamuseart

Mar 08, 202344:49
Melanin Edition: Dating Ain't No Heaux with The Dating Coach

Melanin Edition: Dating Ain't No Heaux with The Dating Coach

Dating as a gay black man is hard in these streets, but there are some uncomfortable truths and I must accept the part I play. Join me and The Gay Dating Coach in that conversation.

Connect with Lamont White on Instagam @thegaydatingcoach

Connect with Cordaro on Instagram @cordaro_santiago

Mar 01, 202349:08
Melanin Edition: My Superpower

Melanin Edition: My Superpower

Do you have natural traits that you ignore or treat as a weakness?  In this episode, learn how Daro discovered his superpower of being open to others, in tune with his feelings, and trusting his gut.  

Connect with Cordaro on Instagram @cordaros_santiago

Email Cordaro at darodaresu@gmail.com

Jan 18, 202315:55
Melanin Edition: Sag Season Got Me
Jan 16, 202317:12
Melanin Edition: He Wants The Scent with Kenny Heflin

Melanin Edition: He Wants The Scent with Kenny Heflin

The Nudist joins Cordaro to chat SEX. Just listen and find out.

Jan 11, 202301:06:04
Melanin Edition: We Can't Be Friends

Melanin Edition: We Can't Be Friends

Y'all ever break up or have a situationship or crush and think you can "still be friends." NO. We can't still be friends, unless you wanna be friends with a jealous b*tch. Cordaro gets emotional as he thinks about the people he's loved, tried to keep as friends, and had to give up.

Dec 30, 202223:34
Melanin Edition: We Are Doomed
Dec 23, 202228:30
Melanin Edition: It Is What It Is

Melanin Edition: It Is What It Is

It's tough out here in these streets. People wanna play with my emotions and promise relationships that are never gonna happen. Dare Bears, let me be the one to give you all permission...have an "It is what it is" moment with me.

Connect with Cordaro on Instagram @cordaro_santiago

Email Cordaro using darodaresu@gmail.com

Nov 23, 202214:58
Melanin Edition: I Topped

Melanin Edition: I Topped

Dare Bears...did any of us see this *coming*? The tea is piping in this one.

Connect with Cordaro on Instagram @cordaro_santiago

Email Cordaro at darodaresu@gmail.com

Nov 18, 202220:58
Melanin Edition: Side Piece Energy

Melanin Edition: Side Piece Energy

Baby do you give side piece energy?  Whether it's his zodiac, his past, or a past LIFE, Cordaro explores why he thinks he just gives off side piece energy.

Follow Cordaro on Instagram @cordaro_santiago

Email Cordaro using darodaresu@gmail.com

Oct 28, 202228:33
Melanin Edition: Fatphobia Is Real Y'all

Melanin Edition: Fatphobia Is Real Y'all

Why are y'all so mad at fat people? Why does the media hate Lizzo? And can skinny b*tches be trusted? Cordaro and Sean BK break it down on this episode.

Follow Cordaro on Instagram @cordaro_santiago

Follow Sean BK on Instagram @_digitaldash

Email Cordaro using darodaresu@gmail.com

Oct 21, 202256:50
Melanin Edition: Purpose with Amber (Part 2)

Melanin Edition: Purpose with Amber (Part 2)

Amber and Cordaro talk about support (and not getting it), how it feels when people exit your life, the challenges of being a creative, and more.

Connect with Amber on Instagram: @amoniquewilson

Connect with Cordaro on Instagram @cordaro_santiago

Email Cordaro using darodaresu@gmail.com

Oct 14, 202249:12
Melanin Edition: Purpose with Amber (Part 1)

Melanin Edition: Purpose with Amber (Part 1)

Cordaro and Amber talk finding your purpose, childhood influences, how life looks different when you don't have support, and the way your circle changes when you start walking purposefully.

Connect with Cordaro on Instagram @cordaro_santiago

Email Cordaro at darodaresu@gmail.com

Oct 07, 202250:07
Melanin Edition: You Irritate Me But Got Good D

Melanin Edition: You Irritate Me But Got Good D

What's the D got you doin? Cordaro spills ALLL - well, almost all - the tea in this one. #unfiltered

Sep 30, 202219:21
Melanin Edition: Returning To The Office

Melanin Edition: Returning To The Office

Why do y'all hate on people with remote jobs?  Cordaro shares his challenges in finding work that allows him to travel, and what he wants to do next.

Follow Cordaro on Instagram @cordaro_santiago

Email Cordaro using darodaresu@gmail.com

Sep 23, 202236:39
Melanin Edition: Scorpios Ain't Sh*t

Melanin Edition: Scorpios Ain't Sh*t

That's it. That's the caption. From one Scorpio to the rest of y'all.

Email Cordaro at darodarsu@gmail.com

Follow Cordaro on Instagram @cordaro_santiago

Sep 16, 202221:38
Melanin Edition: Don't Play With Your Health

Melanin Edition: Don't Play With Your Health

Don't play with your health y'all!  A pain in Cordaro's leg went from a Sciatic nerve issue to a diabetes scare to an unexpected diagnosis.

The most frustrating part is that it could have been avoided if he had received proper health care earlier.  However, people who are overweight continue to struggle with healthcare inequity.

Follow Cordaro on Instagram @cordaro_santiago

Email Cordaro darodaresu@gmail.com

Sep 09, 202233:52
Melanin Edition: Random Sex Sh*t

Melanin Edition: Random Sex Sh*t

Cordaro reflects on having lots of sex, toxic F-buddies, having a good time, insecurities, and more.  

Connect with Cordaro on Instagram @cordaro_santiago

Email Cordaro at darodaresu@gmail.com

Sep 02, 202219:31
The Melanin Edition: Single Life is Ok

The Melanin Edition: Single Life is Ok

Cordaro isn't a hypocrite, he's just embracing the journey.  Hear why he decided to NOT start going out, and what he's doing instead...

Follow Cordaro on Instagram @cordaro_santiago

Email Cordaro at darodaresu@gmail.com

Aug 26, 202226:04
Melanin Edition: Mid-Season Check In

Melanin Edition: Mid-Season Check In

Cordaro shares what to expect from the podcast, music, his writing, and more.  Be sure to subscribe so you don't miss a thing!

Follow Cordaro on Instagram @cordaro_santiago

Email Cordaro at darodaresu@gmail.com

Aug 05, 202214:06
Melanin Edition: Love You Granny

Melanin Edition: Love You Granny

Cordaro and his cousin share memories about their granny, discuss how her life impacted them, and more.  Enjoy this walk down memory lane centered around one woman's life built in Chicago in the 70s, 80s, and 90s.

Follow Cordaro on Instagram @darodaresu

Email Cordaro using darodaresu@gmail.com

Jul 29, 202247:36
Melanin Edition: FU*K Politics with Jimmy (Part 2)

Melanin Edition: FU*K Politics with Jimmy (Part 2)

Racism, Abortion law, religion, the Supreme Court and more.  Hear why Jimmy and Cordaro are TIRED, and what they think about everything that's going on in America these days.

Follow Cordaro on Instagram @cordaro_santiago

Email Cordaro using darodaresu@gmail.com

Jul 27, 202201:05:30
Melanin Edition: FU*K Politics with Jimmy (part 1)

Melanin Edition: FU*K Politics with Jimmy (part 1)

This world is crazy, and it's time to talk about gun laws, abortion, and more with Cordaro and his political expert Jimmy.

Connect with Cordaro on Instagram @cordaro_santiago

Email Cordaro at darodaresu@gmail.com

Jul 22, 202244:26
Melanin Edition: 100th Episode Celebration with Nisha!

Melanin Edition: 100th Episode Celebration with Nisha!

Happy 100th to all the loyal Dare Bears!  A special thanks to those who have been loyal listeners - and congratulations to the 100th episode contest winner Nisha!  She is joining Cordaro on this very special episode - tune in for the tea, to learn a little more about Nisha, and to celebrate with Cordaro.

Email Cordaro at darodaresu@gmail.com

Follow Cordaro on Instagram @cordaro_santiago

Jul 15, 202240:04
Melanin Edition: I'm Not Going Out Again

Melanin Edition: I'm Not Going Out Again

Y'all act funny around fat people, charge too much for basic drinks, men won't dance with the fat girls, and aren't making it fun, so Cordaro is done going out.  Period.


Connect with Cordaro on Instagram @cordaro_santiago

Email Cordaro at darodaresu@gmail.com

Jul 08, 202222:30
Melanin Edition: The Real City Girl - Den

Melanin Edition: The Real City Girl - Den

Tune in for the kiki of the summer.  Cordaro and Den chat all things love, friendship, DL men, college experiences, future goals, and more.

Find Den on Instagram @vintag3den

Find Cordaro on Instagram @daro_santiago

Email Cordaro at darodaresu@gmail.com

Jul 01, 202247:28
Melanin Edition: Zeus Network I Got Smoke

Melanin Edition: Zeus Network I Got Smoke

Why does Zeus Network constantly portray gay men, especially female presenting gay men, as always being ghetto?  Cordaro shares why he refuses to buy into the constant push of fighting, angry, catty behavior on reality TV.

Follow Cordaro on Instagram @cordaro_santiago

Email Cordaro at darodaresu@gmail.com

Jun 24, 202221:08
Melanin Edition: Masculine DL Men Only

Melanin Edition: Masculine DL Men Only

Welcome back Dare Bears!  In this episode, Cordaro lights up and lets it all out - the challenges of being a plus size gay man, starting an Only Fans, the best sex he's ever had, and more.  You aren't ready for this episode, but hit play anyway LOL.

Follow Cordaro on Instagram @cordaro_santiago

Email Cordaro with topics, questions, and more when you message darodaresu@gmail.com

Jun 17, 202227:59