Dasagrandhi Charan Talks

Handling expectations in life is the toughest thing, if not managed properly will affect your life very badly. In this episode, I discuss the secret mantra to handle expectations in life effectively.

f you observe your body is constantly fighting for you even in the times you neglect it and poison it with a lot of junk food and unhealthy habits.  You are constantly exposed to many infections and viruses or disease-causing agents. But your body keeping all these secrets to you and fighting to keep your health! The moment your body losses the spirit of fighting you are no longer alive and simple flu can cost your life.  Remember your body is your great companion of you and protector of you! Not your wife, parents, or children can be that great warrior for your life as your body!  When your body is exhibiting such an immense character of a great warrior. How fair it is for you to discourage it with fear?  Let us raise our courage to infinity scale, as truly it is and fight the situation with strong mental health! Strong will has no defeat, as your spirit of fighting is immortal by inspiring many around you!!

Your mental health is key to physical health! We have seen many examples where people with strong willpower have overcome many dangerous diseases. Some people live with it lifelong but do incredible things without worrying about the illness. We have many examples, like Stephen Hawkins.

We often get stuck in the past and spoil our present. We also struggle to focus, even though we know this is leading to our destruction. To help us in this process, I present your story of monks, one of the most inspirational stories of my life.

In the age where education is merely a business, the student-teacher relation is more of a financial transaction where students give money in return teacher gives education. The student sees the teacher as if he is teaching because he is paying, and the teacher looks at students as a source of income. In this situation, where and how does the educating process can happen? That is the reason why we see today, students don’t have respect for teachers and the same is with teachers too. So only the divinity and morality in the knowledge transfer process is lost, this is the reason why our present education system is unable to produce students with great character.  This is a  story is from Chandogya Upanishad that inspired Adi ShankaracharyaJi too. 

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Life is a war situation. Like in war, we should always be prepared for some surprises and unknown challenges every second. In our lives we face various challenges where, be it in career, relationships, goals or any other sort. These situations will really shake our true strengths and put us in self-doubt of can we really set ourselves back on track and fight back. These challenges are no different than facing an enemy in war, if you loose your focus a nano sec you are no more. The same is in life too.

To win this war of life, always think of yourself as a warrior who never stops his fight whatsoever may happen to him or in his surroundings. A warrior never stops his fight to attain victory. If you read any war, you will observe despite fellow soldiers dying one doesn’t lose his courage and focus whatsoever may happen in a fight and continues to fight for the greater cause. So should we fight in life without fear of death, even though we lose many things! Death is not in our hands but fighting with courage is definitely in our hands! My dear friends, it is very unfair to accept defeat with fear even before fighting the war.

Remember the great saying of a Chinese warrior Sun Tzu, “Every battle is won before it is fought!”

In this war situation what we need is not helplessness, fear, and lack of courage.

All we need is courage, a fighting spirit, a strong will to overcome this situation and trust within ourselves and unity…

Let’s not live life with fear, it is not the basic nature of this gigantic creation.  Because Fighting spirit is in your birth and creation. Why do you want to kill it, when you are body is fighting for you??

Be that warrior, train yourself to be such a warrior to such great battle of life. Have immense trust in you and you have that character of a warrior. My dear sister just awakens the warrior in you, for that you need to lot of training and prepare yourself to be that great warrior. Train yourself mentally, physically, and emotionally and attain that skill..

Anything can be attained with constant practice. You need to remember that you practice anything for a long time for you will master it. Feel blessed to have this life as you actually are! For survival, nature has gifted you the inherent quality of warrior for survival. It is we who is killing it! Awaken the true warrior hidden in you, there is no good time for it. Why do you want to pretend that you are weak when you actually are not! Come on let's awaken the warrior and live life with full strength.

Finally, I would like to conclude by reminding the saying of Chinese warrior Sun Tzu, every battle is won before it is fought!

‘Thank you

It is painful to see people losing life in this COVID 19 pandemic, sad thing is most of the deaths are due to immense fear and other mental health related issues like anxiety. even though other factors continued to be debated on a political scale, which is not in our control. If you look at the covid deaths, 90 percent are due to fear and other weak mental health.

It is very sad to see that the entire world is in immense fear for COVID, despite evidencing a recovery rate somewhere close to 95-97%.  My family including me got infected with So-called COVID, but we decided not to surrender to it rather had a courageous mindset.

My dear fellow beings, it is very unfair to accept defeat with fear even before fighting the war of COVID.

Remember the great saying of a Chinese warrior, every battle is won before it is fought! COVID is a war situation and let's not accept the failure without fighting the battle by assuming we are weak!

Your mental health is key to physical health! We have seen many examples, where people with strong willpower have overcome many dangerous diseases. Some people are living with it lifelong but doing some awesome things without worrying about the illness. We have many examples like Stephen Hawkings

Definitely, COVID is a war situation, where everyone got to fight this. In this war situation what we need is not helplessness, fear, and lack of courage.

All we need is courage, fighting spirit, strong will to overcome this situation and moreover trust within ourselves and unity...

If you have read any war, you will observe despite fellow soldiers dying one doesn’t lose his courage and continues to fight for the greater cause. So should we fight in this situation without fear of death! Death is not in our hands, but fighting with courage is definitely in our hands!

Let's not live life with fear, it is not the basic nature of this gigantic creation. Because Fighting spirit is in your birth and creation. Why do you want to kill it, when you are body is fighting for you??

If you observe your body is constantly fighting for you even in the times you neglect it and poison it with a lot of junk food and unhealthy habits.

You are constantly exposed to many infections and viruses or disease-causing agents. But your body keeping all these secret to you and fighting to keep your health! The moment your body losses the spirit of fighting you are no longer alive and simple flue can cost your life.

Remember your body is the great companion of you and protector of you! Not your wife, parents, children can be that great warrior for your life as your body!

When your body is exhibiting such an immense character of a great warrior. How fair it is for you to discourage it with fear?

Let us raise our courage to infinity scale, as truly it is and fights the COVID situation with strong mental health! Strong will has no defeat, as your spirit of fighting is immortal by inspiring many around you!!

Common friends. Cheer up we are born brave, let us awaken the fighting spirit in us.

Finally, I would like to conclude by reminding the saying of Chinese warrior Sun Tzu, every battle is won before it is fought! COVID is a war situation and lets us not accept failure without fighting the battle by assuming we are weak!

Not raising your voice and inaction is mostly considered a negative thing without defining the context. Today we are discussing “Why Not Voicing and Inaction is Powerful and makes more sense at times?”

When some tries to throw blame or say something we don’t like or feel correct! to prove our honesty or justify our thoughts, we feel we should raise our voice and give a reply whether they accept it or not, without worrying about what state of mindset they are in?

People around motivate us by telling us that we should voice our opinion and reply then on, without understanding the situation or whether the other person is in a position to listen or not matters!

Voicing or reacting to a situation or particular person is good, but not all the time.

Here “Not giving a reply doesn’t mean we are coward or not have the capability? ”

Most of the societal learning we have so far teaches only to react and voice irrespective of the situation! This is why most relationships are broken and lives are also lost!

Say what is the point of voicing in front of a fool when he is working hard to justify himself?

We should voice out, but I think sometimes inaction or not responding is the best action, which gives opportunity to keep up inner peace and to assess the overall situation..

When you act and voice in a space you aren’t supposed to, this will worsen the situation than not voicing, here voice becomes noise!!

Refer To : http://www.dasagrandhicharan.com/why-not-voicing-and-inaction-is-a-great-virtue-and-makes-more-sense-at-times/

In the age of social and digital media, the identity crisis is a serious problem.

People want to be identified and talked about, they are imbibing the same in children too which is a seriously worrying factor. In this process to get the attention people are doing some insane things to get attention!

They are forgetting the fact that by craving for wrong attention they are getting mislead from the true Identity one is gifted with.

People to get the attention they feel they have to be something special than what they are gifted with! Understand every creation is unique, by being somebody or by trying to be supernatural we are spoiling our own identity and we are just mimicking others and not being truthful to us.

This identity crisis problem is driving mob mentality in everyone!

People don't understand individuality and misunderstand it as to be being different and to be called different..

This shows a sense of insecurity in them and the same reflects in society too in every aspect of life. That's why we are not progressing as society! Nations compare with other nations and try to mimic some other nation, rather than trying to understand its social structure is different from the others, which is unique and they should work up on. With this a Nation cannot be built as the soul of a nation that is individuality will be missing..

This is the reason why marketing theories are driving human thought!

The basic questions of who actually are we?

and what actually are we gifted with?

What we should be doing with this life?

And how are we connected in this web of life?

How we are being screwed and how this is disturbing the society web, which is a chain of everyone?

These questions proceed endlessly..

So as to shape a person into an Individual and character that is wisdom driven...

People should come out of the identity crisis and should stop being someone else in the name of being different.  and start being themselves to understand what they are actually good at!

Let us not become blind followers of some untruth and misfortune. At the end of life when you ask yourselves what you are you find others, not what actually you are

Finally I would like to conclude with a statement from movie Departed which says:

I don't want to be a product of my environment.. I want my environment to be a product of me..

-The Departed Movie

It is natural for everyone to make mistakes. But, the percentage of people who do mistakes knowingly is more! Here we are going to introspect and understand how this is happening and how to correct it! Being bound in endless illusion, we pretend and convince ourselves that what we do, and what we think is right! Moreover, we think we are progressing rather than understanding the mistake. So, let us start fixing mistakes! Correcting is an act of courage; it is not weak or coward.