Date Smarter. Sexier.
By Andrea LaRosa
Date Smarter. Sexier. Jun 27, 2021
S5E11: The Status Quo: Unraveling Our Obsession With Relationship Statuses
S5E11: The Status Quo: Unraveling Our Obsession With Relationship Statuses
Summary
In this episode of Date Smarter Sexier, host Andrea LaRosa explores the phenomenon of perseveration in dating and relationships. She begins by discussing the waiting game after a great first date and how it can lead to constant checking of phones and overthinking. Andrea then explains the shift from dating to a committed relationship and the uncertainty that comes with it. She delves into the reasons why people perseverate on their relationship status, including societal pressure and the comparison trap. Andrea emphasizes the importance of embracing one's current status and advocating for oneself in relationships.
Takeaways
The beginning stages of a relationship can be filled with uncertainty and overthinking.
Societal pressure and the comparison trap contribute to perseverating on relationship status.
Being comfortable with your singlehood and embracing your current status is important.
Effective communication and advocating for yourself are key in navigating relationships.
Chapters
00:00 Introduction: The Waiting Game
01:12 The Shift from Dating to Relationship
07:35 Reasons for Perseverating on Relationship Status
09:18 Societal Pressure
12:35 The Comparison Trap
13:26 Inner Workings and Relationship with Self
16:24 Embracing Your Current Status
21:39 Conclusion: The Only Status that Matters
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S5E10: Managing Expectations with guest Julia Bendis
Summary
In this conversation, Andrea and Julia explore the topic of managing expectations in dating and relationships. They start by doing a tarot card reading to gain guidance on managing expectations. They discuss the importance of being open-minded and not getting stuck in patterns that haven't worked in the past. They also touch on the pressure to look younger and fit in the dating world. They emphasize the need for depth and shared values in relationships, rather than solely focusing on physical attributes. They conclude by highlighting the impact of physical fitness on a healthy sex life. In this conversation, Julia and Andrea discuss various aspects of sexual intimacy and communication. They cover topics such as navigating first-time experiences, giving and receiving direction, exploring new experiences, and understanding individual preferences. They emphasize the importance of open-mindedness, effective communication, and managing expectations in order to create fulfilling sexual relationships. Overall, the conversation highlights the need for honest and open dialogue to enhance intimacy and pleasure.
Takeaways
Focus on one area at a time when exploring sexual intimacy.
Communication and feedback are crucial for a satisfying sexual experience.
Be open-minded and willing to explore new experiences.
Understand that individual preferences and pleasure vary.
Effective communication and managing expectations are key to creating fulfilling sexual relationships.
Chapters
00:00 Introduction and Tarot Card Reading
03:23 Managing Expectations in Relationships
08:07 Interpreting the Tarot Card Reading
13:14 The Role of Tarot Cards in Dating and Relationships
16:01 The Importance of Being Open-Minded
21:12 The Pressure to Look Younger and Fit
28:34 Managing Expectations and Finding Common Ground
33:09 The Importance of Depth in Relationships
35:13 The Impact of Physical Fitness on Sex Life
37:06 Covering all the bases
38:29 Navigating first-time experiences
39:51 Communication and feedback
41:46 Giving and receiving direction
42:46 Importance of communication in intimacy
43:56 Exploring new experiences
45:17 Understanding individual preferences
46:33 The mental aspect of pleasure
48:23 Managing expectations
S5E9: Is the High Value Woman a Unicorn?
Summary
In this conversation, Andrea discusses the concept of the high value woman and addresses the debates and pushback she has received. She explores the definition of a unicorn and questions whether the high value woman can be considered a unicorn. Andrea then outlines the seven elements that make up a high value woman, including independence, the willingness to walk away, and self-awareness. She emphasizes that high value is subjective and encourages individuals to define their own value. Andrea also discusses traits that may not align with high value and the importance of self-reflection.
Takeaways
High value is a subjective concept and can be defined differently by individuals.
The high value woman is not a unicorn, but rather someone who possesses qualities such as independence, self-awareness, and the willingness to walk away.
Low value traits include lack of self-respect, over-dependency, dishonesty, manipulation, and unwillingness to communicate or compromise.
It is important to define value for oneself and focus on personal growth and self-improvement.
Get the Girl: Dating the High Value Woman: https://a.co/d/9xqamWm
Defining the HVW
Wrote the book on it! My list are possibilities, there is no hard and fast rule
This is how I define HV but someone else can define it differently, that’s the beauty of having choice and being able to think for ourselves
If he isn’t college educated does that mean he’s not high value?
Experts in the dating world are defining HVW by their status
Defining the Unicorn
something unusual, rare, or unique.
A person who is very attractive AND has a fabulous personality
YouTube video that went viral about the what a unicorn is
Does that mean anyone else is of low value?
Define a low value, it’s subjective
Does a woman who lacks self esteem and likes to pick fights a HVW?
Lack of Self-Respect: This can manifest in many ways, like constantly putting oneself down, tolerating disrespectful behavior from others, or not standing up for one's own needs and boundaries. Gym pics or half naked selfies
Over-Dependence: While interdependence is healthy in a relationship, over-dependence, either emotionally or financially, without the effort to contribute or improve oneself, can be viewed negatively.
Dishonesty and Manipulation: Consistently being dishonest, playing mind games, or manipulating others for personal gain can definitely be seen as "low value" traits.
Lack of Ambition or Drive: Having no personal goals, ambitions, or the desire to grow can be a turn-off for many. This isn't about financial success per se, but more about having a passion and zest for life.
Unwillingness to Communicate or Compromise: Relationships are a two-way street. An inability or unwillingness to communicate effectively, listen to a partner’s needs, or compromise can hinder the growth of a healthy relationship.
Chronic Negativity: Constant pessimism, complaining, or seeing the worst in every situation can be draining and unattractive to potential partners.
Irresponsibility: This could be in terms of finances, career, personal health, or other obligations. Consistently shirking responsibilities can be a sign of immaturity and unreliability.
Hostility or Abusive Behavior: Engaging in verbal, emotional, or physical abuse is not only a "low value" trait but is entirely unacceptable in any relationship.
Lack of Empathy: Being unable or unwilling to understand or share the feelings of others can be a major red flag in relationships.
Superficiality and Materialism: Focusing solely on surface-level attributes such as looks, money, or social status, while neglecting deeper values and connections.
Who decides what to value?
The idea of High Value has spiraled
Why we label as HVW because men have been saying how they are attracted to strong independent women, which could be defined as HV
We don’t like labels
The fight around HV is about saying that if you’re not HV then you must be low value
Not every thing is black and white
S5E8: "Don't Fall for 'The One' Who's All Wrong - Understanding Romance Scams
Summary:
In this thrilling episode of "Date Smarter Sexier," we delve into the shadowy world of romance scams, a digital-age Cupid’s arrow gone awry. Imagine this: 70,000 heartbreaks and a staggering $1.3 billion lost in 2022 alone! We unravel the devious 'Pig Butchering' scam, where charmers turn into financial butchers, and share bone-chilling real-life tales, from a fake surgeon to an oil rig Casanova. Our experts arm you with red flags to watch for and lifesaving tips like reverse image searches and consulting a love "board of advisors." It's not just about the scams; it's about staying smart, sexy, and above all, safe in the perilous quest for love. Tune in and learn how to protect your heart and your wallet in the world of modern dating.
Chapters:
Understanding Romance Scams
Pig Butchering Scams: A Deep Dive
Spotting the Red Flags
Real Stories of Victims
Navigating Out of Scam Webs
S5E7: Unraveling the Complexities of Modern Dating Terms aka DTR
Summary
In this episode, Andrea discusses the complexities of dating labels and the challenges they present in the early stages of a relationship. She explores the different terms used to describe the various phases of dating, such as talking, casual, hanging out, dating, exclusive, and situationship. Andrea emphasizes the importance of clear communication and defining what these labels mean to each individual. She also addresses the fear of getting hurt and the healing process that follows. Additionally, Andrea delves into the differences between exclusivity and monogamy, as well as the gray areas of situationships. She provides guidance on how to have conversations about labels and offers insights on understanding where you stand in a relationship. The key takeaway is to focus on the behavior and needs within the relationship rather than getting caught up in the labels.
Takeaways
Clear communication and defining labels are crucial in the early stages of dating.
Different terms like talking, casual, hanging out, dating, exclusive, and situationship have different meanings to different people.
The fear of getting hurt can impact the way we approach relationships.
Defining the relationship and understanding each other's pace is important.
There is a difference between exclusivity and monogamy.
Situationships can be complex and require open communication.
Having conversations about labels can be uncomfortable but necessary.
Understanding where you stand in a relationship is essential for your emotional well-being.
Pay attention to behavior and whether your needs are being met rather than focusing solely on labels.
The most important aspect of dating is to keep learning and growing.
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S5E6: Mastering the Art of Listening in Relationships w/ Guest, David Cooke
Dave Cooke is a seasoned business consultant and communication expert with a focus on improving listening behaviors.
With over forty years of experience in sales, relationship development, and strategic advising, Dave excels in helping organizations and leaders enhance communication and problem-solving through his Selfless Listening program. This program aids in building trust, fostering better relationships, and promoting effective teamwork and collaboration.
Additionally, Dave has successfully applied these techniques in assisting parents with children facing substance abuse challenges.
His guiding principle, "open your eyes, ears, heart, and mind," underpins his belief that effective listening can transform interactions and relationships. Dave is also an accomplished podcaster, author, speaker, and executive coach
Summary
In this episode, Andrea and David Cooke discuss the importance of listening in effective communication. They explore the difference between listening and hearing, and the impact of technology on listening skills. They also discuss the power of nonverbal cues and the importance of silence in communication. Additionally, they share insights on effective communication in relationships and navigating communication challenges. The conversation explores the importance of creating a safe space for authenticity and active listening. It provides insights on improving listening skills in a Zoom era and being an active listener without a mirror. The conversation also discusses the significance of flipping the phone over as a signal of attention and the importance of being authentic in communication.
Takeaways
Listening is a key element in effective communication and building trust.
Nonverbal cues, such as eye contact and facial expressions, play a crucial role in active listening.
Technology can be a distraction in communication, and it is important to create boundaries to stay present in conversations.
Internalizing information and demonstrating understanding are essential in effective listening.
Effective communication in relationships requires understanding and respecting each other's communication styles and setting clear expectations. Create a safe space for others to be authentic by being authentic yourself.
Practice active listening in virtual meetings by focusing on the other person's face and body language.
Improve listening skills by avoiding distractions like phones and watches.
Flipping the phone over can signal to the other person that you are giving them your full attention.
Be authentic in your communication and don't try to be someone you're not.
Chapters
00:00 Introduction and Importance of Listening
04:04 The Importance of Listening and Building Trust
05:11 Recognizing Active Listening
06:19 Nonverbal Cues of Active Listening
08:06 Understanding Facial Expressions
09:20 Dealing with Distractions
11:12 The Impact of Technology on Listening
13:34 The Difference Between Listening and Hearing
14:55 The Power of Internalizing Information
18:40 Balancing Body Language and Verbal Affirmations
21:28 The Importance of Silence in Communication
25:10 Effective Communication in Relationships
28:01 Understanding Differences in Communication Styles
30:42 Setting Clear Expectations in Communication
34:25 Navigating Communication Challenges in Relationships
38:03 Creating a Safe Space for Authenticity
40:20 Improving Listening Skills in a Zoom Era
41:23 Being an Active Listener without a Mirror
43:49 Flipping the Phone Over as a Signal of Attention
45:30 Being Authentic in Communication
50:12 Creating a Safe Space for Authenticity
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S5E5: It’s Cuffing Season and What That Means for You!
Summary
In this episode, Andrea discusses the concept of cuffing season, which refers to the time of year when singles are more inclined to enter into a romantic relationship. She explores the reasons behind cuffing season, such as the desire for warmth and companionship during the colder months and the societal pressure to be in a relationship during the holidays. Andrea also highlights the challenges of cuffing season, including rushed decisions and the potential for relationships to end in the spring. She provides tips for navigating cuffing season, such as knowing oneself, communicating expectations, and enjoying the season regardless of relationship status. Andrea concludes by emphasizing the importance of prioritizing one's own happiness and being open to finding love during cuffing season.
Takeaways
Cuffing season refers to the time of year when singles are more inclined to enter into a romantic relationship.
The desire for warmth and companionship during the colder months and societal pressure during the holidays contribute to cuffing season.
Challenges of cuffing season include rushed decisions and the potential for relationships to end in the spring.
Tips for navigating cuffing season include knowing oneself, communicating expectations, and enjoying the season regardless of relationship status.
Chapters
00:00 Introduction to Cuffing Season
01:28 Reasons for Cuffing Season
04:13 The Pressure of Cuffing Season
06:03 Rushed Decisions and Expiration Date
06:56 Reevaluating Relationships in Spring
08:21 Navigating Cuffing Season
12:42 Cuffing Season and Situationships
13:12 Finding Love During Cuffing Season
16:19 Dating or Not During Cuffing Season
18:50 Conclusion
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S5E4: "Less Talking, More Connecting: The Art of First Dates"
Summary
In this episode, Andrea discusses the importance of talking less on first dates and explores alternative ways to connect with your date. She emphasizes the power of silence, the significance of body language, the value of shared experiences, and the art of active listening. By finding a balance between talking and listening, you can create a more meaningful and memorable first date.
Takeaways
Avoid turning a first date into an interview by refraining from asking traditional questions.
Embrace moments of silence and use them as an opportunity to connect on a deeper level.
Pay attention to body language, as it can reveal more about a person than their words.
Engage in shared experiences on first dates to create a bond and showcase problem-solving skills.
Practice active listening and find the right balance between talking and listening.
Chapters
00:00 Introduction: Less is More on First Dates
02:12 Chapter 1: The Power of Silence
05:54 Chapter 2: Body Language
09:12 Chapter 3: Shared Experiences
13:00 Chapter 4: Active Listening
17:35 Conclusion: Less Talking, More Connecting
Watch the Masterclass on first date body language: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cfcAOrboWH0&t=2s
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S5E3: Why He Didn't Call You Back w/ Guest, Chris Gillis
Summary
Get ready for a rollercoaster of an episode with Andrea and Chris on "Date Smarter Sexier"! They're diving deep into the mysterious world of modern dating. Ever wondered why men vanish without a trace? They're tackling the intriguing reasons behind ghosting and unraveling the complex art of breadcrumbing.
Hold on, as they use the fishing analogy to explain why some men keep their options wide open, and dissect the fear of commitment that haunts many. It's a wild ride through the challenges of dating multiple people and the intense pressure to build an empire.
Brace yourself for an honest conversation about the struggle to express emotions and the tempting escape of ghosting. They're not shying away from the hot topic of entitlement and the pursuit of a higher 'rating' in the dating game.
The episode reaches a thrilling climax with a bold discussion on the pitfalls of Facebook groups and the fear of being exposed in the digital age.
But that's not all! Chris and Andrea also delve into the magnetic allure of feminine energy, the delicate timing of sexual activity, and the profound impact of sex on bonding. They're bringing mindfulness into dating, urging us to savor the journey and cherish the age-old art of courting.
This episode is a treasure trove of insights on love, relationships, and everything in between. Tune in for a mesmerizing exploration of the heart's deepest desires and fears. Don't miss this electrifying episode of "Date Smarter Sexier"!
Contact:
Chris Gillis:
IG and TikTok: @ConsultantChris
Website: www.ConsultantChris.com
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Chapters
00:00 Introduction
01:35 Why Do Men Ghost?
04:32 The Lure of the Unicorn
07:48 Fear of Expressing Emotions
10:26 Taking Ownership of Ghosting
14:16 The Entitlement Issue
19:08 The Independent Woman Dilemma
25:15 The Disappointment of Settling
30:26 Making Him Feel Appreciated
37:20 The Fear of Being Exposed
40:11 The Attraction of Feminine Energy
41:06 The Timing of Sexual Activity
45:07 Being Mindful in Dating
47:28 Appreciating the Courting Process
47:52 Closing Remarks and Contact Information
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S5E2: Getting Real About Condom Use With New Partners with Guest Canaan Dewey
In this insightful and engaging episode of "Date Smarter Sexier," we delve into a topic that's both crucial and often tiptoed around: the use of condoms in the dating world. Joined by the ever-charismatic Canaan, we embark on a frank discussion about the importance of condom usage for safe and responsible dating.
The episode kicks off with a light-hearted yet informative exploration of the basics of condom use, emphasizing not just the 'how' but the 'why' behind this essential practice. Canaan, with his unique blend of humor and expertise, and your show host, Andrea LaRosa, help demystify misconceptions and apprehensions surrounding condom usage.
As we dive deeper, the conversation shifts to address some of the challenges and obstacles people often face. We talk about the awkwardness that can arise in conversations about condoms with new partners, the myths versus facts about pleasure and sensitivity, and how to navigate situations where opinions about condom use differ.
This episode is a must-listen for anyone navigating the modern dating scene, offering a perfect mix of lighthearted banter and serious, thoughtful discussion about an issue that impacts everyone in the dating world.
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S5 Episode 1: New Beginnings!!! Solo Flight into Navigating the World of Mature Dating
Summary
Get ready for a brand new season of "Date Smarter Sexier" with your fabulous host, Andrea LaRosa! This season kicks off with a bang as Andrea dives into the exciting and often overlooked world of dating in life's golden years. 🌟
In this must-listen episode, Andrea shares eye-opening insights from her experience watching "The Golden Bachelor", shedding light on the unique challenges and adventures faced by mature singles in the quest for love. It's a fascinating journey into the heart of the dating scene for older individuals.
But wait, there's more! Andrea doesn't just explore the hurdles; she celebrates the incredible benefits of dating later in life. Get ready to be inspired by her expert tips for successful and joyous mature dating. She's talking about embracing technology with a zest for life, the art of patience in love, and the absolute necessity of open, honest communication.
And here's the heartwarming part: Andrea's passionate call to appreciate and support older adults as they navigate their dating journeys. This episode isn't just informative; it's a heartfelt tribute to the timeless nature of love and romance.
So, grab your headphones and prepare to be enlightened, entertained, and inspired. This episode of "Date Smarter Sexier" is an absolute game-changer for anyone interested in the rich tapestry of mature dating. Tune in now and join Andrea on this remarkable journey!
Takeaways
Dating in the later stages of life can present unique challenges, such as navigating technology and family dynamics.
However, there are also benefits to dating later in life, including a depth of experience and clear priorities.
Tips for successful mature dating include embracing technology, staying patient, and maintaining open communication.
It is important to appreciate and support older adults in their dating journeys.
Chapters
00:00 Introduction to a New Season
02:05 Dating in the Later Stages of Life
06:02 Challenges of Dating When You're Older
12:17 Benefits of Dating Later in Life
15:24 Tips for Successful Mature Dating
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S4 FINALE: "100th EPISODE!!!"
In this episode of "Date Smarter. Sexier.", matchmaker and dating expert, Andrea LaRosa discuss ways to have better relationships with lovers, platonic and self with her co-host and producer, Canaan John Dewey.
Season 5 Starts 10.20.2023
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S4 Episode 24: "Breaking Down Stereotypes: The Untold Intersection of Slut Shaming and Jealousy"
In this episode of "Date Smarter. Sexier.", matchmaker and dating expert, Andrea LaRosa discuss shaming and jealousy within dating and relationships with her co-host and producer, Canaan John Dewey.
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S4 Episode 23: "Effective Strategies for Surviving Life and Peer Pressure When Dating"
In this episode of "Date Smarter. Sexier.", matchmaker and dating expert, Andrea LaRosa discuss effective ways to survive life and peer pressure when dating or in a relationship with her co-host and producer, Canaan John Dewey.
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S4 Episode 22: "Love Across the Miles and Side by Side: Exploring the Challenges of Long-Distance Dating and Working from Home"
In this episode of "Date Smarter. Sexier.", matchmaker and dating expert, Andrea LaRosa discusses opposite spectrums for some modern couples; managing long-distance relationship expectations and how to work from home together and keep the spark alive with her co-host and producer, Canaan Dewey.
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S4 Episode 21: SUMMER TRIPS FOR ONE! (Strengthen Your Relationship With Yourself)
In this episode of "Date Smarter. Sexier.", matchmaker and dating expert, Andrea LaRosa discusses strengthening the relationship we have with outselves with solo trips with her co-host and producer, Canaan Dewey.
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S4 Episode 20: "Answering Your Questions About Relationships Part 2"
In this episode of "Date Smarter. Sexier.", matchmaker and dating expert, Andrea LaRosa is answering your questions about love, dating and relationships with her co-host and producer, Canaan Dewey.
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S4 Episode 19: "The Impact of Grief on Your Relationship"
In this episode of "Date Smarter. Sexier.", matchmaker and dating expert, Andrea LaRosa discuss how grief can have a significant impact on relationships with her co-host and producer, Canaan John Dewey.
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S4 Episode 18: "WILDCARD"
In this episode of "Date Smarter. Sexier.", matchmaker and dating expert, Andrea LaRosa discusses whatever comes to mind about love, dating, sex and relationships with her co-host and producer, Canaan John Dewey.
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S4 Episode 17: "How To Salvage a Broken Relationship "
In this episode of "Date Smarter. Sexier.", matchmaker and dating expert, Andrea LaRosa discuss how and when to salvage a broken relationship with her co-host and producer, Canaan John Dewey.
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S4 Episode 16: "16 Ways to Show Your Man Some Extra Love this Father's Day"
In this episode 16 of "Date Smarter. Sexier.", matchmaker and dating expert, Andrea LaRosa discuss 16 ways to show the father of your kids some extra appreciation for Father's Day with her co-host and producer, Canaan John Dewey.
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S4 Episode 15: " 10 Way to Keep Your Relationship HOT!"
In this episode of "Date Smarter. Sexier.", matchmaker and dating expert, Andrea LaRosa discusses ways to keep the spark alive in your relationship with her co-host and producer, Canaan John Dewey.
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S4 Episode 14: "Little White Lies: The Importance of Honesty in Your Relationship"
In this episode of "Date Smarter. Sexier.", matchmaker and dating expert, Andrea LaRosa discusses the little white lies we tell when we're dating or in a relationship with her co-host and producer, Canaan John Dewey.
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S4 Episode 13: "How to Know When You've Found Your Person"
In this episode of "Date Smarter. Sexier.", matchmaker and dating expert, Andrea LaRosa discuss ways to know if and when you've found your perfect match with her co-host and producer, Canaan John Dewey.
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S4 Episode 12: "The Narcissist in Your Relationship "
In this episode of "Date Smarter. Sexier.", matchmaker and dating expert, Andrea LaRosa discusses how to handle being in a relationship with a narcissist with her co-host and producer, Canaan John Dewey.
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S4 Episode 11: "Taking Care of Mama"
In this episode of "Date Smarter. Sexier.", matchmaker and dating expert, Andrea LaRosa discusses ways to show the mama in your life appreciation with her co-host and producer, Canaan John Dewey.
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S4 Episode 10: "Answering Your Questions About Relationships"
In this episode of "Date Smarter. Sexier.", matchmaker and dating expert, Andrea LaRosa is answering your questions about relationships with her co-host and producer, Canaan John Dewey.
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S4 Episode 9: WILDCARD
In this episode of "Date Smarter. Sexier.", matchmaker and dating expert, Andrea LaRosa discusses whatever comes to mind about love, sex, dating and relationships with her co-host and producer, Canaan John Dewey.
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S4 Episode 8: "The Unofficial 6th Love Language"
In this episode of "Date Smarter. Sexier.", matchmaker and dating expert, Andrea LaRosa discusses what could possible be the 6th love laguage with her co-host and producer, Canaan John Dewey.
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S4 Episode 7: "The Love Language Shuffle: From Dating to Coupled"
In this episode of "Date Smarter. Sexier.", matchmaker and dating expert, Andrea LaRosa discusses gift giving and how love language shifts when shifting from dating into a relationship with her co-host and producer, Canaan John Dewey.
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S4 Episode 6: "Opposites Do Attract"
In this episode of "Date Smarter. Sexier.", matchmaker and dating expert, Andrea LaRosa discusses why opposites attract with her co-host and producer, Canaan John Dewey.
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S4 Episode 5: "How You Say It" (Part 3/3) " - 3 Part Relationship Communication Series
In this episode of "Date Smarter. Sexier.", matchmaker and dating expert, Andrea LaRosa discusses part three of the three part relationship communication series, 'speaking' with her co-host and producer, Canaan John Dewey.
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S4 Episode 4: "How You Hear It" (Part 2/3) " - 3 Part Relationship Communication Series
In this episode of "Date Smarter. Sexier.", matchmaker and dating expert, Andrea LaRosa discusses part two of the three part relationship communication series, 'listening' with her co-host and producer, Canaan John Dewey.
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S4 Episode 3: "What Your Body Says (Part 1/3) " - 3 Part Relationship Communication Series
In this episode of "Date Smarter. Sexier.", matchmaker and dating expert, Andrea LaRosa discusses part one of her three part relationship communication series, 'body language' with her co-host and producer, Canaan John Dewey.
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S4 Episode 2: "Setting Healthy Boundaries in Relationships"
In this episode of "Date Smarter. Sexier.", matchmaker and dating expert, Andrea LaRosa discusses how to set healthy boundaries in a relationship with her co-host and producer, Canaan John Dewey.
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S4 PREMIER: "Welcome Back with Relationships Unfiltered."
In this Season 4 Premiere episode of "Date Smarter. Sexier.", matchmaker and dating expert, Andrea LaRosa discusses what she'll be covering this season with her co-host and producer, Canaan John Dewey.
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Holidate Special: Valentine's Day vs. Super Bowl LVII 2023 - NEW SEASON Starts 03.03.23 at 12N PT
In this episode of "Date Smarter. Sexier.", matchmaker and dating expert, Andrea LaRosa discuss 'Valentines Day v.s Super Bowl LVII 2023' and which takes priority for couples this year with her co-host and producer, Canaan John Dewey.
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S3 FINALE: "New Year, New You, New Goals"
In this episode of "Date Smarter. Sexier.", matchmaker and dating expert, Andrea LaRosa discusses the outlook on 2023 and affirmations to help daters reach their goals with her co-host and producer, Canaan Dewey.
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S3 Ep 23: "Merry Christmas, Daters!"
In this episode of "Date Smarter. Sexier.", matchmaker and dating expert, Andrea LaRosa discusses the affects of Christmas movies on the expectations surrounding love, dating and courtship with her co-host and producer, Canaan Dewey.
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S3 Ep 22: "Dating Unfiltered w/ Karina: The Success Appeal Expert"
In this episode of "Date Smarter. Sexier.", matchmaker and dating expert, Andrea LaRosa discusses dating as a relationship and style expert with Karina J Solomon and her co-host and producer, Canaan Dewey.
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Karina www.successappeal.com
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S3 Ep 21: "Dating Unfiltered w/ Barry: A Single Inspiration"
In this episode of "Date Smarter. Sexier.", matchmaker and dating expert, Andrea LaRosa discusses dating as a best selling author, inspirational speaker and spiritual guide with Barry Selby and her co-host and producer, Canaan Dewey.
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Barry Selby https://www.barryselby.com/book/
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S3 Ep 20: "Answering Your Questions About Dating 2"
In this episode of "Date Smarter. Sexier.",matchmaker and dating expert, Andrea LaRosa answers more listener's questions about dating with her co-host, Canaan Dewey.
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S3 Ep 19: "Do's and Don't of First Dates"
In this episode of "Date Smarter. Sexier.", matchmaker and dating expert, Andrea LaRosa discusses the do's and don't's of first dates with her co-host Canaan Dewey.
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S3 Ep 18: "Astrological Matchmaking" w/ Erika Merriweather [from Instagram Live Taping]
In this episode of "Date Smarter. Sexier.", matchmaker and dating expert, Andrea LaRosa discusses astrological matchmaking with Star Path Astrologer, Erika Merriweather and her co-host, Canaan Dewey.
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S3 Ep 17: "Dating Unfiltered w/ Quintin: A Cali Valley Bear"
In this episode of "Date Smarter. Sexier.", matchmaker and dating expert, Andrea LaRosa discusses dating unfiltered with her co-host and producer, Canaan Dewey and Special Guest, Quintin.
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S3 Ep 16: "Dating Unfiltered w/ Kim: Building Love in a Man's World"
In this episode of "Date Smarter. Sexier.", matchmaker and dating expert, Andrea LaRosa discusses dating unfiltered for a professional woman working in a male dominated industry with her co-host and producer, Canaan Dewey and special guest, Kim.
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S3 Ep 15: "Dating Apps Unfiltered: Tinder Nightmares" [from Instagram Live Taping]
In this episode of "Date Smarter. Sexier.", matchmaker and dating expert, Andrea LaRosa discusses dating app nightmares with her co-host and producer, Canaan Dewey.
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S3 Ep 14: "Dating Unfiltered w/ Sonia: The High Value Woman"
In this episode of "Date Smarter. Sexier.", matchmaker and dating expert, Andrea LaRosa discusses dating unfiltered with her co-host and producer, Canaan Dewey and Special Guest, Sonia Hunt, Author of "NUT JOB: How I Crushed My Food Allergies To Thrive".
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S3 Ep 13: "What's Your Love Language?"
In this episode of "Date Smarter. Sexier.", matchmaker and dating expert, Andrea LaRosa discusses the five types of love language with her co-host and producer, Canaan Dewey.
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S3 Ep 12: "Dating Unfiltered w/ Nathan: Coming Out Mormon"
In this episode of "Date Smarter. Sexier.", matchmaker and dating expert, Andrea LaRosa discusses dating unfiltered with her co-host and producer, Canaan Dewey and Special Guest, Nathan.
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