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Dating Kinky

By Dating Kinky

A ‘cast about love, sex, romance, and kink.
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Why Isn't It Normal To Like The People We Love? #Rant

Dating KinkyFeb 08, 2020

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07:08
Throwback Thursday: Unsolicited Dick Pics, A Look Back
Aug 06, 202005:58
No shortage of change!

No shortage of change!

Just a quick update to let you know what's going on here at Dating Kinky. *smiles* 

Reach us at cs@datingkinky.com

Aug 04, 202004:50
Porch monkeys, maroons, and being cheap: racism and language, in three vignettes.
Jul 20, 202011:41
The chasm between desires and behaviors—or how we can be both right and wrong at the same time.
Jul 15, 202005:22
We are never ready.
Jul 13, 202005:38
“You’re hot.” “No, thank you.” “F you.” (A customer service parable.)
Jul 11, 202006:48
"Well, then just stick it in her a** while she's asleep..."
Jul 10, 202003:18
I'm a little...different in how I think.
Jul 08, 202007:51
Setting and maintaining boundaries: for submissives.
Jul 01, 202021:12
It's against human nature to knowingly make a mistake.
Jun 29, 202004:44
Manipulation & abuse is not always malevolent.
Jun 26, 202007:06
Just what IS an orgasm?
Jun 15, 202017:01
Want to be better at love? Get Better at being single!
Jun 12, 202011:40
“Poly” as lip service?
Jun 10, 202005:03
Be more right.
Jun 08, 202004:24
I said, "Don't do that again," not "You did wrong."
Jun 05, 202003:07
I don't cry a lot.

I don't cry a lot.

A message from Nookie. 

May 31, 202006:10
The weight of the idea of THE ONE...
May 28, 202004:42
It’s not who you are. It’s who I see you as.
May 27, 202006:38
On being understood, intuitively...

On being understood, intuitively...

Studies have shown that those who see love as a perfect unity self-report as being less satisfied with their relationships, and those who believe that sex is some sort of destiny (right person) have less satisfying sex and less satisfied sexual partners, versus those who think that great sex between people comes from learning and getting better together. 

SOURCES:
https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S0022103114000493#!
https://tspace.library.utoronto.ca/handle/1807/80728

Find the transcript for this episode here. 

May 12, 202006:20
true VS. Truth
May 06, 202007:27
Abusive behavior is still abusive—even when they stay.
Apr 29, 202004:44
Using Sex As A Weapon
Apr 28, 202007:58
A model of consent evolution that might help the conversations we're having...
Apr 14, 202008:08
Walking Away Is A Valid Choice, Always
Apr 06, 202003:58
Let's talk about TRUST.
Apr 03, 202003:58
So, You're Masturbating More Now...
Mar 29, 202007:06
You're Always Being Used For What You Offer
Mar 25, 202005:07
Bossy Bottoms & Subdued Submissives
Mar 23, 202004:39
Settling - Don't Do It!
Mar 21, 202005:32
Why We Fall For The Same ___ Over And Over...
Mar 17, 202006:51
Orgasms & Energy Diffusion—Looking for Feedback
Mar 11, 202008:02
Over and Over, I TOLD You
Mar 09, 202005:06
Playing in Public Consensually
Mar 04, 202013:49
What is YOUR Trap?
Feb 28, 202003:44
Potential Pitfalls of Power Exchange in Long-Term Relationships
Feb 27, 202007:47
Hunting the Elusive Unicorn, Finding a Minotaur, Bull Procurement & More
Feb 26, 202009:39
Let's Debate: Seducer or Seduced?
Feb 25, 202004:11
What Is The Best Way To Warn Others About A Predator Without Drama?
Feb 25, 202004:44
What if My Consent is Broken?
Feb 21, 202005:43
The Sexual Divide: A Rant
Feb 19, 202003:52
Knowledge is NOT Necessarily Power
Feb 18, 202006:15
Shame & Kink, Kink & Shame
Feb 14, 202005:20
My Personal Unpopular Theory of Responsibility
Feb 13, 202006:44
Why Isn't It Normal To Like The People We Love? #Rant
Feb 08, 202007:08
Roberto Gets Around, For Good Reason
Feb 05, 202003:01
How much does body language help/hinder communication?

How much does body language help/hinder communication?

A sneak peek at my communication book as I write it this week. 

Feb 04, 202004:31
Communication Is Too THE MOST IMPORTANT Part Of A Relationship
Feb 03, 202008:38
Hi, I’m Nookie, And I’m A Hug-aholic (And I LOVE Science-y Shit)!
Jan 31, 202011:02
Subspace & Lightweights & Consenting When We Shouldn't
Jan 29, 202008:42