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Dear Queers™

Dear Queers™

By Brendan Gates & Marissa Bohrer

Have you ever wanted all your burning questions about sex and relationships to be answered by a bisexual therapist and a gay filmmaker? Good thing you found this podcast, then! Every episode, Marissa and Brendan answer listener-submitted "queer-ies" on sexuality, dating, LGBTQ+ issues, and more. It's the advice podcast you never knew you needed and the puns you wish never existed.
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Queer Reviews: Love Lies Bleeding

Dear Queers™ Apr 01, 2024

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Queer Reviews: Love Lies Bleeding
Apr 01, 202442:41
Dear Tattoos
Mar 11, 202455:01
Dear Bach Parties
Feb 19, 202447:02
Dear Fresh Starts
Jan 12, 202439:08
Dear Thanksgiving
Nov 20, 202339:35
Queer Reviews: Bottoms
Oct 02, 202346:20
Dear Gay Parents (with Yan & Alex of Daddy Squared Podcast)
Sep 18, 202301:07:18
Dear Intersex (with Activist and Scholar Sean Saifa Wall)
Aug 28, 202342:59
Dear Bisexuality
Aug 14, 202339:29
Queer Reviews: The Ultimatum Queer Love
Jul 17, 202353:20
Dear Pride
Jun 26, 202331:34
Dear School (with Youth Program Specialist Catie Chappell)
Apr 17, 202351:46
Dear Celebrities
Mar 27, 202345:38
Dear Social Media
Feb 13, 202335:33
Dear Non-Monogamy (with Therapist Sydney Radler)
Jan 23, 202352:20
Dear Hair
Nov 14, 202244:00
Dear Orgasms
Oct 24, 202246:49
P.S. Or Else!!! You Thought You Escaped?!
Jul 18, 202220:22
Dear Money
May 17, 202235:01
Dear Weddings
May 02, 202239:08
Dear Aging
Apr 18, 202238:44
Dear Body Image
Mar 28, 202242:13
Dear Parents
Mar 07, 202234:17
Dear Pets
Feb 15, 202234:26
Dear Community (with Writer/Mover/Shaker Extraordinaire Danny Barry)
Jan 24, 202256:07
Dear Penises (with Urologist Dr. Joshua Gonzalez)
Jan 10, 202246:24
Dear Sex Toys
Dec 27, 202146:28
Dear High School Reunion
Dec 13, 202144:19
Dear Cheating
Nov 29, 202144:23
Dear Drugs
Nov 16, 202142:20
Dear Nudes
Nov 01, 202144:23
Dear Trauma (with Trauma Queen, Consultant, & Sex Educator Jimanekia Eborn)
Oct 18, 202144:43
Dear Speech & Voice (with Speech-Language Pathologist Janet Hawley)

Dear Speech & Voice (with Speech-Language Pathologist Janet Hawley)

Our first guest of season 2 has arrived! Janet Hawley is a speech pathologist and a professor in the University of Arizona's school of Speech, Language, and Hearing Sciences. Janet describes her work in this field, and in particular her passion for trans voice and working with the trans community. 

For business inquiries or to submit a question, email us at dearqueers.pod@gmail.com  

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Original music by Andrew Linn https://andrewlinnmusic.com | @andrewlinnmusic     

Cover art by Elizabeth Kelner | @lizziekelner

Oct 04, 202141:28
Dear Hookups
Sep 20, 202157:42
P.S. Or Else!!!
Jun 30, 202123:35
Dear Vacation
May 10, 202133:24
Dear Friendship
Apr 26, 202141:13
Dear Plants
Apr 12, 202127:04
Dear Doctors (with Dr. Crystal Beal of QueerDoc)
Mar 29, 202137:20
Dear TV & Film (with Writer/Comedian/Filmmaker Chik Agwuna)
Mar 15, 202155:24
Dear Breakups
Mar 01, 202139:34
Dear Masturbation
Feb 15, 202142:20
Dear Dating Apps
Feb 01, 202138:20
Dear Reproductive Healthcare (with Reproductive Health Specialist Tenaya Drapkin)
Jan 18, 202142:46
Dear Crushes
Jan 04, 202128:24
Dear Holidays
Dec 21, 202031:42
Dear Porn (with Adult Film Performer Daisy Ducati)

Dear Porn (with Adult Film Performer Daisy Ducati)

This week we're answering all of your burning questions about porn, sex work, and everything in between with Daisy Ducati!  What are some ways to be a conscientious porn consumer?  How have things changed in the past few months?  Listen to find out!  Also, visit out website for some links and resources related to the episode.


Connect with Daisy: daisyducati.com | @daisyducati

For business inquiries or to submit a question, email us at dearqueers.pod@gmail.com 

Follow us on instagram @dear.queers 

Submit questions at dearqueerspod.wordpress.com/contact    

Original music by Andrew Linn https://andrewlinnmusic.com | @andrewlinnmusic    

Cover art by Elizabeth Kelner @lizziekelner

Dec 07, 202055:03
Dear Judaism (with Lior Gross & Eyal Rivlin from The Nonbinary Hebrew Project)

Dear Judaism (with Lior Gross & Eyal Rivlin from The Nonbinary Hebrew Project)

This week, Marissa and Brendan are joined by Lior  and Eyal, creators of The Nonbinary Hebrew Project!

They discuss finding ways to use Hebrew in a gender inclusive manner and how to create space for queerness in Judaism.

To access Lior's detailed resource list to accompany this episode, visit our website.


The Nonbinary Hebrew Project: https://www.nonbinaryhebrew.com/

For business inquiries or to submit a question, email us at dearqueers.pod@gmail.com 

Follow us on instagram @dear.queers 

Submit questions at dearqueerspod.wordpress.com/contact    

Original music by Andrew Linn https://andrewlinnmusic.com/ @andrewlinnmusic    

Cover art by Elizabeth Kelner @lizziekelner

Nov 23, 202047:49
Dear Coming Out

Dear Coming Out

Come out, come out, wherever you are!  This episode is for anyone in any stage of the coming out process or anyone who just wants to know more about what this process means.  Stay tuned until the end for a special bonus coming out template that you can use for any of your coming out needs!

For business inquiries or to submit a question, email us at dearqueers.pod@gmail.com 

Follow us on instagram @dear.queers 

Submit questions at dearqueerspod.wordpress.com/contact    

Original music by Andrew Linn https://andrewlinnmusic.com/ @andrewlinnmusic    

Cover art by Elizabeth Kelner @lizziekelner


Nov 09, 202039:30
Dear Sexuality

Dear Sexuality

Sexual identity is complicated and deeply personal.  In this episode, Marissa and Brendan discuss the contentious relationship between bisexuality and pansexuality and debate whether or not straight people actually exist.


For business inquiries or to submit a question, email us at dearqueers.pod@gmail.com 

Follow us on instagram @dear.queers 

Submit questions at dearqueerspod.wordpress.com/contact    


Original music by Andrew Linn https://andrewlinnmusic.com/ 

@andrewlinnmusic    


Cover art by Elizabeth Kelner @lizziekelner

Oct 26, 202037:57