Positively Dee Dial

I have written on the topic of gaslighting in relationships, where distancing yourself from the perpetrator is the advisable solution. However, at work, that may not be a viable or immediately available option. So, I am resurfacing this topic out of requests from both my clients and friends because the impact of these experiences is a toxic work environment and the behavior can be so insidious that conventional solutions can add layers of complexity and unwarranted stress.

Today, I listened to a speaker relay a pretty powerful message on the topic of "turning desperation into aspiration." Afterward, the audience was given the opportunity to reflect, then share how the message either impacted or resonated with them. Because of my experience with the topic, I was excited but wanted to hear from the members of the audience before I spoke.

Like the speaker, many shared experiences where desperation created a turning point in their lives. But more people than I expected, seemed to desire the ability to recreate the actual desperation from which their moments of inspiration evolved. Most of the participants agreed that these were the moments from which aspirations were revealed -- and hope was renewed. Almost all who participated, however, struggled to see these moments outside their negative connotation. But yet, it was something they still desired. Interesting.

Read my blog to understand my perspective: https://deedialstyle.com/2022/02/20/desperation-is-opportunity