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Mind Over Matter: Mindset Development

Mind Over Matter: Mindset Development

By Deja Wallace

Venting about life while trying to navigate through it and sharing what I’ve learned with the world through enlightening conversation. This podcast was made and carefully curated in the essence of myself Deja Wallace. I will take you on my journey of self-discovery through a video journal-type podcast that guides you to self-discovery as I evolve with every episode. Mind Over Matter is the power to govern how you feel internally by any means necessary. This podcast was essentially for dreamers, deep thinkers, optimists, and anyone who’s on the journey of self-discovery.

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41. I Have 0 Friends & Don't Fit In

Mind Over Matter: Mindset DevelopmentApr 10, 2022

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41. I Have 0 Friends & Don't Fit In

41. I Have 0 Friends & Don't Fit In

In this week's episode, I go into detail on why I choose to not settle in my friendships and my history with bad friendships. I also break down how individualism may be the reason you probably don't have friends or it's harder for you to make friends.

Apr 10, 202235:30
40. Being a Leader 🏀 (ft.nellywap)

40. Being a Leader 🏀 (ft.nellywap)

In this week's episode of Mind Over Matter i'm joined by Chanel Jemmott and we discuss the trails and tribulations that come with being basketball players. The mentality she used to to win 3 championships and much more.
Apr 03, 202242:27
39. Europe is Racist ft.rox_roxanne

39. Europe is Racist ft.rox_roxanne

If you just stay on the corner then you would never see the world . In this episode of Mind Over Matter two New York City girls take on Europe. Deja and her special guest Roxanne Reid discuss their experience in London and Paris plus much more.
Mar 27, 202243:49
38.5 UK vs. US Public Interview

38.5 UK vs. US Public Interview

What the British really think about Americans. I take on the streets of London to test out my British accent and asked strangers their perspective on Americans.

Mar 15, 202207:37
38. Creatives Run The World ft._mrwallace

38. Creatives Run The World ft._mrwallace

Creatives run the world and imagination will take you places knowledge can't. In this episode of Mind Over Matter Deja and her special guest Mr. Wallace discuss the importance of creativity. Why creatives are essential to our everyday lives. Also, Deja and Mr. Wallace get into how to get over creative block and much more.
Feb 27, 202258:12
37. Protect Black Women ft. Lillian and Elaine

37. Protect Black Women ft. Lillian and Elaine

I’m joined by my cousins Lillian & Elaine. We had a very therapeutic conversation about being black women in America. Black women are the most vulnerable group of people in America due to Eurocentric ideologies that are glorified. Our ideas and voices matter but many of us feel as if we cannot fully express them without being judged. How is the state of black women mental health in America? Go purchase Lillian’s poetry book “Naked Thoughts” available on Amazon & Hulu books.
Feb 13, 202242:33
36.Let’s Talk About Sex

36.Let’s Talk About Sex

I discuss the stigma of females talking about sex. My first time having sex after 21 years. Dating in my 20s, dating apps and what I learned.
Feb 06, 202233:04
35. Introvers vs Extroverts ft.Lovell

35. Introvers vs Extroverts ft.Lovell

Im joined by my good bro Lovell @realsaintluv and we discuss the pro and cons of being introvert vs. extroverted.
Will this generation being brought be more introverted as a result of technology?
Jan 30, 202233:06
34.Brooklyn Baby ft.Biggaveli_sheli

34.Brooklyn Baby ft.Biggaveli_sheli

Proud Brooklyn native Sheldon Wallace joins me on discussing Brooklyn and his love for his city,basketball and the beauty in being brought up “outside.”
Jan 23, 202238:52
33.Enjoy Yourself

33.Enjoy Yourself

Be yourself everyone else is taken.
Dec 19, 202131:46
32.The Power of Perspective ft.The Young Optimist

32.The Power of Perspective ft.The Young Optimist

Freedom of choice is our greatest level of freedom. On this weeks I’m joined by motivational speaker John aka The Young Optimist to discuss the power of your perspective.
Dec 05, 202134:50
31.Double Standards ft. Lillian & Elaine

31.Double Standards ft. Lillian & Elaine

The masculine grows by challenge,but the feminine grows by praise. Women have always been scolded for certain actions men get praised for. How has this culturally sanctioned agreement of gender roles effect us as a society?
Nov 21, 202143:01
30. Think Positive

30. Think Positive

Stop allowing negative thoughts to consume you. Dwelling on the past keeps you from being present and planning for the future. Stick to your vision and focus on yourself because whatever you focus on multiplies. Adversity builds character and hard times are only temporary.
Oct 24, 202131:57
29. Step Out Of Your Comfort Zone ft. MoreTime Radio

29. Step Out Of Your Comfort Zone ft. MoreTime Radio

On episode 29 I am joined by Stat from MoreTime Radio. We discuss how life is about taking chances. Once you decide to step out of your comfort zone and experiment with life only then you will learn and grow. Stop letting your comfort zone limit you.
Sep 19, 202142:56
28. Spirituality ft.Dear America

28. Spirituality ft.Dear America

The girls of Dear America the podcast Yvana and Gianna joins me on discussing spirituality and understanding the negative stigmas that are associated with it.
Sep 12, 202149:57
27. Relationship Goals ft.Skylar&Tyhj

27. Relationship Goals ft.Skylar&Tyhj

On episode 27 special guests Tyhj and Skylar talk about being YouTubers. As well as the challenges of being in a relationship in this toxic social media age.
Jun 13, 202101:08:45
26.Cheating

26.Cheating

Whose better at hiding cheating men or women?
Jun 07, 202126:44
25,Level Up

25,Level Up

Leveling up takes much sacrifice. Are you willing to give up what’s familiar and comforting in order to level up?
Jun 04, 202117:16
24.Generational Wealth ft. Call Me CJ &Greg Part 1

24.Generational Wealth ft. Call Me CJ &Greg Part 1

Special guests Call Me CJ &Greg joins me on discussing generational wealth. Whether we should chase passion or profit and upcoming artist Call Me Cj new music.
May 09, 202139:06
23.Don’t Give A DAMNNN What People Think

23.Don’t Give A DAMNNN What People Think

People will always judge you no matter what you do. Never change yourself because of something someone thinks about you. You will never be happy trying to please others. Be yourself in every situation. Only what you think of yourself matters.Focus on yourself and everything else will fall into place.
Apr 27, 202126:33
22.Know Your Worth ft. forever.adoni

22.Know Your Worth ft. forever.adoni

Adoni joins me on discussing her book and why it’s important to never settle for less.
Apr 18, 202155:22
21.Toxic Relationships ft.Tanayah

21.Toxic Relationships ft.Tanayah

Om episode 21 I’m joined with Tanayah. She shares her story about dealing with toxic friendships. We also talk about why unhealthy relationships are being glorified by a generation on social media. Toxic family members. Toxic masculinity and much more.
Apr 11, 202143:23
20. It’s Okay Not To Be Okay

20. It’s Okay Not To Be Okay

On episode20 I share my story on how I battled with anxiety and overcame it. Mental health is a subject that isn’t spoken about enough. Given the climate of the world and social media age you’ll find its more common among young people to feel anxious and struggle with their mental health. So why isn’t spoken about more?
Apr 04, 202141:33
19.The Truth

19.The Truth

Think for yourself.
Mar 28, 202130:08
18.Take A Break

18.Take A Break

It’s okay to take a break.
Mar 28, 202119:19
17. Stop complaining

17. Stop complaining

There’s someone with the same living situation as you, the same ethnicity, who makes the same amount of money as you that is living there best life and they didn’t get there by complaining. It takes more energy and imagination to complain than it takes to actually do something you love. Stop complaining about what might happen or what should of happened and make your 24 hours something you are proud of. Complaining achieves nothing stop complaining.
Feb 25, 202138:04
16. Expectations

16. Expectations

A lot of us put expectations on what we expect of other people and ourselves which isn’t always realistic. People usually want what they don’t have. It’s always great to have high standards but if we become delusional and assume we will get everything we want just because we want it that often leads to disappointment. We shouldn’t expect anything from anyone especially if we can’t reciprocate what we are looking for.
Feb 25, 202127:51
15. The Power Of Music ft.Greg

15. The Power Of Music ft.Greg

It’s something about hearing a certain song that can amplify our present moment. Music often times narrates how we feel and makes us feel like we’re not alone in our experiences. Giving the musician a bigger than life persona that makes the listener sometimes subscribe to their ideas and beliefs and may even look up to them as an inspiration. Music is a such a powerful thing. What would this world be without music?
Feb 23, 202144:26
14. Is School A Scam?

14. Is School A Scam?

Education is very important but it shouldn’t be measured in one particular way. School is a place most of us can’t avoid. When it comes down to it, knowledge that really matter like how to grow our own food, cook, purify water purchase a home or even deal with stress is never addressed in school. How exactly is learning the Pythagorean Theorem beneficial in life?
Feb 23, 202142:33
13. Social Media ft. Summer

13. Social Media ft. Summer

The social media paradox has been a blessing and a curse. Nowadays we are on screens now more than ever and compelled to document everything. Special guest Summer joins me on discussing the social media matrix.
Feb 23, 202139:44
12. Insecurities

12. Insecurities

Our insecurities are blocking our blessings.
Jan 17, 202129:46
11. Does Using Slang Make You Less Smart?

11. Does Using Slang Make You Less Smart?

I will be talking about why is slang looked at as remedial. Why is using slang not equated to be being smart?
Jan 10, 202127:22
10. Protect Your Energy🧘🏾‍♂️

10. Protect Your Energy🧘🏾‍♂️

We should be aware of who we spend our time with and the people and things we give our energy to.
Jan 03, 202130:41
9. What Is The Meaning of Life?

9. What Is The Meaning of Life?

In this episode I discuss the meaning of life, the pursuit of happiness and the simplistic way of living.
Dec 27, 202042:28
8. Systematic Racism in School ft.Dear America

8. Systematic Racism in School ft.Dear America

On this episode I will be discussing the unseen racism that occurs in the education system. Yvana and Gianna from Dear America join me in discussing our experiences with systematic racism attending NYC public schools.
Dec 25, 202055:04
7. Normalize Kindness

7. Normalize Kindness

On this episode I discuss how kindness is not a weakness and why there’s a false stigma that kindness is a weakness and other false stigmas. As well as why girls are attracted to bad guys and why the good guys are usually not seen as desirable.
Dec 20, 202040:20
6. Chasing Your Dreams

6. Chasing Your Dreams

On this episode of Mind Over Matter I will be talking about chasing your dreams, perfecting your craft and the grind.
Dec 13, 202028:50
5. 2000 Babies

5. 2000 Babies

In this episode I will be talking about the age of a new millennium and the end of a old millennium.
Dec 06, 202046:28
4. Self Love

4. Self Love

On the journey of understanding myself more self love plays a big role. On this episode I talk about self love and how to practice self love.
Dec 01, 202056:34
3. We Should All Travel More

3. We Should All Travel More

Why it’s important to travel.The world is bigger than we know.
Nov 22, 202034:46
2. Don’t Let Emotions Run Your Life

2. Don’t Let Emotions Run Your Life

How to not let emotions control you.
Nov 16, 202038:34
1. Welcome to Mind Over Matter

1. Welcome to Mind Over Matter

Welcome to Mind Over Matter. This podcast was made and carefully curated in the essence of myself Deja Wallace. I will take you on my journey of self discovery. Mind Over Matter is the power to govern how you feel internally by any means necessary despite what’s going on in your outside world.
Oct 05, 202016:44