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By Janet

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Episode 18: Under the Sun with Final Thoughts (Recap Episode)

DetangleJul 11, 2023

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Episode 18: Under the Sun with Final Thoughts (Recap Episode)

Episode 18: Under the Sun with Final Thoughts (Recap Episode)

So I’m sitting here outside in the sun, some flashbacks of my childhood and you know, random scripture flashes across my brain, Ecclesiastes 1:9- there’s nothing new under the sun. You’re absolutely right. We may have more technology and children may be a little more outspoken than previous generations; but so were you at some point. So I ask the question, ‘what are you teaching your kids?’ But also, ‘what are you learning from kids?’


That’s what season 3 is all about; learning. You find out that kids are born innocent and it’s what they’re taught that shapes their prospective and personality.

Come listen to my conversations with grade school kids (Kindergarten-12th grade) and notice that the questions are the same, but the answers change the older they become. You’ll also hear from kids ‘at heart’ that give a perspective of being impressionable upon young minds and the responsibility that comes with it!


Welcome back and stay awhile!


Jul 11, 202302:44
Episode 17: Under the Sun with Coach Ward

Episode 17: Under the Sun with Coach Ward

So I’m sitting here outside in the sun, some flashbacks of my childhood and you know, random scripture flashes across my brain, Ecclesiastes 1:9- there’s nothing new under the sun. You’re absolutely right. We may have more technology and children may be a little more outspoken than previous generations; but so were you at some point. So I ask the question, ‘what are you teaching your kids?’ But also, ‘what are you learning from kids?’


That’s what season 3 is all about; learning. You find out that kids are born innocent and it’s what they’re taught that shapes their prospective and personality.

Come listen to my conversations with grade school kids (Kindergarten-12th grade) and notice that the questions are the same, but the answers change the older they become. You’ll also hear from kids ‘at heart’ that give a perspective of being impressionable upon young minds and the responsibility that comes with it!


Welcome back and stay awhile!

Jul 04, 202323:43
Episode 16: Under the Sun with Ms. Thomas

Episode 16: Under the Sun with Ms. Thomas

So I’m sitting here outside in the sun, some flashbacks of my childhood and you know, random scripture flashes across my brain, Ecclesiastes 1:9- there’s nothing new under the sun. You’re absolutely right. We may have more technology and children may be a little more outspoken than previous generations; but so were you at some point. So I ask the question, ‘what are you teaching your kids?’ But also, ‘what are you learning from kids?’


That’s what season 3 is all about; learning. You find out that kids are born innocent and it’s what they’re taught that shapes their prospective and personality.

Come listen to my conversations with grade school kids (Kindergarten-12th grade) and notice that the questions are the same, but the answers change the older they become. You’ll also hear from kids ‘at heart’ that give a perspective of being impressionable upon young minds and the responsibility that comes with it!


Welcome back and stay awhile!

Jun 27, 202341:35
Episode 15: Under the Sun with Mr. Stoudemire

Episode 15: Under the Sun with Mr. Stoudemire

So I’m sitting here outside in the sun, some flashbacks of my childhood and you know, random scripture flashes across my brain, Ecclesiastes 1:9- there’s nothing new under the sun. You’re absolutely right. We may have more technology and children may be a little more outspoken than previous generations; but so were you at some point. So I ask the question, ‘what are you teaching your kids?’ But also, ‘what are you learning from kids?’


That’s what season 3 is all about; learning. You find out that kids are born innocent and it’s what they’re taught that shapes their prospective and personality.

Come listen to my conversations with grade school kids (Kindergarten-12th grade) and notice that the questions are the same, but the answers change the older they become. You’ll also hear from kids ‘at heart’ that give a perspective of being impressionable upon young minds and the responsibility that comes with it!


Welcome back and stay awhile!

Jun 20, 202336:25
Episode 14: Under the Sun with Ms. Idlebird

Episode 14: Under the Sun with Ms. Idlebird

So I’m sitting here outside in the sun, some flashbacks of my childhood and you know, random scripture flashes across my brain, Ecclesiastes 1:9- there’s nothing new under the sun. You’re absolutely right. We may have more technology and children may be a little more outspoken than previous generations; but so were you at some point. So I ask the question, ‘what are you teaching your kids?’ But also, ‘what are you learning from kids?’


That’s what season 3 is all about; learning. You find out that kids are born innocent and it’s what they’re taught that shapes their prospective and personality.

Come listen to my conversations with grade school kids (Kindergarten-12th grade) and notice that the questions are the same, but the answers change the older they become. You’ll also hear from kids ‘at heart’ that give a perspective of being impressionable upon young minds and the responsibility that comes with it!


Welcome back and stay awhile!

Jun 13, 202332:00
Episode 13: Under the Sun with Sara Beth

Episode 13: Under the Sun with Sara Beth

So I’m sitting here outside in the sun, some flashbacks of my childhood and you know, random scripture flashes across my brain, Ecclesiastes 1:9- there’s nothing new under the sun. You’re absolutely right. We may have more technology and children may be a little more outspoken than previous generations; but so were you at some point. So I ask the question, ‘what are you teaching your kids?’ But also, ‘what are you learning from kids?’


That’s what season 3 is all about; learning. You find out that kids are born innocent and it’s what they’re taught that shapes their prospective and personality.

Come listen to my conversations with grade school kids (Kindergarten-12th grade) and notice that the questions are the same, but the answers change the older they become. You’ll also hear from kids ‘at heart’ that give a perspective of being impressionable upon young minds and the responsibility that comes with it!


Welcome back and stay awhile!


Jun 06, 202319:52
Episode 12: Under the Sun with Jonathan

Episode 12: Under the Sun with Jonathan

So I’m sitting here outside in the sun, some flashbacks of my childhood and you know, random scripture flashes across my brain, Ecclesiastes 1:9- there’s nothing new under the sun. You’re absolutely right. We may have more technology and children may be a little more outspoken than previous generations; but so were you at some point. So I ask the question, ‘what are you teaching your kids?’ But also, ‘what are you learning from kids?’


That’s what season 3 is all about; learning. You find out that kids are born innocent and it’s what they’re taught that shapes their prospective and personality.

Come listen to my conversations with grade school kids (Kindergarten-12th grade) and notice that the questions are the same, but the answers change the older they become. You’ll also hear from kids ‘at heart’ that give a perspective of being impressionable upon young minds and the responsibility that comes with it!


Welcome back and stay awhile!


May 30, 202323:22
Episode 11: Under the Sun with Tyler

Episode 11: Under the Sun with Tyler

So I’m sitting here outside in the sun, some flashbacks of my childhood and you know, random scripture flashes across my brain, Ecclesiastes 1:9- there’s nothing new under the sun. You’re absolutely right. We may have more technology and children may be a little more outspoken than previous generations; but so were you at some point. So I ask the question, ‘what are you teaching your kids?’ But also, ‘what are you learning from kids?’


That’s what season 3 is all about; learning. You find out that kids are born innocent and it’s what they’re taught that shapes their prospective and personality.

Come listen to my conversations with grade school kids (Kindergarten-12th grade) and notice that the questions are the same, but the answers change the older they become. You’ll also hear from kids ‘at heart’ that give a perspective of being impressionable upon young minds and the responsibility that comes with it!


Welcome back and stay awhile!

May 23, 202319:11
Episode 10: Under the Sun with Zion

Episode 10: Under the Sun with Zion

So I’m sitting here outside in the sun, some flashbacks of my childhood and you know, random scripture flashes across my brain, Ecclesiastes 1:9- there’s nothing new under the sun. You’re absolutely right. We may have more technology and children may be a little more outspoken than previous generations; but so were you at some point. So I ask the question, ‘what are you teaching your kids?’ But also, ‘what are you learning from kids?’


That’s what season 3 is all about; learning. You find out that kids are born innocent and it’s what they’re taught that shapes their prospective and personality.

Come listen to my conversations with grade school kids (Kindergarten-12th grade) and notice that the questions are the same, but the answers change the older they become. You’ll also hear from kids ‘at heart’ that give a perspective of being impressionable upon young minds and the responsibility that comes with it!


Welcome back and stay awhile!

May 16, 202327:04
Episode 9: Under the Sun with Maya

Episode 9: Under the Sun with Maya

So I’m sitting here outside in the sun, some flashbacks of my childhood and you know, random scripture flashes across my brain, Ecclesiastes 1:9- there’s nothing new under the sun. You’re absolutely right. We may have more technology and children may be a little more outspoken than previous generations; but so were you at some point. So I ask the question, ‘what are you teaching your kids?’ But also, ‘what are you learning from kids?’


That’s what season 3 is all about; learning. You find out that kids are born innocent and it’s what they’re taught that shapes their prospective and personality.

Come listen to my conversations with grade school kids (Kindergarten-12th grade) and notice that the questions are the same, but the answers change the older they become. You’ll also hear from kids ‘at heart’ that give a perspective of being impressionable upon young minds and the responsibility that comes with it!


Welcome back and stay awhile!

May 09, 202316:40
Episode 8: Under the Sun with William

Episode 8: Under the Sun with William

So I’m sitting here outside in the sun, some flashbacks of my childhood and you know, random scripture flashes across my brain, Ecclesiastes 1:9- there’s nothing new under the sun. You’re absolutely right. We may have more technology and children may be a little more outspoken than previous generations; but so were you at some point. So I ask the question, ‘what are you teaching your kids?’ But also, ‘what are you learning from kids?’


That’s what season 3 is all about; learning. You find out that kids are born innocent and it’s what they’re taught that shapes their prospective and personality.

Come listen to my conversations with grade school kids (Kindergarten-12th grade) and notice that the questions are the same, but the answers change the older they become. You’ll also hear from kids ‘at heart’ that give a perspective of being impressionable upon young minds and the responsibility that comes with it!


Welcome back and stay awhile!

May 02, 202320:24
Episode 7: Under the Sun with Ashlyn

Episode 7: Under the Sun with Ashlyn

So I’m sitting here outside in the sun, some flashbacks of my childhood and you know, random scripture flashes across my brain, Ecclesiastes 1:9- there’s nothing new under the sun. You’re absolutely right. We may have more technology and children may be a little more outspoken than previous generations; but so were you at some point. So I ask the question, ‘what are you teaching your kids?’ But also, ‘what are you learning from kids?’


That’s what season 3 is all about; learning. You find out that kids are born innocent and it’s what they’re taught that shapes their prospective and personality.

Come listen to my conversations with grade school kids (Kindergarten-12th grade) and notice that the questions are the same, but the answers change the older they become. You’ll also hear from kids ‘at heart’ that give a perspective of being impressionable upon young minds and the responsibility that comes with it!


Welcome back and stay awhile!

Apr 25, 202311:26
Episode 6: Under the Sun with Evan

Episode 6: Under the Sun with Evan

So I’m sitting here outside in the sun, some flashbacks of my childhood and you know, random scripture flashes across my brain, Ecclesiastes 1:9- there’s nothing new under the sun. You’re absolutely right. We may have more technology and children may be a little more outspoken than previous generations; but so were you at some point. So I ask the question, ‘what are you teaching your kids?’ But also, ‘what are you learning from kids?’


That’s what season 3 is all about; learning. You find out that kids are born innocent and it’s what they’re taught that shapes their prospective and personality.

Come listen to my conversations with grade school kids (Kindergarten-12th grade) and notice that the questions are the same, but the answers change the older they become. You’ll also hear from kids ‘at heart’ that give a perspective of being impressionable upon young minds and the responsibility that comes with it!


Welcome back and stay awhile!

Apr 18, 202316:18
Episode 5: Under the Sun with Sheridyn

Episode 5: Under the Sun with Sheridyn

So I’m sitting here outside in the sun, some flashbacks of my childhood and you know, random scripture flashes across my brain, Ecclesiastes 1:9- there’s nothing new under the sun. You’re absolutely right. We may have more technology and children may be a little more outspoken than previous generations; but so were you at some point. So I ask the question, ‘what are you teaching your kids?’ But also, ‘what are you learning from kids?’


That’s what season 3 is all about; learning. You find out that kids are born innocent and it’s what they’re taught that shapes their prospective and personality.

Come listen to my conversations with grade school kids (Kindergarten-12th grade) and notice that the questions are the same, but the answers change the older they become. You’ll also hear from kids ‘at heart’ that give a perspective of being impressionable upon young minds and the responsibility that comes with it!


Welcome back and stay awhile!

Apr 11, 202316:11
Episode 4: Under the Sun with Elin

Episode 4: Under the Sun with Elin

So I’m sitting here outside in the sun, some flashbacks of my childhood and you know, random scripture flashes across my brain, Ecclesiastes 1:9- there’s nothing new under the sun. You’re absolutely right. We may have more technology and children may be a little more outspoken than previous generations; but so were you at some point. So I ask the question, ‘what are you teaching your kids?’ But also, ‘what are you learning from kids?’


That’s what season 3 is all about; learning. You find out that kids are born innocent and it’s what they’re taught that shapes their prospective and personality.

Come listen to my conversations with grade school kids (Kindergarten-12th grade) and notice that the questions are the same, but the answers change the older they become. You’ll also hear from kids ‘at heart’ that give a perspective of being impressionable upon young minds and the responsibility that comes with it!


Welcome back and stay awhile!


Apr 04, 202316:17
Episode 3: Under the Sun with Trinity

Episode 3: Under the Sun with Trinity

So I’m sitting here outside in the sun, some flashbacks of my childhood and you know, random scripture flashes across my brain, Ecclesiastes 1:9- there’s nothing new under the sun. You’re absolutely right. We may have more technology and children may be a little more outspoken than previous generations; but so were you at some point. So I ask the question, ‘what are you teaching your kids?’ But also, ‘what are you learning from kids?’

That’s what season 3 is all about; learning. You find out that kids are born innocent and it’s what they’re taught that shapes their prospective and personality.

Come listen to my conversations with grade school kids (Kindergarten-12th grade) and notice that the questions are the same, but the answers change the older they become.

Welcome back and stay awhile!

Feb 10, 202221:33
Episode 2: Under the Sun with Zoe

Episode 2: Under the Sun with Zoe

So I’m sitting here outside in the sun, some flashbacks of my childhood and you know, random scripture flashes across my brain, Ecclesiastes 1:9- there’s nothing new under the sun. You’re absolutely right. We may have more technology and children may be a little more outspoken than previous generations; but so were you at some point. So I ask the question, ‘what are you teaching your kids?’ But also, ‘what are you learning from kids?’

That’s what season 3 is all about; learning. You find out that kids are born innocent and it’s what they’re taught that shapes their prospective and personality.

Come listen to my conversations with grade school kids (Kindergarten-12th grade) and notice that the questions are the same, but the answers change the older they become.

Welcome back and stay awhile!

Feb 02, 202224:18
Episode 1: Intro to Season 3 & Under the Sun with MaKenley

Episode 1: Intro to Season 3 & Under the Sun with MaKenley

So I’m sitting here outside in the sun, some flashbacks of my childhood and you know, random scripture flashes across my brain, Ecclesiastes 1:9- there’s nothing new under the sun. You’re absolutely right. We may have more technology and children may be a little more outspoken than previous generations; but so were you at some point. So I ask the question, ‘what are you teaching your kids?’ But also, ‘what are you learning from kids?’

That’s what season 3 is all about; learning. You find out that kids are born innocent and it’s what they’re taught that shapes their prospective and personality.

Come listen to my conversations with grade school kids (Kindergarden-12th grade) and notice that the questions are the same, but the answers change the older they become.

So let’s get started!

Jan 25, 202219:15
The Day: It’s the PEACE For Me!

The Day: It’s the PEACE For Me!

No matter the results, you need to find a purpose and an adjustable plan for yourself. I’m basically saying, whatever you’re going to do AFTER-plan it! You will get to either after your REIGN or after the STAGE. In my case retirement (officially this time 😉).

After 10 years, I’m finally in a place of peace that whether a crown is put on my head tonight or not- God WILL provide what I want for my future. It is the most unexplainable feeling to LET GO & LET GOD. Whatever is for you to have NOONE (yes yourself too) can’t stop it or mess it up!

You’ve prepared, you’ve prayed, so go out there and let God WERK!

Welcome to the last episode! I’ve enjoyed DETANGLING through pageantry with you. It will NOT be the last time, so stay tuned!


Jun 05, 202116:55
Day 1 You Live & Learn. You Never LOSE!

Day 1 You Live & Learn. You Never LOSE!

As we are winding down, I hope you have taken some tips with you along the way and also gotten to know me a little deeper than just a ‘sassy’ attitude (I loathe that descriptive word used about me- please don’t use it 😉).

This episode in particular, speaks directly into the interview process and choosing your platform. The DOS AND DON’TS. It also gives a glimpse of why MATURITY is just as important as your WARDROBE. The judges want to feel comfortable and confident that choosing YOU for the job isn’t second guessing themselves. Nervousness & cockiness can be seen a mile away.

Give PEOPLE you, but not ALL of you. Even YOU can’t handle ALL of you. 🤣🤷🏾‍♀️

Welcome to the 2nd to last episode!

Jun 04, 202110:26
Day 2 I’m Sexy and I (didn’t) Know It!

Day 2 I’m Sexy and I (didn’t) Know It!

We have now entered the BREAK season of my pageant career. It’s very important to have SELF CARE moments for yourself. If you do pageantry for too long, you’ll define yourself BY it. And really believe that your worth is determined by 5-7 DIFFERENT people every year.

It makes it even harder when you’re 19 years old and still on that discovery of WHO you are without consulting and giving weight to peer judgment and commentary in front & behind your back.

At THAT point, yes you need to REST & FOCUS!

Welcome to another episode!

Jun 03, 202108:02
Day 3: It Was Worth It!

Day 3: It Was Worth It!

The time has come, the stage is set, it’s time to rule! This episode dives into my first title,the freedom I had during my year of service, and my ticket into the world of Miss Alabama!

Come on in and take a seat!

Jun 02, 202108:02
Day 4 Turn Mess into Message

Day 4 Turn Mess into Message

We have now reached the graduation from Teen to Miss. But even before getting on stage- I had to learn about Leadership. Especially leading as a Black woman, before a crown even touched my head.

It was as if God knew I needed another lesson before taking this next step!

So, we’re going back to high school (Class of 2013 stand up ☺️), Senior year to be exact. So grab your agenda, pencils and pens, and that snack to stay awake in class with- and get back to my pageant journey.

Jun 01, 202108:00
Day 5, Take Ya Time, Baby!

Day 5, Take Ya Time, Baby!

The story of my teen rookie Season on the stage is just getting warmed up. Ms. McTier can attest to it. LOL

When I look back on my experience now, I was a mess with a great body. LOL But the optimism I had to try new things; I would never take that away.

Sometimes I have to remember to BE OPTIMISTIC about life again- when I get bored and used to my daily work schedule.

So keep enjoying my pageant journey. Again, if you catch yourself saying, “Bless her Heart’ during the episode; I’m expecting it 😂😉

May 31, 202109:25
Day 6, Show Em What Cha Got CECE!

Day 6, Show Em What Cha Got CECE!

I have, at this point, fully convinced myself to go for this dream; with NO training, NO full experience, & NO clue what I’m doing or where this all could take me. But I was willing to try.

Come on in & listen to the first part of my Rookie years as a teen.

Don’t be alarmed if you catch yourself saying, “Bless her Heart’ during this episode 😂😉

May 30, 202107:48
Day 7: Janet’s Pageant Journey

Day 7: Janet’s Pageant Journey

How it all began. Apparently, my mom said I was 13, but I think I was TURNING 13 that year. Either way, I was young and it was ALL new to me. None of my immediate family (that I know of) did pageants; but I figured competing & winning would introduce me to new people, new experiences and bigger opportunities (which it has ).

I just knew one day, I would be Miss America or Miss USA.

That dream can still happen.

May 29, 202105:09
Detangle Presents: Countdown to the Crown- Janet’s Pageant Journey

Detangle Presents: Countdown to the Crown- Janet’s Pageant Journey

Come listen in every day from May 29- June 5th and be inspired by my journey to a dream job I’ve worked for since the age of 12.

This podcast mini series is for

  • the dreamers who are told your dream is too big for us to understand
  • the applicants who were told you have the credentials on paper; but you’re not what we’re looking for,
  • the pageant girls who have always been told prepare when you’re told NO, but never been told prepare for when you’re told YES!
  • the people who just love to root for the underdog!

This series is for EVERYONE. Because we were (or still are) on our personal journey.

May 28, 202101:04
Episode 10 Topic: Rachel’s Declassified High School Survival Guide

Episode 10 Topic: Rachel’s Declassified High School Survival Guide

Co-Host: Rachel Smith

We speak about how to get through high school with Rachel’s Declassified High School Survival Guide. We also play a shocking, hilarious, and questionable round of song association (LOL), and as always, I’ll leave you with an inspirational quote and verse. Listen IN on APPLE, ANCHOR & SPOTIFY!

Nov 12, 201943:25
Episode 9 Topic: Misconceptions about Single Fatherhood

Episode 9 Topic: Misconceptions about Single Fatherhood

Co-Host: Thomas ’T Green’ Green

We speak on Misconceptions about Single Fatherhood.

We also play a winning filled round of song association, and as always, I’ll leave you with an inspirational quote and verse. Listen IN on APPLE, ANCHOR & SPOTIFY!

Nov 05, 201934:08
Episode 8 Topic: The Curriculum in College Survival

Episode 8 Topic: The Curriculum in College Survival

Co-Host: Racquelle Idlebird & Malcolm Muckleroy

We speak about The Curriculum in College Survival.

We also play a hilarious round of song association, and as always, I’ll leave you with an inspirational quote and verse. Listen IN on APPLE, ANCHOR & SPOTIFY!

Oct 29, 201956:19
Episode 7 Topic: How To Cope With Having Adult Children.

Episode 7 Topic: How To Cope With Having Adult Children.

Co-Host: Mrs. Ira Booker

We speak about How To Cope With Having Adult Children.

We also play another hype round of song association, and as always, I’ll leave you with an inspirational quote and verse. Listen IN on APPLE, ANCHOR & SPOTIFY!

Oct 22, 201949:46
Episode 6 Topic: Parenting. How do you choose WHO is in your child’s village?

Episode 6 Topic: Parenting. How do you choose WHO is in your child’s village?

Co-Host: Marissa

We speak about Parenting. How do you choose WHO is in your child’s village?

We also play another hype round of song association, and as always, I’ll leave you with an inspirational quote and verse. Listen IN on APPLE, ANCHOR & SPOTIFY!

Oct 15, 201952:09
Episode 5 Topic: The Pros and Cons of Entrepreneurship.

Episode 5 Topic: The Pros and Cons of Entrepreneurship.

Co-Host: Brauni

We speak about The Pros and Cons of Entrepreneurship.

We also play another hype round of song association, and as always, I’ll leave you with an inspirational quote and verse. Listen IN.

Oct 08, 201947:40
Episode 4 Topic: The Art of Singing

Episode 4 Topic: The Art of Singing

Co-Host: Katrina

We speak about if it is best to know how to use your singing gift in multiple ways (Leading, background, produce, etc.)? We also play another interesting round of song association, and leave you with an inspirational quote and verse. Listen IN!

Oct 01, 201901:02:01
Episode 3. Occupation: Stay-at-Home Mom!

Episode 3. Occupation: Stay-at-Home Mom!

Co-Host: Roz

(Yes I know it’s the 24th not the 22nd- smh)

We speak about why people don’t consider a stay- at home mother a full time job? We also play another interesting round of song association, and leave you with an inspirational quote and verse. Listen IN!

Sep 24, 201953:39
Episode 2: Church. Routine or Relationship?

Episode 2: Church. Routine or Relationship?

Co-Host: James

We speak about if people still go to church because their parents required them to growing up or is there a personal reason. 

We also play another interesting round of song association, and leave you with an inspirational quote and verse. Listen IN!

Sep 17, 201901:13:09
Episode 1 Topic: Insecurities. And Refueling from rejection.

Episode 1 Topic: Insecurities. And Refueling from rejection.

Co-Host: Kamoca

We speak on insecurities, play a lil song association, and leave with some inspirational quotes and verses. Listen IN! 

Sep 10, 201943:05
Detangle Promo

Detangle Promo

Get ready to laugh, meditate and maybe even cry because we all know Detangling is NOT easy, but it’s worth the time.

Aug 13, 201900:33