DIORBECCA's Thoughts

Name your purpose and OWN it.

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As you would've demanded.

There is nothing out here.

Low self esteem is a burden to people around you.

This time around. I MESSED UP🫣

The player got played.

Love is a giant that you don't want to place to on an ant to carry for you. If you have a heart full of love, give it to only understanding and deserving people so that you don't constantly end up in pain and turmoil.

You can only give out little if you're half complete yourself.

So that he can live long enough to serve you.

Is every woman's desire.

Proactively preparing for when a marriage fails is ensuring it's failure in the end.

Men want to know, can you raise good children? Can you be a good wife and partner?

Remember to prioritize your well-being and seek support from trusted friends or family if needed.

Lost your spark?

With Love, you're held at a much higher standard than only logic can help you attain.
"Logic is an asset, while emotion is a burden ".

Everyone else will fall in line behind me.

Certain people are good individuals but make terrible partners.

But feel free to find out.

Think about it for a minute.

I had some questions for my friend.

Know your partner before making a baby with them, and having a baby will not keep a man that doesn't want to be kept.

Take control of Your Year!

Whatever category your wife belongs to, You created it.

Setting boundaries in 2023 will bring about a healthier life ( with focus your mental health). You're the very best🤗

What are you willing to give up for the life you want?

Always comes with a manual. Read in between the lines and apply some wisdom.

There's no reason your husband should have a female bestie/work wife that isn't you. Men are most vulnerable around such females because they seem to trust them a lot. Without any hesitation, that friendship must be discontinued. #justmyonecent

As much as You can, try not to marry wrong.

Bride brags to her friend about her husband, then friend had somethings to share.

....and leave it with Him.

Awwwnnn... social Media is such a darling😋

The biggest reason for breakup is cheating and domestic violence. Most likely, your friend
won't cheat on you or assault you in any way because they don't want to see you hurt. They already feel a high level of commitment and affection towards you .

Shouldn't you give Lemons first before asking what a woman can make out of lemons? Depending on the quantity and available ingredients, she could make a lemonade, slice some into a glass of magarita or just simply squeeze on Oysters. But give her the lemons first!

Sleep with one Eye open.

Know the category your man belongs to first before putting unnecessary pressure on yourself.

Let's touch on duties and obligations.

Coming back from a failed marriage is okay, coming back in a coffin is NOT. Do not stay for the sake of the kids, leave because of them so you can Live to raise your children.

Will Smith set himself on fire to keep his wife warm. He got really burned, while his wife said she didn't need his warmth, She is capable of keeping herself warm. In the end, He got a 10yr ban from the academy.

I watched the show Young, Famous and African and I had somethings to say about it 🤣

Ms Delena (a pastor's daughter) was happy to share her experience regarding premarital counseling in her church.

This is an introductory episode to premarital counseling. Who you should talk to and why.

Let's tap into the difference. 😊

Our wokeness today enables all the very wrong things. Deciding to have children out of wedlock and against your partner's wishes is the most common of all. I was thinking aloud about the consequences of such decisions and most of all, it's effect on the innocent babies.

Men want what they want. We can't help them determine what is important in a relationship. So if 20% at the loss of 80% is more important, let them have it.

The picture of my box is on my Instagram page @diorbecca. HAPPY NEW YEAR!😊🥰😊

In my mother's tongue....Be grateful for all that happened this year, count your lessons and blessings. Actively plan for a great 2022 and rock it like the super star that you are!

This is my for dirty-thirties!

A lot of people often want to share a life in the name of marriage without actually "sharing" any part of it. They run marriages like relationships where no commitment is required.