Dive In With JayJay

This episode is very brief, but it gives an update on my one Year journey and a new step of the journey that I incorporated into my life the "Burning Letters". These letters have helped me get a few things off my chest that the actual person it directed to wouldn't.

I highly suggest that if you have something to say to someone but cannot voice it free, that you write a burning letter. If you have any more ideas for my one-year journey, feel free to email me at Divein4info@gmail.com

It is never my intentions to harm or offend any of my listener. If you feel that I have disrespected, you in any way again send me an email at Divein4info@gmail.com. I'll be sure to get back to you. Thank you for diving into the conversation and I hope that you continue to ride the wave with your girl Jay-Jay.

This Episode I will be sharing a few TikTok Clips that I enjoyed and related to. I do Not own any rights to the clips or music used in this episode, Dive In never aims to Hurt, disrespect or offend any of our listeners so if by any chance that I have done so please send and email to Divein4info@gmail.com I'll be sure to respond. I loved seeing how people around the world were taught all of the same thing. a list of the people clips that were used in this video are...

@jacthequeen

@imemazingeric

@singlewomanchronicles

@jahniiofficial

@katiesamoreID

@Zakiyamoniquespeaks

@Conflictnchaos

This episode also includes A motivational Card and a spiritual Reading with just one card. One card is not the normal but I try to respect that some of my listeners are not into the spiritual world like that so I don't want to force anything on them. If you have any questions comments or concerns, please send an email to DiveIn4info@gmail.com. If you have any music, hobbies or small business you can also send an email to VentingwithJay@gmail.com so that we can get you on our show Venting Space with Zay & Jay. We'd Love to have you on the show. 

This episode just discusses a few questions that were in my inbox. As part of my year long process I have decided to work on the things about myself I wanted to change as I do every year. This year I wanted to work on allowing my voice to be heard. There's a lot that this episode holds so by all means this will seem more like a venting session then anything. I tried to stay on subject so A lot of events have a bigger back story but due to the amount of questions I did not want to go over 30 minutes and were sitting at 50.

No...Everything that I have to say Is not in this episode and ill probably never get to say what i need to but I am glad to know someone started to pay attentions to the lies being told. AGAIN, I CAN NOT SPEAK ON A PERSONS MOTHERHOOD, CHILDHOOD OR PERSON CONVESATIONS ANF WE NEVER HAD A CONVERSATION. so start looking at the common denominators. Pay attention to the fact that drama only starts after he speaks on something.  

This episode is a brief explanation as to why I want to learn to be heard but respectfully

This episode touches on a few things I am deciding to let go of in my year long process. I am unsure how to let go of certain things because I know that I still get triggered by simple actions so I am hoping that In this year I find peace with all the mistreatment I have accepted.

This episode I discuss a few things that I am working on during my year long Journey. The first step was me going back onto my celibacy journey because I feel like sex is a transfer of energies and I will not allow anyone's energy affect me and my prosses of trying to better myself. Next I will work on forgiving...But not so much forgiving others. Please stay tune as I give updates with my process. I am working on a new way to do my podcast and I only want positivity. If anyone has suggestions as to what I should incorporate in this year long process please send an email to Divein4info@gmail.com  or you can also email my venting space email  ventingwithjay@gmail.com

Please tune into Venting Space with Zay and Jay, we are Hosting our very first Gift Box give away. Enter to win 1 of 4 Boxes If you need the requirement shoot an email to me at Ventingwithjay@gmail.com I'll be sure to respond.

I DO NOT OWN ANY RIGHTS TO THE MUSIC USED IN THIS EPISODE!

This episode explains how you can enter to win one of four gift box give away that Zay and I are hosting on Venting Space With Zay & Jay.

The Entry begins today November 01, 2021 and Ends Saturday November 20, 2021 @ 10am. The email to send all requirements to would me Ventingwithzay.jay@gmail.com

We will be announcing the winners on the following Monday Episode of Mental Health Monday!!!

This episode described a small part of my conversation with my therapist. I have an issue thinking I have to be the perfect parent. In the mist of talking I explained how one of my comments really stuck with me because I never want to be a trigger for my child. 

I also ask a few parenting questions, so please send responses to DiveIn4Info@gmail.com

This Episode I quickly discuss how my last 3 year celibacy journey impacted my life and why I am heading down that path again. I also answer questions that were sent in.

My intentions are not to hurt or offend any one so if you have any questions, comments or concerns email me at Divein4info@gmail.com  I'll be sure to respond. This episode may have a bonus episode explaining even more in depth how the trip down celibacy lane built me into a better woman.

For those of you thinking about giving yourself up...stop and asset the person and the situation. You can't get back certain things in life and your virginity is a very valuable item that can't be replace. Love yourself 

This episode briefly discuss why unconditional love is a fantasy to me and what it truly means to love someone unconditionally. I would like to note that I do not own any of the rights to the music used in this episode. The songs are Anytime by Brain McKnight and Fool to Love By NAO

Please take a listen to my other podcast Venting Space with Zay & Jay. Early next month we will continue this conversation. If you have any questions, comments or concerns or just want to answer the questions below we can be reached at...

DiveIn4Info@gmail.com

ventingwithzay.jay@gmail.com

or Ventingwithjay@gmail.com

        QUESTION:

1) What do you think is the ideal image of unconditional love?

2) Have you ever truly loved someone unconditionally?

3) What conditions do you place on your love, if you have any?

4) Would you prefer unconditional or conditional love and why?

Dive into the conversation As I briefly discuss How I view life in the military. 

          *Please know that I am not here to down talk the military. I love the branch I am in. I am only speaking from the experiences I have had. Also know that not everyone story will be your story. If you want to join go ahead and join and never let anyone else's point of view become yours*

I briefly discuss meeting a person who has honestly made my life a living hell, the connections I have created and then answered questions that I have heard over the years. This is not this best recording being that my computer wanted to delete all my hard week long recordings of this episode. 

If you have any questions comments or concerns please email me at DiveIn4Info@gmail.com

This episode was a quick little venting session for me as I returned from a little break. I want people to start celebrating their own victories, losses, success, failures and the current  process they are facing everyday. I want you all to know that you are all better than you were a year ago, a month ago, a week ago and even a day ago. 

Please practice self love, no one will treat you better than you...so be kind to yourself.

Know that this episode was not intended to hurt, harm or offend anyone in anyway. If you have any questions, comments or concerns please email me at DiveIn4Info@gmail.com

Also yes the sound is horrible trust me I am working on new equipment. So please bare with me and grow with me. Love  and appreciate you all and please stay safe

Episode 2 Unexpected Love discusses how I found love when I wasn't even looking for it and how this man has taught me so many things and set my standards much higher than I would have ever thought I could. I am beyond thankful for this experience so I wanted to share it with my listeners...Stay tuned as I will do a bonus episode as to How it all started, the juicy details and the chill nights.

I must say I do not own the rights to any of the music used in this episode. If you would like to know these songs are but an artist named Nao and the titles of these songs are 'Inhale Exhale" and "It's You".

Dive In intentions are never to harm or offend anyone, if there are any statements made that have offended you please send an email to DiveIn4Info@gmail.com  . That email can also be used to respond to any questions asked during the show, share your stories, and to even give r reach out for advice. With permission of course your questions, stories and answers may be shared on the bonus episode The Unexpected Love Story.

Welcome to season Two, this episodes discusses how I realize I needed to let the toxic people in my life go while trying to give advice to a friend. It will include a Tarot Card Reading, Motivation Card and the Note of Self Love...As I switch up the flow of my podcast I hope that you all continue to grow with me and push me to do better.

I do not own the rights to the song in the beginning of this episode. Nao's music has helped me through all of my rough patches in life so I decided to just share a clip of her music to my listeners.

If you have any question, Comments, concerns would like to give any type of advice or even if I have offended you please send an email to DiveIn4Info@gmail.com

In this episode I discuss my views on why I believe people cheat. This episode includes Personal Notes that I wrote myself "NoteofSelfLove" questions from listeners, a Tarot card Reading, and Motivation card Reading.

If you would like for your voice to be heard send a voice Message to https://anchor.fm/divein4/message

I want to say it is never my intentions to Harm or offend anyone and if you feel offended please send me an email at DiveIn4Info@gmail.com You can also email with any questions comments or concerns to keep the conversation going.

This episode talks about my outlook on red signs and how they are over looked. This episode is strictly opinion based and I can not say that any of my statements are facts. These statements are strictly from my point of view. If you do not agree and would like to give your point of view please send and email to DiveIn4Info@gmail.com to keep the conversation going. 

I wish you all the best and remember to ride the wave with me every week.

I do not own the rights to the songs, playing in the background.

This episode was more so a venting session for me because I want to work on a few things for myself. I am also trying to get back into the flow f podcasting. so forgive me for the awkwardness. 

Good Morning Everyone,

  This episode I answered a question from one of my listeners. It includes my personal opinion. This discussion is an open conversation If you do not agree...or you feel like you can add more to the topic please feel free. You can email me at 

DiveIn4Info@gmail.com

Let me know what you do for your self love days and I will gladly share it with those who listen. 

This Episode can be triggering to some, it's perfectly fine to skip over this episode. The statements are personal POV's and should not be take as facts, as they are just things we faced in our day to day lives. 

This episode was not intended to Target, offend, or cause harm to anyone, so if it offends you know that I apologize and it was not intentional. If you have a different point of view, or if you had something that you would like to get off your chest please email me at DiveIn4Info@gmail.com. I am willing to share your point of view or even have a conversation with you. 

We discuss the treatment of black women from black men, we did not speak on all aspect but we questioned "Do you believe that black me mistreat black women compared to women of other races when it comes to dating? Why or why not"? 

This episode explains why I do not believe baby Mama drama doesn't exists. I was asked last week "Why does the other woman always feel like the baby mother is talking shit? And can we become cool with a chick that always assumes that you are talking shit towards her?" A few guests gave their input on the situations well as I. I would love to hear from a different point of view. So feel free to send me and email at DiveIn4Info@gmail.com I would love to know what you think.

In the beginning of this episode was a song by Ace City. An artist from Milwaukee Wisconsin. If you enjoyed it or would like to hear the rest of the sound please follow him on sound cloud or any other music outlet.

https://soundcloud.app.goo.gl/GXE9uEuemigkkm5V9

This Episode Briefly explains what this podcast will be discussing. Please note that a few of these topics may be triggering, very sensitive and will contain explicit Languages. This podcast is a safe lace for those who need to be heard, just want to vent or wants advice from either myself or other listeners.

If you ever want to be anonymous I would send an email to DiveIn4Info@gmail.com

Thank you for diving into the conversation with your girl Jay Jay. Be sure to ride the Waves with me every Week. Love you Guys