Divorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)
By T.H. Irwin and Jessica Herzberg
Divorce etc... is a funny, uplifting, no-BS conversation with best friends who know how important friendship is during hard times. We've lived it, so we get it!
We ask the hard questions to lawyers, financial advisors, therapists, dating experts and anyone who can help you get through divorce. You don't know what you don't know, but we do!
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Divorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)Mar 29, 2022
Dealing with Dating App Burnout | S4, Ep. 22
If you're interested in dating after divorce, it seems like dating apps are kind of your only option. Have you tried Tawkify? Match? JDate? Hinge? The dating app burnout is a real thing, and the truth is, there are other options for you! In this episode, dating app expert Alyssa Dineen gives us some amazing and creative ways to meet a new partner IRL, as well as ways to stay fresh on apps if that's where you want to be. (Guest: Alyssa Dineen, Style My Profile)
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Unhooking From Your Divorce Story | S4, Ep. 21
If you ever feel like you're living two parallel lives while going through your divorce - you're not alone! It's very hard to separate yourself from everything that's happening in the divorce, but this episode teaches you exactly how to do that, and how to unhook from your divorce story so you can move on! (Guest: Cherie Morris, Dear Divorce Coach)
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Protecting Your Financial Future After Divorce | S4, Ep. 20
The financial implications of divorce aren't limited to how much the settlement is worth, or how much child support or alimony is being paid. The bigger implications come with how well you understand your own situation and how you prepare yourself - and protect yourself - moving forward. This episode tells you what you should be thinking about in order to make sure you're on the right track with your money. (Guest: Hazel Secco, Founder, Align Financial Solutions)
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Mother's Day After Divorce with Michelle Dempsey Multack | S4, Ep. 19
Mother's Day can bring up a lot of emotions when you're divorced, but this inspiring episode shows how good it can get. T.H. talks to Michelle Dempsey Multack about how their Mother's Day experiences have improved since they were married, to the first one after they were divorced up until now. It's an uplifting conversation that shows how resilient we all are, while also dealing with co-parenting, the emotional side of divorce and trying to stay focused on the kids when you're struggling yourself. (Guest: Michelle Dempsey Multack, Moms Moving On)
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Cat & Nat on Friendship, #MomTruths and Unfiltered Shit! | S4, Ep. 18
The ultimate girl gang leaders, Cat & Nat, join us for a lively and laughable episode all about real life, parenting, and being raised by single divorced moms. You'll walk away with both valuable nuggets you can apply to your every day, but also new friends who understand life has its ugly parts, but explain how that doesn't have to stop you from enjoying all the great ones! (Guest: Cat & Nat, Hosts of "Cat & Nat Unfiltered")
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Hot Topics Around Divorce | S4, Ep. 17
We've got another round-up of hot topics questions about divorce - this time we cover everything from why you need a QDRO to whether or not you need permission to change your name to common divorce mistakes. Don't forget to send us your questions to hello@exexperts.com if you'd like them answered in an upcoming episode! (Guest: Tracy Moore Grant, Divorce Attorney, Amicable Divorce Network)
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Important Divorce Questions Answered | S4, Ep. 16
From who files first (and why it matters) to how to avoid being bullied by your lawyer, this episode goes through rapid-fire questions on what you'll want to know, for every step of the process. (Guest: Jennifer Lazor, Divorce Attorney, Lazor Rantas)
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Why Do People Cheat? | S4, Ep. 15
It's the oldest question in the book...why did my spouse cheat on me? We think we know the reasons, but there is so much more involved. And since both of us (T.H. and Jess) have been there - both of our husband's had affairs - we want to help you process the feelings you have for your cheating ex and move on with your life. This is a must-hear for anyone who's been cheated on! (Guest: Erica Bennett, Empowerment Coach)
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The No-Man Diet | S4, Ep. 14
How long do you need to take a break in dating after a breakup? A month? 6 months? A year? Is there actually a "right" or "wrong" amount of time? In this episode, we talk to Luke Entrup and Kendra Cunov, both of whom offer courses on either male or female cleansing, aka taking a break from dating. You'll hear both the guy's and girl's perspective on what every person needs after a relationship ends, to understand how they can actually find the relationship they want. Luke and Kendra have some great advice and insight that will help you understand where you are and what you actually need. (Guests: Luke Entrup, Coach and Kendra Cunov, Coach)
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Divorcing Because Your Spouse is Gay | S4, Ep. 13
It's one of those situations that sounds shocking and also probably happens more often that you think. How do you get through a situation like this? How do you work through the betrayal or feeling like you never even really knew your spouse - and most importantly, how can you move forward in a way that still allows for a productive relationship and co-parenting situation? We speak to Jessica Frew, who has been through this, and has some valuable tips and wisdom to help anyone else in this position. (Guest: Jessica Frew, Relationship Crisis Coach, The BOLD Logic)
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Getting Unstuck in the Divorce Process | S4, Ep. 12
It's easy to get caught up in dealing with the divorce settlement, and oftentimes the lawyers can even rile you up and set you off down a path that you hadn't intended. It's complicated and can get messy and emotional. But there is a different way to divorce, if you aren't planning to litigate, and we find out exactly how in this episode! (Guest: Heather MacKenzie, Hello Divorce)
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What's Fair vs Enough in Divorce? | S4, Ep. 11
How do you define fair versus enough? Especially when it comes to a divorce settlement, when emotions are flying high and at least one spouse if likely feeling that the final result of the negotiation should reflect their "worth." In this episode, we dig into that conversation to help people understand the difference, and how to make sure what they end up with feels both fair and is enough to move on with. (Guest: Kimberly Nelson, CDFA, Financial Advisor to High Net Worth Individuals)
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The Mom's Guide to a Good Divorce with Sarah Armstrong | S4, Ep. 10
When getting divorced, the first year is always the hardest. It's the time when you are figuring out what this new life will look like, for you and your kids. And it's a time when you exprience a lot of new firsts, as you learn how to navigate and adjust. In this episode, we speak to Sarah Armstrong, an executive at Google who knows how to get things done, about how she did it and why it prompted her to wrote the book "The Mom's Guide to a Good Divorce". (Guest: Sarah Armstrong, Author, The Mom's Guide to a Good Divorce")
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Warnings About Dating After Divorce | S4, Ep. 9
It's both exciting and scary to start dating again after divorce, but what are some of the warning signs to look out for? Nowadays, there are a lot of people who say they're divorced when it's not finalized yet, or who aren't totally truthful about their living situation and more. How to know if you're getting the real story? This is a must hear episode with dating stories from the one and only Carmindy! (Guest: Carmindy, Founder Carmindy Beauty, Entrepreneur)
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SPONSORED BY Kimberly Nelson at Coastal Bridge Advisors. Kimberly helps divorcees learn to focus on the life they want to live, and how your money can work for you to get there. Kimberly has been a financial advisor to high-net worth divorcees across the country for nearly 20 years and she understands what we go through during divorce. With offices on both coasts, if you’re ready to speak to someone to help you get your finances and all the money stuff in order, go to www.coastalbridgeadvisors.com
Step-parenting (Bonus Parenting) Done Right! | S4, Ep. 8
If you have kids, then there's a very good chance there will be some type of stepparent role after your divorce - either with your new partner and their kids or your ex's new partner and your own kids. We know it's hard to accept a stepparent in your kids' lives, mostly because we don't want someone else involved in decisions being made and of course the fear of how much our kids will like/love this new person, and how it will affect our relationships with our kids. But there are so many things to know about how to be a stepparent and how to handle your kids having a stepparent, and it really doesn't have to be the nightmare we've seen in movies. We dig deep in this episode and it will be a huge help to everyone out there trying to deal with this situation. (Guest: Maria Napatov, Stepparenting Coach)
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Divorce and Taxes (Part 2) | S4, Ep. 7
It's not a sexy topic, but tax time is coming and there are some specific things you need to know so you don't get hit with any penalties or fees if you're getting divorced. If your divorce wasn't finalized before the end of the year, do you file jointly or separately? If you have kids, how do you determine who claims them? We go through all the important basics so you're set up for success! (Guest: Donna Stern, CPA and Financial Expert)
FYI - Divorce and Taxes Part 1 is S2, Ep 26 with Michele Spence
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Harmonious Coparenting | S4, Ep. 6
Have you ever heard of harmonious coparenting? Does the expression make you cringe or smile? If you want to know ways you can actually make peace and harmony with your coparent, then this is the episode for you. It is filled with such great, actionable tips and Jessica even used one with her own ex/coparent after we recorded it with great success! The advice here is priceless and could legit change the relationship you currently have with your ex! (Guest: Luke Entrup, Teacher and Coach)
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Recovering From a Narcissist | S4, Ep 5
We have heard from so many people that need help recovering from marriages to narcissists, and this episode is a great primer on how to start your recovery and move on. There are specific coping skills that are important to understand, because these relationships are very different, often involving emotional abuse which can leave you feeling both scared and scarred. In this episode you'll learn the top tips for recovering from a narcissistic relationship - as well as what all of that even means. (Kimberly Weeks, Narcissistic Abuse Coach)
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What Can Go Wrong in Divorce Mediation | S4, Ep. 4
The type of divorce you choose depends on who your ex is, but mediation is a common practice in several kinds of divorce. But who does it serve? What can go wrong? In this episode you'll learn exactly what goes on in mediation, how to best prepare for it, what can go wrong and how to prevent that so you come out feeling good about your result. This is a must-listen for anyone getting divorced! (Guest: Gabrielle Hartley, Divorce Lawyer & Mediator, Author Better Apart)
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How Did I Even Marry My Ex? | S4, Ep. 3
Do you sometimes wonder how you even married your ex in the first place? None of us get married thinking we'll get divorced, but if it happens, we all wonder how we got here - especially if you married an extremely difficult person. If you're wondering what's wrong with you or how you allowed this to happen because you wouldn't even be friends with them, then take comfort in knowing you are not alone! So many of us find ourselves asking those very same questions, and our guest in this episode will help you dig deep to find answers that can help you move forward in a positive way. (Guest: Tracy Ross, LCSW & Founder, Redefining Relationships)
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Reintroducing Yourself to You After Divorce | S4, Ep. 2
There's one thing both a new year and divorce have in common...and it's that both make you start thinking about who you are and who you want to be. Divorce is a huge change, but there are so many meaningful lessons to be learned about how to trust yourself, how to understand what it is you're looking for, and how to fully invest yourself in what you want. In this episode you will learn how to actually reintroduce yourself to you - what would you say? This concept will have a huge impact on your life. (Guest: Cheldin Barlatt Rumer , CEO of This is It Network)
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Rediscovering Yourself After Divorce | S4, Ep. 1
Finding yourself suddenly single sucks, no matter how old you are. But it can also be a time for reinvention, inspiration and rediscovery. In this episode, we hear about how one woman's divorce propelled her into a new business and into a second phase in life, and how her own story has inspired others to follow their own path. (Guest: Jennifer Polt, Making Up for Glossed Time)
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Divorced AF - Jess and Her Ex Tell All | S3, Ep. 52
In this special episode, we invite Jessica's ex to come on and face the music...we mean share his feelings and opinions about their marriage and divorce. Hear from both of them on what worked, what didn't, and what they think of each other as exes today. (Guest: Daren Herzberg, Jessica's ex husband)
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Warning Signs of Mate Poaching | S3, Ep. 51
There's a new trend we're hearing about when it comes to dating after divorce - mate poaching. This isn't cheating, exactly, but it's when someone sets up a situation with the ultimate goal of stealing someone's partner. The crazy part is that the one being poached has no idea...and it has real consequences and ruins relationships. One of our favorite relationship and dating coaches explains all the details, how to know if you're being poached and what you can (and should!) do to stop it. (Guest: Jennifer Hurvitz, Doing Relationships Right)
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Divorcing an Addict | S3, Ep. 50
Have you ever been worried that your ex drinks too much or struggles with addiction? This is a very difficult issue to deal with, especially around the holidays, when experts say the problem can increase significantly. How do you keep yourself and your children safe? This episode will help you identify the patterns to watch out for, how to determine if there is truly a problem, and how you can deal with it. The tips and advice you'll hear can help anyone you know that is struggling with a partner who is an addict. (Guest: Kim Kassnove, Life & Relationship Coach)
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Dealing with Emotional Abuse | S3, Ep. 49
Your ex may be an asshole, but how can you tell if what you're dealing with is considered emotional abuse? If you're struggling and not sure you can make it work, then you need to hear this episode. We talk to podcast host and author Kate Anthony, who helps us hear the hard things, while also helping you come to terms with where you are, and how to move forward. (Guest, Kate Anthony, host Divorce Survival Guide podcast, author The D Word: Making the Ultimate Decision about Your Marriage)
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Getting Your Shit Together After Divorce | S3, Ep.48
If you want to know the secrets on how to get your shit together after divorce, then you've come to the right place. We all wonder how everyone else does it, while we feel like we're barely keeping our heads above water. This episode shines light on how to help yourself so you're the one people are wondering about! (Guest: Jamie Hess, @NYCFitFam, Founder of Radical Wellness system & The Big Ask coaching program)
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How to Survive the Holidays During Divorce - Just Us | S3, Ep.47
Are you excited about or dreading the holidays? Either way, it's natural to have feelings around the holiday season, and we've learned a LOT over the years after our divorces. We've compiled some of our best tips to help you survive the holidays, including what to do about holiday cards, gifts, budgeting and what if you are solo - you can still enjoy the holidays, just make a plan. (T.H. & Jess)
Dating an Old Flame After Divorce | S3, Ep.46
It's an interesting phenomenon, but it's very common to find yourself back in the arms of an old flame after getting divorced. Whether it's a high school or college love, or even an old camp fling, almost everyone we know has been there. We talk to Dating and Relationship expert Jennifer Hurvitz about why this is the case, and whether or not it can ever work. (Guest: Jennifer Hurvitz, Doing Relationships Right)
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Should I Take My Ex Back to Court? | S3, Ep. 45
When is it worth taking your ex back to court? Just being unsatisfied with the settlement you reached probably won't be worth it, but if there have been material changes or you have solid reason that things should be changed, then it might be. We ask all those questions so you'll understand what your best options - and chances are - if you find yourself considering whether to back to court. (Guest: Kimberly Cook, Divorce Lawyer & Mediator, Host of Grown Girl Divorce podcast)
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Insider Tips to Dating After Divorce | S3, Ep. 44
So many women wonder what men are thinking when it comes to dating post divorce, and how to approach finding a new partner in a way men actually respond to. This week's episode sheds light on the way men think about all of this, because we talk to a dating coach that specializes in working with men. If you're single and ready to mingle, you have to listen to this! (Guest: Celeste Moore, Image & Dating Consultant)
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Divorce as a Source of Empowerment | S3, Ep. 43
It's time to shift the narrative on divorce, and instead of looking at it as a source of trauma, what about understand it as a source of empowerment? Getting divorced is a huge decision and can be very scary, so you should try and recognize your own inner strength and what it takes to say no, that you won't stay in an unhappy relationship and that oyu deserve more. If you've never heard of holistic divorce, then this is your chance, and this episode is a powerful reminder of what you're capable of. (Guest: Olga Nadal, Holistic Divorce Coach)
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Protecting Yourself from AI in Divorce | S3, Ep. 42
With the growing use and popularity of artificial intelligence, there are some real concerns when it comes to divorce. Reports of people using AI to create deep fakes and falsify photos and documents are happening, and it's something you might need to protect yourself from. In this episode with mediator/lawyer Susan Guthrie, we hear specifics about how AI is being used against people and how you can protect yourself and your reputation. (Guest: Susan Guthrie, Mediator & Attorney and Host, Divorce and Beyond podcast)
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What You Need to Know About Finances in Divorce | S3, Ep. 41
Do you wonder where to even start in order to plan for your financial future? Planning and preparing for divorce can be scary, especially when it comes to financial plans We know how important the money aspect can be, and we love the idea of working with a women-owned and operated financial firm. BP Wealth solutions is led by women who understand the complexities of divorce and this episode goes through how they can hold your hand through the process of setting you up for financial success. (Guest: Lisa Crosta, Director of Weslth Management, BP Wealth Solutions)
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Getting Through Divorce with exEXPERTS | S3, Ep. 40
Hear the first-hand perspective from a client about exactly how exEXPERTS helped her through every step of her divorce, to come out stronger and happier. The end of a marriage is always difficult, but it is also the beginning of something new. In this episode, we talk to exEXPERTS client Jennifer all about her experience, how she reached out to us before the papers were even filed, and how exEXPERTS helped her every step along the way. It's inspiring to hear how Jennifer used the guidance we gave her to grow stronger throughout her process, and to hear her talk about where she is now in such an optimistic way. This is exactly what exEXPERTS and Divorce etc... is all about! If you need support and guidance through your divorce and beyond, please reach out at hello@exexperts.com.
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Empower Kids with a Co-Parenting Calendar During Separation + Divorce | S3, Ep. 39
Kids have a lot to manage when parents get divorced, and empowering them with the calendar can be a great way for them to feel a sense of control and acceptance of the situation. In this episode, we find out about a great line of creative tools and books from Mighty and Bright - founded by a cancer-survivor/divorcee/warrior - that can help kids manage their own feelings and expectations during your divorce. (Guest: Sara Olsher, Founder Mighty and Bright https://saraolsher.com/)
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Are You Ready to Win? | S3, Ep. 38
We're all looking to win in so many areas of our lives, but it's a challenge to make it all happen. Renowned divorce lawyer, Renee Bauer, is a big advocate of empowering women through divorce and beyond, and her new book "She Who Wins" is full of takeaway advice for women everywhere. It's not a divorce book, but the strategies and tips can be applied as you navigate your divorce and life afterwards. This is a must-listen (and must read!) for anyone! (Guest: Renee Bauer, Divorce Attorney & Author "She Who Wins" https://msreneebauer.com/)
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Feeling Like You're in Control of Your Divorce | S3, Ep. 37
Don't you want to feel like you're in control of your divorce? Are you tired of hearing people tell you how bad your divorce process will be? In this episode we talk to attorney and Certified Life Coach Meaghan Norris about being the CEO of your divorce (and your life). You'll hear tips and ways to get into the right mindset, which will ensure you are making the best choices and decision for you and your family. Hear how to take control! (Guest: Meagan Norris, CEO Divorce Coach & attorney www.meagannorris.com)
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Looking for a Job After Divorce? | S3, Ep. 36
A common fear in women getting divorced is whether they will have enough money to support themselves and their families. Many women have been out of the workforce for years and don't know where to start when it comes to looking for a job, and this episode can help! We spoke to Heather Black, who runs an organization dedicated to helping women get back to work in well-paying jobs they could never have imagined. This episode can change your life! (Guest: Heather Black, Supermums https://supermums.org/)
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What is Legal Abuse in Divorce? | S3, Ep. 35
For anyone who's dealing with a high-conflict legal battle, it's important to know that the term "legal abuse" is a real thing. There is a time when all the back and forths, and briefs and motions can become part of a pattern that lawyers and judges recognize as legal abuse. The intention is to try and wear you down, both emotionally and financially, and it is not ok. It is extremely important not to give in just to "get it over with" because you could be making choices that will hurt you later. This episode breaks down when the line is crossed into legal abuse and what you can do to protect yourself. (Guests: Lisa Johnson and Chris Barry, Been There Got Out - www.beentheregotout.com)
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Are You Coparenting with An Asshole? | S3, Ep. 34
One of the hard truths about divorce is that if you have kids, you're not done with your ex once the divorce is final. You now have to transition into the next phase, which is coparenting together. For many couples, finding common ground and being able to coparent peacefully is as hard as getting through the divorce negotiations - and for some couples, coparenting ends up being years of additional arguing and toxicity. We spoke to lawyer and divorce coach Sabrina Cronin about the secret to making it a little easier. (Guest: Sabrina Cronin, Family Law Attorney)
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Divorce Tips for Moms and Dads | S3, Ep. 33
Talking to your kids about your divorce is one of the hardest parts for many parents. When do you tell them? What should you say? What shouldn't you say? What's the best way to handle their emotions - anger, sadness, fear? We talk to Grace Casper from Divorce Tips From Kids, who has suggested answers that are a great guide for any situation. Anyone who has kids should listen to this episode! (Guest: Grace Casper, Podcast Host and Author of Divorce Tips From Kids)
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How Do You Deal with a Smear Campaign? | S3, Ep. 32
Have you felt that your ex is trying to smear you during your divorce, whether it's to your kids, your friends or even to the lawyers and court? Dealing with a smear campaign is a highly emotional situation, but it happens far too often. In this episode, we speak to Matt Phifer all about this version of toxic abuse and how to handle it. This is a must-listen for anyone dealing with a high-conflict divorce. (Guest: Matt Phifer, Therapist, Trauma and Emotional Abuse Expert)
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What Can You Say During Divorce (To Not Get in Trouble)? | S3, Ep. 31
Once you know you're getting divorced, you need to start watching what you say. Nowadays, so many things can be used against you, that you really want to be careful about your communications with everyone in your life. Your texts, your emails, even your social media posts - these are all things that you have to be aware of. And it's not just your messages to your ex...even communications you have with friends and family may end up hurting you. This episode with divorce lawyer Seth Nelson goes through all of the ways to protect yourself, and what can and can't be used in court. (Guest: Seth Nelson, Divorce Attorney and Podcast Host "How to Split a Toaster")
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Have You Lost Your Identity? | S3, Ep.30
Feeling like you've lost your identity after getting divorced is so common because divorce often brings about feelings of "who am I?" now that you're no longer part of a married couple. From changing your name to going back into the corporate workforce, major changes are happening in many ways. Dr. Elizabeth Cohen - the Divorce Doctor - explains that there are ways to reset how you think so you can embrace the new you. This is must-listen for anyone going through divorce and everyone who has already gotten divorced! (Guest: Dr. Elizabeth Cohen, Ph.D., Author, aka The Divorce Doctor)
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Common Financial Pitfalls in Divorce | S3, Ep. 29
Money is a main concern in divorce, and there are many common pitfalls that occur that you can avoid if you know what they are. In this episode we speak to Sara Chevere, Financial Coach and Founder of Finance Babe, to learn what you need to know and how to prepare and protect yourself financially during your divorce. (Guest: Sara Chevere, Intuitive Financial Coach & Founder of Finance Babe)
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Advanced Adulting with Bradley Richardson | S3, Ep. 28
Who doesn't want to become better at Advanced Adulting? In this episode, one of our signature male exEXPERTS, Bradley Richardson, gives us the lowdown on what exactly "Advanced Adulting" is and means, and why is essential for everyone - both men and women. The concept is based on life lessons and learning from mistakes we've made, and how to move forward productively and positively. As Bradley says, he's all about education and mentoring for grown-ass adults. This is a must listen! (Guest: Bradley Richardson, Author, Coach & Founder of Advanced Adulting)
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Divorce Do's and Don'ts with Dennis Vetrano | S3, Ep. 27
When getting divorced, most people just don't know what they don't know. They also don't know what they need to know. In this episode, we speak to Family Law attorney Dennis Vetrano, who deals with a lot of high-conflict cases and tells it like it is. From when is the right time to start meeting with lawyers, to understanding that every time you're in court you are "on stage", so how you act (and even dress!) matters. (Guest: Dennis Vetrano, Family Attorney)
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A Personal Story of Divorcing a Narcissist | S3, Ep. 26
Divorce from a narcissist is one of the most challenging types of divorces a person can go through, and we know it's not always easy to talk about. Getting out of a toxic relationship that includes trauma and emotional abuse is extremely difficult, but with the right support, you can move on and find joy - and love! - again. In this episode we hear a first-hand account of divorcing and moving on from a narcissist, so if this is a situation you are or have faced, you are not alone! (Guest: Alyssa Dineen, Author & Dating Expert)
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Parenting Apps for Divorced Parents | S3, Ep. 25
What do parenting apps do and how can they help divorced parents? And are there certain features you should be looking for if you want to use one, like GPS locator or the ability to upload photos and documents? In this episode we speak to Michael Daniels, Founder of the co-parenting app FAYR. Hear about what makes Fayr different than other apps out there, and why this might be the right choice for you. (Guest: Michael Daniels, Founder FAYR)
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