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Get Intimate and Close With Doctor K

Get Intimate and Close With Doctor K

By Doctor K Doctor K

This podcast is for everyone who is not afraid to get intimate on some level. This is a show all about intimacy. Different perspectives, different topics, and different views. With one purpose. Join me on this journey to get deep, get raw, get real, have some laughs, and get intimate. Hosted by Doctor K, who is a criminal forensic specialist, and also work full time in a major construction industry together with her sharp wit, fiery opinions about intimacy, playful humor, and heartwarming rapport instantly pull you into her conversation—and prove inspiring podcast for both men and women who st
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Women over 40 who are seeking self-discovery

Get Intimate and Close With Doctor KJul 02, 2023

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Women over 40 who are seeking self-discovery

Women over 40 who are seeking self-discovery

Welcome to a transformative journey on the Invincible Woman podcast, a special episode of "Get Intimate and Close with Doctor K." Join us as we celebrate and empower women over 40 who are seeking self-discovery, meaningful friendships, and triumph amidst feeling invisible. In this episode, we'll explore hypothetical stories of overcoming challenges and share practical tips for self-discovery and finding meaningful connections. Get ready to be inspired! In today's episode, we'll cover life after 40, feeling invisible, embracing self-discovery, and gaining renewed perspectives.
Jul 02, 202306:12
The stigma of being the 40+ Invincible Woman

The stigma of being the 40+ Invincible Woman

Welcome to "Get Intimate and Close with Doctor K," the podcast that delves fearlessly into various levels of intimacy, exploring captivating relationship topics for all listeners. In today's episode, we'll cover the issue of women over 40 being considered invisible in the dating scene, highlighting society's preference for younger partners.
Jun 30, 202307:37
Why are more women in their 40's+ choosing to stay single?

Why are more women in their 40's+ choosing to stay single?

Women are making the choice to stay single because men gave us so much bullshit on why we should be fucking doormats to their own emotions as opposed to taking fucking accountability .
May 22, 202307:03
Why is it so hard to make Life Altering Decisions after 40+ years of life?

Why is it so hard to make Life Altering Decisions after 40+ years of life?

I have homies that are 90+ years old with more action and energy than me. There’s something dreadful that happens when we turn forty.

No matter how much we try to dismiss society’s standards of success, somehow we get a jolt when we reach this age. It’s as if there’s a sign that says “Game over!” and we are forced to take a hard look at our lives.

Jul 13, 202233:47
Can You Cut Cords with Your Twin Flame

Can You Cut Cords with Your Twin Flame

I'm answering questions I have received lately on social media about twin Flames and cutting cords with the. I'm answering based off my Empathic perspective. Taking a look at the good and ugly side of your Twin Flame.
Feb 25, 202218:28
How do I Get Over a Breakup?

How do I Get Over a Breakup?

I now see these diverse consequences as a result of just how broadly breakups change our lives. Everyone knows that splitting with a lover means losing a huge source of physical affection, intimacy, and mutual care. But breakups also have a range of subtler effects: reshuffling our identity, throwing off our internal biological rhythms, and forcing us to revamp assumptions about our future.
Feb 02, 202216:01
Truth can be found in the love of others - A story of Survival

Truth can be found in the love of others - A story of Survival

All of us are meant to thrive!


We believe no one is broken, just only holding onto broken belief systems or traumas from their past. I need to be reminded and sometimes there isn’t anyone there to reaffirm my strength and point out the miles I’ve covered on my quest to prove that hope exists and that my life is important—both in that process and for the not-so-simple fact that I have breath in my lungs and a unique, courageous, tender heartbeat.
Jan 09, 202229:12
Sexual Chemistry at Any Age

Sexual Chemistry at Any Age

There is no right or wrong age to find love. After all, to love or to be loved is one of the most beautiful emotions one could experience. Also, there are different things people want from love in different phases of their lives. When we are young, we want love to be exciting and thrilling but we expect it to be steady and mature once we grow up. If you are a man in your forties looking for a life partner, here are a few things women in the same age bracket really want in their partners
Dec 20, 202135:58
Women 40+ & the Invisibility Factor

Women 40+ & the Invisibility Factor

Let me tell you why I feel visible and why the word invisible this last year has made such a strong impression on me.
Dec 08, 202116:00
(MA) Grief can Potentially Make you Horny

(MA) Grief can Potentially Make you Horny

Have you heard the phrase "sex is a slave"? Emotional and physical pain light up the same parts of the brain. During grief your brain is automatically seeking out endorphins. Sex also releases endorphins. *** Have you heard of "crygasms"**** and last: Asking for a friend, "are simultaneous orgasms a real achievable thing"???
Nov 09, 202118:10
(MA) Cuffing Season/ is it a One Sided Relationship

(MA) Cuffing Season/ is it a One Sided Relationship

There's no timeline for when you should fall in love with someone. Knowing the signs to determine when you're in a one sided relationship will help you move forward with confidence and make wise decisions. Last but not least, Singleness is NOT my thing--- hear me out.
Oct 24, 202118:42
(MA) Kissing, Kinky Sex during Covid, & Dating Apps During

(MA) Kissing, Kinky Sex during Covid, & Dating Apps During

(MA) The tongue is one of the strongest muscles in the body, and the greatest asset in our sex life. Consider Covid a good reason to get kinky with sex, and now is the time for singles to get comfortable with Dating Apps.
Oct 23, 202117:36
Intimate Parenting Conversations with our Adult Children.

Intimate Parenting Conversations with our Adult Children.

Are you raising a difficult toddler in 2021's pandemic. Need a little advice? How about a Teena who just told you they're pregnant? Dedicated to Destiny.
Oct 12, 202132:09
Have you ever Fantasized about being in an open relationship? Explicit

Have you ever Fantasized about being in an open relationship? Explicit

A successful non-monogamous relationship must prioritize communication, honesty, openness, collaboration, and respect—the same things that are important in any relationship. Doctor K also answers questions about Safeword and when to use them.
Sep 27, 202123:14
Can a One night stand cure your break up?

Can a One night stand cure your break up?

Every single one of them totally, completely, utterly sucks. Even if your partner was no bueno, even if you were the one who ended things, even if it was an amicable split, a breakup can sometimes leave you facing a serious identity loss.
Sep 25, 202120:06
Explicit 18+ Audience: Ladies, perhaps you have been Ghosted because of a man's Penis

Explicit 18+ Audience: Ladies, perhaps you have been Ghosted because of a man's Penis

Wait, What the Hell?
Because of his penis?
It’s quite possibly the reason you’ve been ghosted…over and over and over again. Let me explain.
And more....how many of you made it to the third date? Doctor K discusses these topics and answers questions.
Sep 11, 202121:16
Apology Love Languages and Dating the Right Person at the wrong time.

Apology Love Languages and Dating the Right Person at the wrong time.

Have you ever dated the right person at the wrong time? Have you heard about Aplogy Love Languages? This and much more Doctor K answers in this episode.
Sep 10, 202120:51
Global Pandemic and Intimate Relationships- How are we doing folks?

Global Pandemic and Intimate Relationships- How are we doing folks?

Has the global pandemic strengthened or distanced your friendships and Intimate relationships? How about your sex life? Did it ruin it? Let's dive in for an intimate moment.
Aug 13, 202117:51
Can empaths find love?

Can empaths find love?

Can empaths find love? If so, what types of personalities should they avoid and or date.
Aug 03, 202131:26
Self-Care is the best Cure for Rest and Good Habits help us Sleep Better...my kinda Porn.

Self-Care is the best Cure for Rest and Good Habits help us Sleep Better...my kinda Porn.

Sadly, we need to acknowledge that Real Rest is accessible to only the privileged few who have time, which is why performative, perfectionist Rest Porn can be so triggering. To the majority of the crew, time is not our friend. Instagram is 100% to blame for this. Presumably, we all have a different perspective of rest. Additionally, side note: do you sleep with your make up on or off? Does it really matter?
Jul 04, 202118:43
Avoiding Dry Texting, Learning Apologize & Effective Communication Leads to Intimacy.

Avoiding Dry Texting, Learning Apologize & Effective Communication Leads to Intimacy.

It is vital to give effort when you 1st start texting your crush. It's the moment you're attempting to set the tone in the relationship. In relationships, communication allows to you explain to someone else what you are experiencing and what your needs are. The act of communicating not only helps to meet your needs, but it also helps you to be connected in your relationship.
Jun 30, 202123:12
If you want friends, you have to be a friend.

If you want friends, you have to be a friend.

This episode is a follow up from Episode 9. Things that keep us from having deep connections with friends are fear of being rejected, fear of getting hurt and fear of being exposed. We don't want others to think we don’t have it all together. Not one of us has it all together. Just because someone appears to have it all together on the outside, that doesn't mean everything is together on the inside. We have no idea what others go through until we shift the relationship from Surface level to a deeper connection.
Jun 20, 202129:39
How do you overcome someone who doesn’t want to be in your life? 

How do you overcome someone who doesn’t want to be in your life? 

How do you overcome someone GENERATION- X BEAUTIFUL STRONG WOMEN, TODAY I am talking to you. Have you ever had someone in your life totally play you and take all your energy from you and when he was with you he never even gave you the time of the day? Yes today I am talking to you. And if you're that man who has happened to stop and listen to me right now, and the shoe fits I wholeheartedly invite you to stay and listen to my episode. Perhaps I may compell you and tugg at your heartstrings and somehow get to comprehend how much you hurt her by your actions so do you don't do this again to another beautiful strong woman.


Jun 16, 202117:23
Catfishing - Tik tok and Cyber bullying.

Catfishing - Tik tok and Cyber bullying.

In this episode we recorded live on tik tok. Topics of discussion were Tik Tik and exchange of information, Tik tok and Cyberbullying. Raw and uncut.
Jun 14, 202134:01
Communication should bring you and your partner closer to each other.

Communication should bring you and your partner closer to each other.

EXPLICIT
Communication should bring you and your partner closer to each other. This episode we focus in on communication beginning with cheating. Why do men and women cheat? Shortly after touching on this topic; I jump right into communication with your new sexual partner. I finish off my first episode with a whammy "How many of you moan during sex? Pleasure moan versus pain moaning. All this and more!!

Music: The Head and the Heart "Honeybee"

Jun 14, 202143:12
Social Media and Dating

Social Media and Dating

Episode 4
EXPLICIT
On this episode we talk about the New Facebook Dating app, everything you wanted to know. What the fuck is up with "UDV" or what the fuck is a UDV? Swallowing and why this may be a trend that is slowly dying. Everything a man wanted to know about women and oral sexx! What is this new term "Roaching"
Jun 14, 202141:02
Why does it hurt when I have sex?

Why does it hurt when I have sex?

EXPLICIT
Your clit, why does it hurt after I have sex, spanking, a woman’s sexual signature, and wtf is up with the pull-out method and why has it become so popular? Lot of fun on this episode.

Song: Billie Eilish; my strange addiction.
Jun 14, 202150:07
Do Men Ever get Tired on Intimacy? And Much more!! 

Do Men Ever get Tired on Intimacy? And Much more!! 

Music Selection: Gryffin with ZOHARA - "Remember"
This week's drop features special appearance from Music Producer Al Buffone III getting deep and raw about why men would ever get bored of sex...that is if they ever do.
After that Doctor K gets even deeper and vulnerable sharing her experience with masturbation. Don't worry, there is a bit a light humor sure to make you laugh.
"Wrapping" up the podcast Doctor K discusses condom safety. Why you shouldn't let a condom get stuck inside you more than 4 hours. Dangerous shit!!
Lots of fun and probably my favorite so far!
Jun 14, 202156:29
How to deal with Toxi Friends and Family

How to deal with Toxi Friends and Family

How to deal with toxic friends and Family. Music Selection - Billy Idol "Catch my Fall"
Description - How to recognize warning signs and how to set safe boundaries when the relationship has become toxic.
Jun 14, 202150:07
Do yourself a favor & don't send your "ex" this text

Do yourself a favor & don't send your "ex" this text

It's summertime and I just want to give you a little friendly reminder because well fun and the sun brings the worst in us sometimes. SO IF you're wondering whether it's a good idea to send your ex an innocent lil "Hbd!" text, let me just give you the short answer: It's not. But the long answer is a bit more complicated.
Jun 13, 202108:00
My own Personal Deamons with Depression

My own Personal Deamons with Depression

Depression isn't just about feelings and emotions. It's also about your physical well-being.
Jun 12, 202113:34