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dot.Spillin'

By dot.Spillin'
Patricia Love and Carina Remi share their stories about life, love and relationships. Sharing not only their experiences, but some tips and tricks on what they have learnt along the way.
It is a channel with a whole lot of real life moments. The good, the bad and the ugly. The ups, the downs and the sideways. Not to mention the funny, the embarrassing and the ridiculous.

Two city girls. One Channel.
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Table Topics Vol I
If Oprah recommends, then we on it! Table Topics a dinner party game for all different kinds of nights, everything from girls nights to road trips. A game for great conversations and interesting perspectives. Tune in as P & C put out some cards and discuss, having one topic lead to the next and next to then end with a random conversation about the stars and gold... #goodtimes **FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM @DOT.SPILLIN**
44:59
March 3, 2021
Meditation
A little self-love! Meditation, or simply just a moment of silence to find peace and harmony within yourself, is extremely important. It can help you with anxiety, stress and nerves. And it can literally take you from 100 to zero real quick, it brings such a calmness to your essence and your being, that when we stop the routine, it affects us deeply. Tune in as P & C discuss the different way to meditate and how they meditate, when and why... plus listen in as they share their personal stories on epic meditations and manifestations. **FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM @DOT.SPILLIN**
50:42
February 24, 2021
Weddings Pt. 2
First let's discuss the proposal. Do you want big and extravagant?! Or something low key?! Doesn't it even matter?! Do you want it to be a surprise or not?! What about your wedding dress?! What kind of style?! Is there a budget?! What about the shoes?! Heels or flats?! And bridesmaids or nah?! Big wedding or small wedding?! And let's not forget the honeymoon... Tune in as P & C share their thoughts and opinions on weddings everything from the proposal all the way to the honeymoon. **FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM @DOT.SPILLIN**
49:47
February 17, 2021
Bonus: Valentine's Day
Happy LOVE day! The day that some of us love and look forward too, while others not so much. Why is that?! What is it about this day that can make you smile or make you cry?! Is it the pressure and obligation?! Has Valentine's Day lost its meaning?! Or have we distorted it by playing games of show and tell?! What is Valentine's Day really about?! Is it just a couples thing?! Or it is way more than that?! Because if it is about love, then why do we need a day... Tune in as P & C share their opinions and thoughts, debating about one of the more controversial days of the year with regards to love. Plus, find out who is team Val's day and who isn't and why. **FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM @DOT.SPILLIN**
21:58
February 14, 2021
Netflix Popping
What is popping on Netflix right now?! Bridgeton?! Winx?! Any other shows?! What about Crave?! Since we are at it, who does it for you?! And no, not in that way... not the nasty nasty... we mean who makes you laugh?! Who do you think is funny?! And who is absolutely not funny whatsoever?! Listen in P & C chit-chat. **FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM @DOT.SPILLIN**
29:54
February 10, 2021
Covid Dating
Do you think it is an ideal time to date?! Or not at all?! With a good 75% of the population at home, whether working or not, do you think it's a good time to get to know someone?! Get close and build a relationship?! Or are intentions not really genuine due to our current reality?! Are people using dating apps solely because they are bored and/or lonely?! Tune is as P & C discuss the topic at hand, plus what they think may come after, that is, when the relationship gets tested in the real world. And bigger question, do you even like online dating?! Is it weird?! Or nah?! **FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM @DOT.SPILLIN**
39:42
February 8, 2021
Influencers on Covid
What is happening to them?! They are all over the place, some are so on-it, others are fizzing out... what does that say about everything happening?! Are some people realizing the dangers and affects of social media while others are falling prey too?! Because what happens if there is a blackout and the internet stops?! After all, they are predicting a 10 day blackout?! Listen in as P & C share their opinions and thoughts on the matter. **FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM @DOT.SPILLIN**
36:44
February 3, 2021
Weddings & Kids
Neither of us are getting married at the present moment, but that doesn't mean we can't talk about it?! It's a girl thing, maybe even a guy thing! Who knows?!  Now with that said, were you one of those people who always dreamt about their wedding as a child or did you only begin to think about it with age?! What did you think about?! And has it changed with time?! Has the priority shifted from wedding to creating a life together... creating future?! And given today's circumstances, would you be opened to not getting married, but still creating a life as though you are... kids and all?! Does having a wedding really matter?! And what conversation must be had if that is the case?! After all, we do have a biological clock and it is ticking... Listen in as P & C share their personal stories, thoughts and opinions on the topic of discussion. Plus, the exception to the two year rule of engagement. **FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM @DOT.SPILLIN FOR OUR WEEKLY Q&A'S**
33:54
February 1, 2021
Q&A's Vol. II
Can the opposite sex just be friends?! Is there such a thing as 'being friends'?! Or are there people you really can't see yourself with?! Is though they are family?! What about people who wait in the friend zone?! Hoping and wishing... waiting for the moment to strike... how do you deal?! How do you go about it?! Are men more likely to step over the line?! Or is a woman?! And on the note of trust, have you ever gone through your partner's phone?! Would you?! And why?! Listen in as P & C share viewers responses along with their thoughts and opinions. **FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM @DOT.SPILLIN FOR OUR WEEKLY Q&A'S**
22:25
January 27, 2021
Randomness Vol III
Originally this was an episode on the top 10 signs of a controlling partner, but because Ms. P was just so excited about the topic of discussion, it ended up taking a turn to talking about the Kardashians. Yes, we got there... how?! Who knows?! It's pretty impressive the link made between the two, the switch between conversations having everything to do with each other yet nothing at all. But before switching topics, we do share some personal stories and advice on how to protect yourself from toxic situations. Tune in to hear how it is P & C managed to link the original topic of discussion to that of the Kardashians to then talk about how it would be to live a life in fame. Would you do it?! **FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM @DOT.SPILLIN FOR OUR WEEKLY Q&A'S**
50:09
January 25, 2021
The Next One?!
And so we have a viewer question and along the back story. First thing first, is the question, 'Why is the next one always the one?!' Have you ever felt like that?! If so, why do you think?! Is there an explanation for it?! Or does it just happen to be that way?! Listen in a P & C share not only a viewer's question along with their back story, but offer a little bit of insight, advice and perspective on the situation in question. **FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM @DOT.SPILLIN FOR OUR WEEKLY Q&A'S**
31:08
January 20, 2021
Today's Rant Vol II
We are back with another rant and it's a long one, starting off chatting about social media overload and ending with the discussion of the United States Riot on Capitol Hill. And yes, we got opinionated with this one! The sense of entitlement flowing through humanity right now is unreal; some are justified, others not so much! But is it getting a little much... Given that everyone is home and itching to figure out how to make ends meet, due to the pandemic along with the pressures of New Year revamping... everyone seems to be doing everything and more to stand out and be relevant. Is it a bit much?! Are people over publicizing... overcompensating?! Or is it expected given the whole 'New Year, New Me' slogan?! Why is it people wait until to the new year to take action?! And what about all these opinions these days... everyone always having something to say?! OOhhh... and let's talk riots in the States... no summary on this sub-topic. You have to tune in to hear as P & C share their thoughts and opinions, because this is a juicy one! **FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM @DOT.SPILLIN FOR OUR WEEKLY Q&A'S**
52:22
January 18, 2021
Baby Mama Culture
Let's have a chat about glorification. Is being a baby mama a thing now?! Is it the new thing to do?! Or do you still see people glorifying weddings?! Is it necessary for you to be married to have kids?! Or are you opened to the idea of not having to be married?! And does age play a role in it all?! What does marriage mean to you?! What about those that offer the benefits of marriage without the marriage?! Tune in as P & C share their opinions, thoughts and perspectives on the matter. Ps. This one got #HEATED !!! **FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM @DOT.SPILLIN FOR OUR WEEKLY Q&A'S**
36:17
January 13, 2021
The Wrong Thing To Say
Have you ever noticed that your partner says the wrong thing at the worst times?! They mean well, but they slowly dig their own grave... trying to quickly get out of whatever they put themselves in, not realizing they are doing more harm than good?! So... ask. That is, ask the story behind the comment, because the comment doesn't always match up to the story. Put it in perspective before acting, because let's face it, man boost and make up all sorts of nonsense that ain't that true. Some without intention and with... therefore, it is important to know the difference. Tune In P & C share their personal stories on the matter, along with their opinions and thoughts on the matter. **FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM @DOT.SPILLIN FOR OUR WEEKLY Q&A'S**
21:08
January 11, 2021
Randomness Vol. II
People and their feelings?! What is offensive what isn't?! How can you tell nowadays?! And what about accents?! ow did they originated?! Why do people sound different if they were taught English from their mother countries?! Is there a proper way to speak English?! And how do we know?! So many questions. How come accents differ?! Which way is the right way?! Is there a right way?! And Netflix?! Limited series?! Listen in as P & C have the randomness of conversations and share their thoughts, while shooting the shit. **FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM @DOT.SPILLIN FOR OUR WEEKLY Q&A'S**
38:19
January 6, 2021
Q&A's Vol. I
Should a woman know how to cook before marriage?! What about a man?! Or does a man have different duties?! If so, what kind of duties?! And have you ever heard of those man who ‘don’t know how’, but do?! Wife is gone and all of a sudden they know how to cook and clean?! Yup, it happens! What about wearing ugly pjs to bed?! Acceptable or not?! Listen in as P & C share viewers responses along with their thoughts and opinions. Plus, a tip of advice for females who do everything and more. Don’t get him use to you doing everything, or else… **FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM @DOT.SPILLIN FOR OUR WEEKLY Q&A’S**
22:28
January 4, 2021
Bonus: New Year 20/21
Happy New Year!! We got rants, reflections, lessons, take backs... you name it, we got it! It is all here in #OURFIRST ever one hour episode #NewYearsSpecial , because it isn't all #NewYearNewMe we are keeping real with what we learnt in this epic year 2020, both personally and socially. Most importantly, we are getting real with 2021. What to expect?! What to take with you?! And what to leave behind?! Tune in as P & C share everything from personal, mental and spiritual awakening of the past year, along with their predictions, dreams and aspirations for 2021. **FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM @DOT.SPILLIN FOR OUR WEEKLY Q&A'S**
51:58
January 1, 2021
Conspiracy Chats
It's a random one! Well... kind of, not really. It is random in the sense of not being our usual topic aka #dating and #relationships , but definitely not random with what is happening in the world #COVID . That's right, we are here talking about the big elephant in the room. What you think?! Nay or yay?! Do you trust the vaccines?! What is really happening in the world?! Is there something bigger at play?! Tune as P & C share their thoughts and opinions, along with whatever conspiracies they have heard, and may or may not believe. Plus, Ms. P shares a timbit for the New Year! Keep in mind, the last full moon of 2020 is TONIGHT! So you definitely want to hear this episode! **FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM @DOT.SPILLIN FOR OUR WEEKLY Q&A'S**
34:21
December 30, 2020
You're NOT A Catch
In the game of dating, so many of us make ourselves out to be something that we are not, while expecting more than we are and more than some of us ever will be. Is that fair?! It is right?! How can you expect everything and more, when you yourself aren’t that?! Because, it is one thing to know your worth and aim for the best, but another thing to boost yourself up to the point of playing outside the lines… that is, pretending and making yourself more than what you are. Tune in as P & C share their thoughts and insight on the matter… because what’s a catch anyway?! And does it change for man and woman?! **FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM @DOT.SPILLIN FOR OUR WEEKLY Q&A’S**
26:18
December 28, 2020
Bonus: Christmas
Let's talk Christmas. What is your favourite Christmas song? Worst present? Best present? Traditional meals? And how has Christmas changed from when you were young?! Are you still excited or not so much?! Tune in as Ms. C's and Ms. P's share their Christmas stories and talk about all their holiday cheer. *Ps. There is a secret mom hack. **FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM @DOT.SPILLIN FOR OUR WEEKLY Q&A'S**
35:04
December 25, 2020
Today's Rant Vol. I
What can be more controversial than the 2020 US Election?! The one and only Donald Trump?! Entitled people?! People voting without knowing facts?! Do we even really know who Biden is?! And what about Madame VP?! Did anyone even win the presidency?! What about the voter fraud allegations?! What is going on in America?! Listen in as P & C rant on the characters and politics of the US Election. **FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM @DOT.SPILLIN FOR OUR WEEKLY Q&A'S**
24:52
December 23, 2020
The Come Back
It starts with the friend zone talk to then moving on into the 'come back'. You know that come back?! Not the one where you come back revamped and better than ever... no no no! The one where the guy you liked, the one who left you, comes back and is all like 'hey babe...' WEIRD! Right?! Where did you go?! Why did you go?! And why are you here?! What do you want?! And should I take you back?! These are all questions P & C converse about, because let's face what do you do?! **FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM @DOT.SPILLIN FOR OUR WEEKLY Q&A'S**
28:04
December 21, 2020
Pet Peeves
What are your pet peeves?! What much do they irritate you?! Get under your skin?! What can you stand and absolutely can NOT?! What are you experiences dealing with them?! Any interesting stories... funny stories?! What about things that have impacted you as much so that you can't deal?! The things that you need to walk away from?! Tune in as P & C share their stories and pet peeves. **FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM @DOT.SPILLIN FOR OUR WEEKLY Q&A'S**
58:44
December 16, 2020
First Date Questions
It's been Covid and nothing is happening... it is dry. No fun stories to share, because nothing is happening. But as nothing is happening we stumbled upon an article as we were... well looking for something entertaining to talk about. The article is by eHarmony, '18 First Date Questions'. Tune in as P & C end up sharing the questions, along with some weird quirks and funny stories, answering some and commenting on others. **FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM @DOT.SPILLIN FOR OUR WEEKLY Q&A'S**
34:03
December 14, 2020
Friendzone to Douchbag
Have you ever dated someone in the friend zone?! And what about those guys that won't take 'no' for an answer?! Would you eventually date them?! And what happens if you do?! And what about those people who expect everything and more out of their significant other, putting their standards at high level, when they don't even match them themselves?! Is it only men who do it, or do woman do it as well?! Now what about 'attracting' douchbags?! Is it a thing?! How is it a thing?! And what advice can be given?! Tune in as P & C discuss. **FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM @DOT.SPILLIN FOR OUR WEEKLY Q&A'S**
27:52
December 9, 2020
Pick Up Lines
We are at it again, but this time sharing pick up lines. Everything from funny to cheesy to smooth and slick. We even try to think of some on our own, not very successful, but definitely worth the laugh. Listen in as P & C share their nonsense. **FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM @DOT.SPILLIN FOR OUR WEEKLY Q&A'S**
30:06
December 7, 2020
The 'C' Word
You know that word... the one that starts with a 'C'... No! not the one ending in 't', but the one ending in 'y'. Yeah! That word. C-R-A-Z-Y. The one almost every guy that has done wrong uses to describe his ex, the mans you should not be dealing with... the ones that are trouble. But wait, some girls really are cray cray so... benefit of the doubt?! Because as a woman have you not dated any crazy guys?! Tune in as P & C discuss. **FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM @DOT.SPILLIN FOR OUR WEEKLY Q&A'S**
22:11
December 2, 2020
Interesting Facts
We needed a bit of a change up from the regular relationship topics, so we decided to hit you with some interesting facts. It got to a sharing of a whole three facts and ended in a conversation about UFOs, Covid... and basically the end of the world. Listen in as P & C talk through the randomness and share some of their knowledge and insight on everything that 2020 has brought. **FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM @DOT.SPILLIN FOR OUR WEEKLY Q&A'S**
41:47
November 30, 2020
That 'So...' Conversation?!
So every relationship reaches a point where you have the conversation of 'where is this going?', 'what is this?'... You know the 'are we dating exclusively' conversation?! Or the better question, 'is this going somewhere', 'going to be something'?! That moment where you want to know if you are wasting time or not, especially as you get older, valuing time more than ever. Listen in as P & C offer some insights the nature of intention and commitment, and how it shifts with age and gender. Plus, tune to hear what listeners had to say when we asked 'when should a man propose?', and 'should a woman ever propose to a man?'... How long do you wait?! 3 years? 8 years? Thoughts and comments?! It's a juicy one! **FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM @DOT.SPILLIN FOR OUR WEEKLY Q&A'S**
28:48
November 25, 2020
Dating While Lonely
Seems pretty obvious as to why you shouldn't date while you are lonely, yet so many of us do it?! Why do we do it? And when do we do it? What is loneliness really all about?! Is it the need to feel love regardless off it is good or not?! Or are there moments in life, where we require filling a void to get through?! As though necessary in some way... But what if you don't know you're lonely?! Plus, what about dating someone with nothing to lose?! Tune in as P & C talk about the importance of self awareness and values, sharing their thoughts, insights and personal stories on the topic. **FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM @DOT.SPILLIN FOR OUR WEEKLY Q&A'S**
34:02
November 23, 2020
Randomness Vol. 1
So it started with pet names... that is, not what you would name your pet but what you would nickname your significant other. Continuing on to pet peeves to just a bunch of randomness and conversation. Tune in as P & C share and discuss, bridging out into all sorts of topics. **FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM @DOT.SPILLIN FOR OUR WEEKLY Q&A'S**
41:43
November 18, 2020
Green Card Dating?!
What is 'Green Card Dating'?! Who does it?! Where are you weakest?! The Caribbean or anywhere where anyone's wanting to get out?! Have you ever fallen prey or have you never been tempted by the forbidden fruit?! What about those people who make money off of it?! Would you or would you not?! And are woman or man more luckily to fall into the trap?! But what if it works out and there is a happily ever after?! And what about the people who 'Green Card Marry'?! Tune in as P & C share their stories and experiences on the topic of conversation. Most importantly, how can you protect yourself from a hidden agenda. **FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM @DOT.SPILLIN FOR OUR WEEKLY Q&A'S**
24:33
November 16, 2020
Embarrassing First Date Stories
We decided to implement something new... STORYTIME brought to you by P's search engine questions on @quora. Today's stories are based on the question 'What was your most embarrassing moment on a date?' Tune in as P & C share the stories they found, which well... weren't all that embarrassing, so they end up sharing their own... and well... there are some pretty shameful moments. **FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM @DOT.SPILLIN FOR OUR WEEKLY Q&A'S**
27:58
November 11, 2020
Hurt People Hurt People
So it started with break-ups to what does it take to hurt someone?! Can anyone do it or is it something that only happens when you yourself aren't satisfied, because how could anyone in their right mind want to hurt anyone?! It takes something... no?! And what ways can hurt be explained... expressed... shown?! In what ways can it manifest, impacting and affecting your life and those around you?! Tune in as P & C share not only their insights in the matter and topic at hand, but their listeners as well. And to bring it back to where we came from... what is the best way to break up?! Is there a best way?! Respectable way?! Is it bad to just ghost?! Or are there cases whether disappearing is warranted?! **FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM @DOT.SPILLIN FOR OUR WEEKLY Q&A'S**
21:55
November 9, 2020
Instagram Likes
So many of us focus on social validation, but what does it actually give us?! What does it do for us?! Nothing... It does nothing unless it is being used in the appropriate way. So yeah, it is great to have the clout, but unless the clout follows us and in not in terms of instagram, it mean nothing. Because if Instagram were to stop tomorrow what would you have?! Tune in as P & C mock while discussing the importance and impact of social media. **FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM @DOT.SPILLIN FOR OUR WEEKLY Q&A'S**
37:09
November 4, 2020
Cuffing Season
What is 'cuffing season'?! When does drafting start?! And when does it end?! When do you know if you got picked or not?! What about the playoffs?! When do they began and when do they end?! Most importantly, when do you know you won the championship?! And not just for the year, but for years to come. And what about seeing your 'boo thing' everyday?! Yay or nay?! Do you require your alone time... if so, what happens when your living with someone or when your married?! Or does it change when you find your special someone?! Tune in as P & C share their opinions and thoughts on the matter. Plus, we asked our viewers and shared their responses on topic of discussion, on whether or not they know what 'cuffing season' is and if they believe in it... aka partake in it. **FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM @DOT.SPILLIN FOR OUR WEEKLY Q&A'S**
21:55
November 2, 2020
Bonus: Halloween
Reading another one from @thoughtcatalog, this time were going with the Halloween Theme,  '15 Spooky Questions To Ask Your Friends'. Tune in as P & C answer everything from 'What would your last meal be?' to 'If you were to commit a murder, how would you go about it?' to 'Have you ever used an ouija board?'. Stories, fears and laughs. PLUS, listen in as P shares how Chunky ruined her childhood...  **FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM @DOT.SPILLIN FOR OUR WEEKLY Q&A'S**
27:22
October 31, 2020
Meeting the FAM
When should you introduce your boyfriend/girlfriend to the fam?! Has your family ever even met a boyfriend/girlfriend?! Is it different given your age?! As age progresses are you less inclined to introduce significant others to your family until you know they are the one?! And is there a time limit to when you walk away, if shouldn't conversations aren't had?! That is, in terms of future. What about introducing them to your friends?! Yay or Nay?! Or should you follow the lead of a man or be set on boundaries?! And what about if your family didn't like your significant other, would you break up with them or not?! Listen as P & C share their perspective and opinions, should you and should you not?! Why and why not?! Plus, we tune in as we share viewers responses and feedback on the matter. **FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM @DOT.SPILLIN FOR OUR WEEKLY Q&A'S**
29:55
October 28, 2020
Alpha Female
Can you ever be too intimidating to date?! The answer is YES!!! Regardless of what a man thinks, females who have their life together and doing big things rarely get dates and/or have their inbox blowing up... and if they do it is for all the wrong reasons! Yet why it is that men say, "I want a boss woman", when in reality none of the boss women are being approached?! Does social media ruin it for us alpha females?! Showing our successes and displaying our accomplishments... should we not share until we know they are 'keepers'?! And on another note, what about men?! Most importantly, why is it that for the alpha male it works in reverse?! Dating non-stop and inbox blowing up?! Which could be an explanation for why they can think that the alpha female is in the same position... when really she is not... why?! Tune in as P & C share their insights and thoughts on the matter. Because as two alpha females in their 30's, one single and one recent entangled, it's been a journey in terms of dating. **FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM @DOT.SPILLIN FOR OUR WEEKLY Q&A'S**
34:14
October 26, 2020
Seasons For Love
Are there seasons to falling in love?! Yes or No. Do you think there is the best season to find love? Summer, Fall, Winter or Spring?! What about the worst season to find love?! Pros and cons. What about the holidays?! Do they make you feel a kind of way when you don't have anyone?! Or is it just whatever?! And do you only notice things when you are lacking?! When you're single, it is couple everywhere... and then when you are in a relationship, it is singles everywhere?! So what it is?! Are more people single now then before?! Or do you find more people shacked up?! Listen as P & C their experiences and thoughts on the questions at hand, as well as share viewer responses. **FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM @DOT.SPILLIN FOR OUR WEEKLY Q&A'S**
22:07
October 21, 2020
Being Present
What does 'being present' mean?! Forgetting the past and that's it?! Or it is listening to the moment and what it has to offer in reference to the past?! Does the past even play a role?! Should it play a role?! Is it a tool or is it deflection?! What about intuition?! Is it a real thing?! Tune in as P & C cover some pretty deep questions on how dealing and embracing the past is necessary to moving forward and living a healthy life in all aspects of life. **FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM @DOT.SPILLIN FOR OUR WEEKLY Q&A'S**
19:16
October 19, 2020
33 His Questions Vol. 2
This episode is for the men out there looking for some answers. We came across an article called 33 Questions Men Have Always Wanted To Ask Women found on @thoughtcatalog, and so here we are answering those questions. The topics vary and the answers will surprise you as P & C are two very different ladies, yet the same. Tune in to get some fresh perspective with some different outlooks. **FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM @DOT.SPILLIN FOR OUR WEEKLY Q&A'S**
34:09
October 14, 2020
One Night Stands?!
Have you ever?! Would you ever?! Are there people who love and prefer them over relationships?! Or are those people just empty and trying to fill avoid?! And does it affect you as a person if you do sleep around?! What if your partner was one to sleep around, would that bother you?! Is that even a discussion or do you not ask about body count?! Does it even matter?! Regardless, what you require to get intimate with someone?! Do feelings need to be present or not?! Tune in as P & C share their opinion and insight, along with their thoughts on what they have come to learn and see through not only themselves, but other as well. **FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM @DOT.SPILLIN FOR OUR WEEKLY Q&A'S**
24:36
October 12, 2020
Six Ways To Pick Up A Guy?!
Topic of discussion is Cosmopolitan article Pick Up Lines For Girls. Tune in as P & C share the six ways to pick up a guy. More importantly, join the conversation on whether or not a female should even be picking up a guy?! Does it matter to you or are you traditional?! Listen in as we chat about our opinions and thoughts on the matter. **FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM @DOT.SPILLIN FOR OUR WEEKLY Q&A'S**
23:42
October 7, 2020
Texting vs Calling
Which and when is it appropriate?! Do you prefer one over the other?! Does circumstance matter?! Business vs personal? What about in relationships?! Are you an all day 'texter' or 'touch-base' kind of thing with a voice follow up?! What about being left on 'read?! Is it rude or does it depend on context?! And how about video calls... are you accepting or not?! Is it a bit intruding?! Do you get ready or not?! Tune in as P & C answer these questions along with their viewers responses. **FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM @DOT.SPILLIN FOR OUR WEEKLY Q&A'S**
23:33
October 5, 2020
The Lurking Ex
Ex's luring on your social media... What do experts say? Intentional or unintentional?! Or is it just a habit? What does it mean?! Why?! And does energy play a role?! Would you go back or not?! Do you block and/or delete?! What about their numbers... do you delete them?! Who would you think is more luckily to view an ex's story?! Are men more luckily than women to go back?! Listen in as P & C share their first hand experiences, what they think with regards to the topic of at hand... why, when and even how?! **FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM @DOT.SPILLIN FOR OUR WEEKLY Q&A'S**
24:09
September 30, 2020
Speed Dating
Have you ever speed dated?! Would you?! Have you ever wanted to, but never did?! Are you curious?! Scared?! Don't know what to expect?! Are there rules?! What happens... what doesn't?! What kind of people are there?! Quality or not?! Is it strictly for dating?! Or can you network?! Make friends?! The list of questions goes on and on... So, guess what?! Adventure Time!!!! We took a night out on the town and attended an event hosted by Toronto Dating Hub at Opium Bar located on Dundas Street West and Ossington. Tune in as P & C their experience, thoughts and take backs. A huge thank you to both Toronto Dating Hub and Opium Bar for having us! It was an amazing experience! **FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM @DOT.SPILLIN FOR OUR WEEKLY Q&A'S**
23:47
September 28, 2020
Single Parent Dating?!
Would you ever date someone with kids? Have you ever? If so, what are your experiences with it? Drama from the ex partner, clean closure, or open wound?! Good father or bad?! Good mother or not?! Being the first or next?! Does any of that make a difference or does none of that matter so long as the relationship works?! Most importantly, is it a deal breaker or preference?! What about people who wait until an emotional connection is established to then reveal they have children?! Yay or nay?! Is it tricky or not?! And is there a time limit on when one should speak up?! And who's responsibility is it to say or ask?! Tune in as P & C their insights and opinions on the topic of conversation. **FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM @DOT.SPILLIN FOR OUR WEEKLY Q&A'S**
23:36
September 23, 2020
Finishing Last?!
Do good people really finish last?! Do good girls choose bad man and do good men choose bad girls intentionally or not?! Why or not?! Do men take longer to get it? Or do woman? And what even are the characteristics of a bad girl or bad guy?! Most importantly, if the good really does finish last, why do you think?! And does it matter?! Because what does finishing last really mean?! And what difference does it make, if you end up getting whatever it is you wanted?! Tune in as P & C share viewers insights and opinions, along with adding to the conversation. **FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM @DOT.SPILLIN FOR OUR WEEKLY Q&A'S**
19:10
September 21, 2020
Amazing in Your 30's?!
Because hitting the big Three-0 can be a bit terrifying... some of us cry, others avoid and very few embrace. So here we are sharing an article from @bolde_media called 13 Amazing Things That Happen In Your 30s. Tune in as P & C  go through the article and add to the conversation. Special shout out to @marliegoddard for pushing us in our 30s!!! **FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM @DOT.SPILLIN FOR OUR WEEKLY Q&A'S**
32:06
September 16, 2020
A Good First Date?!
What makes a good first date? Is there a day of the week that is best for date night?! Does any day work for you or should the first few dates be on a weekend? And are weeknight dates 'squeeze-ins' dates?!  Also, what are the do's and don'ts to a first date? We asked listeners their thoughts on a few of these questions and share their answers. Tune in as P & C add to the conversation. **FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM @DOT.SPILLIN FOR OUR WEEKLY Q&A'S**
30:06
September 14, 2020
His 33 Questions - Vol. 1
This episode is for the men out there looking for some answers. We came across an article called 33 Questions Men Have Always Wanted To Ask Women found on @thoughtcatalog , and so here we are answering those questions. The topics vary and the answers will surprise you as P & C are two very different ladies, yet the same. Tune in to get some fresh perspective with some different outlooks. **FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM @DOT.SPILLIN FOR OUR WEEKLY Q&A'S**
21:26
September 9, 2020
First Glance
What attracts your attention at first glance? Is it all looks at first?! Eyes, shoes, teeth, height... the list goes on as we share our viewers responses and dig deeper into what one can really notice upon first look. Is it all really superficial?! And what about developing feelings for someone you were never attracted to at first glance?! Is it good or nah?! Tune in as P & C share opinions and perspectives on the matter, plus what they look for in a man. **FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM @DOT.SPILLIN FOR OUR WEEKLY Q&A'S**
23:02
September 7, 2020
Those Married People
Should you or shouldn't you go married people for advice on dating?! What about relationships?! Do they know what they are talking about or do some of them just think they know everything because they are married?! And let's talk about the pressures of having to have a partner at family gatherings and functions! Why is it a problem to be single?! And why is it that people almost feel bad for you if you don't have someone?! What if you are happy alone?! Tune in as P & C share their insights. **FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM @DOT.SPILLIN FOR OUR WEEKLY Q&A'S**
23:05
September 2, 2020
How Freaky Is Too Freaky?
We asked our viewers and so here we are sharing their responses, plus our own little spin on it. What is too freaky? Is there such a thing? Where do you draw the line, that is, if you draw a line? Talking some toe licking, costume play, BDSM, toys, introduction in the bedroom... even sharing secret fantasies. Plus, some weird sh*t. Listen in as P & C have a special guest, a somewhat expert in the field of freaky. **FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM @DOT.SPILLIN FOR OUR WEEKLY Q&A'S**
27:22
August 31, 2020
Cheating
Have you ever cheated? Why or not? If you did, would you tell them? And what would cause you to cheat? What about those people who want their cake and eat it too?! Or those 'okay' with opened relationships?! These are just some of the questions we are discussing. Tune in as P & C distinguish the difference between emotional and physical cheating, sharing their experiences on the topic, as well as their stories. **FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM @DOT.SPILLIN FOR OUR WEEKLY Q&A'S**
24:16
August 26, 2020
First Date Netflix n' Chill?!
What do you think about Netflix n' Chill as a first date? Is it even a first date?! More importantly, what is the quality of the man asking for this types of dates?! The kind of woman saying 'yes' to this dates... is she in ways devaluing her worth?! And the word 'chill'?! SOH... Tune in as P & C share their insights on the topic, giving reasons as to why a first date ought to be more than just Netflix, because after all the first date sets the precedence for the entire relationship.  BONUS: We asked our viewers what they thought, and even went the extra mile to find out why and why not. Listen in as we share their responses. **FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM @DOT.SPILLIN FOR OUR WEEKLY Q&A'S**
19:22
August 24, 2020
Dating An Exotic Dancer?!
Fun question from our *LIVE* episode. Would you ever date an exotic dancer?! We asked our viewers and share their responses. Plus the difference between male and female strip clubs. Tune in as P and give their take on it, not only with exotic dancers, but in dating dancers in general. **FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM @DOT.SPILLIN FOR OUR WEEKLY Q&A'S**
22:23
August 19, 2020
Single After 30?!
Is it a problem to be single after thirty?! We asked our our viewers and share their responses. Regardless of yes or no, why would it be a problem and why would it not?! The pros and cons. Slim pickings, in your ways, not enough opportunity vs. knowing yourself, experience, living... the list goes on. Tune in as P & C share not only the viewers responses but their take on the whole situation. **FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM @DOT.SPILLIN FOR OUR WEEKLY Q&A'S**
31:45
August 17, 2020
Fake Friends
What is a fake friend? And can you tell?! We asked our our viewers and share their responses. Most importantly, what does it mean to be a real friend? The difference between understanding and being inconsiderate. Tune in as P & C share their stories on the people they have come across, the ones that use you, put you down and don't support you, while also taking into account the different kinds of friendship there are. Taken from one of our *LIVE* episodes. **FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM @DOT.SPILLIN FOR OUR LIVE EPISODES, PLUS BE A PART OF OUR WEEKLY Q&A'S**
28:01
August 12, 2020
To Send Nudes or Not?!
To send nudes or not to send nudes? And if so, how to send nudes? Listeners responses, plus a bonus on how P and C do it! Fun question from our *LIVE* episode. **FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM @DOT.SPILLIN FOR OUR LIVE EPISODES, PLUS BE A PART OF OUR WEEKLY Q&A'S**
11:39
August 5, 2020
Broke man vs. Gold Digger
First date, who pays?! The 'showdown' game guys are playing when it comes to the first date. Is it right? Or is it a sign of a broke man?! But wait, can you expect what you yourself aren't bringing to the table?! You know that gold digger kind of thinking. Listen in as we discuss setting standards that not only they must meet, but us as well and why it is important to be financially stable when dating. The explanation behind the explanation. PLUS: SPECIAL GUEST FEATURE **FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM @DOT.SPILLIN FOR OUR LIVE EPISODES, PLUS BE A PART OF OUR WEEKLY Q&A'S**
24:26
July 29, 2020
Closure
Is there such a thing as closure? What is closure? How and why you need it, if you need it? **FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM @DOT.SPILLIN FOR OUR LIVE EPISODES, PLUS BE A PART OF OUR WEEKLY Q&A'S**
08:12
July 22, 2020
Relationship Deal Breakers
The don'ts of relationships. What is a must for you and what isn't? What do you need and what don't you need? What would make you call it off and what would make you stay?  Listen in, as we not only answer these questions, but ask our viewers and share their responses. **FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM @DOT.SPILLIN FOR OUR LIVE EPISODES, PLUS BE A PART OF OUR WEEKLY Q&A'S** Ps. This is was a LIVE EPISODE!!
31:59
July 15, 2020
Self-Confidence
What does it mean to be self-confident? We asked our viewers and we got answers. Listen in as we share not only their responses, but what confidence mean to them; along with our thoughts on what they said and what confidence means to us. Because what is confidence?! And what does it mean to you?! **FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM @DOT.SPILLIN FOR OUR LIVE EPISODES, PLUS BE A PART OF OUR WEEKLY Q&A'S**
12:25
July 8, 2020
New & Healthy Relationships
How long should it take for a guy to ask you out? What is a healthy relationship? Should you or shouldn't you share on social media? And to what extend? Why and why not? BONUS: How Mr. Old News creeps back in once Mr. New is in the picture?! **FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM @DOT.SPILLIN FOR OUR LIVE EPISODES, PLUS BE A PART OF OUR WEEKLY Q&A'S**
19:50
July 1, 2020
Ghosting Friends
Have you ever ghosted a friend or been ghosted by a friend? Do you give indicators that the relationship is ending? Do you provide explanations or just simply walk away? Why or why not? **FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM @DOT.SPILLIN FOR OUR LIVE EPISODES, PLUS BE A PART OF OUR WEEKLY Q&A'S**
20:32
June 24, 2020
Failed Relationships
How to deal with a failed relationship. What are the stages you go through? Who does the breaking up? How do you break up? In person, on the phone, or completely avoid? What does it take for you to break up? What bothers you most about the break up? Finally, what is the best part about it all? **FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM @DOT.SPILLIN FOR OUR LIVE EPISODES, PLUS BE A PART OF OUR WEEKLY Q&A'S**
23:50
June 17, 2020
Obsession vs. Passion
How madly in love would you want your man? Would you want him to be head over heels to where he is obsessed with you? Or is passion that you want? Because there could be a such a thing as too much love and/or needing love, and this is where daddy issues and mommy issues come to play. Along side the intolerance of our generation. **FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM @DOT.SPILLIN FOR OUR LIVE EPISODES, PLUS BE A PART OF OUR WEEKLY Q&A'S**
19:11
June 12, 2020
Size vs. Motion of the Ocean
What happens when faced with a small one? What to do or not to do? Does size matter or is there such a thing as motion of ocean? It is fifty-fifty? BONUS: Hear a man's perspective. **FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM @DOT.SPILLIN FOR OUR LIVE EPISODES, PLUS BE A PART OF OUR WEEKLY Q&A'S**
24:15
June 12, 2020
Social Media Lurkers
Why is it that people religiously watch your story, but never like your post?! Is it hate, jealousy, confidence, pride... what it is?! What and how is it that they benefit from watching you, but not supporting you?! Sharing insights, stories and perspectives on this one. **FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM @DOT.SPILLIN FOR OUR LIVE EPISODES, PLUS BE A PART OF OUR WEEKLY Q&A'S**
19:06
June 12, 2020
High Maintenance vs. Self-Care
From facial exercises to the topic being or not being high maintenance. But first answering, what is high maintenance?! And are certain self care regiments considered being high maintenance? To then have perspective on self acceptance, and how things change over time in given circumstances. Most importantly, how age alters both outlook and routines.   **FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM @DOT.SPILLIN FOR OUR LIVE EPISODES, PLUS BE A PART OF OUR WEEKLY Q&A'S**
20:57
June 12, 2020
The Last Supper
The not so cut throat concept of 'The Last Supper'. The explanation and understanding with which to not only cut the noise around you and acknowledge your people, but to better understand yourself and who it is that you are as a person.  **FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM @DOT.SPILLIN FOR OUR LIVE EPISODES, PLUS BE A PART OF OUR WEEKLY Q&A'S**
23:21
June 12, 2020