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Stop Playing Diversity® with Dr. Monica Cox

Stop Playing Diversity® with Dr. Monica Cox

By Dr. Monica Cox

Join authenticity coach, equity consultant, entrepreneur, and disruptor Dr. Monica Cox as she simplifies complex DEI concepts and explains what it really means to embrace diversity, equity, and inclusion in the workplace. With nuggets and affirmations, she empowers and educates people who want to succeed in their careers while emerging wiser, bolder, and whole. She also addresses tough workplace topics, challenges the status quo, and starts conversations that need to happen but aren't. Let's transform organizational culture and the people in them one episode at a time.
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You Are More Than Your Job Description

Stop Playing Diversity® with Dr. Monica CoxJan 14, 2022

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You Deserve to Be Seen and Heard at Work

You Deserve to Be Seen and Heard at Work

This episode reminds employees of their rights and their values at work. Allow these words to empower you amid workplace storms.

Jan 29, 202411:45
How to Be Strategic as a Black Woman at Work

How to Be Strategic as a Black Woman at Work

Black women are dying and suffering in higher education and across industries. Today's episode presents several strategies for Black women to remain safe in spaces where they aren't always centered as priorities.


Jan 22, 202410:49
Bravery Basics and Common Sense at Work

Bravery Basics and Common Sense at Work

Today's episode goes back to basics with ways to demonstrate equity at work. If you've never learned how to work in ways that protect others and demonstrate equity excellence and integrity, this episode is for you.

Dec 18, 202307:42
Healing Doesn't Have an Expiration Date

Healing Doesn't Have an Expiration Date

Today's episode aims to provide comfort, understanding, and support to those who have faced harm in their pursuit of equity, reminding them that healing is a deeply personal process without a set timeline.

Dec 11, 202306:20
Are You the DEI Scapegoat?

Are You the DEI Scapegoat?

Today's eye-opening episode offers advice about ways to avoid being a scapegoat in the realm of equity work. As you journey toward creating more inclusive and equitable environments, learn how to recognize the complexities and potential pitfalls that come with being an equity accomplice.

Dec 04, 202309:05
Stop Being a Wishy-Washy Leader

Stop Being a Wishy-Washy Leader

This episode defines what it means to be a wishy-washy leader and why it's dangerous in workplaces. Learn how to challenge the status quo in your decision-making and change inequitable policies and practices. If you want to be a courageous leader who steps out of your comfort zone, leads with conviction, and makes a lasting impact in your organization, this episode is for you.


Nov 27, 202307:53
How to Be An Authentic Equity Accomplice

How to Be An Authentic Equity Accomplice

This episode is a continuation of practical advice I offered about being more than a diversity, equity, and inclusion ally. Equity accompliceship involves doing the real work that moves people to professional safety and to places where they can thrive at work.

Aug 28, 202309:42
How Long Can You Grieve a Job?

How Long Can You Grieve a Job?

Today's episode addresses the topic of work grief. Although much is known about mourning the loss of a person, what's it like to grieve the potential of your professional dreams and opportunities? Let today's episode guide you on a reflection of the ups and downs of your job.

Aug 21, 202309:38
The Patriarchy Wants You to Be Silent

The Patriarchy Wants You to Be Silent

Today's episode exposes the tentacles of the patriarchy at work and its harmful impact on organizations. Learn how to push against silence to uplift others, create more inclusive futures, and be on the right side of history.


Aug 14, 202308:53
The Weaponization of DEI

The Weaponization of DEI

Sometimes good intentions aren't enough when you engage in DEI efforts. Today's episode offers examples of how DEI can be weaponizing and what it looks like to protect people against attacks that can harm one's career and reputation.

Jul 31, 202308:53
Your Job Is Not Your Identity

Your Job Is Not Your Identity

Never be so connected to your job that you can't separate your identity. Today's episode offers guidance about how to remain whole and bold beyond the duration of your employment.

Jul 24, 202309:28
What If Your Organization Never Changes?
Jun 26, 202309:59
The Joy of Working in Healthy Spaces
Jun 19, 202309:36
Back to Basics: Centering Humanity at Work
Jun 12, 202306:54
The Vulnerability of Storytelling

The Vulnerability of Storytelling

Humanity is the core of diversity, equity, and inclusion (DEI) work. Today's episode reminds you about how understanding and sharing stories move diversity, equity, and inclusion forward.

May 29, 202308:18
Beware the Professionalism Police

Beware the Professionalism Police

Professionalism is a social construct that often penalizes people who don't fit a mold. Today's episode offers examples of ways that professionalism is weaponized in oppressive systems and spaces and presents tips to open our minds about differences in the workplace.

May 21, 202309:23
Workplace Valedictorians, Professional Lynchings, & Workplace Streets
May 01, 202312:17
Stop Being the Bravest in the Room
Apr 24, 202308:51
DEI and the Fear of Social Media

DEI and the Fear of Social Media

Today's episode delves into a fear that many marginalized people have about sharing their thoughts and views on social media. While it may not be the workplace, virtual spaces can be just as unforgiving as brick-and-mortar environments when it comes to penalizing those who express their opinions. This episode is a must-listen for anyone looking to navigate the often-choppy waters of expressing oneself virtually in today's world.

Apr 17, 202307:06
Calling Harm What It Is

Calling Harm What It Is

This episode talks about the importance of being honest and upfront in organizations to create a more diverse and inclusive environment. We need to call out organizations' DEI limitations and have candid conversations about the harm they cause. While it can be uncomfortable, we need to learn how to take feedback without getting defensive. Truthtelling is essential to make real change happen and to create a culture that values authentic diversity and inclusivity.

Apr 10, 202308:19
It's Not Enough to Sit at the Table

It's Not Enough to Sit at the Table

Many organizations say they have advanced their diversity, equity, and inclusion efforts when marginalized people sit at the proverbial table. Even if someone has a seat and a voice at that table, actions are required to enact real DEI change. Learn what that means in today's episode. 

Apr 03, 202307:50
Trust Your Instincts

Trust Your Instincts

When an organization doesn't respond to DEI as you expect, believe that organization. Be literal as you notice the policies and how people move. Here's to trusting your DEI instincts as you grow in this work. 

Mar 27, 202309:58
Keep Moving on This DEI Journey

Keep Moving on This DEI Journey

Today's episode offers strategies to stay focused as diversity, equity, and inclusion (DEI) is being politicized. No anti-DEI law can squash and delay this work.  Listen to these encouraging words as you move on a path that ensures all environments are equitable and safe. 


Mar 13, 202307:47
Your Grace Threshold

Your Grace Threshold

As diversity, equity, and inclusion wars intensify across the U.S. and world, marginalized people have the option to remain silent or call oppression out. Today's episode shares thoughts about having the option to extend grace toward people who oppress others. 

Mar 06, 202306:39
What Does Real Inclusion Look Like?

What Does Real Inclusion Look Like?

Today's episode offers practical lessons about inclusion and what it looks like in the workplace. Pick up your notebook and learn how to remove the fear of bringing everyone and their perspective to an organization's table. 

Feb 27, 202307:44
Silence Is Killing Your Organization

Silence Is Killing Your Organization

Today's episode is an in-your-face lesson about how silence is destroying organizations and the people in it. Learn the consequences of silence and why you can't move forward if you refuse to speak up against injustices and oppression at work. 

Feb 20, 202311:03
Speak to Me Directly

Speak to Me Directly

Today I'm sharing a practice that moves people toward authentic diversity efforts. Directness is a key feature in reducing misunderstandings and ensuring that the workplace is healthy for everyone. 

Feb 13, 202311:28
Trust Is a Two Way Street

Trust Is a Two Way Street

Trust is expected when you work in an organization. There are times, however, when employees must rely on their instincts despite what people in the organization might say or do. Learn how employees and employers should work to foster trust at work. 

Feb 06, 202309:41
Speaking Out Against Harassment

Speaking Out Against Harassment

This is my real story of harassment and how it impacted me. I'm pushing my listeners to use the tools available to them when bad things happen in the workplace. It's not enough to take diversity training. When bad things happen, put your training in place to protect yourself and those around you. 

Feb 02, 202312:05
Moving from Diversity Training to Action

Moving from Diversity Training to Action

Today's episode offers solid suggestions for moving beyond performative diversity. Like football, you have to get in the game once you've trained. It's time to execute what you know so you can get DEI work done. 

Jan 23, 202309:23
Stop Playing Diversity in Systems

Stop Playing Diversity in Systems

Today's episode pushes against systems and offers Stop Playing Diversity reminders that will make any environment better. 

Jan 16, 202309:23
Own Your DEI Brand

Own Your DEI Brand

Once you say you're a DEI advocate, it's important to own your DEI brand. That means walking the walk that you talk. Today's episode presents a reflection on what this looks like as you grow in the DEI space. 

Jan 09, 202309:23
The Power of Promotion and Protection

The Power of Promotion and Protection

Doing diversity, equity, and inclusion work is more than having good intentions. Sometimes you need someone in your corner promoting and protecting you as you take hits that will come your way. Learn the power of these two P's as you move beyond hopes and wishes for effective DEI outcomes. 

Dec 19, 202207:54
Moving from Good to Great in DEI Work

Moving from Good to Great in DEI Work

Many people have plans for doing DEI work. All those plans aren't effective. Today's episode offers advice about ways to move from mediocre to extraordinary DEI efforts.
Dec 12, 202207:36
The Diversity Pushback

The Diversity Pushback

Anyone who does DEI work is going to experience resistance. Today's episode helps you reflect on ways to move beyond the DEI pushback so you can fulfill your purpose without fear and with no regrets. 

Dec 05, 202206:54
Telling My Trauma Story Where It Happened

Telling My Trauma Story Where It Happened

Seven years after Dr. Cox entered her organization, she shared her workplace trauma story. This episode reveals the power of owning and sharing your story and the healing that comes with that storytelling.

Nov 28, 202208:38
About Those Nontraditional Diversity Needs

About Those Nontraditional Diversity Needs

Sometimes diversity is more than how we traditionally define it. This includes caregiving and working in a pandemic. Today's episode highlights ways diversity isn't so straightforward but is still needed. It's time to think out of the box. 

Nov 14, 202209:07
Am I the Diversity Hire?

Am I the Diversity Hire?

It's hiring season and time for organizations to recruit candidates who will bring diversity to the workplace. Dr.  Cox offers a quick reflection about signs that you might be a token hire for an organization.

Oct 31, 202205:51
Practical Advice about Becoming a Diversity Accomplice

Practical Advice about Becoming a Diversity Accomplice

Today's episode is about the basics of accompliceship. It takes courage to stand up for diversity, equity, and inclusion principles under pressure. Learn practical steps to begin this journey toward authentic diversity. 

Oct 17, 202208:20
Love Yourself First (A Tribute to My Mother)

Love Yourself First (A Tribute to My Mother)

Lessons of Dr. Monica's childhood are front and center in today's episode. She encourages listeners to return to their core as they reflect on how they want and need to be treated in the workplace. 

Sep 26, 202208:05
Does Your Organization Have a Daddy Complex?

Does Your Organization Have a Daddy Complex?

Many people know about the patriarchy and its impact on diversity, equity, and inclusion efforts in organizations. Today's episode discusses the toxic "Daddy Complex," which is prevalent in organizations and hinders true DEI efforts. 

Sep 19, 202208:22
Three Real Life Diversity Examples

Three Real Life Diversity Examples

Stop Playing Diversity School is in session! Today's episodes present three real-world examples of diversity do's and don'ts. Get out your pen and paper, because it's time to reflect and take notes about how to do diversity, equity, and inclusion well. 

Sep 12, 202210:19
Are You Ready to Retire?

Are You Ready to Retire?

Many people look forward to retirement after working in jobs they love. Unfortunately, many people also suffer in the workplace and can't wait to leave. Today's episode presents reasons why some people are ready to leave the workplace sooner than later and how this connects to diversity. 

Sep 05, 202207:55
Moving Forward By Being Receptive

Moving Forward By Being Receptive

This episode is about being open to diversity opportunities when they overtake you. People want what you have to offer, and it's your responsibility to sown your gifts and talents into people who want what you have to offer. Be open to new possibilities. 

Aug 29, 202206:29
DEI Is Everyone's Responsibility

DEI Is Everyone's Responsibility

This episode is your reminder that diversity, equity, and inclusion work shouldn't be delegated only to people most likely to benefit from those efforts. Even if you don't have a title, we owe it to each other to learn more about diversity and step into the unique roles each of us can play. 

Aug 22, 202207:45
Getting to the Root of Toxicity

Getting to the Root of Toxicity

Many organizations focus on the toxicity of people in an organization without realizing an organization's problems are systemic. Today's episode offers practical tips to get to those toxic roots so your organization can stop playing diversity. 

Aug 15, 202207:05
Celebrate Your Diversity Wins

Celebrate Your Diversity Wins

A lot of my episodes are edgy and call people and organizations out. Today I share what happened when my Stop Playing Diversity message was embraced. Let's celebrate our diversity wins together. 

Aug 08, 202206:27
Why I Call My Organization Out

Why I Call My Organization Out

Anyone who has listened to my episodes knows I am not afraid to share insights about my workplace. Today's episode explains why I go hard for workplace justice. This is not a game. It's time for organizations to walk the walk they talk. 

Jul 18, 202211:12
About Those Thorns in Your Organization

About Those Thorns in Your Organization

Every organization has prickly people. What do you do about them? How do you move forward? Today's episode offers a those about navigating the rough terrain of your workplace. 

Jul 11, 202207:41
What Happens After the Pandemic?

What Happens After the Pandemic?

We are all different from how we were two years ago. What lessons have we learned to make us better in the areas of diversity, equity, and inclusion? Let's be better together. 

Jul 04, 202207:01