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Drunk Luv Confessions

Drunk Luv Confessions

By Tam Joyner

When relationship talks mix with alcohol, who knows what will happen next.
Cover art photo provided by Jahsie Ault on Unsplash: unsplash.com/@shapeofshape
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Drunk Luv ConfessionsOct 18, 2018

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Is this the end?

Is this the end?

I always hated that song by New Edition cuz Goodbyes can be painful. I’m just checking in with you guys since I have been MIA. I missed you guys!!!
Dec 20, 202017:58
Pandemic Pondering: Three is the Magic Number ... yes it is

Pandemic Pondering: Three is the Magic Number ... yes it is

This is a confessions episode. I discuss failed Twitter hookups and why I prefer Long Distance Baes and Boos. Listen in for my personal gossip!!
Nov 14, 202017:40
Pandemic Pondering: The Price has Gone Up

Pandemic Pondering: The Price has Gone Up

I’m back again talking shit about broke boys complaining about gold diggers ... HOW SWAY? HOW!!???? Y’all listen and tell me what you think!!!
Nov 05, 202016:19
Corona Crazy: Summer Gon’ Y’all

Corona Crazy: Summer Gon’ Y’all

Origin speak. Oh the days of Petty Patty. Rambling remains righteous. Y’all be safe out there.
Aug 27, 202021:35
Quarantine Chronicles: Scratchy noises and Moonlight Madness

Quarantine Chronicles: Scratchy noises and Moonlight Madness

I ain’t talking about nothing much but you should listen to me. Cuz I am funny at least to me and those who find me cute. I talk about a bad guy role from my past. LMAO yeah I’m terrible
Aug 04, 202022:12
Quarantine Chronicles: Fat Dudes & Birthday Sex

Quarantine Chronicles: Fat Dudes & Birthday Sex

This week’s rant about how narratives of relationships change when things are over. And I just had to set some things straight. Also Birthday Sex is overrated.
Jul 19, 202016:56
Quarantine Chronicles: The Usher Episode

Quarantine Chronicles: The Usher Episode

These are my confessions ... I give you three things about me ... I hope my momma don’t listen. I wanted to get back to the origins of the podcast. Tell me your secrets ... I’m nosey like that.
Jul 02, 202020:12
Quarantine Chronicles: Say it with your chest

Quarantine Chronicles: Say it with your chest

This was truly and episode where I dump all this man/woman shit on you guys. Again I’m just tired. And you can hear it in my voice.
Jun 18, 202023:20
Quarantine Chronicles: There’s a war going on outside

Quarantine Chronicles: There’s a war going on outside

I attempted to bring humor into a pretty glum reality this week. I hope you all enjoy
Jun 03, 202016:59
Quarantine Chronicles: You ain’t got to lie Craig

Quarantine Chronicles: You ain’t got to lie Craig

This is solo me just yapping about some things that have been going on. Liars are going to keep lying even during the pandemic.
May 25, 202019:40
Quarantine Chronicles: Having a penis is not a personality trait

Quarantine Chronicles: Having a penis is not a personality trait

I’m so tired ... the title is self explanatory. I need for men to develop personality during this pandemic. I don’t want to talk about your dick. Please get a hobby.
May 09, 202016:01
Quarantine Chronicles: Fearfulness aka I hate my feelings

Quarantine Chronicles: Fearfulness aka I hate my feelings

This was a rant that I needed to get off my chest so that my anxiety would turn itself down. Just listen and let me know if you feel this way some times.
Apr 20, 202018:37
Corona got’em crazy: Cold goin’ MAD

Corona got’em crazy: Cold goin’ MAD

This was just a 15 minute ramble about my time social distancing ... a longer episode is on the way.
Mar 31, 202017:18
My Struggle Love ... Ohwee Ohwee oOh

My Struggle Love ... Ohwee Ohwee oOh

We discuss the ppl who feel the need to go thru pain and agony for love. These folks feel that it is not real love until you go thru something... we do not agree. What do you think?
Mar 08, 202045:14
Handsome Trash

Handsome Trash

So this was my night to go off. I hope you enjoy my rants on this episode. Dating is ghetto and men on dating apps are trash. Enjurr!!!
Feb 20, 202038:22
These are my confessions

These are my confessions

This week we narrow down the questions for the Boyfriend Application. We bring back Foolishness & Shenanigans and give up some real confessions for y’all to hear.
Feb 11, 202055:03
Talk to me baby, Converse with me now

Talk to me baby, Converse with me now

We ventured away from my application this week to discuss communication. It is probably the third time we talked about it and it will not be the last. Hopefully it will help someone out.
Feb 03, 202044:58
The REAL Boyfriend Application: Aren’t y’all sick of me?

The REAL Boyfriend Application: Aren’t y’all sick of me?

Yes I am revisiting this old idea of a boyfriend application with some help from Niki and my sister. I hope you guys join in and submit questions too!!
Jan 23, 202043:06
2020 - The Year of No

2020 - The Year of No

If you ask me who killed Ghost, I will say he killed himself. We wrap up this year with learned lessons and continued foolishness. Happy Holidays!!
Dec 21, 201938:05
The Gooch and The Restless

The Gooch and The Restless

This episode was a comedy fest. We had loads of shenanigans and some advice for Our Kings this week. It’s my birthday so send me drinking money!!!
Dec 13, 201945:42
I am unavailable ... Emotionally

I am unavailable ... Emotionally

Sometimes Niki plays therapist to my shenanigans. This was one of those days. This was recorded before the holiday. So the next episode will be a doozy.
Dec 01, 201945:41
C-O-N-S-I-S-T-E-N-C-Y: Do you know what that means?

C-O-N-S-I-S-T-E-N-C-Y: Do you know what that means?

Most folks do know the definition but want to be in relationships without it. I am too tired to be giving my good energy and getting none in return. Y'all talk to me about it.
Nov 18, 201936:50
Marlo Stanfield - Do you know this man?

Marlo Stanfield - Do you know this man?

Guess who is back? I apologize for the delay but we are here again talking our shit. If you have not seen The Wire the title means nothing. But listen anyway to get an understanding of this week's topic.
Nov 10, 201940:55
Is Sex in your top 5? How important is it to you?

Is Sex in your top 5? How important is it to you?

In relationships, there is a hierarchy. Where does sex fall in that hierarchy? This conversation was based on a tweet from Miss Neauxna. Listen and give us feedback
Oct 12, 201956:06
Hoe Phases: Are they necessary? AKA Carmen Hayes' Titties

Hoe Phases: Are they necessary? AKA Carmen Hayes' Titties

The Carmen Hayes part of this episode still maked me giggle. Listen to use discuss whether I had my hoe phase too late in life or if I needed it at all.
Sep 30, 201954:48
Bisexual men ... Do they have better sex?

Bisexual men ... Do they have better sex?

Niki is back and we are shooting the sh*t about men and non adventurous sex. We get side tracked a lot ... Might be the liquor
Sep 23, 201949:19
The First Drunk Luv Confession

The First Drunk Luv Confession

Niki is back and we get to play catch up. New segments and the origin of this podcast. Do you have a drunk love confession story? You should share
Sep 09, 201947:03
Friends with Benefits or Associates who F*ck

Friends with Benefits or Associates who F*ck

This week we discuss the rules of engagement when you have a FWB situation. Do you give them the boyfriend/girlfriend experience? Or do you keep it simple?
Aug 29, 201928:43
Are you a part of someone's Spank Bank?

Are you a part of someone's Spank Bank?

This week I discuss being mastubatory material for someone and do we date ppl who remind us of our parents.
Aug 10, 201926:36
Men don't make excuses

Men don't make excuses

Flying solo this week ... Nicole Murphy, boosting self esteem and men paying the cost to be the boss. Keyword is paying.
Jul 26, 201932:31
The men I like vs The men that like me - The Shallow Episode

The men I like vs The men that like me - The Shallow Episode

Niki left me stranded on shallow island this episode ... It was okay I can take the heat alone. If you need a laugh please listen in to our conversation
Jul 15, 201901:04:37
Assume that everybody wants you ...

Assume that everybody wants you ...

Nik and I talk about my level of cluelessness and Nik gives me the confidence boost that I have been missing for a long time.
Jul 10, 201957:42
Don't depend on a man for nothing: A Mother's advice

Don't depend on a man for nothing: A Mother's advice

This week we talked about how lessons of the mother become the child's reality. I tell a story about my parents relationship and how it has effected my current relationship with men.
Jul 01, 201901:00:29
Dyson Vacuum Cleaners are too expensive for the BS

Dyson Vacuum Cleaners are too expensive for the BS

Life is full of fools and ignorant people, folx all late popping up and things, nasty vacuum cleaner habits ... We cover a lot this week. I hope yall enjoy
Jun 24, 201901:06:38
Two Hot Girls and a Hot Boi

Two Hot Girls and a Hot Boi

Daniel was back with us this week as week discussed the things that had changed for him since we last talked. This was a very breezy episode that we enjoyed. Hopefully you will enjoy it as well.
Jun 09, 201901:03:44
If she says she love hard, she usually is crazy as hell

If she says she love hard, she usually is crazy as hell

Female dating profiles and what they mean, what to know before your annual appt with your ob and foolishness and shenanigans ... We love it all
May 26, 201954:14
Self Employed on Tinder means Unemployed IRL

Self Employed on Tinder means Unemployed IRL

You may be experiencing a hormonal imbalance so listen to the symptoms, men are lying on these dating apps but we talk you through it, find out if St. Croix came back or disappeared again
May 17, 201953:49
Shooting the sh*t ...

Shooting the sh*t ...

This episode we just talk and talk and talk about whatever comes to mind. I talk about a friend from HS and pray about St. Croix. Niki talks about her trip home to see her not boyfriend.
May 04, 201955:29
I like Garlic in my pasta not my p*ssy

I like Garlic in my pasta not my p*ssy

Updates on Niki and her man fast, The Ghost is still sending messages, a real doctor has to discuss vaginal common sense and the relationship questions have me asking, are we Six Brown Chicks?
Apr 25, 201954:21
Platonic Toe Sucking

Platonic Toe Sucking

We debate the boundaries of Platonic relationships, talk about diced pineapples and oxtail. And no this isnt a food episode.
Apr 17, 201957:16
Communication is Sexy

Communication is Sexy

What do you know about pH balance of a vagina? And do you talk to your sexual partners. I think some of you don't.
Apr 11, 201952:47
Dating and Mental Health

Dating and Mental Health

We are back with updates and a good convo about dating people with Mental Health issues
Apr 03, 201957:43
To Ghost or Not to Ghost

To Ghost or Not to Ghost

This week we give good advice to people who chose relationships as a ministry
Mar 16, 201956:31
Tam VS. The Penis People

Tam VS. The Penis People

This is an all about Tam episode, foolery updated, the Ghost and his Ghost town and a quarter of coochie rest
Mar 07, 201944:42
Break time is needed

Break time is needed

Life is happening right but we will be back soon
Feb 27, 201903:40
Valentine's Day Sucks

Valentine's Day Sucks

This is a rogue episode filled with stories of shitty Valentines Days past.
Feb 15, 201957:05
My soul has been tied up

My soul has been tied up

Soul ties, vibrating dildos and the Ghost thst wont remain in the box
Feb 07, 201901:07:58
Ruined by Wolf Tickets

Ruined by Wolf Tickets

We cover anal beads, unspoken expectations and an exorcism for Ghost
Feb 01, 201901:01:54
Men have a P Spot

Men have a P Spot

Tomfoolery is at an all time high in my life. We revisit tiny peen talk and give advice on pocket pussies.
Jan 23, 201901:04:20
Friendship before sex?

Friendship before sex?

Can you be friends with your ex? I have never done that but I was advised that I needed to try. I guess I might.
Jan 18, 201958:60