Dynamic Destiny: Unpack Your POWERFUL Potential
By Pete Cafarchio
- Get clear on your calling
- Blast through your roadblocks
- Accelerate your growth
Dynamic Destiny: Unpack Your POWERFUL PotentialFeb 05, 2021
Important announcement - Transitioning to a new format
First, I want to thank you, my listeners for tuning into this podcast.
As you know, for most of 2021 I took a break from Dynamic Destiny and was co-hosting a podcast with my friend, Steve Chua.
Well, Steve and I now have a joint podcast called "Transform Your Life With Steve and Pete." You can get it on apple podcasts (https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/transform-your-life-with-steve-and-pete/id1608590784) or any of the other major podcasting platforms like Spotify.
So I won’t be broadcasting through this channel, Dynamic Destiny, any longer. But I will be cranking out weekly episodes with Steve. So be sure to subscribe, and it really help if you give us a review.
Farewell to Dynamic Destiny - it was a great run - and I’ll see you over at Transform Your life with Steve and Pete.
S2E13 - Season finale - Getting Clarity on Your Destiny w/ Dr. Mike Cafarchio
Dr. Mike Cafarchio shares his journey of how he found his calling in life. It’s a great example of how different factors come together to give clarity and purpose.
Mike Cafarchio is a Hospice and Palliative Medicine physician in Baltimore, MD. In this work, he cares for kids and adults on some of their most difficult days and frequently grapples with life-and-death issues. He is also a husband, #girldad, amateur baker and Philly sports enthusiast.
Twitter: @MCafarch
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This is the final episode of Season 2.
Catch Coach Pete as co-host of the Transform Your Life podcast with Steve Chua on any podcast platform
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/transform-your-life-with-steve-chua/id1534050724
https://www.stevechua.net/index.php/podcast
S2E12 - Leaning into Your Passion w/Greg G the Goldenchild
Knowing your passions is a key to your destiny, but you also need courage to lean into them and not take the easy path.
My guest this week is Greg G the Goldenchild, a hip hop artist who always leads with the heart and pushes himself to take risks. He has some great insights and stories that you won’t want to miss.
Follow Greg:
https://instagram.com/goheadgreg
https://twitter.com/GoHeadGreg
https://m.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100046417338583
https://open.spotify.com/artist/36LaUNcRY0V2KYbXqxgbyS
https://music.apple.com/us/artist/greg-g-the-goldenchild/1017835888
https://youtube.com/user/GregG210TV
https://m.soundcloud.com/goheadgreg
One of Greg’s inspiring videos - watch it! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=O8SgbtCMLNY
S2E11 - Finding Your Big Why - w/ Doug Osness
This week, my guest and fellow coach, Doug Osness, tells us about a process he uses with his clients to describe their life purpose in just three words. This gives exceptional clarity and helps you plow through any obstacles along the way.
Doug is giving away two free 60-minute intake sessions to work on your Big Why.
Contact Doug at:
dosness@gmail.com - 303-960-6784
www.secondtierconsulting.com
S2E10 - Your Test Can Become Your Testimony
Life isn’t easy, but if we handle our trials with the right attitude, we can learn and grow from them. They can even be transformed into your life message.
In this episode my Guest, Wes Anderson, shares some of his stories and wisdom on how to navigate life’s trials.
Contact Wes at wes@clarionsolutiongroup.com
www.petecoaching.com
https://www.linkedin.com/in/petecafarchio/
S2E9 - What Your Past Wants You to Know
When you’re trying to determine your future destiny, one place to look is in your past - it’s holding some clues that it wants to reveal to you. In this episode we’ll explore a practical exercise to uncover those gems and we’ll tell some real-life stories of people who’ve used it.
Resources:
http://www.petecoaching.com/online-course
www.petecoaching.com
Book: What Color is Your Parachute, Richard Bolles
https://www.linkedin.com/in/petecafarchio/
https://www.facebook.com/Pete.coaching
S2E8 - How to Promote Yourself Without the Hype - Guest: Rick Diana
Continuing on the theme of owning your talents, we discuss how to appropriately bring attention to your accomplishments without excessive “hype.” My guest, Rick Diana, is a talent agent and networker extraordinaire. Rick shares practical tips and the right mindset to help you connect with others and be a generous giver.
Links:
Rick Diana - https://www.linkedin.com/in/talentmgmt/
Trinitas Talent Management https://trinitastalent.com/
Extraordinary Job Seekers https://www.linkedin.com/groups/12399193/
How to ask other people what you’re good at https://bit.ly/3rU0cSG
www.petecoaching.com
S2E7 - The Importance Of Owning Your Talents
It's important for success in life to know and embrace your talents. Neglecting this produces some unintended consequences. In this episode we’ll unpack those, and also show you how to move forward with a Name it, Claim it, Aim it strategy.
Free downloads:
An assessment to help uncover your blind spots: http://www.petecoaching.com/blindspot
True Humility poster: https://bit.ly/3jqjgoR
Thoughts on true Humility: http://www.petecoaching.com/blog/2018/8/2/true-humility
S2E6 - Personality Tests and Self Awareness
Personality Assessments can help you grow in emotional intelligence and give you clues to your destiny. But they have some potential drawbacks. In this episode we’ll go deep into assessments including the Enneagram with my guest, Nathan Hubbard.
Show notes:
0:42 “Personality begins where comparison ends”
2:00 Improve Your Emotional Intelligence
4:40 Some of the different assessments
8:20 Assessment limitations
11:08 No excuses!
12:30 Coaching Stories
18:44 Guest intro: Nathan Hubbard
22:08 The Survivor TV show is Enneagram on display
26:07 Make it real challenge
Guest, Nathan Hubbard
www.nathanhubbardmusic.com
Free coaching assessment with Coach Pete
www.petecoaching.com/contact
Links to assessments:
- Myers/Briggs or 16 Personalities https://www.16personalities.com/
- Enneagram Site to learn more: https://www.enneagraminstitute.com/how-the-enneagram-system-works take the free test: https://enneagramtest.net/
- Motivational Gifts: https://www.gifttest.org/
- DISC Free test: https://www.123test.com/disc-personality-test/
- DISC Paid: https://www.discprofile.com/what-is-disc/overview/
- Gallup CliftonStrengths https://store.gallup.com/p/en-us/10003/cliftonstrengths-34
S2E5 - Seeing Past Your Blind Spots
One of the biggest stumbling blocks to Emotional Intelligence is a lack of self-awareness. We all have blind spots that keep us in the dark of how we’re coming across to others. In this episode we’ll talk about blind spots and give some practical exercises to gain better self-awareness.
Highlights:
0:37 “The most common blind spot is believing that others have them, but you don’t”
2:18 Imagine a dinner table full of 8 competitive kids interrupting each other
6:03 Other people can see you more clearly than you can see yourself
7:45 Self-coaching exercises
15:08 Wrap up
Links:
Free download - what everyone else sees about your Destiny www.petecoaching.com/blindspot
Decoding Your Destiny online course http://www.petecoaching.com/online-course
S2E4 - Your soul before you were born
The core elements of your personality were selected before you were born. Getting to know your eternal purpose and design can have a profound effect in understanding your destiny on Earth.
In this episode we'll explore that concept, review the next Disney Pixar movie, Soul, and introduce a new course offering designed to give you clarity on your destiny.
Episode links:
0:43 A better approach than New Year resolutions
3:24 Quote for the day - “Before I formed you in your mother’s womb, I knew you…”
6:31 Movie Review - Soul
12:40 A new course offering
16:00 What’s the implication for you?
Soul - the movie https://movies.disney.com/soul
Decoding Your Destiny - online course http://www.petecoaching.com/online-course
S2E3 Encore: Understanding Your Generational Destiny
Encore Episode - originally broadcast Jan 15, 2020
Your destiny is not yours alone - you're part of something bigger. To really make an impact you need to think multi-generationally. What did you receive from those who came before you? What can you give to those coming after you? In this episode, Coach Pete unpacks this powerful concept. And as always he shares lots of practical tips and wisdom.
Let me know your thoughts. askpete@petecoaching.com
Links:
Spiral Dynamics overview https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0lKXspnReRs&list=LL&index=6
The Who - Won’t get fooled again https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BXrmQBPg2s0
S2E2 - Don't take the bait during political debates
The first presidential debate was a real low point in American politics, and shows how divided we are as a country. Add that to the pandemic and natural disasters and anyone can easily feel overwhelmed.
In this episode, we'll unpack some powerful principles to help you rise above all the negativity, along with practical insights.
S2E1 - Making Sense of the Racial Justice Movement
This special episode of Dynamic Destiny addresses confusion surrounding racial injustice in America.
Give your life away to find it
Juan serves as the President and CEO of New York City Relief, a ministry to the homeless of NYC. Together, we'll unpacka powerful paradox, that when we work hard to make a great life we often come up empty. But, when we focus on others we find true fulfillment.
New York City Relief:https://newyorkcityrelief.org/
Juan's book, Provoked:https://newyorkcityrelief.org/merch
Wrestling with Racism
I won't have all the answers, but if you come with an open mind you'll be challenged and we'll learn together.
Links:
Impactful (short) video - A visual representation of Privilege -https://bit.ly/3dU5E0p
Excellent condensedhistory how past discrimination matters today -https://youtu.be/AGUwcs9qJXY
Dynamic Destiny episode - Your Generational Destiny -
www.youtube.com/watch?v=XaBTKYyV8mU
Life management and productivity hacks
Lessons from a life well-lived
Joinusto hearhis inspirational life lessons thatwill inspire you to pursue your own destiny.
You can email Rich atrjrseidler@gmail.com
Some of the organization Rich supports:
The Almond Branch -https://www.awakenj.com
Covenant House NJ -https://covenanthousenj.org
Blue Mountain Christian Retreat and Conference Center -https://www.bmcr.org/site/
Elevate USA - NJ -https://elevatetheusa.org/about-us/
ElimFellowship -https://www.elimfellowship.org/
Contemplative Outreach -https://www.contemplativeoutreach.org/
Aligning Your Career with Your Calling
Join me and my guest, Dr. Chip Roper, as we explore thisimportant topic, and give practical ways for you to find career alignment.
How to Hear God's Voice
Jesus said, "My sheep hear my voice. I know them and they follow me." John 10:27. We'll discuss practical ways to "tune in" so we can better discern God's communications to us. And we'll demonstrate the practice of encouraging each other with the impressions that God gives to us.
On the Front Lines of the Pandemic
Olive has an amazing backstory as well, having emigrated with her family from Nigeria where was a top 10 finalist in the Miss Nigeria 2009 beauty pageant. She shares her faith, philosophies on success, and what keeps her strong during dark times like this.
Youdon't want to miss this inspirational episode!
The Power of Forgiveness
My guest, Jessica Santanato, has an incredible life story that illustrates the power of forgiveness to overcomeadversity. By choosing to forgive somehorrific abuses, she's now been catapulted into a destiny that she never dreamed of.
You're sure to be inspired by her story, and uncover some keys to forgiveness that you can apply to your own life.
Staying on track with your 2020 goals.
Some goals need to be revisted. Some need to be tweaked. And some need to be deleted!
I'll have lots of practical ideas and stories to help you maintain forward momentum!
Failing Forward
How do you handle it? Can it sidetrack your destiny? It will if you let it, but it doesnt have to.
In fact, if you use the right mindsetfailure can actually propel you into your destiny.
Encore: Clarify Your Life Purpose
Changing the Conversation
It's a great example of how the next generation is bringing change and innovation to difficult issues.
Passing the Generational Baton
A Better Way to Set Goals for 2020
We all start out the new year with optimistic good intentions. But it doesn't take long for those to go to the wayside and we find ourselves back in the same old ruts. Whether it's weight loss, exercise, new projects, or other ambitions, we've all been there.
In this episodeCoach Peteshareshis own lifelong struggle with setting goals and staying on task. And he shares the tools and mindsets that help him get stuff done.
Tune in to get unstuck and keep moving forward toward your dynamic destiny.
When life doesn't meet your expectations
In this show, we'll unpack this all-too-common state of mind. I have some powerful encouragement for you, and some practical ways to change your perspective to get back on trackwith your destiny. I cant wait to share those with you.
How to Survive the 2020 Election Cycle
In this episode I have a guest, Damaris Giha, whobringsa different racial, gender, generational, and political view than mine. Together, we'll discuss how campaign strategists try to sway voters, how to have a civil conversation with people you disagree with. And we'll provide practical ways that you can avoid anxiety, and maintain your mental and emotional health.
It's sure to be interesting, so join us for some lively conversation!
From Invisible to Significant with guest, Dave Mead
Despite having an accomplished military career, Dave defaulted to living a life that was "invisible" - never wanting to stand out as either under or over-performing. But, when he discovered insights through CliftonStrengths and the power of coaching, it helped him know who he truly is and empowered him to live a life of significance.
This led Dave to start WeAlign, a coaching movement that empowers people to know and love their strengths, flourish in their contributions, and foster workplace cultures fueled by joy.
Dave will share his own inspiring story, as well as those of the people whom he's helped.
This isan episode you'll want to share with your friends and colleagues.
Free resource: 30 minute coaching discovery call. email askpete@petecoaching.comwith the subject line:Discovery
Your Life Purpose made practical
Jody Thompson has first-hand real life experience with the power of the CliftonStrengths assessment, as well ashow the power of coachingbrought himclarity and opened his mind to consider possibilities, which ultimately led to a job promotion.
We'll hear from Jody, and talk about other practical considerations as you pusue your life purpose
Clarify Your Life Purpose
Making the Switch to Your Dream Career with Coach Pete Cafarchio!
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Your Destiny Roadmap
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