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Let's Talk About It W/ Longie

Let's Talk About It W/ Longie

By Longie B.

Here is where I get to open up about things I have been learning and unlearning to step into my full potential. No topic is off-limits, no conversation we will avoid, let's talk about!

Podcast formally known as "HMO Podcast by Longie".
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Grief Is The Harvest We Reap For Loving Someone

Let's Talk About It W/ LongieNov 24, 2022

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Grief Is The Harvest We Reap For Loving Someone

Grief Is The Harvest We Reap For Loving Someone

Grief is the price we pay for loving someone. It’s a involuntary journey we start when we lost someone we love. During the holidays people tend to grieve a little more than usual because holidays are for family and we don’t have them present with us. I decide to touch on some things of grief and just encourage everyone during this time.
Nov 24, 202233:50
I’m Not Okay, & I’m Okay With That

I’m Not Okay, & I’m Okay With That

In this episode I’m learning how to be okay with not always being okay. And learning to stop dehumanizing myself when I am not .
Nov 08, 202223:46
Becoming Emotionally Available

Becoming Emotionally Available

Since I’ve entered my soft girl era, I learned I was not emotional available. So on this week episode I unpack the baggage of being emotional available to the things I should be receiving. I hope you guys enjoy !
Oct 25, 202222:00
Soft Girl Era

Soft Girl Era

This is the beginning of a new season for me… Amy soft girl era ! This week episode I discuss some of the things you can look forward to.
Oct 12, 202220:49
Season 3 Recap

Season 3 Recap

New season is loading . I felt it was only right to give a recap of season 3 and to prepare you for season 4.
Oct 03, 202229:38
I’m Here to Date You, Not Babysit Your Insecurities

I’m Here to Date You, Not Babysit Your Insecurities

On this episode we discussion dealing with the need to be reassured all the time and the root cause you may feel the need to always need it .

I hope you guys enjoy !

Take away thought/question :

Are you one who need reassurance or are you someone with trust issues from the past
Jun 24, 202223:55
Now That I’m 30, Let’s Talk About It …

Now That I’m 30, Let’s Talk About It …

On this episode I discuss a few things I have learned while being 30 and things I am learning. Hope you guys enjoy !
Jun 13, 202225:23
Are You Venting or Dumping ?

Are You Venting or Dumping ?

I’ve learned that there is difference between venting and emotional dumping… On this week episode I explain a little between the difference when someone is venting or when a person is dumping … WE BACK ! I hope you guys enjoy ! -Longie B.
May 05, 202219:00
Love Needs A Safe Place ..

Love Needs A Safe Place ..

On this week episode I let you guys in on what my upcoming project is about. I also touch on the first steps of healing . I hope you guys enjoy. Leave a review and tell me what your thoughts are . Thank you guys for all your continuing support …
Mar 01, 202219:56
She’s A Runner, She’s A Trackstar

She’s A Runner, She’s A Trackstar

Another note , turn podcast !

On this week’s episode I talk about how we run from things we want because it is unfamiliar to us. I discuss how I am strategically connecting with people and allowing people to actually love on me. It’s a challenge but together we will learn.

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Twitter: LongieB_
Feb 16, 202224:36
What Do You Want ?

What Do You Want ?

Hey y’all Hey ! Another episode for the books . This week I kind of just catch you guys up on my becoming & how things are going for me . I also talk about how I now answer the question “What I want?” It’s amazing with time and studying myself I went from I don’t want another I love you to knowing what i want . I hope you guys enjoy !
Feb 01, 202222:33
What Happens In This House, Stays In …

What Happens In This House, Stays In …

Another note , turn podcast ! On this week episode of the podcast I touch on things we dealt with in our black community growing up and how we didn’t have the tools or space to deal with certain things as a child … I hope you guys enjoy . Don’t forget leave a review, share with a friend, & rate the podcast . I also love to hear you guys feedback and thoughts on this episode . **DISCLAIMER** THIS EPISODE IS NOT INTENDED TO BE ANY WAY SHAPE FORM OF RACISM ** Social Media : Instagram: Longie__ Twitter: LongieB_
Jan 17, 202223:26
Prescribing Supplements To Curable Circumstances

Prescribing Supplements To Curable Circumstances

Hey y’all hey ! We are back with another note turn podcast .. On this week episode : I briefly discussion going into the new year & how I took a diagnostic test of my mental and emotional state . I realize I was applying supplements to things that are actually curable if I just DO THE WORK . Hope you guys enjoy it — Continue to give your feedback , leave a review, & share . I also enjoy hearing you guys takeaway . Instagram: Longie__ Twitter: LongieB_ Thank you guys , LongieB.
Dec 15, 202116:13
You Knew What It Was When You Signed Up!

You Knew What It Was When You Signed Up!

Just another note turned podcast! On this week’s episode we discuss: How your past becomes the parent to your pain Expecting people to transport you to your next & playing victim to situations you volunteered for — Continue to give your feedback , leave a review, & share . I also enjoy hearing you guys takeaway . Instagram: Longie__ Twitter: LongieB_ Thank you guys , LongieB. ♥️
Dec 01, 202122:30
Not Accepting Another I Love You

Not Accepting Another I Love You

Hey Yall HEY!

We are back with another one!


What do I mean when I say I am not accepting another I love you?

I don't want another person to tell me they love when they are just going to take it away and I am not accepting another one until I know for sure I really know how to love someone. 


These are my thoughts!  Let's talk about it!

Nov 23, 202123:17
My Becoming

My Becoming

We are back!  & doing better! What better way to get the show back popping than to let you guys know the journey I am on of where I am and where I am going. In this episode, I explain who I am becoming and who I am burying. Because who I was no longer exists, this chapter of my life is important to me and I am Becoming Longie. I hope. you guys enjoy it. Be sure to subscribe so you don't miss an episode. Also, be sure to rate and leave your reviews! Thank you guys so much! Let's Talk About It, Longie 
Nov 11, 202129:05
S2.4 - Do I Trust You or Am I Use To You?

S2.4 - Do I Trust You or Am I Use To You?

I always ask myself do i trust a person or am i just use to the things that they do. On this episode, we touch on this. Its mind blowing to even consider do you really trust a person. 

May 17, 202018:06
S2.3 - Preparing For Love Again

S2.3 - Preparing For Love Again

S2.3 - Preparing For Love Again by Ellonjsa Brutton
Mar 23, 202017:38
S2.2 - What Women Want Ft. Erica

S2.2 - What Women Want Ft. Erica

On this episode me and my best friend have a conversation about what women want. Reality we don't know 100% but we have an idea. But you get to hear it from a women prospective.... Check it out!
Mar 02, 202053:49
S2.1 - What Men Want Ft. Robert

S2.1 - What Men Want Ft. Robert

Season two is back! On this episode me and Robert discuss what men want and some other relationship things from a man point of view. Check it out!
Feb 24, 202052:17
Bonus Episode - My Health Journey

Bonus Episode - My Health Journey

Recently I posted a photo showing the change in my body. To my surprise the DMs rolled in. Everyone wanted to know, "what am i doing?" So i decided instead of asking everyone one by one why not just give them a bonus episode.

So here you are! Hopefully this answers all your questions. If you still have questions after this, feel free to ask away!

New official episode coming SOON!
Feb 13, 202013:54
Generation Difference

Generation Difference

As a black community we were always told what not to do but was never was told what to do. Specifically, women.

But that's where the generation difference comes in.....
Nov 24, 201926:58
Being Single Is Groundwork
Nov 17, 201925:16
I Had It All But Love
Nov 10, 201931:15
Part 2 - Dating As A Millennial

Part 2 - Dating As A Millennial

On this episode, we wrap on the last episode of Dating As A Millennial with @IAmPolkStar.

Be sure to comment, like, share, subscribe and follow us on all platforms to stay updated!

Thanks for the continuous support!
Nov 03, 201943:03
Dating As A Millennial With @IAmPolkStar
Oct 21, 201901:11:08
Bonus Episode - Ask Longie

Bonus Episode - Ask Longie

You ask it. I answer it! These are question asked by my Facebook friends and Instagram followers decided to ask. Well some of the questions. Hope you guys enjoy the bonus track. Don't forget to leave review, subscribe, follow and share.

THANKS FOR ALL THE SUPPORT! LOVE YALL!
Oct 16, 201919:01
Overcoming Rejection 1.0

Overcoming Rejection 1.0

Just to add the final touches from last week episode. Last week we talked about dealing with rejection, this week we identify some major types of rejection. We also touch on 4 basic steps for overcoming rejection.

Types of Rejections:
Family rejection, social rejection and relationship rejections

Steps to Overcoming Rejection:
1. Allow yourself to feel
2. Practice self love and care
3. Spend time with the people who love and value you
4.LET IT GO
5.LET IT GO

PLEASE BE SURE TO SUBSCRIBE ON APPLE AND YOUTUBE AND FOLLOW ON SOUNDCLOUD to stay update when new material is uploaded.

Thanks everyone for the feedback, constructive criticism, support and love.
Oct 03, 201918:17
1.Dealing With Rejection
Sep 26, 201923:01
The Intro: Heyyy Yall!

The Intro: Heyyy Yall!

Hey y'all! It is your girl Longie, host of the HMO Podcast. This is just a trailer of whom I am. Why the HMO podcast, and what can you expect from me. I hope you guys love it and excited as much as me. Don't forget to subscribe, share, follow like and comment.
Sep 25, 201909:46