Relationship Talks with Erica Janelle

In this episode we discuss the important steps you should take while being single.

In this episode I go deeper into why the black community has become divided and discuss ways we can work on coming together and breaking the generational curse that plagues so many of our families.

In this episode, I discuss the division that has become so prevalent in the Black community and how we need to come together and stop pointing fingers at each other, but learn how to come to a place of understanding and common ground to achieve successful relationships and families.

In this episode I share my personal journey and discuss how we must never let frustration cause us to settle for someone who is not for us.

In this episode, Marina, Annette and I continue our dating experiences in 2024 and the lessons learned.

In this episode I discuss the dating landscape today with my two special guests Annette Barbee, and Marina Kalendareva

In this final episode of this four part series, we discuss how the bond of connection actually elevates your mental, physical, emotional and sexual experiences.

In this episode, Everett and I go deeper into connection and how to prepare for it and recognize it when it comes into your life.

In the episode, Everett and I go into more detail about connection and how to recognize it when it comes into your life.

In this episode, we describe and define connection and the importance of not settling but allowing patience and discipline to help people experience this type of relationship.

In the 2nd part of this two part series, we discuss the Clara App and how it can be used to take the guess work out of dating. In this episode Jillian and I discuss how the app is used and how the data helps in tracking data progress and success.

In this episode we discuss The Clara for Dating app which is a tool used to assist in evaluating your dates.

This is the third of a four-part series on the State of Relationships in the Black Community featuring my special guests; Rhonda (Relationships Restored Podcast) , Everett (Puzzle to the Peace Podcast), Jason Rink ( Music Producer).

In this episode, my special guests Rhonda (Real Love Scenario Podcast), Everett (Puzzle to the Peace), Jason (Music Producer) and I discuss the various issues facing the black community as it pertains to dating. This is the 2nd episode of a 4-part series.

In this episode, me and my special guests Rhonda (Real Love Scenario Podcast), Everett (Puzzle to the Peace Podcast), Jason Rink (Music Producer) discuss various issues affecting relationships in the black community. This is the first of a four-part series.

In this episode I discuss the reality of dating fatigue and how to prevent yourself from giving up on dating.

In this episode, I discuss the importance of forgiveness and what that looks like in a successful relationship. I also discuss the practical steps that are needed to be taken in order to walk in forgiveness.

In this episode, I discuss the importance of learning how to properly communicate to learn how your partner needs to receive love.

In this episode, I discuss how knowing and walking in your purpose will help you to know who can align with where you're headed. Oftentimes, people end up in relationships with people who are not going in the same direction and this leads to breakups and frustration.

In this episode, we discuss the process of getting out there and being ready to date.

In this episode, I discuss the importance of healing before pursuing a relationship and practical steps on how to heal.

In this episode me and my special guest discuss the beauty of becoming comfortable in your sexuality and how to communicate your desires to your partner in an open and healthy manner.

In this episode I have a very open and candid conversation with our special guest Annette Barbee, where we discuss how our upbringing and societal norms play a role in how we view sex.

In this episode we explore how relationships are meant to restore and nuture. We explore how the role of our partner is meant to provide safety and security and healing in our most vulnerable places or hurt and trauma.

In this episode we dig deeper into the issues surrounding settling in relationships and how this is often a reason why monogamy doesn't work.

In this episode, we discuss the 2nd of "Is Monogamy Realistic Series. We dive deeper into sex and if having variety the main reason for why some people don't want to be in a monogamous.

In this episode, my special guest Everett and I discuss the issue of monogamy in today's relationship dynamics and whether or not it is an outdated concept. We explore this topic from both insight from a male and female perspective. Don't miss this first controversial episode.

In this episode we explain how we can express unconditional love in relationships and what unconditional love is not.

In this episode I speak on how the healing process is essential in bringing your best foot forward in relationships. I discuss how when you are healed, your standards and what you desire will change when viewing that potential mate from a healed lens vs. a broken lens.

Everett and I continue our conversation about sexual connection and how it differs from any other sexual experience that a person has outside of connection. We delve into how sexual connection can serve as the anti-cheating mechanism and how it raises the bar and your standards after you experience it.

Everett and I have been eluding to this topic for some time. In this episode we talk about sexual connection and how this is the missing link to marriage and relationships experiencing the true level of intimacy that God wants us to have. 

In this episode I discuss the importance of continuing to remember your individuality while in your relationship.  I discuss how maintaining balance in your personal goals and calling while still contributing to your relationship.

In this episode we touch on how religion, parents and other outside forces, and tradition can bring negativity into relationships. We also delve into gender roles and masculine and feminine energy . This is one episode you don’t want to miss! 

in this episode we feature special guests Marina Kalendareva and Aba Kalendareva. We are tackling the topic of gender roles and when it’s appropriate for both masculine and feminine energies to be dominant in the relationship dynamic. 

In the final part of this series, we discuss the importance of healing in order to be prepared to experience connection. 

In this episode we go deeper into understanding masculine and feminine energy and how both parties possess both, but must learn to see our differences as a blessing instead of something negative.

In this episode Everett and I go deeper into the subject of connection. We discuss how both partners have to get comfortable with embracing the very essence of who their partner is without trying to change each other.

In this episode, Everett and I discuss the distinct difference between connection and chemistry. We both explain why this is the missing ingredient to successful relationships and why so many people have a negative viewpoint of relationships because they have not experienced true and real connection.

In this podcast I discuss the importance of using your intuition to guide you away from people and things meant to hurt you. 

In this episode my special guest Marina Kalendareva and I reflect on our journey this year and how embracing our singleness has opened up many opportunities for aligning with our purpose. In this conversation we discuss the importance of understanding Why it is so important to know and pursue your purpose and align with a mate who is on the same page. 

In this podcast episode we talk about how society now views marriage as an outdated concept and why this mindset has shifted. In this episode I challenge the viewers to do a deeper inventory of their mindsets and examine when they changed. 

In this episode we discuss whether or not the roles of both parties affect the rate of divorce. We address the question as to whether or not women should stick to the traditional roles of being at home while the man is the breadwinner.  

In this episode, I give three practical steps a person can take to prepare for dating.  

In this episode we discuss how identifying your purpose is the first step to having every other desire in our lives. Once we begin to walk in our purpose and destiny every other thing we desire will begin to flow.

Have you ever been tempted to compromise your standards in order to hold on to a relationship? Being true to myself, I have to raise both of my hands because I have definitely been guilty of this.  In this video, I discuss how I have grown and healed and learned how to be true to my standards and how to articulate my standards to my partner. 

In this video Marina Kalendareva and I continue to discuss how when you're operating from a healed and higher vibration, you attract higher vibrational and healthier relationships. 

In this video, we explore the possible reasons a woman would choose to be a sidechick. We go into some of the possible emotional damage and lack of healing that result in this mentality.  We also briefly discuss how society has shifted into the idea of glamorizing women who have sex with guys for money or things and how this mentality will affect our future generations of girls.  This is one topic you don't want to miss. 

I'm sure you've heard the saying hurting people hurt people.  The same is true of broken people attracting other broken people. In this episode we will discuss how healing is essential to attracting the kind of higher vibrational partner you're looking for.  

In this episode, me and my special guest Marina Kalendareva discuss the issues and stereotypes surrounding interracial dating in this day and age.