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Essential Coaching Conversations

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Welcome to Essential Coaching Conversations with Kyle & Aseem. You asked for it, we delivered - the ESSENTIAL pod for all coaches, educators, leaders, learners, and lifers. This is real, relevant, and necessary conversation and content for anyone who wants to #StackTheDeck in their favor as a coach to not just win once, but over and over again. We are here not to provide the answer, but to ask the questions that lead us to our own answers and ultimately, fulfillment. Come with us on this journey!
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S2E22: Do Adults Get in the Way?

Essential Coaching ConversationsMay 09, 2024

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S2E22: Do Adults Get in the Way?

S2E22: Do Adults Get in the Way?

Do Adults Get in the Way? To be clear, we are not painting with a broad brush. There are plenty of adults - parents, coaches, administrators, etc, who do it the right way and empower kids to learn, grow, make mistakes, and set clear boundaries of acceptable behavior. However, as we've gone into the "architect parents" era - we can't help but wonder whether adults are doing more harm than good. Follow us on Twitter: @coachessential | @coachk424 | @rastogi_aseemCheck us out on YouTube: youtube.com/@essentialcoachingAs always, visit our website at www.essential-coaching.netShoot us an email at admin@essential-coaching.netDM's are always open for your feedback!

May 09, 202401:00:33
S2E21: The Fearless Coach
May 01, 202401:07:43
S2E20: Lessons Learned - Our 4th Birthday

S2E20: Lessons Learned - Our 4th Birthday

Happy 4th BIRTHDAY to us!! 4 years ago, on April 15, 2020, we hosted our first EC calls. Had no idea what we were doing, but we've learned a lot since then and we're here to share our reflections. Join us for a great chat - we hope you continue listening and sharing with us!

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Apr 16, 202401:11:10
S2E19: Turning it off for athletes (Work-Life Integration Part II)

S2E19: Turning it off for athletes (Work-Life Integration Part II)

We are back with Part II of Work/Life integration - termed as "turning it off" - specifically focused on the athletes we coach.

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Mar 20, 202459:46
S2E18: Work/Life Integration Part I

S2E18: Work/Life Integration Part I

Work/Life balance as we know it is dead. It's all about integration, now. Fitting life around work and work around life to make it one big jumble. Part I focuses on the adults - how do we do it? Part II will focus on the kids.

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Feb 15, 202453:29
S2E17: Chase Details, NOT Perfection

S2E17: Chase Details, NOT Perfection

Perfectionism is a hustle.

Yet, our youth and subsequent generations are suffering at the hands of "perfect," being the enemy of their GOOD or GREAT.

Perfect is not a thing. However, we can lean into the details that make Good, Better, and Best happen. How? Let's talk about it.


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Feb 01, 202401:05:01
S2E16: The Gumbo Episode

S2E16: The Gumbo Episode

So...this episode wasn't at all part of the plan. It just kind of happened. We had a topic we wanted to talk about, but instead you get the unfiltered, raw conversation that followed a series of questions and thoughts posed by both of us. This is what we do on ECC.

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Jan 18, 202444:36
S2E15: "Who Else is Recruiting Them?"

S2E15: "Who Else is Recruiting Them?"

This may be the most asked yet least important question in the history of recruiting. Yet...we continue to hear it, almost as if it's been doubled down upon as a necessity to make decisions. Let's talk about it.

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Dec 27, 202354:20
S2E14: You Need to Calm Down

S2E14: You Need to Calm Down

Why does it seem like we're at an 11 all the time? We live in a society! We all just need to take a deep breath. Let's talk about it.

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Dec 21, 202357:34
S2E13: Unlearning

S2E13: Unlearning

It's not just about learning new things, it's about unlearning the things we've held on to as truths. You need this. We needed this. Let's all unlearn together.

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Dec 07, 202358:20
S2E12: Playing ≠ Qualified to Coach

S2E12: Playing ≠ Qualified to Coach

Yeah. We said it. Just because you played doesn't mean squat when it comes to coaching. Let's talk about it.

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Nov 23, 202301:08:56
S2E11: The Vibe Architect

S2E11: The Vibe Architect

In this very special episode, we deep dive the phenomena known as The Vibe Architect, inspired by Austin Hedges of the Texas Rangers. Who is the vibe architect on your team? How do we build that skill? Further, how do we encourage that skill in all our players, not just the ones that don't play a whole lot?

All that and more on this episode of ECC!

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Nov 09, 202351:24
S2E10: Debunking #ShareTheGame

S2E10: Debunking #ShareTheGame

There's a difference between sharing the game and stealing the game. There's a difference between sharing COACHING and sharing something you can DO as a coach. We differentiate, discuss, and dive deep into the era of content creators masquerading as coaches and what that means for exponential generational change.

All that and more on this episode of ECC!

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Oct 27, 202346:17
S2E9: Ignore the Noise?

S2E9: Ignore the Noise?

In this episode, the guys tackle the idea of ignoring the noise and how damaging that can actually be. How do we decipher through the noise? Do we RACA appropriately in the moment? How do we take care of our insecurities and mental health while dealing with everyone having an opinion that is usually unfounded in reality?

All that and more on this episode of ECC!

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Oct 19, 202301:09:04
S2E8: Healthy Manhood & Coaching ft. Kip Ioane

S2E8: Healthy Manhood & Coaching ft. Kip Ioane

Follow Kip on Twitter: @teams_men.

In this episode, the guys welcome Kip Ioane, founder of Teams of Men and 25 year veteran of coaching D3 College Men's Basketball. We dive into behavior-based coaching, unbridled anger, and how toxic masculinity has taken over coaching and what we can do about it. You do not want to miss this!

All that and more on this episode of ECC!

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Oct 12, 202301:12:08
S2E7: Hazing

S2E7: Hazing

Take a deep breath. Woosah. This is a heavy episode that needed to be made. Hazing affects all teams, all organizations, and can be innocuous in nature or super damaging. Either way, it's a challenge to navigate. We do our best in this episode to bring light to questions we need to be asking as educators, how to talk to teams about it, and really just unpacking the latest news in athletics hazing as compared to other organizations.

All that and more on this episode of ECC!

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Oct 05, 202356:41
S2E6: Administrators Impacting Winning

S2E6: Administrators Impacting Winning

Join us for this episode where we talk all things impacting winning but this time, we are talking all about administrators. Yeah - we went there. Admins need to listen to this and we want you to send it to your admins as soon as you can. Let them listen to it and use this as a substantive conversation starter with them. We said what you wish you could - use it and run with it!

Please share this episode with your teams and colleagues as it relates to ALL sports and ALL levels! We'd love to hear your feedback and your team's feedback about what we get into on this episode.

All that and more on this episode of ECC!

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Sep 28, 202301:13:53
S2: Catch Up!

S2: Catch Up!

Kyle & Aseem are on a brief hiatus this week and will be back with new content next week! We invite you to catch up on Season 1 and Season 2 and go back to some of our favorite episodes to keep learning, growing, and reflecting.

See you next week!

Sep 20, 202301:34
S2E5: Recruit Everyone Every Day

S2E5: Recruit Everyone Every Day

You've heard the phrase - it's on shirts, it's on our website, it's everywhere. Recruit Everyone Every Day. We've never done a podcast episode on it, and we had nothing else to talk about but somehow had an hour long conversation about THIS. Which, in all honesty, is probably the most important conversation we've ever had.

Please share this episode with your teams and colleagues as it relates to ALL sports and ALL levels! We'd love to hear your feedback and your team's feedback about what we get into on this episode.

All that and more on this episode of ECC!

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Sep 14, 202301:02:31
S2E4: EC OG's #1 ft. Brandie Taylor

S2E4: EC OG's #1 ft. Brandie Taylor

Our FIRST EC OG's episode is with the esteemed Head Girls Basketball Coach and English teacher at Western High School in Davie, FL, Brandie Taylor. If you're looking for relatable - listen to Brandie on this episode!

Brandie is a WEALTH of knowledge and drops bomb after bomb on this episode reflecting on her journey with EC, how it all started to where she is now. You do not want to miss this absolute gem of an episode. More to come with our EC OG's as we roll out our community to the rest of the world and understand the uniqueness of each of their journeys.

*Note: Coach Taylor regrets that she did not shout out Kyle for wearing his Western HS gear on the call for this podcast recording!

All that and more on this episode of ECC!

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Sep 07, 202301:16:29
S2E3: Parents Impacting Winning

S2E3: Parents Impacting Winning

Join us for this episode where we talk all things impacting winning but this time, we are talking all about parents. Yeah - we went there. Parents need to listen to this and we want you to send it to your parents as soon as you can. Let them listen to it and use this as a substantive conversation starter with them. We said what you wish you could - use it and run with it!

Please share this episode with your teams and colleagues as it relates to ALL sports and ALL levels! We'd love to hear your feedback and your team's feedback about what we get into on this episode.

All that and more on this episode of ECC!

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Aug 31, 202357:18
S2.E2: Impacting Winning - Coaches

S2.E2: Impacting Winning - Coaches

Join us for this episode where we talk all things impacting winning but this time, from a coaches standpoint. What do coaches do or not do to impact winning positively? How can we reframe how we choose to impact winning?

Please share this episode with your teams and colleagues as it relates to ALL sports and ALL levels! We'd love to hear your feedback and your team's feedback about what we get into on this episode.

All that and more on this episode of ECC!

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Aug 24, 202358:15
S2.E1: Impacting Winning - Players

S2.E1: Impacting Winning - Players

Welcome to Season 2! We start off this season with a bang where we spend time talking about how PLAYERS can impact winning. Please share this episode with your teams as it relates to ALL sports and ALL levels! We'd love to hear your feedback and your team's feedback about what we get into on this episode.


All that and more on this episode of ECC!

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Aug 17, 202356:00
Season 2 Preview

Season 2 Preview

What? We're already on SEASON 2 of Essential Coaching Conversations?! Let's take a moment to reflect on Season 1, and also to announce some of the exciting things we have in store for the next year of the pod. Get ready because we're coming in hot!

All that and more on this episode of ECC!

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Aug 10, 202331:19
Episode 52: Decluttering X's and O's

Episode 52: Decluttering X's and O's

We wrap up our Decluttering Szn series of episodes with the top of the pyramid - X's and O's/tech tac/content.


This is the least important part of the pyramid, and we offer some thoughts as to how to reframe even how you might think of X's and O's. This really does turn into a human component conversation, but there is something for everyone in this - we even talk about, GASP, Zoom action.


All that and more on this episode of ECC!

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Aug 03, 202339:45
Episode 51: Decluttering Practice & Environmental Design (Part II)

Episode 51: Decluttering Practice & Environmental Design (Part II)

We're in Part III of our Decluttering Szn episodes and this time, we moved up a tier on the pyramid to Practice and Environmental Design - this is the continuation of the previous episode.

You are the Chief Environmental Operator - the CEO - of the program. How you clear the clutter in this section is vital to the healthy operation of the program. We deep dive on strategies to do it, success stories from EC Fam, and give a special shoutout to our friends doing it the right way. This is Part 2 of a 2 part series!

All that and more on this episode of ECC!

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Jul 27, 202354:25
Episode 50: Decluttering Practice & Environmental Design (Part I)

Episode 50: Decluttering Practice & Environmental Design (Part I)

We're in Part III of our Decluttering Szn episodes and this time, we moved up a tier on the pyramid to Practice and Environmental Design. You are the Chief Environmental Operator - the CEO - of the program. How you clear the clutter in this section is vital to the healthy operation of the program. We deep dive on strategies to do it, success stories from EC Fam, and give a special shoutout to our friends doing it the right way. This is Part 1 of a 2 part series!

All that and more on this episode of ECC!

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Jul 20, 202345:36
Episode 49 - Decluttering "Culture," Program, and Person Development.

Episode 49 - Decluttering "Culture," Program, and Person Development.

Intro credit: Jordan Sperber aka @hoopvision68 on Twitter & on YouTube.


We're in Part II of our Decluttering Szn episodes and this time, we moved up a tier on the pyramid to Person and Program Development. Most people know this by the buzzwords of culture and leadership, etc - we prefer to use climate and character. Either way, we discuss this in detail and give our take on the failings we see, how we can do it better, and ask some of those famous reflective questions of ours. All that and more on this episode of ECC!

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Jul 13, 202348:54
Episode 48: Decluttering the Human Component

Episode 48: Decluttering the Human Component

We're starting at the base of the pyramid - the foundation - as we look to declutter the Human Component. We discuss what we can do to automate some decision making, create more opportunities for the next connection to take place, and how we can declutter some other things to make room for more of the human component in coaching, teaching, learning, and life. We may make this a two-parter since the Human Component matters above all else, but you'll just have to tune in next week to see what happens!


All that and more on this episode of Essential Coaching Conversations.

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Jul 06, 202342:47
Episode 47: Decluttering Szn - The Intro

Episode 47: Decluttering Szn - The Intro

It's that time of year! Time to declutter and get rid of the fluff. We're going on a deep dive into the chats we did a few years ago and taking a look at how that's gone for us and for our EC Fam. This intro gives insight into why the #DeclutteringSzn is so important and what we can learn from just simply letting go of STUFF that is holding us back from being our best selves as coaches, leaders, educators, and humans.

All that and more on this episode of Essential Coaching Conversations.

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Jun 29, 202334:17
Episode 46 - Getting Exposure v. Being Exposed

Episode 46 - Getting Exposure v. Being Exposed

It's almost July - you know what that means. "Exposure events," for athletes across the country in almost every sport. Why do we do this? What's the point? Is every kid in need of EXPOSURE? The easy answer is no - in fact, most of them will likely be exposed as not very good and it's not their fault. Why is the 98% doing the same thing as the 2%?


All that and more on this episode of Essential Coaching Conversations.


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Jun 22, 202352:24
Episode 45: Doing Competition Right

Episode 45: Doing Competition Right

Are you a front runner or a competitor? How are we actually competing and what are we competing against? Who are we when we're at our most competitive? Can competition and empathy go together?


We talked about that and more on this episode. We are hopeful this episode, perhaps above all others, reframes your definition of what being competitive is and how you can harness the power of competition to aid in your approach to coaching, teaching, learning, and life.


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Jun 15, 202301:04:26
Episode 44 - Evolving Professional Development

Episode 44 - Evolving Professional Development

Let's face it. Professional development has not changed in decades. We still do the same things over and over again, and call it "best practices."

Let's change it. There's more to it than that. And we're here to talk about it.

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Jun 08, 202345:23
Episode 43 - Managing Up

Episode 43 - Managing Up

We all have a boss. Even our boss has a boss and their boss has one too. If you're Peter from Office Space, you have 8 bosses.

That means we all have to manage up. And, if we're lucky enough to have someone that reports to us, we're also being managed up. So how do we do this well?

This is something that we really don't talk about as a coaching and teaching community - most PD is about top down leadership and managing in the traditional sense. But then we wonder - why do we constantly feel at odds with our admin or the admin feel like we don't get it...or assistant coaches and head coaches are butting heads over a lack of making the next connection. This is as much of a human component episode as any you'll hear from us - and there's a question at the end we need YOUR help with answering!

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Jun 01, 202356:30
Episode 42 - WNBA Preview, Breakdown, and More!

Episode 42 - WNBA Preview, Breakdown, and More!

The guys are OBSESSED with the WNBA and are here to share the love! The WNBA has provided such an amazing product that continues to just grow, and EC is all in on helping the growth of the league and its stars. We talk about our WNBA League Pass giveaway, why we use the WNBA in our breakdowns with 100 point games, and what we want the league to become for coaches of all levels and genders. Check out some of the links, below, that are mentioned in the episode.


Twitter thread with League Pass winners: https://twitter.com/CoachEssential/status/1659610598865354756?s=20

Medium Article - First to 100 Wins: https://essentialcoaching.medium.com/the-first-to-100-cc9ba62e773b

Opening Day Twitter Thread: https://twitter.com/CoachEssential/status/1660298856658075648?s=20

Opening Day Twitter Thread #2: https://twitter.com/CoachEssential/status/1659729504149938177?s=20

Medium Article on 100 Point Games ft. WNBA (last season): https://essentialcoaching.medium.com/100-point-games-ft-wnba-3e82a5c3b5ee


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May 25, 202349:37
Episode 41 - Resources (Vision Roadblock VI)

Episode 41 - Resources (Vision Roadblock VI)

This is a FULL episode where we deep dive into how resources can be a vision roadblock but also how we can use a perceived lack of resources to actually learn how to reach our vision. This episode features some absolute gold from the one and only Moses, our EC OG from Kenya. An absolutely dynamic episode that really turns the idea of "we don't have enough," on its head. We hope you enjoy it and as always, please reach out with your feedback!


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May 18, 202301:01:29
Episode 40 - All Things Playmakers League ft. Brian McCormick
May 11, 202301:13:48
COMING SOON - Game Changing Announcement

COMING SOON - Game Changing Announcement

VERY short episode to bring you this week to tease an upcoming, game changing, enormous announcement. We'll see you back here next week with a full length episode!

May 04, 202301:53
Episode 39 - Bullseye, wrong target: Evaluation & Development

Episode 39 - Bullseye, wrong target: Evaluation & Development

Is this a Part II? Maybe. We dive deep into the idea behind how we are evaluating and developing skill, particularly through the lens of recruiting. There's some transfer portal talk, some food for thought on creating player development plans, and being really intentional with how that is communicated. This is not just for basketball coaches - we talk about ALL sports in this episode and how equally affected they are by these conundrums. Enjoy the conversation!

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Apr 27, 202301:10:44
SPECIAL EDITION - HAPPY 3RD BIRTHDAY TO EC!!

SPECIAL EDITION - HAPPY 3RD BIRTHDAY TO EC!!

Go EC, it's our birthday! Three years of being on a mission to create exponential, generational change and we are just scratching the surface. Listen in as the guys reflect on their journey to this point and what's to come in the future. A lot of laughs and of course some stories, as well as some behind the scenes looks at what we went through to get to this point.


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Apr 20, 202338:43
Episode 38 - Skill & Technique

Episode 38 - Skill & Technique

What is skill? What is technique? Can they co-exist? SHOULD THEY co-exist? The guys dive deep into this topic with stories, thoughts, philosophies, and of course - plenty of questions for you to chew on. Environment in: Technique Out. Skill is anything that can be improved with contextual practice. How do we develop these things?

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Apr 13, 202301:18:01
Episode 37 - Coaches v. Trainers

Episode 37 - Coaches v. Trainers

Ahhh, the age old debate of Coaches v. Trainers. What if we told you it can be coaches AND trainers...and athletes...and parents. In this episode, we give practice, real strategies to use to end the debate and start working together for the kids! None of the groups are 100% right, or 100% good or bad - we have to be able to STITCH OUR NICHE within this conversation for the betterment of the athletes. Listen in and let us know your questions, thoughts, and how you have handled this in your situation! Shoutout to @MMBTraining for the episode idea! -- Follow & DM us on Twitter: @coachessential | @coachk424 | @rastogi_aseem Follow Texas High School Football Chat on Twitter: @txhsfbchat Follow the 5th Quarter Podcast on Twitter: @itsthe5thqtr Visit & Subscribe to our website: www.essential-coaching.net Send us an email: admin@essential-coaching.net Let us know what you think and engage with us on Twitter or via email. We look forward to hearing from you!
Apr 06, 202358:24
Episode 36 - Tournament Takes

Episode 36 - Tournament Takes

In this episode, we give our takes on WHY teams are winning and continue to win, share some personal anecdotes of our interactions with some of the coaches still left in the tournament, and what we believe the common threads are among the teams continuing on in the NCAA tournament. This is a timeless episode, as the message isn't just about March, it's about how to THRIVE in March.

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Mar 30, 202301:12:60
Episode 35 - How We Feel Right Now

Episode 35 - How We Feel Right Now

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In this episode, the guys just take the time to check on each other and talk through how they're feeling at the end of their seasons. This is a vulnerable episode where we chat about our lives, what's been going on, and offer some practical questions and solutions to the feelings and emotions at the end of a season.

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Mar 23, 202348:09
Episode 34 - Evaluations & Exit Meetings Part II

Episode 34 - Evaluations & Exit Meetings Part II

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In the second of this two part series, the guys are back with their thoughts on WHAT should be evaluated, WHEN to evaluate, and HOW to frame these conversations. We can do this better and we hope this podcast episode in particular stimulates your thinking about how you can use evaluation to augment the experience instead of create anxiety.

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Mar 16, 202347:42
Episode 33 - Evaluations & Exit Meetings Part I

Episode 33 - Evaluations & Exit Meetings Part I

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In the first of this two part series, we tackle end of  year evaluations and whether we should even do them or not! Is there a better way, and can we RACA our way through understanding what an aligned evaluative process looks like. Both Kyle & Aseem share stories and examples from their experiences, and the conversation takes a few turns that are sure to keep you engaged and wondering whether you can do it better, as well. Stay tuned for Part II next week!

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Mar 09, 202354:32
Episode 32 - Vision Roadblock V: Vision Alignment

Episode 32 - Vision Roadblock V: Vision Alignment

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Back with our vision roadblocks series with #5, Vision Alignment. We've been building to this episode for a while and with good reason - it is certainly the pinnacle of the roadblocks as without alignment, the wheels will most certainly fall off. Kyle and Aseem give examples and stories from their careers, and delve deep into the psyche change that can happen when alignment is not the mission. Further, there is significant discussion on player development in an aligned program v. in a misaligned program, which can then work to get us further on or off track. A great conversation that is made greater by you interacting! Shoot us a DM or an email to let us know what you think. 

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Mar 02, 202301:05:47
Episode 31 - What are you afraid of?

Episode 31 - What are you afraid of?

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In this episode, the guys tackle a pretty reflective question for coaches: what are you afraid of? Both Kyle & Aseem share their own insecurities as coaches, as well as ask questions of the listening audience to help them think through their own fears about performance, coaching, and more. This episode is based in part on a Twitter thread Kyle put out on February 21, 2023. That thread can be found here: https://twitter.com/coachk424/status/1628061196363472898?s=46&t=dA0PPbKmLayVT77VVZrErA . 

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Feb 23, 202351:09
Episode 30 - Less is More (The Real Thing!!)

Episode 30 - Less is More (The Real Thing!!)

The title of the episode speaks for itself. Less is more, people!

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Feb 16, 202354:05
Less Is More...

Less Is More...

The title says it all!

Feb 16, 202301:06