Speak Sex with Eve Eurydice

Episode 21: How to be a Dominatrix & a Sexual Healer, Sexually Fluid & Innocent to Avoid Perversion

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A live conversation about sex & intimacy, fact & euphemism, gender & patriarchy, body, mind & soul! Aiming to change our consciousness through articulate, conscious sex. Eve Eurydice is the author of books on sexuality (Satyricon USA w Scribner, f/32 The Second Coming w Virago), of The Sex Files column, & the founder of The Institute For Self-Satisfaction. She interviews celebrities, politicians, sexologists, sexperts, sex workers, sex performers & people who have fascinating or unique sex lives.
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Episode 25: Virtual Sex beats Real Sex for some of us!
Eve Eurydice speaks sex w Virgo, sound & video game designer & DJ, about why virtual sex & romance are than real sex & love.
41:33
April 16, 2019
Episode 24: How to Have a Free & Happy Sex Life? Ask Miami’s Sex Experts
Eve Eurydice speaks all things Sex with Dr. Sonjia Kenya, aka America’s Sex Educator, BIO: Known as America’s Sex Educator, an ivy-league educated sexologist, associate professor of medicine at the University of Miami, & author of “Sex in South Beach.” We discuss our Extreme lack of a global safe Sex Education—esp Practicum learning, sex coaches & sexual role models—which results in our adult need for sexual self education & re-education, since good sex is a skill & a facility that has to be learned. Sadly, it’s easier these days to have sex than speak sex! We discuss how HIV is fully preventable w prep & pep (pre & post prophylactics), & how Porn is acting, not realistic & not educational. Whether you love to cuddle & motorboat or peg & bareback, there’s juicy useful info here for you!
59:42
April 5, 2019
Episode 23: The Self-Objectifying Ethics & Shifting Politics of Cosmetic Surgery: Not All is for Sex
Eve Eurydice speaks w Lori Kelly, academic librarian , philosophy teacher & member of the Paradise Commons artist collective which convenes to create femme centered spaces of collaborative creativity & study—its latest Paradise Summit Miami at Emerson Dorsch Gallery explored issues raised by Katherine Behar’s essay Facing Necrophilia: Botox Ethics. Eury & Lori speak of the aesthetics of aging, the financial gain of elective cosmetic enhancement & the financial advantage of choosing to change your body, the feminist potential in refusing to curate an appearance, the social connection & isolation wrought by somatic rearranging, the lessons of performing gender & the trans experience, the use of transformative medical technologies as examples for feminist thinking, the past & the future practices of ritual scarification, body modification, & adherence to or abstinence from the dominant heteronormative aesthetic & the coveted approval of its gaze. What are the ethics of redesigning a physical self to fit desire & desirability? Is it feminist to redesign a body just to claim pleasure? Is Pleasure Socially Constructed? Is our Truth Ours? Listen & subscribe & share your thoughts w the world.
54:33
March 29, 2019
Episode 22: Raw Stories of Sex Identities, Lost & Found Labels, & Other Curiosities
Eve Eurydice speaks with Enid Nolasco, founder of RAWstorytelling.org, a live storytelling show & podcast, & WitchcraftBranding.
57:06
March 23, 2019
Episode 21: How to be a Dominatrix & a Sexual Healer, Sexually Fluid & Innocent to Avoid Perversion
Eve Eurydice speaks with Kerri Aultman of ViKerrious, an Erotic Performance artist, Dancer, Entertainer, Natural Healer & Dominatrix turned sexual wellness advocate about shame & guilt, norms & philias, finding your sexuality in your original innocence, bringing light to the darkness, being sexually fluid & experimental & free from labels (‘we are not soup cans’) & in order to avoid perversion, rape & criminality. About capitalism making its money off the female body & the forever delayed gratification of promised desires. About tapping into your innate wildness, about learning how to say No, about how the link helps you find tantra, & about finding trust in a partner to enter the ultimate catharsis of sacred sex. After she found healing for herself, she began to sexoheal others through kink tantra & teaching. She demonstrates her sensual dom technique on Eve Eurydice’s skin using black matte clothespins, a rubber stingy whip, a riding crop, a metal rolling wheel, a metal knuckle claw, a Lelo intravaginal amber rose remote-control app-supported dildo, the vesper necklace vibrator by Krave rechargeable by usb, all of which came out of her Mary Poppins dungeon bag. Not just another podcast, people! ⚡️Listen & subscribe!
1:11:15
March 16, 2019
Eve Eurydice Interviewed on The Sunday Painter
Eve Eurydice speaks art practice, sex liberation, love & light & ending the patriarchy with The Sunday Painter, aka the artist Alex Nunez, part of Eury’s Spotify-playlist is included.
1:00:00
March 13, 2019
Episode 20: How to Polyamory in Vanilla & in Kink, how to mindf*** & use mental sex space & be frank
Eve Eurydice speaks with FloridaDom, aka Flash, about his slaves, his toys, his sex life & fetlife, about morethantwo & polyamory or poly-mono in power exchange & in the lifestyle, about the spread of BDSM & poly on the Internet & juggling lovers (in his case collared slaves, of whom he had 136 at the same time), about the difference between tops & dominants, bottoms & submissives, about mental sex space & mental freedom. He demonstrates knife play on the host & his flogging technique on his slave in the studio. Listen & subscribe!
53:57
March 13, 2019
Episode 19: Everything you’ve ever wanted to know about BDSM & were too afraid to ask!
Eve Eurydice speaks with FloridaDom, aka Flash, about his 3 slaves, his many toys (incl. paddles, floggers, whip, rattan cane that he brought to the studio), about fetlife, aftercare, bondage & holding stillness, using music to build a sex scene (match the base beat to the downstroke), building intensity, drama & surprise into a sex scene, mind fuck, power exchange, service, fear, fun, & adrenaline release, how to enter the lifestyle, how to destress & trust, about safe words (English works v well), sub space, dom space, & the rewards of self-restraint. He demonstrates flogging techniques on his slave. Then he lights the host’s arm on fire 🔥. Not just another podcast. Listen & subscribe!
1:09:28
March 9, 2019
Episode 18: Self-Love, Tantra, Yoni Massage, Open Yourself Up to Full Life & Sexual Happiness
Eve Eurydice speaks with Michelle Alva, Pelvic Floor Physical Therapist & Tantric Healer, about the benefits of tantra, sensual meditation, self-touch & self-acceptance. Michelle gives Eve a yoni massage in studio: listen to a description of it all. Then lie back, give to yourself, release sexual trauma & enjoy being you in your physical body.
59:30
March 6, 2019
Episode 17: Eve Eurydice’s girlfriend talk, sex Q&A, birthday cast! Rosebud?
Eve Eurydice & her best friends talk Sex & answer audience questions. Join the banter & hear the woke girls’ secrets! We talk vaginal grooming & labial/anal aesthetics, oral sex etiquette, cougar sex & post menopausal sex, taking our genitalia back, sex pos porn & real non-performance sexuality. Learn what rosebud means. & in the process we liberate you from all your lingering hang-ups so join us!
1:06:39
March 2, 2019
Episode 16: Truth & Trust, Authentic Practice, Being a Lady, Dating FauxPas, Fakers & Woke Women
Eve Eurydice speaks with Alex Nunez, aka the Sunday Painter, artist & podcaster, about the male & the female & the iPhone gaze, truth & authenticity in daily life, fakes & fakers in social media, costume & performance in social life & in art, the dating scene & its self-advertising & faux pas (the fish pics), texting & sexting, about being a lady, being a femmebot, being a conscious being, & being a woman artist.
59:19
February 27, 2019
Episode 15: Intimacy & Expectation. Gender Violence & Tattoo Art. Sex Energy Exchanges & Stillness.
Eve Eurydice speaks with Geovanna Gonzalez & Angel Garcia, women artists & co-founders of the coin-in/coin-out art collective, about being women in the art & tattoo world in Miami, LA, Berlin. We discuss transactional sex, queer femme space, community-building & perception-challenging VIP events, the male gaze, the female body & spirit boundaries, scarification & ritual, holding stillness & nudity, creating a conscious vocabulary & an oracular way of being. ✨⚡️💥
53:44
February 23, 2019
Episode 14: Slow, Ritual, Conscious, Evolutionary Sex
Eve Eurydice speaks w Lulu Brown, muse, musician, photographer, yogi about mutually evolutionary sex, monogamy as sacred energy exchange rather than emotional pain body functionality, transcendent edging, pegging, sharing sex space w long term partners, human frailty as the human condition, POC in BDSM, shubaru rope meditation & soul baring trust. Are we born a certain way sexually? Connect with us & find out.
53:44
February 16, 2019
Episode 13: Being a Queer Polyamorous Woman in Rape Culture & Finding your Space & Voice & Ancestry
In episode 13 of Speak Sex, Eve Eurydice speaks with queer poet & artist & activist Cathleen Chambless about being a polyamorous bisexual woman in rape culture & the metoo era. The new negotiations, new definitions, new roles, power exchanges, feelings & reasons of strong femme women. The primaries, the secondaries, the unicorns of polyamory. The burden & bondage & cost of cliche masculine identity.
50:35
February 13, 2019
Episode 12: Being a Bisexual Man of Color in the Metoo Era & looking for a Polyamory Lifestyle
In episode 12 of Speak Sex, Eve Eurydice speaks with Dominican artist George Lopez, aka Mystery Guest, aka the Man Behind the Mask, about being a polyamorous bisexual man of color in the metoo era. The challenges, the fumbles, the highs, & the reasons why.
1:01:09
February 9, 2019
Episode 11: Men Think Women Have All the Power in Sex & Want Women to Exercise it with Confidence
In episode 11 of Speak Sex, Eve Eurydice speaks w filmmaker Mystery Guest about why men see women as having all the power in sex & love, & want women to exercise it, to initiate, take charge, experience the difficulties men face in sexual conquest & consummation. Replace showmanship w truth, romantic delusion w self love, fear of social judgment w bravery. Understand your belief system, unlearn what doesn’t serve you, dissociate your desire from the monogamy code. Biplay. Dominate. Experiment. Speak Sex.
56:36
February 6, 2019
Episode 10: All You Need to Know About Female Sexual Anatomy, How to Understand it How to Enhance it
In episode 10 of Speak Sex, Eve Eurydice speaks w Dr. Amir Marashi, aka the vagina whisperer, a board certified gynecologist who specializes in cosmetic gynecology, female anatomical orgasm improvement & pelvic reconstruction, & the host of the first designer vagina-fashion show in NYC. Tune in to demystify the female sexual anatomy & learn to articulate your everyday sexual practice.
54:42
February 2, 2019
Episode 9: Join Us On the path to Matriarchy & The Future is Female (2 segment episode)
In episode 9 of Speak Sex, Eve Eurydice speaks w artist & thinker Kathy Kissik about the different ways in which women can liberate their psyches & bodies & also shake up the patriarchy, starting with Only Buying Female!
59:52
January 30, 2019
Episode 8: How to Get out of Patriarchy When It’s All There is. & how to Open up New Sexways.
In episode 8 of Speak Sex, Eve Eurydice speaks w Tara Long, aka poorgrrrl aka mr.taralong, founder of poorgrrrl enterprises & Little Späti, a performer & multimedia artist whose full length LP titled ‘IDIOTS AVANTI: the blood of the damned’ is coming out in 2019. They discuss the insidious all-encompassing uber-co-opting control of Patriarchy & how we can reform our stereotypical relationship & sexuality tropes that serve it instead of us.
58:20
January 27, 2019
Episode 7: Are you Bicurious? How to Give Yourself Permission to Play, How to Find Love in Yourself
In episode 7 of Speak Sex, Eve Eurydice speaks w Genevieve LeJeune, the founder & CEO of Skirtclub, a women-only worldwide social club for bicurious & sex-curious women. Skirt Club offers members a friend-driven website, signature play parties for women curious about their sexuality, cocktail soirées to meet other members, & access to sex education & advice, because growth & change & self-discovery happen at every age. The episode for Bicurious Women. Not just another podcast. Listen & Subscribe.
1:01:23
January 19, 2019
Episode 6: Speak Sex, Study Sex, & Say Yes (to Sex)
In episode 6 of Speak Sex, Eve Eurydice talks w Shannon Leeman, a writer who specializes on sex & anti-aging advice, about her years of attending countless sex workshops, what she learned & why we need to learn (& often unlearn) sex as we do everything else, & about the cliteratti & pussy posse camaraderie among women mature enough to own their pleasure.  
53:13
January 12, 2019
Episode 5: Sexual Theology, Sex Therapies, NonBinary Healings
In episode 5 of Speak Sex, Eve Eurydice talks w Alex Guldbeck, bishop & sexological hypnotherapist, about pagan, Gnostic & post Freudian gender archetypes, the history of sexual repression by monotheist religions, & how to unlearn it.  
53:29
January 5, 2019
Episode 4: How to Go from Trauma Sex to Sacred Sex
In episode 4 of Speak Sex, Eve Eurydice talks w Nicole Soden, artist healer & space activator, about her own journey from rape & assault survivor to Taoist master & sacred sexuality practitioner & mother of a bisexual preteen. 
1:00:01
January 5, 2019
Episode 3: Can We Women Tell Sex from Romance?
In episode 3 of Speak Sex, Eve Eurydice & friend discuss: How Can We Tell Sex from Romance? Can women go from giving verbal consent to naming their actual sexual needs? Do we know the difference between provider sex & physical pleasure?
1:54:18
January 2, 2019
Episode 2: Monogamy & The Happy Housewives of Miami
In episode 2 of Speak Sex, Eve Eurydice talks w glamorous European housewives in Miami Beach about metoo & cool dudes, about old-world marriage standards & flexible monogamy vs America’s binary morality & politically correct puritanism.
1:04:09
January 2, 2019
Episode 1: Why Speak Sex? So we Consent to a Better Life!
In this first episode of Speak Sex, Eve Eurydice, author of Satyricon USA (Scribner), the Second Coming (Virago), & F/32, writer of the Sex Files advice column & staff writer in Spin mag on sex issues, founder of The Institute for Self-Satisfaction, discusses in detail the concept of her Speak Sex therapy as a healing & sexual emancipation technique. Listeners can use it as an introduction to their Speak Sex practice for Sex & Sanity, & as a reference to the weekly podcast Expect your Consciousness to be Altered.
37:46
January 2, 2019
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